Carl Jung said: “Wholeness is not achieved by cutting off a portion of one’s being, but by integration of the contraries”. We hope that you enjoyed this video and for more videos to help you find success and happiness using ancient philosophical wisdom, don’t forget to subscribe. Thanks so much for watching.
Light only shines where there is darkness. You never get one without the other. Good and bad, extroversion and introversion, love and hate, poverty and wealth, life and death. To repress one side of the equilibrium means to remove all meaning from its counterpart. Until at last, all is meaningless and empty. Because light only shines where there is darkness.
So Jung is basically highlighting the reality/ potential of human existence - is a journey to discover/ accept/ integrate - to be/ become authentic! A wholesome self/ individual/ human being so that we get the statement: what you see is what you get 😉
@@Nicoladen1 So is being introverted a bad thing. You can't have ying without yang, men without women . Day without night. A car with just the back or front part, or a battery with only the positive end or only the negative end it just wouldn't work, the world is one, it encompasses everything. You wouldn't say there is the top half of a human, there is a right side of a human. When we say there is a car, there is a dog, there is a knife, there is a person etc , it's referring to the whole person, the whole dog, the whole knife, the whole car. But in some sense we have created a duality in the world in our thinking. I'm no expert and I don't claim to have any, real, special or unique insight into these things. I think we would actually have to have some deep insight, a direct experience of this reality, this truth, otherwise we are just intelectualising, just thinking about it on an intellectual level and this won't bring about any transformation, any real change
I became authentic through severe trauma. I just ran out of f's to give so I no longer cared what other people thought. After the pain is healed, you get so resilient that the opinions other people have about you carry no weight anymore, because it's so insignificant in relation to the trauma you've already gone through. I have no "social mask" anymore. My environment has no effect on my persona now. If I'm unhappy, I don't change my persona. I change my environment.
No longer giving a fuck doesn't make someone outright authentic. If anything, sounds like you have a defense mechanism setting in place. Authentic people value kindness and being perceived well, otherwise they aren't really being seen beyond being ignorant.
Also remember, not every unpleasant trait you notice in others is a mirror of your own unconscious issues. It’s important to balance self-reflection with a realistic assessment of others' behaviors. When faced with toxic personalities, your discomfort might be a signal that you need to protect yourself, set boundaries, or remove yourself from a harmful situation. Self-awareness and boundary-setting go hand in hand in maintaining healthy relationships and personal well-being.
indeed, that is maybe difficult to discern but still at least already useful to know that this discern is required to be fair to oneself and protect oneself.
Every time I feel a strong dislike towards someone I ask myself what aspect that person is reflecting that might be repressed within me. And I never fail to see it actually. The dislike lessens. Doesn't necessarily disappear but it really does lessen and I don't hold onto it that much anymore.
@@Oderus.Urungus thats a really fucking good question. Of course someone can be just an asshole and you can be right. I think you just have to look if something irritates you "unreasonably"(a lot more than it should and for no apparent reason).
@@Michael-rm1bx let's say someone lies, I ask myself when did I ever lie. And I go back to those times , and why did I lie at the time? It was always to cover something I'm not comfortable within myself, nothing to do with other people. Or when was I rude, unkind, unthoughtful myself? It was again to protect my ego, I was not even aware of it at the time, but it was related to me, no one else. Ofc some people can show attributes that are not present at all in me. But it's usually emotions I repress because I find them pathetic or just negative, like I can't really stand people who complain a lot. Because I ( my belief) considers it weak. It's ok to find some people annoying, not our cup of tea, But when the animosity towards them.is strong, then it's, imo, because it reflects a part of us we are not comfortable letting be seen.
I was annoyed by a new coworker because i thought he was being a kiss ass, over the top friendly guy. once i thought about it, i realized it was me being insecure with my shyness. once i understood that i realized the coworker was just a very friendly guy and I was judging him unfairly@@Michael-rm1bx
I feel like I’ve spent so much time worrying about others' opinions that I forgot how to listen to my own voice. This video was such a great reminder to trust myself again. 🌟 Anyone else working on this too?
Best video I ever watched in order to help from my trauma of being inauthentic and not knowing who I am and accepting toxicity, dependency people pleasing instead of prioritizing my own needs.
@@churly9717 Jung was a human being (not perfect). However, I know well Jung´s biography and, in my modest opinion, it doesn´t reflect that he was dangerous to his female patients. The film "A Dangerous Method" is based in the book by the same name (based in facts). Jung had an affair with Sabina Spielrein (one of his patients), Sabina was psychotic when Jung met her, and she became a great psychiatrist and psychoanalyst. Unfortunately, the Nazis killed her in Rusia in 1942 during "Operacion Barbarossa".
@@churly9717 Having sex with a beautiful patient who is after you is not excusable. However, there is more serious things that humans do that are more outrageous. This argument has brought me, somehow, to remember some quotes from Jung and the Bible: "Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves." - Jung "Knowing your own darkness is the method for dealing with the darkness of other people." - Jung "First take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck of your brother´s eyes." - Mattew 7:5 "Life calls not for perfection but for completeness.... " - Jung
The persona: the mask we show in social settings and in society The Shadow: what we reject and often project on others The anima/animus: The under represented aspects of the masculine and feminine that our personal denies
Ive always been a very quiet (some might say awkward lol) individual and I tried very hard to "overcome" this. So, I started getting out more, engaging with people, and i can say that I have definitely improved; However, its also led me to find that its not something that will ever come naturally to me... This was actually the best realization i could make and has brought me so much peace and confidence to keep showing up as my quiet and awkward self. ❤
been my journey also trying to force myself to be what society tells me i should and hating myself for finding it so hard and not being able to do it with the ease that others do.
This is so well done. I've struggled to understand Jungian concepts for years, and yet this video is so helpful. And this is after getting a degree in psychology.
Finally a video I can understand. Most are either wildly inaccurate to what CG Jung found or they make it way too technical and out of reach of understanding. Maybe I’m projecting, but maybe they are too. I genuinely appreciate your presentation of Jung’s work in your video.
This summary of Jung’s theories is absolutely fantastic! It’s so clear and easy to follow, I love it! I knew parts of the information in the video, but puttting them together piece by piece in such an understandable/everything-makes-sense-now way was truly enlightening for me! Thank you ❤
An absolutely fantastic video. Thank you. I came across this at exactly the right time for me. It has helped to begin to understand my conscious and subconscious self.
It's a good sentiment, but don't forget that duality is a necessary evil, in order to experience anything. After all, literally every quality we can possibly experience is, in and of itself, absolutely chalk full of dicotta means. Without the dichotomy of light and dark, we wouldn't be able to see comment without the dicodimit of love and fear, we wouldn't be able to have fulfilling relationships , without the dichotomy of Life-and-death, this existence would be significantly less meaningful, and without the economy of self versus other, the entire self actualization experience experience would be a given, and thus useless for the evolution of consciousness. I guess what I am trying to say is be aware that everyday Academy is simply different degrees of the whole that is everything: the Creator, the Unified Conscious Field, God, the Empyrian, Ein Soph, Brahman, or whatever you want to call it. Having said that, I Have an incredibly difficult time understanding why so many spiritual seekers aim to completely reunite with the creator, as obviously thexperience of unity isn't that fantastic, otherwise the creator would not continuously split itself and experience reality the way it is. Not to mention, that level of existence contains everything, and with no dichotomies with which to have experience, it is litearly both existence and non existence at the same time, which sounds pretty goddamn boring to me. Lol I think I will trust the most complex being in the universe and enjoy playing this game for as long as I can, and rather than trying to do a speed run, I am looking for all of the Easter eggs and glitches, Genuinely learning as much about this entire experience as I possibly can call my wife I am here, show that I cand eventually Start tweaking the rules, in order to more effectively enjoy this experience, integrate unconscious parts of myself and the perceived external reality, and do so whilst managing to keep from bringing the whole God damn simulation to a fiery, Apocalyptic crash. Then again call me maybe I am just more delusional than the average seeker, but something tells me that this is literally a game, absolutely the greatest and most immersive game ever created, and one that we are meant to take the reins of, and Experience exactly what we desire in any given moment, Because what else is there to do common within this Crazy holographic projection, that literally is being projected from nothingness, but nothingness viewed through the lens of the eternal "I AM", the omnipresent, silent observer; always there, always aware.
