Why I don't wear pants.

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  • @kimmackley
    @kimmackley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I stopped wearing pants about 2 years ago for personal reasons, I never liked how the looked on me so I just completely gave them all to charity and started wearing skirts and dresses only, I don’t like tight fitting clothes or low cut or anything shorter than my knees as they don’t feel right on me, I’ve only had a few people give me a negative comment but I tell them I dress for myself and for my husband

  • @LifewithAmber24
    @LifewithAmber24 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Hello beautiful Sister! I just found your video and wanted to say thank you! It was a pleasure to watch. Also to everyone else in regards to wearing/not wearing pants, it's about your walk with Jesus and if He is convicting you to wear only skirts,/dresses then you should do it. At the end of the day it's about obedience to Him. If you're convicted to do something you should obey so long as it lines up with His Word. Please let's not make this a point of contention. Just obey the Lord wherever you're at in your walk and the rest will take care of itself! Again Sister, thank you and God bless you!

    • @MrsMeika1
      @MrsMeika1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen Sister 🙏🏼 thanks for watching ❤

  • @Kra-ri6fd
    @Kra-ri6fd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    For those shooting down her decision to wear pants because you don't think the Bible specifies this please understand that a conviction is a conviction. I have recently also felt this conviction after 38 years of hardly ever wearing dresses. I got baptized last year and convictions have been laid on my heart one after another since slightly before that. Each conviction, when follow, has led to a very positive life change for me. I can't deny that it is a conviction. When you know, you know. If you don't have this conviction then live and let live. But to those who do feel this conviction....when has it ever been a good idea to turn away from a God given conviction? I have 40 more pounds to lose on my weight loss journey or I would go get dresses right now as budget allows but, as it is, buying new clothes at this point would be a waste of money. In about 5 months I can start shopping. Meanwhile, I can workout the money issue that enevitably comes when you lose a ton of weight and have to buy a whole new wardrobe anyway.

    • @Kra-ri6fd
      @Kra-ri6fd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Correction, her decision to NOT wear pants. Sorry about that.

  • @jacquelinegrimes301
    @jacquelinegrimes301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love this video - modesty is beautiful! It has been a lifestyle for 63 years which I love! I appreciate the beauty of the uncompromising standard being upheld in our Church of God congregation (in NC) & the beautiful examples of saved sisters who make modesty look attractive. I encourage you - your channel is very inspiring!

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awe thank you so much! The Lord is my inspiration all glory to Him! And modesty is beautiful!

  • @Itsamantha111
    @Itsamantha111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Modesty is overall a heart condition.. making it too legalistic worries me, but at the end of the day, it will vary based on the individual conviction - you said God convicted you there, so for you I think that is great 💜

    • @natashahill05
      @natashahill05 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      agreeded

    • @corisegatavu2204
      @corisegatavu2204 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @ I felt the conviction to. I really feel feminin in skirt and dresses.

  • @saramoulson7808
    @saramoulson7808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This has been something I've really been struggling with but I know the Lord keeps nudging me to wear skirts and dresses. Please pray for me! I did not grow up this way. Also, I want to approach my daughter about this but I'm unsure how. She's almost 16. By the way, I'm also a homeschooling mom! We have 5. Two of them are married and in college. We now have an almost 16, a 14 and a 3 yr old at home. Praying for more too!😉 It was such a blessing to find your channel. I know God led me right to it. Have a blessed evening. 💗

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Will do! I also did not grow up wearing skirt but the Lord convicted me as I heard the word go forth and the Lord helped me to put the pants away gradually and today i dont own a single pair! Praise God! He will do the same for you! And pray before you talk to her the Lord will lead you on what to say and how to say it! Wow that's so awesome you have 5 and want more! "Blessed is the man that has his quiver full of them" I'll definitely keep you and your family in my prayers!

    • @saramoulson7808
      @saramoulson7808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@homewithsisMeika thank you so much for your encouragement. It means so much to me! Yes, I will be praying about when to talk with my daughter and that the Lord will give me His words, not mine.
      Also, I've been buying dresses and skirts more so the past year or so, but have kind of been wearing them when I want to. But, I want to be "All In" if the Lord is saying to wear them all the time. Please pray I will be willing to get rid of pants completely if that's what He wants me to do. It's so hard when very few Christians dress this way, or even talk about it. My church certainly doesn't. Anyway,
      God bless, and have a lovely rest of your day.💗

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@saramoulson7808 Will do🙏 You can do all things through Christ! You have a blessed day also❤

    • @saramoulson7808
      @saramoulson7808 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@homewithsisMeika thank you 😊!!

