Reddit Flirting Tips for Success

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  • @susanolsan9761
    @susanolsan9761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Not me learning social skills through reddit stories on TH-cam

    • @dachizzle
      @dachizzle 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me and you buddy

  • @ryancallsin
    @ryancallsin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    “So. I. Shook. Her. Hand. Goodnight”
    Hahaha as someone who once awkwardly high fived a girl goodbye, i feel for this. I still remember it every so often and cringe.

  • @colintosh5417
    @colintosh5417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    A tip is to give someone sincere compliments and to actually listen to them when they are telling you something, people like it when someone is genuinely interested in what they have to say

  • @nxn8148
    @nxn8148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    There was this time when I was in year 7 when me and this girl had been talking for hours over text and irl every day, we laughed at each other's jokes and made eye contact even though we're both really socially awkward. We would both ask the other person loads of follow-up questions. Basically, there were all the signs, and it almost seemed like we were unofficially dating. Now, I was just a stupid year 7, remember. So I was considering asking her out, when literally the day before I was gonna make my move and ask her out, I found out she had a partner. Puberty sucks.

    • @fienevandijk7224
      @fienevandijk7224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I feel like you deserve a like for providing such a simlle yet beautiful example of friendliness and flirting
      Not that I'd know, being a (probably) aroace female who has mostly guy friends. I typically have a fairly friendly demeanour, so I'll smile and try to find moments of touch. I'm afraid to make people awkward though, by making them have the wrong idea.
      I've had this one friend who my spider sense told me is into me. He seems to look at me and (try to) hang out with me a lot, which we do sometimes, eventhough we're in different academic years. When we knew eachother for a few months or so he even asked me if I wanted to come over tomorrow, which I couldn't because of some extracurricular activity, which he felt really embarrassed about. I figured (well, only now really) that he must've had collective embarrassment about basically asking me out.
      And then there's this guy who asked me to go to dinner with him. I missed what I think was an intense hint (I even remember him being quite nervous and stumbling when asking this question).
      Again, I'm just stating this so people know I am 100% oblivious and unsure of romantic hints and really shouldn't be taking my opinion as fact. I'm still friends with friend A and B, and I still have yet to get any conformation, so if you're a flirting expert feel free to judge (and maybe ask some questions for more details of the situation)

  • @kcnl2522
    @kcnl2522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She: * looks at me*
    Me: What the fuck is you looking at?

  • @ogvelociraptor205
    @ogvelociraptor205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This Velociraptor will bring His game when going to the club with His posse of Velociraptors

    • @misscyanic2484
      @misscyanic2484 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ooo, see you there >wink

    • @sanjabanjac2844
      @sanjabanjac2844 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      4

    • @Sniper_4_Life
      @Sniper_4_Life 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Actually this is a Deinonichus not a Velociraptor, but because jurassic park messed up the name and never bothered to correct it in any way there is a far spread misconception regarding the name.
      Source: I'm a nerd and fan of paleontology (sience wich explores extinct animals and ecosystems)

  • @juanarocha8629
    @juanarocha8629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You know you have real friends when they root for you

  • @SamBrickell
    @SamBrickell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The mirroring thing can be insanely 100% true.

  • @bison4946
    @bison4946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Seeing this video made me realize I accidentally flirt with everyone

  • @SilverFoxSpirit97
    @SilverFoxSpirit97 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    About the eye contact thing, I will say, as someone on the spectrum, that doesn't always mean anything. I physically cannot make prolonged eye contact with anyone no matter how I feel about them. So I was flirting with someone that's definitely not a thing I would be doing.

  • @obesefloppa6032
    @obesefloppa6032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thanks I just found out the gurl who I had a massive crush on was flirting with me but I was too oblivious to realize and now I moved 3 states over

    • @obesefloppa6032
      @obesefloppa6032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girl*

    • @judas9694
      @judas9694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well it probably wouldn't have worked out in the end if you moved

  • @thisguy9536
    @thisguy9536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The first one was simple and obvious, but at the same time the most brilliant shit ever

  • @storyvi9530
    @storyvi9530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have a stutter and a twitch in the face. My eye mostly and I am a woman. Sometimes ppl think I am winking at them. Sometimes it's embarrassing, sometimes funny and other times creepy if they start winking back.

  • @perialis2970
    @perialis2970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    how to flirt 101
    - make some homies
    - flirt with them
    - get better a flirting
    - be gay

  • @AwkwardLey
    @AwkwardLey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Dang I flirt with my boyfriend a lot, I wonder if he’s interested…😂imma ask him out

  • @kiratheelf772
    @kiratheelf772 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There's someone I have in mind. Watching this both because I kinda got a nudge they may like me, and also to figure out ways that I can flirt until a good time to pursue something lol
    (they're the assistant director for a play I'm currently in. I'm not gonna actually ask them out at least until the show is over, to maintain some state of professionalism lol)

  • @rulerepitaph655
    @rulerepitaph655 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly I tell the people I enjoy being around (Friends) "You are absolutely horrid (in a joking way)" or something along those lines, but for the girls I 100% like, I say "I would snap my own neck, if you so asked."
    I wonder why I have 0 women to talk to.