Unfortunately, Unity within the self will often lead to the uneducated, collective bulk of humanity shunning that person. Reflection is foreign to the majority of people, but Reflection is STILL key. Mankind *should* dare to look deep within, but it should ALSO understand that more than the mere physical aspect of such Reflection is required for true, celestial enlightenment. "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In Time, all points converge; hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the Universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ --Diamond Dragons (series)
The parts about the persona and shadow are great, but how to integrate the anima and animus is not simply a matter of recognizing/adopting the opposite masculine or feminine qualities. Jung considered the integration of the shadow the apprentice piece and that of the anima or animus “the masterpiece which not many can bring off.” It’s not mentioned in the video but one of his most important discoveries was “active imagination”, which is the way he found to enter in contact with the unconscious and make a conscious connection with the figures of the anima or animus. It can take years of practice, and it’s not easy to do or without risk.
@@drebugsita Marie-Louise Von Franz defines it this way: "Active imagination is a certain way of meditating imaginatively, by which one may deliberately enter into contact with the unconscious and make a conscious connection with psychic phenomena." As to how to do it, there are many ways... Jung says "the ways of getting at these fantasies is individually different. For many people, it is easiest to write them; others visualize them." I personally prefer visual methods, like tracing a few lines with my eyes closed then making a drawing out of those lines, without having a goal or censoring what comes out. Then engage the image with words (by finding names for it, describing it, or writing down whatever associations comes to mind). You can probably do this with an existing image too. The point is to actively engage the ego with material from the unconscious and not just passively receive it. Someone who is already close to the unconscious should only do this with the proper guidance of a therapist. The Invisible Partners (John A. Sanford) has an appendix on active imagination that goes more into details. I like the explanation he has for why do it... that psychological analysis alone is not enough to heal the soul... something more must be done to establish "an ongoing relationship with the inner world out of which comes new life and through which eventually our conflicts may be resolved."
So interesting….. We all need to tap into our “shadow” selves so that we can become more aware of who we want to be! Instead of hiding behind a mask get use to your authentic self which is a part of our persona! I may be wrong but that’s how I understood Jung’s philosophy! There’s much more to it than that! I got the jest of it basically! I need to reread !!
Even so, revealing the true self to the outside world is rarely met with anything other than haughty disdain and violent rebuttals. Trust me, verily. 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
@@Novastar.SaberCombat That's why we have the persona. It's not a bad thing. It's vital to us. You could think of it as a shiny, beautiful suit of armor. We are not just the suit of armor, we are also the person inside. We need to remember this and sometimes take the armor off when it's safe. But not when the arrows are flying. : )
@@Novastar.SaberCombat Star, it's the gold we all need to find. Your true self will be like everyone else's. Also, it's what good art is made of and we need it.
From my limited understanding and from reading a few comments on this video it seems some people believe they can be or become fully authentic. That would mean that they always say and act exactly the way they really feel about things and people. Furthermore it implies they have become aware of and integrated all the individual and collective subconscious drives and inherited personality complexes present within them as well as the repressed shadow parts of themselves. I would like to point out that to my knowledge no human being has ever achieved this including Jung and it’s unlikely that anyone will ever do so. I say this to temper expectations with reality so the goal would be to become more authentic, integrated and self aware. Otherwise I suppose one may simply read about all this stuff and create a ‘authentic’ mask to wear. I can see how these ideas are helpful and the model could bring to light aspects of our psyche which are hidden. I find it limited in its application and misleading to strive to be totally authentic since there will likely always be part of us which is unconscious, in shadow, or unintegrated. I’m just writing this because I have met a teacher who believed they were integrated/shadowless/perfect/authentic and they left a trail of hurt and confused students. Through my investigation since I have learned that every human has a rotten side and life itself has an inescapable wrongness built into it at a fundamental level. That’s something to wrestle with but by facing it and accepting it we are less deluded about who we are, where we are what we are doing and why.
“Until you make the unconscious conscious; you will operate from it and think you are the operator but more like a initiate until you navigate the unconscious to understand better how to consciously operate and why you actually operate the way you do.” - My take on King Jung’s quote
A shame free group environment is required for us to "truly face who we are", and, for some of us, 12-step meetings are that vehicle. A judgement free supportive, respectful group of fellows can provide the "protection and care" that ever more of us did not have in our childhoods, but can be found in well done group therapy, including 12-step groups. I'm a retired psychiatrist have experienced this spiritual transformation myself. No more shame, no more anxiety, happy, joyous, and free, and it only took 77yrs, to get here! ( :)) Love Jung and have a repro of his "Vocatus, atque non vocatus, Deus aderit." (Called or not called, God is here). Very well done video! Stress R Us
Following the Individuation process, profound spiritual awakening occurs, provided a person is ready for it. The unconscious de-represses. This is when the real journey begins. So one never "gets rid of the unconscious" but much of the content of the unconscious are wounds and blocks incurred from living life in a soulless, dysfunctional society. We interject or "reverse project" the projections of others just as often as we project our own issues onto others. The complexes are unraveled and healed as one purges and integrates one's shadow. One then encounters the Self Center or the Divine Center. Personally, I know this center to be Divine. All human souls are Divine. And yes..at first one makes friends and gets to know the contents of the unconscious. If successful, one will become an authentic ego. But the unconscious does not stay intact as spiritual awakening unfolds. Spirit burns and purges anything and everything within that is inauthentic and untrue. Then and only then will the Soul Center come to the forefront of consciousness and rule the entire Being. An ego is not capable of carrying the energies and consciousness of the Soul until it experiences a death/rebirth process, which is extremely agonizing, takes decades, and is not for the faint at heart. This leads to Self Realization or Soul Realization...I call it Integration but people have also called it "salvation" or "enlightenment". Great video.
Reflection is key. Humanity should dare to look deep within, but it should also understand that more than the mere physical aspect of such Reflection is required for true, celestial enlightenment. "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In Time, all points converge; hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the Universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ --Diamond Dragons (series)
Beautiful work maestro! Love these videos on integration and Jung you’ve been putting out. As a Psychotherapist that specializes in accelerated psychoanalysis and attachment trauma work, I can say for sure that without integration we can never truly be. Even the ancient Socrates said Know Thyself and to Thy own self be true. I find that the Therapy work of ISTDP is truly the only therapy that can permit integration of conscious and unconscious selves.
I have D.I.D. and we all have PTSD. I'm the adult alter in charge. And while we have some degree of co-consciousness, at 72 years of age we are not likely to be integrated. If I let the birth child run things we would live on milk with Hershey's chocolate syrup. If I allowed the soldiers (protector and enforcer) to run things we'd already be in prison for murder. The warranty has expired on this meat suit and it is gradually wearing out. Collectively we are about 55 and not ready to be 72. We rarely look in a mirror because it doesn't look like any of us. So our body is a mask.
No. A good book to explore this is Personal Revolutions by Oli Anderson. He doesn’t go into Jimmy specifically, but all philosophy and psychology around being ‘real’. Fascinating book.
6:00 As a Gestalt therapist, I would disagree. I may choose how much of my true feelings to share with the client but not always assume that showing my anger or true feelings would diminish trust. In fact it may enhance trust by modelling authentisity in some situations
Transcending the dual aspects of the inner self Understanding, loving and accepting the ego, or shadow self, are the keys and foundation for integrating, or blending, that aspect of the self with the higher self, or light self.. achieving THAT is how the self becomes ONE within itself, instead of dual opposing selves.. and THAT is when TRANSCENDENCE OF THE EGO AND DUALITY is accomplished, allowing the Self to experience a state that some call Nirvana. So just as our Source of Creation encompasses all spectrums of light and dark, so must we as well.
I never ask how someone is doing. Because the odds are they will lie to me. If I want to know I just don't shame them then I patiently for them to show me.
❤when I’m asked I tell the truth. I’m doing awful. ❤I love to see their faces when realizing my authenticity. Then people will open up and admit there own truth - it’s quite a conversation starter ❤
I'm not sure that's necessarily correct. I think we engage in a lot of automatic behaviours and making efforts towards authenticity helps us to identify and challenge those behaviours. I think there's maybe something around being authentic when not trying to be authentic but I think it can only come at the end of that process. You have to consciously face yourself in your entirety first.
@@tatsuvoid That is the point…all the crap we create to mask our authenticity, and the journey go in to peel off that mask is actually authentically who we are…no matter where you are in any journey you are authentically there whether it is good bad or indifferent. Authenticity is a ridiculous corporate and pop psychological concept. Now if you are evolved/mature enough to be self aware and grow, then that is fine…however, wherever you are is authentically you. The real concept which the “buzz” word authenticity is trying to capture or explain is: choose to become more self aware and develop yourself to become more capable, and compassionate.
