Number seven is excellent. Be scarce. I always urgue that if she really loves me then she will find a way to reach me. Hope we are on the same footing.
The lizard 🦎 left a first impression. 😊 Some men may not be financially stable at the moment; but they have a vision; they are working on something that would stabilize them financially in the future. It takes a real woman to identify that and be a catalyst in making the man’s vision a reality; instead of walking away because he doesn’t have it all together at the moment. Also, it’s okay to be scarce; not always on the woman’s beacon call , but it shouldn’t be excessive; else, she would deem you not to be trustworthy
Jessica..I have never left a comment before on TH-cam, but I just want you to know it is refreshing to see someone from another country prove that all humans throughout the world share the same problems in relationships. You do a great job of proving the point.
*It’s about creating a positive, intriguing presence that she’ll associate with good vibes. Women notice when a guy is genuine, confident, and engaged.*
Jessica. In this video, you have reminded me of the5 important values of love. (components of love) These are: 1. Listening, 2. Caring 3. Tolerating 4. Forgiving. 5.Communicatimg
I’m glad she clarified..”If you are already in a relationship, these techniques, such as “Scarceness” will lead to suspicion.. Many people try to change the players game in the 9th inning and end up blowing their relationship. Be you, be who you are & if you have to play these mind games with women, simply leave them. There are women that are looking for men that don’t wanna play games..
I’m not looking for anything, but I listened because of the title and I wasn’t disappointed. Incredible insight Jessica. You are providing a service and will be blessed for it. Take care.
Hi Jessica. You have the best videos seen by me so far about these subjects. Thank you and please continue the great work. I believe you are helping many men out there.
Please Jess, I am in love with a lady we've known for three years now I asked her out two weeks ago she said no she isn't ready for. Relationship yet. I always do the calling, she rarely or barely calls me I want to let go, maybe she doesn't love me but I still can't get to get over her.. I so much love her.
You're being needy sorry to say. Like a guy said earlier, it only happens when we really like someone. Make yourself not like her in that way and you'll get what you want. It's like this: wanting nothing, attracts everything.
It sounds a little manipulative, but from my life experience you are absolutely right. I have had women tell me to my face, "You're too nice." Not any more.......
Jessica! You so much get it. Women who are really attractive don't lack male attention so they are looking for something deeper than the surface level.
How much money plays in relationships? Can any relationship thrive without it? Jessica, you are among the fastest-growing TH-camrs I have come across keep up the good work.
Hi Jess, I'm a English learner, I was looking for something on TH-cam that I'm interested in just to enjoy the process of learning,so when found your Chanel I felt in love with your accent, your skin glow like diamond 💎, there's a connection between you and me while you speak,and I understand almost everything.
But they are very few women in the world who are blessed with that kind of wisdom like you Jessica. You are such a powerful woman. Blessed is your husband.
Annoying thing is that I am in the situation where the woman I don't really like, I subconsciously apply these rules, but for the woman I really like whom I went on a date with last night? There was no mystery, I let too much information out and when I got home, I just knew it and I concluded that I won't be seeing her for a while....
Simple: Display your success and make your intentions clear After dating her: Make sure you brush her like button and give her a thumbs up like she never had it before.
Good Talk, quite informative. My question is with all or at least four of these mentioned traits, what is the woman bringing to the table? The woman is unpredictable and might just fall in love with a respectful dude. I can tell that even with all these mentioned, a lady might still not like the guy or rather use him especially when he is financially stable. I think the guys should just be themselves...if you are nice and or if you are badass just be U..but know when to stay or walk away!
You are such a smart lady, it’s just sad I didn’t get to see this video before getting into a relationship, I’ve encountered almost everything you’ve just mentioned. I think she’ll appreciate you more when you not too available
funny thing is most of these things work effortlessly when you don't really like the woman and she does most of the work to try and get your attention and she is the one who needs to watch videos like these to try and get you to think about her, its a vicious cycle lol !
