A girl approached me at the gym yesterday to get my number. I have a girlfriend and obviously declined but I didn’t put her down or kill her confidence. Don’t be the reason someone gives up on looking for love.
Well more often than not, it's the people we loved and had a relationship with who make sure we give up on love. My ex gf did an excellent job on that 😂
If only women took that advice. Too many think a rejection is an opportunity to crush you, as if she’s doing a favor for other women by trying to make sure you don’t approach anyone else.
That's overblown. Don't let the worst case almost never happen hypothetical stop you from playing the game. And if it does, laugh in her rude face and walk away saying "I need to stop approaching mid brauds!!!" Screw with her head and get a laugh out of it.
@@michaelmaier7262Yeah what usually happens is her friends come over to her even though you’re just having a conversation. Not even doing anything creepy
I think... that is in relation to men beating up women. Hence, "where have all the good men gone". EDIT: Oh sorry, maybe this is in relation to the me too movement where men are SA-ing women. Hence "where have all the good men gone"?
Yeah I always tell guys just translate what women actually mean. Its obvious as hellz they just don't want YOU approaching them. If some tall handsome guy approached them you don't think they'd at least be happy? There's multiple videos online of women rejecting handsome men compared to ugly guys. When it's handsome guys, its obvious they feel so thankful someone approached them.
If the guy isn't even slightly awkward its because he's not emotionally invested. He's not emotionally invested because he's a player manipulating you for sex. This is the great irony of male female relationships. Women are attracted to confidence but men are most confident when they don't care.
You mean all the years I’ve put into becoming confident in speaking to women are gonna make me look not emotional invested? Damn I guess there’s no winning
Your comment is gold sir. The players don’t care, they know it’s # game for them. So they’re already on to the next one, maybe even right in front of the girl they just asked for her # from.
Ahahaaa, it's so true. When I met women whom I didn't really like and I behaved like a bad boy I always scored and most of the times they went batshit crazy in the bed and did everything I asked. On the other hand when I met women I really liked I only scored a few times, but most of the times I couldn't even get a date. 😂❤
You mean reciprocity? Nah, the ladies have proven they are pure selfish and think they should be worshipped. What ever you do, don't marry them under the current laws. Marriage only gives a man access to liability. You will be depriotized after she has kids. Then it's the end!
Pay: sure. I'll do that. Ask a guy out: first you guys need to lower your acceptance rate BY A LOT. By about the rate, you would ask someone out. I have no interest in getting into relationships with guys, that aren't that into me, but "she asked so why not?".
@@ThenameisNiels Those are *clear* signs someone doesn't want to be disturbed. Paying more attention to your phone than your surroundings is the modern equivalent.
You forgot the part where they also start filing with HR for “hostile work environment “ because no man at work wants to interact with them in a nonprofessional manner
The worst thing is not women who "hates" men approaching, it's women that directly accuse men that approach of doing some kind of offensive predatory bull$17. Like... talking is harmless
Man, there's limits to this. Just look up Luke Rockhold. Im sure he has no problem in the girls department, but he's managed to repel girls looking like a model and being a badass UFC champion.
And their reasons are things men have always dealt with: "What if he says no?" "I don't know what to say" "I don't want to embarrass myself" The one that I think is CRAZY is: "I don't want to seem desperate"
I agree I prefer when men approach me but I believe in return I should treat them with a level of respect even if reject them I should try to be nice about it unless they keep pestering.
Thank you! Kudos to your attitude. And, yes, as long as the man is respectful and easily takes "no" for an answer, this is how every woman should act. I've been hit on by women that I have absolutely no interest in, but I still act gracious and take it as a compliment
Last relationship was ten years ago. And it's been one burning train wreck after the other. With baggage cars full of emotional drama. And my sister wonders why I haven't settled down. 🙄
The first few approaches are brutal but once you get past 10-15 it starts to taper off and you can start saying bolder and bolder things. If you don't, unless your in a lucky social situation you won't ever date.
Here’s a resolution, let’s stop approaching women overall and just enjoy our peace as men. That’s way we can avoid being called a creep. Women think it’s so easy approaching them. It’s time they found out.
then they will call you a gay creep for avoiding a woman, or an incel, or a sexist, or a racist, or a false accusation about rape, or scream for help, or sue you for stalking because you breath the same atmosphere of air
Charisma is a skill that improves with practice, like any other skill. The Chad that smoothly hits you up has likely already hit up hundreds, if not thousands, of women before you. The Chuck that awkwardly talks to you likely only rarely, if ever, hits up women but decided that YOU were worth the shot. Let that sink in.
Right on spot girl! That is why so many women remain alone finally. Because their own inner system of criteria, actually diminishes their chance to meet a correct guy. The irony here, is that because they do not know their own criteria, thus they destroy their chances to meet a good man and they have no idea is their own fault!!! Thus set consciously your criteria and not whatever comes in your mind.
Women need to start approaching more and for one good reason. They wanted to be equal and to be equal means you share the risk that comes with initiating. Ladies you need to grow up and realize that the days of men doing 90 percent of the work in dating are on their way out. If you like a guy, then be the one to make the first move because if you don't some other woman eventually will.
This is how things are thease days. Double standards, little queen attitudes, and confusing. Also dangerous. If a guy says or does "the wrong thing" or looks the wrong way, he could wind up in jail. It's much safer nowadays to not even try. Just learn to live by yourself, avoid all of the head games, attitudes, and false self righteousness. It's better to live with the lonlyness, look the other way and try to learn to be alone in life.
@@jonathanfarley2023 Why is that profession illegal, anyway? I mean seriously, they keep everybody in check. From the politicians to the truckers on the road, they help everyone. I genuinely believe that its good for society if that was legalized. *Pimping* on the other hand, that should stay criminalized. I guess the issue is separating the two.
@@julianmitchell3035 I don't see why American men (and some fmnsts) don't work to legalize the oldest profession. It would benefit even men who do not partake, eve Christian men, as it would improve the behavior of all women by giving them competition. A man wouldn't have to put up with bad behavior from a girl and American women would have to bring more to the table than their bodies to get a man. It is legal in much of Europe. If one accepts that the oldest profession is legal, and if then a lady of the evening wants to establish a business relationship with someone else, I don't see the issue with that, either. If that other person, say, beats her or threatens to, that's already a crime.
The lost generation. A girl intentionally let the door swing at me today when I was entering the coffee shop and honestly, I smiled inside. I can hold my own door
Thank you. Too late for me though. I’ve already given up trying. The hostility and unfriendliness from so many women now is not worth the trouble anymore. Apologies to all the women out there who are not like that. Maybe it’s worse where I live.