@@Williamb612 I think that's what I'm disagreeing with though. I don't think whatever we do and wherever we are that's our authentic self. I think it's our persona and a collection of behaviours that we often engage in to try and escape ourselves and our fears. Accepting ourselves at face value is mistaking the surface stuff for the entirety of ourselves when it's not. There's so much unconscious stuff that manifests itself of which we're not even aware. I think the idea that we already are our authentic selves is maybe a lie we sometimes tell ourselves to avoid doing the work we need to do. Mostly because the things that are going on inside us that we can't see is the stuff that truly scares us. The hiding behaviours aren't authentic, that's us playing make believe with our identity.
Wow, I might have to look into some Carl Yung stuff. I've heard of him but this is the first I've learnt anything about him.(His work) I have learnt a lot of this stuff myself the hard way, and I mean the hard way. Discovering stoicism helped me massively, and I'm sure Carl Yung can help me even further. Thanks for this upload, it was extremely useful 🙏🏻
I have also recently become interested in C. Jung's teachings despite having heard about him for many years. I arrived at his work from studies on esotericsm and other subjects. Quite the interesting and necessary topic/ subject to delve deeper into the self and psyche.
The part about our projections was really interesting. Children really frustrate me and I realize its because they're clingy, needy and dependant and those are aspects of myself I hate and repress.
@@brettmmontague ruled by empathy would be someone who’s may be shy or tinder by not wanting to be a bother to any1. Ruled by intuition wouldn’t be the one that gets held back by these thoughts
I for one love watching onboard fotage. I like to see the small stuff drivers are doing while driving. Every vid of your's is entertaining because I can see your passion for learning and growing and its great to see your progress over the years.
The more authentic one is here in today's world, the more rejection and haughty disdain one will face. This is simply because genuine, confident, intelligent souls are *SO* rare, those persons may as well have six heads, gumballs for eyes, and vines for arms. Totally foreign amidst a sea of narcissistic, megalomaniacal followers. Pariahs like the truly wise individuals of history and yesteryear. 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
I feel this comment in my soul That's okay though because I subscribe to dabrowski's positive disintegration theory Meaning I know my authenticity will lead to a higher self, which in itself is rare. The fact that you can maintain authenticity against the tribe by the way is a rare trait. Do you happen to know how you fall into the five overly excitabilities (OE) categories?
I have been self teaching in Numerology, Astrology and Tarot for months . I’ve been through hundreds of videos and websites trying to put together information while also trying to come up with the best ways to create my own data base and notes. You are one of the 1st people I’ve came across who explains in detail for someone not just wanting to learn about their own numbers but also in much needed and extremely helpful ways of laying out information with detailed on how to do reading for others as well! With the VAST AMOUNT of all the different concepts that go along with Numberology including the related and connected fields of Astrology and Tarot, it can be extremely intimidating when you first start learning about it all but the way you have broken down your information has been the first that’s made sense to me from beginning to end. Thank you! I’m an very grateful for videos and the help you put out to others who cant afford to pay for classes to learn yet still determined to self teach and learn ❤
Before you invest a lot of time or money into these fields you may want to investigate this question: Is Numerology Astrology and Tarot, Science or Pseudoscience? I asked this question of “Copilot”, Bings AI Search Engine and received interesting results. When viewing search results be aware that most results are from sites that deal in these fields, and would tend to be biased. Good luck.
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"The truth" isn't always clear-cut. What we initially believe to be the "truth" isn't always the actual truth. We could very easily be lying to ourselves- sometimes based on the expectations that have been ingrained in us from the collective; sometimes based on our subconcious programming; sometimes based on our defense mechanisms, or the walls we build around ourselves that become second nature to us (..yet, not necessarily true to our nature). Some may argue that our perceptions are indicative of authenticity because our perceptions are our reality. I would argue that it's much more convoluted than that, in this case- and, most things really are complicated/complex. Some people tend to gravitate toward ideas that require a great level of discernment to differentiate between all different shades of grey. This is a video based on Jungian philosophy, dissecting the true ingenuity within the psyche, with emphases on the archetypes, layer by layer. With all due respect, a deeper style of analysis is always going to be more apt to complexity of thought.
Sounds theoretical, how about the applicational? Our potential is limitless with the multiple parallel universes. How do you achieve living authentically in all scenarios?
This is a great channel. I'd love to know who is behind it and who writes (or selects) these marvelous texts with powerful, deep and so well created summaries from philosophers' works.
When I was younger I used to hear people say: "think before you speak" so I was overthinking over analysing, over evaluating until I lost my authenticity.
People, by and large, are intimidated when I express in depth concern and authentically in communication. I try to see and understand their point of view. This seems to frighten the herd. They quickly excuse themselves and stay away. I voted with my feet and left the USA for good. I moved to Nature Island. Here the people, like the unspoiled pristine all-natural environment, are expressive from the heart. They deeply appreciate my candor, relaxed state, and eagerness to joke and listen earnestly. Why are those in the USA so opposed to authenticity, relaxed demeanor and frankness? I don't think people are living in the USA. Only surviving.
@@Em-mr6wu - It is NOT the Dominican Republic. It is a different island in the Lower Antilles - English speaking (former British Colony) th-cam.com/video/XFrYuU9gce4/w-d-xo.html Nature Island is a rare quark of nature. The topography is so extreme and difficult that the robber barons of civilization never involved themselves. Nature Island has thus retained its all-natural simplicity and wholesome beauty. You can’t find Gucci here, or Polo (Barbados). It is pristine, secret, and UNSPOILED! The only people that come here either really, really love raw nature or they are just trying to escape the horrors of 21st century ‘civilization’. As a direct result, the nation has not created a social-strata. The people are just as all-natural as the environment. I learned for that first time, that when left alone (not radicalized by the system), people are by their very fundamental nature, Beautiful Creatures after all! However, if you put them in a bad environment, they will develop many pathologies: The people and culture will develop what Carl Jung termed “a dreadful shadow”. This place is not perfect. But crime is very low. The people freely leave things out in public without fear of theft, keys in their car, and always rush over to help a stranger in need. Everyone welcomes strangers with open arms. And annoyingly, they are eager to help you back into a parking space! For us civilized westerners, coming here must feel allot like Europeans visiting Tahiti in the late 1700s. If you love nature and want to see what a loving human society looks like, you must come to Nature Island!
@@triston9312 @Em - It is NOT the Dominican Republic. It is a different island in the Lower Antilles - English speaking (former British Colony) th-cam.com/video/XFrYuU9gce4/w-d-xo.html Nature Island is a rare quark of nature. The topography is so extreme and difficult that the robber barons of civilization never involved themselves. Nature Island has thus retained its all-natural simplicity and wholesome beauty. You can’t find Gucci here, or Polo (Barbados). It is pristine, secret, and UNSPOILED! The only people that come here either really, really love raw nature or they are just trying to escape the horrors of 21st century ‘civilization’. As a direct result, the nation has not created a social-strata. The people are just as all-natural as the environment. I learned for that first time, that when left alone (not radicalized by the system), people are by their very fundamental nature, Beautiful Creatures after all! However, if you put them in a bad environment, they will develop many pathologies: The people and culture will develop what Carl Jung termed “a dreadful shadow”. This place is not perfect. But crime is very low. The people freely leave things out in public without fear of theft, keys in their car, and always rush over to help a stranger in need. Everyone welcomes strangers with open arms. And annoyingly, they are eager to help you back into a parking space! For us civilized westerners, coming here must feel allot like Europeans visiting Tahiti in the late 1700s. If you love nature and want to see what a loving human society looks like, you must come to Nature Island!
Zen Buddhism helped me stay my authentic self! Work collogues are always horrified that I have just the one face for everyone, no faking it! hehe, ah life, you keep me amused!
It's not popular. Im autistic and one trait is that you don't have much regard for hierarchy. For me everyone is a person, it doesn't matter what title people choose to give you, how much money you have etc, you are still ultimately just a person. So no-one deserves to be treated any differently just because of a title. If you are a good person then you are a good person, if you aren't then you aren't and I will treat people based on that. People in authority don't tend to like that I don't treat them as my 'betters', especially thos people who have got to where they are by bad behaviour
Wonderful stuff! I would like it if you would just alter your cadence every now and then during your delivery of the subject though. Maybe just pause a bit longer after the "big thoughts." Like after, "Only those who know and accept themselves fully are able to live authentically." I don't know about others listening, but Myself, a moment to savor such a thought is mind bending.
