I think the reverse of this discussion is also true. A man with big dreams should not allow himself to be with women with low dreams..otherwise they will be dragged down
hahaha this man just touched my situation I was with a guy giving me stress for so long and the day I decided to leave him a friend of mine proposed it was like he was waiting for me to realise that I deserved better I am lucky to have him seriously! great show
I have always had a hard time in my life relating to people since most don't understand me. I thought I was the problem but you sir (Dr. Benjamin Zulu), made it crystal clear. I want to go to "Mombasa" but my inner circle is made of "Tuktuks" and "Bicycles". This has sadly been evident to my relationships and family. I really need a chance to speak to you, I need such great wisdom and advice
Seriously this is true, I got married on my 20 now worked out on it on 30s, am happily single, nine years online, your God's sent saving our lives, talking realities , big up guys
Listen up ladies, when dating learn to weed out dusties from men with focus. As long as you don’t learn that early enough, you will always keep on falling for the dusties; they always know the game, they’ve played it for so long and they will make you fall so hard for them
I was in such relationship just stepped out..I tried my best investing businesses so we upgrade but nothing...I wish I heard this before I got in.....now I know what to look for and i know my person is out there...its fire
I'm watching this some days later and well this is amazing. I think this is what successful and ambitious ladies need to hear. Keeping it Full Circle with Joyce.
These kind of women we are so truly rare, unique and it takes us quite sometime,trials and tests to truly grow into thick skinned glorious beings that can take the blows that come with greatness so gracefully our mare presence illuminates the whole building 😊😊. With greatness comes great responsibility y'all
A man’s loyalty is measured when they have a lot of money, however a woman’s loyalty is measured when her man has no money. That means women don’t get changed by money, love is all a woman needs with or without money a woman will submit. I love this lessons it’s very helpful
Just found this channel and programme. I have been blessed watching this.Thank God I found you guys,this is exactly what I needed at this point in my life.
success is not only financial dear ladies, is he mentally stable, emotionally matured and physically fit,a man of good character or does he have a vision and plan he is working on. support his struggles and RESPECT him.
@@FavouredEunice. sorry for that It all depends on your rootsteps of how both of you started it all, coz if he is broke to buy even credo for calling, how will he even afford the rest of basic items e.t.c
@@msorosaine8283 in fact within the first 3 months I was overdriven by his calls late till almost late night. I don't know what's up may be he is measuring my patience
Benjamin I have been following you but on this topic am completely impressed coz it's me you are talking about. I HATE lazy men I just feel like vomiting
@Shikukim I think, you have been coned by aman so you are trying ahard heart against men or just another mean lady 😁 😁... U mean u will never share with another man even for sadaka for the sake of GOD...
A great minded man is the one that looks for pple to give more info about things not going to hang around with egg vendors!!! or chewing mirras.! Wow!! Hio nayo imenikwamua such great topic there thenx Mr. Zulu👏🏾🙌🏾
Oooh My God Ben you are now just speaking from my heart so so true every bit of it I would give you a big hug right now! And yes let the successful men hang around up here too😅😂😂😂🤣👍🏾👌🏾
Yes i ended up with a parasite that never started in life,keeping the least and worst company ,u pay every bill,he is everywhere u disapprove,10 good years in depression n failure, n u know what am here starting at 40 n looking for the right man now,talk about never giving up,i must succeed,God has given me life as a second chance,kudos Benjamin n Joyce
I just found myself starting over to attentively review this episode 👌🙏 like Benjamin is describing me and my plans to be a BILLIONAIRE but can't find my guy...
Trust me money reveals the lady, if she starts to be disrespectful after getting money then know even when she was humble she was still disrespectful may be the "lack" created a uncoducive environment to reveal her self, so she was faking everything Circumstances don't test a person they reveal the person
My goodness this is eye opening.ive received so much hate from people but I with time realized my go getter nature burns almost everyone I get in contact with(not all) Thank you for this video.
You have to be choosy about who to associate with. People below your level are more likely to be jealous and give negative energy. Set high standards. But don't worry, you can associate with Jesus. Are you aware that Jesus Christ loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him? Give Him a chance to love you as your Lord and personal Saviour. Have a good day
Awesome show as always, Full circle with Joyce it is..He mentioned that he would love to come back to teach these great women how to date. On the lookout for that. ;)
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@adanna okeke o
Done👌🏾I'm sold just with this interview solely💃🏾
@@puritykibet2632 m
I think the reverse of this discussion is also true. A man with big dreams should not allow himself to be with women with low dreams..otherwise they will be dragged down
I agree with you
Absolutely.