I get male attention all the time. For the most part, being friendly and saying I'm not interested will do the trick. Most guys are really nice and mature. However, I do get the odd ones who don't understand "no," and they are creepy and scary. They are the ones who will get mad because they think they deserve something for trying so hard, except I don't know what to offer other than the same treatment I give everybody.
Ive always thought it was dehumanizing to women when men dont understand no. Its like telling them theyre too stupid to know what they want. That may or may not be true but still no way to treat someone. The other edge of that sword are the woman that enjoy the world burnt down in their name amd the dudes too happy to do so. I guess who wouldnt wanna feel like helen of troy? I would say even dudes.
I asked this girl for her number and she said," Sorry, but not interested." I was hoping if she did say no she would stop doing her habits of always being around me and staring. Idk wth her deal is. I ignore her the best I can in a respective way.
@@mujinfu5290 wait, I must be missing something... why do you want her number if you want her to stop starring and hanging around you? Wouldn't it be better to tell her not to do that?
@@soonny002 I don't dislike her but I asked because she seemed interested but if someone says they are not I was hoping she would end up stopping what she does. I don't want to waste my time or hers. Idk if it is attention, she has some things to work out, or I just have a stalker lol.
@@mujinfu5290 Oh, I get it now. My bad. Girls stare for many reasons, but usually not because they like you. They will only steal glances at you if they do. Starring usually means they are curious about something or if they feel intimidated for whatever reason. If you feel uncomfortable with her staring at you, I suggest politely asking her the next time you make eye contact, "Can I help you?" and see where that goes. But if you want to be funny and mysterious, next time, just wear a pair of shades when she's around and take them off when she's not. That'll definitely get her attention. Haha.
Good men don't approach anymore it's just not worth it the only guys that'll approach women now are the ones you definitely DON'T want to approach you (the actual creeps and players) no woman is worth going to jail over
Yes, this! I’m happily married for almost 27 years, but I’ve seen some of these posts from single women who want to protect themselves from bad men by shutting down ALL men, even from saying Hello to them. Yet they ask where all the good men are. The good men probably aren’t going to be found in bars when most people are thinking about hookups instead of solid relationships.
Schrodinger's cat. It must be convenient for you when everything and the opposite of everything is both good and bad, right and wrong, oppressive and empowering at the same time and waiting for you to choose
Correct, according to scientific studies there is a high risk of being falsely accused, losing your job, and going to jail. The whole "metoo" thing has completely destroyed dating.
@@pcpxbotendorastermace9948 Pretty much their entire future, All she has to do is yell out "STAY AWAY YOU CREEP!" and all you can do is say goodbye to your life because may luck be on your side that it'll ever be the same again
This style video slaps! Content = FACTS💯 But I'm talking about the STYLE. The mock convos to illustrate hypocrisy and absurdity. But just thinking about the time and effort it must like to write the dialog of 2 ppl, and then have her play both parts, including different hair & wardrobe, then there's all the editing. Passion and effort is sexy
I don’t approach , look, or talk to anyone and women especially. I keep to myself, too many weirdos. I’d rather be alone. I especially don’t need a woman’s false accusations . Too many false statements that wind up getting the guy in trouble with the law for no reason or in HR . Guys just stay single.
Yeah but especially just know where you stand in society. If you never have women approaching you, checking you out, starting random combos with you, touching you, flirting with you then you're unattractive. None of the "mixed signals" nonsense men try to use. Women don't give off mixed signals if they like you, it'll be obvious as hell because they will put you in a position to talk to them. So I'd say if that has never happened to you, just stop even trying to hope for validation because it won't come. Come to peace with it.
In the last 50 years, I've been approached twice by women. In both cases, I just remember being really impressed that they had the confidence to do it. It was almost intimidating because I'm not that confident.
Met my wife 25 years ago in college sitting by herself. I approached her and had lunch with her. Old fashioned way is best way. It shows the man has balls. Be assertive and start thinking like your grandparents generation. You’ll do better with women.
Hi my name is Jerry I'm an elderly man but I really love the way you do almost Street Theater to prove your points it's the best thing I've ever seen when it comes to feminism Gone Wild I'm definitely a proponent of feminism but something has just gone wrong I feel like man feel like they're trying to be dee bald keep up the good work
Besides who wants to approach a woman when she's drunk and impulsive. From what I've seen the past few years that could lead to an a sexual assault charge even though it was consensual at the time
Missing 100% of the shots you don't take like a champ! :D I don't blame you, brother. It can be really rewarding to find a good girl, but you gotta dredge the whole swamp, and there are gators in there.
Yeah, it's literally at the point where I had a girl yell at me for not approaching her. We ended up dating for a while but I was like, yall have made it so we don't want to approach you, cause some of you are just mean for no reason
I had super intense approach anxiety and stopped trying years ago. That being said, i do enjoy my alone time, yet sometimes people try to talk to me but i have zero interest in entertaining a conversation. It's the responsibility of both to be respectful, give the approaching person a way out that don't embarass him/her, and if you approach, pick up on signs that the other is not interested and disengage politely, don't be pushy, you gotta be ok with being rejected and show it when approaching, don't put any burden on the other.
If a man ever approaches me, I automatically think "my time has come" and do my best to not provoke them. I look like a 13 year old so it's so much worse, I've caught grown men checking me out and I feel so unsafe in public. I don't plan on dating men anytime soon
Okay the last part i agree with, but honestly, approach random people with the intention of trying to get with them is understandably weird, i think you should date people you, yknow, actually have met before and have talked to in the past, not complete random strangers.
She needs to have her own talk show❤ and plus write books on this topic and so many other topics she spoke about, she would save a lot of women and men out there that are brainwashed by extreme feminism & political B.S. Media that are mentally/emotionally destroying our society in obtaining in having a true love honest relationship with someone out there-which in turn- makes society get good in dating etc which would help grow society better as a whole❤😢😮🎉🎉🎉 in humanity 🌈
finding an adequate partner should not be "hi, i like you... lets go out for a dinner - BAAAAAM!". some social relation schould be a background... mutual friend that introduces you one to another, some interesting experience you share or some situation you are both engaged with... let it happen and let it flow... even some time should pass to see if there is a connection between you twos and if the feeling overwhelms you or not. any kind of fast and direct approach will only get you crashed faster but not crushed for good!
