I never think my daydreams would win oscars but my highly invested dreams would. I’ve ever laugh so hard I woke up and running so fast I stood up from laying😂
Don't fight it.. I just found out it's "normal" So there's that.. 😅😁 TBH I really wouldn't feel "normal" not doing that.. Besides, if Google desides people are just the worst, we INFPs might actually be spared for all the pleases and thank yous 😂
I could win a gold medal for day -dreaming. I’ve coupled that with a brain that over-analyses everything and you’ve got the traditional INFP procrastinator 😀
Timestamps: 0:43 - the day dreamer 1:35 - the sensitive artist 2:38 - the idealistic reformer 3:39 - the people pleaser 4:36 - the free spirit 5:50 - the overthinking philosopher 6:48 - the social chameleon 7:50 - the conflict avoider
Sometimes I think if everyone in the world were INFPs, environment would heal instantly. But human species would go extinct because everyone would be scared of dating anyone 😊
My emotions aren’t like an open book, If anyone asks what’s wrong I will not tell them unless they can somehow make me. I will always hide all my emotions because it will either burden someone else for them to know or it will make me feel more vulnerable. Some people don’t think I have that much emotion because of how much I hide. I even hide it from myself so I don’t feel dramatic, and I never cry unless an animal dies in a movie. Just kidding I have cried before for something else as well just not that often.
I feel the same...hiding emotions seems like it became a habit, I only show vulnerability to someone who cares. At some point, theres this doubt if am I even an infp because I used to cry when I hear someone talk something bad about me. But now, I do feel pain but I hide it because if I cry that will just prove them that I'm weak. So when I'm around people, I've develop this I don't give a fuck attitude, even some friends says I'm nonchalant but my true friends know how I'm not. I care about everything and I always overthinks.
Im so glad I'm not alone. I always thought it was just me, and that I was afraid of vulnerability. I wonder how I could comfort people and tell them it's okay to show emotions, but why I restrain myself from it? Until I realized that I was just dealing with my own emotions. Sometimes, people won't understand me so just adapt instead of forcing them to react a certain way. I sometimes think "eugh, just let them grow." And I go to comfort myself I love how I love myself 😘 I always comfort myself when I feel so heartbroken. I know it's a bonus, but knowing how to share emotions is essential for relationships.
INFPs are always shown to be overly sensitive online, right? That's the majority when you look at memes and stereotypes. Truth is, we can deal with our own emotions. Hiding them may be unhealthy, so of course there should be moderation. Just nevermind all those and continue living, learn to grow while supporting yourself too.
4w5 & 9w1 - the day dreamer 4w5 - the sensitive artist 6 - the idealistic reformer 9w1 - the people pleaser 4w5 - the free spirit INFJ lol - the overthinking philosopher 4w5 & 9w1 - the social chameleon 9w1 - the conflict avoider Probably wrong with some of those Ennegram/INFP pairings, but my stab at it. :)
I'm not lying to you if I say THIS VIDEO TOTALLY EXPOSED ME! I'm honestly all of them especially the idealistic reformer, overthinking philosopher and the free spirit.
I'm glad I happened upon this video because I'm a daydreamer, my oldest daughter (32) is an idealist reformer, and my younger daughter is a sensitive artist (30). My older daughter was very difficult to be around since early on, but my younger daughter was sweet when young (she's now a terror). I used to be some of the other types of INFP, but at 61, I just want peace.
Nice to see a real explanation of how INFPs work. Social chameleon, conflict avoider, sensitive artist,...I can be all these things plus INTP plus ENTP plus ENFJ plus ISTP and more...I like having that noticed. Just you wait, once I start making MBTI content you're up for a challenge on 'who can explain INFPs better' ;)
I’m a little of each it seems. Mostly free spirited and over thinkers. This is so interesting to me. I just days ago discovered I’m infp. I’ve never heard of such a thing until my wife made me take the test. I’ve been really drained lately with life. I had no idea others weren’t like me. It’s nice to know that there’s just different categories of people (personalities). I’m especially struggling because I was badly abused as a child by a step dad. I grew up very lonely and turned to heavy drugs. Went in and out of jail up until I met a girl who helped me get away from bad people. I still would drink and get High feeling lost like something was wrong with me. I had a lot of inner pain and bitterness. I eventually found myself talking to God wondering was he actually real. I soon found that he is. I’m now apart of a wonderful church where I have had much healing but there has still always felt like I had major problems. I couldn’t stop the negative voices in my head and crazy vivid imaginations. The imaginations I have are not pretty butterflies they are related to my past. They are dark and scary. I’ve seen crazy things like my grandpa coming up from hell and dragging me there with him. Grandma stabbing me with a fork in my face. Now being in church I don’t have those kind of fearful imaginations or dreams. It’s mostly now like trying to be ahead of someone else . I want to be prepared at all times. I have imaginations like what if someone were to break in my house. I can see me and them fighting or I just shoot them. It’s crazy lol Anyway I’m thankful that now I’m learning boundaries and I don’t have to think on these things. I’m learning to immediately turn my mind to something else when I feel fearful thoughts . If you’ve ever had any trauma in your life as you let Jesus heal your heart I find my mind is not as troubled as before. I’m still pursuing healing. It’s been about 6 years now consistently fighting for a better me. You wouldn’t believe how far God has brought me
I'm a blend of several types but especially the artist, as I've been involved in visual arts most of my life, but recent years have been learning music. Big problem for INFP and music, we don't like routine! With music you need to practise most days, and that's where I struggle! But.....I haven't given up!! Interesting video! 👍👏🎶
I am day dreamer, idealistic reformer (not perfect 🙈), overthinking philosopher and conflict avoider. And realy want to be free spirit 😍🤩 Thank you for teaching me, how (and why) to love myself 😊
I become somewhat of a conflict avoider + social chameleon when around people I don't know that much, a free spirit + sensitive artist (sometimes) when around people I do know pretty well, somewhat of a people pleaser when someone asks me to do something (that doesn't go against my morals), I am an idealistic reformer when I'm inside my head but too afraid to talk to people about it, and I am ALWAYS a daydreamer and overthinking philosopher.
Welcome to the club! Now start using that philosophical overthinking to factually criticize *everything* we have been told about the world by official authorities. With strong ethical undercurrents in the overthinking of course. Return to me when you have found some of the blatant and vile falsehoods taken for granted in this video, and pushed not only as truth, but as ethical, by those shaping the opinion of mainstream culture. Then we might talk. Have a nice day! ☺️💖🙏🏼
I think most of INFPs have the mixed of the categories. We are unique in our way. I personally a nice INFP but can be extremely rude to those people who stand against my political view. 😂❤
It's important to have a political view nowadays. Cuz people of politics made the decisions. Whether they'll start the war or to stop it, how they use the tax money, how they can fix the public facilities. If you have big empathy towards human, you most likely have political view, not just general belief, like religion or chose to belive in alien or something
@@diansapuart pretty sure 99.8% INFPs aren't into anything (even remotely close to) political... It's probably more of a xSxJ type of thingy... Are you sure you're INFP? 😕😬 We do have political standpoints, but we just don't care... I think we're more likely to have religion and believe that aliens exist rather than caring about politics lmao
@diansapuart pretty sure 99.8% don't care about anything (even remotely close to) political... Are you sure you're INFP??!! 😕😬 Like I mean..... I can't imagine myself or my folks caring about trivial, worldly matters, lol. It's probably xSxJ types who cares about these things... We do have political standpoints though... We just don't care about it lol We're more likely to have religion and believe that aliens exist rather than caring about political views lmao
I’m the sensitive artist (I think it also comes in hand with the day dreamer) and the overthinking philosopher. It’s so interesting that once someone called my a peacock who hides away, “peacock with anxiety” tells it all. I can be a social cameleon too, although I don’t consider it my greatest trait and I don’t switch as easily as you described in this video😂
Im definitely the daydreamer, the protester, the free spirited, the overthinker,the conflict avoider ( unless it's something that i really need to speak up on). I can also be a people pleaser, but I have learned to say no somtimes.
