This guy who keeps staring at me needs to not try to "lure" me in bc he's clearly shy and I'm definitely not about to talk first so I guess we'll just stare until the end of the year
As someone who has anxiety and social anxiety, it’s terrible being in this type of situation lol I start to overthink and I feel uncomfortable and would probably walk away from the whole thing .
If you want a girl, having anxiety or social anxiety (i dont really believe in it anymore because ive overcame it so easily after battling and continue to battle with anxiety for so long) is not a good look, it turns girls off.
Elvy Aguilar He's very intetested trust me, but men have different agendas. He's either trying to lure you in for obviously you know what or he's just blown away by you and your mannerisms but shy on the approach. He can either be an expert at this or genuine like me... only done this to 2 girls myself. It's all in the look... Smile with the eyes? or scary stare then avoid his ass 😂.
Elvy Aguilar If your both taken then I wouldn't do anything next, maybe he's thinking mmm if only I was single same as you might be thinking? Be happy with what you have if not get out of it
there's this guy who used to do that when we had class. he made me so nervous cos he would stare at me without smiling. And for some reason I felt so intimidated by him that I couldnt look at him more than a second. Now when I see him, I still cant make eye contact and last time he approached and talked to me. But he's never smiling so it makes me think that he finds me boring or something cos usually im always smiling around people and people smile back..
DatingLogic well usually he's always the one who approaches me because im really shy around him. It's like casual conversations though, mostly about our classes now since we dont have classes together yet which doesnt give us time to talk alot. But even when he talks, he never smiles. He always makes eye contact and never says bye before leaving which leaves me confused and sad
I'm a guy. Even I don't smile if it's not funny and I have a very calm personality. It's not that he finds you boring. Infact, he is comfortable around you. He doesn't need to act hype to make you happy so that's a great sign. btw, I'm 19 :)
there is one guy alwayss staring at me in the bus till he goes to his home. And on tuesday i was talking to my friend and his friend said ehat r u doing he pointed towards me like he is into me. And today i tried to do the peace sign and smile at him to see what he will do but my heart was beating sooo fast that i couldnt do it😣😣😣😣😣
@@montanaskies2702 studies show that living with your parents is becoming more of a reality in the USA. Going to have to come up with a more authentic line to put others down at this point
This was happening to me recently with an electrician that is doing work on my office building. Would stare into my eyes and hold the gaze. The guy seemed to be really into me so I approached him because I thought he was shy. Turns out he was married. So he did it as a game. To keep his life fun since he's probably bored to death in his marriage. Also to keep me thinking about HIM and not his single and available co workers who were obviously into me. Sick bastard!! All the time I wasted thinking he liked me. SMH
omgfo yup happened to me too. Grown men who do this are usually up to something and I now stay far away from any man staring at me. It's not really a compliment it's more like, "will she take the bait?" He went so far and even told me he missed me once when I went away for a few months. He made me look so stupid bc I thought he liked me. Nope! All lies! Just a game for him. he's always in my town and every time I see him I just pretend I don't and don't make eye contact whatsoever. At one point I thought he was coming to my town constantly to get my attention when i went super cold on him and implemented no contact after he told me he didn't want a relationship nor did he "have time for any fucking feelings" but I could "holler at him later." This was a few days after we were intimate, when I asked him what he wanted to do next regarding us. I avoid him like the plague. He really hurt me. I have watched my friends go thru it but this is the first time it happened to me and I'm 28. I'm sorry that happened to you, I feel your frustration!
KellarJS Not true. I seen several cute guys do it. And they're still weird. As a matter of fact, I ignore imbeciles. I have for that crap in my life. I hate Drama.
+Tori Jensen maybe he has crush on you? just shy and getting nervous + everyone is different and reacts differently on certain things. Just speak to him, not everyone is super duper confident with perfect first contact skill. He is more scared becouse of u then u are. Cheers
Beware of guys who do this because they are not the nice type. Hell, they going to get more girls than the nice type though, cos women have this unfortunate tendency to fall in love with a holes
Thats so false I do it intuitively its not intended to be rude its just being nonchalant while admiring beauty also. In some cases it can be not wanting to get to close though depending on the situation of male or female
IMO, men do this because they are unavailable and want other female attention without the 'cheating' aspect of it coming into play. Yes, he wants the women to be thinking about him and maybe grow to be interested in him. The women may like the attention (they've been lured in, as you've stated) and hope something will happen, but there's no pay off because it's probably going to be nothing more than a staring game. I've come across this situation many times, men stare and do nothing. You think they're interested in you and they do nothing because they can't. If they were single and available I would think eventually they would make a move if they see they've gotten the woman's attention and they sense a response (non-verbal) from her. I think it's awful to play with someone's head like that. I know I get tired of it.
I am not saying they cheat at all, it's the whole 'they look, but they don't touch'. I just don't think it's right to give a woman or women the impression you're interested if you're not available.
ravenheadtx I don’t really get what u mean! I have had guys staring at me to a point where they give u creepy stares without look away but they are single so not all guys do this. It’s maybe because he wants u to start the approach
When I look at a girl, but don’t smile, it’s not me trying to lure girls in. I just feel like someone was looking at me and I look to make sure I was right😂
Guy from my class (and yeah i like him) stares right into my eyes and doesnt smile or anything,just dead serous face.i wlways look aways because idont want to stare at his scary serious face,he is cuter when he smiles
Same with me, now he is just being mean and skips over me for anything. Passing out stuff he skips me, talking, he skips me!!!! It’s making me crazy but idk when to do. Does this mean after this whole Psychotic game is done he will move in to Date me bc I’m really getting ready to just de-impower him.
I had this happen to me at an awards show years ago. I was a seat filler and kept feeling like someone was staring. It was this musician in a pretty famous band at the time. He stared at me but didn't smile. As I would move around I would catch him staring at me but not smile. I thought he must be on drugs or I had food on my face or something. It was creepy.
Wow exactly my situation!!! Thank you for the advice!!! That guy was just keep staring at me and that made me think about him all the freaking time because I didn't know what was his action mean, now I got it!
Im a boy and... if a boy stares at u ladies, that means he loves you or he just thinks you r sexy edit: if he looks at you often, he is in love with you for sure
That’s not true. A lot of times I stare at someone because I’m zoning out in my deep thinking, or because I’m thinking about how someone can be that ugly, or because I’m wondering if I know that person
He is staring at me all time but if I smiles at him, he is putting his head down and I felt like I was insulted .. What does that mean.. Pls some one tell me.. Pleaseeeee
Wow would men really go through so much mental planning in order to attract a female, I always assumed men didn't overthink in the way women do and definitely not manipulate a women into things.
24celestemurphy Its programmed in us. We dont subconciously think about these strategies, they are just engrained within our courtship strategies, and have been engrained through millions of years of evolutionary programming. Do you ask a dolphin how it swims?
I recently caught an older woman looking at me and we locked eyes for it seemed at least 5 seconds. It caught me off guard that I did not smile. And she didn’t smile so I did not approach. I’m so mad at myself for letting an opportunity slip away and didn’t approach.
Thank you! I started at a new job 3 months ago, somebody kept on doing that to me. Then I asked him a question why he stared so much. He answered with "Stare?" As if he didn't even know about it. Never in my life has anyone done that to me in such close range. Coming from a different culture and generation, I found it very difficult to relate to that. One time he did such an intense stare, it felt like a stab to the heart. Now I understand why. Too bad for him, it did not work.
