I felt stuck at co-sleeping in my toddlers bed, now im def ready for camping in her bedroom ! Thank you for showing me the way to the next step of co-sleeping transition! 🌙💖
This is honestly so refreshing to have a step by step. Do your only move onto the next step once the toddler (2 year old) has stopped getting upset or just keep going every 2 or 3 nights? Also, is it ok for mummy and daddy to alternate doing bedtimes as usual?
Hello! I would recommend moving on every 2-3 nights to keep progressing forward. Mommy and Daddy can 100% alternate bedtime routine :) Please let us know if you have any additional questions! Best, Alyssa, BSMS Support Team
What about a toddler that cry’s at night. Ex even when my son is in our bed he wakes through the night almost every night at least once and cry’s. What can help a toddler sleep through the night without waking
Hello! The best thing you can do is teach your LO how to fall asleep independently in his own space. When he learns this skill, then he can resettle independently in the middle of the night. How old is your LO? Alyssa, BSMS Support Team
@@Babysleepmadesimple I have this problem. My son is almost 3 (33 months). He and my husband sleep on the floor of the nursery/ 3 years olds room. He just can’t sleep alone it seems like. AND I have a 6 month old that I know needs to sleep in his crib but he currently sleeps in my room with me. This is really hard I don’t know what to do anymore.
For an older child, 2-4 years, I would transition out of co-sleeping simultaneously for naps and nighttime sleep. For a 1 year-old, I recommend night sleep first.
I was wondering if you had a video my little sister won’t go to bed unless I lay next to her but she will sleep in her room and I’m trying to get her out of that she’s almost 5 and we try many times before
Hi! I don't have a video for 5 year-olds, but that's a good idea for a future video. If you want, we offer private consultations so you can talk to one of our sleep consultants and get a clear plan for getting your sister sleeping better. You can sign up here: babysleepmadesimple.lpages.co/privateconsultation/ All the best, Jilly
My child is 18 months old, he refused to sleep alone from birth to now. He will nap in his crib during the day with no issues, but at night he won’t last in his crib. I hold him until he falls asleep, and lay him in his crib. After the first wakeup, I put him back into his crib, but he jolts awake and fights until I bring him back into our bed, even if we put him back to sleep more than once. (We room share, crib is next to our bed) but we are at our wits’ end, we want to teach him how to sleep on his own before it’s too late.
Hi! Thank you so much for reaching out to us! It is SO exhausting when our LOs need so much support to fall asleep at bedtime. The great news is that your LO is truly the perfect age to learn how to fall asleep independently and sleep through the night. It is definitely much easier to do it now when your LO is still in the crib too! We would love to support your family. I would really recommend our Big Kid program. This will help you navigate the independent sleep training, plus it will give you loads of helpful tips for when your LO does transition to a toddler bed around the age of 3. CLICK HERE to learn more--> www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training Peaceful evenings are just around the corner! Best, Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager
@@Babysleepmadesimple very much so, especially with my husband working away, I’m the one with our youngest at night, so I don’t have anyone I can hand him too when I’m overtired and need a break, which causes me to cave. None of my other children ever coslept, only my youngest. Is this something they usually grow out of?
Is 19 months too young for toddler bed? She used to sleep in her crib fine until we had to leave town and got used to co sleeping with me, never wanted the crib after that. So we got a toddler bed but she’s absolutely not on board with it and screams bloody murder when we try it.
