This is great, but exhausting. It's not the faut only of women if relationship or marriage fails or ends. Men can also be judged by their promiscuity as well as empty promises. It would not hurt men, to be responsible and wait for meaningful relationships as well. Also finding a life partner who is honest about their sexual compatibility is huge. In all things communication and honesty should be precedent. That being said, your 2 litmus tests are brilliant.
I had a 7 bf all my life,among these 3 I did not slept with.I am married but separated with my husband since 11yrs ago.Having too much relationship I think doesn't make me promiscuous.I was just not lucky enough when it comes to finding a lifetime partner but at present I am currently in a relationship for almost 3yrs already.I am now more matured and my partner this time is 9yrs senior than me.I hope and pray that he is going to be the one until I get older because it is so tiring jumping from one relationship to another.
I agree! I have had about three relationships that were for, five years. Almost married two of them… It did not work out. Does not mean that I am an easy woman. It’s not easy out there lol! There are very few good men.but a lot of what he says is true. Especially for western women… We shouldn’t give ourselves to the man so easily.
I am a daughter of God thus my knickers do not fly off no way and if the man cannot wait until marriage then bye bye. The older I get the stronger my beliefs dig into the ground. I divide them into boys vs men besides players bc players sneak up beside a girls heart too. I believe if you are raised in a moral house and hold yourself to a higher standards then even though the players try to enter the door I slam it in their faces. God protects me. I certainly have had my share of idiots trying but they aren't getting. When you protect the gift God has given you and use your mind and morals you honor God and your family and yourself. I find it gross if girls run around 1/2 naked , scoring boys just for the fun of it or to get a fancy purse or dinner. I want to scream stop being a bubblehead ! My friend who is 30 and gorgeous just had the man she was dating for 10 years dump her. A) 10 years? He got what he wanted B) she waited and lived with him ( stupid): he got everything ...free no true commitment! Why buy the cow when the milk is free. I just don't understand it maybe Im overly old fashioned but Id rather be alone than have some nitwit wasting my time.
You need to keep this video to show any future daughters that you may have. Then they will know their father wants the best for them. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.👍🏻
Deep advised, Jazakallah khair . I met a Turkish muslim man for almost two years and he hurried me for a wedding. I'm too traumatic with 22 years of married now second divorced been 5-years. He is in my country who serves work and plans to open a new branch for his business here. We have never had an intimate situation because I am a Muslim. Now he mentioned that i’m not in love with him just because i delayed our nikkah and avoid meeting him. As I understand, he is always try to show a romantic situation while we meet. I strictly disagree and discomfort with his behaviour. I love him because of Allah and wanted to have a halal relationship. Appreciate an advice as I’m in difficult situation & decision here. Thank you in advance.
Yes sooo true, the most patient without any effort can be a toxic narcisisst borderline, with others partners, be careful and pay attention to efforts.
Thank you! Your thoughts on subjects like this is necessary for those who do not have fathers or brothers looking out for them and slide naive to the realities of how the Male mind really works! thank you
Thank you so much first of all you are doing really a great job... I actually needed this clarity but i didn't know whom to ask ... Well i know how to check that is this the right one and now i know that What would be the right time to get closer and how to say No!... Again thank you very very much
good day . exactly true . i have a 2 months ldr relationship and i dont know if he is serious or not. i would like to know if a man can be serious in a two months relationship . also he give me his time . he txt me he calls me he is jelous everytime i wear short dreses and he wants me to be in long dress
It´s good that he admits that men are players (scumbags) that mistreat women. But to put all the burden of responsibility on the women is wrong. It´s impossible to tell the difference between a player and a real man. A player can perfectly emulate a real man. Even if he marries you first, he can turn into a scumbag after marriage. The only way is to not believe any man. Treat all men as players because he is playing you even if he swears on all holy that he is real. It´s not your fault if you fell for his lies. Resist the urge to form an emotional attachment so you wont get hurt. And blessings and love to all my sisters. 4B
My Tunisian man, shows me videos of him at work always available for me ,talk every day on video I've seen his phone, when I went there, met family, marriage in time ❤ how else can I test him.
