7 things your partner with depression wishes you knew 1. "You're NOT responsible for my feelings" 2. "Let me help you help me" 3. "Sometimes I'll choose not to do things" 4. Depression is not simply sadness. Sadness isn't a medical diagnosis. 5. "I might be forgetful, forgive me." 6. Decisions can be difficult. 7. "Even a little support means a huge amount to me."
@@Psych2go Hi psych2go, I would like to thank you first of all for all the helpful information you spread. Could you please make a video on how to try curing our own depression. I don't have a access to therapy neither do I have money for online paid therapy. I need help, I want to get out of it. Please help me................................ I'm sure many people would want it too......
No of course you're not weird. We're all human and no one is perfect. Don't believe in that "men can't show their feelings" crap. That's just an out dated stereotype
I'm currently writing this because my girlfriend has depression, and I want to support her by understanding her feelings and moods. I always write down important things, so I know when to give her space and comfort. I love her and I will give her the never-ending patience she needs in her difficult times. Whoever reads this don't give up on her she needs you more than anyone else.
When I tell my boyfriend that I'm dealing with depression he calls me and message me and keeps me happy and he tell me things that comforts me and supports me and we always talk and he gets me through things especially in the beginning of 2018 he always tells me that we will get our relationship back and he keeps me positive
@@Psych2go thank you we've been together since 2015 and then after my horrible experience in 2017 when I was raped and pregnant he supported me and we promised to keep working on our relationship after the baby was adopted and then suddenly I fell into depression and even though we are on break but we are still continue our relationship and talking and working it out 💖💖
@@Psych2go Hi psych2go, I would like to thank you first of all for all the helpful information you spread. Could you please make a video on how to try curing our own depression. I don't have a access to therapy neither do I have money for online paid therapy. I need help, I want to get out of it. Please help me................................ I'm sure many people would want it too......
@@Psych2go I did had a severe depression in my past and even attempted suicide, so it hit close to home. Just know as hard as it is to believe, things will get better. When you're at the lowest, it can only go up afterwards. Also please surround yourself with things and people that makes you happy and remove everything that bring your spirit down. That was the cure of my depression. Why keep doing things that make you unhappy Just look how far, you've accomplished, you're amazing. Tomorrow is another day. xo
Happened to me. My first GF was always Depressed supported her but she always told me That be a Doc and then treat me. Mind it it was my dream too. Studied hard cleared the entrance and here I am a Doctor but she didn't wait she Cheated me. Second one did the same used up my emotions and Blackmailed me. After my father Expired when I had to take care of my family. I asked her she can leave but she didn't later she ghosted me, got a marriage invitation card from her. Currently Just before the Lockdown one of my colleague came to me and Said that she loves me she was a depressed person but we have been together. We have similar taste but she is the sweetest person ever. And she has been a keeper. we were doing 18hrs round together. Had a Date in the Hospital Canteen been both helping each other during this Pandemic. More or less the Pandemic changed into a romantic period for us. Now she is sleeping beside me all cuddled up with hugs and Kisses and 3 L of Icecream gone.
@@theowleyes07 So you guys are dating now after she cheated on you and almost got married? Intense, but seems like a foundation. I'm happy for you man. Hope you both end up together for good, what I mean is a ring btw. All the best.
I apreciate this video, my gf has depression because of some trauma issues she had, sometimes I can hardly understand what is happening with her, this video means a great deal from me, our relationship has been a hard/soft one, she is just such a good person and as a guy sometimes you can fell like you'r not helping or a felling of actualy doing nothing to help her and it is one of the worst fellings someone can have You are not the only one, you, the one who is reading this, I know you'r pain, but you can pull it up, luv u all
I 100% agree with you. I love my girlfriend with everything in me, and I ask her if she needs me to take her out and away from the family every, single day after work. I suffer from depression and you can imagine I’ve tried taking myself out many times in the past. She is my literal life buoy and my pride and joy. I love her more than the beautiful world we live in or all the money in the world ❤ I’anna is my pride and joy and I can’t wait to marry her one day 🥰💐💍
Thank you for helping me see things in a different light. My girlfriend suffers from depression as well. Somedays I feel she is very distant and not as loving as she used to. It tends to scare me a bit because I'm not sure if it's me or something else. Though, this video helps me with a bit of an understanding what she might be going through somedays and how I can be there for her.
With you dude. It’s hard but this video has helped so much! The hardest thing for me is as I’m such a positive person staying positive can be hard and dealing with the lack of reciprocated energy is difficult, I’m learning everyday. The other hardest thing is my fear of making her feel worse or not being there in the right way because I don’t understand but I’m understanding more and more.
@@ronanhewit5218 i also feel the same. I want to help her, but ended up making it worse. I understand her pain, but I don't know how to help her. What can I say in this situation, which make her happy or feel good. Help me. Because I don't want to lose her.
@@shashankchauhan2874 do ask her for her opponents what is making her worrying n depression ..say we together gonna fix this ..she's ain't alone your with er alwyz ..if it didn't tis happen to her that ur with her on her painful situation bro she is gonna go far
I had a girlfriend didn't work out and I found out being single is quite fun! Don't get me wrong I did love her and did literally *everything* for her But the conversations weren't too fun and Felt awkward So we broke up And here I am having fun while being single
Love my girl so much and it hurts to see her this way :( but I’m never giving up… been with her for almost 5 years now and would love to be with her for the rest of my life. Thank you for this video!
I do have a partner with depression, but the the irony is that she’s never slowed me down or made me sad. Its actually the opposite! She makes me the happiest I’ve ever been and I’m gonna stick by her side and try my best to make her feel what she makes me feel. That smile she has is worth it.
I'd like to add: "Whatever happens to me because of my depression is not your fault." Because we all know that depression is hard to overcome. And it can lead to self-destructive actions. I'd like my boyfriend to know that none of my actions are his fault and I don't ever want him to think "I should've cared more". Because he's already doing his best to comfort me. And I'm trying my best to get better, too.
hi I hope life has treated you better these last years. can I ask you a question that has been on my mind ever since I started dating my girlfriend? she was my friend before that and I knew about her mental struggles but still went and told her how I felt about her.. she agreed but I think I chose a really bad timing to do it. she wasn't taking her medication correctly at that time ,she had made a couple of huge decisions and was at In very confusing state of mind. so I don't exactly know how to feel about it because yes she did agree but she does not seem as thrilled about the idea As I am , she keeps on telling me that she's afraid we might end up hurting each other and she constantly thinks about negatif things that might happen to us even though we've had none of those yet and hopefully never. it just bothers me and scares me a bit to think that the person I want to spend this portion of my life with is constantly thinking about how it would be sad if our relationship ended badly. what do you think I should do about this ? also there is another question , a more direct one at least , do you suggest I should try to push her to do things that she keeps on telling me she wanted to do ? or should I let her sulk and barely have any activity , I personally enjoy sports and she had told me she wanted to start doing some too but she just keeps pushing it to later days everytime and I don't know what to do about it. please help me make her life a little bit better she's everything to me and I want her to enjoy her time with.
I have a girlfriend with major depression. It's never easy but no matter what we try, I try to make it easier by talking with her. I do let her help me, I know it makes her feel better. Sometimes it's really hard because she distance herself a lot. But in the end I try to remind her that no matter what I love her and we'll get through this like we did other times.
Also, I may act distant because sometimes the feeling that I am a burden overwhelms me. This stems from the fear of being abandoned and hurt and I am working on this issue as I heal. Don't take it personally. I am fighting my own mental battle.
