Your EX is a No-Go zone | Don't do it - Benjamin Zulu

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  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Don't forget to subscribe to Switch TV by clicking th-cam.com/users/switchtvkenya

  • @BlackPanther-lt7wr
    @BlackPanther-lt7wr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Am 30, did minimal dating. I have dodged the bullet too many times. My heart has never been broken n have God to thank for. He always warns me before I leave the house, "dont settle," he says.
    Pursuing God at a young age and yearning and learning to hear His voice has been my BIGGEST blessing.

    • @thejont3768
      @thejont3768 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Woow love this

    • @justmo6896
      @justmo6896 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wauw so do I! I'm 32 never settle for less....I feel you on this.

    • @zenajuma2900
      @zenajuma2900 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justmo6896 perfectly said.

    • @miminiss5145
      @miminiss5145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@justmo6896 weirdly am also 32 and have always seen the red flags which I really don’t know if am too much or alot of people try to fake a lot of things in life at a certain age inorder to settle. Bt hey even at this age i will say it’s hard to find a guy with enough pontential.

    • @CinnamonSince
      @CinnamonSince 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      get your hearts broken early...it's a rite of passage because the smooth ones can still get you but it's a good thing you are always on the look out

  • @wamwenjajoyce1063
    @wamwenjajoyce1063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    this part of the show should be compulsory in high schools. I wish people can hear this early in life

  • @collinsonyuka4639
    @collinsonyuka4639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Joyce you are the only person who knows how to have a conversation with Mr Benjamin 😂

    • @J_K_.
      @J_K_. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True😂😂😂

    • @annkiragu8218
      @annkiragu8218 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True 💯

    • @leahkariuki4031
      @leahkariuki4031 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

    • @wanjiruwawachira2239
      @wanjiruwawachira2239 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sure!

    • @nyawiragithae
      @nyawiragithae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes. Been thinking the same thing. I find his conversations better here than with other hosts.

  • @joycendanu2662
    @joycendanu2662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    You cannot be broke and broken at the same time. I'm 21. I can't lose it because i take Benjamin's advice seriously. If wisdom was a person it would be him

    • @lionelleethel6524
      @lionelleethel6524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen im 22.. His advices are just on time

    • @halimazako4019
      @halimazako4019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go sis!!

    • @mackrineshariz3844
      @mackrineshariz3844 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @faith ice 😂😂😂😂 agemate agemate 😂😂😂😂

    • @uzojenny8645
      @uzojenny8645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jesus in him is the wisdom.

    • @gracesybil5940
      @gracesybil5940 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm also somewhere in this age gap..... Beware, take care of your pride girls

  • @blackqueen7710
    @blackqueen7710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Benjamin if you will be judged for your sins in heaven God will secure your heart cz you have saved so many hearts oooh

  • @veronicamahlaba6543
    @veronicamahlaba6543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Mr Zulu you are on fire!!! Thank you from South Africa!!!

  • @zamashezi8497
    @zamashezi8497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    We are sorry Baba Benjamin we shall do better. "Find your calling first before you start taking off your clothes" 🙈

  • @faithnkatha8370
    @faithnkatha8370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    i see the passion Benjamin has for youths. let's listen intently

    • @breathofgod3980
      @breathofgod3980 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really wish people (youths) can listen.

    • @richauntie316
      @richauntie316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For real,I wish I knew him back them,I wouldn't have made the mistakes I made then

    • @hellenahjohnson9661
      @hellenahjohnson9661 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@richauntie316 same here gal

  • @kikikiki3216
    @kikikiki3216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Benjamin is indeed brighter than 24 elders put together.. God bless him. I pray to meet him one day

  • @dorisjessy5960
    @dorisjessy5960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Our Benjamin laughs on his his own jokes

    • @annieo7656
      @annieo7656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @doris be your own cheerleader

    • @dorisjessy5960
      @dorisjessy5960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@annieo7656 kweli kabisa

    • @leahkariuki4031
      @leahkariuki4031 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @justmo6896
      @justmo6896 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ikr😂😂it's ok

  • @fosterchikola1932
    @fosterchikola1932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Doing what he knows best...much love for you Mr Zulu....from Zambia 🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲

  • @salomexz7113
    @salomexz7113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This show is an eye opener for everyone in or out of relationship,,am addicted with it,,,

    • @successguy2311
      @successguy2311 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here, I can't have enough of Benjamin's advice on relationship @22yrs now. I love it so much. Soo much wisdom.

