Planning to Divorce?? Listen to this!

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  • @mystrybegum6725
    @mystrybegum6725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    It's been a year my ex husband still has my belongings..i lost everything..he left me scared im being patient but my allah wont may allah help everyone out there who is going through similar situation ameen and reward us in higher rank..brothers and sisters out there make your marriage work get councilling and take actions and dont break marriage over small issues..I love Mufti Menk i feel like he knows my situation and giving advice direct..may allah grant you jannah tul firdus ameen

    • @peachy7586
      @peachy7586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Assalamu alaikum
      May Allah bless you and make your path easier. Ameen.
      Sister I'm not in a good situation either. If you don't mind, can we talk?

    • @khaalidqaddaafi5633
      @khaalidqaddaafi5633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Would like to marry with me

    • @hypex1378
      @hypex1378 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then it might be your wrong work

  • @mystrybegum6725
    @mystrybegum6725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    9months ago when i was going this maritual issue this video used to keep pop up and i used to avoid it and here I am today..allah was giving me signs may allah help us with our hardship..this is video is so relatable..oh allah it's not easy to bear patience but allhamdulillah may allah help us it's sad how someone can come in your life and snatch eveeything from you leave you broken and ruin your life no one has the right to play with someones heart..I pray nobody ever goes through a painful situation like me i've always heard about shaytan but never experienced in the form of human being..nowadays marriage has become like a game..may allah help us all to be the best spouse amèen..i agree with you brother men and his family out there needs to mature and be a man and take classes before ruining someones daughter.

    • @syedferoz8922
      @syedferoz8922 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      May Allah swt ease your pain, Aameen

    • @mystrybegum6725
      @mystrybegum6725 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@syedferoz8922 thank you

  • @marydawnlongos9438
    @marydawnlongos9438 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    😭😭😭😭😭I cant explain what I fell now😢😢😢 I will make dua hopefully allah will listen to me😭😢😢

    • @marydawnlongos9438
      @marydawnlongos9438 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hopefully but still I’m trying he always closed the line and block my other number 😭

    • @sadiakhan2293
      @sadiakhan2293 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      C

  • @shafafatema488
    @shafafatema488 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    In Bangladesh it happens by the wives who gets away like this. May Allah garant us a best life partner

  • @saimas6642
    @saimas6642 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am feeling this at 25 years in. Yes we had many issues w inlaws at first but seeing that they are still if not worse now, i just cant handle it. Same abuse w my sisterinlaw.. i feel her pain and see how they hv kicked her out and kept her hanging for 1.5 years. My heartaches listening to my husband saying ‘who cares about it, its nit happening to you now’ And actually saying ‘well shes not divorced’. I cannot believe their thinking, bias and inhumanity. They feel its respectful to allow their their mum to call the shots like that. 😞 I forgave everyone in my time and built them a home to stay in, rentfree etc..gave up my family’s Umrah ticket to send a brother-in-law and his wife n kid instead. Im suffocating in this marriage; especially since my husband is denying his fam ever needed any help. Its like you sacrifice for the sake of family and having empathy but find out they dont even feel like it was help, they were entitled all along. So what am I? Nothing but someone who supported them. 💔

  • @tayaabqureshi8878
    @tayaabqureshi8878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Informative knowledge, Actually we live in a society,where divorce is considered very bad,but when a woman suffer nobody take care of her.

  • @TheMrsansari
    @TheMrsansari 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was watching and thinking after being forcefully removed from the martial home. I found out he had been stealing from my bank account over the years.
    It took all my wages, child benefits, maternity pay. Marriage allowance. He took of me cash my relatives gave to me and my children.
    Literally didn't gave me anything over 13years. I wore my sisters clothes that they didn't want. That's how I survived without feeling too deprived.
    He we through a year where he didn't talk or touch me for a whole year. When he started doing his dirty habit again he was doing the same thing.
    This guy is very wealthy. He works for a world known company. I asked for what he took from me. Including preventing me from working.
    I felt good hearing this. I really was him to have the consequences because he is being too arrogant and smug.

  • @artismypassion
    @artismypassion 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So wonderfully said! A couple of concepts truly mentioned!

