Jessica..I have never left a comment before on TH-cam, but I just want you to know it is refreshing to see someone from another country prove that all humans throughout the world share the same problems in relationships. You do a great job of proving the point.
I’m not looking for anything, but I listened because of the title and I wasn’t disappointed. Incredible insight Jessica. You are providing a service and will be blessed for it. Take care.
Hi Jessica. You have the best videos seen by me so far about these subjects. Thank you and please continue the great work. I believe you are helping many men out there.
Jessica. In this video, you have reminded me of the5 important values of love. (components of love) These are: 1. Listening, 2. Caring 3. Tolerating 4. Forgiving. 5.Communicatimg
Number seven is excellent. Be scarce. I always urgue that if she really loves me then she will find a way to reach me. Hope we are on the same footing.
Good Talk, quite informative. My question is with all or at least four of these mentioned traits, what is the woman bringing to the table? The woman is unpredictable and might just fall in love with a respectful dude. I can tell that even with all these mentioned, a lady might still not like the guy or rather use him especially when he is financially stable. I think the guys should just be themselves...if you are nice and or if you are badass just be U..but know when to stay or walk away!
Annoying thing is that I am in the situation where the woman I don't really like, I subconsciously apply these rules, but for the woman I really like whom I went on a date with last night? There was no mystery, I let too much information out and when I got home, I just knew it and I concluded that I won't be seeing her for a while....
I love seeing you posing in nature. And, that lizard that stopped by made it even more serene. I follow you, and please thank you for all that I have learned from you.?
Please Jess, I am in love with a lady we've known for three years now I asked her out two weeks ago she said no she isn't ready for. Relationship yet. I always do the calling, she rarely or barely calls me I want to let go, maybe she doesn't love me but I still can't get to get over her.. I so much love her.
You're being needy sorry to say. Like a guy said earlier, it only happens when we really like someone. Make yourself not like her in that way and you'll get what you want. It's like this: wanting nothing, attracts everything.
I came across your channel and although I'm knowledgeable and experienced of most you have to say and offer, I've forgotten much. I like your channel, keep it up! Thank you.
I respect your views and the tips are on point. I like how you differentiated how it should be when a guy is trying to gain a girl's trust and when they're already in a relationship. Many guys would have misunderstood you and implemented the strategies wrongly. Nice !
Almost every dating coach say that and I've always disagreed somewhat, until she differentiated it. That makes a whole world of difference! Some broads want you as much and as often as possible. You are their world. They are into you. Nothing else exists. They enjoy seeing and talking to you. Period. Create any scarcity or mind games and you lose respect. Yea, she's right.
The lizard 🦎 left a first impression. 😊 Some men may not be financially stable at the moment; but they have a vision; they are working on something that would stabilize them financially in the future. It takes a real woman to identify that and be a catalyst in making the man’s vision a reality; instead of walking away because he doesn’t have it all together at the moment. Also, it’s okay to be scarce; not always on the woman’s beacon call , but it shouldn’t be excessive; else, she would deem you not to be trustworthy
Great work as always Jessica! Am also glad you featured the resort / ranch at the start of this video. I had watched another video abt this ranch and the length & efforts it took for it to get to what we know of it today. Am extremely delighted in all the efforts you and several others are taking to show case Africa and all its wonders to help change the colonial narratives. Believe it or not, several Africans in the diaspora are also shocked with some of what you guys putting out as many of them only remember the Africa of last century. Finally, you know I had to comment about the lizard right! Dont worry, am sure you will get desensitized as you do more outdoor videos. Never know what may be coming at you when you are in the motherland which is the cradle of civilization and the place where you can be closest to nature. Thanks in all you do.
Could not hold back my laughter with that statement "feed her with little crumbs of your life". That's a great point because on a reverse note, girls who does this to men tend to get the chase and often make the men pursue or chase to whatever lengths it takes.
I’m glad she clarified..”If you are already in a relationship, these techniques, such as “Scarceness” will lead to suspicion.. Many people try to change the players game in the 9th inning and end up blowing their relationship. Be you, be who you are & if you have to play these mind games with women, simply leave them. There are women that are looking for men that don’t wanna play games..
