Major geen lights are not many but they last beyond marriage. They are a good thing. 1. Don't bother about the partners friends or callers 2. Communicate with mature responsible mind all the time 3. Don't ask for sex, discuss it and never ask or imply money matters 4. Discuss values, successes and innovative ideas. 5. How or what you order in a restaurant and which eateries you visit defines the other party. 6. Be you, do not stretch beyond your means. Living modestly 7. Discuss family and relationship with either to gauge attitudes 8. Interrogate each other's past, strengths and weaknesses to see reactions and statuses
Faustina nyambura, good guys are everywhere and in the right market place. It is upto you to locate the market place and they say the rest is history. Love, happiness and peace is all about you and you alone not the other people. I have talked in parables, crack it up!
I have looked ,prayed but I always avoid asking for relationship but wait for a man to ask,most of those who ask are married and I don't like such..I respect marriages as I would too expect.
This show is so insightful! It guides, counsels and consoles. Joyce never give the guest time to flow with his line of thought as per the questions. She interrupts/interjects so much like she has a marking scheme. Let the speaker respond to a question exhaustively.
Am Zambian living in Uk for almost 30years and learning Swahili online. There should be no excuse for Africans if you can access internet anywhere in the world not to learn other African languages. It’s about time we broke theses walls down.
Guys you on fire 🔥🔥 Amazing topic . i don't believe in having one person you can love A soul mate and you get a Twin flame.. have you heard about this?? people can rebuild a new relationship after 2 divorces it's a person's mindset. so people good people will be overlooked with amazing values,and self respect..., because you believe there is this one person that was destined to be with you.
So ati short men dont deserve love wee zulu banaa actualy most successful relationships are from short men coz short men are more faithfull with a tall man you will never have peace ladies hear me oooh
Waaapi my friend I had a short boyfriend and he wasn't faithful at all Faithfulness ain't about physical appearance or financial level, it is all about values and respect. Poor guys cheat as much the rich ones.
Ashley Hartford thank you very much for your honesty ! I was not in love with him either , I just tried to know him and I noticed that he had a lot of past problems for instance; he always blamed his mother and his ex girlfriend those things put me off!
I don't think this is true. In a long term relationship please, both of you must pursue each other and encourage each other. It's a two way road not a one way road.
Both have a role to keep the fire burning, mmoja atafute kuni, mwingine apulizie!! God being the foundation and the cement to unite these two imperfect individuals
For the first time i am relating with this topic,if those points are what depict if smn is the one,then let me continue being positive,gave up on relationship but with these let me be hopeful
I like the topics on your show. However, I'm an American, and wish you would speak English when talking to guess speaker, and they're responses. Thanks...unless your channels content is just for your own people. If so, I guess I'd have to find other English channels. No problem. Good luck to you all.
Wow ave learnt a lot,,, I wish I listened to this like two weeks ago,,, coz right now am going thru hell,,, I need some help guys,,, my guy cheated on me and I feel obsessed over him and stl he flatters with a lot of gals
So sorry for what you are going through but..... RUN!!!!! Be careful my dear, if there is no peace just leave Better a broken gf/bf relationship than marriage which is a lifelong covenant All the best
@@megkarugi9665 at first it's never easy coz you already have a physical and emotional bond that tie you two.... Keep yourself busy with people who will support you or positive things that will distract you for a while as you heal.....I know you can overcome but you have to be willing my dear, I have been there though not exactly like it happened to you Will put you in prayers, God heals but again you have to let him
I have a boy friend who is a baby dad, I really love him but afraid that he might go back to his x coz he talks much about his child when we together. Kindly advise
@@carolinehalima2269 it's because he loves his child so dearly. You should not be worried. Be secure in your relationship and trust him. If he is not talking to about his ex 24/7, then there is nothing to worry about. His child is his pride and joy but you too have a place in his heart.
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I love how Joyce laughs, laughter actually makes her look pretty and classy
I am in the same page with you I really love wen she loves and even the conversation with this guy wah he's such an inspiration.