I am dating this Egyptian man for few days now, an I started to like him and I believe he likes me to. I was wondering he never ask me my birthday or fam background is this mean he is not interested of me as well? Pls need ur insight about dating an Egyptian guy. Thank you
Thank you for your kind feedback. I do occasionally provide 1:1 coaching. If you ever have specific questions or need guidance, please feel free to reach out.
omg my dude, this is the worst shit I've ever heard. While I'm not propunding to sleep around or even date around but give appropriate amounts of time to one person at a time, the way you put things is so harmful to both men and women. You basically tell women NOT to gather experience and walk into a knife. And for your information: I am Middle Eastener living in the West, exclusively dating Middle Easteners (mostly Arabs, as it happens), always Muslims like me. So what I'm saying does not come from a Western perspective. The men that I have dated (plus married one) have been like me: cautious but also engaging. I myself would be concerned to meet a man above 30 who never had a longer relationship. Just please stop spouting this BS about our culture.
now i get it,. i met a player 😞 ,. story like this; i met an egyptian guy he talk to me and get my number, then he ask me to go out and we talk too much, after that he he said he like me then take me to his room, he hug me tight and cant escape so he gets want he want from me. 😞😞😞 i want to try to be him after what happen but he only msg me if he wants to fuck me. . he never even ask me about hows my day. 😞😞 . he is the second man in mylife and i thought i find the right one but so unlucky to me 😞😞😞 everyday i cried , why i didnt take care of myself before meeting such a guy 😞😞😞😞
Ladies tell the truth you want a 'player' a man that has experience and is wanted by girls & If you have been sleeping Men on the 1st date he knows make him wait won't work, She pays I guess it has happened
This is great, but exhausting. It's not the faut only of women if relationship or marriage fails or ends. Men can also be judged by their promiscuity as well as empty promises. It would not hurt men, to be responsible and wait for meaningful relationships as well. Also finding a life partner who is honest about their sexual compatibility is huge. In all things communication and honesty should be precedent. That being said, your 2 litmus tests are brilliant.
I had a 7 bf all my life,among these 3 I did not slept with.I am married but separated with my husband since 11yrs ago.Having too much relationship I think doesn't make me promiscuous.I was just not lucky enough when it comes to finding a lifetime partner but at present I am currently in a relationship for almost 3yrs already.I am now more matured and my partner this time is 9yrs senior than me.I hope and pray that he is going to be the one until I get older because it is so tiring jumping from one relationship to another.
Wish you all the best.
@@Fuadtalks Thank you💖🙏
I agree! I have had about three relationships that were for, five years. Almost married two of them… It did not work out. Does not mean that I am an easy woman. It’s not easy out there lol! There are very few good men.but a lot of what he says is true. Especially for western women… We shouldn’t give ourselves to the man so easily.
He failed and I am so grateful he did💐🫶🏻 sending lots of love from South Africa
Thanks, wishing you all the best!
Im sorry I hope you find someone better
Exactly my body and access to such is sacred period.
I am a daughter of God thus my knickers do not fly off no way and if the man cannot wait until marriage then bye bye. The older I get the stronger my beliefs dig into the ground. I divide them into boys vs men besides players bc players sneak up beside a girls heart too. I believe if you are raised in a moral house and hold yourself to a higher standards then even though the players try to enter the door I slam it in their faces. God protects me. I certainly have had my share of idiots trying but they aren't getting. When you protect the gift God has given you and use your mind and morals you honor God and your family and yourself. I find it gross if girls run around 1/2 naked , scoring boys just for the fun of it or to get a fancy purse or dinner. I want to scream stop being a bubblehead ! My friend who is 30 and gorgeous just had the man she was dating for 10 years dump her. A) 10 years? He got what he wanted B) she waited and lived with him ( stupid): he got everything ...free no true commitment! Why buy the cow when the milk is free. I just don't understand it maybe Im overly old fashioned but Id rather be alone than have some nitwit wasting my time.
120% 120% !!!
But what can be done in a scenario where things already got rushed up accidentally. Please help.
@@sahithireddy3757stop. Remove yourself from the situation. Focus on healing and self worth.
This applies not only Arab men. It applies also European.
You need to keep this video to show any future daughters that you may have. Then they will know their father wants the best for them. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.👍🏻
I really like this topic,now I can identify whose the player or a serious man approaches me.Thanks for this tips.
You're welcome!
I have been watching your videos and finding your contents quite valuable. Thank you
Glad they help!
Deep advised, Jazakallah khair .
I met a Turkish muslim man for almost two years and he hurried me for a wedding. I'm too traumatic with 22 years of married now second divorced been 5-years. He is in my country who serves work and plans to open a new branch for his business here. We have never had an intimate situation because I am a Muslim. Now he mentioned that i’m not in love with him just because i delayed our nikkah and avoid meeting him. As I understand, he is always try to show a romantic situation while we meet. I strictly disagree and discomfort with his behaviour. I love him because of Allah and wanted to have a halal relationship. Appreciate an advice as I’m in difficult situation & decision here. Thank you in advance.
What about your family, do they know about this? You can send me an email if you need guidance with this.
A good teaching Sir Fuad , you are right . I am learning a lot , Thank you.
Glad to hear that! :)
Thank you for your tips and awareness, sir. More power😊👍.