  • @wanyinavybes421
    @wanyinavybes421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Benjamin 💥💥💥💥 those with ears listen🤣🤣🤣 “Choose your struggles”

  • @mandymanhanga6484
    @mandymanhanga6484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Relationship is not oxygen 🤣

    • @sheronluphahla4343
      @sheronluphahla4343 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True my dear

    • @rose_Winchester86
      @rose_Winchester86 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True

    • @roserichard4158
      @roserichard4158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true, I wish we have better understanding, Mr. Benjamin is pure in heart mentor and life coach, I wish I could heard him in my 20

  • @ndangiiipinge1895
    @ndangiiipinge1895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Forgiven under very strick conditions.. 😅😅This man is a whole comedian. But wise too

  • @irenenjeri3544
    @irenenjeri3544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Where were u Benja when we were making mistakess..please take me back in time 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @marygitau8993
    @marygitau8993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Zulu start start a tv programme. You are already blessed. Bless kenya.please

    • @memoikibet
      @memoikibet 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch him on citizen tv on sat 7.30 pm

  • @richauntie316
    @richauntie316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    UGANDANs representative here❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️🙏💜💜💜

  • @jbdebbielish8483
    @jbdebbielish8483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Respect is Minimum
    Leave them those doesn't Value You
    You can't NEGOTIATE RESPECT Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦 🇸🇦 🇸🇦 🇸🇦 WATCHING 🇸🇦 🇸🇦

  • @sarahal-e.5389
    @sarahal-e.5389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love this show; hilarious and candid
    Hello from Saudi Arabia

  • @priscillandungi3958
    @priscillandungi3958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Wow! Benjamin you are the reason I am not dating before 25...you really empower me alot...God bless you.

    • @merie8265
      @merie8265 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Siz we was like you.follow your path.

  • @jemfridahanangwe1152
    @jemfridahanangwe1152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Who's reading the comments fast and enjoying the show at the same time..

  • @ShortSermonsbySandy
    @ShortSermonsbySandy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am very glad I came across Switch TV and discovered Benjamin Zulu on TH-cam. I have learned so much from listening to his wise talks, and he shouldn't stop anytime soon.

  • @harimahug7327
    @harimahug7327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Aaaah Benjamin your too emotional about youth thanks Dia am learning I never thought I can abstain when I went back after my hustle I swear I did it hooooo no more testing thank think b4 marriage yaaamawe am stil pre 25 focus on hustling now days class attract class ❤❤❤ Uganda 🇺🇬

  • @roserichard4158
    @roserichard4158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mr. Benjamin you're truly life coach, mentor and speaks to the heart of truth, I wish all African countries could carry your teachings and knowledge to bring awareness, so pleased and I wish I could hear you growing up for sure I wouldn't be where I'm, keep it up and be blessed

  • @mariasaada2369
    @mariasaada2369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love love love Benjamin Zulu. I pray the Lord keeps you and your word travels far. I beg you not to stop talking. I wish I knew you when I was younger. keep up the good work.

  • @sekesaiful
    @sekesaiful 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely edified and certainly entertained! Really want to commend Joyce and Benjamin on the scriptural wisdom constantly poured out. Such solid truth. Sending greetings and sunshine from the little town of Leeton in eastern Australia 🌞!

  • @glorymichelle9851
    @glorymichelle9851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Woooow! This is amazing! I wish all young people in the world could hear this. It has touched my heart. Thank you so much Benjamin and Joyce for such amazing content! Be blessed.

  • @ruthmuthoni6431
    @ruthmuthoni6431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I wish i listened to such advice some 5 years ago.Anyway,lessons learnt.I wish the young people should know the truth and live accordingly.

  • @stormc4044
    @stormc4044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dr Phil needs to bring benjamin Zulu on his show as a guest therapist 🤣

  • @faithwangui64
    @faithwangui64 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Benjamin is a great blessing to this generation which includes me😅,I thank God for bringing you to us,Just turned 20 and with Benjamin all through my twenties I'm sure right to always make the right decisions in life going forward😊

  • @marionwambui4661
    @marionwambui4661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    please give those who make mistakes hope even after a baby. That girl still has hope......

  • @juliefred5465
    @juliefred5465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OMG! I love this show, learning a lot. Thank you Benjamin Zulu for enlightening some of us on life aspects.God bless.

  • @aallthingsbeautiful
    @aallthingsbeautiful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So much passion, but he is wise " explore your gifts not wasting destiny and putting yourself in positions you have absolutely no business being in"

  • @phathuhildah3524
    @phathuhildah3524 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watching from South Africa and I've been following you since last year. Yohhhh Zulu you are a God sent, I was in an abusive and infedility marriage when I started listening to you and now I left the marriage and I'm healing through your teachings. I wish I met you earlier

  • @lilianmacharia3322
    @lilianmacharia3322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I have been listening to benjamin zulu ... Kila pahali akienda Niko naye kila pahali ... Imagine am happy being single.... Am single... Right now am going back to school instead of thinking of getting married... I said no to relationship ... I cannot be abondened by money , relationship and God... Right now am trying to open a small business , and going back to school... I don't want any relationship except my parent , siblings and friends ... Working on myself now ... I have to be self centered.