    • @Kra-ri6fd
      @Kra-ri6fd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am a homeschool mom of two. At 38 years old I can count on one hand how many times I have worn a dress! But I have felt this conviction also. I am in a weightloss journey now and will hopefully hit my goal in 5.5 months. At that time I need to buy all new clothing so I plan on buying dresses and skirts instead of jeans and shorts. It's going to be a culture shock. I have talked to my family about it also. We all agree it is going to take a bit getting used to but that I should do it if I feel I should. So I am also working on this journey and praying for confidence that I don't back down.

  • @tamararamsey5455
    @tamararamsey5455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Shalom, MOST High in Christ bless! I just found your channel. The topic caught my eye. I stopped wearing pants for two years also. I never did most of my childhood and early teens. I did started when I was about seventeen or so. I came to the Lord at 16. I am 48 now. After finding out that we ladies should not do so about two years ago and that it is a commandment of the Most High, (Deuteronomy 22:5) I stopped and it is one of the best decisions I've ever made. The Most High wants His daughters to be modestly dressed and more importantly, being obedient to Him. I also started wearing the head wraps also. Basically no make up, and not a lot of things that would bring attention to myself to be noticed in the wrong way. I am noticed but because of the modest way of how I'm dressed. I love being covered this I did since I was a child thought out my entire life, and love embracing our true heritage as an Israelite!!! Women wearing pants was conspired by a certain government group to infliltrate the black woman that she can be equal to the man; and thus our women started wearing pants, along with other things. It was all by design. It was the devil, but you would be surprised to know who that devil is. Be encouraged sis! By the way, your skin is gorgeous!

    • @Working4God
      @Working4God ปีที่แล้ว

      She isn’t there yet. It’s a process embracing the truth of who we are! Blessings to all the sisters. Shalawam!

  • @teresaaskew1700
    @teresaaskew1700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you so much for your videos. It's so refreshing to see women really looking like godly women!!!!!!

  • @jadapoole9238
    @jadapoole9238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for sharing. I was so blessed by this. I had heard this message so many times but this video really hit home for me. I feel convicted. Thank y I u for sharing.

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      O praise the Lord!! Thank you for watching!!❤

  • @joannawawrzyniak249
    @joannawawrzyniak249 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love everything you said, as a wife and mother I also want to start wearing more dresses, I believe as women we should get back in touch with our feminine side and stop wearing clothes that could be mistaken as a man's attire, thank you for this great video.

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  ปีที่แล้ว

      Praise the Lord! Thanks for watching ❤️

  • @EKPittman
    @EKPittman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Hey Sister just found your channel. What an inspiration you are!
    I am a self taught seamstress and am still learning. I made a cute jean skirt that I want to advertise and sell to believing women who are looking for modest apparel.
    I’ve been born again for about 6 months but the lord has been tugging on my heart for about a year and a few months. When my heart was truly changed I was convicted on the way I dress. I am a petite woman so it’s extremely hard to find modest apparel that fits me and are still nice looking.
    Women stopped wearing skirts and head coverings when the feminist movement really took over in the 1960s.
    We live in a modern society where feminism is pushed, but The Lord called us to be Holy and Set apart and that’s where we are called to do.
    Thank You for obeying the Holy Spirt and being an inspiration to younger women as myself.
    What state are you in if you don’t mind me asking?

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Awe Praise God! Thank you! I pray the Lord blesses your business! If you have a link you can share it with us! We are in Georgia :)

    • @saramoulson7808
      @saramoulson7808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Can I ask if you're selling your Jean skirts anywhere? Sounds very cute.

  • @micadobbins1281
    @micadobbins1281 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Good job! Great visuals. He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit sayeth to the church. Amen.

  • @paulabrown-mcadams1640
    @paulabrown-mcadams1640 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great explanation and testimony of your Godly decision to NOT wear pants. Your testimony helped me to better understand my conflict of wearing dresses instead of pants. The historical reference was also helpful in proving that our society has confused the heart and mind of women.
    Whereas, I grew up in a church organization that taught us to wear dresses, however as time progressed the church became for lenient and allowed women to wear pants. According to the Word, God does not want women to dress in a way that will pertain to a man, because it will cause confusion in our society. I appreciate your video - your channel is very encouraging.

