The saddest part about family conflict is that the toxic narcissists that create divide amongst siblings don’t realise that their behavior affects generations! May Allah guide them to the right path before it’s too late.
It's ok brother sheikh I'm ok I really know about afghan plan they play with my life they in 17 year still same him hiding I really never believe he m even I never sour about him Wich one ramin sadiqi or Mustafa Aziz yaar they want my child my child never want daddy haha will I'm of course married American inshallah because they joke with my life I swear
My friend Elise who was born as transgender, was told by her family not to come to her fathers funeral. She went missing for a number of days until she floated up onto the shore of Lake Michigan. It was reported as a suicide. She was soft spoken and a gentle person. What hope does she have in not going to hell. I loved her as a sister because she was so gentle. Tell me please Mufti Menk. What is your understanding about what happened? A’isha Shaw
I cut ties with my whole family because I got physically and mentally abused so much throughout my life. I can't find peace any more and suffer from depression. My goal is to leave my past behind and live alone in another country. May Allah forgive me ..
@BlueNinjaX11 please always recite laahawla walakuwwatha illahbillah n, hasbunallahu waniamal wakeel. Those are magical and miracle words. We all have tough times in our lives. Never give up. Don't lose hope and mercy of Allah. He will never abondan you.
@@nazriyazahir4260 he still needs the therapy and treatment with medications. Please don't spread wrong info. Please see a specialist and get close to Allah Almighty. He surely will help you.
I swear I feel in peace when I hear the way you explain the word of God, I am Roman Catholic but I don’t know why I feel in peace when I hear you. Thank you.
God's spirit shines through him...pure hearts radiate this because the light is from Allah. Thank you for your honest acknowledgement, how beautiful. Sending you love and increase in your knowledge.
A Lot of Mental Illness runs in the family. Some time you have to distance your self from the family. Alhamdulillah great reason to say Shukran there's so many Cities, Countries, and States you can move to and make a new home.
What does your religion say?There r two chapters in our Quran .One named Surah Mariam(Marry mother of Jesus ) and Surah Al Imran(Family of Imran) Imran was Marry,s father.
Our religion tells us that Marry (Mariam Alihsalaam) was among the few perfect women in the world.Islam tells us about 4 perfect women and Marry(Mariam Alihissalam was one of them.
@A. Khan aleikoem salam yeah this is a very tough situation i hope mufti menk sees this and helps you i really dont want to say something thats maybe gonna make it worse inshaAllah it gets better and you find youre solution
@A. Khan Salam sister ( I wanted to ask why she disrespect you and why don't you tell your husband about it make dua Allah will give her Hidayat May Allah give you Saber
I am thankful for this very inspirational lecture. I am learning Islam on my own. I am praying for guidance to know more about the ways of Islam. Inshallah
My extended family are toxic and manipulative bullies. As they've gotten older they seem to get worse and enjoin in upsetting us with unpleasant nonsense. We're always stuck in situations where we have to cater to their needs, but when we need help in times of hardships or happiness they openly can't be bothered to help. It's a never ending cycle and I'm drained.
Distance yourself from them and the hurt and stress will lessen..see them on Eid or weddings and be very brief in your interaction don't give them time to ask or say much than a simple Eid Mubarak. Don't take their criticisms too seriously you must set boundaries.
Why do i always cry when listening to him i always come to his videos when im overwhelmed with depression and anxiety and try to put myself back together with the positive words he conveys about what ALLAH SWT said may he gets blessed with a lot here and in hereafter
There will be disagreements and many challenges but sometimes relations become so toxic that it is necessary to maintain a distance give time to each other to calm down and see light towards right direction
@Go Transcript dude what’s confusing you about my comment is it the words of light towards the right direction ? The direction is the controlling of anger and not getting vile calming down restores sense I’m a MUSLIM toxic relations are in every community where does Christianity come in my comment
So is it allowed to get distant coz of those toxic relations, with no reciprocation and being taken for granted. Can you try to have minimal communications with such people coz getting close to them has always led to trouble
I came across this video while trying to learn more about Islam. 22:47 hit me hard. I needed to hear that. As a single father fighting on multiple fronts, this gave me the feeling to carry on in my path.
I hv tried hard all my life. Now I have a right to myself n my child. I can’t be part of a toxic evil family . I hv a responsibility to provide my child an opportunity to be around good pious people n learn how to live a normal life. May Allah give me the strength n enough time .Ameen .
Alhamdulillah. Im having a very hard time to communicate and solve the internal problems with my dad. May Allah grant us strength to endure our challenges in life. Amin
@A. Khan Are you able to go to your parents for a bit to help with the mental distress it might be causing you. Maybe that might help you to think about things. They shouldn't be disrespecting especially your husband. May Allah resolve your issues.