We honestly recommend keeping LOs in a crib until as close to the age of 3 as possible (unless they are climbing out for safety reasons)! We cover this information in our Big Kid course and we would love to support your family! CLICK BELOW to learn more-->www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training
Hello! We have helped many toddlers go from co-sleeping to their own beds in our program! Many of our families also room share! I would definitely recommend checking out our Big Kid program! It is a gentle and comprehensive online course designed to help you teach your child independent sleep habits. The program includes a child personality assessment so you can discover how your kiddo’s unique personality affects their ability to sleep well and adapt to new routines. The truth is that having a child who sleeps great is a game changer for the entire family! Definitely click on the link below to learn all about our DIY package and Support package. www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training Please do not hesitate to reach out if you have any questions about our program. We hope to get the opportunity to support your family! Sincerely, Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager
Hey! I have a 21 month old, we have only one bedroom so we have the toddler bed in our room. We have been co sleeping since she was a baby but its getting really uncomfortable. So every night I put her in her toddler bed I sit on the floor besides her and rock her until she falls asleep between 7:30 to 8:30. She wakes up at around 11:00pm so I go and put her down but she wakes up again around 12:00 to 1:00 am and comes to the bed to sleep with us. I need help. (I gave up on the crib because she just kept crying and screaming even if I was right there with her)
Hi, thanks for reaching out! We would love to help you with this via a private consultation: programs.babysleepmadesimple.com/30-minutes-private-consultation-checkout/ Looking forward to talking with you! Artemis, BSMS Support Team
My toddler turned 2 and it’s been 2 months of a regression. We broke all the rules and now really regret it cause she used to be able to sleep on her own since her 18 month regression. My fear is it’s been so long now (2 months) and I don’t know how to go back to her sleep routine cause she’s developed al these terrible habits of getting used to sleeping with us. We’ve camped out with her cause she literally points to the ground and says “sleep now” and now even that isn’t good enough for her she screams and cries to get out of the crib and insists to sleep with us so we gave up and brought her to our bed. We’ve now slowly re-introduced her to her crib again but it’s been a struggle! We’ve tried what seems like everything and even let her cry it out but she cries until she throws up so that isn’t an option for us. So I don’t know where to start, should I let her continue to sleep with us and warm her up to the idea of her room? The last two nights we did her whole routine and I noticed she didn’t put up a fight when I put her in her crib, but she only fell asleep with me camping out beside her. The second night I did the exact same thing but she put up a fight to get out of the crib. So we let her fall asleep in our bed and her Dad transferred her over to her crib only for her to wake up at 4am insisting for milk and we gave up and brought her to our bed. Please help, desperate and pregnant Mama who also works FT and just wants to sleep at night again.
Oh man these stubborn two year olds can be really difficult. The good news is that she is still in a crib and that REALLY helps for re-training. So I would recommend you join our program with the support package. We can guide you through exactly how to get her sleeping in the crib again. The support package will allow us to talk through what to adapt to help with the vomiting. www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant Looking forward to helping you, Clare, BSMS Support Team
No, you don't have to do that. Just do the bedtime routine in their room for a few days, while they keep sleeping in your bed. Then move to step 5! Hope that's helpful, Artemis, BSMS Support Team
Hi jilly My 2.5 year old have suddenly started to refuse to go to crib and wants to sleep with me. When I keep her in crib she shouts potty potty. When I take her to bathroom she refuses to do potty. In morning also she wakes 5:30 am and shouts for potty. But she won't potty so early. She goes to potty around 6:30am. She is potty trained when she was 2 year old. She is independent sleeper and used to sleep for 13 hours a day. She sleeps well in the night but early waking and only 10 hour nighttime sleep is a problem. Whatever time she goes to bed she wakes up at 5:30 am. Please help
Hi Ruchira, Sorry to hear your little one's sleep has suddenly worsened. We're happy to help you fix it, just book a private call with us: programs.babysleepmadesimple.com/30-minutes-private-consultation-checkout/ Looking forward to speaking to you! Artemis, BSMS Support Team
I’m stuck in a spot. My daughter goes to sleep every night in her bed, and at 1:30 she always ends up traveling the house to ours. Every night same time and we can’t figure out how to break her waking up at that time.
Hi William, The toddler bed transition can definitely be challenging in the beginning. Definitely check out our brand new BIG KID program. It is amazing and will help to solve this very issue! www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training Best, Alyssa, BSMS Support Team Manager
I honestly don't understand co sleeping for so long that it's a fight to expect a child to sleep in his or her own space. No marital intimacy happening for quite a while can ne tough on a marriage.
This is very true! We like to support families and believe that every family should make the decision that works best for them. We have had many families though join us and move from co-sleeping to a crib and they are VERY happy! Best, Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager
The thing I fear the most is that he'll keep waking up over and over and scream and cry without us to be there, do we let him cry it out? He has a bad habit of trying to hurt himself when he's mad and frustrated too. What can we do to calm him down without pandering to him and let him think he can manipulate us by throwing a horrible tantrum?