I sent this to my boyfriend and he called it stupid. He didn't even watch the whole thing. He is like the title is like you're attention seeking. I told him that he should watch the video and then talk to me about any of the problems he is having. He didn't listen at all. All he told me is Don't you think I don't have depression too? I'm like- I'm aware of that and i try to understand you but I want you to listen to this so you can help understand me a bit clearer because it's very close to how I feel most of the time. I was hesitant to say anything here because 2 weeks later we broke up. He tells me he doesn't care about things but he still seems to be there and help.
Thank you so much for making this! I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 6 months now. I’m finally having to realize my efforts don’t always work. I’m at the point where I am forcing myself to be patient and always support her no matter what. These things you have provided me are great tool for now knowing how to be there for her.
Every time y’all upload these videos make me happy cry because you guys really are giving out really well put together information and sources and from someone who has suffered from depression since she was seven years old I value the channel like this. Please never stop uploading I love it and you’re teaching me about myself as well as about others around me and how to make things a bit better on everyone myself included!
It was hard being in a relationship with someone who didn’t understand my depression, and using my constant sadness and unwillingness to do certain things he wanted to do (I.E. going out with his friends, certain events, etc.) as a way to make me feel like I’d never get better or like I wasn’t enough. Even the times I tried, it still wasn’t enough. I never expected him to know how to love a girl with depression, but even after explaining why I am the way I am, he still used “you’re too sad all the time” as his excuse to always leave. I didn’t expect him to cure me, just be there. Now I have someone close to me who not only understands, but is patient with me. They give me that gentle push that it’ll get better, & they don’t shove it in my face that I’m sad & “sick”. They understand my off days and are there with me through the worst days as much as they are through the good ones. It’s nice and comforting not feeling like I’m hard to deal with or a burden anymore.
Something people should know about how to face people battling with depression; - Do not stereotype, it's different for everyone - Do not treat them any way differently, it makes them feel even more isolated from society; they also want to be treated like a normal human, you don't have to be extra careful around them, just be yourself - Be aware of their needs of support, but never do the hard things for them(cause helplessness), help them by couraging, helping from sideline - Confused emotions are normal, so talk with them instead of expecting your own, they might send mixed signals and communication is best way to clarify actual facts - Avoid pressuring them, rather be flexible, since they might need more time to get ready This is the list I had wrote to the people around me in my life.
Insurance companies say depression is caused by a lack of focus on a goal or a mission. Then activity towards the goal pulls oneself out of oneself as the person becomes absorbed in the activity. Many people find a goal and activity in playing a musical instrument. Consider making dates where you explore new hobbies or interests. Make an inventory of interests other people have. Then go the center place for that interest and try to find what triggers love for that hobby. Go horseback riding, go to a fabrics store(s), visit farm animals, look at photos in a museum, visit some plant nurseries, interview 20 people and ask them what their interests are. Try ballroom, country or salsa dancing. If she gets interested in this, it will be for a lifetime. Invite her to take lessons with you. Learn Tango.
It took me a while to stand on my own before moving on with a relatiinship, but I wasn't completely ready to be at peace with myself. I have helped my boyfriend to help me a little. He has been so patient and loving. I don't know how to thank him enough.
Errror Fowx sweety I’m totally calm. I didn’t swear or call names. Have you ever been stalked before? Have you had someone break into your house and punch your husband in front of you and r*pe you? I did!!! I’m not on quarantine wtf does that have to do with it?
My girlfriend has depression and I found out 2 and a half months ago, we also participate in a lot of activities, for example we bought a dog and we walk it out everyday, we do the dishes together, we go hike, I make sure that we at least laugh over 18+ minutes a day, I convinced her to get professional help, didn’t work at first but patience made it work, we now go to therapy sessions once or twice a week, she started getting in contact with her family more, it’s okay for her not to be happy, as long as she does not bottle her feelings then I’m more than okay to let her rant to me and be there for her, I check up on her everyday and make sure that she’s taking her medications, and she said that all of what we’re going through helped a little bit, and that’s more than enough for me, knowing that she’s improving even a little bit makes me happy :) (Sorry for my bad English, not my first language. I’m also sharing this just in case for anyone else out there)
My gf has a little bit of ptsd and anxiety from her family life. I always lift her mood up when I can to give her some support that almost everyone else doesn’t show. I have issues too, but mine are mild compared to my gf’s. I’ll always be there for her when she needs me. I love her very much, and there is no other person I’d want to spend my life with. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you guys for this video. I have depression. I don't know why, but it is really hard to explain how I feel to my boyfriend. I've send him many of your videos and he understand me almost completely now and is really handling it well. I'm really thankful for having him.
i hope you all have good luck with every thing you are facing, i have high functioning depression, and things can really suck sometimes, but you can do it! this goes out to all of you guys. Love ya!
Communication is still and will be the best thing you can do to anybody. It shows how important they are to you, coupled with actions. You can never go wrong.
Thank you for making these videos, I have a suicidal girlfriend and sometimes I feel like I’m not enough like I can’t help her. I always feel bad mentally because of how she’s feeling, I felt the same way once to, and even though I should know for sure that there’s hope sometimes I forget that but videos like this help remember that there’s hope. So thank you, I doubt you’ll see this but videos like these help so many people.
I’m the girl who has depression, and I recognize this about myself, so I’m doing my best to get myself ready for a relationship before I jump into one. Which is what everyone should do. Meet the standards you set for your partner
I have a girlfriend with depression, anxiety and borderline personality and it gets so difficult sometimes. It's not that I don't like to help her It's that sometimes she is so anguished and depressed that I get so sad because of that. It's such an awful thing having someone you love wanting to kill themselves. I get so worried and anxious all the time. I'm doing all I can to help her.
I suffer from very bad depression and anxiety. But I feel so grateful because my fiance is such a support always ready to try and help in any way possible. This video is seriously going to help a lot of people
Could you try to make a more careful distinction between when you’re speaking from personal experience and when these videos are well researched and cited?
Yeah, we can add a disclaimer in the future! Thanks for pointing that out. We do have that mentioned in the video description box too, but next time you will see that incorporated into a script :)
One thing I will say is that, while this may not be based on scientific fact, it is pretty accurate for a wide spread of people in this situation. It is still very helpful and, if nothing else, can start a conversation between a couple.
I always tell my bf whenever I'm not okay and he'll hug me and help me. He also bought me a journal to write my negative emotions :) he's so sweet but as of now i decided not to bother him that much because i want him to feel like having a normal girlfriend
For people who feels like they have depression, the best thing you can do for your self and your partner is to seek professional help, Your true partner want to help you so badly, but often confused and feel helpless. With seeking professional help, both of you can help each other and understand eachother better.
I am super lucky to have found someone who is very patient with me. I know he doesn't really understand why I act the way I do all the time, and I wish I could be as supportive towards him as he is towards me. Sometimes it seems like I am much more needy than he is because of my depression and anxiety, and I just hope it doesn't eventually drive him away...
Me having a savior complex upon trying to save my ex gf with this condition really helps me open up my mind. Next time I’ll do better when the next relationship like this would come.
That first one was the biggest reason on which a 5 year relationship went down the drain, they were frustrated that they "weren't enough to make me happy"... I still struggle not to expect my now husband will react the same way and leave me. It's not just baggage at this point, it's like emotional trauma.
Same here, lol. And as someone who also suffers from social anxiety and lack of self-confidence, I can only conclude that I will never find a bf. (that I will also REALLY like, and he will REALLY like me back).
