The Truth About Marriage - Mufti Menk

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  • @sakinaphiri3181
    @sakinaphiri3181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    Listening to this just made me realize i got married to an angel...my husband smiles more in the house than when he's outside his kind to everyone but even more kind to me..it's been the best time of my life being in this marriage....the more we come closer to Allah to more we enjoy our marriage

    • @qqqq6582
      @qqqq6582 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mashaallah! Alhamdullah! ❤

    • @nailafaquir4543
      @nailafaquir4543 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      MashALLAH sister. May ALLAH SWT keeps your home blessed

    • @Sara-nl6es
      @Sara-nl6es ปีที่แล้ว +3

      MashaAllah
      May Allah put more barakat to your marriage and keep you safe from evil eyes

    • @Mochi-re8cv
      @Mochi-re8cv ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mashallah May Allah bless you and him Ameen

    • @Mukanairo_
      @Mukanairo_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Barakallah

  • @nafisanasher4170
    @nafisanasher4170 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2574

    Its important to self analyze our own character before looking for a partner. You cannot expect to marry a wonderful wife/husband who is humble and pious in their deen if we ourselves do not body that character. Good women are for good men, good men are for good women. May Allah SWT grant us righteous partners. Ameen.

    • @MuhammadAhmad-bg7kg
      @MuhammadAhmad-bg7kg 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      True

    • @srnp0007
      @srnp0007 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      "Nafisa Nasher" :-
      May I Know , What You Will Get in Paradise ?

    • @SenseIslam
      @SenseIslam 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

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    • @sharif__ahmed
      @sharif__ahmed 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      +srnp0007 Whatever she wants after entering paradise.
      you got the word..... " WHATEVER ..." :)

    • @aafiasamreen4511
      @aafiasamreen4511 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nafisa Nasher Rightly said.

  • @shaikhmohammad6855
    @shaikhmohammad6855 8 ปีที่แล้ว +614

    voice of mufti menk is heart touchin masha allah

    • @pinkdiamonte5300
      @pinkdiamonte5300 8 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      He has a calm voice ☺️

    • @indaysabalitaw3172
      @indaysabalitaw3172 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YES! we r students true...

    • @Truth_Seeker1202
      @Truth_Seeker1202 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed. May Allah preserve the knowledgeable, pious and kind people among us.

    • @sunduskhan242
      @sunduskhan242 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      it's Noman Ali Khan

  • @MsMusicmaniac2
    @MsMusicmaniac2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +985

    I'm not a Muslim but this message is very true. Thanks for sharing

    • @farziran87m6
      @farziran87m6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I love your comments thanks as a Muslim I love hearing positive energy. Thanks God bless you

    • @germasilverback187
      @germasilverback187 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Truth is we are all family...Coexist and work together and dont let the devils/Shaytons divide and conquer us all...

    • @বাংগালিয়ানাভর্তা
      @বাংগালিয়ানাভর্তা 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Islam is perfect it has no flaws that’s why every single sentence is gonna be correct in islam♥️♥️

    • @salmalahfid7283
      @salmalahfid7283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      As a Muslim girl i respect all religions i hope to become Muslim inchallah Because Islam is religion of peace is the correct religion

    • @jallowboy5101
      @jallowboy5101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Please don't waste no time take this opportunity to convert to Islam. Trust me Islam is the only true religion

  • @janawehbe172
    @janawehbe172 8 ปีที่แล้ว +901

    Ladies and gentlemen, this is islam.

    • @themercifulguard3971
      @themercifulguard3971 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      RIP there are still Christian apologists out there making debunk videos. :cccccc
      Hope God gives them guidance....

    • @SenseIslam
      @SenseIslam 8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

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    • @lojadacris
      @lojadacris 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      This is our beautiful Religion!

    • @mimishkaz
      @mimishkaz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      JanaWehbe I am a Christian and listening to this video was beautiful! Many blessings to my Muslim brothers and sisters :)

    • @Blueli0nesss
      @Blueli0nesss 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Mimi kazan, if u need any help feel free to contact any of us. we will be happy to answer your questions.

