When God Does NOT Want You with Someone, These UNEXPECTED Things Will Happen
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When you meet someone and fall in love with them fast, it is very easy to trick yourself into thinking they are "the one" that God has chosen for you, and totally ignore all the red flags that come after that. Please do not fall into that trap like I did. Get into Gods word, ask God if He wants you to marry that person, and wait for a strong answer. Then listen to that answer even if it is no. It will save you from a lifetime of regret.
Excellent
Amen!
You are so right.
Amen!
maybe to check with that person whether wants to go through an intercourse or NOT!
God ways are not like our ways ,God thoughts are not like our thoughts.
God bless!
❤
Amen
Exactly
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Dealing with someone who is not for me, makes me not want to ever have someone in my life. I can’t continue to get hopes up anymore. It’s extremely frustrating and exhausting.
Perhaps the Lord is teaching you to guard your heart more (Proverbs 4:23_
same her girl😪
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Absolute misinterpretation and total error but God is simply showing you to Be led by Him and not By Appearance
Sara Stitt I understand your concerns completely. I personally would suggest strengthening your prayers and conversations with God. Early on when I meet people, I ask God to reveal who they are to me and who I am to them...and he does. I ask him to make it clear so that there is no doubt or room for misunderstanding. I hope this helps...peace to you! 🖤
Brittney Silver I honestly never thought to ask God to revel myself to them. I always ask for him to show me who they are or to remove them if they are not meant to be in life. But I honestly truly do need a better connection to God. Thank you for your response. It helped me to pray about this a little better.
God putting people in our lives for “character development”
Lol. Yeah, sometimes "character building" lasts awhile, so maybe you'll meet that great person on your deathbed. Praise Jesus!
Super agree..i’m experiencing right now
It's true.
@@Bekka241 exactly!! Like save me the lesson please
When you ask God about a person, be sure to listen to his answer and apply it.
If He tells you anything, and if the spirit talking to you is actually the Lord or one of his angels
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@xwinniez You'll see through the progression of the love you have for this person. Sometimes certain things He will cause to occur to show or reveal more information regarding your request.
@@andileleelife this is true as well
I just got out of a toxic and controlling relationship. I totally lost myself and pushed God aside. I’m finding myself again and Rebuilding my relationship with God. I feel alive again and walking in his freedom 🕊. No more bondage. Im now mentally and emotionally stable. Whoever is reading this.. just know that it’s never too late to begin again.
This is me right now... Just left a 5 year relationship and I feel so free ! I'm happy for the first time in years.. And growing so close to God
Yes....I lost myself also due to a very long relationship that became toxic. Now I am trying to find myself and seek help. I really screwed up and blame myself and not the toxic man
Jesus saved us from Satan's chains. He did not want us to have some new from a spouse!
Enjoy your freedom and peace in HIM! 🙏❤ Everything else is in his hands and will arrive at the perfect time!
I met someone and we both fell super fast for each other. He lied to me the whole time though. Turns out he was on meth the whole time. :/ I kept giving him chances though. I finally let him go. But he he kept contacting me and just wouldn’t leave me be... I asked him for over a year and a half to just move on and leave me alone. He destroyed my life.. and I let him. Now I’m trying to find myself again and I need a lot of help to get through everything. He’s in a new relationship and now I feel like I miss him. What does that even mean? I didn’t wanna be with him anymore. So why do I feel this way? :(
@@melissawells6143 These are only "chains" in the soul! Cut every connection to him in the name of Jesus Christ and just keep your heart focused on Jesus! He is your life. He is your love. He is your darling! Have a love relationship with Jesus and everything will change to your best! ❤ God bless you!
I'm just tired at this point...tired of disappointments
Same here
It's strange to see all the women here. It is highly probable that the men you are chasing will never be available for a relationship. 90% of women are chasing these 10% of men. Your instinctual hypergamy will not let you see the guidance of the spirit. Follow Alex here th-cam.com/video/XZbApDoe45E/w-d-xo.html
no need to be tired etc; just ask God to send you the right guy; go on about your merry life until you meet one; then ask God to make it CLEAR whether to proceed or not; He can make it plain enough; I did; worked out fine!