I'm diagnosed with clinical depression, I have been struggling for years. I feel like my depression is contagious. Because my boyfriend of two years has been more or less as suicidal as I can get. I can't say he has all the symptoms I do, but I definitely feel like I'm the one who made him less happy because of my mess. I just want him to be happy, but it's hard when my sadness makes him sad, and I tend to hate myself for that.
for past 3 years ive come through "working depression" suddenly it got away, but i have the need to tell to whoever does these videos, thank you for making my time better and made me smile even iust a little, others who experience time depression or clinical, i wish i could help but sometimes u have to deal with it on your own, anyway i wish it helps you just as me
I am definitely going to send this to my boyfriend. He knows about my condition and he is one of my biggest reasons to keep going in life. Though we may be young, we can see each other growing old together. This video couldn't of been made at a better time. Thank you so much Psych2Go for your amazing videos! ❤
It may be how he processes things at the time. I can get mean or lash out when I'm in a depressive episode and definitely not mean it. I get overwhelmed easily and things just come out in anger. It doesn't make it right but if you talk to him about it it could make it easier to understand. I can't stress enough to be 100% transparent with each other and talk.
I'm a single girl with depression who will take a girlfriend with or without depression. If they do have depression, I hope to help them, if they don't, i'm glad they're doing well!
this was helpful. I have a girlfriend who has depression and suicidal thoughts every now and then. I often get discouraged because I feel like I can’t always help her even when I’m doing my absolute best to encourage her while I’m by her side. Thanks for the heads up.
@@Sarah-ff3vf when You are SAD JUST HUG HIM. And you tell him that your fear. It will soothe you and him. That you also want to comeout of the depression
People with depression tend to feel self loathing and that they don't deserve a lot of things and efforts. She probably thought she doesn't deserve you. Please don't be so hard on yourself. You did your best. It's not your fault, and it's not hers too.
This made me cry ! My boyfriend does his very best to get me out of the these moments. It's a struggle for both of us. To see this video and know I am not the only makes me feel comforted. This video put in words and images explaining what I can't find the words to explain. Thank you💕
How can someone deal with the short term memory loss caused by depression? I've gotten lost in familiar places and it's frightening. It often leads to people not believing me when I say I didn't know where I was or why.
@@Trnkesa I've told a counselor and she said it was the depression making me feel like that. You might be right though and I should ask my doctor. Thanks
I can understand you I have a very good memory and I had 2 years I couldn’t remember almost anything that I have been trough, so because my past hunt me every night I just thinking about stuff from years ago to a few days ago
And it really helped me remembering stuff Sometimes I wish I could forget again But after I build what I have now I can remember every details from memory’s And I won’t let myself forget things again
im that girl that suffers from depression, has a crush on my bff, and wishes i could say these things to her.. because they are my intended thoughts...
My gf has a problem with a vein in her brain and she's suffering from it alotta years ago ,now she tested positive for corona , and she's feeling 10× worse than how she felt before,im planning to ask for her hand the next month , please pray for her she's all i got and love 😔
I’m going to need my next bae to watch this before dating me so he can understand me and the “differences” with the way I act. I need him to understand me and get the reasons why I act the way I act.
Wish my now ex would have watched this and realized I indeed couldn't make her happy and that she was pushing her problems all on me making it hard to even care for myself
In the end it was a good thing that it ended she manipulated me into thinking it was all my fault and that I didn't do enough to help. And well this really hurt my confidence as you can probably imagine :/
I've been dumped for having depression. Don't dump someone for going through thier own war. Yes it gets over whelming to help that person with their battle. A bf/gf that suffers with depression always needs support and someone to count on. People with depression also need love ❤
Sry you got hurt! Yet if your relationship is not fullfilling for both! partners, whatever the reason, it is wise to break up eventually. Never pressure your partner to stay because of your health issues. That's a toxic mindset you might need to work on.
I sent this to my boyfriend. He's been by my side through all my Bipolar episodes since we've been together. But I want him to know these things in this vid because they are super important.
i’ve been talking to someone who is new to dating and has never dealt with someone who has depression. he has been struggling a little trying to understand but he is trying. thank you so much for summarizing my thoughts and how i feel so simply. i’ll send this to him, i think it would really help us out!! thank you 💕
I like how the memory issue was included. Idk how to explain how my brain worakes to people. But my boyfriend is very understanding sometimes it scares me that maybe it's all a dream😅
My fiancee has chronic depression. This helps me , I have tried to make her happy....but I get so mad and frustrated Your videos make valued points and I hope to be a great wifey to my wifey.So thank you!
My ex boyfriend has depression I would try to show him I was still care about him and love him but he would just get mad at me for “bothering him” he broke up with me a while after
Heyo~ I know this is a late comment but I hope you are doing okay. This is not your fault for trying to help him by sharing love and let him know he's not alone. I just wish he would notice your actions and appreciate you.
You know I’m not depressed myself but I have talk to people who have depression and maybe your boyfriend wasn’t angry at you but he just wanted to push you away because he didn’t want to open up and make you understand what it’s like, it’s difficult to have depression especially clinic or major depression, but I think he didn’t get annoyed at you, but I think he loved you or loves you, but it’s just like you don’t wanna open, you know
i'm so happy that you guys made this video ♥ this is what i feel about my relationship now, but i really don't dare to share this video with him, he might thinks that i'm being nonsense 😟 well i just hope its just me edit : is there any way this channel and videos can be recommended to someone, without me actually tell them about it 😅
Post it on any your social media feeds (Facebook, insta etc) that you know your BF checks out😉..So your lowkey hinting but not directly pushing it in his face
From severe bullying when I was young and growing up fearing social rejection, to meaningless so-called intimate relationships, to an abusive relationship (both emotional and physically,) to unsupportive workplaces, to finally thinking I'd found myself through a good relationship and a job where I felt I belonged, only to end up with cancer, trying to sustain as much normalcy by staying in my job, to a boss who accused me of putting them on an emotional rollercoaster (when they too blurred the professional lines) through my cancer journey, emotionally blackmailing them and borderline harassing them, to feeling like I'm almost getting my life together only to be forced into this coronavirus lockdown to now facing redundancy from a job I feel I can give my all to... yeah that's my life... and people wonder why I have anxiety, depression and possibly PTSD
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Wow that's aweful luck & chain event's you've had omg. Your boss said you put them through emotional rollercoaster ?😦, but you had cancer wtf.....what a self absorbed piece of s*it if he said that. Am sorry about your job, it's hard times & alot people lost/losing there job's unfortunately. Hope your cancer is cured & your ok ? My niece had ovarian, cervical cancer recently & had full Hysterectomy about 8-10 weeks ago.
I am in this happy situation to have an understanding boyfriend like this. We are a couple for 2 years now and I always try to explain whats going on in my head even though I am not really sure about it myself. But his patience, forgiveness and will to understand me really builds me up. Sometimes I have some harder breakdowns but with him on my side I don´t have to fear that he might leave me because he gives me my time I need and later we can talk about everything. I hope for everyone who suffers from depression or other mental illness that you can find a partner or good friends that won´t leave your side and support you in your hard time.
My ex wanted to end things because I was starting to get really depressed during quarantine it still hurts he didn’t try to understand but when I look at everything it was the right choice
same, but we were still just dating. i love him dearly. i know he made that decision because he doesn't want me to get hurt. i hope things turned out great for us, but i also wish that he'll be happy and meet someone who'll take good care of him.
Thank you, i needed that. I'm struggling with depression and my partner isn't as emocionally mature as i needed him to be. He makes jokes all the time, he doesn't like to talk about my/his/our problems, he can't express himself properly... So, since i'm having a hard time, we are having a hard time as couple as well :(
my girlfriend and i, both of us are struggling with depression and we both deal with it different ways and it's difficult and a lot of times it's very hard to balance everything out but we still put efforts to work things out and give each other space when sometimes things get unhealthy but no matter what I'm just glad we are there for each other :')
I wish this was writting from a perspective where the healthy partner is on the verge of giving up on the non healthy partner. Why make a video for partners that fully support the non healthy partner? I clicked this video, expecting a video I finally needed, but then you started talking about having a partner who mostly understands and supports. For most people its NOT like that at all. Most people lose their partner over depression. Please make a video from THAT perspective too. They need it more than people who are already willing to help.