@@JessicaOS Everything you've said in the vid is absolutely correct but the one that really hit the message home is the one about financial stability. So what happens to those of us who ain't financially stable but the heart still yearns? You should do a video about that.
Thanks a lot sister...I can add the 8th one...Men do not have to fear and jump away from a lizard when the lady is with him. But when alone he has all the right to jump and run🙄🙄 Thanks once again,I hv enjoyed you video
That’s very factual what you have said Jessica. Financial stability does give a man lots of confidence, and gives him the ability to certainly leave a lasting impression. So glad that lizard didn’t come your way sweet ❤️💛💚
Guy’s be natural, go with the flow, there’s no manual to any relationship. I’ve a situation of this Mistry she’s talking about, and I ended loosing her, because she complained I was too secretive and I don’t make her know about me enough.
LMAO!!! When that lizard showed up, you turned from this strong superwoman with all the wisdom to this girly girl. Loved it because it made you so human, though it was really funny to see you scared.
Is the voice, the vocal, the body language, the points and presentations or the contents? It was so powerful, enlightening and absolutely fantastic. It was so delightful to watch and I couldn't stop smiling. It was really super and beautiful. Loved it all. Many thanks for sharing.
I respect your views and the tips are on point. I like how you differentiated how it should be when a guy is trying to gain a girl's trust and when they're already in a relationship. Many guys would have misunderstood you and implemented the strategies wrongly. Nice !
Almost every dating coach say that and I've always disagreed somewhat, until she differentiated it. That makes a whole world of difference! Some broads want you as much and as often as possible. You are their world. They are into you. Nothing else exists. They enjoy seeing and talking to you. Period. Create any scarcity or mind games and you lose respect. Yea, she's right.
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf.............
Jessica I'm impressed by what you do. Can you just please shed light on the issue of religious differences...this is a major important issue or factor that has or is affecting lots of relationships
Great work as always Jessica! Am also glad you featured the resort / ranch at the start of this video. I had watched another video abt this ranch and the length & efforts it took for it to get to what we know of it today. Am extremely delighted in all the efforts you and several others are taking to show case Africa and all its wonders to help change the colonial narratives. Believe it or not, several Africans in the diaspora are also shocked with some of what you guys putting out as many of them only remember the Africa of last century. Finally, you know I had to comment about the lizard right! Dont worry, am sure you will get desensitized as you do more outdoor videos. Never know what may be coming at you when you are in the motherland which is the cradle of civilization and the place where you can be closest to nature. Thanks in all you do.
Could not hold back my laughter with that statement "feed her with little crumbs of your life". That's a great point because on a reverse note, girls who does this to men tend to get the chase and often make the men pursue or chase to whatever lengths it takes.
Some of us are already sorted on the "Lasting impression department" Bcos lasting impressions has a lot to do with how us dude's were actually brought up. So it's a nature thing really. And I'm sorry for the ArrogancyBand bcos they gonna learn going against the hard way. Ps. Anyway thanks for the drop my 👑 🎯
The most perplexing thing about the channel is your dazzling beauty.
It's so overwhelming sometimes one loses concentration of what you're saying
Your reaction at sighting the lizard brought so much of my mum's memory to me. May her soul RIP.
Thanks for making my day
I feel like you must also somehow let women know that it's not only about them being impressed. Men we also need that too.
“Make yourself scarce” I like that your point so much and all what’ve you said are absolutely right... thanks for sharing!
I’m a woman and listened to this…honestly, she’s right!!!!! Love it
Jesca l left one and she still remember me up to now.
I agree
Then they go for the jerk that treats them bad, I tansitioned into the jerk it pays off.
Thanks for been honest
Jessica what should I give my girlfriend on valentine's day
I really don't know much to say about you, all I want say in the moment is that I love the woman in you. Am glad you're there. Thanks 🙏
So on point I tried being scarce and she fell even more
Number seven is excellent. Be scarce. I always urgue that if she really loves me then she will find a way to reach me. Hope we are on the same footing.
S/o to us smart men that listen to our woman to become better men. Supporting from Cincinnati
It's amazing how Jessica and the production team decided to keep the 🦎 part in the video. That adds to the fun and originality
Indeed so funny
I like it too! It makes it original!!
