I've Worn Dresses Only for Nearly 10 Years | The Reasons Why I Stopped Wearing Jeans!

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  • Do you need reasons of ridding your closet of jeans? Look no further! In this video I discuss the reasons why I decided to wear dresses only and no longer wear denim jeans - including shorts and capris. There's nothing more comfortable than a feminine, flowy dress! Be sure to like, comment and share this video. Thanks for watching! 💙
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  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Do you wear primarily dresses or jeans? Drop a comment below! 👗👖😘

    • @ohThaTairra
      @ohThaTairra ปีที่แล้ว +1

      mostly jeans, but definitely ready for a change. I'm so done with pants 😂
      new sub

    • @myrnalane7928
      @myrnalane7928 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree wear dress and skirts for at least 15 years

    • @beverlymitchell1892
      @beverlymitchell1892 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dresses!

    • @georgiehughes4858
      @georgiehughes4858 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dresses, skirts & feminine blouses…. Only jeans for yard work

    • @katechipata9934
      @katechipata9934 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I retired jeans from wardrobe 4 years ago. Never going back. Only dresses for me 😊 Jeans are uncomfortable anyway 😂

  • @Itsamantha111
    @Itsamantha111 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I do think men are more respectful to me when I’m dressed modestly and feminine… holding the doors, being kind, not cat calling etc …

    • @GCarty80
      @GCarty80 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Do you think some women refuse to wear dresses and skirts precisely _because_ they see it as pandering to the desires of men?

  • @lesliegonzalez2858
    @lesliegonzalez2858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As a style consultant I definitely agree! Especially if you want a feminine, fresh, chic, and minimal wardrobe dresses are the way to go.

  • @anye76
    @anye76 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I'm almost in year 3 of wearing dresses only. I quit for the same reasons you listed here. I'll add the negative attention I received from men when I'm wearing jeans/slacks, the cat calls, rude remarks about my body. Their approach was rather dirty. Even when it was to ask me on a date. Now no one speaks to me like that since I've been wearing dresses. I'm addressed in a manner that I appreciate now. I love dresses 👗💕

  • @tamramitchell6346
    @tamramitchell6346 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I definitely prefer dresses and skirts over jeans and trousers. I would like to eventually phase out pants all together.

  • @jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381
    @jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As for your over the knee dresses, maybe add a small weight to the hem to keep it from flopping up I the wind. And/or add wide bands at the hem to lengthen a bit when over the knee and without the addition it might ride up too much by accident when sitting or stepping in/out of an auto. Respect and thank you for your presence and good taste making the world better for the rest of us.

  • @robertmoulds160
    @robertmoulds160 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    One way to get dresses is exchange them I have a neighbour I give her my pants and she gave some dresses. She feels empowered in pants while I find its natural to wear dresses we go out together playing pool and dancing.

  • @sandiegan3788
    @sandiegan3788 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great decision!
    Dresses are so much more feminine than jeans. I like the idea of a one piece dress, we just need to add earrings and shoes and we're ready!

  • @Brandiisbeloved
    @Brandiisbeloved ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I only wear dresses and skirts too but mainly dresses. I love it! It’s easier when dressing for the day,I feel feminine and people always tell me I look dressed up! Also I do it for religious reasons. I love finding videos of other women who do the same

  • @contentviewer815
    @contentviewer815 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    For five years now, I've only worn floral dresses when not at work. It makes me happy and helps me escape into my own little world. In public I come off as playful, whimsical and a bit nutty. I just don't take myself too seriously and I like having fun. Dresses are fun and minimalistic. All you need is one garment to look put together.

  • @smp6441
    @smp6441 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Dresses and skirts only for 5 years and love it

  • @athomewithtroy1690
    @athomewithtroy1690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I primarily wear tights or yoga pants 😆 im always doing so much house work id be so irritable to get dog hair or whatever is on my kids hands that day on a beautiful dress.

