Fuad - thank you for these explanations - it is very interesting to me as a Christian woman, mother and grandmother, and (retired) sociology instructor. Actually it breaks my heart. The way you describe gender roles and building a home and the respect women should have for their man and themselves and care for their children and homes - this is all true for Christians too - these gender roles and behaviors are laid out for us in God’s Word - the Bible - but those who adhere are few and the results are tragic and obvious- and actually it shows that those Christians in reality fool themselves and probably are not Christian’s at all! God is a God of order - and when His order is neglected or rejected chaos results - such as we have today. God’s plan for the family is best - His plans for us are for good. So we agree on so much - but for the most important point of all - that Jesus is Lord - and He is coming back soon to judge the living and the dead! Btw, I had only a few Arab (male) students during my years teaching sociology and Marriage & Family and they made a positive impact on me… I enjoyed them very much and you remind me of them.
I am sincerely grateful that you not only took the time to hear my thoughts but also expressed agreement with them. I consider your comment to be one of the best I have received so far. However, as a Muslim man and not a scholar, I feel it is important to highlight one significant point where we may not see eye to eye, which is the belief that "Jesus is Lord." In Islam, we consider Jesus to be a revered prophet, just like the Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him), and I believe that Jesus will return in the future, but he will be sent by God. We firmly believe in the oneness of God, known as Allah. I hope that, despite our differences, we may one day find common ground in our understanding of who the Lord is. I appreciate your contribution and am grateful that an educated woman like yourself came across my work and appreciated it.
Men and women both need one another. Or we wouldnt be here. Im not just saying it us the solitary act of creating life. Its much more deeper than that.
Very good comments! Congratulations for your work! However, men should not only look for beauty and femininity (if I said it right), but rather for goodness, responsibility, honesty. Would any sane man want a beautiful, evil wife? And another point is social media like instagram is like pornography. Why would a woman want to show her life on instagram to so many acquaintances and potential dates? Private photos should only be presented to suitors, otherwise some men might get the idea that you express interest in them, when there is none.
You're absolutely right; there's much more to consider in a relationship than just looks. However, it's worth noting that sometimes, if a woman exhibits very masculine behaviors, such as speaking and acting in ways traditionally associated with men, it can create a certain impression right from the start. While we often say 'don't judge a book by its cover,' the reality is that most people form initial judgments within the first few seconds of meeting someone. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Wooow😊😊😊 very heart touching❤ it is very true that we girls must have a self respect, thinking our value, you know the more i push my self to my past (Man) the more he always neglect me and it cost me a lot of heartaches, its not easy in that situation i fell very low value women...but thank God i overcome my heartache, i fucos in my self, ilove me self now 😂😂😂 for me having relationships to other is very stressful 😅😅😅
Hey friend, I'm glad to hear that you're doing better in your situation. Sometimes, going after a man can be really counterintuitive :/, so you're doing great by focusing on yourself and prioritizing your well-being. I think this is the best approach. And I totally understand that relationships can be challenging and stressful, but don't let that hold you back in any way. What you'll find is that when the right person comes along, all the ups and downs can be worthwhile. Wish you the best! :)
Just a side note - feminism per se is not a bad thing 😊 My Muslim husband definitely is a feminist too, in that he supports me, cheers fir me when I am successful, hugs me when I fail, he is never jealous, even though he knows very well that I am that independent woman🎉 today he cooked lunch 😂 we are partners in life and we are happy❤
Tell me about this but... the normalcy of hookup casual dating is ruining our dating culture. Amazing amazing men can easily blow off amazing women with this one concept. Attention seeking women are plentiful and hungry scavenger men are plentiful. It sucks when you meet a great man but he doesn't have the same mindset. I have so much intimacy and connection with this one gentleman from my younger years. We have a bond we talk about everything, he knows my heart but that one thought has plagues his mind. I walked away. And I happily walked away finally. I realized I feel happier without him. As amazing as he is, he doesn't see my full potential and I can't dim my light for anyone. On the other hand, years later I met another amazing man. I like him even more than I thought I could like anyone but I am just as sad and as happy to be without him. He's amazing and we had an amazing connection. I really felt long term possibility there and fhen I found out he already had a girlfriend and was tryns dog me too. These types of things really hurt, from my perspective. I am a down to earth chill wife material but some people I meet don't see that. I don't just wanna be with anyone, i want someone I love and I like and I feel attraction with, emotionally mentally physically spiritually. ... just trying to be patiently waiting for love,
I completely agree with you. What's happening in society today when it comes to dating and forming relationships is absurd. But on an individual level, the question is, 'What is in my hands right now that I can do to make a difference in my own life?' I believe there are men out there who will look beyond the casual fun of the hookup culture and recognise the void and emptiness that accompanies it. There are many men who will truly appreciate you for who you are and be committed to you. Your introspection is admirable. Thanks for the sharing your thoughts! Wish you all the best!