  • @curly_noodles9307
    @curly_noodles9307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    About to get married in a few weeks in shaa Allaah. This video made me reflect on my self, realising my husband-to-be is more calm than I am. I will try to be a better person to deserve him.

    • @illyGalSloth
      @illyGalSloth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hope you're still happily married, sister 🤗💞

  • @TheFarhanroxy
    @TheFarhanroxy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    Relations are built, they don't just happen.
    Woah what a powerful line by Mufti Men..

  • @lojadacris
    @lojadacris 8 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    Mufti Menk shows me how ISLAM is so much, so highly much, than the media tell us now...

    • @sharif__ahmed
      @sharif__ahmed 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      media is political & he is ethical. May ALLAH elevate his status

    • @lojadacris
      @lojadacris 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      +Sharif Ahmed May Allah give him the chance to welcome all ummah into jannah.
      he truly deserves it

    • @mustaqueshahin8989
      @mustaqueshahin8989 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks

  • @yazzbeauty6011
    @yazzbeauty6011 7 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    If you love your wife/husband for the sake of Allah that love is true and will remain forever in this life and the hereafter in’sha’allah ❤️

    • @k.s483
      @k.s483 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      انشاء الله

    • @skali-vg9du
      @skali-vg9du 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But what if your parents don't like you 😀😀😀

    • @naeemsheikh297
      @naeemsheikh297 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello.mera.nam.naeem.sheikh.mp.jabalpur.se.age.35.padai.12.tak.
      Koi.dimand.nhi
      Bas.ek.nek.aur.sachi.ladki.ok.jo.pyar.kare.con.kare.9300025726

    • @kazuko3344
      @kazuko3344 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not True, If you love your wife/husband for the sake of allah then that love is fake. you dont truly love them, you are only doing it to please allah. that isnt fair to your partner.

    • @donalddell4973
      @donalddell4973 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The MisFitLeader agree. The love for Allah is unconditional. The love for your wife/husband always has conditions

  • @stilettofuror
    @stilettofuror 7 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    I just realised that Allah swt lead me to this channel after I want to move on from my ex gf. It has been 4 days since that, I watched a lot of videos about Islam in this channel and made me think about real purposed of life, to please Allah swt. All these videos touched my heart and made me cry and want to go back to Allah swt. It really made me forget about her and Alhamdulillah thanks to this channel and thanks to Allah swt.

    • @hkhfdb7076
      @hkhfdb7076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey

    • @hkhfdb7076
      @hkhfdb7076 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm kinda going thro that, advice? 🥺

    • @Muhanad_sf
      @Muhanad_sf 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hkhfdb7076 u still alive ? Please reply if u still need one

    • @Wan2003lolTTV
      @Wan2003lolTTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hkhfdb7076did u deal with it ?!

  • @Rumena101
    @Rumena101 8 ปีที่แล้ว +982

    I loved this video Ma'Sha'Allah! I want to be the best wife to my husband and I will try my very best to be In'Sha'Allah ❤️

    • @jaimaa1512
      @jaimaa1512 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ¡As-salamu aláikum!

    • @amirdj7119
      @amirdj7119 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      gud my sister

    • @jaimaa1512
      @jaimaa1512 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      amir dj Gott Mit Uns

    • @s87cgn93
      @s87cgn93 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      You're husband will be one lucky man lmao

    • @SenseIslam
      @SenseIslam 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

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  • @KayKashi
    @KayKashi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    I’m not religious at all. However I do believe in higher intelligence and spiritual energy. This video was so inspiring. Thank you. I should be nicer to my wife.