@A. Khan salaam alaykum sister, may Allah ease your problems as we are all tested in different ways the almighty has ordained. It may not be best to ask for advice from comment sections of any sort as they can sometimes be misleading. Put your trust in Allah and hold firm to the Qur'an, try and understand it when reading as it holds solutions these worldy problems we face. May Allah make it easy for us all. Aameen
"There is no beauty better than intellect" ( Prophet Muhammad). Qur'an has all the answers to resolve any problem we are facing but we need to pay attention to it. If we follow the teachings of Qur'an, somewhere inside our heart there is a satisfaction for everything we do. This satisfaction consoles a heart and relaxes a soul. ALHUMDULILLAH and I am greatly thankful to Allah for everything that He bestowed upon me; the most beautiful form of rizq is not only money, but it's also tranquility of a soul, healthiness of a body, purity of a heart, soundness of thoughts and a beautiful soul full of Emaan. ALHUMDULILLAH!
@@لاحولولاقوةإلابالله-م5ض clothes, or any other things don't matter, the only thing that matters is his individual personality; his thoughts and his guidance. May Allah bless Mufti Menk with everything that he desires for.
My mother is Catholic, I am Muslim. I lost my father over 8 years ago. My mother is so unhappy, agitated angry, and lonely. I visit everyday/ every other to support her with finances, cleaning and shopping. My husband on his day off work attends my mother's home with me to also help my mother, but she becomes even more upset. I leave my mother's home exhausted and upset as I am unable to pray, as she does not understand the deen. I am trying so hard to help her, as she too also looked after me.
Stay strong dear sister. Do your best but don’t go out of your way to the point it affects your own mental health and peace of mind. She will come round, you can pray for her hidaya till her last breath. To have this hope is actually recommended. It’s a different story after she passes away, then it is upto Allah. May Allah make ease🌹
I'm tired Mufti :'( since I was a child my parents always fight up until now. Still we don't know what to do. But I believe in one thing if something happens today that will break our heart, I believe that it all happened because of the qadr of allah. We will just strengthen our beliefs and prayers.
I can understand what you are saying, but what ever reason she is being like that towards u, but still she is your mother. You be nice to her help her as much as u can
@@barisomed1650 that's rubbish lot of people use to tell me the same she is your mother she is your mother I had been patient for so long but she had ruined my life my mother burn in hell fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I understand, trust me but take it from a regretful adult daughter with nobody's support right now other than the almighty, don't ever estrange your mother because nothing is permanent. May you be blessed!
i try so hard... i try to speak softly, i try to be respectful and obedient... all i ask is my own life... i dont want to live away from my parents, i want to live with them but do what i want, have a life that i want.... if i want to be independent let me be... i wont do anything wrong,... i just want the same freedom that my sister has.. why is it that she can come and go anywhere and whenever she wants but i cant.... we both are adults.
What I love about these videos is that you dont get the answers to your personal problems but instead; you get the formula to the solutions which you can apply any situation. Allah swt grant us all ease. Ameen
Whenever I listen to mufti menk molana tariq jameel sahab nouman ali khan and dr zakir naik I love to listen...it motivates me gives me strength I feel much strong and always I remember my nani ammi she use to advice for such motivational lectures. Thank you sir. I really love my nani ammi she was an inspiration to me she passed away may alllah forgive all her sins and grant her jannat. Plz make dua for my nani ammi I cried a lot I lost her. Mufti menk aap jaise neik log hai jiski vajah se duniya qayam hai.
Yes especially molana tariq jameel motivates a lot and made our belief more strong and all others too May Allah bless your nani and forgive all sins and open window of heaven for her
Preach it my brother we could use a brother like you in our community I tell you it's needed I am praying for this may God grant you mercy I am a Christian but I love your teaching
My first comment: Thank you Mufti Menk. I am sharing to my family 15:15 Children treat with respect 15:4316:18 ***Jealousy between brother’s wife’s ** 16:57 Family Importance - Muslim or non-Muslim 17:52 dry log 🪵😂😂😢 22:51 🏠👨👩👧👩👩👦👦👦👶👧🧒🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋 27:05 verbal abuse 🛑🙊🌷🌹🌸🌞🌈🎂 30:10 **Don’t involve others*** 31:05: don’t cut within 3 days 31:15 Eid day - make an effort to cousins know each other
May Allah swt give us Guidance... Don't curse them..... Pray for them May Allah swt grant us love, respect towards one another within our family members & keep us blessed & happy in this world & hereafter..
Alhamdulillah for an Islamic scholar is speaking, preaching and adressing people in English, in the language of the World. This is a blessing, a mercy of God for humanbeings..