Hi Jess, I'm a English learner, I was looking for something on TH-cam that I'm interested in just to enjoy the process of learning,so when found your Chanel I felt in love with your accent, your skin glow like diamond 💎, there's a connection between you and me while you speak,and I understand almost everything.
That’s very factual what you have said Jessica. Financial stability does give a man lots of confidence, and gives him the ability to certainly leave a lasting impression. So glad that lizard didn’t come your way sweet ❤️💛💚
Hey Jessica...how lovely you counsel us! I'm looking forward to seeing you... I live in Togo and GH is my favorite outside-home place. Muchly appreciated! I enjoy watching your videos. You're like a sisi counseling her brother..! Gratitude!
funny thing is most of these things work effortlessly when you don't really like the woman and she does most of the work to try and get your attention and she is the one who needs to watch videos like these to try and get you to think about her, its a vicious cycle lol !
@@JessicaOS Everything you've said in the vid is absolutely correct but the one that really hit the message home is the one about financial stability. So what happens to those of us who ain't financially stable but the heart still yearns? You should do a video about that.
How much money plays in relationships? Can any relationship thrive without it? Jessica, you are among the fastest-growing TH-camrs I have come across keep up the good work.
just new to this channel but i love most of the videos so far,not only coz they have great content but the way Jessica delivers her videos is exceptional!
The most perplexing thing about the channel is your dazzling beauty.
It's so overwhelming sometimes one loses concentration of what you're saying
Your reaction at sighting the lizard brought so much of my mum's memory to me. May her soul RIP.
Thanks for making my day
“Make yourself scarce” I like that your point so much and all what’ve you said are absolutely right... thanks for sharing!
I feel like you must also somehow let women know that it's not only about them being impressed. Men we also need that too.
I’m a woman and listened to this…honestly, she’s right!!!!! Love it
Jesca l left one and she still remember me up to now.
I agree
Then they go for the jerk that treats them bad, I tansitioned into the jerk it pays off.
Thanks for been honest
Jessica what should I give my girlfriend on valentine's day
... as Maya Angelou once said, "People never forget how you made them feel" ... this is total experience as you put it; sight, scent, demeanor, etc.
So on point I tried being scarce and she fell even more
Jessica..I have never left a comment before on TH-cam, but I just want you to know it is refreshing to see someone from another country prove that all humans throughout the world share the same problems in relationships. You do a great job of proving the point.
Thanks
@@JessicaOS ok nice I take it could u plz hit more on how I can get my woman's feelings
Hi. I wish I had a woman. Would of done everything you said.....
@@lugayizimichael3572me to bro❤
Very satisfactory learning from you.
I’m not looking for anything, but I listened because of the title and I wasn’t disappointed. Incredible insight Jessica. You are providing a service and will be blessed for it. Take care.
It's amazing how Jessica and the production team decided to keep the 🦎 part in the video. That adds to the fun and originality
Indeed so funny
I like it too! It makes it original!!
😍😍😍 a lizzard
Jessica so real. Its always a pleasure watching you as you dish out those women secrets. You're doing great work. Feeling you here from Nigeria!
Hi Jessica. You have the best videos seen by me so far about these subjects. Thank you and please continue the great work. I believe you are helping many men out there.
i just love this lady...so cool and down to earth, everything just flows naturally when she speaks.
Yes ooh 🙏👍
Exactly, I love her naturality - some would've trim the agama lizard part away. Kudos
I really enjoy your reading. I'm getting to the point that I just want to be single. The world has changed so much. Thanks again have a blessed day
Jessica. In this video, you have reminded me of the5 important values of love. (components of love) These are: 1. Listening, 2. Caring 3. Tolerating 4. Forgiving. 5.Communicatimg
Link me the video on the values of love
Saved
I totally agree with you on almost every point But being scarce is one thing you should do with caution cos it could backfire
In west Africa Ghana...
There's beautiful people...
Thank you Jessica for this new content...
Number seven is excellent. Be scarce. I always urgue that if she really loves me then she will find a way to reach me. Hope we are on the same footing.
Very educative justifications dear, much love from South Sudan🇸🇸
I love you Jessica. You're real. I really like the Agama lizard part. Kudos dear.