I get what you are saying, but I don’t completely agree. I watch these videos to remind myself why I continue to support my guy with depression. It is difficult at times when the depression completely takes control of your partner. The walls become difficult to navigate. It’s hard to feel that your support is warranted when they continue to push you away and isolate from you. Sometimes there seems to be a fine line between being supportive and being a doormat. It is difficult to set the boundaries for your own mental health, as well as knowing when your support is appreciated. These videos remind me not to take things personally. I know that I am loved, and when the depression subsides, he will thank me and tell me he appreciates all I have done. In my opinion,or from my perspective, I feel that this is the purpose of these videos to remind us why we support our loved ones.
My boyfriend broke up with me because I got depressed. I moved to another state to be with him leaving my family friends and a job I loved. He never tried to make me feel better he would just say stop being sad. 😢
I could relate to everything in this video I’m actually broke down in tears watching it. The little animations are so cute to. I found it very comforting knowing that I’m not alone and that having bad feelings is okay and I shouldn’t beat myself up so much
For real 100% never beat yourself up/blame yourself✌️🧐 , Unfortunately its what alot do with it (depression,bi polar etc) & can be very damaging........Hope u had good cry & let it all out btw , here arh i'll give ya a tissue 🤧🤧🤧👍
Dezzy Wright you too! Thank you so much for your kind words, I can’t wait for things to be back to how they used to be at least ☺️ I live in Manchester 🇬🇧
@@avalou7999 😳Omg hahaha are u serious ?? wtf i live in Manchester🏴 🤣😂😂too, i live next to Man city's stadium , this made me have a chuckle am sorry............Your first person I've ever spoke to in 6 years with this account thats even been from North West of England nevermind Manchester, it's 90% American's I've met...........How are u finding it the lockdown ? Its so boring am finding it , only so much gaming & watching tv i can do lol😂, have u been going shopping in person or ordering it online ??my mate went B&Q at fort in cheetham hill other week lol & sent me pics was soooo busy & ridiculous.....ive been doing😳gardening lmao
I wish my new girlfriend would get over her depression I am not responsible for her depression but I do hope she gets help . I know how it feels to have depression & anxiety .
I get it, my girlfriend has depression too and i get it can be draining as hell to being unable to take this bad away from her, and most of the time it's not easy to get people with depression to get help, it's like meaningless to them, as if they had no remedy.
I’ve been dealing with depression for more Than a year now and in between that I got Into a relationship. This could’ve been helpful but we broke up Bc they said I was too emotional and not paying attention to him even though I tried my best. I love this video and this is exactly what people need to hear
I’ve met such a wonderful woman and all I want right now is to stand with her as she goes through such a busy, stressful and emotionally tumultuous time. She takes time to spend with me when she’s dead tired and makes me feel like there’s truly a light at the end of the tunnel, and she’s everything I need, want, and more. While it’s still very new and delicate I already know that the love is there as a sprout, and I’m committing to bettering myself by quitting addictions and crutches to be fully present, let that love grow into a strong and deep rooted tree and be a bright spot for her. All I hope is that she takes my hand and stands with me in this fucked up world. I honestly had no idea I could care so deeply about someone just like THAT. I want to be the person I needed the most when I was fighting through depression for her ❤
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7 things your partner with depression wishes you knew
1. "You're NOT responsible for my feelings"
2. "Let me help you help me"
3. "Sometimes I'll choose not to do things"
4. Depression is not simply sadness. Sadness isn't a medical diagnosis.
5. "I might be forgetful, forgive me."
6. Decisions can be difficult.
7. "Even a little support means a huge amount to me."
thank you 💜
Thanks for putting this together. Can you guys help add to this list if we missed any?
@Sacrilegious Boi i think more than a giagnosis those are symptoms 😅
@@Psych2go Hi psych2go, I would like to thank you first of all for all the helpful information you spread. Could you please make a video on how to try curing our own depression. I don't have a access to therapy neither do I have money for online paid therapy. I need help, I want to get out of it. Please help me................................
I'm sure many people would want it too......
Psych2Go what do I do if we’re *both* the depressed girlfriend?
This is good, but can you do one for boyfriends with depression, or am I just weird for being a guy with depression
your not weird at all mane 🥺
You’re not weird🖤 completely valid
No that's not weird! Not only girls have depression anyone can man, you're completely valid. 💞
Goodness no, you are not weird for being a guy with depression 💔
No of course you're not weird. We're all human and no one is perfect. Don't believe in that "men can't show their feelings" crap. That's just an out dated stereotype
"We hide to try our feelings, but we forget that our eyes speak.” Always look into the eyes is what I say. They answer a lot of questions.
True but some people look away
Damn... That's so true. My eyes always gave me away to how I truly felt 😅
For that reason I look away. I don't want you in here
Your Dismantled Edge Transit that says a lot too.
That doesn't make sense???
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@@justadogthatgame5911 I don't know but I really hate it, before it was so easy
I hate this update so muchhhh
I'm currently writing this because my girlfriend has depression, and I want to support her by understanding her feelings and moods.
I always write down important things, so I know when to give her space and comfort. I love her and I will give her the never-ending patience she needs in her difficult times. Whoever reads this don't give up on her she needs you more than anyone else.
Wow !! Thank so much
How is it going 3 years later bro?
When I tell my boyfriend that I'm dealing with depression he calls me and message me and keeps me happy and he tell me things that comforts me and supports me and we always talk and he gets me through things especially in the beginning of 2018 he always tells me that we will get our relationship back and he keeps me positive
That's wonderful! Sounds like a keeper!
@@Psych2go thank you we've been together since 2015 and then after my horrible experience in 2017 when I was raped and pregnant he supported me and we promised to keep working on our relationship after the baby was adopted and then suddenly I fell into depression and even though we are on break but we are still continue our relationship and talking and working it out 💖💖
@@Rima27ify Can you Please elaborate how he Comforts you?? What is the procedure.. I Want to Help my girlfriend Who is suffering ..pls Help
@@basiccubing4732 I'm in the same boat as you buddy, except we both have depression😅 big yikes
@@Psych2go Hi psych2go, I would like to thank you first of all for all the helpful information you spread. Could you please make a video on how to try curing our own depression. I don't have a access to therapy neither do I have money for online paid therapy. I need help, I want to get out of it. Please help me................................
I'm sure many people would want it too......
I'm sorry you are going through a depression, please take all the time you need to heal. You are amazing, don't be too hard on yourself.
Thank you so much!
@@Psych2go I did had a severe depression in my past and even attempted suicide, so it hit close to home. Just know as hard as it is to believe, things will get better. When you're at the lowest, it can only go up afterwards. Also please surround yourself with things and people that makes you happy and remove everything that bring your spirit down. That was the cure of my depression. Why keep doing things that make you unhappy
Just look how far, you've accomplished, you're amazing. Tomorrow is another day. xo
@@Angell_Lee oml I'm so sorry for you twt
@@Angell_Lee you are amazing uvu
@@white_stag Thanks sweetie, YOU are amazing
Boyfriend: Gets a medical degree just to treat you.
Boyfriens: I just realised ice cream and hugs could of had the same effect.
Happened to me.
My first GF was always Depressed supported her but she always told me That be a Doc and then treat me.
Mind it it was my dream too. Studied hard cleared the entrance and here I am a Doctor but she didn't wait she Cheated me. Second one did the same used up my emotions and Blackmailed me. After my father Expired when I had to take care of my family. I asked her she can leave but she didn't later she ghosted me, got a marriage invitation card from her.
Currently Just before the Lockdown one of my colleague came to me and Said that she loves me she was a depressed person but we have been together. We have similar taste but she is the sweetest person ever. And she has been a keeper. we were doing 18hrs round together. Had a Date in the Hospital Canteen been both helping each other during this Pandemic. More or less the Pandemic changed into a romantic period for us.