Well what if as a woman you don’t want children?? But you don’t post provocative photos on your social media? Just photos of you wearing makeup you worked hard on? And you stay home with your cats? WTH?
It's totally okay if you don't want to have kids! Everyone has their own preferences and desires when it comes to starting a family. And there's nothing wrong with posting pictures of yourself rocking that makeup ! You can express yourself however you feel comfortable on social media. When I mentioned explicit pictures, I meant those really revealing or provocative shots that might attract attention from people not looking for something serious.
Well, some attend and some don't. It depends on how religious a man is, right? Islamic teachings promote adherence to certain guidelines and principles, including avoiding environments where men and women are not segregated and alcohol is present. However, some Muslim men do attend Christian weddings, but they don't drink, nor do they interact with women at the wedding. So, it really depends on individual beliefs and practices.
@@Fuadtalksis it still usual with segregation? I ve met many muslim men. Both during my work in Egypt, life in Sweden and travells. Sure the typical muslim wedding is segregated butmen had never a problem sitting with us in the office, comming to events where some people were drinking. They just chose not to drink. And even nowin Saudi some offices are already mixed.
Flowers don’t chase bees .. man you are awesome lol
Looks like my little bee metaphor didn't go unnoticed! Thanks for watching :)
Fuad - thank you for these explanations - it is very interesting to me as a Christian woman, mother and grandmother, and (retired) sociology instructor. Actually it breaks my heart. The way you describe gender roles and building a home and the respect women should have for their man and themselves and care for their children and homes - this is all true for Christians too - these gender roles and behaviors are laid out for us in God’s Word - the Bible - but those who adhere are few and the results are tragic and obvious- and actually it shows that those Christians in reality fool themselves and probably are not Christian’s at all!
God is a God of order - and when His order is neglected or rejected chaos results - such as we have today. God’s plan for the family is best - His plans for us are for good. So we agree on so much - but for the most important point of all - that Jesus is Lord - and He is coming back soon to judge the living and the dead!
Btw, I had only a few Arab (male) students during my years teaching sociology and Marriage & Family and they made a positive impact on me… I enjoyed them very much and you remind me of them.
I am sincerely grateful that you not only took the time to hear my thoughts but also expressed agreement with them.
I consider your comment to be one of the best I have received so far. However, as a Muslim man and not a scholar, I feel it is important to highlight one significant point where we may not see eye to eye, which is the belief that "Jesus is Lord."
In Islam, we consider Jesus to be a revered prophet, just like the Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him), and I believe that Jesus will return in the future, but he will be sent by God. We firmly believe in the oneness of God, known as Allah. I hope that, despite our differences, we may one day find common ground in our understanding of who the Lord is.
I appreciate your contribution and am grateful that an educated woman like yourself came across my work and appreciated it.
Thank you and very well said.
Thank you.
Men and women both need one another. Or we wouldnt be here. Im not just saying it us the solitary act of creating life. Its much more deeper than that.
So true, thanks for sharing
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Very good comments! Congratulations for your work! However, men should not only look for beauty and femininity (if I said it right), but rather for goodness, responsibility, honesty. Would any sane man want a beautiful, evil wife? And another point is social media like instagram is like pornography. Why would a woman want to show her life on instagram to so many acquaintances and potential dates? Private photos should only be presented to suitors, otherwise some men might get the idea that you express interest in them, when there is none.
