Fuck. I need to stop procrastinating. Maybe after this video I’ll wash the dishes and start my 3 projects I’ve been putting off since lunch. Damn it I just finished dinner and I’m still watching youtube, now already sleep time. My projects…
No. I don't cry over commercials or ads. It's fake or manufactured. I only cry when watching documentary, crime investigations, news. Anything that has real human and somehow I feel so sad. Imagine if it's me or my family. I keep thinking about it.
I laughed crying or cried laughing for every single point in this video. So spot on, it's embarrassing that someone can read me this well. xD And so introspective, it's literally a comedy for those who know what you're talking about.
Awww, that was sweet and so accurate! 😍I'd just add the super dark moods and spiralling until I hit the absolute rock bottom, wallowing and acting like it's the end of everything, and then getting over it and moving on as this was normal/a part of my daily routine. Also accounts for the dark humour - the range is broad and INFPs can go from pure joy to the darkest dark, and lean into those emotions without being as affected as people who are not used to stretching themselves that way.
"deadlines are just suggestions" very true. I have the same attitude towards speed limits - especially the 20 mile per hour zone. I always think: "they were hoping some people might conform but they can't actually be serious"
The reason I never missed a bus stop is that I only let my imaginary scenarios play out in "safe" spaces (ex. in my room, at a boring social gathering...) That's why I always can't wait to get home after work, just to "do nothing" xD Or so does it seem to others, but in my mind I'm miles away in some alternate universe, surprising myself with plot twists in the story. It's also the reason why I love sleeping, because my dreams are WILD.
The minute-by-minute breakdown is so true! Especially when I do something a little bit productive that weekend, you need to hear from the moment I wake up to the end of the night. That's why if I'm on call with my friend, the minimum hours needed to finish the story is three hours.
Ah man…this is such an attack on us INFP’s! Why does society want to pick on us?! I’m joking. I’m just joking. That’s hilarious!! All right all right at least we can admit these are our traits.😅😅😅
I feel pointed out..That getting defeat from victory is what i think till now..haha like i feel like only i can deal with being sad from failure, no one can..or should.
I'm an INFP and that was so accurate and beautiful, I also laughed a lot and thought about what you said of a moody poem, is a good idea, thank you :) :) :)
I appreciate your channel, really enjoy your way of approaching things I also cant help but wonder that probably only our personality type needs this kind of channel talking about our treats
Yeeeeeeeepppp...... I'm watching this realizing that some of these things are also traits of autism or adhd. So now I am REALLY curious what parts of this are because I'm an INFP and what parts of this are because I'm autistic, and if I just feel doubly doomed because I'm both and therefore feel all of this 10x worse. Not sure 😅
I think infp, infj and intp are all in a complicated (and still only partially understood) venn diagram with asd and add/adhd. Uhh so many letters without even getting into the function stacks 🥴
1:40 this is just so real, I remember posting Poems and shorts stories about betrayal, I'm just so hurt, I hope they see it and I hope they are Intelligent enough to know I'm talking to them, being anonymous is my favourite thing when expressing my feelings, its like I'm downgrading every human being when creating poems and story, I just can't express my emotion and feelings face to face, it takes me time and I always respond in long time. So imagine fighting your enemy and yourself, Regrets too "what If I did say it or what if I just said it, but I trried and I stutter my words and cried" 2:34 I remember when I was 9th grade I always pull up all nighter till 3am in the morning, and wakes up like 11nn, bro that will kill every person so yeah I stopped it cuz my schedule as g11 is morning and I can't risk my Health 4:10 this was just real and I can confirm it as an INFP, you know the Break up feeling whwn you finished the Series of anime or movie, what ever the ending was, Tragedy or Good ending, both will make me sad and ask question and wonder "What if" Also I miss watching Fruit basket and other anime such as Demon Slayer, Your name, A silent voice and Fireworks 5:16 this was the best thing I had, I can disconnect to the world and just mind my own, I can create various scene in my mind, every genre, and every scene from divine stories to super explicit thing, sometime when I get to carrried away by my emotion, I write a short story about it 5:42 smiling at something and staring blankly was just so weird, I always day dream while my head is looking down, staring at something and sometimes I feel being tagged as Weird because I stare at my classmates blankly, idk but It looks like my eyes had built in monitor that blocks the object behind it I love bieng this imaginative and creative. 8:16 thanks for telling me that Poems are great, thats my coping mechanism! I always tell I'm not worthy enough to be a poet
I don’t have the one about thinking society is plotting against me, and I DEFINITELY don’t think I could share my ideals with people enough to bother them, but I am an INFP.