I love how every person in the comments feels that they have a little bit of everything, I'm definitely a social chameleon, a daydreamer, a people pleaser and a conflict avoider
Okay wow... I feel like your a fly on the wall in my house, for starters I talk for my dog and she has her own voice... I was legit just thinking about like hmmm have we really discovered all the colours on planet earth?? I’m always staring out my window that being my room or a car window. I CAN DEF related to the sensitive artist too, I write poetry and have always been so shy to share it with a lot of people. and FINALLY seeing liability on the playlist was the cherry on top... That is my cry song lolz. Read me like a book! 😂💀 But honestly I feel like I've been a little of each of these types at some point in my life thus far, and its cool to see this model explaining the types and characteristics that come along with it! Really enjoyed the video!
Infp here. Same i have been all these infps particularly when i was younger and so unsure of myself. Now i tend to not care what people thing, more confident walking in public, more vocal and expressive about what i want. I can be viewed as rude, selfish, bit loopy, clumsy, over sensitive and quick to be triggered and moody, dreamer still but at least now i am able to change gears and get on with reality while still having my sanctuary within. Balance is really the key for infps. Earn your want to be slothful. Its much more satisfying. And do seek conflict. Robert greene is a most for empowering infps as he is one 😊
Yes, most species of animals, used as pets by humans, talk in complex ways, that we humans may empathically reinterpret in human language, for their sake. This includes dogs, cats, horses, parrots, grass snakes, even elephants, monkeys and dolphins.
And yes, there are countless of different colours between the colours in a palette. And also, there are countless of different notes between the notes in a scale. Just like there are more than 50 shades of colour, so there are more than 50 shades of sound. We are seldom satisfied with the 8 color W-R-G-B-C-M-Y-K palette, why should we be satisfied with the 12 tone C-C#-D-Eb-E-F-F#-G-G#-A-Bb-B scale? Microtonalism and ethnical xenharmonicity is the future of music, just like impressionism and symbolical surrealism is the future of art.
These were fantastic, well done! i laughed so much, I am a blend of most, I have learned to say no but I mostly say sorry to things when I drop them and or when I hurt myself I’d say sorry fingers, sorry toes I love you 😂😊
In terms of the specific types in this video… I am: The daydreamer (it’s just basically what happens when I should be paying attention, when I have to retreat into my shell, when I’m idle, when I’m going to sleep [but I’m being kept awake by my thoughts], etcetera. Daydreaming is quite the word to describe my daily life.) Sensitive artist (add autistic masking to that and you have a perfect recipe for self isolation) People pleaser (Only a little but: I don’t care about the opinions of strangers, or the masses. And I don’t care about fitting in with people I know don’t suit me. But I do care about the opinions of people I actually care about. That’s where people pleasing can happen. I do like taking care of people a bit. Filling people’s cups with water, or fetching something when I’m asked to. I thought those were were general acts of kindness when I was a little younger. I don’t feel like even get exploited for that or anything. Overthinking philosopher (I have a lot of random info in my head, though most of it revolves around my special interests. As a writer, I use that medium to tackle personal/broad questions. Sometimes I do come up with the random questions out of left field: Could the Efteling [biggest theme park in the Netherlands] be its independent country? [I came up with that one because the park’s surface area is bigger than Vatican City, therefore it would not be the world’s smallest country.]) Conflict avoider (Decision paralysis or being good with any option are too relatable to me. Especially the former. Almost every decision causes decision paralysis. I don’t want conflicts with people, to the point of isolation, which in itself can cause conflict [task failed successfully?!] In a lot of cases, people can walk all over me in this department. But not always. Not when it really matters. And in that case, remember that I’ve had kickboxing lessons.)
@@lisadicaire871Nice! Both the MBTI and autism aspects of looking at my personality/people’s personalities have become something of a special interest.
I am infp and reckon i have something on spectrum, adhd or something. I get too overwhelmed by my home. Working out techniques to do work, actually get up, and not sacrifice my relax time. Also extremely forgetful if i dont write things down especially with two kids. I can get distracted and half do things a leave things not remembering i left it there. Yikes. Over sensitive and emotional. Plus im a Scorpio on cusp of Sagittarius. Its funny how all these archetypes kind of align. Im learning still but damn i am sooo slow. Hate being rushed even though i know I have to do things a little bit quicker. God damn it infp personality you be the death of me or my saviour im not sure which one yet lmao 😅
@@jarmoliebrand2005same. Tested as infp three times and i was gobsmacked there are others of similar mind and struggles. I am delving into personality types, psychology and awareness, all driving my quest and passion for relationships, the meaning to the universe, and the human condition. Sci fi was my big drive and writing for a long time. Funny how while infps do differ from individual to individual we all kind of follow similar interests or traits. So interesting. 😊
I am the overthinking philosopher most of the time ... I try my best to make people question things about their lives, trying to change the world ... also I'm an artist and also a writer with un-finished novel :) thanks for you video , thanks for seeing us (INFPs) deeply . things are very complicated about us and we are often misjudged ...
I had a hard time picking which one I was. And then at the end, he said “you might be this type on Wednesday and then another on Thursday, and another on Friday… “and then I was like YES that’s the one! 😂
I’m the daydreamer, overthinking philosopher, idealist, social chameleon, and a bit of sensitive artist & people pleaser ALL AT ONCE. I wish I was the free spirit too. I figured out the meaning of life in the shower once, but I question my identity every month and spend a lot of my free time having imaginary conversations to figure out how to say a specific concept right with the least words so I don’t take up space or ever confuse people. 💜
ADHD INFP-A Definitely a daydreamer my entire life. People-pleaser--I find that goes with the mediator role--feels more like information gathering to me however learning to say, "no" is difficult, because I am the only one who could possibly help. Overthinking philosopher goes hand-in-hand with my daydreaming. Conflict Avoidance 😂 see people pleaser...
Maybe it changes during our lifetimes, I used to be a dreamer, then the world-saver. Now I'm mostly free spirit and philosopher (which I guess I always was to some extent). Never people pleaser or social chameleon. It might be my limited knowledge, but I thought these would be iNFJs mistyped as INFPs. Early life trauma leads to conflict avoidance, but this can happen to any type, though particularly the sensitive ones - not an INFP trait, but sensitivity certainly is.