I actually had this happen when I was in High school. Freshman year. We had a mixer with another school. One of my girl classmates who was really cool deliberately introduced me to her friend from the other school. My classmate had done her homework about what I like too, brunette, blue eyes, looked fantastic in her cowgirl jeans. What did I do? Absolutely nothing. I had been moping all summer about a crush who moved away. I said hello to blue eyed cowgirl and walked on. By the time it sunk in, it was too late. *Facepalm*
Elaborate, Travis. I get that crossed arms and a sour look on her face are good indicators. But what else? Help your brothers avoid women like that. :)
Naw, I had a girl act nice toward me, I tried politely asking her out for lunch, but she called the police and made up false accusations. Just because she seems nice, that doesn't mean anything.
@@leolordful A better idea would be for guys to just try talking with gals and leave the flirting and romantic ideas out. Try to become their friend, and see where it goes from there. It's far safer too in many cases, because there's less heartbreak and less risk of false accusations if it doesn't work out. If it DOES work out, there's a much higher trust built up between the dating couple, and they'll understand each other better for the long term (crucial for any successful marriage should it get to that point). It's a win-win tactic for all fellas who can do it.
So sad...but this is the reality... Especially from an old 44-year-old's perspective. I'm glad to have grown up when I did. Back when the net was very open. I had pen pals on ICQ, AIM...all the way up into the Myspace days, where I met my wife. ...But? Yes! It takes very little, these days, to be considered 'creepy.' For instance, you can't just random friend invite people these days...and yet? That's all we did in the Myspace days because everybody's page was like a theme of someone's interest...and we can be like, "oh, sweet! You like that band too? What did you think about their latest album?" Or, "Nice photos! Did you take those? I use an EOS 5D, what's your camera of choice?" And things would go from there. Since then, it seems things have gone several steps forward, and now not only can you not really just random friend invite people, but as social media has made us more introverted and anti-social, it's almost like it's now creepy just to straight up approach a woman these days...or, more realistically? It's only creepy when the feelings aren't mutual. Not that I am in practice, by any means; I have been married for almost 15 years now, but it's plainly evident.... People just aren't as conversational, or as adept at handling conversations. I am so glad I am not having to do that, in this day and age. So, the question remains then: where are you supposed to meet people? You don't want to meet them at work, necessarily. A lot of people don't like to mix personal lives with business and so? There goes people that you spend most of the day with. With approaching a girl in public pretty much downright creepy anymore, and not being able to do it over social media...and let's not forget that malls, libraries/ bookstores are all but out, since nobody goes to either place anymore and even if they had? We're back to the "approaching women in public being creepy" thing...that pretty much only leaves you with school. So, if you weren't fortunate enough to find somebody at school? Your chances are very little now. You have to just somehow hope that you're waiting in the same line as somebody else and start chit-chatting about mutual frustrations, or something lame like that. You can take your chances at a bar/ club but we've always known that setting to be a major "no-no," for long term. ...And they wonder about population collapse and fewer and fewer people having kids. It's because everything becomes normalized: It becomes normal that approaching somebody is considered creepy, for instance. With it especially being creepy if the other person's not interested. So, my advice? Younger guys should seek older women that are in their 40s because the stuff was normal back then lol
A moment of silence for the death of lounges and other social gathering areas where striking up conversations with strangers is clearly expected and encouraged.
It definitely feels more organic that way, for sure. Question: How do you signal to those friends that you'd like to test out 'more than friends'? Or do you wait to see which guys you've made friends express interest?
Just don't approach strange women. Build up a large friend group and socialize. You'll have many close friends who you can approach without it being weird. It's better to date by growing a previously existing relationship rather than starting it off completely from scratch on a whim with a stranger. Approaching stranger only works for getting laid and never calling again. And you're better than that.
@@kanish9390 get more mature friends. Are you seriously friends with the type of people who'd completely reject you for simply possessing human sexual urges? Just don't be creepy. Be smooth and be open to any answer they give. Also, I'm not just talking about a close knit group of friends. I'm talking about becoming part of the entire community around you as a whole. Things like colleges or churches or even the local neighborhoods. Become a known part of the entire thing and have a good enough connection with everyone to where no one in the place is really a complete stranger. Cast a wide net without desperation. And I reiterate, be open and accepting of whatever answer she gives. Listen carefully. There's a difference between "ew", "I'm too busy", and "I'm shy". All of these in the moment are rejection but they require very different responses. She won't say these in exact words so pay attention.
@@zachkri8418 yeah. It's best to get to a certain talking term to someone and then ask them out before getting too close. It's like balancing a soda can, there's a right spot, that can't be explained, only experienced
This is a mindset I've had for years now as women get older and when they hit the wall, their SMV declines. My mindset I have at times as women hit the wall and their sexual market value declines is that I like to think of that as nature and Evolutions way of dealing women karma for all of the times they labeled a man creepy or weird or labeled a man a predator or just accused of making them feel uncomfortable just when the man was approaching them and making advances on them. Because a lot of men unfortunately get perceived that way negatively by women when many of those men had good intentions going into the interaction, they were never trying to hurt anyone and they never meant any harm but those men were just kind of socially awkward or socially inept. And the cruel thing about it is that women can get away with not being socially calibrated or women can get away with having their social awkwardness or social ineptness never be dismissed or be perceived as weird or creepy when interacting with the opposite sex. Women can get away with having poor social skills when interacting with the opposite sex, men can't get away with it. I know I'm in good company in which people agree with me and that is women don't risk having their social awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed or be perceived as weird or creepy when interacting with the opposite sex but men do unfortunately. So I like to think of that as nature and Evolutions way of dealing with karma for all of the times they reacted negatively towards men for approaching them or making advances on them when many of those men never meant any harm and would never have hurt a fly but they just didn't know any better socially. And it's the reminder that women can get away with having poor social skills or just being poorly socially calibrated, but men can't get away with it since nature and reality dictates that men have to do the pursuing and making advances. I'm aware that it makes sense as to why men are the only gender that get thrown the creepy label or the weird label or are the ones more likely to get labeled as making a member of the other sex being uncomfortable because men are on average physically bigger and stronger than women and because of that they can be perceived as a danger or a threat in a woman's eyes but the reverse is normally not true as much. But yeah overall I've had this mindset for years now that I like to think that as women lose their attractiveness or as their mate value declines I like to think of that as nature and Evolutions way for all of the times they reacted negatively to men when a lot of those men never meant any harm and were never trying to hurt anyone. They just didn't know any better socially, and like I said before, women can get away with not being smart socially or just having a poor social IQ, not understanding social cues or boundaries in regards to interactions with the other sex since women don't risk having their awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed or perceived as weird or creepy, or uncomfortable when interacting with the other sex. To sum it up it's not rejection that hurts it's the way that it happens that has the biggest impact. I know I'm in good company in which people agree with me that women don't risk having their social awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed or be perceived as weird or creepy or uncomfortable when interacting with the other sex. Women can get away with that but men can't unfortunately since the burden for all time of men always having to do the pursuing and chasing or making advances.