It's sad watching teenagers struggle to be human because they were raised by a device where interaction is based on idealism. They're trying to find an identity in an endless sea of fabricated personas. Nobody is tying the increase in depression and drug dependency to phones because they don't want to admit they also have an addiction creating an echo chamber of justification...
We don t know exactly what consciousness is or how it works. We don t even know if it's an emerging property from local neurological synapses or a constant product result as a whole. All the idealist have their own interpretation of the human condition and those who center around explaining behaviorism as a coproduct from consciousness, specifically Unconsciousness, can not be taken scientifically serious. However, it is more than proven that stories have a greate influence over human behavior, which is indispensable for the administration of society but can also have extremely dangerous consequences since stories without empirical backup can be distorted and influenced by personal biases.
“Indeed, [James] Hillman argues [in his article, “Anima”, published in “Spring”], many women today, in their pursuit of academic studies and masculine-orientated goals, suffer as a result from exactly the same problem as men: loss of anima or soul.” [The Invisible Partners, John A. Sanford, 1980, Ch. 4] [Brackets added by Tim Caffery] "As Jung once said, "In his real form he (the animus) is a hero, there is something divine about him" but when not in his real form he is "an opinionating substitute." ²² [The Invisible Partners, John A. Sanford, 1980, Ch. 3, footnote ²²: C.G. Jung, "The Interpretation of Visions", Spring, 1966, p. 143]
As an autistic this explains a lot about how people treat me. I have one mask, that's the one where I pretend to be a normal human. I don't do it well enough as it is. I always just slip into my authentic self, because I can't both converse and judge the information pouring from my lips.
You sound kinda like, my Asperger's Nephew, whose been Traumatized. He "Dysregulates". And me, now. Occ. Li'l "adhd" - h, 4 Athletic and a Rocker! I've suspected I could be, as well. As, an old SLP Disabled child, SP. Tx, in K, and most of 1st. With, my SP./Lang. Ctr. 💥 by, my $icK, Nazi bros., - 5 Year's, Ago. Lost 62 YRS. of known Hx. My Speech was SHATTERED, & is still Messed-up!
if I'm projecting my insecurities on to you and acting a certain way to influence how you think about me, and you're projecting your insecurities on to me and acting a certain way to influence how i think about you, then who the hell could POSSIBLY ever claim to be truly authentic or actually know anything at all about anything at all, and what the hell is ACTUALLY going on????
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We all have one thing in common my conscious experience dwelling amigos, We all have a brain, it Is the most important of all that is, before the before , they understood still ,so sad so much was lost but this is a step in the correct direction for sure, keep up the great efforts 👌 💪 🙂 👍 👏
I became aware o fly persona and stopped identifying with it - "Didn't know who I was going to be...I just knew - I am not the me I thought I was my whole life. I followed my love of music (bliss) bought two guitars and taught myself to play them - about 2 hours a day - taking lunch time, break time, evening, morning, and weekends. I was profoundly disorienting - I change my name to better reflect my deeper feelings - I chose Morgan because of the course I'd tamed, Wolfgang, because Goethe was my greatest hero, and lake because the only place I loved and felt safe growing up was West Leaf Lake. Then learned to play, compose originals - not what the market wanted, but music I wanted but could not find at Tower Records.... When I listened to the resulting CD of 10 songs - I didn't know who created them...all I knew was the old me could not have done that. I also came to the conclusion life was intrinsically meaningless - so I would need to create the meaning myself. 30 years later - I produced a memoir and lots more music even music videos - These are mostly without any style at all, like the art of people over 40 years old....It's no longer about me it's about the art....maybe the authentic self is The Ocean beneath the sea?
You raise a common observation ... But, it may be possible that the ego helped us cope with our past traumas ... childhood CPTSD. And, as adults we no longer need the assistance of the ego in that capacity. So we can appreciate the ego for the good it served in the past, acknowledge it, and maybe work with our therapist with EMDR or other modality to integrate the part and regulate our nervous system toward true self attunement.
This kind of complexity is why I gave up trying to find a wife so long ago. It makes perfect sense but how many people are willing to deep dive in themselves and be honest versus take the easier route of lashing out and repressing what they want or need? It's already difficult enough just to find someone desirable who's also single, nevermind someone who understands what they're actually doing
People generally prefer that you “clean up” or “primp” for public events or to be out in public etc…but I don’t always want to have to. 😂😂 Not sure abt my true self totally. I just start with trying to not “morph” or “absorb” too much with other people and who they are. Just pause and consider that me being diff from them is ok. Even if there is flack or upset or retaliation. With the narc fam system ya know. You had to fight really hard to distinguish your separate “self” as they were vehemently opposed to you ever having one. So I guess it at least helps if you realize you have a right to a full “self” and don’t let people like that Rob you of your true self. (And realizing that there are people out there who never want you to reach self actualization and would block your every effort toward it). And I guess I’m doing ok. I’m aware that I have warts and I’m more ok with them than I ever used to be.
Carl Jung said: “Wholeness is not achieved by cutting off a portion of one’s being, but by integration of the contraries”.
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Light only shines where there is darkness.
You never get one without the other. Good and bad, extroversion and introversion, love and hate, poverty and wealth, life and death. To repress one side of the equilibrium means to remove all meaning from its counterpart.
Until at last, all is meaningless and empty.
Because light only shines where there is darkness.
Thanks for making this succinct video about Jung's ideas. I love how you made the concepts so simple and easy to understand. ❤️
So Jung is basically highlighting the reality/ potential of human existence - is a journey to discover/ accept/ integrate - to be/ become authentic! A wholesome self/ individual/ human being so that we get the statement: what you see is what you get 😉
@@ezraszandala yes, Jung is awesome. He pulls together the unity of man, not compartmentalisation more denial
@@Nicoladen1 So is being introverted a bad thing. You can't have ying without yang, men without women . Day without night. A car with just the back or front part, or a battery with only the positive end or only the negative end it just wouldn't work, the world is one, it encompasses everything. You wouldn't say there is the top half of a human, there is a right side of a human. When we say there is a car, there is a dog, there is a knife, there is a person etc , it's referring to the whole person, the whole dog, the whole knife, the whole car. But in some sense we have created a duality in the world in our thinking. I'm no expert and I don't claim to have any, real, special or unique insight into these things. I think we would actually have to have some deep insight, a direct experience of this reality, this truth, otherwise we are just intelectualising, just thinking about it on an intellectual level and this won't bring about any transformation, any real change
I became authentic through severe trauma. I just ran out of f's to give so I no longer cared what other people thought. After the pain is healed, you get so resilient that the opinions other people have about you carry no weight anymore, because it's so insignificant in relation to the trauma you've already gone through. I have no "social mask" anymore. My environment has no effect on my persona now. If I'm unhappy, I don't change my persona. I change my environment.
yesssss! EXACT SAME.
Thank you for sharing…. That’s very good news 🙏
YEP!....No longer give a FF!...& fck the abusers....just knowing Karma is our Ace card & we do not need to play the game to win!...Enjoy life xx
No longer giving a fuck doesn't make someone outright authentic. If anything, sounds like you have a defense mechanism setting in place. Authentic people value kindness and being perceived well, otherwise they aren't really being seen beyond being ignorant.
Thats the long and short of it. ❤
Also remember, not every unpleasant trait you notice in others is a mirror of your own unconscious issues. It’s important to balance self-reflection with a realistic assessment of others' behaviors. When faced with toxic personalities, your discomfort might be a signal that you need to protect yourself, set boundaries, or remove yourself from a harmful situation. Self-awareness and boundary-setting go hand in hand in maintaining healthy relationships and personal well-being.
indeed, that is maybe difficult to discern but still at least already useful to know that this discern is required to be fair to oneself and protect oneself.
perfectly stated
I'm glad you mentioned this.
Every time I feel a strong dislike towards someone I ask myself what aspect that person is reflecting that might be repressed within me. And I never fail to see it actually. The dislike lessens. Doesn't necessarily disappear but it really does lessen and I don't hold onto it that much anymore.
What aspects that could possibly reflect?
Explain please with examples
@@Oderus.Urungus thats a really fucking good question. Of course someone can be just an asshole and you can be right. I think you just have to look if something irritates you "unreasonably"(a lot more than it should and for no apparent reason).