Well, I feel guilty when I move from one book to another. It feels like I am not cherishing the world and people in that world enough and am already moving on to another one. It's like moving away from a relationship
0:21 I already won several gold medals in that field so I retired from it... Now I'm just basking in my own nation, enjoying my vacation, so you have to call me several times to get me back to reality 😶
I am known by myself for how much i procrastinate. Because of how anxious and such a perfectionist i am, i dont like being late in submissions or on appointments. Like i only had 2 hrs of sleep just so that i wont be late for school and i finished "reviewing" for a quiz tmrw before i ended up watching this video. The over sharing part is real, so over years i learned how to handle information and am very selective to whom i share them with.
No, look I still love you but……I’m not a victim. I’m never a victim. Even when my boss told me my colleagues were bullying me I told her she was wrong, they were having problems and I was unofficially giving them therapy (I’m a psychotherapist), and eventually all was well. 😁Not passive/aggressive. I’m extremely passive, the most passive person you’ve ever met. BUT, if you ever reach that line in the sand I drew a thousand miles away, well then……AGGRESSIVE! But the rest of it, pretty spot on ❤️🏴
Agreed- I have never played the victim so much to the extent that friends have told me that shouldn't take SO much accountability. I was passive-aggressive when I was younger but refuse to allow myself to go there as a 45 year old after observing it in others and then myself. That just might be called maturity though. But everything else is quite right.
Intps can be sharp in observing human psychology majoring in infp, we can see pleasing sarcastic love for infp here:) But hope don’t underestimate infp’s strong fi. Even though infps are shy, infps don’t say no to someone interesting just because infps think they don’t deserve affection. Maybe some other reason like infp friendzoned that person or..
Not all INFPs are shy, or are the way you describe. That's just stereotypes. But hey, at least I should give credit where it's due, you do seem to know about the functions. That's nice.
Right, and infps don’t think we don’t deserve someone’s affection, On the contrary, something romantically involved is very important area in infp’s life(due to strong fi), I must make it clear who I am attracted to or not. Anyway, I think shy guys are attractive:)
My dark side? Thinking life is a game and I am a ninja taking missions. Self meditation, wait for missions that has value to me, go outside, get some money. 😅 What deadline? I do it all on last minutes rush.
I'm INFP, I've not yet met another INFP in my reality, sigh~ poor me~ 😆😂😁 to be frank, I often persuade myself not to be an EMO sponge, it's a tough life experience to bear such a great amount of emotion coming from others or imagination
If i leave a work to do to the very last minute, i have no time to overthink about it, its do or die (and it often comes quiet well). If i start to early i will either start reviewing everything endless times or completly forgett everything which is bad if you have to do a presentation about that theme
I stopped eating Twix bars in the 90's because I thought their advertising campaign was trite, and appealed to the lowest possible denominator... I really liked them too.
😂😂 I just put 112 books (Yes, I counted!) on shelves for the 3rd time today. I really wasn't ready to because I couldn't decide how to categorize them yet (Again 🥴), but they've been on my bed for a week (because...well,... you all know all the reasons why), and I'm tired of sleeping on the love seat with 4 cats and a pitbull. (Oh noooo😱 As I was finishing this, the oversharing part popped up!Sorry!😂😂).
Yes. I got the guards ready to feed the ravaging monster that wants to display its black belt in mental gymnastics. Though I keep swinging between INTP and INFP
I GIGGLE A BIT BUT START CRYING BUT REALIZING THAT I SHOULD JUST BE ANGRY AT ME CRYIBG SO I START TO GIGGLE AGAIN BECAUSE I THINK ITS FUNNY THAT I WAS ANGRY I have school tomorrow and it’s like 3:46 am rn actually I’m just going to cry, I’ll make sure it’s angry crying though.