She is so beautiful...Benjamin kills her with luaghfter🤣🤣
somebody is crushing on Joyce.
This lady is gorgeous x. Lovely hair she got. Benjamin Zulu is such an awesome relationship coach. Bless up
Okay but Joyce has good English ascent 🙌🙌🇲🇼🔥
Hi , next time kindly put the words in typing so that our sisters& brothers who are not able to hear can also get the info .
Major geen lights are not many but they last beyond marriage. They are a good thing.
1. Don't bother about the partners friends or callers
2. Communicate with mature responsible mind all the time
3. Don't ask for sex, discuss it and never ask or imply money matters
4. Discuss values, successes and innovative ideas.
5. How or what you order in a restaurant and which eateries you visit defines the other party.
6. Be you, do not stretch beyond your means. Living modestly
7. Discuss family and relationship with either to gauge attitudes
8. Interrogate each other's past, strengths and weaknesses to see reactions and statuses
Interesting
Im really praying for s genuine man where will i get one
Faustina nyambura, good guys are everywhere and in the right market place. It is upto you to locate the market place and they say the rest is history. Love, happiness and peace is all about you and you alone not the other people. I have talked in parables, crack it up!
@@orapronobisbet6909 plenty of them everywhere. You haven't looked enough!
I have looked ,prayed but I always avoid asking for relationship but wait for a man to ask,most of those who ask are married and I don't like such..I respect marriages as I would too expect.
I really enjoy listening to this show...it's educating many of us
Rich conversations and strong connection...Thank you for that Benjamin
Very true....i once used to chat with a guy infact two of them but the moment i met them face to face, i swear there was no chemistry at all.
I lk Benjamin he is soo humorous can't get bored with his advises 👍👏👏👏👏
the best duo hands down
Thank you so much. So much to learn from you both DAILY
Waooo! This show is fire!!!! Makes me understand more about good relationship
This show is so insightful! It guides, counsels and consoles. Joyce never give the guest time to flow with his line of thought as per the questions. She interrupts/interjects so much like she has a marking scheme. Let the speaker respond to a question exhaustively.
😂😂😂 sis Joyce
She like "let go of wat"
Watching from London and learning alot .
girl your hair is fire😍😍
My thoughts exactly
such helpful info for anyone looking to settle...wish i met this guy before i made a wrong decision
The show is really educative.
Love the show that's a good advise no rushing 🤜🤛
Rich, authentic talk😻
Please guys we like your show speak English a lot we dnt understand Swahili 🙏🙏🙏🙏
very true. I like switch tv, we need subtitles for non Swahilis
We are Africans swahili is ours go and learn it..
@@momodoudem7730 mukoma hakuna swahili teacher kuno kuZimbambwe
@@momodoudem7730 I am behind you
Am Zambian living in Uk for almost 30years and learning Swahili online. There should be no excuse for Africans if you can access internet anywhere in the world not to learn other African languages. It’s about time we broke theses walls down.
nimecheka yangu yote, thank you so much BENJAMIN AND JOYCE
This guy is so funny but he's making alot of sense... Life is not a script ☺.....
Guys you on fire 🔥🔥 Amazing topic . i don't believe in having one person you can love A soul mate and you get a Twin flame.. have you heard about this?? people can rebuild a new relationship after 2 divorces it's a person's mindset. so people good people will be overlooked with amazing values,and self respect..., because you believe there is this one person that was destined to be with you.
Awesome conversation ,watching from Uganda
Hi Adong also from Uganda but am watching from Dubai
@@nakamijunic5844 ,helo nice meeting u here
Wow, love this conversation ❤️❤️❤️
So interesting listening to Zulu, and the smile.
Joyce ur cute natural I love you my dear
Very important info regarding relationships.
Great show as always
Thanks O have learnt a lot from you guys.