I.... have problems with my parents,. They do not understand about me having freedom after hard work. and they always say things like i am 10. but i'm 30 :( But this speech calm me down. thank you :)
Parents are mainly the cause of family problems. Parents aren't fulfilling their duties and don't know what means to be a parent it all starts from the base it isn't strong enough things won't carry on as firmly as possible. I'm not saying this to dishonor any parents out there or mine but simply to point out the obvious. I pray to Allah to help individuals that are enduring hardship within their families
Well said my friend , I am going through civil war in my family, almost I am destroyed by my brothers having nothing, most people try to deny this true but unfortunately this is fact, jazakallah hiran mufti, I pray for you long life
@@wonderworld3021 only people that are experiencing this disaster can relate, families are destroying those who are beloved to them without realizing it. I pray that you find hope in whatever you are dealing
I was physically and verbally abused by parents and brothers my whole life, my brothers are all almost 30 I’m the 4th oldest out of nine siblings alhamdulillah I have married and settled and have 2 children but I try my best to help my mum as my dad has passed on because I believe in Islam you’re supposed to look after your parents but sometimes my mum doesn’t appreciate what I do for her she always wants more considering my brothers do nothing for her they just sit at home all day and don’t work and I buy food often for them, my mum curses me still as well and says I’ll never be happy in my life if I don’t help her, what do I do in this instance as this had affected my mental health really bad 😣
I would say that you should still help and give love to your mother, take her curse as a blessing if your siblings don't care for your mother as they should don't worry about it, you do your share.
U r definitely doing a very good thing…in the eyes of Allah u r indeed the best child of ur parents…they recognise or not doesnt matter… u keep doing the good work… u will be rewarded… soon in the world or the hereafter….❤
I regret why I forced myself to be close with my siblings, and currently More than sometimes I don’t understand how I was stupid when I realised they are my enemies they already destroyed my family, marriage abused my children and permanently damaged my family
Thank you so much. ❤ it really changed my mind I was going through tough time i endured it alone. I didn't shared it to anyone except allah❤. May allah grant you highest rank in jannah
im christian too..thanks i didnt forget my fahter always tell us dont get jealous because this is dangerous as you grow up...thanks god he give me a good parent to guide us and love us in failure and success they support us thats why may be were old now but still we have peace in our family..thanks for reminding me about my father...im glad that i see your video everyday mufti menk i salute you spread the love and more power to encourage people..
As a Christian, this is an amazing message. My brother and his now wife caused so much unnecessary stress in order to steal my My Moms Inheritence and My inheritanceb (From my Late Father's estate) for their own gain. My brother's spouse has caused just as much division as my own brother, Completely destroying the Fabric of the Family Unit as you say. Great video and Very Well said, Mufti. May the Lord deal with them.
Thank you very much for showing me the Islamic way on how to handle family problems. Alh this came exactly at the right time, as my heart felt heavy, not knowing what to do.
MAY PEACE AND BLESSINGS OF ALLAH SUBHANAHU WA TA'ALA BE UPON OUR BELOVED PROPHET MOHAMMAD SWALALLAHU ALLEYHI WASALLAM HIS FAMILY AND ALL HIS COMPANIONS
We are so thankful for you my sheikh mufti menk..I love you for the sake of Allah How u give qootba and adwaa mashaallah your blessed my sheikh..he’s the calmest perfect person I have ever heard give out a good speech a good daawa May Allah continue blessing you and may he forgive u inshaallah ya Allah bless him for my sake ..he’s literally the best sheikh of my time take it to Allah if u Doubt me ❤️🙏🙏
By simply saying I am Muslim around my phone and begin to pray regularly these videos have come through my thread. I appreciate your words to help me further understand. I really don't want to speak English anymore and it is difficult when I feel as if I have no choice I put the energy out there that I am going against something and people still try and talk to me when I don't even know them. It's like they know it I am ready to meet Allah SwT. .
Love you mufti menk. Your beautiful voice when reciting is a gift to hear. Your voice when you talk is so relaxing and I love watching you speak. Your knowledge is beyond mine and I just wanna thank you for teaching me so much at my young age.
As a Hindu I can see that whatever your pathway to God you come across challenges that are common. You give advice beautifully. Allah bless you. I would love to hear you talk about the Importance of living with All in peace and harmony. Why do we use religion to divide us? Yet all religions teach us to be loving .Thank you.
Jazaak Allah Khair my dear Sheikh for such a beautiful talk on such an important topic. May Allah be pleased with you and bless you and your family. Aameen
assalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu Uztad Mufti Qur'an is the best solution/answer for our problems in different situations. May Almighty Allah grant us guidance and protection Ameen 🤲❤️
It is a very nice video when you pray to allah soon you’ll be very close to allah and as you said in the before video in the Ramadaan let allah bless you and give whatever you want and let allah make you safe from enemies 😇😇
I'm impressed and and proud to be a Muslim because I admire and follow the Noble Qur'an that makes bewildered of the facts of his creation which are not disputed by the greatest living Scientist and Hadees narrated by Bro Mufti
Alhamdhulilla, Alhamdhulilla... Dear Bro's & Sister's... Iam job less for more than a year and now our situation is ???, Please make your dua in all your prayers for me and family... Jazaak Allah Khair.....
اَلسَّلاَمْ عَلَيْــــــــــــــــــــكُمْ وَ رَحْمَةُ اللہِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ Sheikh, you look so tired! May Allah swt grant you good health and Barakah always.
You are an excellent teacher, a pedagogue ! Your english is as nice to listen to as your words of wisdom, Islam. Your are just a brilliant preacher ! With you I am learning more about my religion and improving better my english !