Not gonna lie.. as an INFJ I do mostly all of this too just without the procrastination and last minute stuff.. nah putting stuff off just stresses me out…
Well I didn't relate to the first few, but at the video went on, I began relating to it XD Also, is it just me or does INFP habits sound a lot like ADHD?? 0>0
@@amandascavuzziThis has nothing to do with it. And the term "F" is an oversimplification of different types of Feeling. INFJs and INFPs have different types of 'F', as you call it.
So is it that INFP are better to be in art field, instead of unnatural field like programming for non-multimedia computer science etc? Any opinion on this?
Nah bro trough the years I went from intp to entp and now I am INFP, test reflects your current state of mind, it is valuable tool but nothing more. I was just slightly leaning E when I got that ENTP result so I guess only real change over the years is going from thinking to feeling oriented, which coincided with me ditching atheism when I finally realized that we can never understand the universe with our limited logical minds. I feel free from limitations of seeking answers at last, I let them come intuitively or not now instead of expending all that energy in a fruitless pursuit, thinking is overrated.
Do your own research but yes- Most agree that we are born with one of the 16 personality types but the personality (within the type) changes drastically throughout the years and of course is also affected by environment experiences etc...Also many people can't discover their type by taking a test on their own.
I hate how accurate this is as an INFP...
Fuck. I need to stop procrastinating. Maybe after this video I’ll wash the dishes and start my 3 projects I’ve been putting off since lunch. Damn it I just finished dinner and I’m still watching youtube, now already sleep time. My projects…
Being an INFP is a job
It's a blessing and a curse....
Full time job 🤣😢
And it's EXHAUSTING 😭
What i would give to not be socially awkward
Without salary 😔
The procrastination is a remedy for the perfectionism. 🙃
"Everything is an attack" had me. 😭😂😭😂😅
Nooo fr 😭💀
This whole damn video was an attack! 🥹😥😂🤣
I'm so good at procrastinating that when I actually do what I'm supposed to, it's just me procrastinating procrastination itself.
Lol
Samee lol
No. I don't cry over commercials or ads. It's fake or manufactured. I only cry when watching documentary, crime investigations, news. Anything that has real human and somehow I feel so sad. Imagine if it's me or my family. I keep thinking about it.
I cry over commercials all the time😢 even if it's a trailer for my favorite movie (that I've seen 50 times already)
I ain't gonna lie theres certain commercials I may or may not have cried watching 😂
You are the best INFP ever! We all need a spice of life.
I laughed crying or cried laughing for every single point in this video. So spot on, it's embarrassing that someone can read me this well. xD And so introspective, it's literally a comedy for those who know what you're talking about.
As accurate as always. "A sad human-shaped microwave" - I like this one. When someone asks me about my MBTI, I'll tell them that 😂
Awww, that was sweet and so accurate! 😍I'd just add the super dark moods and spiralling until I hit the absolute rock bottom, wallowing and acting like it's the end of everything, and then getting over it and moving on as this was normal/a part of my daily routine. Also accounts for the dark humour - the range is broad and INFPs can go from pure joy to the darkest dark, and lean into those emotions without being as affected as people who are not used to stretching themselves that way.
Gallows humor, absolutely. I want to die laughing at the absurdity of life, so I have to stay in practice.
@@elizabethl6187 Good plan! I aspire to that, but for now just remain confused and frustrated 🥴
"deadlines are just suggestions" very true. I have the same attitude towards speed limits - especially the 20 mile per hour zone. I always think: "they were hoping some people might conform but they can't actually be serious"
ha ha love it! Never stop doing these..
We are creatives genius! I can't explain how can I be so productive when I have no time
The reason I never missed a bus stop is that I only let my imaginary scenarios play out in "safe" spaces (ex. in my room, at a boring social gathering...) That's why I always can't wait to get home after work, just to "do nothing" xD Or so does it seem to others, but in my mind I'm miles away in some alternate universe, surprising myself with plot twists in the story. It's also the reason why I love sleeping, because my dreams are WILD.
The minute-by-minute breakdown is so true! Especially when I do something a little bit productive that weekend, you need to hear from the moment I wake up to the end of the night. That's why if I'm on call with my friend, the minimum hours needed to finish the story is three hours.