  • @joycemiracle1588
    @joycemiracle1588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Respect is the bare minimum

  • @zippileiyok4261
    @zippileiyok4261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Benjamin you are guiding young pple bt also try to help those who are in the trap already may it bcoz they did'nt know

  • @emmanuelmwangi2514
    @emmanuelmwangi2514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mr zulu at it again dropping wisdom on us.God Bless you brother.

  • @olivyafaith1097
    @olivyafaith1097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    From {22:48 - 23:30} Benjamin I concur with you 💯. These things are avoidable! Boys and Girls need to work on their lives before thinking about marriage, baby- making etc. I wish the whole country, no, the whole world could here this!!! Our society need this kind of information, we are lost, and so our children. Please find a way of getting this message across every platform!

  • @valeriesiganga8973
    @valeriesiganga8973 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so glad youtube has landed me here - Learning and laughing at the same time. Thank you Joyce and Benjamin

  • @suzzyakikiakiki7114
    @suzzyakikiakiki7114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Do sales and marketing when you are young. Develop a skill when you are young.
    Remember Pampers is expensive please 😂😂😂😂

  • @princesskinuthia8788
    @princesskinuthia8788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    👏👏Benjamin u were on fire leo 😆😆

  • @pinamwake4912
    @pinamwake4912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Benjamin, be blessed.....you inspire me aloot!!

  • @zoe1870
    @zoe1870 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Benjamin, your correcting energy is GRACE.

  • @lydiahwanjiku1457
    @lydiahwanjiku1457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wooow Benjamin this time you have nailed it🔥..I always watch these videos but I had to comment on this one..I learn a lot from you #My Mentor

  • @trizahdelightfulgardenbakers
    @trizahdelightfulgardenbakers 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow,, Benjamin you are oozing with wisdom. So wise and clear I have really learnt a lot.

  • @faustinamutisya9208
    @faustinamutisya9208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Benjamin... Benjamin that's real knowledge and wisdom 🙌🙌 thumbs up for Benjamin for sharing this 🤯🤯

  • @zoe1870
    @zoe1870 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    BENJAMIN, you are a blessing for today’s try and error generation. I believe in your worming young people not to start with sex.

  • @teresiakibunja7840
    @teresiakibunja7840 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am not a fan of writing comments but for this I must. Benjamin you are a father every child should have. Many sons and daughters get lost somewhere in life for lack of such fathering.

  • @staicykagai400
    @staicykagai400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is awesome.Benjamin I learn alot from knowledge you share with us.

  • @lissajeruu8301
    @lissajeruu8301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Benjamin and joy..ilove this show surely..be blessed

  • @charitypawandiwa8429
    @charitypawandiwa8429 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    yani ...Just speachless. Benjamin Asante Sana

  • @AngeLaure02
    @AngeLaure02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Benjamin.....people shld stop making u mad with their nonsense!!!!!!! This show was fireeee🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @pierrawanjiru3216
    @pierrawanjiru3216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very profound and candid ✅I turned 20 recently and am always intentive On his nuggets of wisdom.

  • @nompenduloshongwe5003
    @nompenduloshongwe5003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Shout out from Eswatini, I love your show, great content !

  • @milkahwanyeki5925
    @milkahwanyeki5925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Benjamin and Jocye Thankyou I really enjoy the show everyday is a learning day Thankyou

  • @estherwaithera9859
    @estherwaithera9859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    joyce, i like your natural hair, anwway done anytime, keep it up girl.

  • @assmanhadi3907
    @assmanhadi3907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks a lot Benjamin. My Respect and Self Estime becomes no1💃💃💃💃

  • @zenajuma2900
    @zenajuma2900 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ooh zulu I wish I knew this 2yrs ago..but its never too late.greet work you are doing..so intelligent

  • @kellielucie909
    @kellielucie909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I always wait for this segment😍😘

  • @aadahmad7753
    @aadahmad7753 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mr Benjamin, God bless you with divine grace and wisdom 🙏 may God almight increase your oil of anointing, am deeply grateful to God for his talented wisdom he bless you with. Am Mary Ben Michael
    Am Nigeria 🇳🇬 citizen,
    All i have to say, God bless you 🙏 and your family and business 🙏

  • @marygachomo4345
    @marygachomo4345 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wisdom is my friend. I get knowledge and Al's understanding. I will never be fooled again. Let them try they will see fire . Thanks Benjamin for this wise council

  • @SylviaLewa
    @SylviaLewa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Aki under 25s ladies and men under 30. Si jokes. No need to get into commitments aki

  • @eunicekithega8313
    @eunicekithega8313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wololo....the house is on fire🔥🔥 please Benjamin don't give up on them even though they charge you alot 😅

  • @pendochristfarian2606
    @pendochristfarian2606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Learning more, good job Joyce en Benja

  • @elsacumbamineses2306
    @elsacumbamineses2306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Benjamin ,this is grate dear

  • @fridahkavumbi1177
    @fridahkavumbi1177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Truth be told ,keep it up, thanks.