This explains a lot. Often these differences get mushed together randomly in descriptions and I end up doubting that I am an INFJ. I see bits of myself in all the types but i know that outwardly I do not match all these subtypes. In the end I can see the Daydreamer as being where I am at often, the overthinking philosopher is also quite close, but I have always felt guilty that I am not more of a people pleaser or social pleaser. I know too that the conflict avoider is something my friends wish I were more often. However, I do definitely see that I have been ALL these types depending upon the occasion.
It´s okey, same for me. In fact, its common that INFJ thinks is INFP, because theyre similar in a lot of things. But the cognitive functions are too different
love this ❤ thank you ❤ i‘m a blend of all of them, some stronger than the other depending on the day and my mood but also changing over the years as i live and grow ❤
I'm definitely a mix😂😂 day dreamer, sensitive artist, people pleaser, kind of a free spirit, overthinking philosopher and I guess social chameleon, rarely an idealistic reformer unless it's a very very very important cause. And surprisingly almost never a conflict avoider :D
I think I'm the free spirit thse most, why not I really one of my favourite sentences... But, I also have The Idealistic Reformer in me, and overthinking philosopher 😅 (Btw, I love your sense of humour so much! I can't help😂
Finally someone made a video on this, for some weird reason after finding out I’m an infp, I would see a good amount of people portraying it as “gloomy, emo, etc” when I’m the optimistic, smiley, and wanting self-growth infp 💕. Im so fortunate for this since I want to be this way. I see myself as the people pleaser and yes, the apologizing to things is something I’m bound to doing. I guess I am also the overthinking philosopher who could speak for HOURS about random topics 😅. Oh yeaa and social chameleon could portray me too
I think I'm a bit of all of those types, but I do believe the "Overthinking Philosopher" applies to me most. Love your video! It was insightful and funny! 😄👍💜
INTP here. I feel you though. I can definitely see myself in this quite a lot. I remember my aunt who is a coach having me take a test and being surprised that I wasn’t INFP.
Sitting cutely somewhere between Daydreamer, sensitive artist, and Philosopher, and all I have to show for it are some tarot decks, fairy/dragon Knick-knacks, and crippling existential dread.
Funny you should mention one of the spirit animals is a penguin in a tuxedo - one of my favorite Sanrio characters is Tuxedo Sam, who is literally a dapper penguin. I feel like I might have a little bit of each INFP type in my, but in varying quantities.
I literally start imagining final destination shit every time I go out. It's like my brain starts creating its own simulation game and my god they are epic. Like once I was inside the station and I started thinking if the train rammed to the wall and the world suddenly gets invaded by aliens then I would probably have to kill to be alive right? Then what should I use to kill, I have a bracelet will it work? Or should I hide and follow the train tracks while everyone is busy fighting😅😅😅😅
Infj here, been absolute soulmates with an infp for 5 going on 6 years and he's just an absolutely beautiful being and the most sweetest person I know.
I love it! Though the people pleaser and social chameleon subtypes are a bit unrealistic. Infps are fi doms and the first one displays zero fi like seriously, meanwhile the second one doesnt only show no fi but is the actual epitome of FE. Anyways, very nice idea tho, I enjoyed it :)
lol I can somewhat relate to all of these yep As for why I have "many personalities", the reason is two: - I have to reduce my personal essence to whatever group I interact with in order to fit in well enough (but I typically still prefer to be at the edge, maximizing myself to the extent possible - I love to be creative, so to "roleplay" or "pretend" is simply a part of what I consider to be personal. As if I am Mew, changeing my appearence into different pokemon because that's who I am, creative. And also - I might find things I like in those pretendings that I can also add to my more firm personality. My personality is like a song with firm base structure, but the surface of the tune is flexible and artistic
Free-spirit most of my life (moved to Japan 3 times 😅… the next time is the last time i swear!… probably.) also used to be a flight attendant so that helped with the wander-lust. I think i’m more of the Over-thinking philosopher now which suits my career change to psychotherapist quite well. Keep being sweet my INFP fairy friends! 🧚
We are all a mix. I'm daydreamer, free spirit (I really don't care of what people say about me), philosopher a little and the conflict avoider without doubt. Pride to be an INFP 😊
I'm a sensitive artist, overthinking philosopher, people pleaser, and conflict avoiding infp . On good days I'm a non-sensitive artist and a free spirit infp though
I think timestamping each type would make your videos a lot friendlier. Also, it does seem that all of these are one INFP, but they're different levels of healthy. -An older INFP. 0:44 Daydreamer 1:33 Sensitive Artist 2:38 Idealist Performer 3:38 People Pleaser 4:33 Free Spirit 5:46 Overthinking Philosopher 6:46 Social Chameleon 7:49 Conflict Avoider
It's so frustating. All of the contents always potrayed INFP-A. So this make ENFJ ex bf thinks INFP is just sunshine and rainbows that must be protected. I mean only follow him and not able to think for a second. He dislike critics or feedbacks. I mean sure your schedules looks good. But why I can't say anything about it. INFP is not all the same. I am INFP-T and look like an INTP. This make me stressful. When I join an INTP but still the dumbest amongst them. Suddenly one of them asks the other bro, "why suddenly being idealistic and too much FEELINGS?". So I snapped out a bit and left the room. But when I join the INFP gangs, these sisters say that I am being rational a little bit and less creative than them. So, I left the chat room. But when I join INFJ gangs, it feels so lonely. I can't predict anything like an INFJ. Nobody talking. When I open up, one of them says I am too open. So I stopped talking a lot. It's weird. I am an alien. It's like when I am put status as INFP T (5w4), these bullies (estp, entp, enfp) like to trolls me. If you not like an INFP, just leave me alone. So the wing 5 only belong to the thinkers and INFP can't use their brain? 🤔 I hate stereotypes videos about INFP. It's ridiculous. You know I wanna help them. My heart say let's go but my brain push me away and say no. I need to recharge in empty room bcs my energy level on social battery keeps getting low. I am not an INFJ bcs I can't predict things. So an INFJ can be logical but INFP can't be logical even just a little bit. Wth with these bullies. 🥲
I'm definitely a mix of most of them ahahah. I don't really identify with the artist one for example, but you said some things I could say about myself. The conflict avoider and adaptability are two things I like 100% identify with though ahhaahah
Out of all, I think the overthinker INFP suit me best. When someone speaking to me about something, I wish there is a keyboard with me to stop and type on google or something. To find out what is the meaning behind those words and what to say in a better way. Therefore, I will not cause harm or being ignored. It can be also be conflicts avoidant. But I am more about the overthinker. It's not bcs I am smart person. But I just don't want to get in trouble anymore or be a leech to others. When speaking to someone, I usually not able to be in the present moment. But after further engagement, I can feel familiarity with something called patterns. I always wonder what kind of personality is the one speaking to me rn. What to do and what they mean. I wanna know what other people think or their perspective about me. Only when I find out, I distancing myself. They are toxic or disrespectful while I keep being polite to them. You see. In this world. So many ppl dislike being judge. They want power and control others. They like critics other people. They want to say whatever they think it's best based on logical mindset. However, this is not the same for INFP when speaking to them using Fi. They simply can't understand and not able to accept it. Disregard INFP Ideas and input due to morals. It's too illogical and makes them think INFP is just dumb. While I think they are evil or robotic. So stoic that I must be careful to be close around this kind of person. They call me sensitive. While they don't want me to speak. When force to speak, they cut me out and said it's too much feelings. Mostly S & J letter on it. "Oh yes. you are INFP. You know what? You all are hyper sensitive babies. NT is better to communicate and hang around than you. It feels uncomfortable to talk anything with you." Well guess what? Me, too. You guys want me to be a listener. Ask feedback but not able to be tolerance and respectful. I don't really like being around people who not have the same interest and not believe in God. Many of these so called thinkers aren't really religious, not have religion, and like arguments over small bullshit stuffs on other religions. That is stupid. It's like talking to a wall. I am not freely to be open around this people who are so materialistic and money is their God. Inside of them is just empty. Nothing valuable other than I GET UP, I GO TO WORK, I GO HOME, I GO TO SLEEP. REPEAT. It's sad. They seek happiness from money. Only money can satisfied them. They are born for money. Nothing else. For me, I chase God and money comes to me. But they don't like it.