This is such a great question and a completely understandable concern!! There are so many factors (environmental, schedule, daily connection time) that can all make a huge impact on your LO's sleep. I would definitely recommend looking into our Big Kid course. It is designed to give you all of the strategies and tools to teach your LO how to fall asleep independently, while reducing those "toddler power struggles". Toddlers are busy little bees and really need the quality sleep to handle those big emotions all day, and YOU deserve the break and quality sleep you need too. CLICK HERE to learn more--> www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training We hope to support your family! Best, Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager
Hello! We have worked with several families in similar situations! Definitely email us at support@babysleepemadesimple.com if you would like to chat more. We would love to help support you!! :) Best, Alyssa, BSMS Support Team
Hello! The pacifier is a tricky one! The short version is that if you can offer the pacifier to help baby fall asleep AND she doesn’t need you to replace it during the night- keep it! But if you’re having to replace it several times a night, that’s a sign that you’ll need to wean your baby off the pacifier as a sleep aid. You can still offer it during the day while awake or when sick for comfort. **One little trick that a lot of Moms have success with is sprinkling 6-7 pacifiers around the crib when baby goes to bed. That way, she can easily find one in the night. (This especially works as your baby gets older and can easily reinsert the pacifier by herself, around 7 months.) Best, Alyssa, BSMS Support Team
We've helped many 1 year olds sleep in their own bed. If you need any help, we're here! We can also help your little one sleep through the night. Just join our program: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant Artemis, BSMS Support Team
I love how you share so much of your knowledge for free! You have helped me so much with my second child, I wish I had found you for my first!
Awww thank you so much :)
Clare, BSMS Support Team
I felt stuck at co-sleeping in my toddlers bed, now im def ready for camping in her bedroom ! Thank you for showing me the way to the next step of co-sleeping transition! 🌙💖
So happy you found this helpful. Let us know how it went!
This is honestly so refreshing to have a step by step. Do your only move onto the next step once the toddler (2 year old) has stopped getting upset or just keep going every 2 or 3 nights? Also, is it ok for mummy and daddy to alternate doing bedtimes as usual?
Hello!
I would recommend moving on every 2-3 nights to keep progressing forward. Mommy and Daddy can 100% alternate bedtime routine :) Please let us know if you have any additional questions!
Best,
Alyssa, BSMS Support Team
What about a toddler that cry’s at night. Ex even when my son is in our bed he wakes through the night almost every night at least once and cry’s. What can help a toddler sleep through the night without waking
Hello! The best thing you can do is teach your LO how to fall asleep independently in his own space. When he learns this skill, then he can resettle independently in the middle of the night. How old is your LO? Alyssa, BSMS Support Team
@@Babysleepmadesimple I have this problem. My son is almost 3 (33 months). He and my husband sleep on the floor of the nursery/ 3 years olds room. He just can’t sleep alone it seems like. AND I have a 6 month old that I know needs to sleep in his crib but he currently sleeps in my room with me. This is really hard I don’t know what to do anymore.
When do you do naps in this process?
For an older child, 2-4 years, I would transition out of co-sleeping simultaneously for naps and nighttime sleep.
For a 1 year-old, I recommend night sleep first.
I was wondering if you had a video my little sister won’t go to bed unless I lay next to her but she will sleep in her room and I’m trying to get her out of that she’s almost 5 and we try many times before
Hi! I don't have a video for 5 year-olds, but that's a good idea for a future video.
If you want, we offer private consultations so you can talk to one of our sleep consultants and get a clear plan for getting your sister sleeping better.
You can sign up here: babysleepmadesimple.lpages.co/privateconsultation/
All the best,
Jilly
My child is 18 months old, he refused to sleep alone from birth to now. He will nap in his crib during the day with no issues, but at night he won’t last in his crib.
I hold him until he falls asleep, and lay him in his crib. After the first wakeup, I put him back into his crib, but he jolts awake and fights until I bring him back into our bed, even if we put him back to sleep more than once. (We room share, crib is next to our bed) but we are at our wits’ end, we want to teach him how to sleep on his own before it’s too late.