  • @damarismuchangi323
    @damarismuchangi323 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uwi! You really getting to me Benjamin.
    Thank you!

  • @ronaldojohn3394
    @ronaldojohn3394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Life is hard with all this temptations in the world

  • @joycemiracle1588
    @joycemiracle1588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Respect is a personal violation

  • @justmo6896
    @justmo6896 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely concur👏he is hilarious😂😂😂

  • @pasilisajerono7409
    @pasilisajerono7409 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for teaching Benjamin and Joyce.

  • @odangapriscah9652
    @odangapriscah9652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sacred dancing 😹😹😹Waaaaaaaaaahhhh... Benjamin aki

  • @mukonazwothemudzanani3729
    @mukonazwothemudzanani3729 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Benjamin 😲😲😲 I'm touched, I'm deeply motivated 🤗🤗

  • @lilianmutiso5915
    @lilianmutiso5915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You always inspire me Benjamin . Made mistake when I was 23 three and got a baby three years ago.Now developing on my career as I plan to get married two years ago.

    • @BlackPanther-lt7wr
      @BlackPanther-lt7wr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless you,, and may He restore the years, Hes faithful

  • @ngangindunge6764
    @ngangindunge6764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    NMS kindly kimbieni switch the studio is on 🔥🔥

  • @judykiondo
    @judykiondo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Benjamin and Joyce wooh learning alot

  • @MJ-uj4dr
    @MJ-uj4dr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Joyce was fire fighting coz Benjamin was on fire! 🔥 🤣😂🤣 Another great segment 👏 👏 👏

  • @CookingwithMagie
    @CookingwithMagie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I liked before watching because I know it is good 😅

  • @liliankamara4208
    @liliankamara4208 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi guys I'm watching you from London I love your program thank you so much👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💜💜💜💜

  • @niyomwungeregloriose7142
    @niyomwungeregloriose7142 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Benjamin and Joyce. I have learned many things from you. May God continue to bless you. I wish to meet you then I can get more. I Love you all

  • @catsofkenya1060
    @catsofkenya1060 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love his energy.

  • @irinejuma6338
    @irinejuma6338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    🤣 Benjamin is🔥🔥🔥🔥true there wasn't cross pollination ✊. Thanks Joyce and Benjamin, the show is full of impact to many people ,I salute

  • @carolasasira3219
    @carolasasira3219 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am listening to you Zulu🤩 thought I am post 25, I made mistakes, God protected me and led me your page. I am listening 🎧. God bless you

  • @wanjikukania2659
    @wanjikukania2659 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The last part got me😆😆😆Benjamin the way he changed his moods aaaaah😆😆😆😆😆😆😆I better listen or else mmmh😆😆😆

  • @petals8437
    @petals8437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hahaha😁😁😁Joyce very funnie benjamin is on 🔥

  • @misswanjiku5268
    @misswanjiku5268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow God bless u 2 ...l will follow your advice as am only 20 n l don't want regrets

  • @catsofkenya1060
    @catsofkenya1060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a pre 25 na nimekuskia wise man.
    I will implement this.

  • @selebwaowen4129
    @selebwaowen4129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, this is intense @Benjamin ,@joyce. This show should be airing everyday @7.30 instead of likes of kina Maria

  • @ikedisuzan7477
    @ikedisuzan7477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow wow Benjamin, this has stuck in

  • @Sunshine-pv5zv
    @Sunshine-pv5zv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I had stumbled onto Benjamin before I was 25

  • @moreblessingmushohwe6506
    @moreblessingmushohwe6506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    hahaha😂😂 "Brighter than 24 elders put together", I couldn't agree more! I've never thought of a better commentary whenever I watched these shows! Yes, Benjamin!!!!

  • @kristinewaithaka2947
    @kristinewaithaka2947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    There's a reason why they're called X! Don't go there.

    • @paul8ish
      @paul8ish 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Find the X

  • @bridgitanyande9430
    @bridgitanyande9430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You cannot be abandoned by men, money and God🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @mercymwangi907
    @mercymwangi907 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Benjamin on fire on this episode🤣🤣

  • @qudramopao5646
    @qudramopao5646 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good work Mr Benjamin

  • @njerimax222
    @njerimax222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hahaaa i love it when he gets mad..laughing loudly then realised i was alone

  • @hdeegithinji2191
    @hdeegithinji2191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Benjamin we're sorry eeeeiiiyyy😂😂😂please please this man has preached it enough!!! Those with ears let them listen otherwise stop making mistakes and complaining choices have consequences