😍😍😍 a lizzard
Let us be prayerful towards our relationship and do the right thing, that’s all we need, get close to God and everything will be fine
Thank you! Is very simple everyone chatting shit as if they really got the power
Great
Anytime a person manipulates another to fulfill his or her standards or demands, it is called witchcraft. Being prayerful is always the key....
True. Just like those who use the law of attraction then claim to know God...
Hello, I agree with you, we must put God first in everything we do.Thanks
... as Maya Angelou once said, "People never forget how you made them feel" ... this is total experience as you put it; sight, scent, demeanor, etc.
The lizard 🦎 left a first impression. 😊
Some men may not be financially stable at the moment; but they have a vision; they are working on something that would stabilize them financially in the future. It takes a real woman to identify that and be a catalyst in making the man’s vision a reality; instead of walking away because he doesn’t have it all together at the moment.
Also, it’s okay to be scarce; not always on the woman’s beacon call , but it shouldn’t be excessive; else, she would deem you not to be trustworthy
Lol...money counts bro,they are mot ready to read what you just wrote...money talk,others walk
@@basketballgh tell him oh 🤣🤣🤣🤣
what you just said is typically of me...I may not have the money now but I'm just working my ass off to making it
You spoke very wisely bro.... Let's try and build our men ...
@@Abobi_Jonez thanks
Jessica..I have never left a comment before on TH-cam, but I just want you to know it is refreshing to see someone from another country prove that all humans throughout the world share the same problems in relationships. You do a great job of proving the point.
Thanks
@@JessicaOS ok nice I take it could u plz hit more on how I can get my woman's feelings
Hi. I wish I had a woman. Would of done everything you said.....
@@lugayizimichael3572me to bro❤
Very satisfactory learning from you.
i just love this lady...so cool and down to earth, everything just flows naturally when she speaks.
Yes ooh 🙏👍
Exactly, I love her naturality - some would've trim the agama lizard part away. Kudos
*It’s about creating a positive, intriguing presence that she’ll associate with good vibes. Women notice when a guy is genuine, confident, and engaged.*
I really enjoy your reading. I'm getting to the point that I just want to be single. The world has changed so much. Thanks again have a blessed day
I totally agree with you on almost every point But being scarce is one thing you should do with caution cos it could backfire
Jessica. In this video, you have reminded me of the5 important values of love. (components of love) These are: 1. Listening, 2. Caring 3. Tolerating 4. Forgiving. 5.Communicatimg
Link me the video on the values of love
Saved
I’m glad she clarified..”If you are already in a relationship, these techniques, such as “Scarceness” will lead to suspicion.. Many people try to change the players game in the 9th inning and end up blowing their relationship. Be you, be who you are & if you have to play these mind games with women, simply leave them. There are women that are looking for men that don’t wanna play games..
I’m not looking for anything, but I listened because of the title and I wasn’t disappointed. Incredible insight Jessica. You are providing a service and will be blessed for it. Take care.
On POINT!
Our upbringing plays a role in how we project ourselves. If you were denied love, you'll surely chase after it and so on...😢
And sadly, nobody bats an eye...
In west Africa Ghana...
There's beautiful people...
Thank you Jessica for this new content...
I think i have already started understanding women after watching two or three videos in this channel, big thanks from 254 🇰🇪🇰🇪 Jessica
Hi Jessica. You have the best videos seen by me so far about these subjects. Thank you and please continue the great work. I believe you are helping many men out there.
Please Jess, I am in love with a lady we've known for three years now I asked her out two weeks ago she said no she isn't ready for. Relationship yet. I always do the calling, she rarely or barely calls me I want to let go, maybe she doesn't love me but I still can't get to get over her.. I so much love her.
You're being needy sorry to say. Like a guy said earlier, it only happens when we really like someone. Make yourself not like her in that way and you'll get what you want. It's like this: wanting nothing, attracts everything.