@@Michael-rm1bx let's say someone lies, I ask myself when did I ever lie. And I go back to those times , and why did I lie at the time? It was always to cover something I'm not comfortable within myself, nothing to do with other people. Or when was I rude, unkind, unthoughtful myself? It was again to protect my ego, I was not even aware of it at the time, but it was related to me, no one else. Ofc some people can show attributes that are not present at all in me. But it's usually emotions I repress because I find them pathetic or just negative, like I can't really stand people who complain a lot. Because I ( my belief) considers it weak. It's ok to find some people annoying, not our cup of tea, But when the animosity towards them.is strong, then it's, imo, because it reflects a part of us we are not comfortable letting be seen.
I was annoyed by a new coworker because i thought he was being a kiss ass, over the top friendly guy. once i thought about it, i realized it was me being insecure with my shyness. once i understood that i realized the coworker was just a very friendly guy and I was judging him unfairly@@Michael-rm1bx
I feel like I’ve spent so much time worrying about others' opinions that I forgot how to listen to my own voice. This video was such a great reminder to trust myself again. 🌟 Anyone else working on this too?
Best video I ever watched in order to help from my trauma of being inauthentic and not knowing who I am and accepting toxicity, dependency people pleasing instead of prioritizing my own needs.
“The great danger is man himself, and we are pitifully unaware of this.” - C G Jung (circa 1960)
Yes, Jung was dangerous to his female patients. Would've been barred from practising psychiatry these days.
@@churly9717 Jung was a human being (not perfect). However, I know well Jung´s biography and, in my modest opinion, it doesn´t reflect that he was dangerous to his female patients. The film "A Dangerous Method" is based in the book by the same name (based in facts). Jung had an affair with Sabina Spielrein (one of his patients), Sabina was psychotic when Jung met her, and she became a great psychiatrist and psychoanalyst. Unfortunately, the Nazis killed her in Rusia in 1942 during "Operacion Barbarossa".
@@2012MariCarmen having sex with your vulnerable patients isn't excusable, it's outrageous.
Love my dog best too!
@@churly9717 Having sex with a beautiful patient who is after you is not excusable. However, there is more serious things that humans do that are more outrageous. This argument has brought me, somehow, to remember some quotes from Jung and the Bible:
"Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves." - Jung
"Knowing your own darkness is the method for dealing with the darkness of other people." - Jung
"First take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck of your brother´s eyes." - Mattew 7:5
"Life calls not for perfection but for completeness.... " - Jung
The persona: the mask we show in social settings and in society
The Shadow: what we reject and often project on others
The anima/animus: The under represented aspects of the masculine and feminine that our personal denies
Ive always been a very quiet (some might say awkward lol) individual and I tried very hard to "overcome" this. So, I started getting out more, engaging with people, and i can say that I have definitely improved; However, its also led me to find that its not something that will ever come naturally to me... This was actually the best realization i could make and has brought me so much peace and confidence to keep showing up as my quiet and awkward self. ❤
been my journey also trying to force myself to be what society tells me i should and hating myself for finding it so hard and not being able to do it with the ease that others do.
This is so well done. I've struggled to understand Jungian concepts for years, and yet this video is so helpful. And this is after getting a degree in psychology.
Finally a video I can understand. Most are either wildly inaccurate to what CG Jung found or they make it way too technical and out of reach of understanding. Maybe I’m projecting, but maybe they are too. I genuinely appreciate your presentation of Jung’s work in your video.
This summary of Jung’s theories is absolutely fantastic! It’s so clear and easy to follow, I love it! I knew parts of the information in the video, but puttting them together piece by piece in such an understandable/everything-makes-sense-now way was truly enlightening for me! Thank you ❤
God bless you for this. So many rabbit holes but I finally found one that explains things well.
An absolutely fantastic video. Thank you. I came across this at exactly the right time for me. It has helped to begin to understand my conscious and subconscious self.
Thanks for this upload. This hit me hard. I'm finally learning to accept my flaws and insecurities. I have a lot of repairing of relationships to do!
Don’t we all.
LOVED THIS SO MUCH INFORMATION BROKEN DOWN IN A SIMPLY WAY TO UNDERSTAND.. THANK YOU.👍🌻🌈💛
Learn to find unity and move beyond every duality
It's a good sentiment, but don't forget that duality is a necessary evil, in order to experience anything. After all, literally every quality we can possibly experience is, in and of itself, absolutely chalk full of dicotta means. Without the dichotomy of light and dark, we wouldn't be able to see comment without the dicodimit of love and fear, we wouldn't be able to have fulfilling relationships , without the dichotomy of Life-and-death, this existence would be significantly less meaningful, and without the economy of self versus other, the entire self actualization experience experience would be a given, and thus useless for the evolution of consciousness.
I guess what I am trying to say is be aware that everyday Academy is simply different degrees of the whole that is everything: the Creator, the Unified Conscious Field, God, the Empyrian, Ein Soph, Brahman, or whatever you want to call it.
Having said that, I Have an incredibly difficult time understanding why so many spiritual seekers aim to completely reunite with the creator, as obviously thexperience of unity isn't that fantastic, otherwise the creator would not continuously split itself and experience reality the way it is. Not to mention, that level of existence contains everything, and with no dichotomies with which to have experience, it is litearly both existence and non existence at the same time, which sounds pretty goddamn boring to me. Lol
I think I will trust the most complex being in the universe and enjoy playing this game for as long as I can, and rather than trying to do a speed run, I am looking for all of the Easter eggs and glitches, Genuinely learning as much about this entire experience as I possibly can call my wife I am here, show that I cand eventually Start tweaking the rules, in order to more effectively enjoy this experience, integrate unconscious parts of myself and the perceived external reality, and do so whilst managing to keep from bringing the whole God damn simulation to a fiery, Apocalyptic crash.
Then again call me maybe I am just more delusional than the average seeker, but something tells me that this is literally a game, absolutely the greatest and most immersive game ever created, and one that we are meant to take the reins of, and Experience exactly what we desire in any given moment, Because what else is there to do common within this Crazy holographic projection, that literally is being projected from nothingness, but nothingness viewed through the lens of the eternal "I AM", the omnipresent, silent observer; always there, always aware.
Well said.
Unfortunately, Unity within the self will often lead to the uneducated, collective bulk of humanity shunning that person. Reflection is foreign to the majority of people, but Reflection is STILL key. Mankind *should* dare to look deep within, but it should ALSO understand that more than the mere physical aspect of such Reflection is required for true, celestial enlightenment.
"Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In Time, all points converge; hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the Universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again."
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--Diamond Dragons (series)
Well said! One must strive to be "One" with himself.
@@sethrenville798 You hit home, Thanks to me from me to you/us...
This video was a Godsend, thank you so much for explaining such complex terms in such a simplistic manner🙏🏽
The parts about the persona and shadow are great, but how to integrate the anima and animus is not simply a matter of recognizing/adopting the opposite masculine or feminine qualities. Jung considered the integration of the shadow the apprentice piece and that of the anima or animus “the masterpiece which not many can bring off.” It’s not mentioned in the video but one of his most important discoveries was “active imagination”, which is the way he found to enter in contact with the unconscious and make a conscious connection with the figures of the anima or animus. It can take years of practice, and it’s not easy to do or without risk.
Can you explain what he meant by "active imagination" and how to use it to integrate the self?
@@drebugsita Marie-Louise Von Franz defines it this way: "Active imagination is a certain way of meditating imaginatively, by which one may deliberately enter into contact with the unconscious and make a conscious connection with psychic phenomena." As to how to do it, there are many ways... Jung says "the ways of getting at these fantasies is individually different. For many people, it is easiest to write them; others visualize them."
I personally prefer visual methods, like tracing a few lines with my eyes closed then making a drawing out of those lines, without having a goal or censoring what comes out. Then engage the image with words (by finding names for it, describing it, or writing down whatever associations comes to mind). You can probably do this with an existing image too. The point is to actively engage the ego with material from the unconscious and not just passively receive it. Someone who is already close to the unconscious should only do this with the proper guidance of a therapist.
The Invisible Partners (John A. Sanford) has an appendix on active imagination that goes more into details. I like the explanation he has for why do it... that psychological analysis alone is not enough to heal the soul... something more must be done to establish "an ongoing relationship with the inner world out of which comes new life and through which eventually our conflicts may be resolved."