It's what happens in the movies, right? Girl is lonely, bumps into guy that is perfect, single, and ready to commit with no effort on her behalf. Bonus points if she makes a hideous mistake and he blows right past it like it's nothing.
A girl approached me at the gym yesterday to get my number. I have a girlfriend and obviously declined but I didn’t put her down or kill her confidence. Don’t be the reason someone gives up on looking for love.
Never! I hope that girl continues to look for love if that is what she wants. It's hard for anyone looking for love so be nice in case someone is.
That's an amazing statement. Don't be the reason someone stops looking for love
Kudos to you. That's an amazing statement
Well more often than not, it's the people we loved and had a relationship with who make sure we give up on love. My ex gf did an excellent job on that 😂
If only women took that advice. Too many think a rejection is an opportunity to crush you, as if she’s doing a favor for other women by trying to make sure you don’t approach anyone else.
It's way harder for men to approach women without being call a creep in public
That's overblown. Don't let the worst case almost never happen hypothetical stop you from playing the game. And if it does, laugh in her rude face and walk away saying "I need to stop approaching mid brauds!!!" Screw with her head and get a laugh out of it.
@@michaelmaier7262 I agree if she's said no I move on
@@michaelmaier7262Yeah what usually happens is her friends come over to her even though you’re just having a conversation. Not even doing anything creepy
@@Shadowgrace760 OK, fine. Give up and live in fear. That will do you a world of good.
@@michaelmaier7262 It’s a world of fear that’s actually known as reality.
'Pretty people flirt, ugly people harass.'
Chris Rock
I read that in his Marty voice.
Don't forget about the "Where have all the good men gone" rant after the fact. That one cracks me up. 😂
And "where are all the gods?"
Something about a streetwise Hercules...
@@Rapscallion2009 A fellow gen xer I see! Good song!
I think... that is in relation to men beating up women. Hence, "where have all the good men gone".
EDIT: Oh sorry, maybe this is in relation to the me too movement where men are SA-ing women. Hence "where have all the good men gone"?
🤔
@@soonny002 definitely not
"I hate when ugly guys approach me".
There, I fixed it for you 😂
Or broke... xD
@@isaactudurilabres1356 You can be broke but attractive and get away with it, most of the time.
Or short
Yea exactly
Yeah I always tell guys just translate what women actually mean. Its obvious as hellz they just don't want YOU approaching them. If some tall handsome guy approached them you don't think they'd at least be happy? There's multiple videos online of women rejecting handsome men compared to ugly guys. When it's handsome guys, its obvious they feel so thankful someone approached them.
If the guy isn't even slightly awkward its because he's not emotionally invested. He's not emotionally invested because he's a player manipulating you for sex. This is the great irony of male female relationships. Women are attracted to confidence but men are most confident when they don't care.
You mean all the years I’ve put into becoming confident in speaking to women are gonna make me look not emotional invested? Damn I guess there’s no winning
Your comment is gold sir. The players don’t care, they know it’s # game for them. So they’re already on to the next one, maybe even right in front of the girl they just asked for her # from.
Ahahaaa, it's so true. When I met women whom I didn't really like and I behaved like a bad boy I always scored and most of the times they went batshit crazy in the bed and did everything I asked. On the other hand when I met women I really liked I only scored a few times, but most of the times I couldn't even get a date. 😂❤
Underrated comment
You are making a point kind of
Women should approach men in 2024. And pay for dinner sometimes.
They have jobs now, it isn't the 1920s anymore.
It’s funny u say that cuz the last 2 dates I been on the woman payed for the date 😭😭
You mean reciprocity? Nah, the ladies have proven they are pure selfish and think they should be worshipped. What ever you do, don't marry them under the current laws. Marriage only gives a man access to liability. You will be depriotized after she has kids. Then it's the end!
@@SojuStay always down for free food 😏
Pay: sure. I'll do that.
Ask a guy out: first you guys need to lower your acceptance rate BY A LOT. By about the rate, you would ask someone out. I have no interest in getting into relationships with guys, that aren't that into me, but "she asked so why not?".
Spot on LOL 🙋
There actually is study that says, that couples that meet in bars are more likely to fail.
That one does not require a study💀
Yess a 100% sure
No way, you needed a study to conclude with the fact that romance based on intoxication is destined to fail?
@@OriginalPuro That is how most people get on relationships here in Finland, so yeah i guess it was needed. 60% divorce rate btw
@@OriginalPuro Obviously not but it's nice to have a study that backs up the obvious
When women approach me, i run. slowly....
Fr, trust issues starts hitting hard.
It just so strange, like if the food is poisoned.
I carry a prenup in my poche intérieure.
That’s dumb you shouldn’t be such a coward
looking for the camera
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I am so glad I came of age in the 1980’s. People actually talked to one another.
And it was so natural and easy... I feel sad for young people.
Lucky you nowadays people are completely F##ked
just exchange the phone with a newspaper, or indeed anything,like a magazine.,
so lucky
@@ThenameisNiels
Those are *clear* signs someone doesn't want to be disturbed. Paying more attention to your phone than your surroundings is the modern equivalent.
You forgot the part where they also start filing with HR for “hostile work environment “ because no man at work wants to interact with them in a nonprofessional manner
What? In what universe would any halfway decent HR department even take a “claim” like that remotely seriously?? 😂
@@relser187When HR is run by the same type of women.
@@jameskittrell6486 which is all of them.
@@relser187
You are joking right? If you're not joking you're either a White Knight or you're one of those kind of women.
Be weird and creepy: HR filing
Be suave: she’ll find ways to make it happen
Exactly. They don’t even know what they want but expect us to be mind readers and know what they want. Unbelievable
Exactly they want us to read their fcking minds I’m not professor X 🤣 and then when they do give us signs they’re vague as sht
I've always had a cardinal rule to NEVER date a girl you met at a club or bar. Those women are looking for a good time, not life partners.
The worst thing is not women who "hates" men approaching, it's women that directly accuse men that approach of doing some kind of offensive predatory bull$17. Like... talking is harmless
If there's one thing I've learned living in a leftist utopia, it's that words are volence.
