Should I rush to marriage because my agemates are now married

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  • @ireneakoth6696
    @ireneakoth6696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I can listen to this kind of inspiration for a million times..This is so encouraging.Am glad av been part of this journey and I have so much grown . Am 23 but now am thinking like a 36 years old coz of this show.Blessings to Benjamin Zulu ,Joyce and the technical team

  • @phindilenene4622
    @phindilenene4622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Never keep friends that you're not learning from!

  • @friedashifotoka6556
    @friedashifotoka6556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Benjamin Zulu is blessed with so much wisdom

  • @nasidlukwana6068
    @nasidlukwana6068 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I just discovered this channel and I must say I've been missing out. Watching all the way from South Africa

  • @pendoj5622
    @pendoj5622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Reminds me when I met a friend in town and asked me why I am not driving yet I work for an NGO hehehe I smiled assured the person am okay with public transport.

    • @annenjoroge9695
      @annenjoroge9695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      When time comes, all things will be made beautiful..you wait and see and trust in God.

    • @beeyoutiful4086
      @beeyoutiful4086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What a mean question😳

    • @Mindful_Mm
      @Mindful_Mm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@beeyoutiful4086 it's just people's mindset out here... As if having a car at the first occasion is such a big achievement... Even my phone is the most important than it.

  • @meggymwangi2438
    @meggymwangi2438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    When Benjamin talked about university students and their laziness it felt like i was being addressed ,,

    • @winniephena5353
      @winniephena5353 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here haha...

    • @semolematjila9662
      @semolematjila9662 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @emmanu1818
      @emmanu1818 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lucky you you don't develop feelings when the truth is spoken,not like other peers

  • @RoseMary-fe2pu
    @RoseMary-fe2pu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The man with full of wisdom...keep firebuning zulu👏👏👏👏

  • @nwabisaphikwa9790
    @nwabisaphikwa9790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I could watch Benjamin a thousand times! What a wise man! Thank you 🙏🏼

    • @violahnnn
      @violahnnn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I watch his videos everyday

  • @yolandagoniwe1637
    @yolandagoniwe1637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Am listener from South Africa all I can say where have you been all my life...love you guys👌

    • @angelanakiganda
      @angelanakiganda 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss 🔥where has he been?🙌🏾

  • @wanjirukarago9308
    @wanjirukarago9308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Success is leaving a good legacy 👌🏿 not material possessions

  • @kyampeiredoreen118
    @kyampeiredoreen118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I can't stop watching this video, I even shared the link with my friends. I am 23 years living in Kampala Uganda , ofcourse I ain't able to catch the show live but am following the TH-cam updates plus following Benjamin Zulu on social media. I derive alot of inspiration and motivation from these conversations.
    Thank you Joyce for these thoughtful conversations. The young African woman and man who gets to interact with this content will forever be grateful ♥️ and never be the same again

    • @lindaatieno4894
      @lindaatieno4894 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Kyampeire Doreen
      True true..my thoughts exactly

  • @jainabajallow2098
    @jainabajallow2098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A friend/sister sent this link to me, with the caption - let me introduce to you the guy you should be listening to for the first half of this year. Yes I got you a mentor. You don’t need to thank me, what are sisters for?
    She’s indeed one of the two friends I need. Thank you 🙏🏿

  • @judykananu9955
    @judykananu9955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    i totally agree gosh benjamin 35 was my target and everyone thought I was crazy

  • @gilliethelele8921
    @gilliethelele8921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I LOVE the Inspirations ...... 🙏🙏🙏🙏From South Africa🇿🇦 !!! Zulu Man In the Studio is Inspiring.

  • @teklamhagama8659
    @teklamhagama8659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Oh wow!! This is Benjamin, I feel like God is speaking to me through this man...God bless you Benjamin and sister Joyce.

  • @rhodahj7121
    @rhodahj7121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    True there is no comparison between me and others everyone has his/her own race thanks joyce for this topic very educative,,great message.

  • @norahnayebare5313
    @norahnayebare5313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks Benjamin, u have taught me a lot. I like the host too koz of her maturity, calmness and accent

    • @joypeacewisdom
      @joypeacewisdom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes she is very well spoken and she carries the interview/conversation with perfect momentum.

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You really understand it

  • @dee1nesh738
    @dee1nesh738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Oh my I love this guy's energy. I just discovered this channel today and I love it

  • @aloyovicky5148
    @aloyovicky5148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I can never get tired of learning from your program

  • @sanggideon6937
    @sanggideon6937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So educative, I really thank God for tuning in.