Jessica so real. Its always a pleasure watching you as you dish out those women secrets. You're doing great work. Feeling you here from Nigeria!
I'm a language lover, and the first reason why I watch this channel is the MASTERY OF LANGUAGE... I DOFF my CAP in front of you Jess!
Awww! Thanks
Are you afraid of lizards jessica ?
Hhhhhhhhhhh. Lizards.
I love the fact you emphasised on , people already in a relationship ie established relationships as to obviously wooing a lady .
Madam Jessica your lectures about a man and a woman is so sweet and powerful
Concur with number 6 and 7.
Works for me always.
It sounds a little manipulative, but from my life experience you are absolutely right. I have had women tell me to my face, "You're too nice." Not any more.......
Thank you so much Jessica, may the creator of the universe grant you ur heart desires and each and everyone watching this video 🥰🥰
us as men dont know much about ladies buh you help us in every way...as we focus on other things and other details
You are a genius, u're a beautiful woman and you are a special being. God bless you more Jessica.
Enjoy looking at you and listening to your voice and coaching techniques that causes me to smile from sense memory.
Very educative justifications dear, much love from South Sudan🇸🇸
The Tip of don't be always Available makes perfect sense and it works for me many times.
Jessica and Khanyi Mbau should address the 2022 Men's conference. We could let a lot from them gents.
Number 3 is the starting point the conversation
Ghana is such a great paradise 🔥🔥🔥
Thank you for this new great content Jessica 💯
You're most welcome
🤦🏾♂️Jess.... 😂... You nearly bumped the camera 😂Thanks for the tips gal....
I've been to Ghana and it is a paradise. The further you get from the city the more it looks like a paradise.
Jessica! You so much get it. Women who are really attractive don't lack male attention so they are looking for something deeper than the surface level.
How much money plays in relationships? Can any relationship thrive without it? Jessica, you are among the fastest-growing TH-camrs I have come across keep up the good work.
ALEX KUMI U can't handle a woman without money. An elder told me this
Make money, work on yourself king.
They will come
You only need enough to stop worrying about the end of the month.
Hi Jess,
I'm a English learner, I was looking for something on TH-cam that I'm interested in just to enjoy the process of learning,so when found your Chanel I felt in love with your accent, your skin glow like diamond 💎, there's a connection between you and me while you speak,and I understand almost everything.
Your originality oozes genuineness and good confidence.
Keep it up
But they are very few women in the world who are blessed with that kind of wisdom like you Jessica. You are such a powerful woman. Blessed is your husband.
Might be single waiting for arkim ny finest
You're such an intelligent lady. I've been avoiding your vids and just giving a a try today, I've already watched two hours nonstop.💜🌹😇👌
Hahaha! Thank you for the compliment
Me too
Annoying thing is that I am in the situation where the woman I don't really like, I subconsciously apply these rules, but for the woman I really like whom I went on a date with last night? There was no mystery, I let too much information out and when I got home, I just knew it and I concluded that I won't be seeing her for a while....
Thanks Jessica,I chose you no.1, adviser in Africa.
Simple: Display your success and make your intentions clear
After dating her: Make sure you brush her like button and give her a thumbs up like she never had it before.
Last one always works...... (Love from India, Tamil Nadu)
Fantastic and trust me you re really endowed with a lot of things . Thank you for your availability and the things you ve got for us.
The lizard part is actually very beautiful because of your flawless laughter. My best part 😊.
🤣
I CAN see that Jessica does apply her knowledge in real life like she can be mysterious you never know when or what time shell post grate content
lol
I like you and your contents Miss Jessica
100%.....keep its up!
That is "experience." 😚👌
Nice one.(Don't be predictable & be scarce)
The destination 🔥🔥🔥
If you find a good guy, you'll realize all Jessica's points are true 👌. Great video 👏❣️
What are the traits of a "good" girl? What does she have to offer a "good" guy?
💫☺️
I'm white honest boy but poor will you marry me 🌹
@@awmy3109 A good girl is kind and understands what her partner is saying and she doesn't put money first in love.