I dont know i think im dealing with a man that is a player and real
He show me both side 😂😂😂
how😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣The sons and grandson of the pharaoh are good at playing both roles-patient effort players and patient effort serious man. lol
Thanks for the tips! I appreciate so much! 🙋🏽♀️👍🏾
You are welcome!
Yes sooo true, the most patient without any effort can be a toxic narcisisst borderline, with others partners, be careful and pay attention to efforts.
Thank you! Your thoughts on subjects like this is necessary for those who do not have fathers or brothers looking out for them and slide naive to the realities of how the Male mind really works! thank you
Very good advice and strategy to determine intent. Simple and can be easily measured. Thank you
Amazing information
Thank you so much first of all you are doing really a great job... I actually needed this clarity but i didn't know whom to ask ... Well i know how to check that is this the right one and now i know that What would be the right time to get closer and how to say No!... Again thank you very very much
Glad this helped. You're welcome!
good day . exactly true . i have a 2 months ldr relationship and i dont know if he is serious or not. i would like to know if a man can be serious in a two months relationship . also he give me his time . he txt me he calls me he is jelous everytime i wear short dreses and he wants me to be in long dress
It´s good that he admits that men are players (scumbags) that mistreat women.
But to put all the burden of responsibility on the women is wrong. It´s impossible to tell the difference between a player and a real man. A player can perfectly emulate a real man. Even if he marries you first, he can turn into a scumbag after marriage.
The only way is to not believe any man. Treat all men as players because he is playing you even if he swears on all holy that he is real.
It´s not your fault if you fell for his lies.
Resist the urge to form an emotional attachment so you wont get hurt.
And blessings and love to all my sisters. 4B
Great what I need it to hear
My Tunisian man, shows me videos of him at work always available for me ,talk every day on video I've seen his phone, when I went there, met family, marriage in time ❤ how else can I test him.
I didn't watch the previous vedios that you post coz that time i was doing Exzam jazakallah may Allah (SWT) bless you and i will watch inshaAllah
All the best with your exams!
@@Fuadtalks jazakallah
This is a Great Channel.!!!!!!1
You are good man i hope girls listen to that
I am dating this Egyptian man for few days now, an I started to like him and I believe he likes me to. I was wondering he never ask me my birthday or fam background is this mean he is not interested of me as well? Pls need ur insight about dating an Egyptian guy. Thank you
I love your advice
Thank you very much!
I have binge watched all your content. Amazing advice. Are you available for 1:1 coaching?
Thank you for your kind feedback. I do occasionally provide 1:1 coaching. If you ever have specific questions or need guidance, please feel free to reach out.
What if he is in another country, what efforts?
Not much different than if he was living in the same country - regular communication and, when possible, occasional visits.
Also note, from my experience, I don't recommend long distance relationships, and I have spoken about this in the channel.
Look an arab man for me@@Fuadtalks
omg my dude, this is the worst shit I've ever heard. While I'm not propunding to sleep around or even date around but give appropriate amounts of time to one person at a time, the way you put things is so harmful to both men and women. You basically tell women NOT to gather experience and walk into a knife. And for your information: I am Middle Eastener living in the West, exclusively dating Middle Easteners (mostly Arabs, as it happens), always Muslims like me. So what I'm saying does not come from a Western perspective. The men that I have dated (plus married one) have been like me: cautious but also engaging. I myself would be concerned to meet a man above 30 who never had a longer relationship. Just please stop spouting this BS about our culture.
True
can we not talk about sex and leave sex out of it for those muslim ladies out there because a muslim man will keep his pride most of the time
He failed...
Im sorry I hope you find someone better
💯💯
now i get it,. i met a player 😞 ,. story like this; i met an egyptian guy he talk to me and get my number, then he ask me to go out and we talk too much, after that he he said he like me then take me to his room, he hug me tight and cant escape so he gets want he want from me. 😞😞😞 i want to try to be him after what happen but he only msg me if he wants to fuck me. . he never even ask me about hows my day. 😞😞 . he is the second man in mylife and i thought i find the right one but so unlucky to me 😞😞😞 everyday i cried , why i didnt take care of myself before meeting such a guy 😞😞😞😞
Well lesson learned. Now you are better prepared.
Is this real ._.? where that
Wait how a ._. U even meted guys
Wait where that ?_?
my story is closer but he just cuddled me once and asked me much abt my life I don't know what to do he sounds serious do u broke up ?
Ladies tell the truth you want a 'player' a man that has experience and is wanted by girls & If you have been sleeping Men on the 1st date he knows make him wait won't work, She pays I guess it has happened
A good respectable woman do not like these kind of men. Bad men are for bad women.
I avoid Players like the plague. Actually Players in my opinion are plagues in the dating world. Waste of my time.