So interesting….. We all need to tap into our “shadow” selves so that we can become more aware of who we want to be! Instead of hiding behind a mask get use to your authentic self which is a part of our persona! I may be wrong but that’s how I understood Jung’s philosophy! There’s much more to it than that! I got the jest of it basically! I need to reread !!
Even so, revealing the true self to the outside world is rarely met with anything other than haughty disdain and violent rebuttals. Trust me, verily.
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@@Novastar.SaberCombat That's why we have the persona. It's not a bad thing. It's vital to us.
You could think of it as a shiny, beautiful suit of armor. We are not just the suit of armor, we are also the person inside. We need to remember this and sometimes take the armor off when it's safe. But not when the arrows are flying. : )
Not sure if you guys watch anime but mob psycho 100 embodies this idea to a T.
A small price to pay.
@@Novastar.SaberCombat Star, it's the gold we all need to find. Your true self will be like everyone else's. Also, it's what good art is made of and we need it.
From my limited understanding and from reading a few comments on this video it seems some people believe they can be or become fully authentic. That would mean that they always say and act exactly the way they really feel about things and people. Furthermore it implies they have become aware of and integrated all the individual and collective subconscious drives and inherited personality complexes present within them as well as the repressed shadow parts of themselves.
I would like to point out that to my knowledge no human being has ever achieved this including Jung and it’s unlikely that anyone will ever do so. I say this to temper expectations with reality so the goal would be to become more authentic, integrated and self aware. Otherwise I suppose one may simply read about all this stuff and create a ‘authentic’ mask to wear.
I can see how these ideas are helpful and the model could bring to light aspects of our psyche which are hidden. I find it limited in its application and misleading to strive to be totally authentic since there will likely always be part of us which is unconscious, in shadow, or unintegrated. I’m just writing this because I have met a teacher who believed they were integrated/shadowless/perfect/authentic and they left a trail of hurt and confused students. Through my investigation since I have learned that every human has a rotten side and life itself has an inescapable wrongness built into it at a fundamental level. That’s something to wrestle with but by facing it and accepting it we are less deluded about who we are, where we are what we are doing and why.
“Until you make the unconscious conscious; you will operate from it and think you are the operator but more like a initiate until you navigate the unconscious to understand better how to consciously operate and why you actually operate the way you do.” - My take on King Jung’s quote
Wow this described the life I been for the past several years so perfectly
A shame free group environment is required for us to "truly face who we are", and, for some of us, 12-step meetings are that vehicle. A judgement free supportive, respectful group of fellows can provide the "protection and care" that ever more of us did not have in our childhoods, but can be found in well done group therapy, including 12-step groups. I'm a retired psychiatrist have experienced this spiritual transformation myself. No more shame, no more anxiety, happy, joyous, and free, and it only took 77yrs, to get here! ( :)) Love Jung and have a repro of his "Vocatus, atque non vocatus, Deus aderit." (Called or not called, God is here). Very well done video! Stress R Us
Sir can I get your email id? would like to have a discussion with someone so experienced about life in general.
Following the Individuation process, profound spiritual awakening occurs, provided a person is ready for it. The unconscious de-represses. This is when the real journey begins. So one never "gets rid of the unconscious" but much of the content of the unconscious are wounds and blocks incurred from living life in a soulless, dysfunctional society. We interject or "reverse project" the projections of others just as often as we project our own issues onto others. The complexes are unraveled and healed as one purges and integrates one's shadow. One then encounters the Self Center or the Divine Center. Personally, I know this center to be Divine. All human souls are Divine. And yes..at first one makes friends and gets to know the contents of the unconscious. If successful, one will become an authentic ego. But the unconscious does not stay intact as spiritual awakening unfolds. Spirit burns and purges anything and everything within that is inauthentic and untrue. Then and only then will the Soul Center come to the forefront of consciousness and rule the entire Being. An ego is not capable of carrying the energies and consciousness of the Soul until it experiences a death/rebirth process, which is extremely agonizing, takes decades, and is not for the faint at heart. This leads to Self Realization or Soul Realization...I call it Integration but people have also called it "salvation" or "enlightenment". Great video.
Nicely said. Thanks😊
Reflection is key. Humanity should dare to look deep within, but it should also understand that more than the mere physical aspect of such Reflection is required for true, celestial enlightenment.
"Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In Time, all points converge; hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the Universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again."
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--Diamond Dragons (series)
Thanks...
This is deep, defo needs a few rewinds to get it all the way in!! Thank you for a great video, now subscribed
Every time I listen to this video, I appreciate it more. Thank you much.
When you choose to follow others. You will always leave themselves behind.
Beautiful work maestro! Love these videos on integration and Jung you’ve been putting out. As a Psychotherapist that specializes in accelerated psychoanalysis and attachment trauma work, I can say for sure that without integration we can never truly be. Even the ancient Socrates said Know Thyself and to Thy own self be true. I find that the Therapy work of ISTDP is truly the only therapy that can permit integration of conscious and unconscious selves.
I have D.I.D. and we all have PTSD. I'm the adult alter in charge. And while we have some degree of co-consciousness, at 72 years of age we are not likely to be integrated. If I let the birth child run things we would live on milk with Hershey's chocolate syrup. If I allowed the soldiers (protector and enforcer) to run things we'd already be in prison for murder. The warranty has expired on this meat suit and it is gradually wearing out. Collectively we are about 55 and not ready to be 72. We rarely look in a mirror because it doesn't look like any of us. So our body is a mask.
I have some truly ugly demons in my Shadow that'd get me arrested or worse. Why would I ever release them?!
Do people have to see a phycologist to accomplish what this video was explaining?
No. A good book to explore this is Personal Revolutions by Oli Anderson.
He doesn’t go into Jimmy specifically, but all philosophy and psychology around being ‘real’.
Fascinating book.
*Jung specifically…. Jimmy has completely different ideas, sorry for the confusion
Thank you for creating this video! This was really helpful and well-explained 🙏
Mind blown! I was starting to realize parts of this recently and this video popping up amazed me
Same.
6:00 As a Gestalt therapist, I would disagree. I may choose how much of my true feelings to share with the client but not always assume that showing my anger or true feelings would diminish trust. In fact it may enhance trust by modelling authentisity in some situations
Absolutely BRILLIANT summary !! So useful 👏🥰
This was structured BEAUTIFULLY. Well done 🙏🏼
So admit to yourself that you aren't the person you wanted to be but the person you are ....warts an all .
Transcending the dual aspects of the inner self
Understanding, loving and accepting the ego, or shadow self, are the keys and foundation for integrating, or blending, that aspect of the self with the higher self, or light self.. achieving THAT is how the self becomes ONE within itself, instead of dual opposing selves.. and THAT is when TRANSCENDENCE OF THE EGO AND DUALITY is accomplished, allowing the Self to experience a state that some call Nirvana. So just as our Source of Creation encompasses all spectrums of light and dark, so must we as well.
I never ask how someone is doing. Because the odds are they will lie to me.
If I want to know I just don't shame them then I patiently for them to show me.
❤when I’m asked I tell the truth.
I’m doing awful.
❤I love to see their faces when realizing my authenticity. Then people will open up and admit there own truth - it’s quite a conversation starter ❤
A good one is to ask someone how they are sleeping. Give it a try and check the response.
You become authentic when you stop trying to be authentic
You become authentic when you Tell The Truth! It's that simple. Be comfortable telling the truth to yourself and then to others
@@Smyrna37 Fully agree, however often we lie to ourselves without knowing it
I'm not sure that's necessarily correct. I think we engage in a lot of automatic behaviours and making efforts towards authenticity helps us to identify and challenge those behaviours. I think there's maybe something around being authentic when not trying to be authentic but I think it can only come at the end of that process. You have to consciously face yourself in your entirety first.
@@tatsuvoid That is the point…all the crap we create to mask our authenticity, and the journey go in to peel off that mask is actually authentically who we are…no matter where you are in any journey you are authentically there whether it is good bad or indifferent.
Authenticity is a ridiculous corporate and pop psychological
concept. Now if you are evolved/mature enough to be self aware and grow, then that is fine…however, wherever you are is authentically you.
The real concept which the “buzz” word authenticity is trying to capture or explain is: choose to become more self aware and develop yourself to become more capable, and compassionate.