This is absolutely spot on 😂😂
Well. That was the longest roast I've ever sat through
Ah man…this is such an attack on us INFP’s! Why does society want to pick on us?! I’m joking. I’m just joking. That’s hilarious!! All right all right at least we can admit these are our traits.😅😅😅
Oh God thank you for explaining me to myself again. 😂
Thanks! I appreciate that tip. I think it's time to get a notepad.
Glad it was helpful!
I feel pointed out..That getting defeat from victory is what i think till now..haha like i feel like only i can deal with being sad from failure, no one can..or should.
I was soooo laughting through this 😂 Good thing I have self- irony. And this movie is a TON of it. Spot on sir! 🎉
I'm an INFP and that was so accurate and beautiful, I also laughed a lot and thought about what you said of a moody poem, is a good idea, thank you :) :) :)
As an INFP, I've actually missed my bus and train stops/destinations so many times because I got lost in daydreams, it's kind of pathetic...
I appreciate your channel, really enjoy your way of approaching things
I also cant help but wonder that probably only our personality type needs this kind of channel talking about our treats
How can you share my secrets like this... you can't do this me, that was spot on😂
I'm a simple INFP, see a Benjamin vid and hit like in the first second. Are you going to do the other types? I Enjoyed the INTP ones you've done.
i adore you and your videos so much!
Yeeeeeeeepppp......
I'm watching this realizing that some of these things are also traits of autism or adhd.
So now I am REALLY curious what parts of this are because I'm an INFP and what parts of this are because I'm autistic, and if I just feel doubly doomed because I'm both and therefore feel all of this 10x worse.
Not sure 😅
yes, i'm curious too. interesting.
I think infp, infj and intp are all in a complicated (and still only partially understood) venn diagram with asd and add/adhd. Uhh so many letters without even getting into the function stacks 🥴
Why is this so relatable.. You know us really well
Why this is so true XD
Wish your videos existed decade ago.
Thank you, it's like a revelation
Scarily accurate.... 😭😭😭
1:40 this is just so real, I remember posting Poems and shorts stories about betrayal, I'm just so hurt, I hope they see it and I hope they are Intelligent enough to know I'm talking to them, being anonymous is my favourite thing when expressing my feelings, its like I'm downgrading every human being when creating poems and story, I just can't express my emotion and feelings face to face, it takes me time and I always respond in long time. So imagine fighting your enemy and yourself, Regrets too "what If I did say it or what if I just said it, but I trried and I stutter my words and cried"
2:34 I remember when I was 9th grade I always pull up all nighter till 3am in the morning, and wakes up like 11nn, bro that will kill every person so yeah I stopped it cuz my schedule as g11 is morning and I can't risk my Health
4:10 this was just real and I can confirm it as an INFP, you know the Break up feeling whwn you finished the Series of anime or movie, what ever the ending was, Tragedy or Good ending, both will make me sad and ask question and wonder "What if" Also I miss watching Fruit basket and other anime such as Demon Slayer, Your name, A silent voice and Fireworks
5:16 this was the best thing I had, I can disconnect to the world and just mind my own, I can create various scene in my mind, every genre, and every scene from divine stories to super explicit thing, sometime when I get to carrried away by my emotion, I write a short story about it
5:42 smiling at something and staring blankly was just so weird, I always day dream while my head is looking down, staring at something and sometimes I feel being tagged as Weird because I stare at my classmates blankly, idk but It looks like my eyes had built in monitor that blocks the object behind it
I love bieng this imaginative and creative.
8:16 thanks for telling me that Poems are great, thats my coping mechanism! I always tell I'm not worthy enough to be a poet
I don’t have the one about thinking society is plotting against me, and I DEFINITELY don’t think I could share my ideals with people enough to bother them, but I am an INFP.
He knows about the potato thing 😨
As an INFP 4w5, this is Accurate. Thanks... ❤
I feel bad for the mugs at the back of the cupboard that don’t get used.
That’s ONE area where I’m comfortable playing favorites. I only feel guilt when I actually give the unloved mugs to Goodwill.
Well, I feel guilty when I move from one book to another. It feels like I am not cherishing the world and people in that world enough and am already moving on to another one. It's like moving away from a relationship
as an infp, i am happy that i am mature enough to not have the first trait
and i think the third one will stick to me till the end of the world XD
Exactly. I think the first 2 traits can all but disappear with some self-awareness & maturity.