Okay you just scared me even more now I'm about to cry he was staring at me everytime I looked back he still was looking at me with a blank face I was uncomfortable,awkward,nervous, and emotional asf
This dude used to do this to me when I was in his class. I used to be REALLY REALLY shy which meant I didn't talk a lot. He just stared at me blankly so I stared back and smiled. It made him really uncomfortable so he looks away. Then one day he came up to me and asked why I was staring at him all the time. I replied with "I'm sorry? I can't speak the English really well,". Then he just stopped talking to me...oops?
Its not that complicated. We look because we like what we see. It's not part of some game. If he doesn't approach its because he is reading from you that you're not interested. Or he could be too timid or unavailable.
This. This seems like the most reasonable, realistic explanation. I really don't think there's much more to say. People's insecurities are a cash cow for content creators, and content creators will gladly say whatever the fuck they can that gets those clicks. Value your finite time on Earth more than that. Spend it wisely.
being a man i have done this before and just to add my 2 cents in to all the women watching. men are simple, direct decisive. we see something we like we are going to take as much as we can in. even if it's just a glance or a few seconds. men are visual creatures. but dating logic is right. women love mystery. For me at least when i do look but don't smile it's kind of subconsicous and depends on the situation. for instance if i make eye contact with a women and i see she's holidng it longer than usual and i see that twinkyle in her eye i'll flash a smile. always ends well. when you make eye contact it's either a friendly encounter or a hostile one. but when two just make eye contact and don't smile move anything it's kind of like " anything" can happen.
I don't give attention to any guy who does this to me. I hate Drama. And by Mystery, it has to be Crime Mysteries instead. I always found Detective work fascinating. But I don't want to become a cop. I just find it cool. But don't get me involved in that crap. I don't play, I make you fall into your own trap. You want to start shit, you'll be treated as such. I don't pity, the stupid. :)
@@satanismiscancer7589 Do tell me how you consider someone being shy "drama". It sounds you paint that picture in your own mind. "I don't pity, the stupid". We're all entitled to our opinions and how we view things and I'd say your remark is a lot like the pot calling the kettle black.
This helped me out a lot. More often then most guys will look at me and not smile. I have always wondered what was going on in their minds. Does he like me? Do I have something on my face? And other questions I've asked myself. For the past five years every guy that I think is cute does this to me, and never knowing what that look meant I never talked to the guy. Now that I have some information about it, next time a man does that I will go up and talk to him. Thank you so much.
I feel it depends on the guy. There are some real creeps out there -so be careful. Especially if older not a guy in your school. That stare can be from a guy that wants to hurt you. Then, there are kind guys you see that like you stare & are afraid to approach you shy. I wouldn’t approach a guy that states though. Beware I say a lot of creeps I’ve learned that I never knew existed.
habiba aldin I guess it's a positive sign. You'll know for sure if he doesn't like you if he tries to run and avoid you at every possible corner for you not to notice him.
Yeah.....That's exactly what these guys do. They are sooo comfortable with trying to lure you in, but when I became really upset and angry at his stupid behaviour and figured out that he wasn't looking for anything serious, I told him off really good and then he said to me that I needed to stop reading into things that don't exist and that whatever I saw wasn't real. Some guy. He wanted the physical attention but didn't want to take accountability for his actions.
He tried to gaslight you. When I confronted my starer at work (he had been doing it since I started which was a year ago) and he became defensive and said he wasn't interested and didn't want me to contact him. He stopped for a few weeks and later started again with his staring. I don't even care anymore, ridiculous,. These dudes clearly have a thing for you when they do this because when they act pressed when confronted you know that you touched a sensitive spot - they get all embarrassed and they try to project that embarrassment on you. Childish and quite narcissistic. Good riddance when they finally leave you alone even if that could take years.
i do that to but i dont think about all the stuff he's is saying ... i do like the girl but im just not happy .. for me it is insecurity i know this.. fear of rejection and the hurt it may cause if it takes a long time ... its not trapping some girl ...at least not for me
What ?? I don't know if that's the intention of other guys..But Personally Why I Do This is Because I simply like the girl but i don't want to be too close to her..just because either i know she has a bf or likes someone else ..Basically Im just Savouring her lovely Looks Thats All..But keeping it from a safe distance so i won't get a fist in the face or something LMAO ; D
Damn I believe you just answered the question I’ve been looking for. Cause this dude stared me down until I was out of his view. Face emotionless creeped me out. Hell I’m definitely thinking about him
Mostly true but I'll just point out to girls that it's only true if the guy would normally smile but it trying not to. If the guy is just the type that doesn't smile often (like me) or is just generally miserable then this video can be very misleading.
so that kinda happened to me, i’m a smiley type but only to my close friends and we both ended up looking at each other at the same time and we just stared at each other and we both had blank faces lmao are we both psycho?
You are totally right about it. The thing is, this is exactly what is happening to me right now. I don't know what to do or neither what to think, is a quite big difference(age) between us and I am not sure what he meant. When I made eye contact with him, he was,like, already staring at me in the eyes. I looked away because I was surprised and shy at that time,and when I looked back at him he was still staring at me in the eyes. I kept that eye contact like 4-5 seconds and I was the one AGAIN who looked away. I guess I wasn't that confident like him at all. I don't know what to thing or what to do, because this thought of being just friendly is still in my mind. He is much older, what can I tell? It is very difficult to say... He was kind of lost in my eyes, didn't make a single move. he was watching me while I was walking. What do you think is was on his mind in that moment? He didn't even blink. Is hard to tell if he had his eyes bigger than before, I am not sure. He was confident on himself and also he's not a shy person...
@@shaniceturner4130 Yup, our president of Operations keeps on staring at me and I don't know why.He made curious. Just before I took my lunch, we passed each other and our eyes locked, I did not smile and so is he. Before he leaves the office, he looks at me.Sometimes he stands up from his chair just to look at what I'm doing.I want to ask him if I did something wrong in the office for him to stare at me like that.
For me when I do this it means I'm thinking im analyzing and focusing on the person I like and looking into their eyes to get locked eye contact to feel the connection for a short while lmaooo idk why I do that,lmaooo my friends are like im different lmaoo but like I like staring down into their soul and getting a connection through their eyes and like a silence lmaoo then break it lmaooo idk it depends on the person for me the person I like and when I do that and focus i feel like a connection like an in the moment thing
So how exactly do us girls react to this? What should we do? And does it mean he likes you or is he just trying to trap u for the fun of it (messing with feelings)
This sounds fascinating, @DatingLogic. I thought the same way about this guy and the next day when he had to move back to England, I braced up and took the courage to contact him on facebook, being completely sure of how much he had liked me with all the prolonged stares and all. But unfortunately it turned out that he is not interested. I couldn't have been more wrong about him. I was also encouraged by this video of yours. It's been 9 days already and he still hasn't answered my facebook message and friend request. I made a fool of myself and feel so humiliated. Why the hell did he stare so much and repeatedly and then not even bothering to write me one word??? Now I blocked him, does this matter? Will he contact me in the end? I must tell you that he had made a point in showing me how much he liked me, by staring repeatedly and locking eyes with me for several minutes and being serious. But it was from a distance. When I got near him, he became really tough and professional, as he was my supervisor at work. Only sometimes he got closer or hummed a song and checked my reaction.So sad.
