She didn't invest time in me because she took me for granted and thought I would wait. Someone more dedicated appeared in my life and she was furious when I stopped reaching out. Oh the duality of human brain.
I've been in this situation before.... Sometimes they just keep you as an option or validation. The most annoying part is some of these girls instigate the relationship. Another annoying thing again is they know they are not serious with you but don't want another girl around you.
Focus on conquering life not women fellas. If she doesn’t want to join ur journey to success then that’s her loss. The grass isn’t greener. She will find that out. And if u do what u were suppose to be doing which is leveling up, she will find a way to resort back for whatever reason. I advise u at that point to ignore her and give her the same energy.
“You break your own heart by expecting people to be as attached to you as you are to them” I always learn new things from you, God will keep blessing and protecting you for us. Much love from Nigeria 🇳🇬🫶🏼🇬🇭
If you have to fight for her attention,youve already lost,they cheat because they think you will always be there no matter what happens as long as you dont find out!They no longer respect you and when that happens its over!The respect is the key,once you suspect something is wrong,follow and question the respect part!!!!!!Dont ignore the signs!!!
I'm glad you put that in perspective I've been dealing with that Alot silent treatment always on the phone but constantly ignoring me and my intuition has been real strong but she would answer no when I ask if it's someone else.
Am fifth to drop a comment,, Jessica has made me a powerful man for sure... Am a good student of her when it comes to relationship and marriage life... Give me a heart today.
Hi jessica , 1 yr ago i had a breakup with my ex , i thought she will come back , but now its been 1 year , now im changed , i dont care for her ! Jessica from that time i constantly watched your videos , and now also , you are making me myself , whatever happens in life i have jessica Love from india ❤️
But there is one big problem here, being attracted, even sexually and always having someone on your mind and responding quick can also be immaturity and attachment out of fear of abandonment, needing to either receive impulsive maternal care or give impulsive maternal care, like to a crying baby, through sex, since the chemical released when eating is oxytocin, the same feel good chemical released during sex and when feeling secure. This means the relationship is not about a mutual partnership for life with respect for each other, but is a dynamic of entitlement and anxiety about sexual gratification. So, no, I don't think always calling and respoding and having someone on your mind means anything valuable, you are an object of pleasure. The person that keeps calling, responding, having you in mind, when tested for respect for you, they fail, they love what they can get from you daily, a good feeling. Such individuals have not grown up and can't handle most of life's demands, a real relationship is above callling every time and constant obsession, it is about thoughtfulness and mindfulness, especially towards sex and social activities. Love is obsession, partnership is respect.
Jess, you’ve told my story. I’m going through this at the moment. Funny enough, I’m the woman in the story. I told myself “ if it costs your peace of mind, you overpaid” then blocked him. I hope i recover soon. Thanks for this great video 🙏
I've got to admit that Jessica really gives some top class advice ❤️. She's really experienced and I can testify that what she's saying is very true. I've had a real life experience like that
The sad thing is is you learn to late . Unless you are a sigma male like I am . You give 1 shot the first text that is not answered leads to why didn’t you . The second time is it just walk away there is no excuses everyone has 2 seconds to answer a text . Even when they work multiple jobs as I do . Don’t be a fool stand up for yourself and your dignity. Don’t be a pushover.
Thanks and thanks so much, I needed it, I forced the answer out of her and she said it out uncomfortable that she can't say no and yes to my proposal because she needs me if I can be her Best friend with benefit, I just hope it is the right thing for me.
@@JessicaOS thanks so much for the advice, then I need to press forward, it will not be easy of this past years of hopping but just hope to find the right words to tell her.