He already made that point when talking about his own choice of a partner, talmabout making billions
I totally agree bro
I agree
hahaha this man just touched my situation I was with a guy giving me stress for so long and the day I decided to leave him a friend of mine proposed it was like he was waiting for me to realise that I deserved better I am lucky to have him seriously! great show
I'm happy for you,I'm hoping I'll get one too for myself
My sister you will get one very soon in the name of Jesus and remember always to ask god for the right one because once he choses for you 👌
Benjamin needs his own TH-cam channel where we can interact with him.
Benjamin talk abt men who tortures their women yet they have children together
But he has his own youtube channel
@@Mariamnabasirye8403 oh what's the name of his channel
@@Mariamnabasirye8403 oh what's the name of his channel
He does lives on Facebook
I feel attacked 😂😂😂😂 weuh.. Am so self driven and focused I cant tolerate an average man cmon you either style up or leave. Thanks for this Zulu.
I feel you😍
My type😍
Yaaani this zulu person, who gave birth to you? That womb is gold from heaven not earth😆
Benjamin deserves a hug from me, I wish this reaches some peoples ears
I spoke with a man and he told me I am intimidating. I guess that was because I was frank. 😊
Preach it 💪
1.Provide leadership.
2.Be truthful and trustworthy.
I m telling you
All Queens out here don't pluck jewels from your crown trying to come down to a level of undecided man... Wow I love that
I have always had a hard time in my life relating to people since most don't understand me. I thought I was the problem but you sir (Dr. Benjamin Zulu), made it crystal clear. I want to go to "Mombasa" but my inner circle is made of "Tuktuks" and "Bicycles". This has sadly been evident to my relationships and family. I really need a chance to speak to you, I need such great wisdom and advice
I click soo fast when I see Benjamin in the thumbnail featured by Joyce .... I LOVE Y’ALL .
We love you right back!
Me too
This young girls you are lucky...he is speaking to you before you get into this things...
Yes young girls are lucky with all this information nowadays. They can learn from others mistakes rather than their own.
So true,am glad am learning alot before I get into marriage
I wish I saw this
Waaaaa! For once I've met a Kenyan man who has spoken like 5 men combined. Kindly start a serious men's conference...
Hes savings lifes
Lives
y ikkkkj
Ati 5 men combined??? My ribs😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Mindful_Mm aki it's true. Can u imagine if all Kenyan men cld have just half of this guy's wisdom?!?? No more rship dramas😁😁
I just recently discovered this Benjamin Zulu and I must say I am impressed. Tons of wisdom and truths! Keep it up!
Benjamin Zulu always bringing Wisdom with Full cup of Energy...Never disappoints 👍👍
U are to
"its not a red flag,its a red duvet," Ben Zulu ahahahaha God uses this platform and as a young man just 22 ,i have learnt a lot.
Seriously this is true, I got married on my 20 now worked out on it on 30s, am happily single, nine years online, your God's sent saving our lives, talking realities , big up guys
Mr Benjamin, thank you for the knowledge, experience, charisma and clarity you bring to these important issues. We appreciate you from Nigeria ,💪✌️
Woow...!!! I daamn love this talk👌. Benjamin calls a spade a spade n not a big spoon!
The red duvet part killed me lol!
Once a guy is said to me ' I can't believe I am with you' ....it pissed me off and knew I needed someone with confidence and some sense of worth 😏
V true
Mr Benjamin you are too wise. Please if there is a way you can have a forum to teach and encourage our brothers. I'm a big fan 100%
Listen up ladies, when dating learn to weed out dusties from men with focus. As long as you don’t learn that early enough, you will always keep on falling for the dusties; they always know the game, they’ve played it for so long and they will make you fall so hard for them
Well said Bettie!
Listening to this video the second time it hits differently than before. Very True don't lower your standards for anyone.
Discovering you earlier would have saved me a lot of heartache. But all is not lost. Blessings
I married a parasite stay With him för 6years i got tired and chased him.i wish i heard you before.
wish I met you earlier woi
I wasted my 23yrs with a narcissistic man. I'm now out trying to collect my broken pieces and i believe all shall be well.
@@ruthnuru6720 lol.... Sorry my dear
Don’t beat yourself up sis, take everything as a lesson and move!
Not a red flag...Red duvet! Lol!
Is so cold In South Africa I read you comment while covering myself with that ReD Duvet,I suddenly felt warm
I laughed tears when he said that 😂😂
😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😅
😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
The gentlemen is on point. When you want a successful woman act like you are riding the horse with her also provide support.
Are we going to ignore how flowless Joyce`s skin is?