+DatingLogic ive caught my crush several times staring at me and smiling but today he stared at me and made eye contact for at least 3 seconds then i looked away coz it was so cool but kinda uncomfortable what does this mean!?!?
i remeber this guy staring at me a few years ago it would creep me out at first but then i would stare back without smiling like he did i rember one day i was playing soccer/fotball by myself waiting for my little sister he came really close to me and tried to touch me he took my hand and i ran away for my life because i was alway creeped out by him because he would stare at me for no reasonlol but now i know he liked me because he always tried to act confident or cool when i was around and he used to straighten up hes shoulders and his puff up his chest when i look at him he always tried to be close with my little brother so he could be around me i didnt like him at all i thought he was weird creepy anyoing acting to confident so i would advice guys to act normal not cocky or diffrent around the person u like.
So there's this guy that stares at me whenever I'm around, its been happening on and off for about 6 months; its super awkward. Recently, his stares have become more intense, he never smiles, he just stares at me and I usually hold his gaze unless I'm busy. He hasn't approached me, I'm really not sure if he likes me. Its just super confusing.
Although I've got to say this guy at my school confuses me. He would often stare at me with no expression on his face, and then say whenever he's with a group of friends and I gravitate towards his group to try to get close to him, he'll kind of smile and walk away. Some times he'll look interested in me and other times he would appear to be cool and act as if I'm not there. It really intimidates me, and I feel like I'm not good enough for him.
Well...I seriously fell on his trap. Those gazes of him caught me and I don't know what to do. Seriously! I like him so bad but I can not find the words to start a conversation. I'm so helpless. He really needs to know I like him so much. -_-
But he talk to u if he in a mood. I think it better if he want to talk to you play dump. Like u are not interested and also stared at him so that he should no that not only him can play that game.
Some guys stare at me with a confused look on their faces. I'm rarely called beautiful or complimented but when I am the guys is usually gorgeous. I've never been on a date or anything. Men just stare at me (my friends and family members have seen it) with this look of confusion/awe/and sometimes disgust? Please...I need a male opinon
Girl guys are weird ! You have to grow confidence which is hard sometimes ! Be confident in your self and the right guy will come along! I get different looks from guys some say beautiful some look at me like I’m weird ! Lol self acceptance is key!
Lol,DL, I have short sight and I find contacts and glasses a hassle. I can't see if people are smiling or not from a distance let alone looking at me. So I can't see if that's someone I like or dislike. I walk a lot and I have to make a guess as to whom that person is coming towards me or away from me. The problem is it may look like I am paying someone perv time when in reality I am confused. If I know what's going on I try and smile. I don't think I ever look and not smile, or raise my eyebrows in greeting. I have a lot of woman walk past or women who are in front of me look back. I don't know if this is because they like me or are creeped out. I didn't know I was being seductive or attempting to be.
This is exactly whats happening and im here going crazy telling my friend wtf is up with him, idk how to handle it!! Someone help it’s so uncomfortable to work with him it makes me not want to come go work.
I really liked this video! Here's my situation; When I got back to school, I noticed this really attractive guy. He also lives in my building and on the same floor as me, just a room away. At the beginning of the semester( like September), I ocassinally saw him glance at me, and I thought nothing of it. Then as the weeks went on, I noticed how often he looked at me. We both live on the first floor of our building and our rooms have these huge window. My roommate and I like to keep our blinds open, and until recently, I would always catch him staring directly into our room and at me. Now, I catch him with his friends and he can be talking to them and they all look at me, not in a bad way. At football games, he works with the event staff and he would often turn around and spit me and continue to look at me. What could all this mean?
It happened to me while driving the guy was in his car staring at me no smiling just a deep dark stare during a red light traffic stop. He stared until the light turned green.
this guy in my class has been doing that to me every day pretty much since we started school, also I'm new at the school this year an i always catch him looking at me, today he was standing in front of me in line and he was facing me just looking at me and i looked back at him and away because i was nervous. but he has a girlfriend.. so I'm not sure why he's always staring??
sophiiieee He may like you as well. However, if he has a girlfriend, it is best to avoid getting yourself emotionally involved. If you do, it typically leads to hurt.
Hi Sophie have you got a boyfriend if not I want to be with you please and it will mean the world to me xxxxxxxxxxxxx love you sorry but i have been out of a relationship for a long while :(
A guy did this to me for 2 years straight at school. I knew he was thinking about me, not just daydreaming. He never smiled. Well he did the first time he saw me, he was staring and smiling charmingly. The one time he talked to me, I lost my voice literally. I had no voice, it was the winter. Maybe it wasn't meant to be? Well now I am finished school, and I haven't seen him again. I need to get over him. How do you get over a crush tho?
Oh my god I was looking for a explaination like this! :) So basically there was this guy that I met my junior year of high school. He definately tried talking to me at first. He would tease me in a playful way but I really loved it when I would turn around and he would be staring at me while doing something at the same time. I would always catch him staring at me or looking at me whenever he had the chance. It came to the point where he would stare but not smile. I just wished I made a move and asked why he was staring at me. I also wished he talked to me more :(
okay so i like this guy in my class and i always see him staring at me..but today he asked me why i stared at him and i didn't say anything back..he asked his like 2 times already.GoD i just stare at him coz he stares at me..someone Help!!what should i tell him
Last sunday i gave my number to my crush who is working at a store, i went there many times to see him. He was always busy with customers. He didn't call me :(. I am so confused he was looking at me, smiling and staring... I feel so sad
When my crush stares at me while not smiling i pretend not to look at him but i clearly know he is starring but i usually looked back and he turned his head fast
OK so I work as a preschool teacher. I have a student with a gorgeous dad who I've had minimal interaction with (a few hellos)for the past 2 years. The dad mainly sees me if I'm there to greet the student in the morning with a hug and kiss (student is very attached to me ). One morning, dad brought him to school as usual, and I was in the main office, right next to the entrance door. I saw them and smiled. I thought they hadn't noticed me but just before they entered the building, the dad suddenly turned and stared at me for a second. Then when he was leaving the school, he turns towards the office, just stares at me without smiling, and when i put my head up and see him, he turns away. What does this all mean? He looked so serious I felt kinda bad.
This really hit home !, a guy at work was doing this , I found out he had a crush on me !, by his Constant staring I started to like the attention , and found him interesting, and was always thinking of him ….. so is he a manipulator then ?, cause sometimes he’s shy .
Sometimes we are just shy and nervous. I've creeped a chick out who liked me by doing this and it feels terrible. Just know it isn't always with bad intent.
She just finds you very pretty/attractive or is lusting on you. Other than that he doesn't have any plans getting to know more about you or won't do anything more about it.
Well there’s an older pastor at church that does this to me. I just smile and say hi. He did this to me the other day when I got up during the service to go to the restroom. His expression is so serious staring as I walked past I would think he’s silently reprimanding me. When I smile and say hi he just nods at me. He also tends to have that same serious expression when I see him after service is over. But once I start talking to him his whole demeanor softens and he listens very intently to what I’m saying. I guess because I don’t give into the attempt at intimidation. I just continue with my bubbly greetings lol. He also tends to lean in for a friendly side hug… so I don’t know I wonder sometimes because I don’t see him hugging everybody. Maybe he just doesn’t realize how serious he’s looking at first.
