Muslim Parents be like... | Nouman Ali Khan
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Only advise your parents in a kind way ❤
They made a bug to kill Muslims -
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Unfortunately, many parents tramarized their children with their abusive, toxic ways they were parented. Many of those children turn to different kind of addiction when they grow up. Child's life and it's personality develops when they are very young. Abusing children because parents didn't deal with their traumas is a sin and conditioning the child with abuse to become a healthy adult is not possible. Even the plants when you talk to them in a bad way will not successfully grow. No one has a right to oppress anyone even if they are a parent. In the end we will be questioned what we did. I know many that told their parents in the kind way to stop abusing their children but the parents just become worse. It's heartbreaking Subhan'Allah May Allah forgive, protect and guide us all Ameen
True! Always be kind and fair.
Of course!! Yeah :)
Does not matter how kind you are, the ego is looking for ways to get offended. Muslim parents have exaggerated egos when it comes to their kids, kids who are treated like property and then disposed. I obeyed my parents my entire life, and in the process almost destroyed myself. When I was broken and destroyed my parents turned away, I guess the truth has a way of revealing itself. It was never about religion, it was all about the misuse of it. All i can do now is be the father to my kids that I deserved, but never had
I told my father yesterday that people shouldn't curse and why , he curses a lot and yesterday I learned a hadith that talked about cursing and when I told him about it, he just screamed at me :")
Edit:- before anyone tells that it's common sense that cursing isn't allowed, I'm a 13 year old who was never taught well about islam , I've been learning Islam for the last few months from the internet and stuff cause literally no one I know is religious enough to answer any of my questions :")
May Allah (swt) help you growing in faith with the right knowledge
Ameen
@SultanGaming stop playing games or better yet stop being close minded
Ma Sha'a Allah. Keep learning! Try finding friends online/offline too!
@SultanGaming and there are halal anime as well it's not just games that can be halal ya know, so no need to criticize people's halal enjoyment for your satisfaction.
@SultanGaming literally any anime that has no nudity/explicit speech. But that's not the point, the point is you need to be easy on people not go for haram this haram that, our religion is more than that and you should know it. Make people love Islam not stray away from it.
I remember reading this one quote somewhere. It sounds "adult just can't accept the fact that they were wrong, then they tell you that you being disrespect"
Facts. Mostly with elders with high egos.
Oh yes you’re right
oof this is sadly so relatable as a child😢
I hope ur ok, just know you are following the right path and Allah knows ur good intentions towards ur parents ❤
Fax
I would have been a proud dad if my kid used Islam to teach me. In shah Allah I expect my future kids to be excel in Islamic studies. I will help them as much as I can to learn about the almighty, in shah Allah.
In sha Allah 🤍
May Allah (swt) protect our parents
Ameen
Aameen Thumma Aameen
My opinion is if you can't talk to them or corrected for their wrongdoings, you can share an article or video about it or some hadith for them to acknowledge it:)
Good idea! I’ll try that!!
I tried it, they call me a Quran thumping Mullah brainwashed fool who would rot in hell for disobeying them & not dancing to their tune.
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SubhanAllah, Great reminder
May Allah (swt) bless you, really!
Ameen
@@HaveSabr Ameen Ya Rabbul Alameen
Yes true my aggorant father
I am not even 11 yet and I am 9 years old when I tell my dad or mom they don’t do this even though we are Muslim and I think I am really blessed
My dad always drinks water by standing up. When I said him "let's sit", he replied " don't teach me!" with anger.😢
There are more situations like that..but I have no rights to tell about their mistakes...
I'm not religious but I completely agree with the general sentiments of what he's saying... There's nothing shameful about learning something from someone younger. Just because you're older doesn't automatically mean you're wiser, and just because they're younger doesn't mean they don't have anything good to say
I tell my daughters, if I'm wrong, tell me. I'm not perfect. I wasn't raised by perfect parents. She said, when I tell you you are wrong, I get introuble...🥴
this is a sign, try to not act towards your children in that type of way
That means you may have scolded them when they tried
My parents are the same lol but I’m not that way with my kids. I know when I’m in the wrong and I apologize when it is warranted. We have to break that cycle :)
@@hadilayyad6147 yep I agree..