And so is silence.
You polluted her energy with your dirty aura
trying to talk your way into her pants isn't harmless you creep
Men are held accountable if she "feels uncomfortable".
Why am I responsible for her feelings?
@@protorhinocerator142you sound like a potential sex offender even tho i'm sure you already have multiple times.
Guys remember its only creepy or the wrong time if youre ugly. If youre handsome you can say whatever you want and get away with it
Pretty privilege works on everyone. A hot girl gets away with a *lot* of nonsense.
Man, there's limits to this. Just look up Luke Rockhold. Im sure he has no problem in the girls department, but he's managed to repel girls looking like a model and being a badass UFC champion.
@@fil4648nah they can get away with murder
Nope, as a handsome man i still get called creepy all the time
So you’re telling me that I have absolutely no chance then?
Okay, thanks.
I agreea ..alot of women dont understand how hard it is fro men who approach women they dont know because women tend to never do the approaching 🤔
and then there are weirdo women like me who mostly do the approaching because a guy seems interesting :3 I know my type is (sadly) rare, but we exist
@@FeldiArts thanks for ur honesty..I hope u find ur someone soon
@@Mateo_Vert no worries, I'm already good. I hope you'll find someone that makes you mutually happy.
And their reasons are things men have always dealt with:
"What if he says no?"
"I don't know what to say"
"I don't want to embarrass myself"
The one that I think is CRAZY is: "I don't want to seem desperate"
@@Metatarsus0 Yeah that's me...but also I never get approached by guys too
Guess I m too ugly for dating😕
The irony is that she'd start crying if the "creeps" on IG stopped following, liking and commenting her shit.
Honestly? They should. But they'd also have their IG girlies doing it, too, and might not notice.
I agree I prefer when men approach me but I believe in return I should treat them with a level of respect even if reject them I should try to be nice about it unless they keep pestering.
Certainly. Never act in a way that will make men never want to look anymore for love if they are looking for love
Having the women hold up her end of the bargain is becoming as rare as water in the Gobi
Thank you! Kudos to your attitude. And, yes, as long as the man is respectful and easily takes "no" for an answer, this is how every woman should act. I've been hit on by women that I have absolutely no interest in, but I still act gracious and take it as a compliment
Isn't that just Not Completely Sucking 🫏 ⚾️🥎 as a Human Being 101?
@@seanryan3020 pretty much
For real!!! Some girlies need called out for this mindset
Did you just say girlies…..
Sus
My first approach in high school was so brutal I gave up for 9 years lol
16 years for me, going strong.
I am 33 and I can't remember when my last date was.
What's a date?@@leolordful
Last relationship was ten years ago. And it's been one burning train wreck after the other. With baggage cars full of emotional drama. And my sister wonders why I haven't settled down. 🙄
The first few approaches are brutal but once you get past 10-15 it starts to taper off and you can start saying bolder and bolder things. If you don't, unless your in a lucky social situation you won't ever date.
Here’s a resolution, let’s stop approaching women overall and just enjoy our peace as men. That’s way we can avoid being called a creep. Women think it’s so easy approaching them.
It’s time they found out.
Personally, if I enjoyed socializing with new people, I'd have no problem. But, I don't. I hate people I don't know.
then they will call you a gay creep for avoiding a woman, or an incel, or a sexist, or a racist, or a false accusation about rape, or scream for help, or sue you for stalking because you breath the same atmosphere of air
@@coomercommander2554 None of them will say anything to your face. They will all vent online about it
@@coomercommander2554 I will literally die in the electric chair due to false rape allegations then admit to shit I didnt do
They gonna see me in hell
That's actually a good idea. I wish men stayed away from us so that we would be much more at peace.
Charisma is a skill that improves with practice, like any other skill. The Chad that smoothly hits you up has likely already hit up hundreds, if not thousands, of women before you. The Chuck that awkwardly talks to you likely only rarely, if ever, hits up women but decided that YOU were worth the shot. Let that sink in.
Right on spot girl! That is why so many women remain alone finally. Because their own inner system of criteria, actually diminishes their chance to meet a correct guy. The irony here, is that because they do not know their own criteria, thus they destroy their chances to meet a good man and they have no idea is their own fault!!! Thus set consciously your criteria and not whatever comes in your mind.
This was like the girl who got all upset because I was bothering her. Then she got even more upset when I ignored her.
"The Worst She Can Say Aint No" comes to mind. 😂
Ha some won’t even do that they just ghost 🤣
"How do those relationships tend to go?" The fact there's enough of them to form a tendency is pretty much the answer... 😂
Women need to start approaching more and for one good reason. They wanted to be equal and to be equal means you share the risk that comes with initiating. Ladies you need to grow up and realize that the days of men doing 90 percent of the work in dating are on their way out. If you like a guy, then be the one to make the first move because if you don't some other woman eventually will.
This is how things are thease days. Double standards, little queen attitudes, and confusing. Also dangerous. If a guy says or does "the wrong thing" or looks the wrong way, he could wind up in jail.
It's much safer nowadays to not even try. Just learn to live by yourself, avoid all of the head games, attitudes, and false self righteousness. It's better to live with the lonlyness, look the other way and try to learn to be alone in life.
Or: invent fembots, legalize the oldest profession
@@jonathanfarley2023 Why is that profession illegal, anyway? I mean seriously, they keep everybody in check. From the politicians to the truckers on the road, they help everyone. I genuinely believe that its good for society if that was legalized. *Pimping* on the other hand, that should stay criminalized.
I guess the issue is separating the two.
@@julianmitchell3035 I don't see why American men (and some fmnsts) don't work to legalize the oldest profession. It would benefit even men who do not partake, eve Christian men, as it would improve the behavior of all women by giving them competition. A man wouldn't have to put up with bad behavior from a girl and American women would have to bring more to the table than their bodies to get a man.
It is legal in much of Europe.
If one accepts that the oldest profession is legal, and if then a lady of the evening wants to establish a business relationship with someone else, I don't see the issue with that, either. If that other person, say, beats her or threatens to, that's already a crime.
Not even that hard to live by yourself. I've got plenty to keep me busy. Got my patch of land, a good dog, life's golden.
@@julianmitchell3035 TH-cam deleted my response. A coalition of men and fmnsts could legalize it a la much of Europe.
The lost generation. A girl intentionally let the door swing at me today when I was entering the coffee shop and honestly, I smiled inside. I can hold my own door
quick thinking
I can buy myself flowers,write my name in the sand...