I guess I'm a bit of everything lol, but the types that are the most dominant are the daydreamer, sensitive artist, overthinking philosopher and conflict avoider. Free spirit as well, in the way that I hate feeling tied down, and if someone tries to forcefully holds me back, physically or not, my automatic response is to nope tf away. 😂 But I think that if I had the money to travel, I'd defs spend a lot of time around the world ❤
When I was younger I used to be the idealistic reformer, as I grew older I turned more into the artist type. Aaaand ofc I got a lil splash of everything else
i'm like a mix of all of these, and the extent to which i am any one of these varies, like i used to be a dreamer dominantly, then more of a sensitive artist and now...not sure, just an infp i guess! :D
#1 conflict avoider With daydreamer, people pleaser, sensitive artist and overthinking philosopher (studying philosophy xD) And I wish I could bring a bit more free spirit into my life - but i'm kinda stuck here 😅
I'm a mix of the daydreamer, the sensitive artist, the people pleaser, the overthinking philosopher, the social chameleon and the conflict avoider in order of occurrence. I have no freaking idea what I am 😅
I have been every one of these in my lifetime 😂 currently sitting comfortably as The Dreamer, Sensitive Artist, Free Spirit, Over-thinking Philosopher…with a touch of Social Chameleon😅
Im a daydreamer. Half the time, im thinking about characters from stories that had tragic ends and hoped someone saved them. The only way to cheer me up a little from that ending.
☆Thank you for being so Kind to See us!♡ A mix, 1st and Foremost of The Free Spirit & The OverThinking Philosopher. In a safe environment: The Daydreamer. The Idealistic Reformer - when the Time is Right when the Higher Power takes over - makes me Feel like I get to fill full my PURPOSE for EXISTING.
This is THE best explanation of the INFP experience that I've ever seen! I'm actually every 1 of the subtypes at the same time. I think that makes me the ultimate Chameleon.🤔 Anyone else sending this to an overly critical person that's still in their life? My 79yo mom will have it shortly. Perhaps then she'll understand that I don't have trouble making decisions, have intense emotions, am embarassingly odd, and am too old to be a hippy activist etc 'just to annoy her'. (Yes, she's said every 1 of those things many times throughout my life🥹) I'm actually going to *not* avoid conflict with her for the 1st time in 55yrs- not very INFP of me, but it's time, before it's too late.
"finish one of those novels you started" THAT WAS AIMED AND I SWEAR I WLD FINISH THEM EVENTUALLY.
Ikr 😅
I'm getting to it, no need to remind me every six months, lol
I've been writing stories in my head since I was born, and I haven't written down a single one!😅 I swear, I will though.😂
I will i will! 😅😊
pointed! ugh! what about your unfinished novel? get to it chopchop.. ehat are you scribbiling about
If my Daydreams would become a movie, i might win a oscar...
I always say that. And feel like people are missing out on what’s inside there😂 They should create that dream viewer thing fast
@@Lass11-d1h fr hahhaha
@@Lass11-d1hur so right
I never think my daydreams would win oscars but my highly invested dreams would. I’ve ever laugh so hard I woke up and running so fast I stood up from laying😂
We all would, keep up the good job 👍
well, as an INFP i see myself in all of those 8 types of INFP. Some a lot more than others.
same
Me too❤
Me as well!
same
Me too! 😊
They need to have like meet and greets for infps to meet other infps cause I need to find my people man
They should! I'd love to meet other INFPs. We could all daydream together and maybe finally finish that novel lol
:/
I wish
We are soooo good at blending in, we can't tell ourselves apart from everyone else 😅
Why don't we make a club on Facebook for the INFP? 😊😊❤
me the infp fighting to urge to tell chatgpt, "thank you!", "please? 🥺", "i'm soooo sorry for bothering you", "i love you"
Omg I do that 😂 like what if I get out of habit and start being rude to people in real life?
Haha! I do that with all AIs 😂
Don't fight it..
I just found out it's "normal"
So there's that..
😅😁
TBH I really wouldn't feel "normal" not doing that..
Besides, if Google desides people are just the worst, we INFPs might actually be spared for all the pleases and thank yous 😂
Mee too! " Like can you please tell me..." Or " Oh, thank you for the line of words.." lol
same hahha, i tell him every time
I could win a gold medal for day -dreaming. I’ve coupled that with a brain that over-analyses everything and you’ve got the traditional INFP procrastinator 😀
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Yep!
I feel ya.. I don't just get up and do, it's a delicate process therefore it needs some extra thought 🤔
x2 but Im also conflict avoider, so just imagine, almost everything looks like a conflict to avoid a just may not to do anything
me lol
Timestamps:
0:43 - the day dreamer
1:35 - the sensitive artist
2:38 - the idealistic reformer
3:39 - the people pleaser
4:36 - the free spirit
5:50 - the overthinking philosopher
6:48 - the social chameleon
7:50 - the conflict avoider
I think I'm all of them combined😂
SAME HERE!!!!😂
😂 that's all me too!😂
Yes lol 😂
@@NewGirlHereSame.😂
Sometimes I think if everyone in the world were INFPs, environment would heal instantly.
But human species would go extinct because everyone would be scared of dating anyone 😊
I’ve got a video about this exact scenario 😂
@@BenjaminSpicy 🤣 "Craving for high intimacy but scared of emotional investment" it's my middle name
And also because there would be no ESTJs to tell us what to do
*critical hit* gaahh-
😂😂😂😂😂
My emotions aren’t like an open book, If anyone asks what’s wrong I will not tell them unless they can somehow make me. I will always hide all my emotions because it will either burden someone else for them to know or it will make me feel more vulnerable. Some people don’t think I have that much emotion because of how much I hide. I even hide it from myself so I don’t feel dramatic, and I never cry unless an animal dies in a movie. Just kidding I have cried before for something else as well just not that often.