We have to be better parents for our children..
Children are the best teachers ❤ 💕
Brother Norman Ali Khan ……… you know what……. YOU ARE THE BEST!!! That’s it!
I know l! He is so good in explaining the religion. Allah (swt) blessed us by letting us live during his lifetime
@@HaveSabrAssalamalaikum due to hurry and laziness in internet revolution, we dont pay much attention to english rules.
but atleast we should be cautious about Islamic principles.
So please write,
Allah - not allah
Qur'an - not quran
Muhammed - not muhammed
peace be upon him/SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam - not pbuh/saws
Allah Subhanahuwa Ta'Ala- not swt
Its not about sin and haram but about respect towards our Rabb!
@@inspiringmuslim wa Aleikum Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. You’re Right. Thank you for the advise
Alsalam alikom wa rahmatu Allah wa barakatuhu make Dua for my brother he have Corona virus 😭💙🤲
this is so true and sad at the same time
لا اله الا الله محمد رسول الله صل الله عليه وسلم
Subhan Allah I am dealing with it at the moment Ya Allah grant us and our parents understanding of our dean Aameen
I told my dad to respect my mother. I have never seen him saying thank you when she makes him food and serves him, instead he say he hates the food she makes and when I said atleast say u like it or thank you... I got shut down. He always says to us we waste money when we never buy new clothes until the old one are torn and if we need something we are so scared to ask him so we ask our mother and she gets yelled at.. and she says we should respect him cuz he provides us with food and shelter. I can't seem to love him 💔 what is there to love.
I feel you, bro /sis.. Just pray to Allah SWT to give hidaya to your parents and makes them more kind and nice to you and your siblings and please try to understand your parents maybe they were abused when they were young so that's why they treat you like that thinking it's the right way to discipline children..
be independent earn something
MashAllah
Mashallah parents have a difficulty admitting faults and imperfections.
Apologizing to our children implements humanity empathy and being able to recover from a mistake.
I frequently ask my eldest son “are the things you would like me to improve?” I hope to have a long lasting healthy relationship with my son Inshaallah
I always went radio silent when they done something bad because I do know how it feel to be berated just by correcting someone... And also they teach me how to 'lie out of kindness', I actually become so good at it nowadays
Please don't lie ever except if it's to save your life literally, trust me I've been there done that. By you doing so you are leaving yourself vulnerable to their process of thinking...minds change over the years & they would expect you to also, the catch here is Islam doesn't. No one wants to be a robot in this very materialistic selfish world.
SubhanAllah beautiful
And always listen the lessons that Allah has to teach us from every source.. 🤲🏻 May Allah guide us
Mansha allah ❤️❤️❤️
MAShaAllah
Say, 'O Prophet, that Allah says,"O My servants who have exceeded the limits against their souls! Do not lose hope in Allah's mercy, for Allah certainly forgives all sins. He is indeed the All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
(Surah Zumar Ayat number 53)
Ya Allah, please bless our children with kind teachers who are as insightful as Ustadh Nouman
Ameen 🤲🏼
My father would never admit being wrong
masha allah
Thank you for these short videos.. Most of the time time i watch it inshaAllah it will lead me to the full video of the speech (link in the description). Keep it up!
SubhanAllah (3)
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La ilaaha illallah (3)
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Muhammed e rasulallah - sallallahu ãlayhiwasallam (3)
@ExMslm. *_HADITH OF THE DAY_*
*ENGLISH TRANSLATION*
✦The RasoolAllah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: If anyone says these words he will be forgiven , even if he has run away in the time of the battle.