@@charlieangusgoodboy8326 that’s an impressive skill set
Never EVER approach!
Thank you. Too late for me though. I’ve already given up trying. The hostility and unfriendliness from so many women now is not worth the trouble anymore. Apologies to all the women out there who are not like that. Maybe it’s worse where I live.
You need to be at least 6 feet tall and good looking, my guy😂😂
I get male attention all the time. For the most part, being friendly and saying I'm not interested will do the trick. Most guys are really nice and mature.
However, I do get the odd ones who don't understand "no," and they are creepy and scary. They are the ones who will get mad because they think they deserve something for trying so hard, except I don't know what to offer other than the same treatment I give everybody.
Ive always thought it was dehumanizing to women when men dont understand no. Its like telling them theyre too stupid to know what they want. That may or may not be true but still no way to treat someone. The other edge of that sword are the woman that enjoy the world burnt down in their name amd the dudes too happy to do so. I guess who wouldnt wanna feel like helen of troy? I would say even dudes.
I asked this girl for her number and she said," Sorry, but not interested." I was hoping if she did say no she would stop doing her habits of always being around me and staring. Idk wth her deal is. I ignore her the best I can in a respective way.
@@mujinfu5290 wait, I must be missing something... why do you want her number if you want her to stop starring and hanging around you? Wouldn't it be better to tell her not to do that?
@@soonny002 I don't dislike her but I asked because she seemed interested but if someone says they are not I was hoping she would end up stopping what she does. I don't want to waste my time or hers. Idk if it is attention, she has some things to work out, or I just have a stalker lol.
@@mujinfu5290 Oh, I get it now. My bad.
Girls stare for many reasons, but usually not because they like you. They will only steal glances at you if they do. Starring usually means they are curious about something or if they feel intimidated for whatever reason.
If you feel uncomfortable with her staring at you, I suggest politely asking her the next time you make eye contact, "Can I help you?" and see where that goes.
But if you want to be funny and mysterious, next time, just wear a pair of shades when she's around and take them off when she's not. That'll definitely get her attention. Haha.
Between creep-shaming, Me 2, and false SA/SH/grape accusations, it’s a wonder that guys approach at all
among other things
We have to approach regardless of the risk of this occurring.
@@jerryscanas I don't have to do anything, and the reasons I cited are the reasons I only approach women when I'm outside my home country (USA)
Good men don't approach anymore it's just not worth it the only guys that'll approach women now are the ones you definitely DON'T want to approach you (the actual creeps and players) no woman is worth going to jail over
60% of men have stopped asking out women completely.
Yes, this! I’m happily married for almost 27 years, but I’ve seen some of these posts from single women who want to protect themselves from bad men by shutting down ALL men, even from saying Hello to them. Yet they ask where all the good men are. The good men probably aren’t going to be found in bars when most people are thinking about hookups instead of solid relationships.
“How do those relationships tend to go”
🤔
Exactly 👍
So approach, but then don't approach. Got it LOL
Approach only if you are really hot guy and her type. How do know if you are her type? Who knows.
Yeah... we're fucked
@@spqr1945exactly 🤣
It's a flow chart that never goes anywhere
A girl got in my DMs this week. Here to say it’s definitely possible yall, just have a little faith and keep improving yourself.
Sure it is
It's also possible to win a lottery, but should lottery winners encourage other people to buy and scratch tickets?
Yeah like you got the thing you wanted all your life and it will make you perfect
This video gave me 0.5% more incentive to approach any woman
I'll probably continue to just enjoy my own company. I like being with me.
Schrodinger's cat. It must be convenient for you when everything and the opposite of everything is both good and bad, right and wrong, oppressive and empowering at the same time and waiting for you to choose
Wait until the cat meows
The first mistake was trying to get her to see it from another perspective, the second was expecting a logical arguement to be effective. 😂😂😂😂😂
Men risk a LOT more than just hearing "No" when approaching a woman.
Correct, according to scientific studies there is a high risk of being falsely accused, losing your job, and going to jail. The whole "metoo" thing has completely destroyed dating.
Yup
Care to explain more on this? Lol
@@pcpxbotendorastermace9948 Pretty much their entire future, All she has to do is yell out "STAY AWAY YOU CREEP!" and all you can do is say goodbye to your life because may luck be on your side that it'll ever be the same again
As an introvert who doesn't have experience with girls (Arab) I don't know why your shorts make me feel better😃
This style video slaps! Content = FACTS💯 But I'm talking about the STYLE. The mock convos to illustrate hypocrisy and absurdity. But just thinking about the time and effort it must like to write the dialog of 2 ppl, and then have her play both parts, including different hair & wardrobe, then there's all the editing. Passion and effort is sexy
I don’t approach , look, or talk to anyone and women especially. I keep to myself, too many weirdos. I’d rather be alone. I especially don’t need a woman’s false accusations . Too many false statements that wind up getting the guy in trouble with the law for no reason or in HR . Guys just stay single.
Yeah but especially just know where you stand in society. If you never have women approaching you, checking you out, starting random combos with you, touching you, flirting with you then you're unattractive. None of the "mixed signals" nonsense men try to use. Women don't give off mixed signals if they like you, it'll be obvious as hell because they will put you in a position to talk to them. So I'd say if that has never happened to you, just stop even trying to hope for validation because it won't come. Come to peace with it.
They expect only the guys they want to approach. Everyone else is called a creep.
Facts!!!! Only guys they find attractive!
In the last 50 years, I've been approached twice by women. In both cases, I just remember being really impressed that they had the confidence to do it. It was almost intimidating because I'm not that confident.
Met my wife 25 years ago in college sitting by herself. I approached her and had lunch with her. Old fashioned way is best way. It shows the man has balls. Be assertive and start thinking like your grandparents generation. You’ll do better with women.
Interesting, thanks for sharing
Hi my name is Jerry I'm an elderly man but I really love the way you do almost Street Theater to prove your points it's the best thing I've ever seen when it comes to feminism Gone Wild I'm definitely a proponent of feminism but something has just gone wrong I feel like man feel like they're trying to be dee bald keep up the good work
Besides who wants to approach a woman when she's drunk and impulsive. From what I've seen the past few years that could lead to an a sexual assault charge even though it was consensual at the time
If she gets drunk, that should be a RED FLAG. It means she lacks self-control and is unpredictable in her actions.
Its not that they're busy and bothered it's that they get off on the power of being dismissive and disgusted.
In other words “I only want to be approached by and receive attention from the men I WANT.”
You are so good at pointing out the double standards and inconsistencies of modern dating..