So this is kinda happening to me, but I still don't quite understand x) I've been in this thing, it's kind of a training program... and there's this guy there who keeps staring at me without EVER smiling. To be honest, I didn't even notice he was there in the first two days, but then in the third, as we were all entering the room I just ran into him. When that happened, he grabbed my arm and I grabbed his almost instantly and we said "I'm sorry" at the same time and it was almost like we had a moment there. Anyway... from that moment he has been staring at me from far but he never smiles and he never tried to talk to me. The other day as we had a break, I went outside to smoke a cigarrette... 2 minutes later he was there but I think he didn't approach me because I was talking to a friend and so he just went right back inside. It was kinda obvious but I second guess everything anyway xD Yesterday for instance, he saw me leaving and he just left like he was in a rush. He even forgot to sign this thing we have to sign every day so he could follow me... or at least I think that was his purpose. But then we went in different directions and then again, he never talked to me. Today it was more of the same. Endless staring and again he followed me when we left the training program but as we got to the point where we have to go our separate ways, I stopped to light a cigarette (and of course it was an excuse to see if he would talk to me or something). He kinda stopped when he realized I was still there and he came back again, he passed by me, but then he just kept walking... so, eventually I started walking as well x) I'm obviously interested in him or I wouldn't be here but I don't really see myself approaching him. I want him to approach me... but this training program thing will end next week and I'm not sure he'll do it. Any advice? x)
A guy I like is talkative with other girls, flirts with them, laughs really loud but, as soon as he's around me he's super quiet, and doesn't acknowledge me (sometimes he does). Before he was holding the door for our coworkers but, when he saw me he let go of the door & I had to catch it. But, now everytime I see him he opens the door for me. Yesterday, I caught him staring at me three times but, not smiling. Sometimes he raises his eyebrows at me & smiles, but he rarely initiates conversation. Does he like me? Or am I just confused?
I'm sorry but if a guy was being rude to you please don't date him i dated a guy who was really rude towards me i always had to tell my parent and the school about him and then when we got older and in different grades he told me he liked me so i dated him because he was cute and very funny at that time but once i dumped him because it didn't feel right i only wanted me and him to be friends he told me he would kill himself if i leave him I'm telling some guys are abusive but i didn't care if he killed himself because he really didn't he still alive dating other girls 😂😂🤦
Actually me and this girl keep making eye contact and I think she's beautiful and that's why I look at her and she looks back but I just can't talk to girls or strangers like specifically if their older like I physically can not I sometimes try to talk and nothing comes out I wanna cry because I don't want to lose my shot with any girl I've already lost it with girls in my grade(she's a grade below) so I am hoping for a chance to talk to her and not completely choke on my stupid tounge any tips?
I was actually like this. Girl would be with every dude in the room. I didnt know what to do. Im exhausted. I cant tell her anything, naturally, all i could do is look at her. Its a crazy, serious, difficult feeling. I cant do anything.
okay, so i went to this pilgrimage with my crush, and when i was sitting on the opposite side of this church, we would look at eachother and he would never, and i mean NEVER smiles. legit. and it made me so uncomfortable i had to look down and get really embarrassed. we would make constant eye contact and he would never smile at me. this video explains everything that i'e gone through with him. YAYYYY MY CRUSH LIKES ME BACK!!!
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This guy who keeps staring at me needs to not try to "lure" me in bc he's clearly shy and I'm definitely not about to talk first so I guess we'll just stare until the end of the year
OMG😂😂
Lmao.
Same thing with me.
He is shy and I am. But sometimes he is rude. I know he likes me. But sometimes I feel he doesn't
Yeapp...been there done that...
Denise R omg so trueee bruh you don't even know,I can relate on a spiritual level bruh
Ahh man
It makes me feel uncomfortable if he doesn't smile, even though I'm smiling
MrsLizard King samee
MrsLizard King Same, like wtf did I do? 😂😂😂😂
You lose.
Sammeee.
my teacher does it everyday
My boss stares at me from far away and I know he hates me lol
Lmao😭😂
Lol
Uh oh
😂😂😂
Lol
I was thinking of the guy while watching this
ItsJoanneLife same
Same but it’s two guys actually lol 😂
Same
Me too, ugh 😑
Same here hahaha
I'm only here for the stories.
Arihime -chan same 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Arihime -chan Riiiight.....
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As someone who has anxiety and social anxiety, it’s terrible being in this type of situation lol I start to overthink and I feel uncomfortable and would probably walk away from the whole thing .
yep same here
Exactly. And I ended up with another man who treats me like a queen. And I treat him like a king. Respect each other ppl.
If you want a girl, having anxiety or social anxiety (i dont really believe in it anymore because ive overcame it so easily after battling and continue to battle with anxiety for so long) is not a good look, it turns girls off.
@@onatics I’m a straight gal.
@@onatics I also no longer have social anxiety lol
sounds psychotic to me
Tisa Kremer sounds like a narc i once knew🤔
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Not at all, depends on the 2 people, and obviously how many times you do it. Don't do more than twice you'll look like a nut job lol
Elvy Aguilar He's very intetested trust me, but men have different agendas. He's either trying to lure you in for obviously you know what or he's just blown away by you and your mannerisms but shy on the approach. He can either be an expert at this or genuine like me... only done this to 2 girls myself. It's all in the look... Smile with the eyes? or scary stare then avoid his ass 😂.
Elvy Aguilar If your both taken then I wouldn't do anything next, maybe he's thinking mmm if only I was single same as you might be thinking? Be happy with what you have if not get out of it
I have done this but it really isn't my intention to creep the girl out. It is most when I find a woman drop dead gorgeous.
Same I’m a girl and if I’m nervous I look at someone with intense eye contact without smiling
there's this guy who used to do that when we had class. he made me so nervous cos he would stare at me without smiling. And for some reason I felt so intimidated by him that I couldnt look at him more than a second. Now when I see him, I still cant make eye contact and last time he approached and talked to me. But he's never smiling so it makes me think that he finds me boring or something cos usually im always smiling around people and people smile back..
gohar harutyunyan When he approached you and talked to you, how did the conversation go?
DatingLogic well usually he's always the one who approaches me because im really shy around him. It's like casual conversations though, mostly about our classes now since we dont have classes together yet which doesnt give us time to talk alot. But even when he talks, he never smiles. He always makes eye contact and never says bye before leaving which leaves me confused and sad
Try smiling at him next time. If he smiles back, he may like you.
I'm a guy. Even I don't smile if it's not funny and I have a very calm personality. It's not that he finds you boring. Infact, he is comfortable around you. He doesn't need to act hype to make you happy so that's a great sign.
btw, I'm 19 :)
there is one guy alwayss staring at me in the bus till he goes to his home. And on tuesday i was talking to my friend and his friend said ehat r u doing he pointed towards me like he is into me. And today i tried to do the peace sign and smile at him to see what he will do but my heart was beating sooo fast that i couldnt do it😣😣😣😣😣
So in other words he's a player lol
No you don’t, you probably still live with your mother & never had a gf 😂
@@montanaskies2702 studies show that living with your parents is becoming more of a reality in the USA. Going to have to come up with a more authentic line to put others down at this point
@@norman9052 that doesn’t make it any less pathetic
Lmaoo
This was happening to me recently with an electrician that is doing work on my office building. Would stare into my eyes and hold the gaze. The guy seemed to be really into me so I approached him because I thought he was shy. Turns out he was married. So he did it as a game. To keep his life fun since he's probably bored to death in his marriage. Also to keep me thinking about HIM and not his single and available co workers who were obviously into me. Sick bastard!! All the time I wasted thinking he liked me. SMH
omgfo yup happened to me too. Grown men who do this are usually up to something and I now stay far away from any man staring at me. It's not really a compliment it's more like, "will she take the bait?" He went so far and even told me he missed me once when I went away for a few months. He made me look so stupid bc I thought he liked me. Nope! All lies! Just a game for him. he's always in my town and every time I see him I just pretend I don't and don't make eye contact whatsoever. At one point I thought he was coming to my town constantly to get my attention when i went super cold on him and implemented no contact after he told me he didn't want a relationship nor did he "have time for any fucking feelings" but I could "holler at him later." This was a few days after we were intimate, when I asked him what he wanted to do next regarding us. I avoid him like the plague. He really hurt me. I have watched my friends go thru it but this is the first time it happened to me and I'm 28. I'm sorry that happened to you, I feel your frustration!