I am tired too
Liziswa Jiba same, but I’m trying to make growing my relationship with Christ stronger then any relationship with a man. Even my girlfriends. It’s hard.
Obedience to God is vital. ❤️❤️❤️
Amen!
Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾
yess
Amen!!!
Amen ❤️
My Husband and myself liked each other very fast and moved fast. Got married within 1.5 year, been married now 25 years and have 5 children. We started with fun and still have a blast.
Congratulations and stay blessed now into the years to come.
Toughhh💯
May I ask you how old were both you and your husband and which year were you two born?
I like your comments, I believe everyone's story is different (someone I know got married within a month they first met with her now hubby on a bus, then a couple who met on a dating app and married within four months of meeting having proposed on their second date). I trust God is writing my love story too with whom will love and accept me of who I am with my imperfections and vice versa while he is helping to grow as singleton). When one of my friends and I met we hit it off as if we known each other for ages and we are still friends, and another example when my best friend and I met we both thought of each other the same way i.e. I don't think I will get on well with this girl' but we're like sisters to this day - why the same won't happen for relationships formation 😮
There's so much of 'do this, don't do this, be this, don't be this'. I'm like are we all supposed to be exactly the same, how about our uniqueness and differences?
I don't even want to date multiple people. I'm just ready to meet my husband, I don't want to deal with anything thing like this time after time! NO THANKS!
Singleness is okay too :)
ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger singleness is painful when everyone around you has it
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger that's great but I desire the gift of marriage 😁❤
@@SAI03 Me too!
Amen!!! I don't want to date...The energy exchange is way to toxic and draining
“He wanted you to know what He already knew...God shows us what will happen in the future by allowing us to walk forward in the present.” Man...that’s wisdom. We serve a right now God.
To God be the glory. Right on point
Amen!
This is good 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Amen 🙏🏽🌅 waiting on God and appreciating his wisdom to guide me to my divine partner!🤗
At this point in my life, whatever God wants me to be, so be it. Trying to figure out who may be right and who may be wrong every year is exhausting and frustrating, so....i leave it up to HIS judgment.
Good..when you are weak then Christ is strong. Dedication: Lift My Life Up by Unspoken.
Exactly...this is where faith comes in. Using our faith to believe God will send the right person at the right time
Amen, God knows best
Expect the worst (that you will remain single indefinitely) and focus on your own survival. Every time you entertain thoughts about pursuing a relationship, say in your mind (or out loud) "Every man for himself".
It's exhausting because we just need to TRUST GOD and what HE WANTS for us. It becomes peaceful and fulfilling for us when we let him show us as he wants too lead us to the right Union. God Bless🙏🏻💫🕊️
When god does not want you with someone, these unexpected things will happen:
1. God will often lead you to date someone to show you that he doesn’t want you with this person
2. God will often let you both experience a fading infatuation when he does not want you with someone
3. God will let you see a future with this person that is undesirable to you
4. He will sometimes let other people encourage you to be with this person to highlight how much you still really don’t like this person
5. He will confirm that this person will make a great spouse one day...just not for you
So pretty much all the possibilities there are.
God does not lead you to someone he doesn’t want you to date. He never leads us to wrong situations.
Exactly
Well that sounds right, but we have free will. Most people will go on one date at least to then gain discernment about the person. If you don't date, how on earth will you know if the person could be right for you or not?! I went on a date with a man recently. I asked God to not even let the first date go ahead if I would be wasting my time and investing myself for more heartbreak, but it did go ahead and yet the relationship didnt work out. We didn't get second date even though we'd been talking for weeks. So I guess God did save me from long term heartbreak that could have been worse had we continued the relationship, but I was still devastated and I still had that first very long date with him.
True, but as the other person said, we have free will. While God may not lead us to the harm, he will allow us to make our choices so that he may show us something we'd missed.