S/o to us smart men that listen to our woman to become better men. Supporting from Cincinnati
I really don't know much to say about you, all I want say in the moment is that I love the woman in you. Am glad you're there. Thanks 🙏
Let us be prayerful towards our relationship and do the right thing, that’s all we need, get close to God and everything will be fine
Thank you! Is very simple everyone chatting shit as if they really got the power
Great
Anytime a person manipulates another to fulfill his or her standards or demands, it is called witchcraft. Being prayerful is always the key....
True. Just like those who use the law of attraction then claim to know God...
Hello, I agree with you, we must put God first in everything we do.Thanks
Enjoy looking at you and listening to your voice and coaching techniques that causes me to smile from sense memory.
Your originality oozes genuineness and good confidence.
Keep it up
Nice one.(Don't be predictable & be scarce)
I love the fact you emphasised on , people already in a relationship ie established relationships as to obviously wooing a lady .
I like it real and you are doing justice to that. I am a big fan from Nigeria.
I CAN see that Jessica does apply her knowledge in real life like she can be mysterious you never know when or what time shell post grate content
lol
I like you and your contents Miss Jessica
100%.....keep its up!
That is "experience." 😚👌
us as men dont know much about ladies buh you help us in every way...as we focus on other things and other details
Good Talk, quite informative.
My question is with all or at least four of these mentioned traits, what is the woman bringing to the table? The woman is unpredictable and might just fall in love with a respectful dude. I can tell that even with all these mentioned, a lady might still not like the guy or rather use him especially when he is financially stable.
I think the guys should just be themselves...if you are nice and or if you are badass just be U..but know when to stay or walk away!
Jessica for this has attached mi for sure n thankx alot for love tips,always following straight away here in Abudhabi but from uganda
You're such an intelligent lady. I've been avoiding your vids and just giving a a try today, I've already watched two hours nonstop.💜🌹😇👌
Hahaha! Thank you for the compliment
Me too
Annoying thing is that I am in the situation where the woman I don't really like, I subconsciously apply these rules, but for the woman I really like whom I went on a date with last night? There was no mystery, I let too much information out and when I got home, I just knew it and I concluded that I won't be seeing her for a while....
I love seeing you posing in nature. And, that lizard that stopped by made it even more serene. I follow you, and please thank you for all that I have learned from you.?
Ghana is such a great paradise 🔥🔥🔥
Thank you for this new great content Jessica 💯
You're most welcome
🤦🏾♂️Jess.... 😂... You nearly bumped the camera 😂Thanks for the tips gal....
I've been to Ghana and it is a paradise. The further you get from the city the more it looks like a paradise.
I think i have already started understanding women after watching two or three videos in this channel, big thanks from 254 🇰🇪🇰🇪 Jessica
Thank you so much Jessica, may the creator of the universe grant you ur heart desires and each and everyone watching this video 🥰🥰
Madam Jessica your lectures about a man and a woman is so sweet and powerful
I am learning a lot from you Jessica and like you how I wish if I was financially stable I would love to meet you
Thank you for all the good videos
Please Jess, I am in love with a lady we've known for three years now I asked her out two weeks ago she said no she isn't ready for. Relationship yet. I always do the calling, she rarely or barely calls me I want to let go, maybe she doesn't love me but I still can't get to get over her.. I so much love her.
You're being needy sorry to say. Like a guy said earlier, it only happens when we really like someone. Make yourself not like her in that way and you'll get what you want. It's like this: wanting nothing, attracts everything.
At least from my viewpoint; both your intellectual and emotional prowess are in good balance.
Thanks for sharing such wholesome content.
Stay blessed.
Jessica, I have been watching your videos for awhile and you are definitely one of my favourites. I am French and live in my country.
Merci
Wow I mean your information be so on point that is mind-bobbling I would definitely love to come to Ghana to visit🔥🔥🔥💯❤️❤️
Very proud of your post,coz they are real,working and educative,following you from Kenya
i never get enough of her lessons....i always look forward to her latest on this platform.Well done Jessi
Mhi🇺🇬
I came across your channel and although I'm knowledgeable and experienced of most you have to say and offer, I've forgotten much. I like your channel, keep it up! Thank you.
