Feeling lost in your 30s… you’re not alone
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ก.พ. 2024
- Hey guys, it's been a while since I've sat down and really talked about how I have really been feeling.
In a way, it was nice to talk it out and vent, because I think already in this video I started to see that maybe I'm not too lost, I just need to find a direction of how about to go things.
What about you guys, are you feeling lost? What is going on lately with you guys? Does anyone know the meaning of life? What is our purpose? So many deep questions I'm so sorry, I have been thinking a lot as you see... hahaha.
Anyways, hope you enjoyed this new video, see you in the next one.
Love Laura 💕
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You have already won half the battle... finding a witness to your life in Ami. Personally, I think the next step is getting out of the UK -- a place I found to be an isolating stifling drain on my enthusiasm. London beat the life out of me. As soon as I got out, a weight was lifted. Then, you need to find your passion. That is not something you enjoy doing, or another person you love... but something you cannot live without. Maybe it is travel. Maybe it is photography. Maybe it is animals. Maybe it is picking your nose. Whatever it is... find that obsession! It can be tricky to find and it may not come until you are a little older. Good luck.
Out of curiosity, where are you living now? 🤔 thank you for your comment
Tbh I have no goals or dreams, haha. I've never really been afraid of stagnating-I just want to be stable and do things that make me happy, and those things are all pretty attainable in scope and cost for me. I've often been jealous of how productive and innovative y'all creatives are, and yet I think that creative drive also comes with that persistent longing to keep moving forward that can be maddening. It's a double-edged sword, a grass-is-always-greener type of thing, I guess. Publishing a novel seems like an amazing goal, and doing the research and work to get that done will definitely take time and energy! I hope once you've completed that your next endeavor will follow naturally 🙏♥
Maddening is the correct word to describe this. At times I envy people who can just live day to day with no goals or dreams, just doing things that make them happy.
Let’s see what steps I need to take in order to make that dream possible!
Thank you for your comment 🙏
I'm so sorry that you're felling that way, Laura. I'm 22y and I've been struggling with this felling too :( ... But hope we can figure it out with the pass the days...
What helps me to deal with it is to be kind with myself, I try to calm down my anxiety doing stuff that bring me comfort or inspire me (watching your videos for example < 3 ), I be grateful about the things that I achived and I also socialize with people that make support me. I hope it helps you too !
And wanted to say, as I have commented in other videos of yours, that, as a brazilian LGBT+ (im trans and bisexual) with big artistic dreams, your videos inspire me a lot!
PS: I was also making pasta while watching your video < 3 !
Thank you for your really kind message, this has really helped me 💗 I need to learn to be more kind to myself for sure and you’re right about being grateful for the things I’ve achieved. Thank you again 💗
I think you're highlighting a prettycommon experience! in your 20s, most challenges are about establishing your adult self: work, earning enough, living situation, relationships and so on. In your 30s, you're more likely to have resolved those immediate issues to some degree. Then you zoom out and it's like.... now what?
That’s exactly how I’m feeling right now, I’m learning to navigate it. I think I need to sit down with myself and really envision my goals and what it is I wanna do. Thank you for your comment, I feel less panicked.
Not really
Eu também pensei que a vida aos 20 estaria "figured out", mas é uma expectativa gigante que as pessoas tem sobre a vida... 30 anos é mais ou menos um terço da nossa vida, é maluco a gente achar que a nossa vida esteja resolvida aos 20 XD A gente só tá começando~ Cada ano de cada vez, sendo gentil e paciente com a gente mesmo.
Fazer novos amigos, pra mim, parece ser mais difícil aos 30 por motivos pessoais... somos mais seletivos com quem nos relacionamos, nos livramos de pessoas tóxicas e procuramos pessoas que se importem com a gente, que nos aceite e etc..
A vida não precisa ter um significado...estar vivo já é algo incrível, mágico e único. A vida é feita pra ser vivida, pra ser quem realmente somos, sermos autênticos e ser amor~ Seguir o que te faz realmente feliz e seguir consciente, evoluindo.
I think these feelings are quite normal, especially when we are going through transitioning phases. I trust that you’re exactly where you need to be and life will unfold in the most surprising ways, better than you could’ve imagined! ~// btw, do you miss Japan and can you imagine going back or to another Asian country?
Thank you for your comment, I think you’re right. I do miss Japan and sometimes think about moving back. I’m just trying to figure out what’s my next steps in life. Thanks again for the comment 💗
That pasta looked amazing!
I think my future goals are to eat some pasta
That seems like a good future goal 😂 the pasta was amazing!
Super cute vlog❤❤❤
Thank you 💓
ラウラちゃんのこと
25歳くらいかと思ってたよー
ビックリ！！😳
😂中身は25歳だと思う、笑
Pasta doesn't make you bloated?
No I’m fine with it, does it do that to you?
Pasta, spaghetti, I can't digest it, it makes me sick for 48 hours @@lauraribeiroTV