Now she is sleeping beside me all cuddled up with hugs and Kisses and 3 L of Icecream gone.
@@theowleyes07 So you guys are dating now after she cheated on you and almost got married?
Intense, but seems like a foundation.
I'm happy for you man.
Hope you both end up together for good, what I mean is a ring btw.
All the best.
@@hashtagnoname3931 I thought it was max 2.
@@GabrielTobing my bad. Sorry for confusion.
deep roy W
My bf is sleeping rn but i need a reminder to send this to him
--we both deal with depression and he prides himself on making me happy--
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@@serpently thanks
wait i read your comment and i didnt even realize it was crossed out until i went to the replies💀
@@monokuma9028 rip
@@monokuma9028 thats ok
I apreciate this video, my gf has depression because of some trauma issues she had, sometimes I can hardly understand what is happening with her, this video means a great deal from me, our relationship has been a hard/soft one, she is just such a good person and as a guy sometimes you can fell like you'r not helping or a felling of actualy doing nothing to help her and it is one of the worst fellings someone can have
You are not the only one, you, the one who is reading this, I know you'r pain, but you can pull it up, luv u all
I 100% agree with you. I love my girlfriend with everything in me, and I ask her if she needs me to take her out and away from the family every, single day after work.
I suffer from depression and you can imagine I’ve tried taking myself out many times in the past. She is my literal life buoy and my pride and joy. I love her more than the beautiful world we live in or all the money in the world ❤
I’anna is my pride and joy and I can’t wait to marry her one day 🥰💐💍
I'll send this to my boyfriend
When I get one
I’ll send this to my girlfriend when I get one
Lol.
Lmao
@@channelnamehere-2486 i introduce you to Ale PS
Ale PS i introduce you to Terra
There you go
Send it to a close friend as it still applies
Thank you for helping me see things in a different light. My girlfriend suffers from depression as well. Somedays I feel she is very distant and not as loving as she used to. It tends to scare me a bit because I'm not sure if it's me or something else. Though, this video helps me with a bit of an understanding what she might be going through somedays and how I can be there for her.
With you dude. It’s hard but this video has helped so much! The hardest thing for me is as I’m such a positive person staying positive can be hard and dealing with the lack of reciprocated energy is difficult, I’m learning everyday. The other hardest thing is my fear of making her feel worse or not being there in the right way because I don’t understand but I’m understanding more and more.
@@ronanhewit5218 i also feel the same. I want to help her, but ended up making it worse. I understand her pain, but I don't know how to help her. What can I say in this situation, which make her happy or feel good. Help me. Because I don't want to lose her.
@@shashankchauhan2874 do ask her for her opponents what is making her worrying n depression ..say we together gonna fix this ..she's ain't alone your with er alwyz ..if it didn't tis happen to her that ur with her on her painful situation bro she is gonna go far
If i had a girlfriend i would love her with everything
I would do any and everything for her
Sweet! :)
T~T 👏👏👏
Can I be your girlfriend then?
I had a girlfriend didn't work out and I found out being single is quite fun!
Don't get me wrong I did love her and did literally *everything* for her
But the conversations weren't too fun and Felt awkward
So we broke up
And here I am having fun while being single
gym mamba - everyone has a different experience tho :)
Love my girl so much and it hurts to see her this way :( but I’m never giving up… been with her for almost 5 years now and would love to be with her for the rest of my life. Thank you for this video!
Hope you have a beautiful and happy life together. 💝
@@qbee1747 it's kinda heart breaking but u choose someone who doesn't respect u ,
Don't worry you'll be fine and your partner too have patience ☺️
I do have a partner with depression, but the the irony is that she’s never slowed me down or made me sad. Its actually the opposite! She makes me the happiest I’ve ever been and I’m gonna stick by her side and try my best to make her feel what she makes me feel. That smile she has is worth it.
I'd like to add:
"Whatever happens to me because of my depression is not your fault."
Because we all know that depression is hard to overcome. And it can lead to self-destructive actions. I'd like my boyfriend to know that none of my actions are his fault and I don't ever want him to think "I should've cared more". Because he's already doing his best to comfort me. And I'm trying my best to get better, too.
hi I hope life has treated you better these last years.
can I ask you a question that has been on my mind ever since I started dating my girlfriend?
she was my friend before that and I knew about her mental struggles but still went and told her how I felt about her.. she agreed but I think I chose a really bad timing to do it.
she wasn't taking her medication correctly at that time ,she had made a couple of huge decisions and was at In very confusing state of mind.
so I don't exactly know how to feel about it because yes she did agree but she does not seem as thrilled about the idea As I am , she keeps on telling me that she's afraid we might end up hurting each other and she constantly thinks about negatif things that might happen to us even though we've had none of those yet and hopefully never.
it just bothers me and scares me a bit to think that the person I want to spend this portion of my life with is constantly thinking about how it would be sad if our relationship ended badly.
what do you think I should do about this ?
also there is another question , a more direct one at least , do you suggest I should try to push her to do things that she keeps on telling me she wanted to do ? or should I let her sulk and barely have any activity , I personally enjoy sports and she had told me she wanted to start doing some too but she just keeps pushing it to later days everytime and I don't know what to do about it.
please help me make her life a little bit better she's everything to me and I want her to enjoy her time with.
Amanda Silvera has the most calming voice.
🥺😭🤍thank u!
amanda silvera you’re welcome ♥️
I feel this so hard. it is absolute hell functioning in a relationship while having depression.
Sorry to hear. How are you doing now?
@@Psych2go I'm in therapy with my partner and I'm learning to communicate better with him about my moods.
As a guy with depression I can relate to all of these and wish I had someone who could be there for me and is strong enough to help when I need it.
Hey man, I'm here to listen. We all should have each other's backs.
I have a girlfriend with major depression. It's never easy but no matter what we try, I try to make it easier by talking with her. I do let her help me, I know it makes her feel better. Sometimes it's really hard because she distance herself a lot. But in the end I try to remind her that no matter what I love her and we'll get through this like we did other times.
Also, I may act distant because sometimes the feeling that I am a burden overwhelms me. This stems from the fear of being abandoned and hurt and I am working on this issue as I heal. Don't take it personally. I am fighting my own mental battle.
I'm trying to get the courage to ask a girl out and these videos are helping me cope and come up with ways to go about it
So thank you ^_^
Удачи!
I hope it goes well 😊
Glad they are helping! Keep us posted :)
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Yes
You can do it! 😃👍
I sent this to my boyfriend and he called it stupid. He didn't even watch the whole thing. He is like the title is like you're attention seeking. I told him that he should watch the video and then talk to me about any of the problems he is having. He didn't listen at all. All he told me is Don't you think I don't have depression too? I'm like- I'm aware of that and i try to understand you but I want you to listen to this so you can help understand me a bit clearer because it's very close to how I feel most of the time. I was hesitant to say anything here because 2 weeks later we broke up. He tells me he doesn't care about things but he still seems to be there and help.
Thank you so much for making this! I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 6 months now. I’m finally having to realize my efforts don’t always work. I’m at the point where I am forcing myself to be patient and always support her no matter what. These things you have provided me are great tool for now knowing how to be there for her.
Every time y’all upload these videos make me happy cry because you guys really are giving out really well put together information and sources and from someone who has suffered from depression since she was seven years old I value the channel like this. Please never stop uploading I love it and you’re teaching me about myself as well as about others around me and how to make things a bit better on everyone myself included!