omgfo I would say dont take that as a lesson to not aproach someone again. He just happend to be married..
omgfo Your very Beautiful & Girl I know you was Pissed
Lmfao
Yeah, married guys do that A LOT...sad for their "wives".
dammit stop spilling the beans man!!!
lol too late secrets out :)
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Lol! Does that mean he likes the girl or not? Too much mind games I am getting confused, lol!:"D
XXX
lol.
I call those guys creeps
KellarJS
I call them stupid. Lol.
KellarJS Not true. I seen several cute guys do it. And they're still weird. As a matter of fact, I ignore imbeciles. I have for that crap in my life. I hate Drama.
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I do this exact thing. I’m not s Creep at all but I’m not the same as other lads
This guy does this to me often and i swear he wants to murder me lol It creeps me out!
+Tori Jensen maybe he has crush on you? just shy and getting nervous + everyone is different and reacts differently on certain things. Just speak to him, not everyone is super duper confident with perfect first contact skill. He is more scared becouse of u then u are. Cheers
Lol!
hahahaha same! I thought he hated my guts or something
With the wealth of dating/pickup/relationship knowledge available at one's fingertips nowadays, there's no excuse to act that.......
Beware of guys who do this because they are not the nice type. Hell, they going to get more girls than the nice type though, cos women have this unfortunate tendency to fall in love with a holes
Not all of us. Thank God
You might be so right !!!
Thats so false I do it intuitively its not intended to be rude its just being nonchalant while admiring beauty also. In some cases it can be not wanting to get to close though depending on the situation of male or female
IMO, men do this because they are unavailable and want other female attention without the 'cheating' aspect of it coming into play. Yes, he wants the women to be thinking about him and maybe grow to be interested in him. The women may like the attention (they've been lured in, as you've stated) and hope something will happen, but there's no pay off because it's probably going to be nothing more than a staring game. I've come across this situation many times, men stare and do nothing. You think they're interested in you and they do nothing because they can't. If they were single and available I would think eventually they would make a move if they see they've gotten the woman's attention and they sense a response (non-verbal) from her.
I think it's awful to play with someone's head like that. I know I get tired of it.
he might not be doing it to all woman he might only be giving 1 female attention so its not necessary they all cheat ;-;
I am not saying they cheat at all, it's the whole 'they look, but they don't touch'. I just don't think it's right to give a woman or women the impression you're interested if you're not available.
ravenheadtx I don’t really get what u mean! I have had guys staring at me to a point where they give u creepy stares without look away but they are single so not all guys do this. It’s maybe because he wants u to start the approach
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ravenheadtx
When I look at a girl, but don’t smile, it’s not me trying to lure girls in. I just feel like someone was looking at me and I look to make sure I was right😂
This hahaha
And if you are right , then what’s your next approach ?😊
Yeah the same thing
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dude why the fuk you giving away our secrets?!?!?....traitor...lol
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101johnyboy LMFAO!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Bruh
This is what a Narcissist does, 💯 exactly a Narcissist. Thanks.
Guy from my class (and yeah i like him) stares right into my eyes and doesnt smile or anything,just dead serous face.i wlways look aways because idont want to stare at his scary serious face,he is cuter when he smiles
Same with me, now he is just being mean and skips over me for anything. Passing out stuff he skips me, talking, he skips me!!!! It’s making me crazy but idk when to do. Does this mean after this whole Psychotic game is done he will move in to Date me bc I’m really getting ready to just de-impower him.
NanA 4EVA he is playing hard 2 get
@@nanynaturalz6019 he def likes you.
That's exactly the scenario happening to me. I keep on thinking about why was he staring at me when I'm around? The sad part is, I can't ask him why.
mEsLLe Just ignore him. If he can't be Man enough to tell you, straight up. Than he isn't worth it.
Satanism is Cancer man stfu you old obese bitch with your fucked up morals "he is probably not man enough" fuck you!
Same idk if he is interested
I had this happen to me at an awards show years ago. I was a seat filler and kept feeling like someone was staring. It was this musician in a pretty famous band at the time. He stared at me but didn't smile. As I would move around I would catch him staring at me but not smile. I thought he must be on drugs or I had food on my face or something. It was creepy.
Wow exactly my situation!!! Thank you for the advice!!! That guy was just keep staring at me and that made me think about him all the freaking time because I didn't know what was his action mean, now I got it!
Im a boy and... if a boy stares at u ladies, that means he loves you or he just thinks you r sexy
edit: if he looks at you often, he is in love with you for sure
What if he just met you and the same day he met you he keeps staring at you?
I don’t know about that because you can’t possibly fall in love with someone you haven’t spoken to.
That’s not true. A lot of times I stare at someone because I’m zoning out in my deep thinking, or because I’m thinking about how someone can be that ugly, or because I’m wondering if I know that person
He is staring at me all time but if I smiles at him, he is putting his head down and I felt like I was insulted .. What does that mean.. Pls some one tell me.. Pleaseeeee
Philomina Arockia Savarimuthu what he said 👆🏼
Wow would men really go through so much mental planning in order to attract a female, I always assumed men didn't overthink in the way women do and definitely not manipulate a women into things.
24celestemurphy Women do the same, except that women usually lose interest faster. And can easily find another guy.
24celestemurphy Its programmed in us. We dont subconciously think about these strategies, they are just engrained within our courtship strategies, and have been engrained through millions of years of evolutionary programming. Do you ask a dolphin how it swims?
When a girl stares and doesn't smile it's shyness. When a dude does it is luring. This guy
I recently caught an older woman looking at me and we locked eyes for it seemed at least 5 seconds. It caught me off guard that I did not smile. And she didn’t smile so I did not approach. I’m so mad at myself for letting an opportunity slip away and didn’t approach.
Prolly she as seen you somewhere else
Nope, shy guys don't maintain the stare/eye contact. In this case the guy maintained it, that's why he talks about luring.
@@Avareee. really?damn
Thank you! I started at a new job 3 months ago, somebody kept on doing that to me. Then I asked him a question why he stared so much. He answered with "Stare?" As if he didn't even know about it. Never in my life has anyone done that to me in such close range. Coming from a different culture and generation, I found it very difficult to relate to that. One time he did such an intense stare, it felt like a stab to the heart. Now I understand why. Too bad for him, it did not work.
Why not ?
Okay you just scared me even more now I'm about to cry he was staring at me everytime I looked back he still was looking at me with a blank face I was uncomfortable,awkward,nervous, and emotional asf
He like you and too shy to approach you
Oh my god same
This dude used to do this to me when I was in his class. I used to be REALLY REALLY shy which meant I didn't talk a lot. He just stared at me blankly so I stared back and smiled. It made him really uncomfortable so he looks away. Then one day he came up to me and asked why I was staring at him all the time. I replied with "I'm sorry? I can't speak the English really well,". Then he just stopped talking to me...oops?