@Sarah Boakye I have subscribed
Financially stable wow, that's why am loved by many ladies...OMG
I am learning a lot from you Jessica and like you how I wish if I was financially stable I would love to meet you
Thank you for all the good videos
I like you too much for the blessings you are giving us out there, "That's WISDOM ".those kind words are well chosen. Be blessed.
Good Talk, quite informative.
My question is with all or at least four of these mentioned traits, what is the woman bringing to the table? The woman is unpredictable and might just fall in love with a respectful dude. I can tell that even with all these mentioned, a lady might still not like the guy or rather use him especially when he is financially stable.
I think the guys should just be themselves...if you are nice and or if you are badass just be U..but know when to stay or walk away!
You are such a smart lady, it’s just sad I didn’t get to see this video before getting into a relationship, I’ve encountered almost everything you’ve just mentioned. I think she’ll appreciate you more when you not too available
funny thing is most of these things work effortlessly when you don't really like the woman and she does most of the work to try and get your attention and she is the one who needs to watch videos like these to try and get you to think about her, its a vicious cycle lol !
Lol
Hahahahahaha....!!! You hit the nail on the head my guy.
@@JessicaOS Everything you've said in the vid is absolutely correct but the one that really hit the message home is the one about financial stability. So what happens to those of us who ain't financially stable but the heart still yearns? You should do a video about that.
@@cheagunga5993 your heart shouldn't yearn if your pocket isn't earning. Stay on the grind and self improvement then everything will fall in place
Spot on Tembo
Thanks a lot sister...I can add the 8th one...Men do not have to fear and jump away from a lizard when the lady is with him. But when alone he has all the right to jump and run🙄🙄
Thanks once again,I hv enjoyed you video
That’s very factual what you have said Jessica. Financial stability does give a man lots of confidence, and gives him the ability to certainly leave a lasting impression. So glad that lizard didn’t come your way sweet ❤️💛💚
😅😅
@@JessicaOS You've Incredibly Beautiful!
Jessica, is the big sis I never had. Thank God I found you
i never get enough of her lessons....i always look forward to her latest on this platform.Well done Jessi
Mhi🇺🇬
Thanks ,you are right small things matter and being unique and misterious is the key!
At least from my viewpoint; both your intellectual and emotional prowess are in good balance.
Thanks for sharing such wholesome content.
Stay blessed.
I don’t really like to comments on videos cos I don’t no who’s reading it well all ur videos are really helpful to me believe me
Guy’s be natural, go with the flow, there’s no manual to any relationship. I’ve a situation of this Mistry she’s talking about, and I ended loosing her, because she complained I was too secretive and I don’t make her know about me enough.
😅
I can feel ur pain 😎
Exactly bro. That’s how I feel. I girl that’s into you would have stayed. It just wasn’t meant to be.
Mama JESS, being financially stable is the most important cus if you're not, the feeling won't be mutual
Wow I mean your information be so on point that is mind-bobbling I would definitely love to come to Ghana to visit🔥🔥🔥💯❤️❤️
The last one really get my attention
Trust me jess u re a genius
I like the silent mention of your name in the theme music🎶
The lizard was chasing after a girl🤣🤣🤣. Jessica u were so sweet with that laughter after seeing the lizard❤
LMAO!!! When that lizard showed up, you turned from this strong superwoman with all the wisdom to this girly girl. Loved it because it made you so human, though it was really funny to see you scared.
Lol. You're having fun at my expense 😭😭😭😭
@@JessicaOS hi jessi
I loved it 😂😂
@@JessicaOS Yes, but with much love. 😜😜😜🤗🤗
@@JessicaOS 😄😄😄 Jessica 😄
I love how you easily communicate and be understood, soft voice, clear and on point, my first day to find your channel, humble to follow you
Simply loved it. Words sounds is power. Jamaican connection Upness
Is the voice, the vocal, the body language, the points and presentations or the contents? It was so powerful, enlightening and absolutely fantastic. It was so delightful to watch and I couldn't stop smiling. It was really super and beautiful. Loved it all. Many thanks for sharing.