أَسْتَغْفِرُ اللَّهَ الَّذِي لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ هُوَ الْحَىُّ الْقَيُّومُ وَأَتُوبُ إِلَيْهِ
Astagfirullah-Al-lazi la ilaha illa Huwa Al-Hayyul-Qayyum wa atubu ilaih
Translation: I seek the forgiveness of Allah the AlMighty, Whom there is No God except Him, The Living, The Eternal, and I repent unto Him.
*ROMAN URDU TRANSLATION*
✦Rasool-Allah Sal-Allahu Alaihi Wasallam ne farmaya jisne ye kalimat kahe to uske gunah maaf kar diye jayenge chahe wo Maidan e jung se bhag gaya ho
أَسْتَغْفِرُ اللَّهَ الَّذِي لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ هُوَ الْحَىُّ الْقَيُّومُ وَأَتُوبُ إِلَيْهِ
Astagfirullah-Al-lazi la ilaha illa Huwa Al-Hayyul-Qayyum wa atubu ilaih
✦ Tarjuma : Main ALLAH se apne gunaho ki maafi maangta hu jiske siwa koi ibadat ke layaq nahi , Jo zinda aur hamesha rahne wala hai aur main usee ki taraf tauba karta hu.
Source: Sunan Abu Dawud, Book 8, 1512-Sahih
*Learn | Implement | Share it*
Ur words sir...may u have higher rank in Jannah
My Allah (swt) bless your life in this world and the next
Ameen
It's bitter truth of life
Masha Allah
Alhamdhulilah
WOW this is what is said t0 me when i say calling me names in islam is wrong or whenever they always wrong me😢😢😢
Oo wow ur examples are so true and modern👍
YAA ALLAH 😍😍😍😍😍
Well spoke
Very right👌
Machallah allahuma barek
Not Muslim, but this is still solid advice 💜
How you ever consider becoming a Muslim?
The truth is the truth, whether it comes out of the mouth of an educated scholar or a child. As parents, instead of getting mad at our kids, we should instead admit that we're wrong just for the sake of Allah, even if it may be hard to do so.
MashaAllah
To all parents in the world.
Really need these in Urdu translation so at least parents can hear this.
Mashaallah
Yes my child said to me...but you talk to grandma rudely, why shouldn't I talk to you the same way....🤷♀️
omg truueeeee... My mom wouldn't let me correct her and we fight a lot cz of it
Not only Arab parents but Pakistani parents also do this
Same with African parents its sad
The older you get the harder it is for you to change things about yourself
ALLAHU AKIBAL
Yes sheikh is true what you say is right but some of the parant they do understand but some can't take it
True...
Very true
Ji. 🥺👍💯👏👏🌹
These words are more beloved to prophet Muhammad صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم than anything The 3rd kalimaaa
سُبْحَانَ اللّٰہِ، وَالْحَمْدُلِلّٰہِ، وَلَآ اِلٰہَ اِلَّا اللّٰہُ، وَاللّٰہُ اَکْبَرُ
’’read 100 times daily big Ajar Subhan Allah
That's what I go through , it's hard to follow Deen when ur parents don't like u bcs of U knowing alot
My mother always say that to me
Just this happened today and I was told I should control my tongue as I shouldn't be speaking to elders like that and in future I will be in trouble if I do so
Love your talk would love if you talk about men how too treat women
Does not matter how kind you are, the ego is looking for ways to get offended. Muslim parents have exaggerated egos when it comes to their kids, kids who are treated like property and then disposed. I obeyed my parents my entire life, and in the process almost destroyed myself. When I was broken and destroyed my parents turned away, I guess the truth has a way of revealing itself. It was never about religion, it was all about the misuse of it. All i can do now is be the father to my kids that I deserved, but never had.
Salaam. That is true, my parents especially my mum can never be wrong and I try and sometimes carefully correct them on the rights and wrongs- they just don’t want to know.
On the other hand being a parent myself you try and tell your children in a parental friendly way that some rules are followed in our religion and try and avoid this - this etc. they just turn around and say mum your generation was different?