  • @hilenimoshana5455
    @hilenimoshana5455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I started watching this show last year it really helped me alot. Thank you very much Mr Zulu my God continue blessing you with more wisdom. You are really changing life all over Africa. Watching from Namibia 🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦

  • @timewithruth
    @timewithruth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow, these videos are changing my life! *Full of wisdom*

  • @erikaamwaama551
    @erikaamwaama551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You not defined by being in a relationship, you can have love even if you are not in a relationship

  • @bosslady2973
    @bosslady2973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Woow....you are really inspiring me..this is sth that happens in our daily lives..Zulu...!!👏🏻👏🏻

  • @caramel9244
    @caramel9244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m extremely inspired by u Benjamin..great great content always! 👌🏾 My nephew & niece of 15 & 17 yrs were really inspired as well! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @allenvicky3808
    @allenvicky3808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am so greatiful, I can't stop looking for all your vidios, I have just subscribed, this is really mine, I thought I was lost but am not really because I had few friends than my mates. This is really teaching.
    Watching in Uganda.

  • @kizibellaauma209
    @kizibellaauma209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just lov this man full of wisdom. Learning alot from ur topics.

  • @estherkingori8760
    @estherkingori8760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow just came across this show with Joyce and am so addicted to it. Av watched all the past shows. Very informative and educative, thank you , keep it coming.

  • @ms.kayzondwa3176
    @ms.kayzondwa3176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Greetings to both of you, you are so amazing. It's been three days now since stumbling on this TH-cam page and have been binging on your episodes. Wow....I'm lost for words, learning a lot, love your presentation of the show, the topics are so educational and quite inspiring. Sending you love from South Africa🇿🇦🇿🇦❤️❤️

  • @jedidahwangare6724
    @jedidahwangare6724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Whatever you want in life try the wisdom first and faith I love your show.

  • @kudzieCPV
    @kudzieCPV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watching from Zimbabwe, I'm happy the way you express timeless true Benjamin n Joyce, what a great combination.

  • @bellaolum9768
    @bellaolum9768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I agree about having 2-3 good friends. I always wonder about these ladies who have like 25 friends, what do they discuss in such a huge crowd? And they always seem to be having get togethers 🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @paulettie mwami 🤣🤣🤣correct

  • @mazikode6697
    @mazikode6697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guys. I am watching from South Africa. Listen. This show is Gold. Thank you for bringing us this wholesome content. We need to talk more about this. People are going through the most trying to achieve things for others.

  • @altheadickerson4771
    @altheadickerson4771 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You never stop learning ; I consider myself a ' life- time ' student. I'm appreciative that @ 60+ , I am learning here.‼️😊📚🙏🏾

  • @emmakaruri9267
    @emmakaruri9267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Benjamin & Joyce, you've helped me a lot in the situation am in right now.

  • @angelanakiganda
    @angelanakiganda 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Benjamin Zulu🙌🏾. Just found this but you’ve answered questions people claim I’m too young to ask . Thank you

  • @estherannemacharia8282
    @estherannemacharia8282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm getting inspired! I'm glad I discovered this show recently....Thank you Joyce and Benjamin!

  • @edwardnyakundi4630
    @edwardnyakundi4630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've been really inspired by this show. Especially with this 'feeling late in life' no job

  • @asandamatolweni7081
    @asandamatolweni7081 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Zulu yout a wiseman, listening from South Africa. I also laugh when u speak in vernacular even thought i cannot fully understand shona. Thankyou for all this wisdom sharing

    • @chiku4082
      @chiku4082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He's speaking Swahili though not Shona

    • @zimflame2368
      @zimflame2368 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not Shona dear

  • @tshepi6312
    @tshepi6312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm so inspired by your wisdom Mr Zulu and your motivational talks changed my way of thinking

  • @jacklinekaranja5613
    @jacklinekaranja5613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Trusting the process. thank you benjamin zulu for your wisdom you are always inspiring and to joyce the show is always uplifting. God bless you all

  • @lilianmidigo6600
    @lilianmidigo6600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This guy speaks a lot of sense.

  • @peninahkamau895
    @peninahkamau895 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good conversation here,its good to be urself for real

  • @Mindful_Mm
    @Mindful_Mm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Actually the video title for my understanding would have been : "should i buy a car because my workmates have already theirs...?? Peer pressure out here is terrible...

  • @aloyovicky5148
    @aloyovicky5148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mr Zulu your so wise beyond reasonable doubt. You're both looking so neat.

  • @michaelonyechefuna1227
    @michaelonyechefuna1227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Greatness is about faithfulness to your Mission. This is great. Move in Target 💯💯💯.

  • @faithchikati8599
    @faithchikati8599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This....This is precious. Pure gold.