Raivin Barker
Same
Raivin Barker samr
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Raivin Barker lmfao
Everyone on here is hiding something
im hiding a chocolate in my pocket
@@unknownartist2801 awww you are so cute .😜
Unknown Artist 😂lol
Freddie.
@@unknownartist2801 you took my only FOOD... now im going to starve
Its not that complicated. We look because we like what we see. It's not part of some game. If he doesn't approach its because he is reading from you that you're not interested. Or he could be too timid or unavailable.
This. This seems like the most reasonable, realistic explanation. I really don't think there's much more to say.
People's insecurities are a cash cow for content creators, and content creators will gladly say whatever the fuck they can that gets those clicks. Value your finite time on Earth more than that. Spend it wisely.
Then you STAY AWAY FROM THAT PERSON LET'S BE REAL
it can be creepy.
Oh yes, you're right. Super creepy
+KellarJS still creepy 😂
Oh yeah at Boston pizza I was with my dad and that one guy had 2 kids right and then he stared at me for no reason like what the hell ?
Not if he’s beautiful.
being a man i have done this before and just to add my 2 cents in to all the women watching. men are simple, direct decisive. we see something we like we are going to take as much as we can in. even if it's just a glance or a few seconds. men are visual creatures. but dating logic is right. women love mystery. For me at least when i do look but don't smile it's kind of subconsicous and depends on the situation. for instance if i make eye contact with a women and i see she's holidng it longer than usual and i see that twinkyle in her eye i'll flash a smile. always ends well. when you make eye contact it's either a friendly encounter or a hostile one. but when two just make eye contact and don't smile move anything it's kind of like " anything" can happen.
lol and when u look back at him and he looks away
lol if he is unsure of himself.
I don't give attention to any guy who does this to me. I hate Drama. And by Mystery, it has to be Crime Mysteries instead. I always found Detective work fascinating. But I don't want to become a cop. I just find it cool. But don't get me involved in that crap. I don't play, I make you fall into your own trap. You want to start shit, you'll be treated as such. I don't pity, the stupid. :)
@@satanismiscancer7589 Do tell me how you consider someone being shy "drama". It sounds you paint that picture in your own mind. "I don't pity, the stupid". We're all entitled to our opinions and how we view things and I'd say your remark is a lot like the pot calling the kettle black.
@@satanismiscancer7589 welp you say that but you emotionally WILL respond to something different.
my co-worker does this. he's very attractive and I always catch him staring at me from far away. we talk occasionally, but not too often.
Adaora N. same
Mine too ugh
Mines too
This helped me out a lot. More often then most guys will look at me and not smile. I have always wondered what was going on in their minds. Does he like me? Do I have something on my face? And other questions I've asked myself. For the past five years every guy that I think is cute does this to me, and never knowing what that look meant I never talked to the guy. Now that I have some information about it, next time a man does that I will go up and talk to him. Thank you so much.
I feel it depends on the guy. There are some real creeps out there -so be careful. Especially if older not a guy in your school. That stare can be from a guy that wants to hurt you. Then, there are kind guys you see that like you stare & are afraid to approach you shy. I wouldn’t approach a guy that states though. Beware I say a lot of creeps I’ve learned that I never knew existed.
Fuck! It's true! And it fucking works!
so that mean.a guy likes a girl.if does that? is a good thing?
Haha it works
Ms Gemini This dude knows every fucking thing -.-
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I guess it's a positive sign. You'll know for sure if he doesn't like you if he tries to run and avoid you at every possible corner for you not to notice him.
Yeah.....That's exactly what these guys do. They are sooo comfortable with trying to lure you in, but when I became really upset and angry at his stupid behaviour and figured out that he wasn't looking for anything serious, I told him off really good and then he said to me that I needed to stop reading into things that don't exist and that whatever I saw wasn't real.
Some guy. He wanted the physical attention but didn't want to take accountability for his actions.
He tried to gaslight you. When I confronted my starer at work (he had been doing it since I started which was a year ago) and he became defensive and said he wasn't interested and didn't want me to contact him. He stopped for a few weeks and later started again with his staring. I don't even care anymore, ridiculous,. These dudes clearly have a thing for you when they do this because when they act pressed when confronted you know that you touched a sensitive spot - they get all embarrassed and they try to project that embarrassment on you. Childish and quite narcissistic. Good riddance when they finally leave you alone even if that could take years.
I had a guy at work do this and he lost his job for sexual Harrassment.
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i do that to but i dont think about all the stuff he's is saying ... i do like the girl but im just not happy .. for me it is insecurity i know this.. fear of rejection and the hurt it may cause if it takes a long time ... its not trapping some girl ...at least not for me
What ?? I don't know if that's the intention of other guys..But Personally Why I Do This is Because I simply like the girl but i don't want to be too close to her..just because either i know she has a bf or likes someone else ..Basically Im just Savouring her lovely Looks Thats All..But keeping it from a safe distance so i won't get a fist in the face or something LMAO ; D
That makes sense especially if she has a man
Yeah don't judge a book by its cover..
It means he's a Stalker
Watch out🏃🏃🏃
And keep 911 on speed dial😭😂
Damn I believe you just answered the question I’ve been looking for. Cause this dude stared me down until I was out of his view. Face emotionless creeped me out. Hell I’m definitely thinking about him
Mostly true but I'll just point out to girls that it's only true if the guy would normally smile but it trying not to. If the guy is just the type that doesn't smile often (like me) or is just generally miserable then this video can be very misleading.
so that kinda happened to me, i’m a smiley type but only to my close friends and we both ended up looking at each other at the same time and we just stared at each other and we both had blank faces lmao are we both psycho?
He usually just glances at me and when I notice him I look away but because I look away quickly I don't get to see if he did
You are totally right about it. The thing is, this is exactly what is happening to me right now. I don't know what to do or neither what to think, is a quite big difference(age) between us and I am not sure what he meant. When I made eye contact with him, he was,like, already staring at me in the eyes. I looked away because I was surprised and shy at that time,and when I looked back at him he was still staring at me in the eyes. I kept that eye contact like 4-5 seconds and I was the one AGAIN who looked away. I guess I wasn't that confident like him at all. I don't know what to thing or what to do, because this thought of being just friendly is still in my mind. He is much older, what can I tell? It is very difficult to say... He was kind of lost in my eyes, didn't make a single move. he was watching me while I was walking. What do you think is was on his mind in that moment? He didn't even blink. Is hard to tell if he had his eyes bigger than before, I am not sure. He was confident on himself and also he's not a shy person...
That is so creepy! Oh my gosh. This man definitely answered my question.
Astral Traveler there a guy at work who dose this.
@@shaniceturner4130 Yup, our president of Operations keeps on staring at me and I don't know why.He made curious.
Just before I took my lunch, we passed each other and our eyes locked, I did not smile and so is he.
Before he leaves the office, he looks at me.Sometimes he stands up from his chair just to look at what I'm doing.I want to ask him if I did something wrong in the office for him to stare at me like that.