  • @rashidaabdulai2623
    @rashidaabdulai2623 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jazaakallahul kharan 👏❤

  • @waheedakhan2293
    @waheedakhan2293 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Superb Thanks for making my faith more strong and love my All mighty ALLAHSUBHANUTALLAt

  • @marthagarcia9737
    @marthagarcia9737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    True I have the situation same body practically stole money from as the I need for my children

  • @jhocelynsapal
    @jhocelynsapal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Salam, sukran for ths video I watch deeply I cried wn I watch ur video coz I'm belong of this , 17 yrs my husband dnt mind us and our 6 kids he leaves us, I send our children in the school, i support their needs just me alone, and yet he dnt give share to our properties and now what happen he is now serious sick, now my children only 2 not yet finish college, the 4 they r already graduate sme hv job sme still looking for job alhamdulilah

  • @doobydoo5813
    @doobydoo5813 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am 12 and I have a sis of 5 years old, and my dad dont come to home to live with us because my mom always fights with him and don't allow him to get a job and he is now living separatly some where, he doesn't even make a call and I don't know where he is living what he is doing and I even don't know how will he look now, lastly he visited us nearly 10 months ago and if he visits us he will not come inside the house and my grandparents and my mom planning to divorce and I don't even know what to do if I tell mom she is scolding me that all wrong is in your dad and if I tell dad he says just don't talk about it

    • @Abrock730
      @Abrock730 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      May Allah bless and protect you little one! Remember Allah loves you! Be strong!!!

    • @farhiyaa4880
      @farhiyaa4880 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Subhannallah, may Allah protect you. Every child has rights to see both parents. You have right to not hear any negative comments about either parents.

    • @nilafernisa8462
      @nilafernisa8462 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Baby,ask Allah to make things easy between your parents ,and for you to live together as a family

    • @tazimtube
      @tazimtube 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Picture in my profile is my eldest son, I have not seen him or my younger one for six years. I cannot see them, the court system in the UK don't allow me to see them or contact them, nor the mother of my children allow me.
      So please be patient and have sabre, insha'Allah Allah will sort it out.

    • @bluegem1928
      @bluegem1928 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Always love both your parents equally no matter what

  • @bluegem1928
    @bluegem1928 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Divorce is soo bad can’t believe I’m going through it

    • @bintadiame1060
      @bintadiame1060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      May Allah make it easy for you and grant you Rahma

    • @bluegem1928
      @bluegem1928 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      binta Diame thanks sister🤍Ameen

    • @peachy7586
      @peachy7586 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      May Allah bless you and make your path easier. Ameen.

    • @aishahsultan3525
      @aishahsultan3525 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Y u go for it??

  • @annahyarxing8659
    @annahyarxing8659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am hurting now so much ya Allah

  • @shabnamarif3139
    @shabnamarif3139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Allah plz save n reconsile my marriage....😭😭😭

  • @LakieJ912
    @LakieJ912 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aasalamu alaikum this lecture has been extremely insightful as well as helpful seeing in that I myself and my husband are about to embark on this next stage of our lives. May Allah be with us and may he grant us peace and tranquility as we make this transition.

  • @aslamtaq555
    @aslamtaq555 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What if she wants the divorce?

  • @zubaidasmith4551
    @zubaidasmith4551 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband stole and stole from me and made me do such horrible things against Allah's word against the government, beating me if I stood up to him.I begged him for years to divorce me and he wouldn't. Now because of his actions I am being held accountable by the Ummah and government. Once he used me up he set things up to move on and throw it on me. And now he is moving one unscathed. And the Scholars have only told me over the years to have sabr. I am holding onto the rope of Allah and trust that HE will bring me out of this the victor! May Allah give me sabr and taqwah with this and everything. Amin Amin Amin And before someone tries to condemn me for speaking out we must remember Allah's words. If anyone is to speak out in the streets it is the oppressed. Alhamdullilah

  • @sophikateregga3982
    @sophikateregga3982 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wareyikum salaam warahumatulahi wabarakatuh

  • @fatema4230
    @fatema4230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am at just before divorce stage,,i need help

  • @kashafakbar2744
    @kashafakbar2744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very emotional lecture which touch my heart
    In each word I was looking and questioning myself , is this about me???
    How does he knows every thing about my married life ???
    Unfortunately this is the story of any 3rd Muslim woman...😭😭

  • @peacepeace1911
    @peacepeace1911 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice knowledge
    thanks shaikh

  • @anisasen3672
    @anisasen3672 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You can’t have a good marriage these days impossible