It was hard being in a relationship with someone who didn’t understand my depression, and using my constant sadness and unwillingness to do certain things he wanted to do (I.E. going out with his friends, certain events, etc.) as a way to make me feel like I’d never get better or like I wasn’t enough. Even the times I tried, it still wasn’t enough. I never expected him to know how to love a girl with depression, but even after explaining why I am the way I am, he still used “you’re too sad all the time” as his excuse to always leave. I didn’t expect him to cure me, just be there. Now I have someone close to me who not only understands, but is patient with me. They give me that gentle push that it’ll get better, & they don’t shove it in my face that I’m sad & “sick”. They understand my off days and are there with me through the worst days as much as they are through the good ones. It’s nice and comforting not feeling like I’m hard to deal with or a burden anymore.
You are not a burden. I'm glad you are not alone with this battle. 🙂🙏💞
How are you now
Something people should know about how to face people battling with depression;
- Do not stereotype, it's different for everyone
- Do not treat them any way differently, it makes them feel even more isolated from society; they also want to be treated like a normal human, you don't have to be extra careful around them, just be yourself
- Be aware of their needs of support, but never do the hard things for them(cause helplessness), help them by couraging, helping from sideline
- Confused emotions are normal, so talk with them instead of expecting your own, they might send mixed signals and communication is best way to clarify actual facts
- Avoid pressuring them, rather be flexible, since they might need more time to get ready
This is the list I had wrote to the people around me in my life.
Insurance companies say depression is caused by a lack of focus on a goal or a mission. Then activity towards the goal pulls oneself out of oneself as the person becomes absorbed in the activity.
Many people find a goal and activity in playing a musical instrument. Consider making dates where you explore new hobbies or interests. Make an inventory of interests other people have. Then go the center place for that interest and try to find what triggers love for that hobby.
Go horseback riding, go to a fabrics store(s), visit farm animals, look at photos in a museum, visit some plant nurseries, interview 20 people and ask them what their interests are.
Try ballroom, country or salsa dancing. If she gets interested in this, it will be for a lifetime. Invite her to take lessons with you. Learn Tango.
me and my boyfriend literally broke up because he did not understand my depression and was making situations worse, this video was such timing
It took me a while to stand on my own before moving on with a relatiinship, but I wasn't completely ready to be at peace with myself. I have helped my boyfriend to help me a little. He has been so patient and loving. I don't know how to thank him enough.
When reading psych2go comments and replies, am i the only one who imagines the narrators calm and soothing voice?
You can stalk the narrator's youtube channel ;)
@@Psych2go lol
Psych2Go yeah let’s make jokes about stalking
Wtf are you thinking?
Sometimes this channel makes me smh.
Stalking is not a joke sis
@@misanthropic985 jeez calm down i know you can't stand being quarantined but you're not alone for goodness sake
Errror Fowx sweety I’m totally calm. I didn’t swear or call names. Have you ever been stalked before?
Have you had someone break into your house and punch your husband in front of you and r*pe you?
I did!!! I’m not on quarantine wtf does that have to do with it?
Literally saw this in my notifications and I was like, CAN U SEE ME?! HOW DID YOU KNOW O.o
My girlfriend has depression and I found out 2 and a half months ago, we also participate in a lot of activities, for example we bought a dog and we walk it out everyday, we do the dishes together, we go hike, I make sure that we at least laugh over 18+ minutes a day, I convinced her to get professional help, didn’t work at first but patience made it work, we now go to therapy sessions once or twice a week, she started getting in contact with her family more, it’s okay for her not to be happy, as long as she does not bottle her feelings then I’m more than okay to let her rant to me and be there for her, I check up on her everyday and make sure that she’s taking her medications, and she said that all of what we’re going through helped a little bit, and that’s more than enough for me, knowing that she’s improving even a little bit makes me happy :)
(Sorry for my bad English, not my first language. I’m also sharing this just in case for anyone else out there)
My gf has a little bit of ptsd and anxiety from her family life. I always lift her mood up when I can to give her some support that almost everyone else doesn’t show. I have issues too, but mine are mild compared to my gf’s. I’ll always be there for her when she needs me. I love her very much, and there is no other person I’d want to spend my life with. ❤️❤️❤️
you should start a series like this! I think it would be very helpful!
You're right. "(number) things that your (blank) with depression wishes you knew"
Owen S. Studios yeah! but also things like PTSD, ADD, extreme anxiety, etc.
@@avaelizabeth751 Definitely anxiety
I love this idea! 😄
Great! We will look into it with the team!
Thank you guys for this video. I have depression. I don't know why, but it is really hard to explain how I feel to my boyfriend. I've send him many of your videos and he understand me almost completely now and is really handling it well. I'm really thankful for having him.
i hope you all have good luck with every thing you are facing, i have high functioning depression, and things can really suck sometimes, but you can do it! this goes out to all of you guys. Love ya!
Communication is still and will be the best thing you can do to anybody. It shows how important they are to you, coupled with actions. You can never go wrong.
Thank you for making these videos, I have a suicidal girlfriend and sometimes I feel like I’m not enough like I can’t help her. I always feel bad mentally because of how she’s feeling, I felt the same way once to, and even though I should know for sure that there’s hope sometimes I forget that but videos like this help remember that there’s hope. So thank you, I doubt you’ll see this but videos like these help so many people.
How is she now, my girlfriend also in depression and sometime she get mad at small things i forget
I’m the girl who has depression, and I recognize this about myself, so I’m doing my best to get myself ready for a relationship before I jump into one. Which is what everyone should do. Meet the standards you set for your partner
*isn't dating anyone but clicks on video anyway *
TH-cam is drunk againnnnnnnnnn
Don't have a girlfriend yet, but I'm leaving for college this Fall and plan on dating then. These are good things to look out for. Thank you, Psych2Go
Indeed. I don't think there's any video like this out there, so if it's helpful, we are glad.
@@Psych2go Thanks, P2G. You're one in a million
Good luck on your college career and good luck on your dating career
I have a girlfriend with depression, anxiety and borderline personality and it gets so difficult sometimes. It's not that I don't like to help her It's that sometimes she is so anguished and depressed that I get so sad because of that. It's such an awful thing having someone you love wanting to kill themselves. I get so worried and anxious all the time. I'm doing all I can to help her.
I suffer from very bad depression and anxiety. But I feel so grateful because my fiance is such a support always ready to try and help in any way possible. This video is seriously going to help a lot of people
Could you try to make a more careful distinction between when you’re speaking from personal experience and when these videos are well researched and cited?
Yeah, we can add a disclaimer in the future! Thanks for pointing that out. We do have that mentioned in the video description box too, but next time you will see that incorporated into a script :)
One thing I will say is that, while this may not be based on scientific fact, it is pretty accurate for a wide spread of people in this situation. It is still very helpful and, if nothing else, can start a conversation between a couple.
I always tell my bf whenever I'm not okay and he'll hug me and help me. He also bought me a journal to write my negative emotions :) he's so sweet but as of now i decided not to bother him that much because i want him to feel like having a normal girlfriend
For people who feels like they have depression, the best thing you can do for your self and your partner is to seek professional help,
Your true partner want to help you so badly, but often confused and feel helpless.
With seeking professional help, both of you can help each other and understand eachother better.
I am super lucky to have found someone who is very patient with me. I know he doesn't really understand why I act the way I do all the time, and I wish I could be as supportive towards him as he is towards me. Sometimes it seems like I am much more needy than he is because of my depression and anxiety, and I just hope it doesn't eventually drive him away...
Me having a savior complex upon trying to save my ex gf with this condition really helps me open up my mind. Next time I’ll do better when the next relationship like this would come.
That first one was the biggest reason on which a 5 year relationship went down the drain, they were frustrated that they "weren't enough to make me happy"... I still struggle not to expect my now husband will react the same way and leave me. It's not just baggage at this point, it's like emotional trauma.
How are you right now
Why am I watching this as a single person
me too
Same reason as me I suppose
Same here, lol. And as someone who also suffers from social anxiety and lack of self-confidence, I can only conclude that I will never find a bf. (that I will also REALLY like, and he will REALLY like me back).