Astral Traveler its creepy
Astral Traveler maybe he likes u
For me when I do this it means I'm thinking im analyzing and focusing on the person I like and looking into their eyes to get locked eye contact to feel the connection for a short while lmaooo idk why I do that,lmaooo my friends are like im different lmaoo but like I like staring down into their soul and getting a connection through their eyes and like a silence lmaoo then break it lmaooo idk it depends on the person for me the person I like and when I do that and focus i feel like a connection like an in the moment thing
It's never bad intentions idk why its like a natural thing I like focusing and concentrating on thing I want
Same here its very wise to do thats intuition
So how exactly do us girls react to this? What should we do? And does it mean he likes you or is he just trying to trap u for the fun of it (messing with feelings)
he's just messing with feelings
She stares at me but she is not smiling. When I'm joking she is not smiling also but she is staring at me like it is so weird.
most times they also do it for validation.
@@marymesk577 smart girl
Why y'all make things so hard just go up and say something to him or wave silly rabbit
This sounds fascinating, @DatingLogic. I thought the same way about this guy and the next day when he had to move back to England, I braced up and took the courage to contact him on facebook, being completely sure of how much he had liked me with all the prolonged stares and all. But unfortunately it turned out that he is not interested. I couldn't have been more wrong about him. I was also encouraged by this video of yours. It's been 9 days already and he still hasn't answered my facebook message and friend request. I made a fool of myself and feel so humiliated. Why the hell did he stare so much and repeatedly and then not even bothering to write me one word??? Now I blocked him, does this matter? Will he contact me in the end? I must tell you that he had made a point in showing me how much he liked me, by staring repeatedly and locking eyes with me for several minutes and being serious. But it was from a distance. When I got near him, he became really tough and professional, as he was my supervisor at work. Only sometimes he got closer or hummed a song and checked my reaction.So sad.
is this bad? does this mean he's a player? does he do this to a lot of girls or just the ones he's truly attracted to?
I mean my crush stares at me a lot but never smiles ofc......but he only stares at me like dis, not other gurls
I mean....my crush stares at me a lot and never smiles ofc but..he only stares at me like dat not other gurls
@@_Lay222 same here dude
+DatingLogic
ive caught my crush several times staring at me and smiling but today he stared at me and made eye contact for at least 3 seconds then i looked away coz it was so cool but kinda uncomfortable what does this mean!?!?
He’s comfortable staring at you for longer durations without feeling like a creep. Maybe you helped him feel more comfortable in some way
i remeber this guy staring at me a few years ago it would creep me out at first but then i would stare back without smiling like he did i rember one day i was playing soccer/fotball by myself waiting for my little sister he came really close to me and tried to touch me he took my hand and i ran away for my life because i was alway creeped out by him because he would stare at me for no reasonlol but now i know he liked me because he always tried to act confident or cool when i was around and he used to straighten up hes shoulders and his puff up his chest when i look at him he always tried to be close with my little brother so he could be around me i didnt like him at all i thought he was weird creepy anyoing acting to confident so i would advice guys to act normal not cocky or diffrent around the person u like.
He stares and we look at each other :)
So there's this guy that stares at me whenever I'm around, its been happening on and off for about 6 months; its super awkward. Recently, his stares have become more intense, he never smiles, he just stares at me and I usually hold his gaze unless I'm busy. He hasn't approached me, I'm really not sure if he likes me. Its just super confusing.
Although I've got to say this guy at my school confuses me. He would often stare at me with no expression on his face, and then say whenever he's with a group of friends and I gravitate towards his group to try to get close to him, he'll kind of smile and walk away. Some times he'll look interested in me and other times he would appear to be cool and act as if I'm not there. It really intimidates me, and I feel like I'm not good enough for him.
so how did it go
What happened ?
soo did something happen?
Thanks for this! I've dealt with this a lot but never knew there was a deeper meaning to it...
Well...I seriously fell on his trap. Those gazes of him caught me and I don't know what to do. Seriously! I like him so bad but I can not find the words to start a conversation. I'm so helpless. He really needs to know I like him so much. -_-
What about stares but barley talks to you?
He may be shy
he's studying you
idk kami it doesn't mean he is shy it means that he doesn't like u😭
Same situation
But he talk to u if he in a mood. I think it better if he want to talk to you play dump. Like u are not interested and also stared at him so that he should no that not only him can play that game.
Same here. He's extremely shy. I guess.. Even if we end up getting married, we'll just keep staring at each other for the rest of our lives.
Some guys stare at me with a confused look on their faces. I'm rarely called beautiful or complimented but when I am the guys is usually gorgeous. I've never been on a date or anything. Men just stare at me (my friends and family members have seen it) with this look of confusion/awe/and sometimes disgust? Please...I need a male opinon
Girl guys are weird ! You have to grow confidence which is hard sometimes ! Be confident in your self and the right guy will come along! I get different looks from guys some say beautiful some look at me like I’m weird ! Lol self acceptance is key!
Same! I would wonder why they would look confused sometimes lol
I'm a guy , it's either you're so beautiful that they Don't dare or you're so strong and there's some mystery about you
Lol,DL, I have short sight and I find contacts and glasses a hassle. I can't see if people are smiling or not from a distance let alone looking at me. So I can't see if that's someone I like or dislike. I walk a lot and I have to make a guess as to whom that person is coming towards me or away from me. The problem is it may look like I am paying someone perv time when in reality I am confused. If I know what's going on I try and smile. I don't think I ever look and not smile, or raise my eyebrows in greeting. I have a lot of woman walk past or women who are in front of me look back. I don't know if this is because they like me or are creeped out. I didn't know I was being seductive or attempting to be.
Wow I'm shocked that no one has mentioned this but there's a high chance that he's shy. My crush did this for months.
as a guy who does this with every woman i find attractive in more ways than physical (even if u just let them, i can feel it) this is 100% true 😂
This is exactly whats happening and im here going crazy telling my friend wtf is up with him, idk how to handle it!! Someone help it’s so uncomfortable to work with him it makes me not want to come go work.
I really liked this video!
Here's my situation;
When I got back to school, I noticed this really attractive guy. He also lives in my building and on the same floor as me, just a room away. At the beginning of the semester( like September), I ocassinally saw him glance at me, and I thought nothing of it. Then as the weeks went on, I noticed how often he looked at me. We both live on the first floor of our building and our rooms have these huge window. My roommate and I like to keep our blinds open, and until recently, I would always catch him staring directly into our room and at me. Now, I catch him with his friends and he can be talking to them and they all look at me, not in a bad way. At football games, he works with the event staff and he would often turn around and spit me and continue to look at me.
What could all this mean?
He likes BBQ sauce on his oatmeal
It happened to me while driving the guy was in his car staring at me no smiling just a deep dark stare during a red light traffic stop. He stared until the light turned green.
this guy in my class has been doing that to me every day pretty much since we started school, also I'm new at the school this year an i always catch him looking at me, today he was standing in front of me in line and he was facing me just looking at me and i looked back at him and away because i was nervous. but he has a girlfriend.. so I'm not sure why he's always staring??
sophiiieee He may like you as well. However, if he has a girlfriend, it is best to avoid getting yourself emotionally involved. If you do, it typically leads to hurt.
DatingLogic
It seems like he's trying to ignore me.but why?
Hi Sophie have you got a boyfriend if not I want to be with you please and it will mean the world to me xxxxxxxxxxxxx
love you sorry but i have been out of a relationship for a long while :(
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A guy did this to me for 2 years straight at school. I knew he was thinking about me, not just daydreaming. He never smiled. Well he did the first time he saw me, he was staring and smiling charmingly. The one time he talked to me, I lost my voice literally. I had no voice, it was the winter. Maybe it wasn't meant to be? Well now I am finished school, and I haven't seen him again. I need to get over him. How do you get over a crush tho?