@@Williamb612 I think that's what I'm disagreeing with though. I don't think whatever we do and wherever we are that's our authentic self. I think it's our persona and a collection of behaviours that we often engage in to try and escape ourselves and our fears. Accepting ourselves at face value is mistaking the surface stuff for the entirety of ourselves when it's not. There's so much unconscious stuff that manifests itself of which we're not even aware. I think the idea that we already are our authentic selves is maybe a lie we sometimes tell ourselves to avoid doing the work we need to do. Mostly because the things that are going on inside us that we can't see is the stuff that truly scares us.
The hiding behaviours aren't authentic, that's us playing make believe with our identity.
Could there be a difference between "hidden emotions" and "unconscious feelings?" Those appear to be identical synonyms
Wow, I might have to look into some Carl Yung stuff. I've heard of him but this is the first I've learnt anything about him.(His work) I have learnt a lot of this stuff myself the hard way, and I mean the hard way.
Discovering stoicism helped me massively, and I'm sure Carl Yung can help me even further.
Thanks for this upload, it was extremely useful 🙏🏻
I have also recently become interested in C. Jung's teachings despite having heard about him for many years. I arrived at his work from studies on esotericsm and other subjects. Quite the interesting and necessary topic/ subject to delve deeper into the self and psyche.
The part about our projections was really interesting. Children really frustrate me and I realize its because they're clingy, needy and dependant and those are aspects of myself I hate and repress.
The biggest block is being ruled by your empathy not your intuition.
Omg this is me.
yes
What do you mean?
What does somebody ruled by empathy look like?
What does somebody ruled by intuition look like to you?
@@brettmmontague ruled by empathy would be someone who’s may be shy or tinder by not wanting to be a bother to any1. Ruled by intuition wouldn’t be the one that gets held back by these thoughts
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I for one love watching onboard fotage. I like to see the small stuff drivers are doing while driving. Every vid of your's is entertaining because I can see your passion for learning and growing and its great to see your progress over the years.
THE AMOUNT OF ADS IN THIS VIDEO ARE STOPPING ME FROM BECOMING AUTHENTIC.
Very practical. Personas and the Shadow are psychoid but not archetypes.
The more authentic one is here in today's world, the more rejection and haughty disdain one will face. This is simply because genuine, confident, intelligent souls are *SO* rare, those persons may as well have six heads, gumballs for eyes, and vines for arms. Totally foreign amidst a sea of narcissistic, megalomaniacal followers. Pariahs like the truly wise individuals of history and yesteryear.
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That reminds me of who Jesus was, and what he had to deal with
I feel this comment in my soul
That's okay though because I subscribe to dabrowski's positive disintegration theory
Meaning I know my authenticity will lead to a higher self, which in itself is rare. The fact that you can maintain authenticity against the tribe by the way is a rare trait.
Do you happen to know how you fall into the five overly excitabilities (OE) categories?
Imagine finding the curse of christ and his last words! To kill the light so you become the darkness. Thank you for sharing your wonderful video 🕊
I have been self teaching in Numerology, Astrology and Tarot for months . I’ve been through hundreds of videos and websites trying to put together information while also trying to come up with the best ways to create my own data base and notes. You are one of the 1st people I’ve came across who explains in detail for someone not just wanting to learn about their own numbers but also in much needed and extremely helpful ways of laying out information with detailed on how to do reading for others as well! With the VAST AMOUNT of all the different concepts that go along with Numberology including the related and connected fields of Astrology and Tarot, it can be extremely intimidating when you first start learning about it all but the way you have broken down your information has been the first that’s made sense to me from beginning to end. Thank you! I’m an very grateful for videos and the help you put out to others who cant afford to pay for classes to learn yet still determined to self teach and learn ❤
Before you invest a lot of time or money into these fields you may want to investigate this question: Is Numerology Astrology and Tarot, Science or Pseudoscience? I asked this question of “Copilot”, Bings AI Search Engine and received interesting results. When viewing search results be aware that most results are from sites that deal in these fields, and would tend to be biased. Good luck.
So very well told and guided.
Hi, Neeta Arora. I saw your comment on Willie's channel a couple of days ago. 👋
This was an amazing summary of his work and very lucid TY
Why should my comments be any less repetitious than the google's offensive and unstoppable ads?
Only one question for TH-cam:
Do you really think more frequent and more offensive ads can lead to profit?
You become authentic when you TELL THE TRUTH... not sure why everything needs to be so complicated
Okay I like boys and girls. Lol am i bisexual? pansexual? I don't know. I just like boys and girls
"The truth" isn't always clear-cut. What we initially believe to be the "truth" isn't always the actual truth. We could very easily be lying to ourselves- sometimes based on the expectations that have been ingrained in us from the collective; sometimes based on our subconcious programming; sometimes based on our defense mechanisms, or the walls we build around ourselves that become second nature to us (..yet, not necessarily true to our nature).
Some may argue that our perceptions are indicative of authenticity because our perceptions are our reality. I would argue that it's much more convoluted than that, in this case- and, most things really are complicated/complex. Some people tend to gravitate toward ideas that require a great level of discernment to differentiate between all different shades of grey.
This is a video based on Jungian philosophy, dissecting the true ingenuity within the psyche, with emphases on the archetypes, layer by layer. With all due respect, a deeper style of analysis is always going to be more apt to complexity of thought.
@@charmedprince you answered your own question.
Everyone believes "their truth" and their version of it. That's the problem
Sounds theoretical, how about the applicational?
Our potential is limitless with the multiple parallel universes. How do you achieve living authentically in all scenarios?
Yes a snapping teacher - who am i now? I need restoration. A flexible persona.
That's the best video I've ever seen on this topic
This is a great channel. I'd love to know who is behind it and who writes (or selects) these marvelous texts with powerful, deep and so well created summaries from philosophers' works.
When I was younger I used to hear people say: "think before you speak" so I was overthinking over analysing, over evaluating until I lost my authenticity.
People, by and large, are intimidated when I express in depth concern and authentically in communication. I try to see and understand their point of view.
This seems to frighten the herd. They quickly excuse themselves and stay away.
I voted with my feet and left the USA for good. I moved to Nature Island. Here the people, like the unspoiled pristine all-natural environment, are expressive from the heart. They deeply appreciate my candor, relaxed state, and eagerness to joke and listen earnestly.
Why are those in the USA so opposed to authenticity, relaxed demeanor and frankness? I don't think people are living in the USA. Only surviving.
Suck it. USA USA... I kid.
I want to move to Nature Island. Where is it?
Where is it?
@@Em-mr6wu - It is NOT the Dominican Republic. It is a different island in the Lower Antilles - English speaking (former British Colony)
th-cam.com/video/XFrYuU9gce4/w-d-xo.html
Nature Island is a rare quark of nature. The topography is so extreme and difficult that the robber barons of civilization never involved themselves.
Nature Island has thus retained its all-natural simplicity and wholesome beauty. You can’t find Gucci here, or Polo (Barbados). It is pristine, secret, and UNSPOILED!
The only people that come here either really, really love raw nature or they are just trying to escape the horrors of 21st century ‘civilization’.
As a direct result, the nation has not created a social-strata. The people are just as all-natural as the environment. I learned for that first time, that when left alone (not radicalized by the system), people are by their very fundamental nature, Beautiful Creatures after all! However, if you put them in a bad environment, they will develop many pathologies: The people and culture will develop what Carl Jung termed “a dreadful shadow”.
This place is not perfect. But crime is very low. The people freely leave things out in public without fear of theft, keys in their car, and always rush over to help a stranger in need. Everyone welcomes strangers with open arms. And annoyingly, they are eager to help you back into a parking space! For us civilized westerners, coming here must feel allot like Europeans visiting Tahiti in the late 1700s.
If you love nature and want to see what a loving human society looks like, you must come to Nature Island!
@@triston9312 @Em - It is NOT the Dominican Republic. It is a different island in the Lower Antilles - English speaking (former British Colony)
th-cam.com/video/XFrYuU9gce4/w-d-xo.html
Nature Island is a rare quark of nature. The topography is so extreme and difficult that the robber barons of civilization never involved themselves.
Nature Island has thus retained its all-natural simplicity and wholesome beauty. You can’t find Gucci here, or Polo (Barbados). It is pristine, secret, and UNSPOILED!
The only people that come here either really, really love raw nature or they are just trying to escape the horrors of 21st century ‘civilization’.
As a direct result, the nation has not created a social-strata. The people are just as all-natural as the environment. I learned for that first time, that when left alone (not radicalized by the system), people are by their very fundamental nature, Beautiful Creatures after all! However, if you put them in a bad environment, they will develop many pathologies: The people and culture will develop what Carl Jung termed “a dreadful shadow”.