For information ♥╣[-_-]╠♥
@@cosmosprayer lol. Don't say that & put yourself in bars of -ve talk. Be hopeful & Smile (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*。
How do I send this to my bf without sending it?😂
You can share it on your social media if your bf checks ;)
Hmm...
I sent it to him so it can be easier for both of us
EXACTLY MY THOUGHT
Why not just send it to him?...
I'm diagnosed with clinical depression, I have been struggling for years. I feel like my depression is contagious. Because my boyfriend of two years has been more or less as suicidal as I can get. I can't say he has all the symptoms I do, but I definitely feel like I'm the one who made him less happy because of my mess.
I just want him to be happy, but it's hard when my sadness makes him sad, and I tend to hate myself for that.
for past 3 years ive come through "working depression" suddenly it got away, but i have the need to tell to whoever does these videos, thank you for making my time better and made me smile even iust a little, others who experience time depression or clinical, i wish i could help but sometimes u have to deal with it on your own, anyway i wish it helps you just as me
I am definitely going to send this to my boyfriend. He knows about my condition and he is one of my biggest reasons to keep going in life. Though we may be young, we can see each other growing old together. This video couldn't of been made at a better time. Thank you so much Psych2Go for your amazing videos! ❤
what if he’s just rude to you tho when you’re trying to help him.
Have you talked to them yet? If you have and they still haven’t listened, then mentally ill or not, that’s a toxic relationship
It may be how he processes things at the time. I can get mean or lash out when I'm in a depressive episode and definitely not mean it. I get overwhelmed easily and things just come out in anger. It doesn't make it right but if you talk to him about it it could make it easier to understand. I can't stress enough to be 100% transparent with each other and talk.
Thanks for sharing. How did you offer your help?
I'm a single girl with depression who will take a girlfriend with or without depression. If they do have depression, I hope to help them, if they don't, i'm glad they're doing well!
this was helpful. I have a girlfriend who has depression and suicidal thoughts every now and then. I often get discouraged because I feel like I can’t always help her even when I’m doing my absolute best to encourage her while I’m by her side. Thanks for the heads up.
"Even though this is just my battle, I still need you by my side. "
My depression and anxiety destroyed my relationships
Same girl same
I can relate to that... I am 16 and my first relationship left me suicidal for months.
that’s like my biggest fear. i love my boyfriend right now but i’ll feel sooner or later he’ll get sick of having to deal with me
@@Sarah-ff3vf when You are SAD JUST HUG HIM. And you tell him that your fear. It will soothe you and him. That you also want to comeout of the depression
You should seek professional help ;-;
I had a girlfriend with depression, she left me, even though I did everything I could to make her happy...
Raysor I feel your pain
She didn't want to burden u
People with depression tend to feel self loathing and that they don't deserve a lot of things and efforts. She probably thought she doesn't deserve you. Please don't be so hard on yourself. You did your best. It's not your fault, and it's not hers too.
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I'm the one with depression, and my boyfriend is so kind and supportive every time I break, even when he's a thousand miles away from me.
This made me cry ! My boyfriend does his very best to get me out of the these moments. It's a struggle for both of us. To see this video and know I am not the only makes me feel comforted. This video put in words and images explaining what I can't find the words to explain.
Thank you💕
Step 1.Get a girlfriend
Step 1: avoid females, acquire currency
I love your username and pfp XD
@@chickenwings7116 love both of yours
Phuc Yu ，😂😂😂 I know that quote
Step 1: get good friends money status power
Step 2: loathe at what you have because there is no pushy in your life
How can someone deal with the short term memory loss caused by depression? I've gotten lost in familiar places and it's frightening. It often leads to people not believing me when I say I didn't know where I was or why.
@@Trnkesa I've told a counselor and she said it was the depression making me feel like that. You might be right though and I should ask my doctor. Thanks
I can understand you
I have a very good memory and I had 2 years I couldn’t remember almost anything that I have been trough, so because my past hunt me every night I just thinking about stuff from years ago to a few days ago
And it really helped me remembering stuff
Sometimes I wish I could forget again
But after I build what I have now I can remember every details from memory’s
And I won’t let myself forget things again
I’m going through the same thing. I would talk to a friend and out of nowhere I forgot what I was about to say.
I suffer from depression and I’m regularly forgetting details that I was supposed to remember
im that girl that suffers from depression, has a crush on my bff, and wishes i could say these things to her.. because they are my intended thoughts...
I was in that position for 5 years, hun. Don’t worry, it gets better. Even if it doesn’t turn out the way you had hoped.
@@geesusway6609 well uh, it did get better
@@komaedakat1583 That’s great!
Thanks my girlfriend has depression so I want to learn how to support her
My gf has a problem with a vein in her brain and she's suffering from it alotta years ago ,now she tested positive for corona , and she's feeling 10× worse than how she felt before,im planning to ask for her hand the next month , please pray for her she's all i got and love 😔
I hope she is better, any updates?
I’m going to need my next bae to watch this before dating me so he can understand me and the “differences” with the way I act. I need him to understand me and get the reasons why I act the way I act.
Wish my now ex would have watched this and realized I indeed couldn't make her happy and that she was pushing her problems all on me making it hard to even care for myself
In the end it was a good thing that it ended she manipulated me into thinking it was all my fault and that I didn't do enough to help. And well this really hurt my confidence as you can probably imagine :/
I've been dumped for having depression. Don't dump someone for going through thier own war. Yes it gets over whelming to help that person with their battle. A bf/gf that suffers with depression always needs support and someone to count on. People with depression also need love ❤
Sry you got hurt! Yet if your relationship is not fullfilling for both! partners, whatever the reason, it is wise to break up eventually. Never pressure your partner to stay because of your health issues. That's a toxic mindset you might need to work on.
I sent this to my boyfriend. He's been by my side through all my Bipolar episodes since we've been together. But I want him to know these things in this vid because they are super important.
i’ve been talking to someone who is new to dating and has never dealt with someone who has depression. he has been struggling a little trying to understand but he is trying. thank you so much for summarizing my thoughts and how i feel so simply. i’ll send this to him, i think it would really help us out!! thank you 💕
Thing 1: She wished you knew how to mine diamonds in Minecraft
Of course. So you can give her a real diamond later on right?
"Your girlfriend"???
If so, she only has depression if she were stuck with a loser like me, she needs to dump me asap lol
I’m sure you’re a great person in your own way
you're not a loser, and you'll make someone very happy one day and will never cause someone deppresion okay 🥺
Dont say that about yourself. If I knew you, I bet you'd be cool.
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The Internet:
Ah, I always see your comments everywhere! 😂 I once commented you same thing, because I am most likely to see your comments on Zen-kun's videos
I like how the memory issue was included. Idk how to explain how my brain worakes to people. But my boyfriend is very understanding sometimes it scares me that maybe it's all a dream😅
Your not dreaming
My fiancee has chronic depression. This helps me , I have tried to make her happy....but I get so mad and frustrated Your videos make valued points and I hope to be a great wifey to my wifey.So thank you!
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Thank you for making me realize I’m not stupid. I always forgot things so easily and now I finally know the cause! So thank you!
My ex boyfriend has depression I would try to show him I was still care about him and love him but he would just get mad at me for “bothering him” he broke up with me a while after
Heyo~ I know this is a late comment but I hope you are doing okay. This is not your fault for trying to help him by sharing love and let him know he's not alone. I just wish he would notice your actions and appreciate you.