She's beautiful👌
Flawless*
Next time discuss on submission of women in relationships cz some confuse it with "bullying "
true
She came with her own power - that's very profound
Eishhhhhh!!!!! Tx u Mr.Zulu🤗👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏.... I always say this: successful women don't go for a broke uneducated men in the name of love!!!! Nooo!!!
This's both motivation and entertainment. I like it
I just made a decision today to stop talking to someone because of the company he keeps...just got encouraged even more
I would like to talk to Benjamin. He is a living human encyclopedia. Sheer Brilliance
THIS GUY IS AMAZING. REALLY AMAZING, BENJAMIN, I CAN'T WAIT FOR YOUR OFFICIAL TH-cam CHANNEL
Benjamin Zulu ke
I was in such relationship just stepped out..I tried my best investing businesses so we upgrade but nothing...I wish I heard this before I got in.....now I know what to look for and i know my person is out there...its fire
this guy is just talking the truth i love this its educative
I'm watching this some days later and well this is amazing. I think this is what successful and ambitious ladies need to hear. Keeping it Full Circle with Joyce.
These kind of women we are so truly rare, unique and it takes us quite sometime,trials and tests to truly grow into thick skinned glorious beings that can take the blows that come with greatness so gracefully our mare presence illuminates the whole building 😊😊. With greatness comes great responsibility y'all
I'm loving this conversation, true talk.
I just love Benjamin 😍
I hate bad mannered woman...
Joyce's heels are on point! Zulu is on point as usual!
A man’s loyalty is measured when they have a lot of money, however a woman’s loyalty is measured when her man has no money. That means women don’t get changed by money, love is all a woman needs with or without money a woman will submit. I love this lessons it’s very helpful
Impossible! A successful woman will never submit to a man who earns less than her. Benjamin you need to understand female nature.
@@georgeokechi7540 opinions like this?! Mayoooo🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️
😂😂love alone can't feed children
Benjamin ur gifted....l wonder if anyone has been keeping an eye on me whilst l was in my FUNNY relationship😂😂
Yes yes n yes!!!!! This man has it. He’s so right!
Very true.. men learn how to make your women feel good... Oooh my
I wish this was available a few years ago. God, I can't wait! Please match me.
such interesting topic and so many of the things said I've experienced. Frieda, from Namibia
Thanks for following Frieda
Just found this channel and programme. I have been blessed watching this.Thank God I found you guys,this is exactly what I needed at this point in my life.
Aaah ..Benja always coming through with the wisdom.
Wow, I do watch shows but this one, sir Zulu you're speaking the truth. Thank you guys for this show. Everyone should definitely watch this.
success is not only financial dear ladies, is he mentally stable, emotionally matured and physically fit,a man of good character or does he have a vision and plan he is working on. support his struggles and RESPECT him.
Labda canada, sio hii kenya😂
apparently feminism is on the rise in kenya,,
@@alfredgathika1890 lost generation of ladies with a sense of entitlement
@@herbalist7496 thats why nimeawapa maneno
Waaaw what areal talk,,plz Zulu u need to have a conference meeting with youths,,u point is just wonderful
Thanks so much for stating the truth and not sugarcoating anything. Learnt alot.
Always love to hear from Benjamin. Wise insights everytime 👌
😂😂😂😂that guy who can't buy credit to call the lady....sounds so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣anyway people are different
This is what am undergoing and the rship is 5months old
@@FavouredEunice. sorry for that
It all depends on your rootsteps of how both of you started it all, coz if he is broke to buy even credo for calling, how will he even afford the rest of basic items e.t.c
@@msorosaine8283 in fact within the first 3 months I was overdriven by his calls late till almost late night.
I don't know what's up may be he is measuring my patience
@@FavouredEunice. y don't you quite it
Watching from Nakuru, Thank you Benjamin you are opening our eyes . I love the discussion and l support it 💯
15:30 that sounds like the first Date I had with the man that is now my husband... I'm glad I passed the interview...😊👌
Most good women are in a wrong relationship or in marriage very true my brother
So wat can we do to get aserious hubby before it gets late?
most men are in wrong relationship too
Benjamin I have been following you but on this topic am completely impressed coz it's me you are talking about. I HATE lazy men I just feel like vomiting
It's hard for a great successful woman to date if you don't accommodate lazy men. Many men want to use your success to succeed.
I think you meet insecure man ooh pole Dada...
@@abdullmumtaz7736 maybe but no man has or will have a coin from me. Insecure Man is a No for me
Aki tena
@Shikukim I think, you have been coned by aman so you are trying ahard heart against men or just another mean lady 😁 😁... U mean u will never share with another man even for sadaka for the sake of GOD...