I agree I don't just tell anyone what's wrong except for very very very close ppl
I feel the same...hiding emotions seems like it became a habit, I only show vulnerability to someone who cares. At some point, theres this doubt if am I even an infp because I used to cry when I hear someone talk something bad about me. But now, I do feel pain but I hide it because if I cry that will just prove them that I'm weak. So when I'm around people, I've develop this I don't give a fuck attitude, even some friends says I'm nonchalant but my true friends know how I'm not. I care about everything and I always overthinks.
@@Lethe4 no ur definitely an INFP cuz I too never ever cry in public or show ppl my sadness unless close ppl or I'm at my limits
Im so glad I'm not alone. I always thought it was just me, and that I was afraid of vulnerability. I wonder how I could comfort people and tell them it's okay to show emotions, but why I restrain myself from it?
Until I realized that I was just dealing with my own emotions. Sometimes, people won't understand me so just adapt instead of forcing them to react a certain way. I sometimes think "eugh, just let them grow." And I go to comfort myself
I love how I love myself 😘 I always comfort myself when I feel so heartbroken. I know it's a bonus, but knowing how to share emotions is essential for relationships.
INFPs are always shown to be overly sensitive online, right? That's the majority when you look at memes and stereotypes. Truth is, we can deal with our own emotions. Hiding them may be unhealthy, so of course there should be moderation. Just nevermind all those and continue living, learn to grow while supporting yourself too.
I'm a social chameleon, conflict avoidant, people pleaser and a daydreamer♥ I love being an INFP :)
Now I am not sure if all this is my INFP personality or my PTSD… I wonder how I will work that out!
@katreades-kt8jv Everything will work out even if it doesn't seem like it right now :)
Honestly, I missed the entire video--daydreaming--have to go back and try again.
HAHAHAHA YES
4w5 & 9w1 - the day dreamer
4w5 - the sensitive artist
6 - the idealistic reformer
9w1 - the people pleaser
4w5 - the free spirit
INFJ lol - the overthinking philosopher
4w5 & 9w1 - the social chameleon
9w1 - the conflict avoider
Probably wrong with some of those Ennegram/INFP pairings, but my stab at it. :)
i think so but imo the people pleaser one is not even infp cause thats too much fe function usage even for a 9w1 infp. ist probably a mistype ixfj.
I'm the overthinking INFP 451, and also the day dreamer..
Idealistic Reformer 9w8 >:)
Daydreamer, philosopher and conflict avoider.. perfect combination
I'm not lying to you if I say THIS VIDEO TOTALLY EXPOSED ME! I'm honestly all of them especially the idealistic reformer, overthinking philosopher and the free spirit.
I'm glad I happened upon this video because I'm a daydreamer, my oldest daughter (32) is an idealist reformer, and my younger daughter is a sensitive artist (30). My older daughter was very difficult to be around since early on, but my younger daughter was sweet when young (she's now a terror). I used to be some of the other types of INFP, but at 61, I just want peace.
Yes, peace ❤
Nice to see a real explanation of how INFPs work. Social chameleon, conflict avoider, sensitive artist,...I can be all these things plus INTP plus ENTP plus ENFJ plus ISTP and more...I like having that noticed. Just you wait, once I start making MBTI content you're up for a challenge on 'who can explain INFPs better' ;)
I’m a little of each it seems. Mostly free spirited and over thinkers. This is so interesting to me. I just days ago discovered I’m infp. I’ve never heard of such a thing until my wife made me take the test. I’ve been really drained lately with life. I had no idea others weren’t like me. It’s nice to know that there’s just different categories of people (personalities). I’m especially struggling because I was badly abused as a child by a step dad. I grew up very lonely and turned to heavy drugs. Went in and out of jail up until I met a girl who helped me get away from bad people. I still would drink and get High feeling lost like something was wrong with me. I had a lot of inner pain and bitterness. I eventually found myself talking to God wondering was he actually real. I soon found that he is. I’m now apart of a wonderful church where I have had much healing but there has still always felt like I had major problems. I couldn’t stop the negative voices in my head and crazy vivid imaginations. The imaginations I have are not pretty butterflies they are related to my past. They are dark and scary. I’ve seen crazy things like my grandpa coming up from hell and dragging me there with him. Grandma stabbing me with a fork in my face. Now being in church I don’t have those kind of fearful imaginations or dreams. It’s mostly now like trying to be ahead of someone else . I want to be prepared at all times. I have imaginations like what if someone were to break in my house. I can see me and them fighting or I just shoot them. It’s crazy lol
Anyway I’m thankful that now I’m learning boundaries and I don’t have to think on these things. I’m learning to immediately turn my mind to something else when I feel fearful thoughts . If you’ve ever had any trauma in your life as you let Jesus heal your heart I find my mind is not as troubled as before. I’m still pursuing healing. It’s been about 6 years now consistently fighting for a better me. You wouldn’t believe how far God has brought me
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Great video!! I'm a mix of all these, but mostly the Activist and Philosopher INFP
I'm a blend of several types but especially the artist, as I've been involved in visual arts most of my life, but recent years have been learning music. Big problem for INFP and music, we don't like routine! With music you need to practise most days, and that's where I struggle! But.....I haven't given up!! Interesting video! 👍👏🎶
I am day dreamer, idealistic reformer (not perfect 🙈), overthinking philosopher and conflict avoider. And realy want to be free spirit 😍🤩
Thank you for teaching me, how (and why) to love myself 😊
I become somewhat of a conflict avoider + social chameleon when around people I don't know that much, a free spirit + sensitive artist (sometimes) when around people I do know pretty well, somewhat of a people pleaser when someone asks me to do something (that doesn't go against my morals), I am an idealistic reformer when I'm inside my head but too afraid to talk to people about it, and I am ALWAYS a daydreamer and overthinking philosopher.
Exactly all of them ❤
I LOVE your videos. I am an INFP, and I could listen to your material forever.
Wow, thank you!☺️
I'm mostly the Overthinking Philosopher 👀✨️
Same, with little bit of the others
Welcome to the club! Now start using that philosophical overthinking to factually criticize *everything* we have been told about the world by official authorities. With strong ethical undercurrents in the overthinking of course. Return to me when you have found some of the blatant and vile falsehoods taken for granted in this video, and pushed not only as truth, but as ethical, by those shaping the opinion of mainstream culture. Then we might talk. Have a nice day! ☺️💖🙏🏼
I think most of INFPs have the mixed of the categories. We are unique in our way. I personally a nice INFP but can be extremely rude to those people who stand against my political view. 😂❤
First of all, we're least likely to be political... 😕
It's important to have a political view nowadays. Cuz people of politics made the decisions. Whether they'll start the war or to stop it, how they use the tax money, how they can fix the public facilities. If you have big empathy towards human, you most likely have political view, not just general belief, like religion or chose to belive in alien or something
@@diansapuart pretty sure 99.8% INFPs aren't into anything (even remotely close to) political... It's probably more of a xSxJ type of thingy... Are you sure you're INFP? 😕😬
We do have political standpoints, but we just don't care... I think we're more likely to have religion and believe that aliens exist rather than caring about politics lmao
@diansapuart pretty sure 99.8% don't care about anything (even remotely close to) political... Are you sure you're INFP??!! 😕😬 Like I mean..... I can't imagine myself or my folks caring about trivial, worldly matters, lol.