You know I’m not depressed myself but I have talk to people who have depression and maybe your boyfriend wasn’t angry at you but he just wanted to push you away because he didn’t want to open up and make you understand what it’s like, it’s difficult to have depression especially clinic or major depression, but I think he didn’t get annoyed at you, but I think he loved you or loves you, but it’s just like you don’t wanna open, you know
i'm so happy that you guys made this video ♥ this is what i feel about my relationship now, but i really don't dare to share this video with him, he might thinks that i'm being nonsense 😟 well i just hope its just me
edit : is there any way this channel and videos can be recommended to someone, without me actually tell them about it 😅
Post it on any your social media feeds (Facebook, insta etc) that you know your BF checks out😉..So your lowkey hinting but not directly pushing it in his face
I’ve never hit a notification so fast 😂
Because?
I feel you bro
Psych2Go it’s a video I relate to
From severe bullying when I was young and growing up fearing social rejection, to meaningless so-called intimate relationships, to an abusive relationship (both emotional and physically,) to unsupportive workplaces, to finally thinking I'd found myself through a good relationship and a job where I felt I belonged, only to end up with cancer, trying to sustain as much normalcy by staying in my job, to a boss who accused me of putting them on an emotional rollercoaster (when they too blurred the professional lines) through my cancer journey, emotionally blackmailing them and borderline harassing them, to feeling like I'm almost getting my life together only to be forced into this coronavirus lockdown to now facing redundancy from a job I feel I can give my all to... yeah that's my life... and people wonder why I have anxiety, depression and possibly PTSD
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Wow that's aweful luck & chain event's you've had omg.
Your boss said you put them through emotional rollercoaster ?😦, but you had cancer wtf.....what a self absorbed piece of s*it if he said that.
Am sorry about your job, it's hard times & alot people lost/losing there job's unfortunately.
Hope your cancer is cured & your ok ?
My niece had ovarian, cervical cancer recently & had full Hysterectomy about 8-10 weeks ago.
I am in this happy situation to have an understanding boyfriend like this. We are a couple for 2 years now and I always try to explain whats going on in my head even though I am not really sure about it myself. But his patience, forgiveness and will to understand me really builds me up. Sometimes I have some harder breakdowns but with him on my side I don´t have to fear that he might leave me because he gives me my time I need and later we can talk about everything. I hope for everyone who suffers from depression or other mental illness that you can find a partner or good friends that won´t leave your side and support you in your hard time.
My ex wanted to end things because I was starting to get really depressed during quarantine it still hurts he didn’t try to understand but when I look at everything it was the right choice
I have a 12 year old depression ..
And no boyfriend :( nor a friend I can send this to.
Hi! I’m your friend now. How y’all doing?
@@geesusway6609 surviving .. you?
I’ve been better, but I’ve been worse
@@geesusway6609 I hope you can get better again 😊
I had a girlfriend but she is my ex now but I still love her and I wish that she didn't break hearts and I think it's because of her depression
:(
same, but we were still just dating. i love him dearly. i know he made that decision because he doesn't want me to get hurt. i hope things turned out great for us, but i also wish that he'll be happy and meet someone who'll take good care of him.
Thank you, i needed that. I'm struggling with depression and my partner isn't as emocionally mature as i needed him to be. He makes jokes all the time, he doesn't like to talk about my/his/our problems, he can't express himself properly... So, since i'm having a hard time, we are having a hard time as couple as well :(
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Sounds like you're just being a difficult pest and he only sticks around so he can hit it.
my girlfriend and i, both of us are struggling with depression and we both deal with it different ways and it's difficult and a lot of times it's very hard to balance everything out but we still put efforts to work things out and give each other space when sometimes things get unhealthy but no matter what I'm just glad we are there for each other :')
I wish this was writting from a perspective where the healthy partner is on the verge of giving up on the non healthy partner. Why make a video for partners that fully support the non healthy partner? I clicked this video, expecting a video I finally needed, but then you started talking about having a partner who mostly understands and supports. For most people its NOT like that at all. Most people lose their partner over depression. Please make a video from THAT perspective too. They need it more than people who are already willing to help.
I get what you are saying, but I don’t completely agree. I watch these videos to remind myself why I continue to support my guy with depression. It is difficult at times when the depression completely takes control of your partner. The walls become difficult to navigate. It’s hard to feel that your support is warranted when they continue to push you away and isolate from you. Sometimes there seems to be a fine line between being supportive and being a doormat. It is difficult to set the boundaries for your own mental health, as well as knowing when your support is appreciated. These videos remind me not to take things personally. I know that I am loved, and when the depression subsides, he will thank me and tell me he appreciates all I have done. In my opinion,or from my perspective, I feel that this is the purpose of these videos to remind us why we support our loved ones.
Bold of you to assume I’d ever have a girlfriend
bruh same
How about girls who want a girlfriend? Like me.
Chihiro Fujiwara I’m sorry, dating now is such a massive struggle for everyone it seems
My boyfriend broke up with me because I got depressed. I moved to another state to be with him leaving my family friends and a job I loved. He never tried to make me feel better he would just say stop being sad. 😢
I am just glad that my depression isn't too dark anymore since I have gotten much better
I could relate to everything in this video I’m actually broke down in tears watching it. The little animations are so cute to. I found it very comforting knowing that I’m not alone and that having bad feelings is okay and I shouldn’t beat myself up so much
For real 100% never beat yourself up/blame yourself✌️🧐 , Unfortunately its what alot do with it (depression,bi polar etc) & can be very damaging........Hope u had good cry & let it all out btw , here arh i'll give ya a tissue 🤧🤧🤧👍
Dezzy Wright thank you so much x
@@avalou7999 No problem🤗 , Hope u have great day wherever u are ( great as can be in this neverending lockdown/Quarintine lol👎 ) x
Dezzy Wright you too! Thank you so much for your kind words, I can’t wait for things to be back to how they used to be at least ☺️ I live in Manchester 🇬🇧
@@avalou7999 😳Omg hahaha are u serious ?? wtf i live in Manchester🏴 🤣😂😂too, i live next to Man city's stadium , this made me have a chuckle am sorry............Your first person I've ever spoke to in 6 years with this account thats even been from North West of England nevermind Manchester, it's 90% American's I've met...........How are u finding it the lockdown ? Its so boring am finding it , only so much gaming & watching tv i can do lol😂, have u been going shopping in person or ordering it online ??my mate went B&Q at fort in cheetham hill other week lol & sent me pics was soooo busy & ridiculous.....ive been doing😳gardening lmao
0:44, oh so you're my girlfriend now? Good. I will appreciate you and we will go on a date somewhere and find puppies to play with.
I wish my new girlfriend would get over her depression I am not responsible for her depression but I do hope she gets help . I know how it feels to have depression & anxiety .
@Miss Dani Good point didn't mean to sound rude though !
I get it, my girlfriend has depression too and i get it can be draining as hell to being unable to take this bad away from her, and most of the time it's not easy to get people with depression to get help, it's like meaningless to them, as if they had no remedy.
please can you do “things your HSP girlfriend wishes you knew”??
I’ve been dealing with depression for more
Than a year now and in between that I got
Into a relationship. This could’ve been helpful but we broke up Bc they said I was too emotional and not paying attention to him even though I tried my best. I love this video and this is exactly what people need to hear
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I’ve been getting the help. And doing way better.
I’ve met such a wonderful woman and all I want right now is to stand with her as she goes through such a busy, stressful and emotionally tumultuous time. She takes time to spend with me when she’s dead tired and makes me feel like there’s truly a light at the end of the tunnel, and she’s everything I need, want, and more. While it’s still very new and delicate I already know that the love is there as a sprout, and I’m committing to bettering myself by quitting addictions and crutches to be fully present, let that love grow into a strong and deep rooted tree and be a bright spot for her. All I hope is that she takes my hand and stands with me in this fucked up world.
I honestly had no idea I could care so deeply about someone just like THAT. I want to be the person I needed the most when I was fighting through depression for her ❤