What do you say to that
First: May Allah (swt) bless you and your family
Ameen
Secondly: I don’t know if your children are practicing or not but what I want to tell you is that our job is to remind others, this includes our children. We don’t guide them, it’s rather Allah (swt) alone who guides the hearts. I know myself a brother who was a Muslim but not practicing. One time after a lot of reminders, Allah (swt) put something in his heart and he wanted to change and became practicing.
Don’t give up on your children. I know it’s easier said than done but Allah (swt) knows that you can handle it, otherwise he wouldn’t have put you in this situation.
May Allah (swt) put Barakah in every reminder of yours
Ameen
Its true
The other day my father made me feel upset so I threw a tantrum. Then I appologised to him. And told him that he should appologise too because he made me upset then he went like "How dare you tell me that? Do I have to learn what an appology is from you?"
I won't say anything. I left the issue to Allah because my father is incapable of understanding where he went wrong. Allah is all watching and all understanding. He will solve this issue in this Duniya or in Akhirah, Inshallah.
Exactly
I have the same issues, it's come down to this toxic point where they are ashamed of me & don't want to acknowledge my gain in deen & taqwa as a plus rather opposing them & defying Allah Almighty order to "obey your parents or land in hell" ⬅️ most parents use this line to manipulate their children from a very young age 🤦♀️ May we all be guided towards the correct path. Aameen #Quran&Sunnah4Life
Young teach the Old beautiful thing
When I say that men's cannot wear gold they like scold me and say everyone wears so why we shouldn't
Tell them about the hadith of prophet SAW.. Ali bin Abi Talib said:
"The Prophet of Allah [SAW] took hold of some silk in his right hand and some gold in his left, then he said: ' *These two are forbidden for the males of my Ummah* '" Sunan an-Nasa'i 5144.. Grade :Sahih.. And if you have adviced them then it's up to them to follow or reject what Allah SWT and his messenger commanded..
Well once when I heard my father cursing on phone I told him it's sin and he just appologized to me and from then onwards I have never heard him cursing 💖
Full lec link ?
the full video: th-cam.com/video/r021sgp6Kv0/w-d-xo.html
Thanks
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As Salaam... Thé last question is 😭😭😭😭we havr to KNOW HOW TO DEEL FROM 🤲🏼BOTH SIDES 👨👩👧👦👳🏼♂️🧕🏼🤰🤱👨👩👧👦
More respect towards Islam ☪️ , one of the peaceful religion in the world 🌎, no need for islamophobia , as some idiots say , respect each other as well as their religious beliefs ,
Does anyone have the link to full lecture?? Plz
That be dad sometimes 😂
"I need advice. I want to wear the hijab, but my parents won't allow it. They also forbid me from praying tahajjud and sometimes even fajr. My father doesn't want me to be too religious, and he gets angry when I recite dikr or try to read the Quran at night. When I wear the hijab, he tells me to take it off, and my mother says I should listen to my father. She thinks I won't be able to continue wearing it forever like she couldn't. My mother used to wear abaya, hijab, and niqab, but my father forced her to stop.
Whenever I ask for advice, my family members tell me to obey my father. I'm confused and don't know what to do. Any advice or kind words would be appreciated.
Wishing you a blessed day, and I hope to meet you someday. May Allah forgive all Muslims."
Ask Allah for Advice...Pray to them ask Allah SWT to guide you in right way...
Parents be teacher and later kids teach them....
I told them parents argument affects children , they didn’t listen and now they’re facing the reality forgetting what they did wrong 😑
Does anybody know the beautiful song playing in the background? It's so divine
Yes.
Are you a Muslim?
@@NK-mp5xp no, I just really love learning about other cultures and religions. I think that there's a lot of beauty in them. Btw could you tell me the name of the song?
@@jonathansarmiento1739 th-cam.com/video/nMnZDe4baTY/w-d-xo.html
I would like to invite u to islam.