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  ปีที่แล้ว

      Praise the Lord sister 🙌🏼thank you for watching ❤️

  • @noreensmith8614
    @noreensmith8614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Amen!
    I agree wholeheartedly with you!

  • @savannathomas4997
    @savannathomas4997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I want to cry because I know I am being convicted to wear skirts and dresses but I only have jeans pants. What am I gonna do? 😪 I will pray about this because I know God understands my frustrations and wants to help me.

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Pray and ask God! When i started out I only had pants and by and by I began to buy 1 dress here and 1 skirt there whenever I could until eventually my closet was full of skirts and dresses. Then I throw out my pants and anything that offended God. Sometimes I would turn some of them into skirts. God is able to help you! Seek Him!

    • @allyourchildren1550
      @allyourchildren1550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A friend of mine brought me to Goodwill when I was losing weight rapidly and had to get new sizes often. I had never considered shopping there before. Three years later, it's my go‐to place for clothing. These clothes had previous owners, so always pray when shopping. Let the Lord lead you on which items to get. There is one store that each item is $2.00. You can get beautiful pieces for a reasonable price.

    • @Kra-ri6fd
      @Kra-ri6fd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am in the same boat, except, I am also in a journey to lose 50 pounds (40 more to go) so I can't just go buy new clothes that won't fit me in a few months....I don't have the money to right now either. So I am planning 5 months out. Have my dressed picked on Amazon. Am asking for Amazon gift cards for mothers day and I will buy what I can with them and anything else I have saved up. I am looking for casual maxi and midi skirts. No v neck and no sleevless....I rarely ever went sleeveless anyway. I have 5 months to rearrange my Amazon basket and think on what I want to buy and 5 months to wrap my head around this life change that likely will leave me slightly culture shocked for a bit. Give yourself some time to think on this life change and digest it....sometimes that alone is a big part of the process. I tell myself that Christ died on the cross for me....the least I can do is wear a dress. Now don't get me wrong...I don't think a dress is a salvation issue but I feel thar conviction and know it's right to follow those convictions.

  • @naanasarfowaa9932
    @naanasarfowaa9932 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I thank God for you obedience for me i had a dream and so a bright light i new it was Jesus i was wearing a pants in the dream and he asked me to take it off if i want to come close to him. After the dream i stopped wearing pants. Thank you Jesus for saving me.

  • @tinastv2071
    @tinastv2071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    God 🙏🏿 bless you modesty is fantastic. You are beautiful and feminine as God made us

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes it is! Thank you for your sweet comment ❤!

  • @candacelucas3447
    @candacelucas3447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Everyone things I am strange because I have always worn pants but like in your video the holy spirt directed to wear just wear skirts and dresses

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww well Gods people are a peculiar people! We are supposed to stand out! Praise God for your testimony!❤

  • @nitaihammari6994
    @nitaihammari6994 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I shared this wiith my spouse and daughter tonight. thank you sister Meika

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  ปีที่แล้ว

      Praise the Lord! Thanks for watching ❤️

  • @Itsamantha111
    @Itsamantha111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I like the skirts concept but honestly, when the deuteronomy verse was written pants weren’t worn - they all wore cloaks and tunics - with different underclothes. I agree with distinguishing man from woman and dresses being more womanly and feminine.. I think men should not wear dresses . . But pants could be for either as long as they are not confusing - there are pants made for women and made for men, they are different cuts and looks.

    • @allyourchildren1550
      @allyourchildren1550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The Lord is bringing me on this journey as well. I had the same thoughts as you. As I continued seeking Him, He caused me to think about it in a different way. When we look back at history, it wasn't an automatic thing for women to wear pants...they had to fight for it. Those that choose to do it before it was "acceptable" were considered rebellious. They fought to have the right to wear pants like men. They won. This fight is similar to other fights that are occurring in our society today. Even now we have High Schools asking that girls wear dresses to graduation and some are fighting to wear pants.
      The fact that it took a rebellious fight to wear them and there continues to be a fight concerning them made me really wonder, are they as innocent as they seem, or is it more to the wearing of pants that meets the eye. Continue to let the Lord talk to your heart about this matter as I will. Just as our Lord Jesus said, nevertheless, not my will, but your will be done.