😢😢 The third reason hit me hard recently Can you imagine that she rejecting me as her boyfriend in an interview rather mentioning someone's name, reason is that the said person ask it as a favor
Always enjoy and learn new things,is like you even no what Is going on in my relationship right now,thank for the advice,I will need to take action now before is too late, thanks
Thank you Jessie,good video as usual, sometimes it's hard to face the truth as it's not always what we like,in my case it's even worse as she only seems to love me when I've given her gifts or money 💰 but it's difficult to stop when you love her and known her long time but keep up the good work Jess,you always cheer me up and give me food for thought x
Not every body enjoys being called or texted every day like myself. I am often busy and I also need time to process how i feel about a new interaction with a person. Being in my face every day is unauthenic and a bit seemingly anxious. One should be able to trust and feel that they have me and that we enjoy each other's time if that is actually the case. We can make plans to meet up and know we are doing that and will connect then, but i don't believe in having to speak or text EVERY single day! Lol. Sorry, but that's a bit anxious and exhausting. I need a person to feel as secure as i do with me. 🙏🏽
I find a lot of self doubt in myself coming across things like this. At the same time people are so forceful for things to happen so quickly in this generation. Maybe this person wants you to build yourself in all the right ways. Maybe you should focus less on them and more on you. You break your heart because you refuse to focus on yourself first. What if that was the key all along to starting this relationship. Yes she might be a women and has broken hearts, but what if it’s because the very thing that caused it is because you’re afraid of being alone?
I've been through this ! she had many male friends called friends when confronted her trouble started but i made up my mine and blocked herfrom all communications it's been 5yrs now i don't miss her now
My ex girlfriend said she didn't feel a connection with me and didn't love me anymore. But she didn't want it to be the end. This was a very serious very loving relationship. I was crushed, devastated. I got angry tho because I was so upset, I wish I didn't get that way. We argued and blocked eachother and now we haven't talked in 5 months. I miss her so badly. I loved her so much. And now the thought of some other guy getting her love and affection is the worst pain I've ever felt. It's a tragedy.
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She didn't invest time in me because she took me for granted and thought I would wait. Someone more dedicated appeared in my life and she was furious when I stopped reaching out.
Oh the duality of human brain.
*female brain.
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Sometimes reality is dissappointing and hurts but you need to accept such realities to set yourself free.
I've been in this situation before.... Sometimes they just keep you as an option or validation. The most annoying part is some of these girls instigate the relationship. Another annoying thing again is they know they are not serious with you but don't want another girl around you.
Yeah she pursued me . Silent when away but when I visit her at work all on me says she missed me.
@@DTHRILLS.DANIEL.THRILLRIDETV It''s all games bro..... She just enjoys the extra attention she is getting from you.
Oh i personally wouldnt take her serious in terms of relationship cause i believe if shes really for me she would be willing to go all the way!
@@lawrencemiller8198 That's true
Focus on conquering life not women fellas. If she doesn’t want to join ur journey to success then that’s her loss. The grass isn’t greener. She will find that out. And if u do what u were suppose to be doing which is leveling up, she will find a way to resort back for whatever reason. I advise u at that point to ignore her and give her the same energy.
“You break your own heart by expecting people to be as attached to you as you are to them”
I always learn new things from you, God will keep blessing and protecting you for us.
Much love from Nigeria 🇳🇬🫶🏼🇬🇭
im staying with her as we speak,and whenever we are not together its like i dont exist and its killing me,so the video helps thank you Jess
Use the' scrambler "on her .ignore her. mirror her actions .make her chase you.then ask her to prove she cares
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She won’t know how to prove it because she doesn’t
😢😢This is exactly what i went through and after i left i realised i wasn't the only one she was dating 💔
If you have to fight for her attention,youve already lost,they cheat because they think you will always be there no matter what happens as long as you dont find out!They no longer respect you and when that happens its over!The respect is the key,once you suspect something is wrong,follow and question the respect part!!!!!!Dont ignore the signs!!!
I'm glad you put that in perspective I've been dealing with that Alot silent treatment always on the phone but constantly ignoring me and my intuition has been real strong but she would answer no when I ask if it's someone else.
Am fifth to drop a comment,, Jessica has made me a powerful man for sure... Am a good student of her when it comes to relationship and marriage life... Give me a heart today.
Whenever i think about someone i love i get frustrated and lonely thanks for your tips
"If you love with the expectation of being loved in return, you are simply wasting your time."
-Adult
A woman can also be in love with a man. But if he tells her that he needs space and distance, what is she to do? She can not force him to love her.