This place is not perfect. But crime is very low. The people freely leave things out in public without fear of theft, keys in their car, and always rush over to help a stranger in need. Everyone welcomes strangers with open arms. And annoyingly, they are eager to help you back into a parking space! For us civilized westerners, coming here must feel allot like Europeans visiting Tahiti in the late 1700s.
If you love nature and want to see what a loving human society looks like, you must come to Nature Island!
Zen Buddhism helped me stay my authentic self! Work collogues are always horrified that I have just the one face for everyone, no faking it! hehe, ah life, you keep me amused!
It's not popular. Im autistic and one trait is that you don't have much regard for hierarchy. For me everyone is a person, it doesn't matter what title people choose to give you, how much money you have etc, you are still ultimately just a person. So no-one deserves to be treated any differently just because of a title. If you are a good person then you are a good person, if you aren't then you aren't and I will treat people based on that. People in authority don't tend to like that I don't treat them as my 'betters', especially thos people who have got to where they are by bad behaviour
@@gillb9222 Exactly! ^_^
Wow had to stop this video every 10 seconds to let the concepts sink in
Great review. Thanks a lot ❤️
I can't understand what it would be like to need a guide on how to be authentic.
you don't need to
thank you so much for such an awesome and insightful video
Oui il est interessent mais on est authentique et non fake quand on n'attend rien des autres
Being real with yourself and others
A lot of what Jung theorized I think inspired the IFS Internal Family Systems. We all have so many parts within us.
Wonderful stuff! I would like it if you would just alter your cadence every now and then during your delivery of the subject though. Maybe just pause a bit longer after the "big thoughts." Like after, "Only those who know and accept themselves fully are able to live authentically." I don't know about others listening, but Myself, a moment to savor such a thought is mind bending.
Your intuition, your intuition knows the way. ❤
Personally, I found the practice of journaling helps me understand who I am. My thoughts, spontaneously written down, routinely. Highly recommend
Brilliant explanation. Excellent. Thanks.
Thank you for sharing this wisdom
I appreciate the way the things are explained here.
It's sad watching teenagers struggle to be human because they were raised by a device where interaction is based on idealism. They're trying to find an identity in an endless sea of fabricated personas. Nobody is tying the increase in depression and drug dependency to phones because they don't want to admit they also have an addiction creating an echo chamber of justification...
I think they have linked it with phones. But I haven’t seen any changes in the teenagers I know. 💔
Brilliant breakdown of Analytic Psychology. Thanks!
Awesome Explanation!!!
Carl Jung was a brilliant man
Do I have to see a psychologist to accomplish all this?
We don t know exactly what consciousness is or how it works. We don t even know if it's an emerging property from local neurological synapses or a constant product result as a whole. All the idealist have their own interpretation of the human condition and those who center around explaining behaviorism as a coproduct from consciousness, specifically Unconsciousness, can not be taken scientifically serious. However, it is more than proven that stories have a greate influence over human behavior, which is indispensable for the administration of society but can also have extremely dangerous consequences since stories without empirical backup can be distorted and influenced by personal biases.
Very well done. Thanks.
When the student is ready the teacher appears.
And when the student is ‘really’ ready, what happens?
Τhe teacher dissapears
Thank you! Greetings from Miami, South Florida!
“Indeed, [James] Hillman argues [in his article, “Anima”, published in “Spring”], many women today, in their pursuit of academic studies and masculine-orientated goals, suffer as a result from exactly the same problem as men: loss of anima or soul.”
[The Invisible Partners, John A. Sanford, 1980, Ch. 4] [Brackets added by Tim Caffery]
"As Jung once said, "In his real form he (the animus) is a hero, there is something divine about him" but when not in his real form he is "an opinionating substitute." ²²
[The Invisible Partners, John A. Sanford, 1980, Ch. 3, footnote ²²: C.G. Jung, "The Interpretation of Visions", Spring, 1966, p. 143]
We are all unique unrepeatable individuals. You are you and I am I.
As an autistic this explains a lot about how people treat me. I have one mask, that's the one where I pretend to be a normal human. I don't do it well enough as it is. I always just slip into my authentic self, because I can't both converse and judge the information pouring from my lips.
You sound kinda like, my Asperger's Nephew, whose been Traumatized. He "Dysregulates".
And me, now. Occ.
Li'l "adhd" - h, 4 Athletic and a Rocker! I've suspected I could be, as well.
As, an old SLP Disabled child, SP. Tx, in K, and most of 1st.
With, my SP./Lang. Ctr. 💥 by, my $icK, Nazi bros., - 5 Year's, Ago. Lost 62 YRS. of known Hx.
My Speech was SHATTERED, & is still Messed-up!
if I'm projecting my insecurities on to you and acting a certain way to influence how you think about me, and you're projecting your insecurities on to me and acting a certain way to influence how i think about you, then who the hell could POSSIBLY ever claim to be truly authentic or actually know anything at all about anything at all, and what the hell is ACTUALLY going on????
Excellent video really enjoyed😊
Beautifully articulated analytical psychology concepts clustered cognitive contents, mental objects, Primeval elements, historical contexts, moral sentiments and material viewpoints about deep rooted humanistic development, through spiritual growth mindset transformation of a black hole into white whole life World anew Spotlight in between Snapshot Split onto bittersweet blinding sights beyond shape shifting space-time sources codified moving shadows both behind and ahead simultaneously.
Awesome content and presentation. Thanks from South Africa ❤
thank you when im in a spiritual drought i come here to figure out why
Most excellent!! Thank you 🙏😊✨
Thank you for great explanation 😊
We all have one thing in common my conscious experience dwelling amigos,
We all have a brain, it Is the most important of all that is, before the before , they understood still ,so sad so much was lost but this is a step in the correct direction for sure, keep up the great efforts 👌 💪 🙂 👍 👏
Fantastic video. Thank you.
I became aware o fly persona and stopped identifying with it - "Didn't know who I was going to be...I just knew - I am not the me I thought I was my whole life. I followed my love of music (bliss) bought two guitars and taught myself to play them - about 2 hours a day - taking lunch time, break time, evening, morning, and weekends. I was profoundly disorienting - I change my name to better reflect my deeper feelings - I chose Morgan because of the course I'd tamed, Wolfgang, because Goethe was my greatest hero, and lake because the only place I loved and felt safe growing up was West Leaf Lake. Then learned to play, compose originals - not what the market wanted, but music I wanted but could not find at Tower Records.... When I listened to the resulting CD of 10 songs - I didn't know who created them...all I knew was the old me could not have done that. I also came to the conclusion life was intrinsically meaningless - so I would need to create the meaning myself. 30 years later - I produced a memoir and lots more music even music videos - These are mostly without any style at all, like the art of people over 40 years old....It's no longer about me it's about the art....maybe the authentic self is The Ocean beneath the sea?
Ego is the version of us we want others to see us as, a mask. The ego is not our amigo.
You raise a common observation ... But, it may be possible that the ego helped us cope with our past traumas ... childhood CPTSD. And, as adults we no longer need the assistance of the ego in that capacity. So we can appreciate the ego for the good it served in the past, acknowledge it, and maybe work with our therapist with EMDR or other modality to integrate the part and regulate our nervous system toward true self attunement.
~unbelievably good TQ!
thanks for this amazing talk!
Thank you for the video! This was very helpful
This kind of complexity is why I gave up trying to find a wife so long ago. It makes perfect sense but how many people are willing to deep dive in themselves and be honest versus take the easier route of lashing out and repressing what they want or need? It's already difficult enough just to find someone desirable who's also single, nevermind someone who understands what they're actually doing
Can someone sum this up , because the shadow doesn’t make sense to me ?
People generally prefer that you “clean up” or “primp” for public events or to be out in public etc…but I don’t always want to have to. 😂😂
Not sure abt my true self totally. I just start with trying to not “morph” or “absorb” too much with other people and who they are. Just pause and consider that me being diff from them is ok. Even if there is flack or upset or retaliation. With the narc fam system ya know. You had to fight really hard to distinguish your separate “self” as they were vehemently opposed to you ever having one. So I guess it at least helps if you realize you have a right to a full “self” and don’t let people like that Rob you of your true self. (And realizing that there are people out there who never want you to reach self actualization and would block your every effort toward it). And I guess I’m doing ok. I’m aware that I have warts and I’m more ok with them than I ever used to be.
OH, boy. Here we go!
Authenticity is honesty.
loved this ❤