I came from a marriage that failed. My mother believes that I was the reason God allowed her to marry my father. So, I have to disagree with you, Martha. After all, Scripture says that God's people will be tested by fire, their dross burned away. How can we be purified if God doesn't put us in the refiner's fire?
That is too simplistic. God brings many people around and often its our poor human choices that cause the stumble. I'm older and have encountered men who fake their faith, who are truly, evil under their fake coverings, men willing to attend church with me only to find out their wife works and lives in another state. So I am not dating. Took me a lifetime to get it...I'm to be alone.
please pray for my boyfriend and I. we tend to get attacked a lot in our mind and he’s planning to leave to the navy soon but I’m remaining faithful and committing to God when he leaves so that I avoid temptation and falling away ❤️
God bless as you seek the Lord
I will definitely pray for you sister
Lou Joanne thank you!!!
Read Ruth1:6-22, think about the determination Ruth had to stay with Naomi, and how she pleaded and how much it made sense to leave (attacks). In marriage you have to be determined even when it makes sense to leave, determined to stay together. ❤️❤️ Your determination motivates your Boaz. While being in the field (working for God)
SeekedMinistries LLC thank you so much sister! God bless you ❤️
Just got out of a relationship. This is so timely.
I'm so glad it was timely for you Immanuel
God knows the best. One thing we must know is if is not the will of God, is not going to work
Going through a divorce myself. I jumped too quick to be with someone who wasn't wanting to grow. I think her leaving is good for us but it still hurts. I basically got played because I have a good job.
@@shonnonwootensr.7762 Am sorry for what you are going through sir. May God strengthen you.
Same
What a sign ! It just popped on my notif. We really need to trust God's plan for us, patiently. Do not settle for less because God already knew who is the best for us in the future.
God is good!
Is true, I found out I have more patience in the area of relationships after being in communion with God. God made me strong but is with a prayer to know how to discern, and still waiting because love and infatuation are not the same. 💗 Amen, we need more people like you that know how to interpreter the bible and put the effort.
I'm so glad you are enjoying the content! All glory to God!
Falling in love is the most beautiful thing but being hurt by someone you love is the most frustrating thing.
I wish God could tell us way before we go so deep for these people .I have been hurt and am trying to heal though its hard am trying to figure out scriptures that would make me over come this pain am feeling
You are worthy of the best! God loves you Sonia, the best is coming :)
Vividly
Am sorry am going threw the same.. just keep praying and believe God will heal without a doubt
Try being married 25+ years and find out he’s having an affair!! It’s not frustrating it takes your ego and trust and flattens it like a pancake
Absolutely done with God. No point on following God. Why did he even put us here for.. Why create humans when you know lots of em will go to hell, but wait, almost forgot.. He gets to chill at he’s trone while there are ppl burning for all of eternity. This makes no sense. The war was with the devil not us. I wish I was never created bcuz I didn’t ask to come here. I was more than ok when i didn’t even existed
A lot of people use the words “I love you” in bad use and too soon.
Yes that is so true
Very true
So true
It’s scary how timely your videos are, Mark. I’m in a similar situation now, and as soon as I got the notification, I knew God wanted me to watch. Getting a “divine rejection” sucks! We only want to love and be loved by someone who’s chasing after God’s own heart like we are.
It really can hurt, but when you stay faithful to God he will work it for your good!
Am tired of heartbreaks and demonic attacks always from men
me 2
I need to look what’s in this inside not the outside.
Amen
God bless
🕊️God has a plan for everyone of us 🕊️
Yep, rushing doesn't work for marriage. Learned that the hard way. Was scared about this video, but it turned out OK. I think I have a bad habit of "projecting" what I WANT in a husband onto someone, when in reality that man is not like that in any way! And then when you meet someone who you think does NOT have the qualities you are looking for, but you find out through getting to know them that they actually have the qualities that you NEED, and didnt even know that you needed! What a surprise! GOD knows what we Need for a kingdom-glorifying marriage, even when we dont know ourselves! HOW COOL is that?