Hi jessica , 1 yr ago i had a breakup with my ex , i thought she will come back , but now its been 1 year , now im changed , i dont care for her ! Jessica from that time i constantly watched your videos , and now also , you are making me myself , whatever happens in life i have jessica
Love from india ❤️
This are commonsense issues, but problem we humans don't like using commonsense most of the time! We only learn after terrible experiences
True. We let emotions overcome common sense
You have said it all that's what I need now since my girl is messing up.
Such a articulate smart eloquently speaking lady!!!
But there is one big problem here, being attracted, even sexually and always having someone on your mind and responding quick can also be immaturity and attachment out of fear of abandonment, needing to either receive impulsive maternal care or give impulsive maternal care, like to a crying baby, through sex, since the chemical released when eating is oxytocin, the same feel good chemical released during sex and when feeling secure. This means the relationship is not about a mutual partnership for life with respect for each other, but is a dynamic of entitlement and anxiety about sexual gratification. So, no, I don't think always calling and respoding and having someone on your mind means anything valuable, you are an object of pleasure. The person that keeps calling, responding, having you in mind, when tested for respect for you, they fail, they love what they can get from you daily, a good feeling. Such individuals have not grown up and can't handle most of life's demands, a real relationship is above callling every time and constant obsession, it is about thoughtfulness and mindfulness, especially towards sex and social activities. Love is obsession, partnership is respect.
This video gave me so much clarity when i didnt want to acknowledge the obvious. Thank you.
This is exactly what I'm going through.
You know what to do bruh.
Jess, you’ve told my story. I’m going through this at the moment. Funny enough, I’m the woman in the story. I told myself “ if it costs your peace of mind, you overpaid” then blocked him. I hope i recover soon. Thanks for this great video 🙏
This got me teary but we move
I just got answer to the question that's been troubling me for 2 years now
When you know better you do better. Good luck
Feels great to know that, I'm free!!!
I've got to admit that Jessica really gives some top class advice ❤️. She's really experienced and I can testify that what she's saying is very true. I've had a real life experience like that
I guess you are always on point since you are a woman. I have learned or affirmed a lot of things in through watching and listening to you.
I love the way you express yourself and speak with flair. I guess i have to stick around to add to my vocabulary ❤
I needed this! Exactly what I'm feeling.
This why I love Jessica 🫶🏽
You are JUST too much... RESPECT!!!
The sad thing is is you learn to late . Unless you are a sigma male like I am . You give 1 shot the first text that is not answered leads to why didn’t you . The second time is it just walk away there is no excuses everyone has 2 seconds to answer a text . Even when they work multiple jobs as I do . Don’t be a fool stand up for yourself and your dignity. Don’t be a pushover.
I have seen Jessica's advice as very relatable and practical but this one is exceptional.
This really hit so hard & everything said here is the plain TRUTH
Awesome episode, Jess
Thank you!
You're welcome
Thank you Jessica,l have the answers l needed,someone is gone get ditched before evening
I definately enjoyed and learned alot from the video. Thank you Jessica always a big help
You are so welcome!
Hey Jessica here again!!! You’re always on point and I thank you for that ❤
You are so welcome
Thanks for your bold truths, I love your courage for Truth without fear nor favor, like you are too few to find. Thanks for great expo!
Thanks for listening
Every one of your videos I have watched so far I wish I had watched ten years ago because my self esteem would be higher
The realest thing I’ve heard all day 💯
She always there to heightened me, thank you
Jessica has always been clinical when it comes to this
Sometimes you know she doesn't love you as much or even value you but it's usually hard to let go.
Just exactly what I need right now. Thank youuuuuu ❤
Me too
This video right here! I kid you not it’s one to be valued!! Thank you JessOS.
It’s as real as it gets you are so correct about those ideas
Let me say you are just one of the best. You just solved what is giving me a headache in a few minutes. This is awesome ❤
Glad to be here again 👌🏽
Jess u r ALWAYS on point!!
Thank you
My best teacher ❤❤
You're a life saver Jess ...)
Great job Jessie you nailed it all , thanks for the tips ❤
You are so welcome!
This is so helpful
You make good points ❤❤
I wish I saw your podcast earlier last two months ❤❤😢😢 GOD BLESS YOU
I needed this video in Dec 2021 when she decided to come back again in my life for a 2nd chance and I thought she it d work this time😢😂😂😂
Thanks and thanks so much, I needed it, I forced the answer out of her and she said it out uncomfortable that she can't say no and yes to my proposal because she needs me if I can be her Best friend with benefit, I just hope it is the right thing for me.