    • @SammooFTW
      @SammooFTW 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      May Allah almighty bless you and guide you and your family 💖

    • @shahbazkhan9381
      @shahbazkhan9381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Wow❤️bro

    • @FaHad-xx2ik
      @FaHad-xx2ik 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is good, may Allah protect you both

    • @Razi98
      @Razi98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SammooFTW آمین

    • @Aymana44
      @Aymana44 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      About time

  • @narimancharkie2633
    @narimancharkie2633 8 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    The very beginning, how to start the relationship...start it with "with respect".. that's golden.💛

  • @cuiszeen3643
    @cuiszeen3643 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    MuftiMenk has indeed a blessed tongue. Whatever he says touches my heart.

  • @piqueny8872
    @piqueny8872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Work on your marriage before rushing into parenthood!
    Don’t let in-laws or family dictate your marriage
    Have your own home for privacy and space to build your relationship
    Allah 1st

  • @usmanakathug
    @usmanakathug 8 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    Wow opened my mind heavy. I'm only 23 but this is indeed life lessons and knowledge. Mashallah!

    • @HalalChef
      @HalalChef 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Definitely

    • @AreYie93ae
      @AreYie93ae 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same! and im 23 too

    • @naseemmuiz6129
      @naseemmuiz6129 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      alhamdulillah

    • @Hilaltk
      @Hilaltk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's been five years and you're 28 now are you married??

    • @lawlietlawliet
      @lawlietlawliet 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m 23 still not married:(

  • @sarahjeanty8025
    @sarahjeanty8025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Beautifully said I'm happy to be a new muslim 💧💧💧💕🌹

  • @thecuriousbeing254
    @thecuriousbeing254 8 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    Women is married because of 4 reasons:
    1. Money/Wealth
    2. Beauty
    3. Noble ancestry
    4. Religion
    Choose the fourth one and InshaAllah you'll be successful in marriage.

  • @easyuser82
    @easyuser82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is so beautiful. Sadly it took me two decades to understand this.

    • @mariaa3480
      @mariaa3480 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      would you mind going in detail? i have a few marriage proposals and i don’t know what to do. i’m trying to educate myself before anything else but some advice from others would help. thank you

  • @afrojshamima1049
    @afrojshamima1049 7 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I want be best wife to my husband and in sha Allah I will try to be..May Allah grant us patience and blessings..

    • @irsamir3697
      @irsamir3697 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ameen

    • @beautifulnawel4699
      @beautifulnawel4699 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AFROJ SHAMIMA and no man want to be your best husband they don’t care ,they teaches you that u need to full-fill their needs and what about us women ? What do we get back ?

    • @saadjamilkhan8529
      @saadjamilkhan8529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@beautifulnawel4699 promised paradise and blessings from Allah subhan tala

    • @ayylmao2305
      @ayylmao2305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@beautifulnawel4699 never seen a more ignorant statement in my life

    • @misskleokleo7371
      @misskleokleo7371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When you marry someone and serve them , you get your reward from Allah , and if Allah wills , he will place between you love and mercy

  • @MariyamHarris
    @MariyamHarris 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This is so beautiful, so well explained, May Allah bless our Usthad Mufti Menk, and make everything easy for all of us, Ameen.

  • @cherylmendonca2597
    @cherylmendonca2597 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I've found the man thats perfectly defined in this video .. he's worth reverting to Islam .. it's beautiful!

    • @a.Bader97
      @a.Bader97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's good news sister. How has your spiritual journey been?

    • @Gangstasz
      @Gangstasz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      you shouldn't convert for a person, you should convert just and only for your creator. Otherwise your reverting will be invalid.

    • @sayyestoislam8240
      @sayyestoislam8240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Gangstasz no this may be the way Allah brings her to Islam as good women are for good men and vise versa :)

    • @Gangstasz
      @Gangstasz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sayyestoislam8240 good men are indeed for good women. But she talks about converting for a man. And you shouldn't convert for another person otherwise its invalid.

    • @faizaelmi1950
      @faizaelmi1950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Gangstasz you should change your thinking God said that if a man wants to marry a pious non believer then he can. and it would be very much appreciated so who are you to say its haram
      But if you mean she is thinking only about the man and not thinking about the religion then its wrong but he will teach her
      I hope she converts

  • @hajarkharbash6182
    @hajarkharbash6182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The idea of a proposal being done in the presence of a family member so that the two are unable to sway each other with lust but instead they are both trying to understand the truth of each other so they can make a good decision if there should marry or not is a very important one.