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh I feel you on that! I try to reserve my dresses as much as possible! 😄 👍

  • @pennypay1
    @pennypay1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I feel the same way. When I revamped my wardrobe to skirts only (I'm 5'2" and full-figured, and have an easier time fitting into two-piece outfits), I felt so free! I can do anything in a skirt- my shelf-stocking job, hiking, picnics, amusement parks- and what started as a fun experiment has become a meaningful part of life for seven years now. The one time I tried on jeans after a while, they felt too rough-textured and restricting. I've done a lot of reading about 'skirts/dresses only', and find that so many women share similar experiences about feeling more 'put-together', and how there's something about modest skirts that brings out more courtesy and respect in men. Thank you for sharing your reasons!

  • @dispirited_official
    @dispirited_official 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I actually gave up denim in the beginning in 2022. I moved straight to leggings and other "fabric" pants and also a lot of dresses. I feel too underdressed a lot of times in leggings. Since I already own a lot of dresses and skirts, I'm definitely making the switch. It's a good excuse to go shopping 🤣 and I can wear a lot of my leggings under the dresses in autumn&winter so that's a handy bonus

  • @Itsamantha111
    @Itsamantha111 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love the cute dresses - feminine is classic and classy, I admire the commitment!!

  • @DC-cd5tv
    @DC-cd5tv หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just started this journey myself so thank you for the video. I am so done with selecting pants, shirts, sweaters, etc. I want the same carefree choices each morning. One choice, boom, done. Ha, ha. Love your dresses. I've found a few to start for summer and even think I can pop a sweater over some of them in the winter and add tights. So simple. Would love to see a new video with what your closet looks like now.

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds like a plan! Embrace the simplicity! 😊 Thanks for the video idea! 👍

  • @amandamckevitt7890
    @amandamckevitt7890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love wearing dresses daily! I typically wear dresses about 95% of the time and jeans 5% of the time. But I definitely prefer dresses the most!☺️ All your dresses were so pretty and modest. Floral print dresses are my favorite and have pretty much become my uniform year round.☺️

  • @CourtneyW
    @CourtneyW 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I prefer dresses too, so much more comfortable than jeans and you look way better! I do still wear jeans every now then mostly for warmth but I agree why are jeans so popular?

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm guessing jeans are so popular with women due to the societal shift of womanhood! Beats me! 👍🤷‍♀️

  • @daveandlizhudson1331
    @daveandlizhudson1331 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't wear dresses only, but love wearing them several days a week. So easy to be put together❤

  • @dearmikaila
    @dearmikaila 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have toyed with the idea of switching to only dresses and this definitely makes me want to try it more!

  • @mamat1213
    @mamat1213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Haha I wear primarily dresses for comfort as well! Call it my work uniform, I don’t have to think too hard to look well put together and I actually HATE how jeans feel I just accepted I have to wear them…but I don’t!

  • @humblevege
    @humblevege 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I value comfort above all and JEANS are NOT comfortable. Everytime i wear it and eat food, i'd need to unzip my pants to breath. No i'm not fat. A person stomach need to expand when they eat or drink and the rigid jeans material does not give. Keep more dress content coming. I'm on my way too to get rid of jeans and can't wait to fill my closet up with flowing dresses.

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh I remember those days! 😄 Wearing jeans would also give me a rash because the zipper area is "metallic". 😫 More dress content coming! 👍

  • @melissasw64
    @melissasw64 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Me, too! That is exactly what I wear. Leggings and sweater dresses during the winter and I do have cotton and pajama pants to wear around the house. I even do mu gardening in a dress. It is so much easier. I have several pairs of shoes and I just throw on a dress and---voila! Easy.

  • @asiajohnson6191
    @asiajohnson6191 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I don't wear pants anymore only to workout in and to work.

  • @miss4330
    @miss4330 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love both dresses and pants, but yes it is easier to wear dresses in my opinion. For certain medical appointments it can be more convenient to wear pants. Modesty is high on my list of fashion priorities. When I became chronically ill, I had to stop wearing jeans all together. I'm getting back in touch with my womanhood in general, which includes wearing more dresses & skirts regardless of what I'm doing on a daily basis.