Allah has tested me though me having a terrible family in my opinion in my house life I’m not aloud to even cry they don’t understand holding back tears is not healthy or even possible majority of the time
This is a valuable topic- many families have issues/dysfunctions and do not understand the basis. And of course, there is complexity in all human relationships. Each of us must persevere, keep seeking understanding, be open to change; and, develop true faith in the teachings of Islam. When components are in place, other parts will fall and fit into place.
Your parents are either a test for you or a blessing and I pray everyone has loving parents because some of us never did. And it’s true this type of mental torture stays with you for life, in your own marriage and when you have kids, it’s almost like you have to change your way of thinking and learn again from step 1 at your adult age. May Allah swt guide and protect us all.
The saddest part about family
conflict is that the toxic narcissists that create divide amongst siblings don’t realise that their behavior affects generations! May Allah guide them to the right path before it’s too late.
You really couldn’t of said that any better!
It's ok brother sheikh I'm ok I really know about afghan plan they play with my life they in 17 year still same him hiding I really never believe he m even I never sour about him Wich one ramin sadiqi or Mustafa Aziz yaar they want my child my child never want daddy haha will I'm of course married American inshallah because they joke with my life I swear
Indeed!
I am also a Christian and love this man's preaching God Bless you Brother Mufti.
May Allah grant you guidance...
Allahu akbar
I agree
Masallah Masallah Allah with you
I hope you will join us in our Islam
I have recently been studying Islam on my own time and I’m enjoying it 🙏🏾
May allah guide you tiwards the right way
May you be enlightened,🙏
I the only way to study Islam is by our self.
It’s the only way too bypass the freaks.
My friend Elise who was born as transgender, was told by her family not to come to her fathers funeral. She went missing for a number of days until she floated up onto the shore of Lake Michigan. It was reported as a suicide.
She was soft spoken and a gentle person.
What hope does she have in not going to hell. I loved her as a sister because she was so gentle. Tell me please Mufti Menk. What is your understanding about what happened?
A’isha Shaw
@@aishashaw5885 these are matters between Allah & his slave. We should just hope for the best as Allah likes His slaves to have good opinion of Him.
I cut ties with my whole family because I got physically and mentally abused so much throughout my life. I can't find peace any more and suffer from depression. My goal is to leave my past behind and live alone in another country. May Allah forgive me ..
May Allah bless you and ease all your difficulties. Please read the Quran with it's translations, it will help you to come out from depression.
May Allah make it easy for you brother,in this life everything is a test for us.Take it one day at a time.Aameen!
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@BlueNinjaX11 please always recite laahawla walakuwwatha illahbillah n, hasbunallahu waniamal wakeel. Those are magical and miracle words. We all have tough times in our lives. Never give up. Don't lose hope and mercy of Allah. He will never abondan you.
@@nazriyazahir4260 he still needs the therapy and treatment with medications. Please don't spread wrong info. Please see a specialist and get close to Allah Almighty. He surely will help you.
I swear I feel in peace when I hear the way you explain the word of God, I am Roman Catholic but I don’t know why I feel in peace when I hear you. Thank you.
God's spirit shines through him...pure hearts radiate this because the light is from Allah. Thank you for your honest acknowledgement, how beautiful. Sending you love and increase in your knowledge.
Becoz it's a right path maybe u can't get much money on it path but definitely u will meet his god and peace
Dear brother.u r a nice human being....plz I m a widow need your financially help...I m in trouble plz reply me
God ll give u better reward I believe
Because it’s a right path
A Lot of Mental Illness runs in the family. Some time you have to distance your self from the family. Alhamdulillah great reason to say Shukran there's so many Cities, Countries, and States you can move to and make a new home.
So true I did too keep my peace of mind
Moved away for a decade, and the distance does help.
Unfortunately that's the truth, it's better to love from a distance than be close and endure abuse. Much love everyone ❤
I feel as though stumbling across this message was a sign. Alhamdulilah. Thank you for leaving this reply.
Salam did you leave your country ??
I'm a Christian but i like this teaching
All praise be to the one and only Almighty.
May Allah (God) bless you and grant you ease and Hidhaya
Ameen
What does your religion say?There r two chapters in our Quran .One named Surah Mariam(Marry mother of Jesus ) and Surah Al Imran(Family of Imran) Imran was Marry,s father.
Our religion tells us that Marry (Mariam Alihsalaam) was among the few perfect women in the world.Islam tells us about 4 perfect women and Marry(Mariam Alihissalam was one of them.
Inshaellah (god willing) will lead you to the right path
@@mc5zone503 I don’t get what you mean
May Allah bless us with rightous children and give us good health
@A. Khan aleikoem salam yeah this is a very tough situation i hope mufti menk sees this and helps you i really dont want to say something thats maybe gonna make it worse inshaAllah it gets better and you find youre solution
@A. Khan Salam sister ( I wanted to ask why she disrespect you and why don't you tell your husband about it make dua Allah will give her Hidayat May Allah give you Saber
Aamiin
Ameen 💕
آ مین یا رب العالمین
I am thankful for this very inspirational lecture. I am learning Islam on my own. I am praying for guidance to know more about the ways of Islam. Inshallah
May Allah swt guide & honor you....