    • @user-qy9ov2fo2j
      @user-qy9ov2fo2j 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@allyourchildren1550 well said it. People twist scripture to fulfill the lust of their flesh

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen and Amen

  • @tynktynk9151
    @tynktynk9151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am saved and I enjoy wearing my skirts as a badge of honor even to the gym. Thank you Jesus for revelation

  • @maribrunson4464
    @maribrunson4464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for sharing your testimony.

  • @beltonfields2311
    @beltonfields2311 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love women who wear skirts and have a great day/week

  • @IndyGirlAMB
    @IndyGirlAMB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    God bless you ! You are so fresh and pretty ! The Lord also some point an time to stop wearing pants but I was always a girly girl time so it wasn't too hard for me as I did love dresses most all of my life !

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's awesome!! And thank you for your sweet comment💓

  • @sister_Tmeeka
    @sister_Tmeeka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amen sister❤️I love my modest dressing and head coving🌹

  • @shaylanewlife
    @shaylanewlife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sister Meka you have a beautiful family 😁

  • @Ilovepalmtrees-cx5ms
    @Ilovepalmtrees-cx5ms 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I been pray to God. I had the this dream alter I walk into Walmart and found d $1 skirts and dresses on clearance. I took it as a sing that I must obey the Lord so I stop wearing pants.

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Ilovepalmtrees-cx5ms Awesome ❤️

  • @shanikaharvey8027
    @shanikaharvey8027 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome job!!...🤩😍😁

  • @lungelwahappines453
    @lungelwahappines453 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great sis, way to go👐

  • @angelahernandez2830
    @angelahernandez2830 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi sister just came across your channel I Love it already.amd have subscribed thank you God bless you and yourss

  • @lexxi_bamazingly_youuu
    @lexxi_bamazingly_youuu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful testimony ☺🧡, but I have a question about modesty.... I've been thinking about dressing modestly recently and I feel like the Lord is bringing it back to my remembrance for a reason.. I've thought about it and a few years ago (in my early late teens/20's) I did try to change into a more modest style of dressing and I did it for about 2 days lol ( I'm a daily work in progress praise the Lord 🧡) but I know at that time I wasn't truly taking it seriously..... But as of recently it's come back to my mind to began wearing skirts more so my question is how do I know if it's just my own thoughts in me just wanting to change my appearance, or if it's that the Holy Spirit is leading me to do this? 😊 I wanted to ask if you be so kind to just keep me lifted up in prayer just that the Lord would show me that's it's truly His leading me into doing this? Thanks so much and I enjoy your videos they are very encouraging and I can tell you the true meekness and kindness of the Lord

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well you know Paul said there is no good thing dwelling on our flesh so if you are being led to do something good/spiritual then that's from the Holy Spirit because it was God's word that said women ought to dress in modest apparel so then the Holy Spirit will be the one to give us the desire to do it. Hope that makes sense☺️ Will be praying for you Sis! The Lord will bless you!❤️

    • @lexxi_bamazingly_youuu
      @lexxi_bamazingly_youuu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@homewithsisMeika Yes ma'am. thank you so much responding, and I receive those kind words in Jesus name

  • @TheMicahDobbinsShow
    @TheMicahDobbinsShow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good job!

  • @Three721
    @Three721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful 😍

  • @technoloverish
    @technoloverish 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So in your opinion, should it be illegal for women to wear pants?
    Also, where does the Bible say it's sin for a woman to wear pants? The verse you cited is and Old Testament mosaic law that doesn't apply to Christians. It's not part of the moral law. The verse is command to the Israelites, not Christians. Also, none of the people back then wore pants. They wore robes. So I don't feel that the verse actually has anything to do with pants, since those are modern thing.