You're absolutely right; there's much more to consider in a relationship than just looks. However, it's worth noting that sometimes, if a woman exhibits very masculine behaviors, such as speaking and acting in ways traditionally associated with men, it can create a certain impression right from the start. While we often say 'don't judge a book by its cover,' the reality is that most people form initial judgments within the first few seconds of meeting someone. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Wooow😊😊😊 very heart touching❤ it is very true that we girls must have a self respect, thinking our value, you know the more i push my self to my past (Man) the more he always neglect me and it cost me a lot of heartaches, its not easy in that situation i fell very low value women...but thank God i overcome my heartache, i fucos in my self, ilove me self now 😂😂😂 for me having relationships to other is very stressful 😅😅😅
Hey friend, I'm glad to hear that you're doing better in your situation. Sometimes, going after a man can be really counterintuitive :/, so you're doing great by focusing on yourself and prioritizing your well-being. I think this is the best approach. And I totally understand that relationships can be challenging and stressful, but don't let that hold you back in any way. What you'll find is that when the right person comes along, all the ups and downs can be worthwhile. Wish you the best! :)
Great advice thank you so much
Glad it was helpful!
@@Fuadtalks yeah
wow I learn a lot from you bout values,thanks❤
You're welcome!
Nice job 🙏🙏
Just a side note - feminism per se is not a bad thing 😊 My Muslim husband definitely is a feminist too, in that he supports me, cheers fir me when I am successful, hugs me when I fail, he is never jealous, even though he knows very well that I am that independent woman🎉 today he cooked lunch 😂 we are partners in life and we are happy❤
Glad you are happy, friend. :)
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Alhamdulillah
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Tell me about this but... the normalcy of hookup casual dating is ruining our dating culture.
Amazing amazing men can easily blow off amazing women with this one concept.
Attention seeking women are plentiful and hungry scavenger men are plentiful.
It sucks when you meet a great man but he doesn't have the same mindset.
I have so much intimacy and connection with this one gentleman from my younger years. We have a bond we talk about everything, he knows my heart but that one thought has plagues his mind.
I walked away. And I happily walked away finally. I realized I feel happier without him. As amazing as he is, he doesn't see my full potential and I can't dim my light for anyone.
On the other hand, years later I met another amazing man. I like him even more than I thought I could like anyone but I am just as sad and as happy to be without him. He's amazing and we had an amazing connection. I really felt long term possibility there and fhen I found out he already had a girlfriend and was tryns dog me too.
These types of things really hurt, from my perspective. I am a down to earth chill wife material but some people I meet don't see that.
I don't just wanna be with anyone, i want someone I love and I like and I feel attraction with, emotionally mentally physically spiritually.
... just trying to be patiently waiting for love,
I completely agree with you. What's happening in society today when it comes to dating and forming relationships is absurd. But on an individual level, the question is, 'What is in my hands right now that I can do to make a difference in my own life?' I believe there are men out there who will look beyond the casual fun of the hookup culture and recognise the void and emptiness that accompanies it.
There are many men who will truly appreciate you for who you are and be committed to you. Your introspection is admirable. Thanks for the sharing your thoughts! Wish you all the best!
@@Fuadtalks thankyou 🙏 . Yes ☺👊🥰
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Well what if as a woman you don’t want children?? But you don’t post provocative photos on your social media? Just photos of you wearing makeup you worked hard on? And you stay home with your cats? WTH?
It's totally okay if you don't want to have kids! Everyone has their own preferences and desires when it comes to starting a family. And there's nothing wrong with posting pictures of yourself rocking that makeup ! You can express yourself however you feel comfortable on social media. When I mentioned explicit pictures, I meant those really revealing or provocative shots that might attract attention from people not looking for something serious.
Why a Muslim man would not attend a Christian wedding ? Is it because there would be alcohol around ?
Well, some attend and some don't. It depends on how religious a man is, right? Islamic teachings promote adherence to certain guidelines and principles, including avoiding environments where men and women are not segregated and alcohol is present. However, some Muslim men do attend Christian weddings, but they don't drink, nor do they interact with women at the wedding. So, it really depends on individual beliefs and practices.
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May Allah bless you for presenting the truth without sugar coating things.
@@Fuadtalksis it still usual with segregation? I ve met many muslim men. Both during my work in Egypt, life in Sweden and travells. Sure the typical muslim wedding is segregated butmen had never a problem sitting with us in the office, comming to events where some people were drinking. They just chose not to drink.
And even nowin Saudi some offices are already mixed.
Many Muslim men actually drink alcohol. Yet, they practice Ramadan lol😂
And when you messed up the relationship what’s next
Don't mess up the next... :)
😂😂😂😂😂😂. you say bye, Felicia. lol. jk. You learn from the lesson through reflection and become a better version of yourself.
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