@@ExposingHindutva101
May almighty Allah guide to the right path…..
@sitna faraj
This is Beautiful Masha’Allah may Allah guide you Ameen
My extended family are toxic and manipulative bullies. As they've gotten older they seem to get worse and enjoin in upsetting us
with unpleasant nonsense. We're always stuck in situations where we have to cater to their needs, but when we need help in times of hardships or happiness they openly can't be bothered to help. It's a never ending cycle and I'm drained.
Distance yourself from them and the hurt and stress will lessen..see them on Eid or weddings and be very brief in your interaction don't give them time to ask or say much than a simple Eid Mubarak. Don't take their criticisms too seriously you must set boundaries.
Why do i always cry when listening to him i always come to his videos when im overwhelmed with depression and anxiety and try to put myself back together with the positive words he conveys about what ALLAH SWT said may he gets blessed with a lot here and in hereafter
Ameen
There will be disagreements and many challenges but sometimes relations become so toxic that it is necessary to maintain a distance give time to each other to calm down and see light towards right direction
@Go Transcript dude what’s confusing you about my comment is it the words of light towards the right direction ? The direction is the controlling of anger and not getting vile calming down restores sense I’m a MUSLIM toxic relations are in every community where does Christianity come in my comment
@Go Transcript I’m a Muslim Alhamdulilah and pray many more join our religion and achieve success here and in the hereafter ameen
So is it allowed to get distant coz of those toxic relations, with no reciprocation and being taken for granted. Can you try to have minimal communications with such people coz getting close to them has always led to trouble
I came across this video while trying to learn more about Islam. 22:47 hit me hard. I needed to hear that. As a single father fighting on multiple fronts, this gave me the feeling to carry on in my path.
Thanks!
I hv tried hard all my life. Now I have a right to myself n my child. I can’t be part of a toxic evil family . I hv a responsibility to provide my child an opportunity to be around good pious people n learn how to live a normal life. May Allah give me the strength n enough time .Ameen .
Summa Ameen
Please keep good ties with your family how ever hard it may be is very crucial for a muslim.may Allah heal your heart
Alhamdulillah. Im having a very hard time to communicate and solve the internal problems with my dad. May Allah grant us strength to endure our challenges in life. Amin
May Allah bless families and make it easier for parents. Aameen
Aameen
@A. Khan Are you able to go to your parents for a bit to help with the mental distress it might be causing you.
Maybe that might help you to think about things.
They shouldn't be disrespecting especially your husband.
May Allah resolve your issues.
@A. Khan salaam alaykum sister, may Allah ease your problems as we are all tested in different ways the almighty has ordained. It may not be best to ask for advice from comment sections of any sort as they can sometimes be misleading. Put your trust in Allah and hold firm to the Qur'an, try and understand it when reading as it holds solutions these worldy problems we face. May Allah make it easy for us all. Aameen
"There is no beauty better than intellect" ( Prophet Muhammad). Qur'an has all the answers to resolve any problem we are facing but we need to pay attention to it. If we follow the teachings of Qur'an, somewhere inside our heart there is a satisfaction for everything we do. This satisfaction consoles a heart and relaxes a soul. ALHUMDULILLAH and I am greatly thankful to Allah for everything that He bestowed upon me; the most beautiful form of rizq is not only money, but it's also tranquility of a soul, healthiness of a body, purity of a heart, soundness of thoughts and a beautiful soul full of Emaan. ALHUMDULILLAH!
هل هذا الشيخ عربي ام لا فإني اراه يلبس ملابس عربية مثلنا نحن العرب
s this Sheikh Arab or not, I see him wearing Arab clothes like us Arabs
@@لاحولولاقوةإلابالله-م5ض Mufti Menk lives in, Zimbabwe, Africa, as far as I remember.
@@لاحولولاقوةإلابالله-م5ض 🙄 these clothes are hijabs just like the niqab is not just for Saudi women!
@@Tata-mt7ue I do not understand
@@لاحولولاقوةإلابالله-م5ض clothes, or any other things don't matter, the only thing that matters is his individual personality; his thoughts and his guidance. May Allah bless Mufti Menk with everything that he desires for.
My mother is Catholic, I am Muslim. I lost my father over 8 years ago. My mother is so unhappy, agitated angry, and lonely. I visit everyday/ every other to support her with finances, cleaning and shopping. My husband on his day off work attends my mother's home with me to also help my mother, but she becomes even more upset. I leave my mother's home exhausted and upset as I am unable to pray, as she does not understand the deen. I am trying so hard to help her, as she too also looked after me.