    • @puntjepuntpunt8527
      @puntjepuntpunt8527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can. If the both have respect for eachother and follow the marriage rules

    • @anisasen3672
      @anisasen3672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      puntje punt punt you can not it’s impossible especially in today’s society it’s too hard especially for younger people, and you’ll need a lot more then respect. But maybe you’re married and happy but I doubt it sorry

    • @khushbooramzan5642
      @khushbooramzan5642 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Impossible

    • @Myview246
      @Myview246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      this is why its important for BOTH to try. the problem is usually one doesn't try as hard (sorry to say it but when i was growing up it was usually the husbands who didn't try as hard) and as a result the wives won't feel compelled to try that hard either. if both give up, there is no marriage. this is why its VERY IMPORTANT for equality but men just want to make a joke out of everything or continue to be selfish with the whole 'me me me, my family, my parents' mentality and neglect the wife. therefore why would the wife fight for a marriage like that??

    • @avijafar7057
      @avijafar7057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Myview246 totally agree not worth to try anymore.

  • @marthagarcia9737
    @marthagarcia9737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I believe in Devine Justice all the tiff get what they deserve

  • @shirazulislam4575
    @shirazulislam4575 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Alhamdulillah what's happened other way round if wife having a fear don't sleep with their husband not always the men's 21st century

  • @shalia40
    @shalia40 ปีที่แล้ว

    As salamu alaikum brother… my husband stole money when I was not home and when I got back he was gone and I haven’t heard from him since January and I want a divorce…

  • @latinalife2458
    @latinalife2458 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Salam alaykum brother Menk
    I am in need of an advisor I am in very difficult situation I need and advise as soon as possible plz

  • @AbulHussain-hh9rg
    @AbulHussain-hh9rg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Salaam sheikh. What if a wife is neglecting her husband because she is too occupied with the problems of her brothers and sisters and this is resulting in major complications within your relationship.

  • @luciaerdei1332
    @luciaerdei1332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Allah please help me my husband left me after 9years marriage I'm feeling so down and lonely .

    • @pele4412
      @pele4412 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you need help I know of a powerful prophet who can help you return your husband back to you

    • @SG-kd2gi
      @SG-kd2gi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pele4412 wow there are alot of evil in here.

  • @zahedfedaie2282
    @zahedfedaie2282 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Salaam Alaikum Sheikh. I need your advise as I have some serious questions related to this subject. I would love to talk to you in sha Allah if you have time.

  • @saraumar3295
    @saraumar3295 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please come to UK and have these talks in masjids because I've never seen a masjid in UK talking about marriage and it's issues and how to resolve them.

  • @osmandaffay4014
    @osmandaffay4014 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My ex husband is almost twice my age , and he wasn't functioning in bed even though he received treatment from different hospitals in different countries for several years but still there was no improvement and so I divorced him, did I do wrong ?

  • @Toubiesmaili
    @Toubiesmaili 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Asalamou3alykom could you please talk about ta3adod azawjat

  • @AbdullahButt-gq1fo
    @AbdullahButt-gq1fo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aoa,My sister's husband divorce him once but soon after few hours he denied.My sister left his husband home and they are not talking with each other. Kindly guide in islam views?

  • @salimsadik6761
    @salimsadik6761 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear All Brothers and Sisters
    All who have kind or same related cases
    I understand sheikh stated clearly.
    Polite reminder
    He stated if things did not work give peaceful divorce.

  • @famym9578
    @famym9578 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aasallamualaikum.. Jazakallah for this video.. I have a serious problem and need guidance asap inshallah.. Please can you assist

  • @Mixedblood82
    @Mixedblood82 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can he ever talk about how the sisters are in today's time?
    We know many men have issues but so do the women.

  • @yousraadly7341
    @yousraadly7341 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Family is very sacred matter in islam that why divorse is Allah most hated allowed issue and breaking in between married couple is one of deadly sins despite that mirrage became not to rush issue since oneself vant find a partner were you can be religiously/healthy safe with them, some discovers after they since they threatening their religious wellbeing divorse on such vases is protection that brings Allah blessing upon it doer , thanks for lovely reminder indeed these issues needed to be discussed in islamic view .

  • @A1FroMjQ
    @A1FroMjQ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Mufti Menk? I respect you and love listening to you... however, i must ask a question that has really caught me eye... why do you always talk positive for the sister but not the brothers in terms of a marriage in ANY of your speeches... why my brother?