God is good!
Awesome 👍 Awesome Abba! I love it.
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@Tanya Collett Indeed! Sometimes you have to date a lot of frogs and go swimming through some dark water infested with junk before you find that Prince that the LORD has for you. And usually it is someone you least expect!
@Tanya Collett That is SO encouraging Tanya! I am so happy for you! Praying that the LORD brings me together with my future husband. This whole lockdown issue has totally upset my "apple cart"!🤣🤣🙏🙌💕🌏May HE continue to bless you and your beloved!🙏
@Tanya Collett I'm curious to know what tests you have been through as a couple and as individuals.
Im glad I prayed before I tried to get a relationship with someone. I still pray. An advice for everyone, don't worry pray always.
God bless!
I'm glad I prayed too. I have a partner that I've asked from GOD, we met last year and it's been a year since we started dating. At first I wanted to give up but he kept on saying we have a connection and we have to report it to GOD so to let him know that we have met. We now can't imagine life apart from each other. I love GOD... hallelujah
I like my single life, feel good and happy. Also would like to have a man with who to share mutual happiness and grow in faith together (I leave it to God, in my prayers I always ask to meet my spose when I'm ready for the one and when he is ready for me )I'm 24 and have no man in my life for 4 years and people find that very strange. I'm very beautiful, and godly woman, with amaizing lifestyle so everyone put me pressure (friends and family) and sometimes I feel like something is wrong with me bc I'm the only one who's not in relationship... Any advice how to deal with this ? How did you prayed for your current partner's? Maybe I should change something. Thank you. God bless you and fill your life with love and joy ❤️
@@saraa4999 i don't have a partner. Like you single and happy. And it's alright not be in a relationship. The best thing we can do is Put God first, love him love others. We can have faith he will provide in the right time but even if he doesn't we should be content. Keep praying. I have a feeling he'll bless ya soon. God bless you too
@@itsmeseventy7480 that's right :)) Thank you 🙏🏻 💕
Just broke up with someone last night. This Video was recorded a week ago and I JUST got a notification for this upload. This was a definite sign for me!! Thank you Lord!!
I thought a guy i only started talking to would have been my future husband. Started off so smoothly and there were so many coincidences with out lives and it felt like we finished each other's sentences. Then something unexpected came up and I'm sure he isn't the one for me after all. I'm just so tired and sad of always getting my hopes up just to see them come crashing down
:(.
I know exactly what you mean.💯💯
I just broke up with the woman I was going to marry and spend my whole life with .. it’s heart breaking but I’m in peace now because she accepted her mistakes and I moved on.. I can’t love another woman the same way I loved her .. I leave everything on god now.. AMEN
God bless! i pray you get through this!🤗❤️
Sharon P thanks dear 🙏
May I ask why can’t you love anyone else with? Wouldn’t that seem like giving power to her? Not coming at you cause I low key feel the same since breaking up with my first love..
I feel that after being hurt by someone you deeply love, you can develop trust issues. Trust and love work together in every relationship. Trust God for the answer. You can love again. Ask God to help you. I'm doing that in my life and it takes time to get there. Be hopeful 🌻.
This is exactly what I went through for the past 9 months and now the "relationship" is over and I was brokenhearted but God is helping me through it.
God bless Melinda as you follow the Lord
Thank you so much!! Your messages throughout the 9 months have ALWAYS been on time and I am certain it will continue that way. Please keep me in your prayers. The Lord promised me a husband, I need to have patience and wait for him. That's the hardest part for me as I don't have family or friends here in the US. All my friends and can't are in Europe.
How you doin Melinda?
*sigh of relief* I needed this so bad! It highlights and explains all I’ve just gone through in my recent breakup 💔. Most of my family did support the relationship and yet, I still wasn’t excited nor did I feel happy or at peace about him. He had the right biblical qualities and great personality, but I wasn’t physically attracted to him. Never did grow to have chemistry with him. Lord knew I was only settling! Praise God for stepping in to redirect me to what Is better for me!