  • @bethelrutschmann3737
    @bethelrutschmann3737 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    New to the show watching from Switzerland 25 learning a lot Thank you all for the good work

  • @irenemueni2187
    @irenemueni2187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Kwanza hapo kwa sign for me 😂😂😂

    • @ianandanje
      @ianandanje 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣😂🤣🏃🏃

  • @سلفيازيزو
    @سلفيازيزو 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    A school is just a laboratory of life. I like that,Reminds me my dad once told me l was just escorting others in school in short l was good for nothing added on by my step mum. The pain l had l never show them l just appreciate and match aut after. Am now in Soudi Arabia ,24yrs now. But l left them with one word God has the plans for everyone it's not all about education. Thanks so much for all this inspiration s🙏

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't worry my sis even my dad had such language but since we had our own mother she could sometimes tell him to let us but really I wonder how a father abuses his own child like that

  • @truemindstv142
    @truemindstv142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jst got to know home today, but for the whole 10hours work shift i have been lestening to him.
    This guy, from my analysis, he deserved MORE AND TO MORE PLACES . He need to replace MONROE MYLES we lost in 2008 in aplane crash accident with his wife.
    There intelligence and passion as well as POURPOSE is totally matching and GOVERNMENTS, corporations Church ministries FEEL HIS ABSENCE, although now we have got you ...the replacer.
    Lestening from Chicago Br.Pol.scie Sr.
    Love u and her

  • @kagyezisandra361
    @kagyezisandra361 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Benjamin Zulu you bless me a lot. Thank you Joyce this show is changing my mind on life. I follow you straight from Uganda

  • @murendierendie9710
    @murendierendie9710 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just discovered this channel.... So much wisdom.. I'm blessed every time i listen to Benjamin zulu

  • @brendakimathi6965
    @brendakimathi6965 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks so much, Benjamin Zulu I started following this show recently. I feel motivated. We ladies face a lot of negativity, I am working on me. My mental health, we have to quit a lot of things to succeed. Toxic friends etc.

  • @derrickdeeper2923
    @derrickdeeper2923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I want to find a Kenyan woman so we can have life together. Am Ugandan!
    I love Jesus.

    • @kasisoczon669
      @kasisoczon669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Derrick Deeper Truly?Thank you for liking Kenyan women🇰🇪we appreciate Uganda too.

    • @derrickdeeper2923
      @derrickdeeper2923 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kasisoczon669 can you cannot me to one..

    • @therealone8628
      @therealone8628 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@derrickdeeper2923 huh???

    • @derrickdeeper2923
      @derrickdeeper2923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Guys am still waiting for my Kenyan wife to be... I've feeling my wife has to be a Kenyan

    • @puritynjoki5068
      @puritynjoki5068 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@derrickdeeper2923 good luck

  • @nomusagumbi6411
    @nomusagumbi6411 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am watching all the way from eswatini and thank you
    I am leàrning a lot please do more
    As a recent graduate I feēl pressure to make something of myself

  • @asolmango1574
    @asolmango1574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Zulu you are really inspiring women & men outside here, but let me speak with Mrs waihiga about the hairstyle. .....I can do it more than that

    • @michelleakinyi987
      @michelleakinyi987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol its a wig and she looks good with it wigs can only be put on

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      By the way she has beautiful natural hair

  • @angelanakiganda
    @angelanakiganda 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Be faithful to your assignment 🔥❤️
    Your purpose in life is key

  • @sheemwaniki579
    @sheemwaniki579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow I'm so inspired,, not to lose faith in me and in God,,I love the show

  • @sarahwanyonyi2711
    @sarahwanyonyi2711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this show,thanks Benjamin and Joyce .

  • @milnerkaisa642
    @milnerkaisa642 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow ,this is amazing and educational ,you really give me insights of how life is . you're telling the truth this year l started to learn English to boost my skills because l realised that its important to have skills than to have plenty of degrees without competency

  • @florencemwiinga524
    @florencemwiinga524 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a blessing. I wish i knew about this knowledge long ago. thank you Mr Zulu

  • @jameskiiya7426
    @jameskiiya7426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am 17 but still watching the show which is amazing

  • @paulajaymie6935
    @paulajaymie6935 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Zulu for bringing "purpose" in the success discussion

  • @victorinenkwenti1690
    @victorinenkwenti1690 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank y’all for your wisdom and encouragement 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @aliceanyango770
    @aliceanyango770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for sharing this powerful inspiration

  • @AfricanFolktalesStories-2024
    @AfricanFolktalesStories-2024 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am new here, am glad to hear this before it's too late!!

  • @periskabura1591
    @periskabura1591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Powerful inspiration..thank you

  • @eileenkaren8515
    @eileenkaren8515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very educative ,i learned a lot.

  • @neveragain-z6h
    @neveragain-z6h 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Few days ago İ started watching Benjamin Zulu, he is just amazing, full of wisdom.