Hi!
Thank you so much for reaching out to us! It is SO exhausting when our LOs need so much support to fall asleep at bedtime. The great news is that your LO is truly the perfect age to learn how to fall asleep independently and sleep through the night. It is definitely much easier to do it now when your LO is still in the crib too!
We would love to support your family. I would really recommend our Big Kid program. This will help you navigate the independent sleep training, plus it will give you loads of helpful tips for when your LO does transition to a toddler bed around the age of 3.
CLICK HERE to learn more--> www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training
Peaceful evenings are just around the corner!
Best,
Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager
@@Babysleepmadesimple very much so, especially with my husband working away, I’m the one with our youngest at night, so I don’t have anyone I can hand him too when I’m overtired and need a break, which causes me to cave. None of my other children ever coslept, only my youngest. Is this something they usually grow out of?
@@Babysleepmadesimple I would love to sign up for that program, but unfortunately I can’t afford it. 😞
I'm going through the same thing now with my 19 month old😢
Is 19 months too young for toddler bed? She used to sleep in her crib fine until we had to leave town and got used to co sleeping with me, never wanted the crib after that. So we got a toddler bed but she’s absolutely not on board with it and screams bloody murder when we try it.
We honestly recommend keeping LOs in a crib until as close to the age of 3 as possible (unless they are climbing out for safety reasons)! We cover this information in our Big Kid course and we would love to support your family!
CLICK BELOW to learn more-->www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training
What about if the toddler doesn't have their own room? How can I get her from my bed to a bed on the floor in our room?
Hello!
We have helped many toddlers go from co-sleeping to their own beds in our program! Many of our families also room share! I would definitely recommend checking out our Big Kid program!
It is a gentle and comprehensive online course designed to help you teach your child independent sleep habits. The program includes a child personality assessment so you can discover how your kiddo’s unique personality affects their ability to sleep well and adapt to new routines. The truth is that having a child who sleeps great is a game changer for the entire family!
Definitely click on the link below to learn all about our DIY package and Support package.
www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training
Please do not hesitate to reach out if you have any questions about our program. We hope to get the opportunity to support your family!
Sincerely,
Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager
Hey! I have a 21 month old, we have only one bedroom so we have the toddler bed in our room. We have been co sleeping since she was a baby but its getting really uncomfortable. So every night I put her in her toddler bed I sit on the floor besides her and rock her until she falls asleep between 7:30 to 8:30. She wakes up at around 11:00pm so I go and put her down but she wakes up again around 12:00 to 1:00 am and comes to the bed to sleep with us. I need help. (I gave up on the crib because she just kept crying and screaming even if I was right there with her)
Hi,
thanks for reaching out! We would love to help you with this via a private consultation:
programs.babysleepmadesimple.com/30-minutes-private-consultation-checkout/
Looking forward to talking with you!
Artemis, BSMS Support Team
My toddler turned 2 and it’s been 2 months of a regression. We broke all the rules and now really regret it cause she used to be able to sleep on her own since her 18 month regression. My fear is it’s been so long now (2 months) and I don’t know how to go back to her sleep routine cause she’s developed al these terrible habits of getting used to sleeping with us. We’ve camped out with her cause she literally points to the ground and says “sleep now” and now even that isn’t good enough for her she screams and cries to get out of the crib and insists to sleep with us so we gave up and brought her to our bed. We’ve now slowly re-introduced her to her crib again but it’s been a struggle! We’ve tried what seems like everything and even let her cry it out but she cries until she throws up so that isn’t an option for us. So I don’t know where to start, should I let her continue to sleep with us and warm her up to the idea of her room? The last two nights we did her whole routine and I noticed she didn’t put up a fight when I put her in her crib, but she only fell asleep with me camping out beside her. The second night I did the exact same thing but she put up a fight to get out of the crib. So we let her fall asleep in our bed and her Dad transferred her over to her crib only for her to wake up at 4am insisting for milk and we gave up and brought her to our bed. Please help, desperate and pregnant Mama who also works FT and just wants to sleep at night again.
Oh man these stubborn two year olds can be really difficult.