It's probably xSxJ types who cares about these things... We do have political standpoints though... We just don't care about it lol
We're more likely to have religion and believe that aliens exist rather than caring about political views lmao
We need an octagon graph for this XD
I’m the sensitive artist (I think it also comes in hand with the day dreamer) and the overthinking philosopher. It’s so interesting that once someone called my a peacock who hides away, “peacock with anxiety” tells it all. I can be a social cameleon too, although I don’t consider it my greatest trait and I don’t switch as easily as you described in this video😂
Im definitely the daydreamer, the protester, the free spirited, the overthinker,the conflict avoider ( unless it's something that i really need to speak up on). I can also be a people pleaser, but I have learned to say no somtimes.
I was sooo called out when u said "MAYBE FINISH ONE OF THOSE NOVELS YOU STARTED WRITING *WINK WINK*"
Social chameleon, conflict avoider and people pleaser 👀 but social chameleon explains a lot
I'm impressed
I love how every person in the comments feels that they have a little bit of everything, I'm definitely a social chameleon, a daydreamer, a people pleaser and a conflict avoider
Okay wow... I feel like your a fly on the wall in my house, for starters I talk for my dog and she has her own voice... I was legit just thinking about like hmmm have we really discovered all the colours on planet earth?? I’m always staring out my window that being my room or a car window. I CAN DEF related to the sensitive artist too, I write poetry and have always been so shy to share it with a lot of people. and FINALLY seeing liability on the playlist was the cherry on top... That is my cry song lolz. Read me like a book! 😂💀 But honestly I feel like I've been a little of each of these types at some point in my life thus far, and its cool to see this model explaining the types and characteristics that come along with it! Really enjoyed the video!
Im glad you liked it 😊
Omg I finally found someone who thinks about stuff more than I do please be my friend lol😂
Infp here. Same i have been all these infps particularly when i was younger and so unsure of myself. Now i tend to not care what people thing, more confident walking in public, more vocal and expressive about what i want. I can be viewed as rude, selfish, bit loopy, clumsy, over sensitive and quick to be triggered and moody, dreamer still but at least now i am able to change gears and get on with reality while still having my sanctuary within. Balance is really the key for infps. Earn your want to be slothful. Its much more satisfying. And do seek conflict. Robert greene is a most for empowering infps as he is one 😊
Yes, most species of animals, used as pets by humans, talk in complex ways, that we humans may empathically reinterpret in human language, for their sake.
This includes dogs, cats, horses, parrots, grass snakes, even elephants, monkeys and dolphins.
And yes, there are countless of different colours between the colours in a palette. And also, there are countless of different notes between the notes in a scale. Just like there are more than 50 shades of colour, so there are more than 50 shades of sound. We are seldom satisfied with the 8 color W-R-G-B-C-M-Y-K palette, why should we be satisfied with the 12 tone C-C#-D-Eb-E-F-F#-G-G#-A-Bb-B scale? Microtonalism and ethnical xenharmonicity is the future of music, just like impressionism and symbolical surrealism is the future of art.
These were fantastic, well done! i laughed so much, I am a blend of most, I have learned to say no but I mostly say sorry to things when I drop them and or when I hurt myself I’d say sorry fingers, sorry toes I love you 😂😊
I really can't decide which one I am 😂❤❤
Same lol, I'm like oh I'm little bit of all 🙈
OMG 🤣 I can't stop laughing. Your dark humor hits way too close to home in the best way possible 🧚♀️💜💖🙌💎🙃💚 Daydreamer here 💭🌈
Ooh, Thank you so much! I felt like finally seen. 😁 😁 Warm, nice feeling i would love to experiene more often!😊
"a peacock with anxiety" it me...
like
am i infp or enfp? i dont even know. cause
anxiety has me in a chokehold.
1:25 I daydream to music, but the best place is the car
Me too:] I put on music and just make a vivid music video in my head hehe. It actually really helps with my car sickness?
@@thegoobertrademark looking out the side or front windows?
@@siennahopkins4288 Side👍
@@siennahopkins4288 side
I'm pretty much a combination of all of these. Great vid!
I’m the kind of INFP who has autism, which only exacerbates a lot of my traits.
And I wouldn’t change it a bit. Not fundamentally, at least.
I'm an INFP with autism too!
In terms of the specific types in this video…
I am:
The daydreamer (it’s just basically what happens when I should be paying attention, when I have to retreat into my shell, when I’m idle, when I’m going to sleep [but I’m being kept awake by my thoughts], etcetera. Daydreaming is quite the word to describe my daily life.)
Sensitive artist (add autistic masking to that and you have a perfect recipe for self isolation)
People pleaser (Only a little but: I don’t care about the opinions of strangers, or the masses. And I don’t care about fitting in with people I know don’t suit me. But I do care about the opinions of people I actually care about. That’s where people pleasing can happen. I do like taking care of people a bit. Filling people’s cups with water, or fetching something when I’m asked to. I thought those were were general acts of kindness when I was a little younger. I don’t feel like even get exploited for that or anything.
Overthinking philosopher (I have a lot of random info in my head, though most of it revolves around my special interests. As a writer, I use that medium to tackle personal/broad questions. Sometimes I do come up with the random questions out of left field: Could the Efteling [biggest theme park in the Netherlands] be its independent country? [I came up with that one because the park’s surface area is bigger than Vatican City, therefore it would not be the world’s smallest country.])
Conflict avoider (Decision paralysis or being good with any option are too relatable to me. Especially the former. Almost every decision causes decision paralysis. I don’t want conflicts with people, to the point of isolation, which in itself can cause conflict [task failed successfully?!] In a lot of cases, people can walk all over me in this department. But not always. Not when it really matters. And in that case, remember that I’ve had kickboxing lessons.)
@@lisadicaire871Nice! Both the MBTI and autism aspects of looking at my personality/people’s personalities have become something of a special interest.
I am infp and reckon i have something on spectrum, adhd or something. I get too overwhelmed by my home. Working out techniques to do work, actually get up, and not sacrifice my relax time. Also extremely forgetful if i dont write things down especially with two kids. I can get distracted and half do things a leave things not remembering i left it there. Yikes. Over sensitive and emotional. Plus im a Scorpio on cusp of Sagittarius. Its funny how all these archetypes kind of align. Im learning still but damn i am sooo slow. Hate being rushed even though i know I have to do things a little bit quicker. God damn it infp personality you be the death of me or my saviour im not sure which one yet lmao 😅
@@jarmoliebrand2005same. Tested as infp three times and i was gobsmacked there are others of similar mind and struggles. I am delving into personality types, psychology and awareness, all driving my quest and passion for relationships, the meaning to the universe, and the human condition. Sci fi was my big drive and writing for a long time. Funny how while infps do differ from individual to individual we all kind of follow similar interests or traits. So interesting. 😊
I am the overthinking philosopher most of the time ... I try my best to make people question things about their lives, trying to change the world ... also I'm an artist and also a writer with un-finished novel :)
thanks for you video , thanks for seeing us (INFPs) deeply . things are very complicated about us and we are often misjudged ...