  • @AlextonBBQ
    @AlextonBBQ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Time to take notes

  • @top_banananaplays
    @top_banananaplays 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chaa chaa real smooth

  • @thahzjj1
    @thahzjj1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cinnamon Toast Crunch is bomb asf

  • @baewiz5238
    @baewiz5238 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There was a time where I was drinking at a motel with people from around thhe world (we all came down to perform at thhis festival) amd thhis girl came up to me telling me to come up to her room,she was reallyy attractive all the guys were eyeing her. The guys immediately started hyping me up then she was like so u coming with me or no? and I was like "im here to party"(meaning let's do it) and she was like ok and left me alone and the boys said I was a legend for turning her down like that .________.😢😢

  • @collinevans4473
    @collinevans4473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The one guy said if you think there's a chance go for it.
    Me: If I go for it I'll probably get smacked

  • @daddyslittlevirgin9570
    @daddyslittlevirgin9570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i’m a very flirty person, so naturally i do a lot of these flirty things.. so the guy i like is probably thinking that i’m always like this with everyone, and even tho i am, i’m a little more with him. buttt homecoming is coming up, he needs a date, i need a date. it might work out !!

  • @muurrarium9460
    @muurrarium9460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for "most of this stuf here is just people being friendly" -> WORD!
    I am getting so sick and tired of people assuming I am flirting with them, just because I happen to be nice to them or interested in what they say. Just sad to think that the world in general is about treating each other with cold or annoyed indifference, so when you get an ounce of 'normal, decent, human interaction' it is perceived as special or even flirtatious.
    Yes, of course I am interested in what you have to say and how you feel, but that does not mean I want to take you home!

    • @riftgaming6916
      @riftgaming6916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I 2nd this. I'm nice to everyone as I enjoy being a nice person.

    • @SamBrickell
      @SamBrickell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Please stop whining.

    • @muurrarium9460
      @muurrarium9460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SamBrickell it's called "commenting" not "whining". I am not blaming anyone or asking for sympathy, just describing something that happens. There are a lot of lonely, desperate people out there that misinterpret signals, I am not blaming them (I understand where it comes from) even if it is very annoying.

  • @KrunchyTheClown78
    @KrunchyTheClown78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What's sad, is that not one woman has ever engaged in anything with me. Women never even acknowledge my existence.

    • @NotUnique_
      @NotUnique_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As a woman who have had multiple crushes on dudes that knew for a fact that they were single , i didn't made a move cause society told me it was the man job to make the first move... assuming you are a guy so maybe that's the case with you too
      I don't believe in that sht anymore but that was a hard lesson to learn

    • @KrunchyTheClown78
      @KrunchyTheClown78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@NotUnique_ Yup, society says the man should always make the first move, but that is far harder to do if you are a guy, chances are, you'll be shot down, or get a very negative reaction, like oh god no!. If a girl wants to ask a dude out, just do it, the chances of a woman getting rejected by a guy are far lower than a guy getting rejected by a woman.

    • @NotUnique_
      @NotUnique_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KrunchyTheClown78 i totally agree.. men have it hard and we live in a time where guys are expected to do everything, picking up females and making the first move and paying for the dates and providing etc etc.
      With that being said and regardless of the gender i feel like making the first move and getting rejected is better than doing nothing and waiting for the other person to do all of that.. when I decided to do something about it and got rejected twice i felt shitty and unworthy of love yet somehow relieved because I did it and the rejection played a huge part in figuring out what i really want in my SO
      And now i kinda feel like yeah it's painful but it's not e entirely my fault you know what I mean?

  • @storyvi9530
    @storyvi9530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I only joke flirt. Usually with guys at work whom I know have a sense of humour and enough brains to know I am not serious.
    I'll whisper things such as "I'm on the pill now" or "my rash is gone" etc.
    Serious flirting? I honestly have no sexuality. Not attracted to men or women. Been single and celibate for years.

    • @tomhawks6408
      @tomhawks6408 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🧢

    • @hostileenvironment6107
      @hostileenvironment6107 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ripppppp, screw that finding a connection with a twin flames kind of what I’ve been seeking of late. Just hard with the whole pandemic.

    • @dogestep64
      @dogestep64 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But why even flirt if you know you're not going anywhere with them that's just leading people on

    • @storyvi9530
      @storyvi9530 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dogestep64 Nope. Joke flirting. With those that understand it's a joke.

  • @isaiah_1-
    @isaiah_1- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i failed

  • @mm-uj2ff
    @mm-uj2ff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm early, yay

  • @quandavioustinglebottomqau1203
    @quandavioustinglebottomqau1203 ปีที่แล้ว

    God blessssssssssesseeees

  • @monsolympus7823
    @monsolympus7823 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ugh oyy damn

  • @michaelowino228
    @michaelowino228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    2nd

  • @ata864
    @ata864 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just be Chad