  • @diannehathorn1370
    @diannehathorn1370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dresses or skirts is my day to day.

  • @rpaugh21
    @rpaugh21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing Anne!! I also love wearing dresses!!

  • @bethnorton5682
    @bethnorton5682 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loved watching your video!! I too am a dress fan and did a 100 day dress challenge two years ago. I have not worn pants or jeans since that time -only dresses. I agree with the simplicity and femininity of it-so easy to feel put together and comfortable. The 100 day challenge is put on by WOOL& dresses. Wear the dress for 100 days and get $100 credit towards another dress. You might want to check it out. (I get nothing from sharing this just love of well made dresses)

  • @cassfolson5675
    @cassfolson5675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I prefer dresses, but I also wear skirts and tops. I garden in an old dress with leggings. I still own some jeans and dress pants, but it’s been years since I’ve worn them. God is so good.

  • @Itsamantha111
    @Itsamantha111 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great point on saving $$$$ too - and the ease

  • @Emily_Rudolph
    @Emily_Rudolph ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is my thoughts exactly on why I've changed up my wardrobe to mainly dresses (and some skirts). Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @KM-rq2bz
    @KM-rq2bz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely and inspiring ❤️

  • @thatVintageGirl1940s
    @thatVintageGirl1940s ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Greetings from Australia again my lovely friend. Long time as was suffering from depression but I never forgotten you 💜💜💜

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello friend! I hope you feel better! 🙏 Thanks for checking on me, how kind! 😘

  • @cherylbrunner9404
    @cherylbrunner9404 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love your dresses

  • @beverlymitchell1892
    @beverlymitchell1892 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m also much happier and more comfortable in dresses. I don’t like jeans either - so uncomfortable!

  • @kimmackley
    @kimmackley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I only wear skirts and dresses all the year round, I hated wearing jeans and, trousers and shorts, and I don’t wear anything tight fitting or shorter than my knees, I have thick leggings and tights for the cold weather and 1 pair of loose longer shorts for wearing underneath when I am on my bicycle

  • @michelletackett9489
    @michelletackett9489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes! Amen.

  • @MarinaPaninaFilms
    @MarinaPaninaFilms 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is great ♡ I love all the colors and patterns ♡ I created my first capsule video... though I do own lot's of pants/jeans. I like all your arguments : flowy/feminine, easy etc.. love this
    hoping to connect with other "minimal people" :D

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw sure thing! 👍 What's your capsule consist of? Thanks! ❤

    • @MarinaPaninaFilms
      @MarinaPaninaFilms 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheHelpmeetJourney For this spring, I've got a few shirts (several colors), dresses, skirts & jeans :) a bit of everything so I have some choice without having way too much

  • @jambaby4999
    @jambaby4999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I still wear jeans a lot but I'm becoming more fond of dresses. I like to say they're the laziest way to look nice 😆 I'm enjoying your channel! God bless!

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha that's a funny point! Thanks so much! 😄😘

  • @perksofasimplelife6621
    @perksofasimplelife6621 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you look so elegant

  • @elizabethanne8729
    @elizabethanne8729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have but one pair of jeans now. I have gravitated towards a more Katharine Hepburn style in my thirties. I love a linen pant or trousers. But I am also wearing more dresses. I’m just so tired of jeans all day every day. 🧐🤓

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh I know the struggle! Much more freeing! Baby steps can help 😊❤

  • @kkpye4808
    @kkpye4808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dresses all the way!! Too cold for them in the winter here in Canada though😭

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Team dresses! 👗👏 In the wintertime I wear sweater dresses and wool/warm leggings. 👍

  • @beltonfields2311
    @beltonfields2311 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like your dress keep wearing them and I like when women wear dresses

  • @queeniebaggins3732
    @queeniebaggins3732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes yes yes! 🥰

  • @MexIndio1
    @MexIndio1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're gorgeous! And so are your dresses.