Stay strong dear sister. Do your best but don’t go out of your way to the point it affects your own mental health and peace of mind. She will come round, you can pray for her hidaya till her last breath. To have this hope is actually recommended. It’s a different story after she passes away, then it is upto Allah. May Allah make ease🌹
May Allah make it easy for you
Don’t worry dear your all good deeds will be answered in after this short life.
May Allah bless her and guide to Islam
You're such a good daughter
I'm tired Mufti :'( since I was a child my parents always fight up until now. Still we don't know what to do. But I believe in one thing if something happens today that will break our heart, I believe that it all happened because of the qadr of allah. We will just strengthen our beliefs and prayers.
It hurts like hell when your mother is doing wrong with you
It's hard to have a healthy relationship with your mother when she constantly shows you she has disdain for you. It's difficult to live like this.
You are loved by Allah. Send lots of salawat upon the Prophet saw constantly. Hopefully this will help ❤️
I can understand what you are saying, but what ever reason she is being like that towards u, but still she is your mother. You be nice to her help her as much as u can
@@barisomed1650 that's rubbish lot of people use to tell me the same she is your mother she is your mother I had been patient for so long but she had ruined my life my mother burn in hell fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I understand, trust me but take it from a regretful adult daughter with nobody's support right now other than the almighty, don't ever estrange your mother because nothing is permanent. May you be blessed!
@@ip3931 same, totally agree with you .
i try so hard... i try to speak softly, i try to be respectful and obedient... all i ask is my own life... i dont want to live away from my parents, i want to live with them but do what i want, have a life that i want.... if i want to be independent let me be... i wont do anything wrong,... i just want the same freedom that my sister has.. why is it that she can come and go anywhere and whenever she wants but i cant.... we both are adults.
What I love about these videos is that you dont get the answers to your personal problems but instead; you get the formula to the solutions which you can apply any situation.
Allah swt grant us all ease. Ameen
Ameen Allah Humma Ameen🤲🏼
I love this man may Allah guide him with protection, God bless you.
I just feel like family is tireding and toxic...best family is the family u make on ur own
Daily Dhikr Reminder 🌻🌹Bismillah
1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah
3. La illaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar
Ameen🤲🏼
@@silviehaqiqi-activist9499 may Allah swt bless you for saying the dhikr
Am also a christian and I listen to Him always, I love his teachings
Whenever I listen to mufti menk molana tariq jameel sahab nouman ali khan and dr zakir naik I love to listen...it motivates me gives me strength I feel much strong and always I remember my nani ammi she use to advice for such motivational lectures. Thank you sir. I really love my nani ammi she was an inspiration to me she passed away may alllah forgive all her sins and grant her jannat. Plz make dua for my nani ammi I cried a lot I lost her. Mufti menk aap jaise neik log hai jiski vajah se duniya qayam hai.
Yes especially molana tariq jameel motivates a lot and made our belief more strong and all others too
May Allah bless your nani and forgive all sins and open window of heaven for her
May Allah grant Nani ammi janna tul Firdaus
@@zainabmohammed9993 aameen summa aameen.
@@zainabmohammed9993 Thank you zainab.
@@islamonly30 aameen summa aameen Thank you.
I am Hindu from India and I like his teachings
May Allah swt grant you Guidance....
I am a Christian but I always follow his video and listening his all lectures and very informative about in Islam way.❤
Preach it my brother we could use a brother like you in our community I tell you it's needed I am praying for this may God grant you mercy I am a Christian but I love your teaching
I am a Christian but this video was exactly what I needed. My son was very disrespectful to me but I forgive him.
4:40 -5:14 I can relate,it destroyed my childhood literally.
May Allah give us all sabr to deal with our problems
Islam is such a beautiful practice to have in your life. I love mufti I respect him so much
Islam is the right path, Allah to guide you…Inn Shaa Allah
Joining all other Christians here, love this guy haha, some things make sense regardless of religion
My first comment: Thank you Mufti Menk. I am sharing to my family
15:15
Children treat with respect
15:43 16:18
***Jealousy between brother’s wife’s **
16:57 Family Importance - Muslim or non-Muslim
17:52 dry log 🪵😂😂😢
22:51 🏠👨👩👧👩👩👦👦👦👶👧🧒🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋
27:05 verbal abuse 🛑🙊🌷🌹🌸🌞🌈🎂
30:10 **Don’t involve others***
31:05: don’t cut within 3 days
31:15 Eid day - make an effort to cousins know each other
Baraqallahufik Mufti Menk. Aamiin Allahumma Aamiin.
Dealing them likee hell oh my Allah what a biggest test.. May Allah ease me take me away from my heartless family.
I make the same dua🤲🏻
May Allah SWT grant you a good spouse and you can move far from them
May Allah swt give us Guidance...
Don't curse them..... Pray for them
May Allah swt grant us love, respect towards one another within our family members & keep us blessed & happy in this world & hereafter..
Alhamdulillah for an Islamic scholar is speaking, preaching and adressing people in English, in the language of the World. This is a blessing, a mercy of God for humanbeings..