Lemme know if u had any questions or doubts regarding islam.
I have a doubt recently my mother was telling me during an argument that "in the Hadith(idk which Hadith she didn't mention it) is there when parents are wrong we should not correct them" Is it true? Or can we correct them in a kind way??
That wasn't Prophet Ibrahim (a)'s real biological father, a Prophet's parents can never be an idol worshipper. Everyone just called him "abba" as a nickname like they do in different language cultures (e.g. calling friend's parents aunty, uncle. It doesn't mean biological aunt or uncle)
you shouldnt get angry when corrected because having that much pride is no good thing in the akhirah
Man has hidden complexes second jenaration
Just cause they are your parents doesn’t mean they should be respected. Trust your guts and moral logic. If you know what your parents taught you is wrong. Turns stand up for yourself.
My family celebrated my mothers bday in a haram way by " making a wish after bliwing the candle "
Notice: we are arabic
And they were listening to music i just stood in the corner not celebrating nor doing anything but i did tell my mother happy birthday in private bc well shes my mother but i just want to know is it halal to stay in a haram doing if ur not doing it?
I think I saw this person in my dream before.
Then listen to his message
I want someone to clear my doubt... A boy told me that "only women are solely responsible for her children's islamic education and parenting!" What Islam say about this?. In my opinion both mother and father are equally responsible in parenting....
I have a big problem can you help me please?
I will try my best to help, if it's regarding islamic issue.
И С А М Ə С І Х !!!! СПАСИТЕЛЬ ВСЕХ ЛЮДЕЙ !!!АЛИЛЛУЯ АМЕН
Not Muslim parents.
Say Most Arab parents or Most Desi parents or Lots of Muslim parents.
Try to cut off your videos at a point where people can't misinterpret what the speaker is sayin
So in my next life you're saying that I should just kindly tell my dad not to molest my sister?
Kids don’t catch a hipe
These days everybody think there all clever and dont please correct me facts
It wasn’t his father, it was his uncle who he viewed as close like his father. This guy is a dope
No it was his father, read the Quran also all scholars said Azar was the father of Ibrahim Alayhi Assalam
@@Amy_omer no that is not Islamically impossible, Hadith has clarified that Prophet Ibrahim referred to his uncle as his father, and this is still evident in Arabic culture today, older male figures especially familial ones are no different than their fathers. The love and affection and bond you have to them is most definitely fatherly. And Prophet Ibrahim was incredibly loving and sensitive evidenced by him never stopping his prayer for his uncle to be put on the straight path. But most importantly if you used your head you’d realize that prophethood is passed down via the bloodline and is patrilineal meaning Prophet Abrahams father was also a prophet. Meaning an infallible. Meaning a Muslim. Meaning NOT an idol worshipper. The only exceptions are Prophet Jesus who is connected to the prophethood line via his Mother who was the daughter of Prophet Imran. But again bloodline is necessary. There is also another instance where this foreshadowing is important but I’ll save that conversation for another time. God loves foreshadowing and direct examples.
@@BobBob-pr4eh can give me one Sahih hadith that tells Azaar was his uncle not his father? Also all the scholars of tafsir Ibn kathir, Al qurtubi, At-tabari, As-Sa'di may Allah SWT have mercy on them said that his father was not believer..
@@Amy_omer you have ABSOLUTELY no brain, this just sums it up…
@@BobBob-pr4eh no I have brain, you have mentioned in your previous comment that there is a hadith so mentioned it here 🙄 also about the other point Nooh alayhi assalam was prophet but still he had a son who was not a believer and he was drawn with non believers so if we follow your logic then there should not be any non believer children for prophets because they are the one who will carry the message and inherit prophecy 🤔
Welcome to the conservative republican people from the "Greatest Generation" or the "Kids Should Be Seen And Not Heard" Generation where this would be considered "Talking Back to Elders" and worthy of punishment because the kid disrespected their parents.
मूर्ति is not idol