The dam double standard of women and unrealistic expectations...
This has looped at least 15 times while I contemplate the nature of the bendy carrot necklace. Maybe a tornado? Water spout?
oh so all the women i talk to. women are very busy these days.
Busy for guy they’re not interested in but get a guy they like they have all time in the world for him
I never approached a girl. Feels like 100% success
Missing 100% of the shots you don't take like a champ! :D
I don't blame you, brother. It can be really rewarding to find a good girl, but you gotta dredge the whole swamp, and there are gators in there.
@@DavidFrost9992 got few none of them were good enough
Yes man, same, works too well
Honesty is gold these days
This is why I don’t approach anyone
Yeah, it's literally at the point where I had a girl yell at me for not approaching her. We ended up dating for a while but I was like, yall have made it so we don't want to approach you, cause some of you are just mean for no reason
I had super intense approach anxiety and stopped trying years ago. That being said, i do enjoy my alone time, yet sometimes people try to talk to me but i have zero interest in entertaining a conversation. It's the responsibility of both to be respectful, give the approaching person a way out that don't embarass him/her, and if you approach, pick up on signs that the other is not interested and disengage politely, don't be pushy, you gotta be ok with being rejected and show it when approaching, don't put any burden on the other.
Her acting skills are on point!
"I don't want to be bothered"
Apparently neither do the men you think are interested in you
She would hate it more if guys didn't approach her.
And fewer and fewer are.
well what is she gonna do about it lol
This covered so many good points!
If a man ever approaches me, I automatically think "my time has come" and do my best to not provoke them. I look like a 13 year old so it's so much worse, I've caught grown men checking me out and I feel so unsafe in public. I don't plan on dating men anytime soon
Stay single stay happy
😂 Wish I had the opportunity to complain about guys approaching me. They just don’t.
It seems like a lot of guys have stop approaching all together I don’t blame them these girls are brutal
You are I believe really doing work towards repairing our society God bless you.
Okay the last part i agree with, but honestly, approach random people with the intention of trying to get with them is understandably weird, i think you should date people you, yknow, actually have met before and have talked to in the past, not complete random strangers.
Yeah, agreed. That is all I would ever do.
She needs to have her own talk show❤ and plus write books on this topic and so many other topics she spoke about, she would save a lot of women and men out there that are brainwashed by extreme feminism & political B.S. Media that are mentally/emotionally destroying our society in obtaining in having a true love honest relationship with someone out there-which in turn- makes society get good in dating etc which would help grow society better as a whole❤😢😮🎉🎉🎉 in humanity 🌈
As a man I can relate, when guys approach me they usually want change
finding an adequate partner should not be "hi, i like you... lets go out for a dinner - BAAAAAM!".
some social relation schould be a background... mutual friend that introduces you one to another, some interesting experience you share or some situation you are both engaged with... let it happen and let it flow...
even some time should pass to see if there is a connection between you twos and if the feeling overwhelms you or not.
any kind of fast and direct approach will only get you crashed faster but not crushed for good!
This is actually good advice. But it's not fast enough for the instant-gratification generation.
I actually had this happen when I was in High school. Freshman year. We had a mixer with another school. One of my girl classmates who was really cool deliberately introduced me to her friend from the other school. My classmate had done her homework about what I like too, brunette, blue eyes, looked fantastic in her cowgirl jeans. What did I do? Absolutely nothing. I had been moping all summer about a crush who moved away. I said hello to blue eyed cowgirl and walked on.
By the time it sunk in, it was too late. *Facepalm*
Wow... So much common senses in this little short.
Great vids 👍
Female logic. You nailed it!
When women approach me, I'm so flattered I lower the moon and raise the season for em.
You can obviously tell how often this has happened.
Luckily most of the time you can tell if a girl is like this just by looking at her and her body language. Not all the time but most of the time.
to be honest I would never aproach a girl who makes this video, cause she looks exactly lika girl in the wrong would!
Elaborate, Travis. I get that crossed arms and a sour look on her face are good indicators. But what else? Help your brothers avoid women like that. :)
Naw, I had a girl act nice toward me, I tried politely asking her out for lunch, but she called the police and made up false accusations. Just because she seems nice, that doesn't mean anything.
@@SchemingGoldberg I said most of the time, not all the time.
@@SchemingGoldberg Damn I'm sorry that happened, but make sure you read the comment fully next time before you reply
She is so spot on
100%
This is really something that has stopped me from ever trying. Fear of being a creep or a nuisance
These skits are 100% on point
Yup pretty much
Bars and club guys increase her body count. Clearly, she is going to single the rest of her lost and lonely life.
This is the 21st Century. Time for the Women to approach Men... Equality right
yeah I hate when people make u feel bad just for approaching... it takes a lot of energy to do something like that
These talking2urself ones r the Best
Keep this up, I love it!
Simple solution gents: Don't approach women you don't know. It will save you much drama. 99.9999% of the time, she doesn't want to be bothered.
And then according to studies, 75% of women want men to approach them more. You just can't win.
Ok so, what? Never date? Don't make friends? Lonely world there.
@@leolordful A better idea would be for guys to just try talking with gals and leave the flirting and romantic ideas out. Try to become their friend, and see where it goes from there. It's far safer too in many cases, because there's less heartbreak and less risk of false accusations if it doesn't work out. If it DOES work out, there's a much higher trust built up between the dating couple, and they'll understand each other better for the long term (crucial for any successful marriage should it get to that point). It's a win-win tactic for all fellas who can do it.
So sad...but this is the reality... Especially from an old 44-year-old's perspective. I'm glad to have grown up when I did. Back when the net was very open. I had pen pals on ICQ, AIM...all the way up into the Myspace days, where I met my wife.
...But? Yes! It takes very little, these days, to be considered 'creepy.' For instance, you can't just random friend invite people these days...and yet? That's all we did in the Myspace days because everybody's page was like a theme of someone's interest...and we can be like, "oh, sweet! You like that band too? What did you think about their latest album?" Or, "Nice photos! Did you take those? I use an EOS 5D, what's your camera of choice?" And things would go from there.
Since then, it seems things have gone several steps forward, and now not only can you not really just random friend invite people, but as social media has made us more introverted and anti-social, it's almost like it's now creepy just to straight up approach a woman these days...or, more realistically? It's only creepy when the feelings aren't mutual. Not that I am in practice, by any means; I have been married for almost 15 years now, but it's plainly evident.... People just aren't as conversational, or as adept at handling conversations.