God bless Nula!
I think I've got a confirmation now. Im with a fellow Christian woman... its my dream, very strong desire to join the Army but she doesn't like the idea at all... ive prayed about it and I think I have a clear direction now.
So glad you have clarity now :)
@Sun Flower I've had had difficult times with this decision so i took it to God in prayers over and over... and the very last past of this video clarified a lot to me. I believe that's the answer i needed to hear from God.
Good for you, and it'll be so much better for you to do what you believe God wants you to do.
What is that? Lol. Just kidding. I know some things are just between us and God. Blessings to you and yours in Jesus name.
Why Join the military brother? Personally I am a veteran, the military is not a place that fosters faith or a Christian way of living.
God allows those things that will make us stronger ❤️💕💗
God bless!
Im not being more stronger doesnt mean i hopeless but faced that kind of things thousand times so i am asking god where the one the correct one for meh faced things thousand times sometimes not gain any power at all again
I went through years of disappointment until I took a time-out from dating and took a look at myself. I had a lot of work to do. I finally recognized that until I prepared myself to give someone the best version of me, the cycle of disappointment would only continue. It was 2 years into this process that I met the person I was looking for. She is the love of my life. Our relationship requires a lot of work and it is the second most important relationship in my life. Thank you Lord for giving me the wisdom to humble myself. 20 years in June 2021.
I had a relationship where first two points fit exactly. My ex (also a believer) tried to do the right thing when he suggested to split up (because eventually and factually infatuation ceased...). I wasn't mad at him. I was though at God. It took me at least two years to get rid of bitterness and to stop being offended at God for allowing the relationship in the first place although he knew that at the end of the road there was a dramatic heart break awaiting...
God taught me a lot and unfortunately I didn't understand it unless I hit the ground. In the bible it says, God hurts and God heals/binds up. Sounds paradox, I know. Still can not figure that out completely. What I know for sure though: God is still good and he was the one to carry me through and to save me from depression. Call it blind faith, I don't care. I just know what I know and I do love my Lord now more than before. 🥰
I swear exactly when I need to hear something like this you always pull through within minutes with the very video I needed. Exact timing. To the point I even expect it.😮 Even a short time ago I was going over in my head about something and then I had a thought about your channel and a video showing up -- and then it did.
I'm so glad the videos have been timely for you! All glory to God!
The timing has El Shaddai’s name all over it
All glory to God!
God is so good thank u lord for this video
Amen, all glory to God!
I’m still with him . I don’t know what to do when theirs kids involved
The very first time Adam saw Eve he knew that she was the one. So love at first sight does exist. It's about making a conscious choice to commit to that union. Adam learned about Eve after they were married. Both people must keep God first for the marriage to work. God is not the author of confusion so He will not make you feel that way. Attaching emotionally to every one you date was never in God's plans. If He wanted us to date many or several people before marriage He would have given Adam many options to choose from, because he most certainly could have done that but He didn't. It's man's idiology and our social acceptance that have been impressed on us over time to accept the concept of dating many to find the one.
This makes so much sense. Perfectly put
Adam didn’t choose eve god chose eve for Adam after placing him in the garden with specific instructions to follow, after this was accomplished god said it is not good for a man to be alone , he create eve especially for Adam , when Adam was ready not before ! Also you cannot fully love someone before knowing them because covenant love is sacrificial , hence why god says husband love your wife as Christ love the Chruch , with all its flaws and mistake > it’s the agape love that’s needed in a union not the Eros ect . Marriage covenant is for life it’s not something to be rushed
Wish this video existed when I was 18 years old lol You live and you learn.
God bless!
lol frfr
I think sometimes we forget that we are in control of our own thoughts, emotions, desires and feelings.
We are not robots only feeling what God wants us to feel, liking who God wants us to like etc.
We meet someone, fall in love and often times do not seek God's guidance on if we should proceed with the relationship or not.