You may lose in the end
@@JessicaOS thanks so much for the advice, then I need to press forward, it will not be easy of this past years of hopping but just hope to find the right words to tell her.
Friends for benefit is the best way to go
Tnk u soo much Jessica i really love ur channel bcuz u really heal mi alot in d process of healing
Thank you so much for sharing
Thank You! Need this right now.
Thank you ♥
This is very helpful 🤔
Really appreciate this video.
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you
You are so good but I don't know how you do it.amazing🍹🌹
Thank you! Cheers!
Is like you are prophesying my experience wow ❤ GOD BLESS YOU
Thats exactly my Same Perspectives in Interactions and Relationships
Thank you soo much lovely one❤️🌹❤️❤️🌹🌹I'm soo proud of you Queen🤗I hope you have a bless and wonderful weekend Mother Nature❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Thank you Jessica, you saved me.
Thank you miss Jessica o thanks for the information
Any time!
Thanks Jess🎉
This is currently happening to my relationship that I thought it will last forever 😢😢
Thanks for the insight Jessica
Thanks for explaining this ...everything makes sense now❤
You're so welcome!
😢😢 The third reason hit me hard recently
Can you imagine that she rejecting me as her boyfriend in an interview rather mentioning someone's name, reason is that the said person ask it as a favor
BS
I never imagined that
But don't want to think about it tho
Always enjoy and learn new things,is like you even no what Is going on in my relationship right now,thank for the advice,I will need to take action now before is too late, thanks
GOD BLESS YOU WOWW I WENT THROUGH THIS RECENTLY WOWW ❤❤
Thank You so much
No problem
This is so damn good , that’s really true
I've learnt something
Thank you Jessie,good video as usual, sometimes it's hard to face the truth as it's not always what we like,in my case it's even worse as she only seems to love me when I've given her gifts or money 💰 but it's difficult to stop when you love her and known her long time but keep up the good work Jess,you always cheer me up and give me food for thought x
You deserve better
I'm sorry but... You're beautiful!
Thank you Jessy!
Yep going through it now 😂 cant wait to quit
Thank you so much❤
❤ you advise
It's not about being busy it's about priority everybody looks at their phone
Good video ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Very well said Jessica
I needed this video
Jessica just spoke the hard truth ....young Kings!!!
Thumps up Jess
Not every body enjoys being called or texted every day like myself. I am often busy and I also need time to process how i feel about a new interaction with a person. Being in my face every day is unauthenic and a bit seemingly anxious. One should be able to trust and feel that they have me and that we enjoy each other's time if that is actually the case. We can make plans to meet up and know we are doing that and will connect then, but i don't believe in having to speak or text EVERY single day! Lol. Sorry, but that's a bit anxious and exhausting. I need a person to feel as secure as i do with me. 🙏🏽
Hey Awesome beautiful Darling Jessica OS, ❤❤❤ur unique mind,.
Thanks for listening
Learn or Perish...
You're right
Great video! 👍🏾
Funny I’m getting advice from a jessica having gotten broken by one 😅. L❤ve this channel
I find a lot of self doubt in myself coming across things like this. At the same time people are so forceful for things to happen so quickly in this generation. Maybe this person wants you to build yourself in all the right ways. Maybe you should focus less on them and more on you. You break your heart because you refuse to focus on yourself first. What if that was the key all along to starting this relationship. Yes she might be a women and has broken hearts, but what if it’s because the very thing that caused it is because you’re afraid of being alone?
I've been through this ! she had many male friends called friends when confronted her trouble started but i made up my mine and blocked herfrom all communications it's been 5yrs now i don't miss her now
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My ex girlfriend said she didn't feel a connection with me and didn't love me anymore. But she didn't want it to be the end. This was a very serious very loving relationship. I was crushed, devastated. I got angry tho because I was so upset, I wish I didn't get that way. We argued and blocked eachother and now we haven't talked in 5 months. I miss her so badly. I loved her so much. And now the thought of some other guy getting her love and affection is the worst pain I've ever felt. It's a tragedy.
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