I am so glad I am not having to do that, in this day and age. So, the question remains then: where are you supposed to meet people? You don't want to meet them at work, necessarily. A lot of people don't like to mix personal lives with business and so? There goes people that you spend most of the day with.
With approaching a girl in public pretty much downright creepy anymore, and not being able to do it over social media...and let's not forget that malls, libraries/ bookstores are all but out, since nobody goes to either place anymore and even if they had? We're back to the "approaching women in public being creepy" thing...that pretty much only leaves you with school. So, if you weren't fortunate enough to find somebody at school? Your chances are very little now. You have to just somehow hope that you're waiting in the same line as somebody else and start chit-chatting about mutual frustrations, or something lame like that. You can take your chances at a bar/ club but we've always known that setting to be a major "no-no," for long term.
...And they wonder about population collapse and fewer and fewer people having kids. It's because everything becomes normalized: It becomes normal that approaching somebody is considered creepy, for instance. With it especially being creepy if the other person's not interested.
So, my advice? Younger guys should seek older women that are in their 40s because the stuff was normal back then lol
Older women are way easier than younger women. True!!
@@oahts5906 They like to know they still look pretty and want to feel feel pretty, that's why ;)
Social media fcked everything up dating related it’s so much harder to date now
She Checkmated herself 🗿
A moment of silence for the death of lounges and other social gathering areas where striking up conversations with strangers is clearly expected and encouraged.
Women need to start approaching guys to see how freaking hard it is
Idk I don't like being approached I meet people as freinds and then go from there
It definitely feels more organic that way, for sure.
Question: How do you signal to those friends that you'd like to test out 'more than friends'? Or do you wait to see which guys you've made friends express interest?
I have only watched 2 videos but the duality is so precise
Perfect analogy! There's absolutely no way out! 😆
Just don't approach strange women. Build up a large friend group and socialize. You'll have many close friends who you can approach without it being weird.
It's better to date by growing a previously existing relationship rather than starting it off completely from scratch on a whim with a stranger.
Approaching stranger only works for getting laid and never calling again. And you're better than that.
Absolutely!
Nope, then if the gurl rejects you lose the entire friend group as well
@@kanish9390 get more mature friends. Are you seriously friends with the type of people who'd completely reject you for simply possessing human sexual urges?
Just don't be creepy. Be smooth and be open to any answer they give.
Also, I'm not just talking about a close knit group of friends. I'm talking about becoming part of the entire community around you as a whole. Things like colleges or churches or even the local neighborhoods. Become a known part of the entire thing and have a good enough connection with everyone to where no one in the place is really a complete stranger. Cast a wide net without desperation.
And I reiterate, be open and accepting of whatever answer she gives. Listen carefully. There's a difference between "ew", "I'm too busy", and "I'm shy". All of these in the moment are rejection but they require very different responses. She won't say these in exact words so pay attention.
@@kanish9390agreed.. even if it worked out, when you break up with her, you will lose the group as well..
@@zachkri8418 yeah. It's best to get to a certain talking term to someone and then ask them out before getting too close. It's like balancing a soda can, there's a right spot, that can't be explained, only experienced
Question to woman
How and when would you want a guy to approach you
Not a woman, but simple answer: you don't.
Women are alpha sexual, most men are not alphas.
Oh, I can explain that one! If he's a drop dead gorgeous top 5% man, like Brad Pitt, she wants to be approached. Otherwise she doesn't.
@@ET-tu3gp
What about isolated men who don’t have those things?
@@newtfigton8795Then go out and do something with your life
Learn what a woman’s choosing signals are. If she’s exhibiting strong choosing signals, then go talk to her. Otherwise, don’t bother.
Please, LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
Get a loud speaker
This is very sweet. Thank you for backing men 's woes and women's faults
This is a mindset I've had for years now as women get older and when they hit the wall, their SMV declines.
My mindset I have at times as women hit the wall and their sexual market value declines is that I like to think of that as nature and Evolutions way of dealing women karma for all of the times they labeled a man creepy or weird or labeled a man a predator or just accused of making them feel uncomfortable just when the man was approaching them and making advances on them.
Because a lot of men unfortunately get perceived that way negatively by women when many of those men had good intentions going into the interaction, they were never trying to hurt anyone and they never meant any harm but those men were just kind of socially awkward or socially inept.
And the cruel thing about it is that women can get away with not being socially calibrated or women can get away with having their social awkwardness or social ineptness never be dismissed or be perceived as weird or creepy when interacting with the opposite sex. Women can get away with having poor social skills when interacting with the opposite sex, men can't get away with it.
I know I'm in good company in which people agree with me and that is women don't risk having their social awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed or be perceived as weird or creepy when interacting with the opposite sex but men do unfortunately.
So I like to think of that as nature and Evolutions way of dealing with karma for all of the times they reacted negatively towards men for approaching them or making advances on them when many of those men never meant any harm and would never have hurt a fly but they just didn't know any better socially.
And it's the reminder that women can get away with having poor social skills or just being poorly socially calibrated, but men can't get away with it since nature and reality dictates that men have to do the pursuing and making advances.
I'm aware that it makes sense as to why men are the only gender that get thrown the creepy label or the weird label or are the ones more likely to get labeled as making a member of the other sex being uncomfortable because men are on average physically bigger and stronger than women and because of that they can be perceived as a danger or a threat in a woman's eyes but the reverse is normally not true as much.
But yeah overall I've had this mindset for years now that I like to think that as women lose their attractiveness or as their mate value declines I like to think of that as nature and Evolutions way for all of the times they reacted negatively to men when a lot of those men never meant any harm and were never trying to hurt anyone.
They just didn't know any better socially, and like I said before, women can get away with not being smart socially or just having a poor social IQ, not understanding social cues or boundaries in regards to interactions with the other sex since women don't risk having their awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed or perceived as weird or creepy, or uncomfortable when interacting with the other sex.
To sum it up it's not rejection that hurts it's the way that it happens that has the biggest impact.
I know I'm in good company in which people agree with me that women don't risk having their social awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed or be perceived as weird or creepy or uncomfortable when interacting with the other sex.
Women can get away with that but men can't unfortunately since the burden for all time of men always having to do the pursuing and chasing or making advances.
Women apparently just expect a boyfriend to materialize out of thin air.
It's what happens in the movies, right? Girl is lonely, bumps into guy that is perfect, single, and ready to commit with no effort on her behalf. Bonus points if she makes a hideous mistake and he blows right past it like it's nothing.
Ladies, you will be thrilled to know, I have given up trying. You win, well done.