Cheating is an avoidant behavior

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ย. 2024
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  • @justinkantner
    @justinkantner 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Yep. My FA ex had a hard time to let go of certain "friends" that they had relationship with or were previously friends-with-benefits. A certain FWB person used to stay at their place for days at a time, often while i was pushed aside and almost friendzoned. They knew perfectly well I was NOT happy about the situation, but still did it. They also claimed I was jealous and controlling. Long time after, I found out that they had been making out and done oral sex during this time.. But still insisted they was just "friends".... Uh.. That still doesn't make it OK.

    • @sharchannel1836
      @sharchannel1836 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      DA's always say the non DA is jealous when they call them out on their bull..so glad they are an ex now and you living so much better and less stress ...they bring so much drama and stress

    • @rupertperiwinkle4477
      @rupertperiwinkle4477 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Curious why on earth you tolerated that poor behaviour?

    • @michaella5799
      @michaella5799 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Damn this is beta material. Remove yourself from the town bicycle and save whats left of your dignity.

    • @michaella5799
      @michaella5799 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Low self esteem much? Yikes

    • @rupertperiwinkle4477
      @rupertperiwinkle4477 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@michaella5799 yea the DA has low self esteem , low self worth

  • @sharchannel1836
    @sharchannel1836 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I had a feeling my DA ex was cheating when I was with them now I'm certain my intuition was correct after this video

    • @tankthearc9875
      @tankthearc9875 หลายเดือนก่อน

      they make it seem they are cheating when needing space and not texting back

  • @ChristineHarveyTKD
    @ChristineHarveyTKD 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It sucks. The lies, the deception, the betrayal, the humiliation is not worth it.
    No excuses.

  • @bandida99
    @bandida99 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Your stuff is really really good ! Thank you !!

  • @gedwardproudfoot5066
    @gedwardproudfoot5066 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Your stuff is good

    • @bandida99
      @bandida99 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree!!

  • @user-pw6gn1zt2d
    @user-pw6gn1zt2d 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Its too hurtful 😢

  • @beaker7353
    @beaker7353 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I found 2 condoms in my da ex avoident fiancé's glovebox. When we never used them. Stupid me never questioned him. He cleaned his car regularly. So there was no need to have them in there. Now I know my hunch was right. He had a toxic ex. Who he used to txt and speak to. Makes sense now. Thanks

  • @hayzinnaing3795
    @hayzinnaing3795 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you thank you thank you

  • @tankthearc9875
    @tankthearc9875 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    im anxious and iv cheated because my avoidant ex didnt like intimacy

  • @jordans03
    @jordans03 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yeaaaah my avoidant ex cheated on me while I was at my grandmother's funeral.... But avoidants deserve love right??? Goto hell

  • @josvel2344
    @josvel2344 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The hell it is their behavior.. don't give that poor excuse on why they did it..

  • @paulbennett6379
    @paulbennett6379 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Narcs people

  • @kelly.nicole
    @kelly.nicole 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yeah but you’re missing the fact that avoidant have a really hard time emotionally connecting fully with their partners… that’s why they cheat…. Because they think it’s their partner

  • @madalynwatkins1428
    @madalynwatkins1428 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lmao how can they feel good about themselves when they have to pay to cheat 😵‍💫😵‍💫

    • @tankthearc9875
      @tankthearc9875 หลายเดือนก่อน

      they get a rush of feeling wanted