I respect your views and the tips are on point.
I like how you differentiated how it should be when a guy is trying to gain a girl's trust and when they're already in a relationship.
Many guys would have misunderstood you and implemented the strategies wrongly.
Nice !
Almost every dating coach say that and I've always disagreed somewhat, until she differentiated it. That makes a whole world of difference! Some broads want you as much and as often as possible. You are their world. They are into you. Nothing else exists. They enjoy seeing and talking to you. Period. Create any scarcity or mind games and you lose respect. Yea, she's right.
I like the lizard part! It has spiced the show!
I needed this content soo baldly and boom it here, thanks Jessica ❤🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
You are absolutely right dear.
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions
2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue
3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman
4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man
5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger
6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge
7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP
8. Stay away from single mothers
9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s
10. Never fully commit
11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut
12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you
13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment
14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust
15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf.............
Good points there but can you clarify on number 8.
15 can be subject to change due to game updates though. I’d rather be war thunder than just another call of duty 😂
@@Odinfang 🤣🤣🤣 FACTS bro
@@tauraironaldchiroro6789 just PLEASE stay away from SINGLE mothers🤣🤣 you dont want to be the STEP DADDY
@@mwanzafitalpha9827 seriously though, great game and it’s been going on still for I think 10 years on the one game alone lol
It the 'Reanless' approach you put in your video productions for me
Thanks so much Jessica…I love you so much🥰🥰
Watching from Nigeria,the last point got me more
Jessica I'm impressed by what you do. Can you just please shed light on the issue of religious differences...this is a major important issue or factor that has or is affecting lots of relationships
God bless you Mama Jessica. I really feel the last point and I’m taking more lessons which is working perfect❤️❤️🥰🤩
Financial security...Confidence..
That's the point
Great work as always Jessica! Am also glad you featured the resort / ranch at the start of this video. I had watched another video abt this ranch and the length & efforts it took for it to get to what we know of it today.
Am extremely delighted in all the efforts you and several others are taking to show case Africa and all its wonders to help change the colonial narratives. Believe it or not, several Africans in the diaspora are also shocked with some of what you guys putting out as many of them only remember the Africa of last century.
Finally, you know I had to comment about the lizard right! Dont worry, am sure you will get desensitized as you do more outdoor videos. Never know what may be coming at you when you are in the motherland which is the cradle of civilization and the place where you can be closest to nature. Thanks in all you do.
Could not hold back my laughter with that statement "feed her with little crumbs of your life".
That's a great point because on a reverse note, girls who does this to men tend to get the chase and often make the men pursue or chase to whatever lengths it takes.
Pete! Thanks for your time and support
Restore Africa to her God: given position one in all sundry
From the first day she started this I knew she will make a boom..proud Tech Ghanaian the dream can be achieve here to
Always possible
Leave a good impression well said sis.Taking care of yourself is a must.You are right financial stable👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
The problem is that most women are not even that financially stable yet thats what they ask for
Typical woman, only cares about the money…
@Shafiu Sani yes bro
@Shafiu Sani yes bro. I do
Shout out to you Jess from London.
You are amazing.
Jesus loves you ❤
You are very confident orator. Congratulations.
Well. I think the most important thing is to be financially stable and everything else will fall into place 😉
I think the most important thing is to have a relationship with God
I love you Jessica. You're real. I really like the Agama lizard part. Kudos dear.
Some of us are already sorted on the "Lasting impression department"
Bcos lasting impressions has a lot to do with how us dude's were actually brought up.
So it's a nature thing really.
And I'm sorry for the ArrogancyBand bcos they gonna learn going against the hard way.
Ps.
Anyway thanks for the drop my 👑
🎯
I like it real and you are doing justice to that. I am a big fan from Nigeria.
Great explanation on #4 @Jessica OS.... Emotional attachment is really what we need sometimes.
I like the exploring of other camera angles, it's good to see.
Amazing content as always.
Glad you like them!
@@JessicaOS Good stuff