Just imagine am a victim this
Right on point!!! She values your character
I wish I heard Benjamin Nzulu before,I would not be broken the way I am now
Pick up the pieces and move, you're a warrior...warriors fall then find the courage to rise
Very informative. Its hard for great ladies out here.
Why now?
My type of mentor jokes aside Wisdom garole....twende brother
Benjamin is a very wise Man.
This is so eye opening ....
Am glad!
You nailed this topic Ben Zulu 👏 👏
I will say my no 1 key is to be truthful and trustworthy and no 2 key is leadership ...
Benjamin thanks so much for sharing this ideas ,am taking notes and you guy am shaped lady kuja pole pole hii maisha haitaki makasiriko,
Wow what a great show...I can't regret landing here....ni meguzwa
A great minded man is the one that looks for pple to give more info about things not going to hang around with egg vendors!!! or chewing mirras.! Wow!! Hio nayo imenikwamua such great topic there thenx Mr. Zulu👏🏾🙌🏾
Aki Benjamin you just a great motivator,,,when you date a low minded guy you finished......
Wow this such an amazing topic, a real eye opener, Good job Mr Zulu please Joyce bring him back with part 2
I wish Benjamin would talk more on these two topics:
Proactive Dating and Dating for Single Moms
Much love from +254! Oh wow this man is fact!
So many truths Sir! ❤️🇧🇼
I just bumped into this show or channel l love it..... watching from Nigeria
Lol me too 😅. I’m watching from South Africa 👍🏾
Wow! This man has really mentored me in a organization called Compassion : Riachina CDC,I really miss you Zulu
Wow just fascinating speech, love from Muscat' 😍😍😍😍 proud to be single. Men u can't separate a woman en the future.
Joyce am Simon Patrick from Kampala. I love the show.
Biyaibojo?
Wow so informative
Haaa... Not only are you on point but also very hilarious. You nailed it!!!
Oooh My God Ben you are now just speaking from my heart so so true every bit of it I would give you a big hug right now! And yes let the successful men hang around up here too😅😂😂😂🤣👍🏾👌🏾
Yes i ended up with a parasite that never started in life,keeping the least and worst company ,u pay every bill,he is everywhere u disapprove,10 good years in depression n failure, n u know what am here starting at 40 n looking for the right man now,talk about never giving up,i must succeed,God has given me life as a second chance,kudos Benjamin n Joyce
We are sailing in the same boat, let's soldier on 2nd chance is real......True life and love begins @40!
I looooooooooove this show. Great content as usual👌👌
Mr.Benjamn you are among those who should be awarded highly. God bless
A focused successful man should be with a driven strong woman👍 stick with yours own kind🙏
😂😂😂from the title buana,very indulging
Wow Benjamin! Asante sana👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👌🏾
Much love from Uganda 🇺🇬😍
Jesus!!!, may all my wishes be granted. Thank you Benjamin.
This guy is a true mentor
Someone give this man a drink on me, lol Spot on. A man who is insecure will never handle a successful woman and should move on and find his league.
I just found myself starting over to attentively review this episode 👌🙏 like Benjamin is describing me and my plans to be a BILLIONAIRE but can't find my guy...
Only a childish man who thinks money changes a woman😃
and You must be ignorant to think they don't change. There is much evidence in the history of mankind
It do change many of them, we have seen many and we've heard of many from history
Trust me money reveals the lady, if she starts to be disrespectful after getting money then know even when she was humble she was still disrespectful may be the "lack" created a uncoducive environment to reveal her self, so she was faking everything
Circumstances don't test a person they reveal the person
@@ericawanja1749 Which means most women only want from a man is what he posses and not who he is
@@danohsham4935 we were talking about woman's money not man's possession
Is my first time to meet u on media n am glad that wil now b learning n put on action where necessary .thanks🙏
This is soooo timely. A million thanks
Am in that category. currently in a good self business Niko 31, my guy is what we call hustle now nimeelevuka.
I can listen to this over and over
My goodness this is eye opening.ive received so much hate from people but I with time realized my go getter nature burns almost everyone I get in contact with(not all)
Thank you for this video.
You have to be choosy about who to associate with. People below your level are more likely to be jealous and give negative energy. Set high standards. But don't worry, you can associate with Jesus. Are you aware that Jesus Christ loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him? Give Him a chance to love you as your Lord and personal Saviour. Have a good day
Very correct, i have been in a such rlnxhp, being a hard working lady but jamaa wasnt positive to tat hard work, i decided to go, en make mi own
Good riddance
Ati I'm open minded ...Fooool 😂😂😂nice one!!
Awesome show as always, Full circle with Joyce it is..He mentioned that he would love to come back to teach these great women how to date. On the lookout for that. ;)