It is not that God allowed us to fall in love with someone. We did that because we're human beings with emotions and feelings.
If only we rely not on our own feelings and more on God's wisdom and direction, because He knows the future- we don't, then inspi of how strongly we feel towards someone we can avoid heartbreak.
Thank you for this teaching! Point #5 hit me the most. There are many wise daughters of the Most High, but the Father only tailored one for me, for His glory.
So glad it was helpful!
It was back in 2018 i dated a person. I really thought this would end up in marriage. But No. It didn't. Slowly slowly i saw the fading infatuation from his side.
God began showing me the future with him and by seeing those, i wrote in my diary that, "This guy will make my life miserable". But at the same time i couldn't leave him too for my love was so much for him. His family knew our relationship and they were in support of us. When it was 3 days away from 2 months he himself said to me that this won't work out. And he decided to leave and i let him go.
That separation had crushed me to the core.
I asked God, why did you let me date him if he wasn't the one?.
And it was that time, when God taught me a valuable lesson, that,
He has always prepared for me the best and there is no need of me going and searching it around. It will come to me in right time and every gift that comes from Him is always perfect. But when i go as per my decision, then i should take a U-turn and come back to the same place that God had placed me in that particular season.
Our God is our Father. And that's the reason he disciplines us.
Did he came back to u again ?
My god just what i need rn. 🙏
God bless
Amen❤
Even in the pain of a break up, we have to give THE MOST HIGH the glory and search for the lesson HE was trying to teach us.. there is ALWAYS a lesson.. and a chance to grow as a person mentally and spiritually.. I’m thankful for all my lessons, as painful as they were, they were indeed necessary and worth the tears and anguish. I’m a better me today all because TMH loves me and wants the best for me
I was dating my ex-girlfriend few months ago. I asked God to give me signs if she is the one for me.
1) I had car accident.
2) I lost my mobile when going to her Grandma's house.
3) A pigeon shit on her eyes while we were on a date.
4) Then this Lockdown which separated me and her for 3 months.
I wanted God to speak to me through dreams and the Bible but forgot that God speaks through circunstances. He really does. I lost so much time and got through so much stress with this person. Don't make the same mistake as I did. Don't miss His signs!
To all of the women here, who are here to try and turn the tables on their relationship luck, I’ve been there and the first step is us recognizing what’s not good for us. Sending you all soooo much love and light, peace, harmony and forgiveness to still be open to receive the right love. BuT 1st we have to LOVE on ourselves as we would that partner we desire. Much love to us all 💕
Jesus Christ is my God. And, he is so good!💞
God is faithful praise the lord ❤
Amen!
Hallelujah!!!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 one hundred percent ACCURACY 👌🏾 It’s a sad truth, but we learn through our circumstances, actions & the circumstances & actions through other people too! Thank you Mark. ❤️🩸🕊
God bless Renee!
I was recommended this. I needed to hear this. I just had a breakup of something that checked all the boxes but it didn’t work out. I had grown disinterested (quarantine kinda caused it) . We couldn’t politically agree and he wasn’t open to change for this good. I’d have dreams of a wedding that often ended before I’d see my ex. It was better for me to be able to express myself in a better and freeing way and I was able to start my own projects
I'm glad the video was timely for you :)
Love this! It is absolutely true..I will forever ask God for his guidance🙌🙌
This is good information
So glad you enjoyed it!
God showed me my future wife in a vision 4 years ago.. Still cant wait to meet her, she is sooooo beautiful.. At the same time its very hard to wait on her.. Never met her, so I'll have to keep waiting I guess 🤷🏻♂️
Aren’t you supposed to go find her? She is waiting to be found but if you are waiting also how will you both meet?
Proverbs 18:22
👉🏾He who finds a wife👈🏾 finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord.
That is my interpretation of the scripture. What are your thoughts?