  • @yanininipanini
    @yanininipanini 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your dresses! I’ve been trying to find the style of dresses you wear in plus size/maternity. If you have any leads please send me links! It is so hard to find flattering modest dresses in bigger sizes, especially for the summer. I find that any kind of bottom if uncomfortable during pregnancy too. My hope is to transition my wardrobe to 90% dresses. Thanks for the inspiration!

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Have you heard of the store Torrid or Catherine's? It's a Plus size store. It's usually inside of malls or plazas. I mainly get my dresses at thrift stores and sales rack. It's getting pretty much harder to find modest clothing in popular mainstream stores! I hope this helps! 👍😘

  • @Martina_E
    @Martina_E 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I decide I don't want to wear jeans anymore, but more onto high waist kind of loose trousers. I haven't found dresses/skirts that I like for me yet that are cotton and my style and/or budget. Separates work for me at the moment. A frilly puff sleeve high neck top and high waist kind of loose trousers are my style uniform.

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That sounds pretty! 👍 Hope you find the dresses too. 😊

    • @Martina_E
      @Martina_E ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheHelpmeetJourney where you get your dresses?

  • @heysigourney
    @heysigourney 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dresses for the win!

  • @SUN7SHINE25
    @SUN7SHINE25 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've been thinking of wearing dresses only for a few years now..as i mature in life i get tired of the hugging n uncomfortable feeling with dress pants n jeans at times..i want to feel less clothes as possible some days n dresses are relaxing comfortable n feminine sexy .. i like the simplicity of one garment with accessories..i still haven't worn just dresses yet I'm building my wardrobe with casual dresses mine are mostly dressy 😊

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Dresses are definitely more simpler! 👍 Thanks for sharing 😊

    • @SUN7SHINE25
      @SUN7SHINE25 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @TheHelpmeetJourney your welcome lady I'm so surprised to read comments on so many women wearing dresses 👗 wow!!

  • @AD-vl8dd
    @AD-vl8dd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your dresses are so pretty! where do you buy them?

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I typically get my dresses from thrift stores. I sometimes shop discount stores or sales racks, and if it's good quality I'll get it. Also hand-me-downs are accepted! Thanks so much! 😘

  • @notredameandcoltsfan564
    @notredameandcoltsfan564 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I almost always wear t shirts and pants/shorts. I only wear dresses when I'm forced to

  • @journeytothemosthigh5021
    @journeytothemosthigh5021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The reason why I don't wear pants is Deuteronomy 22:5. You develop your femininity and its easy to maintain. Thanks for sharing!

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh! I'll look into that verse! God Bless! 😘

  • @JBanks333
    @JBanks333 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🌬📢Iz just madd easier 😒

  • @bookwormdownunder
    @bookwormdownunder 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How did I wander onto this cursed section of the internet

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Not sure? 🤷‍♀️ Maybe restart/reboot device will help. That usually gets people out of cursed situations on devices.

  • @georgiehughes4858
    @georgiehughes4858 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Most jeans aren’t attractive at all… only a very few styles. They’re men’s clothing for many various jobs or dirty work. Tee shirts are also men’s clothing. The Bible tells us, “A woman must not wear men’s clothing, nor a man wear women’s clothing, for the LORD your God detests anyone who does this.” Deuteronomy 22:5. There’s another reason to be cautious of wearing pants, and that’s because of how one’s bottom is exposed… Rather than speaking of jeans, let’s talk about pants, tee shirts, sweatshirts, jackets, etc…. Which are men’s clothing or wardrobe. Women look ladylike or feminine in women’s clothing.

    • @GCarty80
      @GCarty80 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Except that in the Biblical setting didn't _both_ genders wear dress-like garments?

  • @Sexyboricuamejicana
    @Sexyboricuamejicana 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I live in Chicago IL.

    • @TheHelpmeetJourney
      @TheHelpmeetJourney  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Cool! Chicago is a little over an hour away. 😊