  • @pfanomukhodobwane1666
    @pfanomukhodobwane1666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Watching from South Africa

  • @vorsterouma7175
    @vorsterouma7175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always on motion .this is great

  • @rosemuleso6640
    @rosemuleso6640 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always love watching this show... learning alot.... cheers💞💞

  • @TINAMWIKALI
    @TINAMWIKALI 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this shoow so much very inspiring

  • @easterndakondja4328
    @easterndakondja4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Benjamin so much wisdom 😀

  • @assmanhadi3907
    @assmanhadi3907 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    A healthy man first defines himself before he gets into a serious relationship 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘👌👌👌👌

  • @ruthkibu2137
    @ruthkibu2137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, 👏👏 very educative. A

  • @aggymaka9628
    @aggymaka9628 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    glad found this channel 🔥🔥🔥

  • @bonfacemacharia8712
    @bonfacemacharia8712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a 23 yr old just cleared school I'm trying to get a job

  • @ambengwa5723
    @ambengwa5723 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am 29yrs old and single,I'm not rushing into marriage but I want kids and it becomes difficult to have kids as women get older.so am rushing to have kids

  • @nomoremungana4550
    @nomoremungana4550 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you guys your show is very helpful to many

  • @happynethmochere734
    @happynethmochere734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ooh wow what a great talk

  • @suzandumba1592
    @suzandumba1592 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love from 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬 Uganda

  • @tashalindqvist7455
    @tashalindqvist7455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My agemates hve got married and run to me to cool their heads or get own space which has made me double postpone my marriage arrangements......AM SO SCARED😱😱.....my guy wants to get married soon but I keep telling him to wait coz am not ready....he has started to get frustrated and ready to leave........Gosh i can't stand stress......Huh!😰😰😰😰😰 stress is killing me......O.M.G ...he can leave coz i can't breathe. Dating was perfect for me!🙈🙈🤦‍♀️😭😭😭 i can't handle the pressure i swear!🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      God will give you the grace sis try your luck

    • @tashalindqvist7455
      @tashalindqvist7455 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nakamijunic5844 - Thanks for ur kindness swhrt. 💐 I ended everythg and single and calm now. I guess marriage isn't for everyone.😅

  • @ayotadhiambo
    @ayotadhiambo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If they intimidate you, let them go!Look for friends who inspire you instead and hang on to them.

  • @Vanessa2024-y5c
    @Vanessa2024-y5c 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Someone please please please tell me when and at which time Benjamin zulu is hosted on switch TV

  • @akohyvettetv
    @akohyvettetv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wooooooooo. Am so enjoying this video

  • @abdyhussein7881
    @abdyhussein7881 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why do this channel have 338k subscribers ?🤔..People should be learnning from here

  • @annenjoroge9695
    @annenjoroge9695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Run your own race, in your own lane

  • @davina023
    @davina023 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have been totally missing out😯

  • @PatriciaNakabonge
    @PatriciaNakabonge 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wowwww🖤🖤🖤 Thank youuu

  • @lifecoachwithlina1879
    @lifecoachwithlina1879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Benjamin Zulu you're blessed

  • @nkunzemnyama
    @nkunzemnyama 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mageba Ndabezitha 👌👌

  • @El_Finesse
    @El_Finesse 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hawa ndio motivational speakers who talk soap operas lakini kwa ground vitu ni different

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He is a lawyer and also a psychologist, not a motivational speaker. Get the difference

    • @El_Finesse
      @El_Finesse 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bellaolum9768 that’s how I see him and that’s why women are confused taking relationships advice for these kind I see him as a motivational speaker and doctor love kind of guy even though he all that even Bonnie khalwale is a Doctor but he is a professional noise make a politician

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@El_Finesse i recommend you stop watching him.

    • @El_Finesse
      @El_Finesse 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bellaolum9768 take your recommendation to parliament they need it for leadership not me for watching

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@El_Finesse child of God where is anger coming from??

  • @sharongicheru41
    @sharongicheru41 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! wow! wow! This is wonderful

  • @dinafawzy1311
    @dinafawzy1311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    At what age should I marry ?

    • @yourstrulyKe
      @yourstrulyKe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm not an expert but I've found that you'll be ready for marriage when you no longer need to ask that question. Good luck to you 🙏 🙏 🙏

    • @dinafawzy1311
      @dinafawzy1311 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yourstrulyKe I always think that I'll never Marry

    • @yourstrulyKe
      @yourstrulyKe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dinafawzy1311 Then take your Sweeeet time to decide👌

  • @vilmaheslop322
    @vilmaheslop322 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Joyce I am watching from Jamaica, love to listen to Benjamin but I must tell you, you need more time please when other people is on set their time is longer why?

  • @amblessed5034
    @amblessed5034 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waoo very nice this was mine

  • @azariasmercyline9362
    @azariasmercyline9362 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Zulu u r so amazing

  • @MukalaziArnold42348901568963
    @MukalaziArnold42348901568963 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a real one