So trueee......I cried watching Cars 3 ....
Yup, that’s totally how I am, as an INFP.
"It needed a change just like our friendship" im using this
i would overshare if i wasnt incredibly shy. I daydream about oversharing
Oh man, it's cool af
Love thouse vids, so funny. Hope you'll be that funny always)
I have to laught so hard at the moment because this is so accurate😅
0:21 I already won several gold medals in that field so I retired from it... Now I'm just basking in my own nation, enjoying my vacation, so you have to call me several times to get me back to reality 😶
"... how the books make them feels." Well... Yep, you got me 🙈🤣🤣🤣
I am known by myself for how much i procrastinate. Because of how anxious and such a perfectionist i am, i dont like being late in submissions or on appointments. Like i only had 2 hrs of sleep just so that i wont be late for school and i finished "reviewing" for a quiz tmrw before i ended up watching this video. The over sharing part is real, so over years i learned how to handle information and am very selective to whom i share them with.
No, look I still love you but……I’m not a victim. I’m never a victim. Even when my boss told me my colleagues were bullying me I told her she was wrong, they were having problems and I was unofficially giving them therapy (I’m a psychotherapist), and eventually all was well. 😁Not passive/aggressive. I’m extremely passive, the most passive person you’ve ever met. BUT, if you ever reach that line in the sand I drew a thousand miles away, well then……AGGRESSIVE! But the rest of it, pretty spot on ❤️🏴
Agreed- I have never played the victim so much to the extent that friends have told me that shouldn't take SO much accountability. I was passive-aggressive when I was younger but refuse to allow myself to go there as a 45 year old after observing it in others and then myself. That just might be called maturity though. But everything else is quite right.
Therapy is very useful
Stop reading meeeeeeee!!!! 😂😂
Oh I love it!
Man. Time to cry 😭
I do all of these things all the time ☹️
AHHHHHHH TIME TO WALLOW IN SELF DEFEAT NOW
How many infps you know in person to understand us ? 😢 the sponge one really hits me
Im crying for the fictional puppy orphans!😢😢
Me too 😢
@@binabina4445 😢
I'm an INTP, but the bookshelf and imagination parts are so relatable to me. 😅
i am amazed at how much this video has offended me because it's goddamn accurate
Intps can be sharp in observing human psychology majoring in infp, we can see pleasing sarcastic love for infp here:)
But hope don’t underestimate infp’s strong fi. Even though infps are shy, infps don’t say no to someone interesting just because infps think they don’t deserve affection. Maybe some other reason like infp friendzoned that person or..
Not all INFPs are shy, or are the way you describe. That's just stereotypes.
But hey, at least I should give credit where it's due, you do seem to know about the functions. That's nice.
Right, and infps don’t think we don’t deserve someone’s affection, On the contrary, something romantically involved is very important area in infp’s life(due to strong fi), I must make it clear who I am attracted to or not. Anyway, I think shy guys are attractive:)
1:00 ok I’m offended and scared at the same time 😂
Man you did NOT have to read us for filth like this. 🤣🤣🤣🤣💁🏾♂️
As an INFP, I check every box except for the deadline one. I submit tasks on time, that is, if I decide to complete them in the first place.
Very accurate wow
That chair in the beginning of the video had a real vindictive aura.
🤣👌
My dark side? Thinking life is a game and I am a ninja taking missions. Self meditation, wait for missions that has value to me, go outside, get some money. 😅 What deadline? I do it all on last minutes rush.
I'm INFP, I've not yet met another INFP in my reality, sigh~ poor me~ 😆😂😁 to be frank, I often persuade myself not to be an EMO sponge, it's a tough life experience to bear such a great amount of emotion coming from others or imagination
Yes! I was busy... lost in my daydreams. and no, I'm not a potato, but I do have a disorganised attachment style mehehe
If i leave a work to do to the very last minute, i have no time to overthink about it, its do or die (and it often comes quiet well).