May Allah swt grant you good health success and more respectful life.... We love you Mufti Menk........from India
I.... have problems with my parents,. They do not understand about me having freedom after hard work. and they always say things like i am 10. but i'm 30 :( But this speech calm me down. thank you :)
I have so many family problems, don't even know where to begin or start. Years have passed and nothing has changed or will ever change. I'm tired
May Allah ease your difficulties, grant you guidance & keep you blessed in this world & hereafter...
@@ExposingHindutva101 Ameen
May Allah bless you and your family you are a wonderful person and a great scholar. Ma Sha Allah
Jazaka Allah Sheikh for talking about this topic.
So many parents treat their children unfairly and it creates much hate within the family.
MashAllah may Allah purify our heart from every physical and spiritual diseases. Aamen 🤲🏿
Aamiin.
Allahuma Amin
Allah Hu Akbar
Ameeen
MashaAllah TabarakAllah feekum May Allah protect us from hell fire Ameen
Mashallah May Allah help us all to do the right thing ameen
Parents are mainly the cause of family problems. Parents aren't fulfilling their duties and don't know what means to be a parent it all starts from the base it isn't strong enough things won't carry on as firmly as possible. I'm not saying this to dishonor any parents out there or mine but simply to point out the obvious.
I pray to Allah to help individuals that are enduring hardship within their families
sad....but it true
Well said my friend , I am going through civil war in my family, almost I am destroyed by my brothers having nothing, most people try to deny this true but unfortunately this is fact, jazakallah hiran mufti, I pray for you long life
@@wonderworld3021 only people that are experiencing this disaster can relate, families are destroying those who are beloved to them without realizing it. I pray that you find hope in whatever you are dealing
@@alhassane7758 , thanks very much, from my broken heart 🙏
Ameen
I was physically and verbally abused by parents and brothers my whole life, my brothers are all almost 30 I’m the 4th oldest out of nine siblings alhamdulillah I have married and settled and have 2 children but I try my best to help my mum as my dad has passed on because I believe in Islam you’re supposed to look after your parents but sometimes my mum doesn’t appreciate what I do for her she always wants more considering my brothers do nothing for her they just sit at home all day and don’t work and I buy food often for them, my mum curses me still as well and says I’ll never be happy in my life if I don’t help her, what do I do in this instance as this had affected my mental health really bad 😣
I Pray for things to go better Alhamdulallah.May Allah guide us 🙏
I would say that you should still help and give love to your mother, take her curse as a blessing if your siblings don't care for your mother as they should don't worry about it, you do your share.
You are doing the right thing look after your mother … may Allah make it easy for you Ameen
Don’t help her
U r definitely doing a very good thing…in the eyes of Allah u r indeed the best child of ur parents…they recognise or not doesnt matter… u keep doing the good work… u will be rewarded… soon in the world or the hereafter….❤
I regret why I forced myself to be close with my siblings, and currently More than sometimes I don’t understand how I was stupid when I realised they are my enemies they already destroyed my family, marriage abused my children and permanently damaged my family
I relate. Relate way toooo much. I hope you are okay
Allah is with me every moment 💌
Thank you so much. ❤ it really changed my mind I was going through tough time i endured it alone. I didn't shared it to anyone except allah❤. May allah grant you highest rank in jannah
may allah bless you mufti menk with happyness and patience in bringing the people together and making the world a safe home for mankind
Allah gives different sustenance and tests to each and everyone of us.I am grateful to Allah for what I have and what I don't have.
My parents don’t pray salah pls make dua may Allah swt guide them …
May Allah grant us ease 🤲 Ameen
Mwenyezi mungu atujalie tuwe katika watu waliokuwa na imani na roho ya kusamehe yaarabi ameen 🙏🙏
im christian too..thanks i didnt forget my fahter always tell us dont get jealous because this is dangerous as you grow up...thanks god he give me a good parent to guide us and love us in failure and success they support us thats why may be were old now but still we have peace in our family..thanks for reminding me about my father...im glad that i see your video everyday mufti menk i salute you spread the love and more power to encourage people..
May Allah swt grant you Guidance
Alhamdullilah.Allah took something from me but it is a blessing in disguise.
As a Christian, this is an amazing message. My brother and his now wife caused so much unnecessary stress in order to steal my My Moms Inheritence and My inheritanceb (From my Late Father's estate) for their own gain. My brother's spouse has caused just as much division as my own brother, Completely destroying the Fabric of the Family Unit as you say. Great video and Very Well said, Mufti. May the Lord deal with them.
I Invite you to say 💚
Alhamdullilah 💚
La illaha ila Allah 💚
Subhana'Allah 💚
Thank you very much for showing me the Islamic way on how to handle family problems. Alh this came exactly at the right time, as my heart felt heavy, not knowing what to do.