Man what a Great Video to explain sub types of INFP never stop with theses explanations its rare to find out on TH-cam
I had a hard time picking which one I was. And then at the end, he said “you might be this type on Wednesday and then another on Thursday, and another on Friday… “and then I was like YES that’s the one! 😂
I feel like a combination of the first four.
Thank you guys i am a INFP Meditator type. this helped me understand my personality better.
I’m the daydreamer, overthinking philosopher, idealist, social chameleon, and a bit of sensitive artist & people pleaser ALL AT ONCE. I wish I was the free spirit too. I figured out the meaning of life in the shower once, but I question my identity every month and spend a lot of my free time having imaginary conversations to figure out how to say a specific concept right with the least words so I don’t take up space or ever confuse people. 💜
ADHD INFP-A Definitely a daydreamer my entire life. People-pleaser--I find that goes with the mediator role--feels more like information gathering to me however learning to say, "no" is difficult, because I am the only one who could possibly help. Overthinking philosopher goes hand-in-hand with my daydreaming. Conflict Avoidance 😂 see people pleaser...
So funny!!! I was worried until the end when you said an INFP can be all of these. I love being me.
Maybe it changes during our lifetimes, I used to be a dreamer, then the world-saver. Now I'm mostly free spirit and philosopher (which I guess I always was to some extent). Never people pleaser or social chameleon. It might be my limited knowledge, but I thought these would be iNFJs mistyped as INFPs. Early life trauma leads to conflict avoidance, but this can happen to any type, though particularly the sensitive ones - not an INFP trait, but sensitivity certainly is.
This explains a lot. Often these differences get mushed together randomly in descriptions and I end up doubting that I am an INFJ. I see bits of myself in all the types but i know that outwardly I do not match all these subtypes. In the end I can see the Daydreamer as being where I am at often, the overthinking philosopher is also quite close, but I have always felt guilty that I am not more of a people pleaser or social pleaser. I know too that the conflict avoider is something my friends wish I were more often. However, I do definitely see that I have been ALL these types depending upon the occasion.
It´s okey, same for me. In fact, its common that INFJ thinks is INFP, because theyre similar in a lot of things. But the cognitive functions are too different
love this ❤ thank you ❤ i‘m a blend of all of them, some stronger than the other depending on the day and my mood but also changing over the years as i live and grow ❤
I am INFP-T that identifies with a handful of the things from most of these.
On the inside I'm.. all of these! The tricky part is knowing which one people actually see in me * over-thinks about it *
Haha real
All of the above types! (Except not the 7th type that much!) And thanks for stopping at 8! I'm sure there are many more types mixed in us! 😂🤣
This was such a wonderful video. Thank you. 😊
GREAT VIDEO MATE
i liked the older story with jokes a bit more
I'm definitely a mix😂😂 day dreamer, sensitive artist, people pleaser, kind of a free spirit, overthinking philosopher and I guess social chameleon, rarely an idealistic reformer unless it's a very very very important cause. And surprisingly almost never a conflict avoider :D
I think I'm the free spirit thse most, why not I really one of my favourite sentences...
But, I also have The Idealistic Reformer in me, and overthinking philosopher 😅
(Btw, I love your sense of humour so much! I can't help😂
Being a Daydreamer with Aphantasia and ADHD is.. frustrating to say the least.
But it lets me lean into my philosophy side too.
Finally someone made a video on this, for some weird reason after finding out I’m an infp, I would see a good amount of people portraying it as “gloomy, emo, etc” when I’m the optimistic, smiley, and wanting self-growth infp 💕. Im so fortunate for this since I want to be this way. I see myself as the people pleaser and yes, the apologizing to things is something I’m bound to doing. I guess I am also the overthinking philosopher who could speak for HOURS about random topics 😅. Oh yeaa and social chameleon could portray me too
I think I'm a bit of all of those types, but I do believe the "Overthinking Philosopher" applies to me most. Love your video! It was insightful and funny! 😄👍💜
That was so good, thank you! (old INFP here)
INTP here. I feel you though. I can definitely see myself in this quite a lot. I remember my aunt who is a coach having me take a test and being surprised that I wasn’t INFP.
I am conbo of Day dreamer, sensitive artist, people pleaser and conflict avoidant. INFP
I'm a mix of all 😂 and more of a conflict avoider and over thinking philosopher
Daddy is back! 😍🤗♥️👌🏾
daydreamer, free spirit, overthinker, at times a social chameleon and idealistic reformer :)
Sitting cutely somewhere between Daydreamer, sensitive artist, and Philosopher, and all I have to show for it are some tarot decks, fairy/dragon Knick-knacks, and crippling existential dread.
I am a blend of several types thanks for sharing! 💜
The conflict avoider going with the GPS even when it’s wrong is so me 😂
Funny you should mention one of the spirit animals is a penguin in a tuxedo - one of my favorite Sanrio characters is Tuxedo Sam, who is literally a dapper penguin. I feel like I might have a little bit of each INFP type in my, but in varying quantities.
Hey those stick figures are really adorable! Do you you draw them yourself?
Thank you 😊 My wife draws them 😊
@@BenjaminSpicy Cool! Is she an INFP by any chance?
I literally start imagining final destination shit every time I go out. It's like my brain starts creating its own simulation game and my god they are epic. Like once I was inside the station and I started thinking if the train rammed to the wall and the world suddenly gets invaded by aliens then I would probably have to kill to be alive right? Then what should I use to kill, I have a bracelet will it work? Or should I hide and follow the train tracks while everyone is busy fighting😅😅😅😅
Yay!! A new video!! ✨️🎊🎉🤩
Infj here, been absolute soulmates with an infp for 5 going on 6 years and he's just an absolutely beautiful being and the most sweetest person I know.
As a social chameleon, I clicked on this video to have my identity explained to me. I got called out 7 times. Thank you Benjamin Spicy 🙏
I love it! Though the people pleaser and social chameleon subtypes are a bit unrealistic. Infps are fi doms and the first one displays zero fi like seriously, meanwhile the second one doesnt only show no fi but is the actual epitome of FE. Anyways, very nice idea tho, I enjoyed it :)
What even are those what im so confused😭
lol I can somewhat relate to all of these yep
As for why I have "many personalities", the reason is two:
- I have to reduce my personal essence to whatever group I interact with in order to fit in well enough (but I typically still prefer to be at the edge, maximizing myself to the extent possible
- I love to be creative, so to "roleplay" or "pretend" is simply a part of what I consider to be personal. As if I am Mew, changeing my appearence into different pokemon because that's who I am, creative. And also - I might find things I like in those pretendings that I can also add to my more firm personality.
My personality is like a song with firm base structure, but the surface of the tune is flexible and artistic
Free-spirit most of my life (moved to Japan 3 times 😅… the next time is the last time i swear!… probably.) also used to be a flight attendant so that helped with the wander-lust. I think i’m more of the Over-thinking philosopher now which suits my career change to psychotherapist quite well. Keep being sweet my INFP fairy friends! 🧚
in my case, most relatable ones are:
day dreamer - overthinking philosopher - conflict avoider
So funny and I really like your videos! ❤ I'm mostly the daydreamer 🥰 But a mix of all the categories.
