Important Advice to Parents | Is your Child Loving Someone | Love Marriage in Islam - Mufti Menk
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- What should the parents do if their child confesses their love for someone and they desire to get married? In many Muslim cultures, the parents will outright say No. Mufti Menk tells us that it is normal to fall in love, parents need to regard the choice of their children seriously. They should inculcate the proper mindset from a young age, and if the child is making a bad choice they should properly advise them. However, if their choice is good, they should not invent false reasons to reject their choice. Clear and respectful communication between the parents and the prospective spouses is key towards a successful and happy married life
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Dear Brothers and Sisters, i have an important Exam today. Please make Dua for me and my friend
please pray for my love and our parent should accept it, please pray for me, will u pray for me (if s give a like) and inshallah i will include you in my prayers.
Inshallah Allah grants you eachother, keep me in your prayers as well.
Please make du'a for me. I pray that my father comes to understand that the young man I found has good Deen, character, a respectable job, and seems compatible in his values and lifestyle. Ya Allah please help my father overcome his xenophobia and his fear of what others will say! Allahu'Ameen 😢
Same here 😢
@@afshanmehraj5892 I made a du'a for you. May Allah ease your hardship and open your parents' minds to accept your choice of spouse. Ameen
if he doesn't accept him for no reason, go for the tribunal and tell them your case or your local imam if in a non muslim country
Pray for me iam about to get marry
What Happened?
Inshallah ❣️
May Allah give you the best marriage with your spouse in this dunya and in the paradise 🥹🤲🏽 Allahouma Ameen
Bismillah
Subhanallah
Our religion has arranged how to have relationship safely through taaruf as one of the way
i wish this video was available in irdu💔
Pray for me pray that my family agrees with my choice Ameen
But in India, they come and say we want to marry non-muslims, so the matter specially in India is
very complicated
I'm really upset and worried bcz they are not ready to meet someone I love and accept his marriage proposal for me
hows it going
Don't Tell them, Haram is Better than Brake up
@@sastianimation seems like you dont know what ur on about
@@user_1891 At that Time I was Mad but now Allhumdullah 💚 "Or Allah jisa chayea usa Hadayet da"
Did thy accept?
Pray for my marriage ❤
Pray for me
I liked someone from another country, my dad didn’t, it’s been 2 years, he is worried what society will say
Oh my gosh I am in the EXACT same position! I know that pain all too well, but for me it's a fresh wound as I just found out he's extremely xenophobic on Sunday when I told him about the guy I'm interested in, thinking I'm doing the right thing - I did not expect such a hateful reaction, the moment I said 'Pakistani' - he is worried about what his friends will say. My dad has doomed me to be single for the rest of my life because I don't think I will find another guy like Subhan, and I don't want to just settle for someone I'm not compatible with. It's really sad that parents can be like this! Please make du'a for me and I will make du'a for you too.
Ya Allah Forgive Us
I love Allah
Sometimes I feel like im lost. by age im at my 24s. I feel alone. being in a society where everyone walking with their wife or gf, it makes me jealous. im not a woman. i can't control my feelings of belonging somewhere. I ask allah to please make my marriage come to me soon before i further sin. I don't want to do jinaa. I love allah. i fear allah. im afraid that the girl i love won;t be loved as a great choosing for my parents, i feel as they would reject her. again i also feel her parents would also reject me. Why is it so hard to want a decent life but society forces to go in a different direction. I sometimes tell my self that Prophet Muhammad was strong even when he turned 25 that he could control his feelings and be an honest and decent man. But im not him. i can only follow to some extent. as a middle class family son, I feel like the responsibility is out of my hand and that i don't deserve to marry someone I love or want.
Whoever this is, I can somewhat relate with your story (the rejection part) . Also I am confused whether to stay and keep making dua or just give up and move on so that he doesn't get hurt in the end.
What if she is only 16 and still studying?
Love how he mentions the big three racists,
No
I invite everyone to listen the holy Quran🌷🌸🍒
Assalamuyalaikum
Can you reply my salam? 😊😇
Walaikum
Walaikum
I'm willing to Marry a girl bit my parents are not allowing me
My mother is crying and all saying we can't accept her
And telling some lies all about her family
I don't know what to do in this situation. Pls someone help me or ask dua for me
Respect your family but listen to your heart! I’m sure your woman is dying to marry you!❤️
A man doesn't need a permission to marry
A man doesn't need his father's or mother's permission for Nikkah. You could respectfully have your Nikkah done and then inform your parents if they don't want to attend the ceremony. Simple as that. Your mother is crying?ok you arent sinful for that,she is. Im not trying to be disrespectful but its haram for parents to try having a control on things Allah didnt give them the right of. Your mum will be ok eventually,even if she isnt you arent sinful in Allah's eyes for marrying someone you like. You dont need to and you must not disrespect your parents but you also aren't obliged to obey them in this regard. No amount of blackmailing should come in your way of having your Nikkah done,Man up and get married. Marry the person of your choice,Allah has given u the right to do so. With this being said,choose your spouse carefully,ask yourself these questions,is she on her deen?would she be a good mother to your children and raise them as good muslims? Would she be a wife you classify as compatible-this is also important bec then you'd not only be making a decision based off emotions and "love". Think of all aspects and then just get your Nikkah done and trust me Allah SWT will make things easier for you,have faith in him. Marry the woman u want, since u asked for help i tried putting my long long opinion in this message.
Parents don't Understand
JUMP SHIP! MGTOW
So , there's a girl ,we both like each other very much and want to get nikahfied ,but her father fixed her marriage with his friend's son while she studying outside her city without her knowledge,without telling her ,without asking her opinion and when she got to know this ,and tried telling her father that she liked me ,even without listening to her ,her father straightway told her that ,the marriage has been fixed and now it's out family honour and that he will not in any case revert back his decision
When I talked to his family , her brother thrased her badly and also he threatened to kill me .
And the biggest irony is that ,her father used to lecture in mosque that parents should let marry the child as per child's love and likeness. Allah knows what's ahead for us .
جَزَاكَ اللَّهُ خَيْرًا
my Honourable Mufti Ismael Menk
Please share any ayyat in reference
Ya Allah I hope things get into place
Mai jise pasand karta hu wo non Muslim hai or mere Ghar Wale nahi maan rahe, to kya mai apne ghar walo ke khilaf jakar shadi kar sakta hu ?
ا ب ت ث آمین 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