Hi I'm in Eswatini plz try to use English I feel we miss some important points
Quality content💛💛
Thanks for teaching.
Thanks to Benjamin Zulu and Joyce.
Good work Mr be Zulu
Good speaking so nice
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wooow..thank you ,this was really awesome
So ati short men dont deserve love wee zulu banaa actualy most successful relationships are from short men coz short men are more faithfull with a tall man you will never have peace ladies hear me oooh
Waaapi my friend
I had a short boyfriend and he wasn't faithful at all
Faithfulness ain't about physical appearance or financial level, it is all about values and respect.
Poor guys cheat as much the rich ones.
Short life matters
look at the character..not the height. your watching their behavior patterns.
@@skymugisha6948 🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
Waooh great counselor
Once a guy who was pretending to love me, called me and said that was too good for him, I think you deserve better man than me! I was speech less
Men fear hurting a good girl he was actualy doing you a favour
BlackGypsyCharm amen 🙏
Girl he was lying he wasn't in love with you🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Ashley Hartford thank you very much for your honesty ! I was not in love with him either , I just tried to know him and I noticed that he had a lot of past problems for instance; he always blamed his mother and his ex girlfriend those things put me off!
Sorry dear
Those time wasters also exists
Great conversations
Choose joy it's a choice
Hhaaa i like Zulu's conversations, sooo funny yet informative
I had a question to day I got the answer thank you Benjamin nd joyce
Men are only supposed to pursue in the early stages. After that it's women who are the ones to pursue. The reality is, attraction is not a choice.
I don't think this is true. In a long term relationship please, both of you must pursue each other and encourage each other. It's a two way road not a one way road.
Both have a role to keep the fire burning, mmoja atafute kuni, mwingine apulizie!! God being the foundation and the cement to unite these two imperfect individuals
This is very intresting
Joyce, I love u darling
For the first time i am relating with this topic,if those points are what depict if smn is the one,then let me continue being positive,gave up on relationship but with these let me be hopeful
I like the topics on your show. However, I'm an American, and wish you would speak English when talking to guess speaker, and they're responses. Thanks...unless your channels content is just for your own people. If so, I guess I'd have to find other English channels. No problem. Good luck to you all.
Interesting
Benjamin yo so wonderful
Wow I like the show
Much love from Kampala UG❤✌
Zulus counselling line please
Where did mwikali go??
I need to advice from Zulu. How do I contact him?
Iam in a relationship where my x keep on spying my phone each and every moment...is it good for him to do so?
No I don't think so. Get more advice from psychologists views on that
Noop. This is a typical character of controllers. They are toxic as hell. You can't act freely around them. They spoil your freedom and entourage.
What are you doing with your X??
If you are not guilty why complain? Let him check he loves you sooo much to miss u
Nope,talk to him about stoping
Wow
Wow ave learnt a lot,,, I wish I listened to this like two weeks ago,,, coz right now am going thru hell,,, I need some help guys,,, my guy cheated on me and I feel obsessed over him and stl he flatters with a lot of gals
are u married to him?
So sorry for what you are going through but..... RUN!!!!! Be careful my dear, if there is no peace just leave
Better a broken gf/bf relationship than marriage which is a lifelong covenant
All the best
Rene Lydia not yet
rosembimo ave tried but nashindwa
@@megkarugi9665 at first it's never easy coz you already have a physical and emotional bond that tie you two.... Keep yourself busy with people who will support you or positive things that will distract you for a while as you heal.....I know you can overcome but you have to be willing my dear, I have been there though not exactly like it happened to you
Will put you in prayers, God heals but again you have to let him
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Trisha Paytas
I have a boy friend who is a baby dad, I really love him but afraid that he might go back to his x coz he talks much about his child when we together. Kindly advise
@@carolinehalima2269 it's because he loves his child so dearly. You should not be worried. Be secure in your relationship and trust him. If he is not talking to about his ex 24/7, then there is nothing to worry about. His child is his pride and joy but you too have a place in his heart.
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