“Ultimately we have to let the Holy Spirit have the final word in our lives...still follow the Holy Spirit’s leading over the leading of other people in your life” 👌🏽
Wow... I have been single for almost 3 years without dating because I’m afraid to make a mistake plus I’m socially awkward. This is so good. It is a true blessing. I’m going to heat it multiple times. You are so wise they should teach this in school!
I agree. Thanks a lot. Ignoring the signs was what i regreted the most.
God showed me not to be with a person trough his sister who offended me and the person did not do anything. Then I understood (I honestly have to say that I knew it before..) that God did NOT want me to be with that person! 🙏❤ God is always good and he knows how to separate (protect) you from a wrong person! 💪
The next one will be there regardless of what's wrong with me. I'll grow. Just more of a lesson. Pain is strength. Grow in it. Be happy let it go, maybe it comes back maybe it doesn't. Live and be happy no misery 💯
God bless!
LOVE THIS! The last two points are both things that God showed me just a few months ago, and I'm thankful for a confirmation!
So glad it was helpful!
wow. i just prayed about a relationship the other day and this video was the first in my recommended today
Very timely Thank you for this video. I just finished a relationship with someone wih so many red flags but still pushed through and now thoughts still pop in my mind woth this person but I trust God has a reason with that experience... thanks for this video
Easy come, easy go.
true :)
Happened to me recently...easy to get easy to forget...😭😭😭😭
But it's not it's not true and I can't stop suffering and I'd all I did was try to listen to God and I think I made a mistake because I didn't understand and now everything is gone and it's black and it's empty
@@ShadowPlay1919 Read the bible and pray daily! Spend time with God like you would a best friend. He is with you always even if you don't feel like He is. Focus your thoughts on Him and He will guide you, just concentrate on enjoying His Presence and everything else will fall into place.
It's not easy to go or get them to go if they are a narccist and in some situations it's harder than you will ever imagine.
This is so timely. And very informative.
Have been through a lot of disappointments when it comes to relationship....this time,I'm letting go and let God
Thank you for sharing Mark 🙏🙏 I needed to hear this today. 🙏❤️
You are so welcome!
Soo contemplating getting out of the relationship I'm in. Thank you so much for this.
I'm glad you found this helpful!
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallengerI did, I find all of your videos so incredibly helpful. I'm so happy that I discovered your channel as I'm new in my Christian walk and have so many questions and concerns and insecurities. Your videos hello me TREMENDOUSLY! Thank you ❤️
Because everyone that came to our lives are part of God’s orchestration.
“Easy come easy go” is an absolute truth!
All true. He is saying. Let the wisdom in Life be your guide
I'm so connected with this channel. I was asking if I should ask for my ex back for personal reasons, and this video came up.
Perfect timing, thank you💖
So glad it was timely!
Thank you. Now I know and hopefully remember.
Wow, this spoke to me. Thank you Jesus, Amen.
I’m not religious . More so spiritual/agnostic and I found this video to be great!! I’ve been going back and forth with myself over a breakup I had earlier this year and this video helped me know I’m on the right track ‘
may God bless you! God is really wise, you will always find good advices from Him. Have a great journey, and may He guide you to the best for you!
God is good!!
Amen!
A great guide about mind and how we fall pray to the temporary infatuations. Also loved the analysis of why God allows us in relationships which don't work out in the end. Thank you so much, Mark!
Wow, I really needed this right now. Thank you so much!! God bless!!!
You are so welcome!
Why don't God just put you with someone that you're compatible with and help the both of you grow in love? He knows us more
than we know ourselves right?🤔🤷🏾♀️
Because we have free will :)
Beautiful!
So glad you enjoyed this!
Great video Mark I'm learning more and more, God bless you!
So true, happened to me when I broke up with my ex-bf. It brings me into depression but then, during those time was the moment where I step into a deeper relationship with God, and I thank God for those pain. God use it for good. God is good!!!!!
Awesome Mark
Glad you enjoyed it!
God gives us signs and it is up to us to pay attention to and heed them. The person will say or do something that shows who they are.