If i start to early i will either start reviewing everything endless times or completly forgett everything which is bad if you have to do a presentation about that theme
3:46 yo can somebody tell me if there's a button to turn this sponge off. its very tiring
I stopped eating Twix bars in the 90's because I thought their advertising campaign was trite, and appealed to the lowest possible denominator... I really liked them too.
Can you pls do one for INFP- T ...
5:09 the story of my life😂
I'm an INTP and do the same thing with my book shelves. Size, color, author, subject, and which ones I liked best.
Being the fullest idealist and the perfectionists is kinda worst but great at the same times 🤣
as an infp, 0:38, I would apologize to the chair
😂😂 I just put 112 books (Yes, I counted!) on shelves for the 3rd time today. I really wasn't ready to because I couldn't decide how to categorize them yet (Again 🥴), but they've been on my bed for a week (because...well,... you all know all the reasons why), and I'm tired of sleeping on the love seat with 4 cats and a pitbull.
(Oh noooo😱 As I was finishing this, the oversharing part popped up!Sorry!😂😂).
Why is this so accurate 😅 I feel attacked 😂😂😂
Yes. I got the guards ready to feed the ravaging monster that wants to display its black belt in mental gymnastics.
Though I keep swinging between INTP and INFP
You can't swing between types...
@@kiyomi_kamimoto I've been suspecting the questionnaire.
@@Jokervision744 Try the test on the Personality Junkie website
INFP's are so drawn internally.
I GIGGLE A BIT BUT START CRYING BUT REALIZING THAT I SHOULD JUST BE ANGRY AT ME CRYIBG SO I START TO GIGGLE AGAIN BECAUSE I THINK ITS FUNNY THAT I WAS ANGRY
I have school tomorrow and it’s like 3:46 am rn actually I’m just going to cry, I’ll make sure it’s angry crying though.
This pushing others just so they wont find out that you're a potato in human form... it's so true.
I feel attacked 😂
Me literally daydreaming and zoning out during this video...
Why do I hate watching infp videos although they represent me so well ... perhaps I hate it when someone actually understands me
I have 2 assignments due tmr.. I havent started on either
OMG. I feel stabbed and ready to play over this video over over and over on my head😅😂❤
This entire video felt like a personal attack 😅
Not gonna lie.. as an INFJ I do mostly all of this too just without the procrastination and last minute stuff.. nah putting stuff off just stresses me out…
I can’t stop laughing I feel so called out 🤣
Oof lol
“wet with paint and tears” 😂
The ultimate goal for the INFP is to realize everyone is stupid. You will have empathy for everyone else. They are born stupid, so help them.
Like our friendship 😅😅😅
😅😅😅😅 um yeah pretty much. Uncomfortably accurate.
Everything is right 😅
ok ngl I think I zoned off during the video.....
THis Video Is An AttAcK!
GAH QUIT IT LMAO 🤣😂🤣 So INFP!
Omg the question "How are you?" is tricky, right? 😅
INFP with a bit of therapy, freaking rockstar man!! (When I say a bit, I’ve been in therapy at least 4 years now 🥹)
Well I didn't relate to the first few, but at the video went on, I began relating to it XD
Also, is it just me or does INFP habits sound a lot like ADHD?? 0>0
@@amandascavuzziThis has nothing to do with it. And the term "F" is an oversimplification of different types of Feeling. INFJs and INFPs have different types of 'F', as you call it.
So is it that INFP are better to be in art field, instead of unnatural field like programming for non-multimedia computer science etc? Any opinion on this?
Any type can be in any field. Our field of interest has nothing to do with our type.
All my therapy sessions just went drained as I watch this video….so I was born this way? 😅
Nah bro trough the years I went from intp to entp and now I am INFP, test reflects your current state of mind, it is valuable tool but nothing more.
I was just slightly leaning E when I got that ENTP result so I guess only real change over the years is going from thinking to feeling oriented, which coincided with me ditching atheism when I finally realized that we can never understand the universe with our limited logical minds.
I feel free from limitations of seeking answers at last, I let them come intuitively or not now instead of expending all that energy in a fruitless pursuit, thinking is overrated.
Do your own research but yes- Most agree that we are born with one of the 16 personality types but the personality (within the type) changes drastically throughout the years and of course is also affected by environment experiences etc...Also many people can't discover their type by taking a test on their own.