Facts….I had to learn and accept the fact that not everyone will rock with you.U can’t expect everyone to vibe with you.Just stick with those who cool with you heavy.
I watched this video an cried.. I lost my father this year on March 5 and I used to be such a talkative, outgoing, bubbly person and now I don’t even know how to talk to people anymore/hold a conversation, connect, or I just don’t feel like talking. It’s caused me to much havoc my relationship with people and I just don’t know what to do, but I guess I took the first step of watching the video to better myself
Sometimes life takes us to places we don’t want to be to but it’s up to us to carry ourselves forward so we can be happier. I hope one day you can go back to your talkative self, I’m tryna too. Sorry for your loss and I hope you have a bright future.
bro i learned this from a kams old videos. go out and talk to people bro it’s the only way you’ll get better at conversations talk to people more often. the past week i’ve been making myself to get out of my comfort zone and talking to people. and i’ve noticed i don’t have as much social anxiety anymore. and more importantly BE YOURSELF. stop trying to be someone your not that’s gonna cause you to feel awkward in social settings. this past week i’ve been on this heavy and man. my anxiety with talking to attractive women is going away. trust bro. best two tips i can give is 1) force yourself to talk to people and get out your comfort zone 2) be yourself
Maybe I need to try this bro because my social anxiety it crazy, It’s like my anxiety kick in everyday before work and I see the same people every day but when I’m around them I don’t speak unless spoken to. And i really hate it because people try to talk to me but, I can’t really keep a conversation goin without feeling awkward ESPECIALLY with women!
So true. I think awkward silence is ok sometimes and you just need to break through it. A lot of times I want to have a conversation with someone and it gets silent is because I just don’t know what else to say. I want to talk but I just don’t know what to talk about.
Yeah.. I have a point too: I'mma use the dogs for example. Let's say you try to fins topics. Even if in your mind is like: Dogs! You need to understand *why* this *general topic* popped into your head, and then say it. For exapmle: you shouldn't say "we can talk about dogs.." - that's foolish. Mediocre level is: "oh, you like dogs?" But then, if he/she replies with no then your stuck.. Ao best thing is: "Do you have a dog?" *wait for response* if yes, let her talk about it, and then respond "I have dog named **** and he's a doberman. I love him so much but he can be crazy sometimes". If she says no just respond this and let her response TO YOU. And continue the talk, it's reaaly nkt that hard, you just need some sharpenning on your talking skill
Maybe im tired and slow af right now but "If she says no just respond this and let her respond to you" doesnt make sende. Do you mean respond with the 'I have a doberman' paragraph u typed?
You should do a video on how to make her more comfortable when you link. Like for me I can tell she attracted and we’re cool in a group setting but when it’s one on one she gets nervous
Whenever I ask people questions about themselves to try to make conversation after like the 6 th question they ask me why are you asking so many questions
Do you think maybe the people who say why are you asking you back why are you asking so many questions that’s a sign they are not into talking to you and you should find someone else
Facts….I had to learn and accept the fact that not everyone will rock with you.U can’t expect everyone to vibe with you.Just stick with those who cool with you heavy.
I watched this video an cried.. I lost my father this year on March 5 and I used to be such a talkative, outgoing, bubbly person and now I don’t even know how to talk to people anymore/hold a conversation, connect, or I just don’t feel like talking.
It’s caused me to much havoc my relationship with people and I just don’t know what to do, but I guess I took the first step of watching the video to better myself
Sometimes life takes us to places we don’t want to be to but it’s up to us to carry ourselves forward so we can be happier. I hope one day you can go back to your talkative self, I’m tryna too. Sorry for your loss and I hope you have a bright future.
I wish you luck through whatever is your journey 🗿👍
bro i learned this from a kams old videos. go out and talk to people bro it’s the only way you’ll get better at conversations talk to people more often. the past week i’ve been making myself to get out of my comfort zone and talking to people. and i’ve noticed i don’t have as much social anxiety anymore. and more importantly BE YOURSELF. stop trying to be someone your not that’s gonna cause you to feel awkward in social settings. this past week i’ve been on this heavy and man. my anxiety with talking to attractive women is going away. trust bro. best two tips i can give is
1) force yourself to talk to people and get out your comfort zone
2) be yourself
i know kam was saying not to force yourself to talk to people but this advice is if you have SOCIAL ANXIETY get comfortable talking to people
also talk positive about yourself!! positive affirmations help a lot with self esteem
@@tjgotbands Yeah this advice only works if you're trying to get over the fear of talking to people.
@@Leo-yn5fx yuh
Maybe I need to try this bro because my social anxiety it crazy, It’s like my anxiety kick in everyday before work and I see the same people every day but when I’m around them I don’t speak unless spoken to. And i really hate it because people try to talk to me but, I can’t really keep a conversation goin without feeling awkward ESPECIALLY with women!
Wow bro. Lowkey this is true info. You cant find ts anywhere else on the internet and you so real for the info you give
Half worried it wouldn't drop before my lunch ended, Blessed Brother 🤲
So true. I think awkward silence is ok sometimes and you just need to break through it. A lot of times I want to have a conversation with someone and it gets silent is because I just don’t know what else to say. I want to talk but I just don’t know what to talk about.
Bro you always giving solid advice.
i like being with myself or having fun with friends i don't want a gf or have more people in my life but i think its better to have some girl friend's
keep it coming gang‼️
@patbat wild
Thank u. I appreciate this video
thanks bro this video helped me out a lot keep it up
Man talking to most people always gives me a headache, it's sooo BORING and i can't think str8 when it gets boring.
Wordddd
But can you explain what’s boring
Yeah..
I have a point too:
I'mma use the dogs for example.
Let's say you try to fins topics.
Even if in your mind is like: Dogs!
You need to understand *why* this *general topic* popped into your head, and then say it.
For exapmle: you shouldn't say "we can talk about dogs.." - that's foolish.
Mediocre level is: "oh, you like dogs?"
But then, if he/she replies with no then your stuck..
Ao best thing is: "Do you have a dog?"
*wait for response* if yes, let her talk about it, and then respond
"I have dog named **** and he's a doberman. I love him so much but he can be crazy sometimes".
If she says no just respond this and let her response TO YOU.
And continue the talk, it's reaaly nkt that hard, you just need some sharpenning on your talking skill
bros a english teacher😭😭
@@taannmann 😂😂😂😂😂
rizzly bear
Maybe im tired and slow af right now but "If she says no just respond this and let her respond to you" doesnt make sende. Do you mean respond with the 'I have a doberman' paragraph u typed?
Patbat bussed… and kam has 7 dogs
Dope vid
You should do a video on how to make her more comfortable when you link. Like for me I can tell she attracted and we’re cool in a group setting but when it’s one on one she gets nervous
Just stop being creepy bro
@@Yung_Cash_Money_Billionaires how’s that me being creepy lmao I be vibed out we jus don’t have much in common 🤷♂️
@@lossestolessonshow's it going now? (Had the same thing happen in the past and I wasn't sure what to do) lol
Whenever I ask people questions about themselves to try to make conversation after like the 6 th question they ask me why are you asking so many questions
Do american christians does the 40 days fast ? (Asking from France)
No
its good to fast to get closer to God
Yeah
Yessir
First
Whats wit the quality?
This is so hard
W
Do you think maybe the people who say why are you asking you back why are you asking so many questions that’s a sign they are not into talking to you and you should find someone else
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