  • @7684552
    @7684552 8 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Your teaching is God teaching for all the religions for all the people around the world.. I'm an Orthodox but I believe in each word coming with love and truthfulness in it.

    • @Morgenstern505
      @Morgenstern505 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Natalia Dicheva i hope you will embrace Islam one day and be amongst the people of the paradise ;D

    • @danh4435
      @danh4435 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      talk to God at night .. saying p God guide me to your way ..I promise you you'll be guided and you'll see how true I am in this.

    • @sharif__ahmed
      @sharif__ahmed 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      stick to truthfulness. Sure you can achieve the Paradise

    • @ZEDKhalid
      @ZEDKhalid 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      just being a good human, not extremely religious

    • @Morgenstern505
      @Morgenstern505 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ZED Khalid to be a good human helps not when you're on the false path

  • @HalalYoutuber786
    @HalalYoutuber786 8 ปีที่แล้ว +444

    Interesting Topic indeed, May Allah grant Us pious Spouses 💝💪

  • @nemam.2026
    @nemam.2026 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Honestly marriage is scary especially now a days like I’m 15 and not getting married anytime soon obviously but just the thought scares me like inshallah we all have a good relationship one day when it’s the right time 🙏🏽💙

    • @AC-kg2mw
      @AC-kg2mw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Don't be afraid :). When the right one comes along you'll just feel it in your heart, body, mind and soul. This person will bring you peace.

    • @TangoBoss674
      @TangoBoss674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t get married 😂

    • @rukunur2644
      @rukunur2644 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same, marriage is scarry, i don’t why but it is

    • @munazah9838
      @munazah9838 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Grow up.first....kid!
      In this age obviously it'll look scary 😂

  • @syedghouse1162
    @syedghouse1162 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Masha Allah
    Nice message, I am going to get married soon (In sha Allah)
    Will apply this sayings.... In sha Allah

  • @ramatukamara8300
    @ramatukamara8300 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Marriage is a life time journey... I pray dat d Almighty Allah wil grants all ladies dat want to gt married a pious hubby like mine who wil increase ur Eeman & alwz mk u blushing.... Aaameen Yaa Rabbi

  • @Zeeshaz
    @Zeeshaz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    Ya Allah grant us pious spouses who can work to elevate our iman together 💞Ameen .. plz who ever reads this do dua for me and other sisters to get married 😔❤️

    • @mhussain120
      @mhussain120 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Shazia Muhamme May Allah swt grant you pious spouse🙌

    • @aminakhalif4490
      @aminakhalif4490 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mutaher Hussain Ameen

    • @mhussain120
      @mhussain120 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amina Khalif allahummah ameen

    • @mhussain120
      @mhussain120 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SubhanAllah! Sometimes we have no choice but share our views to others on a platform that people might say it's not the place for this or that. Please forgive me if you're one of them.
      I would like to marry a sister who has deen and decent character in them.
      Please help me if anyone of you know any sister that wants to get married.

    • @akmalmalikmalik610
      @akmalmalikmalik610 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amiiin

  • @AlWarzy
    @AlWarzy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I know. The world is preaching freedoms and so on, sometimes the word freedom is used to drop us into the dumps and we don't realise that, we don't understand it. Sometimes the word freedom is used in actual fact to enslave us and we don't realise it. Sometimes it is used correctly where we practice our freedoms.
    Mufti Ismael Menk.

  • @martinbulku1626
    @martinbulku1626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    the lecture is so clear and really makes sense. I love to share this. Thank you.

  • @kaddyndimballan9910
    @kaddyndimballan9910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Masha Allah so inspiring, may the Almighty protect Mufti for all of us, his messages are clean and clearly cut...