Oh my god I was looking for a explaination like this! :) So basically there was this guy that I met my junior year of high school. He definately tried talking to me at first. He would tease me in a playful way but I really loved it when I would turn around and he would be staring at me while doing something at the same time. I would always catch him staring at me or looking at me whenever he had the chance. It came to the point where he would stare but not smile. I just wished I made a move and asked why he was staring at me. I also wished he talked to me more :(
im suffering from this omg im sure hes taken ...playing with my damn mind ughhhhhhh
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I just assume he’s a creep 😒 There’s a guy who’s been doing this for months now. My reaction is no reaction.
That’s creepy. I will assert my dominance right back at em.
okay so i like this guy in my class
and i always see him staring at me..but today he asked me why i stared at him and i didn't say anything back..he asked his like 2 times already.GoD i just stare at him coz he stares at me..someone Help!!what should i tell him
Last sunday i gave my number to my crush who is working at a store, i went there many times to see him. He was always busy with customers. He didn't call me :(. I am so confused he was looking at me, smiling and staring... I feel so sad
When my crush stares at me while not smiling i pretend not to look at him but i clearly know he is starring but i usually looked back and he turned his head fast
OK so I work as a preschool teacher. I have a student with a gorgeous dad who I've had minimal interaction with (a few hellos)for the past 2 years. The dad mainly sees me if I'm there to greet the student in the morning with a hug and kiss (student is very attached to me ). One morning, dad brought him to school as usual, and I was in the main office, right next to the entrance door. I saw them and smiled. I thought they hadn't noticed me but just before they entered the building, the dad suddenly turned and stared at me for a second. Then when he was leaving the school, he turns towards the office, just stares at me without smiling, and when i put my head up and see him, he turns away. What does this all mean? He looked so serious I felt kinda bad.
please God make this true :(
I legit clicked this video because i thought it was a video of a dude staring at the camera for 2 minutes
This really hit home !, a guy at work was doing this , I found out he had a crush on me !, by his Constant staring I started to like the attention , and found him interesting, and was always thinking of him ….. so is he a manipulator then ?, cause sometimes he’s shy .
Did you like him?
Sometimes we are just shy and nervous. I've creeped a chick out who liked me by doing this and it feels terrible. Just know it isn't always with bad intent.
She just finds you very pretty/attractive or is lusting on you. Other than that he doesn't have any plans getting to know more about you or won't do anything more about it.
Well there’s an older pastor at church that does this to me. I just smile and say hi. He did this to me the other day when I got up during the service to go to the restroom. His expression is so serious staring as I walked past I would think he’s silently reprimanding me. When I smile and say hi he just nods at me.
He also tends to have that same serious expression when I see him after service is over. But once I start talking to him his whole demeanor softens and he listens very intently to what I’m saying. I guess because I don’t give into the attempt at intimidation. I just continue with my bubbly greetings lol. He also tends to lean in for a friendly side hug… so I don’t know I wonder sometimes because I don’t see him hugging everybody. Maybe he just doesn’t realize how serious he’s looking at first.
So this is kinda happening to me, but I still don't quite understand x)
I've been in this thing, it's kind of a training program... and there's this guy there who keeps staring at me without EVER smiling. To be honest, I didn't even notice he was there in the first two days, but then in the third, as we were all entering the room I just ran into him. When that happened, he grabbed my arm and I grabbed his almost instantly and we said "I'm sorry" at the same time and it was almost like we had a moment there. Anyway... from that moment he has been staring at me from far but he never smiles and he never tried to talk to me. The other day as we had a break, I went outside to smoke a cigarrette... 2 minutes later he was there but I think he didn't approach me because I was talking to a friend and so he just went right back inside. It was kinda obvious but I second guess everything anyway xD
Yesterday for instance, he saw me leaving and he just left like he was in a rush. He even forgot to sign this thing we have to sign every day so he could follow me... or at least I think that was his purpose. But then we went in different directions and then again, he never talked to me.
Today it was more of the same. Endless staring and again he followed me when we left the training program but as we got to the point where we have to go our separate ways, I stopped to light a cigarette (and of course it was an excuse to see if he would talk to me or something). He kinda stopped when he realized I was still there and he came back again, he passed by me, but then he just kept walking... so, eventually I started walking as well x)
I'm obviously interested in him or I wouldn't be here but I don't really see myself approaching him. I want him to approach me... but this training program thing will end next week and I'm not sure he'll do it. Any advice? x)
He needs to just Hello and act like regular human. Everyone says Hello unless they're psycho. 🤣
A guy I like is talkative with other girls, flirts with them, laughs really loud but, as soon as he's around me he's super quiet, and doesn't acknowledge me (sometimes he does). Before he was holding the door for our coworkers but, when he saw me he let go of the door & I had to catch it. But, now everytime I see him he opens the door for me. Yesterday, I caught him staring at me three times but, not smiling. Sometimes he raises his eyebrows at me & smiles, but he rarely initiates conversation. Does he like me? Or am I just confused?
he dies for you girll
He sounds like a bitch to me tbh
I'm sorry but if a guy was being rude to you please don't date him i dated a guy who was really rude towards me i always had to tell my parent and the school about him and then when we got older and in different grades he told me he liked me so i dated him because he was cute and very funny at that time but once i dumped him because it didn't feel right i only wanted me and him to be friends he told me he would kill himself if i leave him I'm telling some guys are abusive but i didn't care if he killed himself because he really didn't he still alive dating other girls 😂😂🤦
That is so smart. How have I not noticed?
Can girls do the whole luring thing to ? I have a guy who does this to me all the time and I was wondering if I could do it back
hannah bobana Yes, some women do this, too. Usually, it is the type that Cheat. Same goes for male cheaters.
Lure you, aw that's so adorable. Love your videos. You are very handsome too :) thank you
i locked eyes with a girl this morning, it held for 4 or 5 sec, she smiled but then she walked away with her comrades. xD
Bang on....absolutely correct!!!!
my crush locked my eyes two timess...i want moree...but i dont know if he looked at me by coincidence or nottt ...helpppp😭😭😭😭
Actually me and this girl keep making eye contact and I think she's beautiful and that's why I look at her and she looks back but I just can't talk to girls or strangers like specifically if their older like I physically can not I sometimes try to talk and nothing comes out I wanna cry because I don't want to lose my shot with any girl I've already lost it with girls in my grade(she's a grade below) so I am hoping for a chance to talk to her and not completely choke on my stupid tounge any tips?
I was actually like this. Girl would be with every dude in the room. I didnt know what to do. Im exhausted. I cant tell her anything, naturally, all i could do is look at her. Its a crazy, serious, difficult feeling. I cant do anything.
okay, so i went to this pilgrimage with my crush, and when i was sitting on the opposite side of this church, we would look at eachother and he would never, and i mean NEVER smiles. legit. and it made me so uncomfortable i had to look down and get really embarrassed. we would make constant eye contact and he would never smile at me. this video explains everything that i'e gone through with him. YAYYYY MY CRUSH LIKES ME BACK!!!
i instantly look away when someone stares at me for more than 2 seconds. its rude
Porsha B rude? Tf 🤔
same here
Omg this is so true . This guy at the gym does it all the time even tho I’m a fatty.