MAY PEACE AND BLESSINGS OF ALLAH SUBHANAHU WA TA'ALA BE UPON OUR BELOVED PROPHET MOHAMMAD SWALALLAHU ALLEYHI WASALLAM HIS FAMILY AND ALL HIS COMPANIONS
We are so thankful for you my sheikh mufti menk..I love you for the sake of Allah
How u give qootba and adwaa mashaallah your blessed my sheikh..he’s the calmest perfect person I have ever heard give out a good speech a good daawa
May Allah continue blessing you and may he forgive u inshaallah ya Allah bless him for my sake ..he’s literally the best sheikh of my time take it to Allah if u Doubt me ❤️🙏🙏
I am definitely reminded of the deen by your lectures 😊Alhamdulillah it gives me some sort of peace of mind
By simply saying I am Muslim around my phone and begin to pray regularly these videos have come through my thread. I appreciate your words to help me further understand. I really don't want to speak English anymore and it is difficult when I feel as if I have no choice I put the energy out there that I am going against something and people still try and talk to me when I don't even know them. It's like they know it I am ready to meet Allah SwT. .
Love you mufti menk. Your beautiful voice when reciting is a gift to hear. Your voice when you talk is so relaxing and I love watching you speak. Your knowledge is beyond mine and I just wanna thank you for teaching me so much at my young age.
As a Hindu I can see that whatever your pathway to God you come across challenges that are common. You give advice beautifully. Allah bless you. I would love to hear you talk about the Importance of living with All in peace and harmony. Why do we use religion to divide us? Yet all religions teach us to be loving .Thank you.
Truth spoken plainly. Thank you sir !!
Never have I related this much to a video. Subhanallah!!
You are an Angel on this Earth. Jazak Allah kher
He is so humble and polite very good explanation
Jazaak Allah Khair my dear Sheikh for such a beautiful talk on such an important topic. May Allah be pleased with you and bless you and your family. Aameen
Mufti Menk is the best motivational speaker!
assalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu Uztad Mufti
Qur'an is the best solution/answer for our problems in different situations.
May Almighty Allah grant us
guidance and protection Ameen 🤲❤️
My husband Muhammad Zahoor Sahib is very unwell. Pray for him. May Allah grant him complete healing. Amen.
May Allah swt give him quick healing , and bless him
May almighty Allah give him shiffaa…pray for quick recovery
Thank you so mach ❤❤
It is a very nice video when you pray to allah soon you’ll be very close to allah and as you said in the before video in the Ramadaan let allah bless you and give whatever you want and let allah make you safe from enemies 😇😇
I'm impressed and and proud to be a Muslim because I admire and follow the Noble Qur'an that makes bewildered of the facts of his creation which are not disputed by the greatest living Scientist and Hadees narrated by Bro Mufti
Alhamdhulilla, Alhamdhulilla...
Dear Bro's & Sister's...
Iam job less for more than a year and now our situation is ???, Please make your dua in all your prayers for me and family...
Jazaak Allah Khair.....
Start reading tahajjod prayer, in shaa Allah you will be surprised how things will change in shaa Allah
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Masha Allah this is good for me may Allah bless you shaik
Jazak Allah khairan shaikh. May Allah Subhanahu Tala grant you immense rewards and give us the ability to take lessons from it. Aameen Summa Aameen
This was such an eye opening lecture. Thank you so much for this.
BarakAllaahu fee for this lecture.🤲
May Allah guide my father who destroyed my life and my future
May Allah bless you!
May Allah 🤲🤲reward you for this beautiful speech.💐💐💐💐👍👍👍👍👍👍
May Allah bless you
May Allah bless us all☺
اَلسَّلاَمْ عَلَيْــــــــــــــــــــكُمْ وَ رَحْمَةُ اللہِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
Sheikh, you look so tired! May Allah swt grant you good health and Barakah always.
Jazaakallah khayr sheikh
You are an excellent teacher, a pedagogue ! Your english is as nice to listen to as your words of wisdom, Islam. Your are just a brilliant preacher ! With you I am learning more about my religion and improving better my english !
Allah has tested me though me having a terrible family in my opinion in my house life I’m not aloud to even cry they don’t understand holding back tears is not healthy or even possible majority of the time
This is a valuable topic- many families have issues/dysfunctions and do not understand the basis. And of course, there is complexity in all human relationships. Each of us must persevere, keep seeking understanding, be open to change; and, develop true faith in the teachings of Islam. When components are in place, other parts will fall and fit into place.
Its been about a year since I last listened to you and this was the perfect time to come back. Thank you for this video!
May Allah bless you alot mufti Menk ❤️❤️❤️
Mufti you are advising the parents .
Advice us how to deal with this toxic family. I want peace. May Allah guide my family members ameen
Masha Allah, great teachings never dies
Your parents are either a test for you or a blessing and I pray everyone has loving parents because some of us never did. And it’s true this type of mental torture stays with you for life, in your own marriage and when you have kids, it’s almost like you have to change your way of thinking and learn again from step 1 at your adult age. May Allah swt guide and protect us all.
Thank you Mufti Menk, ur videos are a blessing !
Walaikum As Salaam r.t.b 🤲🏼
Peace and blessings be upon you too, very loving person Mufti Menk saheb Zindabad🕌🕋🌴