This is so amazing. I joined a Facebook group of type 5’s as I am a social 5. I eventually had to leave the group because I was told I don’t sound like a 5 and came across as a 3. I can’t even begin to explain the amount of bullying that happened and for my own mental health I decided to leave. I was shocked and hurt and asked myself, as a 5 do I come across as a bully? Hearing you say that social 5’s can come across as 3’s explained it all. I am so relieved and grateful for this insight that was shared. Heartfelt gratitude 🙏
As a So-blind 9, I feel like in a lot of ways I'm almost a mirror image of what Beatrice describes in Uranio (So-dom 5). In a lot of ways it makes sense: I thrive one-on-one with people I "click" with, avoid group situations most of the time, and there've been many times in my life (especially in my teenage years) where I've done or said things that were cringe or inappropriate & realized this too late. BUT in other ways I can see why I might not necessarily look like a So-blind due to my 9 core fear of separation: I always try to be nice to people, I pick up on disharmony around me, and so forth.
I feel like we could generalize common traits that self press firsts would have. For instance, I am a self pres 6. For survival, I focus on my health and I am aware of my body and workout alot. Is this a distortion of my 6 ego? Or is it just a self pres thing in general? Thats really my question. Therr are other things that I do to survive that I can see would be a distortion of my self pres instinct, for instance the desire to form aliances and colaborations. I also seek confirmations from others around me because I don't trust myself.
I feel like I have both distortions of the self pres instinct, and undistorted, or raw aspects of self pres if you will. Can they not both exist at the same time. I feel like you guys are saying the opposite.
This is so amazing. I joined a Facebook group of type 5’s as I am a social 5. I eventually had to leave the group because I was told I don’t sound like a 5 and came across as a 3. I can’t even begin to explain the amount of bullying that happened and for my own mental health I decided to leave. I was shocked and hurt and asked myself, as a 5 do I come across as a bully? Hearing you say that social 5’s can come across as 3’s explained it all. I am so relieved and grateful for this insight that was shared. Heartfelt gratitude 🙏
As a So-blind 9, I feel like in a lot of ways I'm almost a mirror image of what Beatrice describes in Uranio (So-dom 5). In a lot of ways it makes sense: I thrive one-on-one with people I "click" with, avoid group situations most of the time, and there've been many times in my life (especially in my teenage years) where I've done or said things that were cringe or inappropriate & realized this too late. BUT in other ways I can see why I might not necessarily look like a So-blind due to my 9 core fear of separation: I always try to be nice to people, I pick up on disharmony around me, and so forth.
this was massively clarifying!! thank you.
I feel like we could generalize common traits that self press firsts would have. For instance, I am a self pres 6. For survival, I focus on my health and I am aware of my body and workout alot. Is this a distortion of my 6 ego? Or is it just a self pres thing in general? Thats really my question. Therr are other things that I do to survive that I can see would be a distortion of my self pres instinct, for instance the desire to form aliances and colaborations. I also seek confirmations from others around me because I don't trust myself.
I feel like I have both distortions of the self pres instinct, and undistorted, or raw aspects of self pres if you will. Can they not both exist at the same time. I feel like you guys are saying the opposite.
Self Preservation 4! Uhh!😅
I am a self-pres Four. This was so very helpful. Thank you! The two of you are a hoot! It is just great to watch and to listen to “real” interaction.
I wouldn't have expected condescending clickbait from you two.