Everything said in this Video apply to my current relationship. Great video
Love this message Brother. Really did Catch My Attention
I don't go on social media anymore. Mainly, I don't want to see the person I was attracted to but now know she's not the one. Idk if that's healthy behavior but idk what else to do when it hurts to see her and life in general is not going anywhere. I hope this bad time ends soon. Thanks for the videos. God bless you all.
God bless you too!
i understand what youre coming from. how are you now?
It's completely healthy to guard your heart from this person. Seeing their posts and pictures will only make you more bitter and resentful. Your healing starts when you accept that they are gone
@@iahmarielle better now thank you.
Gods Heart it not like our Hearts. Always Listen to Gods Heart and Not your own emotions. Proverbs Ch. 3 Verse 5-7.
God bless!
I should let the author of the channel know, I have yet to “enjoy” any of your videos. But they have the uncomfortable and irrevocable truth in them. I watch in discomfort and frustration, but I ultimately respect them and thank God for what you do.
Excellent and very timely - thank you. 👌🏻
I'm so glad it was helpful Bethany!
What happens when you dont want a particular person or unsure, but it seems as though there is a connection or bond u can't explain, but other people feels like he is NOT THE ONE FOR YOU...BUT you have prayed, and asked God to send confirmation and its seems as though certain signs you asked for came to manifestation, but the person doesn't seem like hs is the one...
Hey Mr Mark. It's been a while but. Glad to see AGW growing😁
All glory to God!
Better late than never. Such good, true words!!!
So glad it was helpful!
Just what I needed.
So glad it was helpful!
Keep up the good work Mark. It's great to see how much the channel has grown.
This video really hits home for me. Took someone after a year of serious dating to tell me they didn't like me. I tried to have honest conversations along the way to see if it was the case, but they always would say things were good. We even took our time as friends before we dated, yet for some reason she told me she really liked me and wanted to take things further.
Really hurt me in the end, and on top of that, It wasn't until 6 months after we broke up where I told her she needed to tell me the reason so that I could avoid mistakes in future relationships she actually told me the reason.
You have to be willing to be hurt in relationships and it is really hard.
I strongly urge anyone watching this to read Matthew 22:36-40
36 “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?”
37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’[a] 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’[b] 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”
If love was a 'feeling' like it's talked about in this video, then why would God command it?
You can't just make a feeling happen, feelings are reactions or responses or conclusions.
Love is a CHOICE. It's something you have to do willingly. Back in biblical days there was arranged marriages, men and women would marry as young as 14 years old or so. The sort of love you're taught on TV and pop culture is false. You have to be taught love, thats why people from broken homes usually don't know how to love someone.
Don't sit there hoping for a feeling or emotion to guide you into what you choose to do with your life. Satan can put feelings on to you through a spirit of death. If you've got sin in your life, maybe you're lusting for someone else and you're not sure you love your partner anymore. The spirit of death can bring you depression, anxiety, anger, suicidal thoughts, self harm, bitterness, envy, hate. ect. ect. If you don't know how to love somebody you need to be taught how to love, and that is only possible through relationship with jesus. Learn how God loves you and you'll find a greater love than you've ever thought possible. You'll see how Jesus loves you and loves your partner. You'll be able to share in that love. Put God first, not yourself, not your relationship and you will find peace.
You are preaching!!
Thank you, Gilbert Geodffrey.
I really agree on the infatuation part in dating. Relationship that started that way doesn't end well. Prudence can be applied to other parts in life. Holy Spirit... in everything! I just keep forgetting.
I wish I had paid attention to the signs that have been in front of me for so long 🙏🏽📿
God bless William
I absolutely agree with having the support and encouragement of your family. My mom disapproved of this girl immediately but I ignored her warnings because this girl looked great and she had a way of connecting with me, but deep down I didn't love her back that way too when I learned of something she had done three months after we cooled things down a bit. I wanted us to breakup amicably but it wound up happening with hurts. It would take a while for me to heal from this
i just got out of a relationship, it hurts like crazy..this video helped..thanks
I'm so glad it was helpful!