  • @ATIFKHAN-sy4ns
    @ATIFKHAN-sy4ns 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Assalamu alaikum.. I have an issue regarding my married life.. wanna get in touch with you .. plz help me out

  • @xxblueshankzz2.042
    @xxblueshankzz2.042 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️👍👍

  • @mohemabegum492
    @mohemabegum492 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Salam bia I need help

  • @sky-qh3ht
    @sky-qh3ht 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Asalaam walaikum I'm goin this rite now

  • @uroojbadar3899
    @uroojbadar3899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't want anything not my jewellery my things nothing...
    I only want my son back😞

    • @rachealflorian8112
      @rachealflorian8112 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello do you still need help?

    • @uroojbadar3899
      @uroojbadar3899 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rachealflorian8112 who are you?
      I mean why are you asking me can you help me?

    • @rachealflorian8112
      @rachealflorian8112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sahar ali i am from Italy I was once in a similar situation as you and there was a man that worked for me his name is Baba Olowo

    • @uroojbadar3899
      @uroojbadar3899 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rachealflorian8112 sorry dear you can't help me I am from Pakistan

    • @rachealflorian8112
      @rachealflorian8112 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      sahar ali why don’t you give it a try and message him because he has helped a lot of people from around the world

  • @Bellefluous
    @Bellefluous 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if the man is not ready to listen or her from you the woman how do you go about that

  • @farheensultana126
    @farheensultana126 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    assalamualaikum sir I have problem I m married to cousin brother we have 4 years daughter he stays abroad he is not coming to india from 2 years .I want to speak to you

    • @nisarfatima9250
      @nisarfatima9250 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Read sure hijr ayat number 47 for love between husband and wife this is so powerful dua

  • @donaldkingsley4440
    @donaldkingsley4440 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    @4:25 "Allah Does not leave people to oppress others? So Israel is not oppressing gaza?

    • @pele4412
      @pele4412 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can we have a talk one on one

  • @ajshehandal6983
    @ajshehandal6983 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aleykum selam I have been with my husband for 26years nd he refused to pray and he cheated on me I gave him so many chance but still refuses to change to keep my iman and peace in my life I have to do it what do you think Selam ?????

  • @marydawnlongos9438
    @marydawnlongos9438 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My husband leave me he wants to devorce me we have 1child my husband is Muslim and I converted to islam! It’s been like 3 days now his not with us he blocked me everywhere i can’t talk to him inshalla allah will opend his mind and he will come back to us 😢😭😭😭😭

    • @luqmaanandsalman72
      @luqmaanandsalman72 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      8830949899

    • @nisarfatima9250
      @nisarfatima9250 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Read sure hijr ayat number 47 love between husband and wife so powerful I experienced it

    • @avijafar7057
      @avijafar7057 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alizaaksheikh how is that funny you're marriage its so over !!!

  • @fatimazehra2052
    @fatimazehra2052 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who is imran Shaikh..??

  • @zaragilani6118
    @zaragilani6118 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sheikh. Assalam alaikum. I am in Zambia and would like guidance on a similar situation you just spoke about. How do I get in touch with you for guidance on phone if possible. I am in Zambia.

  • @musynerfatma2556
    @musynerfatma2556 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Salam aleikum ihave a question if some give a talaq and and if you ask her what is the problem it told you know the matter but am so confuse he told I lied me I told want I know then he ask people they give wrong thing eve if I told something he doesn't believe me what I supposed to do sheikh and ihavent finished paid my bride price like mahar.

  • @raziaramadhan4855
    @raziaramadhan4855 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Assalam aleykum warahamatullah wabarakatuh.women are passing through tough moments in marriage. Thanks for the video. Plz just need a whatsapp for more communication

  • @AbidHussain-jv4lb
    @AbidHussain-jv4lb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Maulana why do just attack the men? What about women who take the home, live savings and dont let the men see the children.

    • @Penn.obsessed
      @Penn.obsessed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Most men aren't even around to raise the children, better off to stay with their mom.

    • @tazimtube
      @tazimtube 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Penn.obsessed If you follow the Islamic law, you may have to surrender your children to their Father. I think age of seven for sons and age of 9 for daughters.
      They require father's protection as mother's cannot fight physically.
      Remember Allah has created the children out of the mear sperm drop of men ( Sura Yaseen ). They only grow in the mother's wombs. Allah knows the best.