The good news is that she is still in a crib and that REALLY helps for re-training.
So I would recommend you join our program with the support package. We can guide you through exactly how to get her sleeping in the crib again. The support package will allow us to talk through what to adapt to help with the vomiting.
www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant
Looking forward to helping you,
Clare, BSMS Support Team
During step four, should you move them into their toddler bed after they fall asleep in your bed?
No, you don't have to do that. Just do the bedtime routine in their room for a few days, while they keep sleeping in your bed. Then move to step 5!
Hope that's helpful,
Artemis, BSMS Support Team
Hi jilly
My 2.5 year old have suddenly started to refuse to go to crib and wants to sleep with me. When I keep her in crib she shouts potty potty. When I take her to bathroom she refuses to do potty. In morning also she wakes 5:30 am and shouts for potty. But she won't potty so early. She goes to potty around 6:30am. She is potty trained when she was 2 year old.
She is independent sleeper and used to sleep for 13 hours a day. She sleeps well in the night but early waking and only 10 hour nighttime sleep is a problem. Whatever time she goes to bed she wakes up at 5:30 am. Please help
Hi Ruchira,
Sorry to hear your little one's sleep has suddenly worsened. We're happy to help you fix it, just book a private call with us:
programs.babysleepmadesimple.com/30-minutes-private-consultation-checkout/
Looking forward to speaking to you!
Artemis, BSMS Support Team
I’m stuck in a spot. My daughter goes to sleep every night in her bed, and at 1:30 she always ends up traveling the house to ours. Every night same time and we can’t figure out how to break her waking up at that time.
Hi William,
The toddler bed transition can definitely be challenging in the beginning. Definitely check out our brand new BIG KID program. It is amazing and will help to solve this very issue!
www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training
Best,
Alyssa, BSMS Support Team Manager
I honestly don't understand co sleeping for so long that it's a fight to expect a child to sleep in his or her own space. No marital intimacy happening for quite a while can ne tough on a marriage.
This is very true! We like to support families and believe that every family should make the decision that works best for them. We have had many families though join us and move from co-sleeping to a crib and they are VERY happy! Best, Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager
The thing I fear the most is that he'll keep waking up over and over and scream and cry without us to be there, do we let him cry it out? He has a bad habit of trying to hurt himself when he's mad and frustrated too. What can we do to calm him down without pandering to him and let him think he can manipulate us by throwing a horrible tantrum?
This is such a great question and a completely understandable concern!! There are so many factors (environmental, schedule, daily connection time) that can all make a huge impact on your LO's sleep.
I would definitely recommend looking into our Big Kid course. It is designed to give you all of the strategies and tools to teach your LO how to fall asleep independently, while reducing those "toddler power struggles". Toddlers are busy little bees and really need the quality sleep to handle those big emotions all day, and YOU deserve the break and quality sleep you need too.
CLICK HERE to learn more--> www.babysleepmadesimple.com/big-kid-sleep-training
We hope to support your family!
Best,
Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager
I would like to know how you would do this with identical twins and a single mom and a tiny bedroom that the should share instead of my bed. 😉
Hello! We have worked with several families in similar situations! Definitely email us at support@babysleepemadesimple.com if you would like to chat more. We would love to help support you!! :) Best, Alyssa, BSMS Support Team
You poor thing
Is it ok to help baby sleep with pacifier
Hello! The pacifier is a tricky one! The short version is that if you can offer the pacifier to help baby fall asleep AND she doesn’t need you to replace it during the night- keep it! But if you’re having to replace it several times a night, that’s a sign that you’ll need to wean your baby off the pacifier as a sleep aid. You can still offer it during the day while awake or when sick for comfort.
**One little trick that a lot of Moms have success with is sprinkling 6-7 pacifiers around the crib when baby goes to bed. That way, she can easily find one in the night. (This especially works as your baby gets older and can easily reinsert the pacifier by herself, around 7 months.)
Best, Alyssa, BSMS Support Team
My baby is 1. He doesn't understand his own bed.
We've helped many 1 year olds sleep in their own bed. If you need any help, we're here!
We can also help your little one sleep through the night. Just join our program:
www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant
Artemis, BSMS Support Team