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The law is where we get the ten commandments...do we not follow them because they are in the law? The point of the scripture is that God wanted a distinction between male and female even some he told back then to wear breeches...also the scripture said it's an abomination...in Revelation 21:8 those that are abominable will have their part in the lake of fire. God was saying whatever distinguish a man from a woman whether its back then or now. So nowadays they are making men dresses...do we say it’s a modern thing let the men wear dresses. If it's okay for woman to wear pants then it should be okay for a man to wear a dress. But of course, no one wants to see a man in a dress. This subject takes the Holy Spirit to reveal it to us what's right and what's not right according to God’s word. Although we are not under the law Paul said it was our school master because it taught us the righteousness of God so we follow the righteousness contained in the law. So, its right to have a distinction between men and women apparel. Because He would not have said to not wear that what pertaineth to a man if it wasn’t one. instagram.com/athomewithsis.meika/ message me on instagram if you want to know more. God bless!

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Romans 3:31 Do we then make void the law through faith? God forbid: yea, we establish the law.
      2 Timothy 3:16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
      Matthew 5:17 Think not that I am come to destroy the law, or the prophets: I am not come to destroy, but to fulfil.

    • @technoloverish
      @technoloverish 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@homewithsisMeika
      Yes, the Ten Commandments apply, though the rule in the Old Testament about women not wearing men's clothes and men not wearing women's clothes isn't part of the the Ten Commandments, and isn't repeated in the New Testament. That rule is specific to the Israelites. The same part of the Old Testament also says not to wear mixed fabrics and not to eat pork or shellfish. You'd need to follow those rules too, in order to be consistent.

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@technoloverish In Timothy the New Testament he said every creature is good as long as it received with thanksgiving.. This specific scripture was not specific to the Isrealites...then the ten commandments should be also. It also talks about if a man lie with another man its an abomination..it doesnt say that in the new testament but is it still not right? It speaks against beastiality in the OT Not the NT is it still not right? The Lord revealed this truth to me! Are you trying to convince me that its not or you trying to receive more understanding? If you trying to convince me you are wasting your time I know my word...not being boastful but if this is not what you want to hear then go on to another video. I pray you seek understanding thou 😊 God bless!

    • @technoloverish
      @technoloverish 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@homewithsisMeika
      My main concern is if you're trying to make it illegal for women to wear pants. If you're not trying to make it illegal, I still disagree but I don't care.
      No, the actual original Greek text of Timothy there says every creation, not "creature". If every creature was good to eat, that would mean people could even eat each other. Even so, this still doesn't address that the same part of the Old Testament also says not to wear more than one fabrics. That scripture and the scripture you cited are all specifically for the Israelites. I've looked it up and almost all Christian scholars agree that the verse you cited is specific to the Israelites, just like the verses about not wearing mixed fabrics, not eating pork and shelfish, etc. My other point though is that even if that verse is still part of the law, everyone from the time period wore robes. Pants didn't exist, so the verse can't be used to definitively say that pants are a sin.

  • @isashar7949
    @isashar7949 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely vid❤

  • @listenpracticeapplywhilefo8059
    @listenpracticeapplywhilefo8059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello, can I ask you if head covering is only for girls that are married?
    Or girls that are not yet married is also included for the head covering?

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i believe in 1 Corinthians 11:15 But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering.
      16 But if any man seem to be contentious, we have no such custom, neither the churches of God.
      He told them to judge within themselves is it customary? Back then yes, it might have been customary. So, they may have worn them. But Paul is stating here that there is NO such custom in the church of God. Then he said her hair shall be her covering. If any woman wants to wear an extra covering I believe that's between her and God.

    • @birthsurvivor
      @birthsurvivor 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This series of sermons really helped me understand headcovering. I highly recommend it
      th-cam.com/play/PL2ZY51Ia2iJWlL5NtHSAFpJPV8N4APGEE.html

  • @laverawoods9174
    @laverawoods9174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It is the blood of Jesus alone that saves us---not our works, not our dress. The Scripture you read is about not wearing the clothes of the other gender, but even the men at that time wore robes (dresses?) as do men in some cultures today. It is not the "pants" that make us sinful, but trying to disguise oneself as the opposite gender, which is why there is a big push for gender confusion today.

    • @amberrose1108
      @amberrose1108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The verse still says not to wear anything that pertains to a man, so even though what you said seems to make sense, we must rely only on the Bible.

  • @awillingvessel238
    @awillingvessel238 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    so are you an apostolic or go to an apostolic church?

    • @homewithsisMeika
      @homewithsisMeika  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching! I'm Church of God❤

  • @cherylliz99
    @cherylliz99 ปีที่แล้ว

    Black Women?