    • @tazimtube
      @tazimtube 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mufti Menk is more than a Maulana, the highest rank in the Islamic school is a Mufti. It takes years of study. Mufti's have the authority to become a judge ( Qadi ) as they know the Islamic law.

    • @avijafar7057
      @avijafar7057 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tazimtube may Allah blessing with all the capacity he has .

    • @hummingbird9303
      @hummingbird9303 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tazimtube Islamic law is one thing but some men neglect their children, leave them and go on to start other families.

  • @kaikulkaikul6448
    @kaikulkaikul6448 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Asalamallaykum Brother, please my Brother hood in Islam, I really plan to get divorce with My husband because He is away for Eight years, please My brother in Islam

  • @angel-bn7vb
    @angel-bn7vb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I I'm 12 My mom say to get baby and my father no really new baby

    • @angel-bn7vb
      @angel-bn7vb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Insllah 2020 get newborn baby

    • @tishbish2505
      @tishbish2505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Girl, you're too young to get a baby. Tell your mom to have a sibling for you.

  • @peachy7586
    @peachy7586 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    8:41! :")

  • @assietoukamissoko137
    @assietoukamissoko137 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Salam, la oummah. Pour ma part j'ai plannifié mon divorce avec mon mari, un homme mauvais envers moi. Je ne l'aime pas et je ne ressens rien pour lui. Mais quand je vois depuis des années le diable et ses partisans m'harcelaient nuit et jour, à propos de mon mari, j'ai décidé de ne plus divorcer. Je vais rester marier avec lui pour adorer Allah même s'il est mauvais et que je ne le veux pas dans ma vie. Je dis qu'il y'a un secret caché dans mon mariage, un grand bienfait pour que les diables s'y intéressent et s'acharnent. Je reste marier avec cet homme mauvais, certes je ne serais pas sincère puisque je ne l'aime pas et que j'aurais tout donner pour le sortir de ma vie. Je reste dans mon mariage pour adorer Dieu et pour ce secret que seul les diables connaissent. Je ne divorcerai pas de cet homme!!!

  • @fahimiru
    @fahimiru 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i cant resolve as soon as u complain u get slapped

    • @angrycannibal6625
      @angrycannibal6625 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fahima Abubakar get out!!!! No one has the right to hit you!!!

  • @marid5160
    @marid5160 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mufti..... do you have any actual Islamic ruling? Jurisprudence or just your very own sweet sounding opinions? Because if we wanted those, we could just turn to Western Culture. They do pretty sweet sounding, humane, nice, cutesy lectures too

  • @sarahsworldjoseph8861
    @sarahsworldjoseph8861 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sheikhs are always on man side 😔

  • @7346908
    @7346908 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir with due respect you either create too much expectations in minds of women or you confuse men. Above all you treat marriage as a religious affair. It's a legal contract and should be dealt in that respect. Islam teaches ethics and obeyance to promise. Contract is a promise. Please less sugar quote your lectures. In this one I appreciate how you have carried this in video.

    • @lovesunnah9919
      @lovesunnah9919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He has spoken the truth!! Have some respect

  • @Blackfracolin1
    @Blackfracolin1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sheikh is it not about time you made a video on women you talk alot about men but what about fitna of women? our prophet Mohammad talked about? Didnt he exactly describe certain types of women in the end times?

    • @Blackfracolin1
      @Blackfracolin1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fay Zz i think some of these muftis are blind the days of men taking advantage of women is history now the women rule we live in the day and age fitna of women who are being groomed for the dajal as we knw many women will go out to him.. A hadith comes to mind where a father and son would tie the daughter up because of the fitna and influence of dajjal.. i guess the time aint far off now why are these topics not talked about muftis wake up..

    • @Blackfracolin1
      @Blackfracolin1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fay Zz these saytans soon as something gos wrong women would rather the choose the back door of freedom and throw the divorce card at you.. then along comes taking your child and property and claiming child maintenance until the age of 16.. i mean wheres the mans rights so many in the comment section including myself toba its like dayligh robbery such a shame..

    • @blueflame3531
      @blueflame3531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He's a simp Imam

    • @Blackfracolin1
      @Blackfracolin1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@blueflame3531 why the status of mufti then? Or shiekh