Concur with number 6 and 7.
Works for me always.
thank you for the tips. I thought of a few of these myself and hearing them here confirms I should try it as well as new tips too.
I like the silent mention of your name in the theme music🎶
God bless you 🙏 madam, very important advise to all 🇿🇲
I needed this content soo baldly and boom it here, thanks Jessica ❤🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
I have seen that agama lizard script before , you don't need that style cos you already got your style going good
Fantastic and trust me you re really endowed with a lot of things . Thank you for your availability and the things you ve got for us.
You're a game changer watching you from 🇿🇲 Zambia
Simply loved it. Words sounds is power. Jamaican connection Upness
Out of all of your videos I think this one was the best and the most natural. I love the look on your face. Priceless.... Much 😍 Love.
I respect your views and the tips are on point.
I like how you differentiated how it should be when a guy is trying to gain a girl's trust and when they're already in a relationship.
Many guys would have misunderstood you and implemented the strategies wrongly.
Nice !
Almost every dating coach say that and I've always disagreed somewhat, until she differentiated it. That makes a whole world of difference! Some broads want you as much and as often as possible. You are their world. They are into you. Nothing else exists. They enjoy seeing and talking to you. Period. Create any scarcity or mind games and you lose respect. Yea, she's right.
Shout out to you Jess from London.
You are amazing.
Thanks so much Jessica…I love you so much🥰🥰
Watching from Nigeria,the last point got me more
Thanks Jessica,I chose you no.1, adviser in Africa.
The lizard 🦎 left a first impression. 😊
Some men may not be financially stable at the moment; but they have a vision; they are working on something that would stabilize them financially in the future. It takes a real woman to identify that and be a catalyst in making the man’s vision a reality; instead of walking away because he doesn’t have it all together at the moment.
Also, it’s okay to be scarce; not always on the woman’s beacon call , but it shouldn’t be excessive; else, she would deem you not to be trustworthy
Lol...money counts bro,they are mot ready to read what you just wrote...money talk,others walk
@@SimPlayNation tell him oh 🤣🤣🤣🤣
what you just said is typically of me...I may not have the money now but I'm just working my ass off to making it
You spoke very wisely bro.... Let's try and build our men ...
@@Abobi_Jonez thanks
Thanks Jessica you are soo smart and this the best one of your videos I have seen so far.
I like the exploring of other camera angles, it's good to see.
Amazing content as always.
Glad you like them!
@@JessicaOS Good stuff
Thank you Jessica I learned alotv in this video .
You are the best I've forgotten all the rest
Kevin from UK 🇬🇧 Radcliffe Manchester
Great work as always Jessica! Am also glad you featured the resort / ranch at the start of this video. I had watched another video abt this ranch and the length & efforts it took for it to get to what we know of it today.
Am extremely delighted in all the efforts you and several others are taking to show case Africa and all its wonders to help change the colonial narratives. Believe it or not, several Africans in the diaspora are also shocked with some of what you guys putting out as many of them only remember the Africa of last century.
Finally, you know I had to comment about the lizard right! Dont worry, am sure you will get desensitized as you do more outdoor videos. Never know what may be coming at you when you are in the motherland which is the cradle of civilization and the place where you can be closest to nature. Thanks in all you do.
Could not hold back my laughter with that statement "feed her with little crumbs of your life".
That's a great point because on a reverse note, girls who does this to men tend to get the chase and often make the men pursue or chase to whatever lengths it takes.
Pete! Thanks for your time and support
Restore Africa to her God: given position one in all sundry
On POINT!
Our upbringing plays a role in how we project ourselves. If you were denied love, you'll surely chase after it and so on...😢
And sadly, nobody bats an eye...
Hey Jesca, thanks for the videos, they are really helpful. i didnt understand my lady well but now i do and thanks to you. i cant wait for more
It the 'Reanless' approach you put in your video productions for me
You Keep it 💯 every time... i do be listening 👂 how you use your words... Bring out that Gentleman Savage ... 😂
I'm a language lover, and the first reason why I watch this channel is the MASTERY OF LANGUAGE... I DOFF my CAP in front of you Jess!