We are all a mix. I'm daydreamer, free spirit (I really don't care of what people say about me), philosopher a little and the conflict avoider without doubt.
Pride to be an INFP 😊
You are the best INFP to ever exist! Cheers!
I'm a sensitive artist, overthinking philosopher, people pleaser, and conflict avoiding infp . On good days I'm a non-sensitive artist and a free spirit infp though
I think timestamping each type would make your videos a lot friendlier. Also, it does seem that all of these are one INFP, but they're different levels of healthy. -An older INFP.
0:44 Daydreamer
1:33 Sensitive Artist
2:38 Idealist Performer
3:38 People Pleaser
4:33 Free Spirit
5:46 Overthinking Philosopher
6:46 Social Chameleon
7:49 Conflict Avoider
Someone already did it. I wasted my life.
I'm mainly the ones that has something to do with a peacock and...shit now I forgot the other ones too 😭
I am all, but the free spirit and sensitive artist are turning the main
It's so frustating. All of the contents always potrayed INFP-A. So this make ENFJ ex bf thinks INFP is just sunshine and rainbows that must be protected. I mean only follow him and not able to think for a second. He dislike critics or feedbacks. I mean sure your schedules looks good. But why I can't say anything about it.
INFP is not all the same. I am INFP-T and look like an INTP. This make me stressful. When I join an INTP but still the dumbest amongst them. Suddenly one of them asks the other bro, "why suddenly being idealistic and too much FEELINGS?". So I snapped out a bit and left the room. But when I join the INFP gangs, these sisters say that I am being rational a little bit and less creative than them. So, I left the chat room. But when I join INFJ gangs, it feels so lonely. I can't predict anything like an INFJ. Nobody talking. When I open up, one of them says I am too open. So I stopped talking a lot. It's weird. I am an alien.
It's like when I am put status as INFP T (5w4), these bullies (estp, entp, enfp) like to trolls me. If you not like an INFP, just leave me alone.
So the wing 5 only belong to the thinkers and INFP can't use their brain? 🤔 I hate stereotypes videos about INFP. It's ridiculous. You know I wanna help them. My heart say let's go but my brain push me away and say no. I need to recharge in empty room bcs my energy level on social battery keeps getting low. I am not an INFJ bcs I can't predict things. So an INFJ can be logical but INFP can't be logical even just a little bit. Wth with these bullies. 🥲
Definitely one of the other thinking philosopher one and and sensitive artist one too.
Im a mix of MOSTLY daydreamer, philosopher, free spirit and people pleaser. But im all combined! Yay:D
I'm definitely a mix of most of them ahahah. I don't really identify with the artist one for example, but you said some things I could say about myself. The conflict avoider and adaptability are two things I like 100% identify with though ahhaahah
Out of all, I think the overthinker INFP suit me best. When someone speaking to me about something, I wish there is a keyboard with me to stop and type on google or something. To find out what is the meaning behind those words and what to say in a better way. Therefore, I will not cause harm or being ignored. It can be also be conflicts avoidant. But I am more about the overthinker. It's not bcs I am smart person. But I just don't want to get in trouble anymore or be a leech to others.
When speaking to someone, I usually not able to be in the present moment. But after further engagement, I can feel familiarity with something called patterns. I always wonder what kind of personality is the one speaking to me rn. What to do and what they mean. I wanna know what other people think or their perspective about me. Only when I find out, I distancing myself. They are toxic or disrespectful while I keep being polite to them. You see. In this world. So many ppl dislike being judge. They want power and control others. They like critics other people. They want to say whatever they think it's best based on logical mindset. However, this is not the same for INFP when speaking to them using Fi. They simply can't understand and not able to accept it. Disregard INFP Ideas and input due to morals. It's too illogical and makes them think INFP is just dumb. While I think they are evil or robotic. So stoic that I must be careful to be close around this kind of person. They call me sensitive. While they don't want me to speak. When force to speak, they cut me out and said it's too much feelings. Mostly S & J letter on it.
"Oh yes. you are INFP. You know what? You all are hyper sensitive babies. NT is better to communicate and hang around than you. It feels uncomfortable to talk anything with you."
Well guess what? Me, too. You guys want me to be a listener. Ask feedback but not able to be tolerance and respectful. I don't really like being around people who not have the same interest and not believe in God. Many of these so called thinkers aren't really religious, not have religion, and like arguments over small bullshit stuffs on other religions. That is stupid. It's like talking to a wall. I am not freely to be open around this people who are so materialistic and money is their God. Inside of them is just empty. Nothing valuable other than
I GET UP, I GO TO WORK, I GO HOME, I GO TO SLEEP. REPEAT.
It's sad. They seek happiness from money. Only money can satisfied them. They are born for money. Nothing else. For me, I chase God and money comes to me. But they don't like it.
I guess I'm a bit of everything lol, but the types that are the most dominant are the daydreamer, sensitive artist, overthinking philosopher and conflict avoider. Free spirit as well, in the way that I hate feeling tied down, and if someone tries to forcefully holds me back, physically or not, my automatic response is to nope tf away. 😂 But I think that if I had the money to travel, I'd defs spend a lot of time around the world ❤
When I was younger I used to be the idealistic reformer, as I grew older I turned more into the artist type. Aaaand ofc I got a lil splash of everything else
i'm like a mix of all of these, and the extent to which i am any one of these varies, like i used to be a dreamer dominantly, then more of a sensitive artist and now...not sure, just an infp i guess! :D
#1 conflict avoider
With daydreamer, people pleaser, sensitive artist and overthinking philosopher (studying philosophy xD)
And I wish I could bring a bit more free spirit into my life - but i'm kinda stuck here 😅
I'm a mix of the daydreamer, the sensitive artist, the people pleaser, the overthinking philosopher, the social chameleon and the conflict avoider in order of occurrence. I have no freaking idea what I am 😅
I have been every one of these in my lifetime 😂 currently sitting comfortably as The Dreamer, Sensitive Artist, Free Spirit, Over-thinking Philosopher…with a touch of Social Chameleon😅
Im a daydreamer. Half the time, im thinking about characters from stories that had tragic ends and hoped someone saved them. The only way to cheer me up a little from that ending.
☆Thank you for being so Kind to See us!♡
A mix, 1st and Foremost of The Free Spirit & The OverThinking Philosopher.
In a safe environment: The Daydreamer.
The Idealistic Reformer - when the Time is Right when the Higher Power takes over - makes me Feel like I get to fill full my PURPOSE for EXISTING.
As an INFJ, i love INFPs. The only people I can have a almost spiritual connection with
This is THE best explanation of the INFP experience that I've ever seen! I'm actually every 1 of the subtypes at the same time. I think that makes me the ultimate Chameleon.🤔
Anyone else sending this to an overly critical person that's still in their life? My 79yo mom will have it shortly. Perhaps then she'll understand that I don't have trouble making decisions, have intense emotions, am embarassingly odd, and am too old to be a hippy activist etc 'just to annoy her'. (Yes, she's said every 1 of those things many times throughout my life🥹) I'm actually going to *not* avoid conflict with her for the 1st time in 55yrs- not very INFP of me, but it's time, before it's too late.