Awww! Thanks
Are you afraid of lizards jessica ?
Hhhhhhhhhhh. Lizards.
Thanks it really make sense, things I already knew but it's always a great feeling to be reminded very important info guys
I’m glad she clarified..”If you are already in a relationship, these techniques, such as “Scarceness” will lead to suspicion.. Many people try to change the players game in the 9th inning and end up blowing their relationship. Be you, be who you are & if you have to play these mind games with women, simply leave them. There are women that are looking for men that don’t wanna play games..
I really needed this Jessica. This was helpful.
Hi Jess,
I'm a English learner, I was looking for something on TH-cam that I'm interested in just to enjoy the process of learning,so when found your Chanel I felt in love with your accent, your skin glow like diamond 💎, there's a connection between you and me while you speak,and I understand almost everything.
God bless you Mama Jessica. I really feel the last point and I’m taking more lessons which is working perfect❤️❤️🥰🤩
Wonderful advice. I like the lizard moment. It spiced up the video.
That’s very factual what you have said Jessica. Financial stability does give a man lots of confidence, and gives him the ability to certainly leave a lasting impression. So glad that lizard didn’t come your way sweet ❤️💛💚
😅😅
@@JessicaOS You've Incredibly Beautiful!
Hey Jessica...how lovely you counsel us! I'm looking forward to seeing you... I live in Togo and GH is my favorite outside-home place. Muchly appreciated! I enjoy watching your videos. You're like a sisi counseling her brother..! Gratitude!
You are a genius, u're a beautiful woman and you are a special being. God bless you more Jessica.
Lovely lady and truly wonderful ... Following from Kenya.
Jessica, you nailing it Mummy, more blessings and keep enlightening the Boychild😋😋🤲@Kenya
🤣🤣🤣kenya tunateswa na daughters of jezebel
Thanks for everything you have won my attention please keep it up much respect dear
funny thing is most of these things work effortlessly when you don't really like the woman and she does most of the work to try and get your attention and she is the one who needs to watch videos like these to try and get you to think about her, its a vicious cycle lol !
Lol
Hahahahahaha....!!! You hit the nail on the head my guy.
@@JessicaOS Everything you've said in the vid is absolutely correct but the one that really hit the message home is the one about financial stability. So what happens to those of us who ain't financially stable but the heart still yearns? You should do a video about that.
@@cheagunga5993 your heart shouldn't yearn if your pocket isn't earning. Stay on the grind and self improvement then everything will fall in place
Spot on Tembo
Thank you Jessica, I need to work on the last one especially.
Leave a good impression well said sis.Taking care of yourself is a must.You are right financial stable👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
The problem is that most women are not even that financially stable yet thats what they ask for
Typical woman, only cares about the money…
@Shafiu Sani yes bro
@Shafiu Sani yes bro. I do
Thank you for sharing Coach
How much money plays in relationships? Can any relationship thrive without it? Jessica, you are among the fastest-growing TH-camrs I have come across keep up the good work.
ALEX KUMI U can't handle a woman without money. An elder told me this
Make money, work on yourself king.
They will come
You only need enough to stop worrying about the end of the month.
Soooo smooth in your style and easy to pay attention to. You really make me relax smile and think
You should come here and do a series of live shows.
Your sense of humor is adorable!! This episode is very interesting and informative. I appreciate it 😊
I love how you easily communicate and be understood, soft voice, clear and on point, my first day to find your channel, humble to follow you
I really look forward to your insights and perspectives on women and general stuff. Keep inspiring
While
I needed this information.... thanks a million.
TORONTO: Let me know when you're in town...definitely going to check out Accra this year!
Hi , jessica your great, and I love your program and your comand of. English language,am a Nigerian.Please keep it up.
You Doing A Great Work Jessica OS 👍🏽
Jessica i never miss any of your video thanks so much. 🇨🇦🇨🇦
just new to this channel but i love most of the videos so far,not only coz they have great content but the way Jessica delivers her videos is exceptional!
Thanks ,you are right small things matter and being unique and misterious is the key!
Great explanation on #4 @Jessica OS.... Emotional attachment is really what we need sometimes.
I like your videos Jessica you’re a future and realist person