  • @maymofoo8637
    @maymofoo8637 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Marriage is hard. This is why it completes half of ur religion. I hope that I prepare my sons adequately enough about marriage, before they marry.
    My dear sisters! Dnt let looks fool u! (Brothers too)
    I hope everyone marries pious men and women! and that they have long lasting marriages!!! 🙏🏼☝🏼

  • @clashingwithwhitewalker4405
    @clashingwithwhitewalker4405 8 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    one of the best videos I have ever watched.

  • @ShahZam
    @ShahZam 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Subhanallah. This open my mind and eyes.May Allah ease our journey in dunya and akhirah

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shahrul Nizam ameen

  • @crystalstar7847
    @crystalstar7847 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Subhanallah. Interesting and well educated talk. May Allah make us better Muslim and grant us all jannah inshallah... Big thanks Sheikh Miftu Menk... looking forward to listening more. Wa alaikum Salam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

  • @MuhammadAhmad-bg7kg
    @MuhammadAhmad-bg7kg 8 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    May Allah grant us understanding and help

  • @saminakauser6455
    @saminakauser6455 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I completely understand when he says that a person may seem good but the not be soo good. But from my own experience I know that people can put such a good act on and deceive us soo much that we believe them and think they could never be evil but it turns out that they are the most evil person you may know.

  • @enochnkosi2745
    @enochnkosi2745 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    great words indeed I am christian wise words

  • @abukm4093
    @abukm4093 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Maashallah. ❤️❤️. I love a person bcz of his good character, personality, and his love towards his family. And I pray to Allah to give him me at the right time. He also knows that I love him. But according to Islam loving is haram. But when I turn to Allah to give me a good person at right time l can only see his face😢

  • @professorfacts4810
    @professorfacts4810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I can verify this video that anybody who gets married or interested in that title then you must watch this entire video will full consideration. It will help anyone who is already married from their past situations to anyone who is engaged bringing compete guidance which explains that every second you are married you gain Sunnah and Ajaar. Every second you are with your wife/husband you are being blessed by Dua With your Families because this is a special moment.🍀🤞

  • @piyakhan3244
    @piyakhan3244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Whenever i watch or listen ur videos i feel peace, satisfied, motivated and so blessed.. U represent islam on the greatest way it should be. Thanks ALLAH. Thank you.

  • @Kofi_Mensahs_BurnerAccount
    @Kofi_Mensahs_BurnerAccount 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Living in the west, our view on marriage is vastly different to our parents and/or grandparents. We have a vision, a delusion of grandeur in regards to the finding of a spouse. We all envisage our idealistic spouse to be so and so but just like Mufti Menk has said, we don’t check a person’s genuine character or deen and once the whole ceremony has finished, we then find out the reality of that person. So go on supervised dates with a mahram for the lady and get to know them properly and vice versa. Don’t allow your parents to push you into a whirlwind marriage which will almost certainly end in disaster.

  • @LiveFree313
    @LiveFree313 8 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Parents who force their children to get married to their relatives. When there is no compatibility in looks or personality. Well my friend those are evil parents destroying there children's lives!!!

  • @elinnagbpbaronmakiling4294
    @elinnagbpbaronmakiling4294 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    ALLAH is a live
    ALLAH is love
    ALLAH is good
    ALLAH is GUIDE
    ALLAH is love
    ALLAH LOVE us
    ALLAH bless all
    Thank you ALLAH SO MUCH ALL needs things u give all...
    I love to ALLAH
    Thank you ALLAH once again.....

  • @ahmadthehero2023
    @ahmadthehero2023 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Masaallah what a beautiful speech Barak Allah fik ya sheikh

  • @sharif__ahmed
    @sharif__ahmed 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    May Allah elevate status of our beloved Mufti Menk.
    & For those brothers & sisters who are depressed/hopeless :
    None gonna fix your issues, you have to grab the qualification & be brave enough to Sort out your problems since Most Powerful ALLAH swt Has Bestowed upon you with So Much Blessings that others may not have.

  • @borishadeabiola2589
    @borishadeabiola2589 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Allahs blessings shall always be with you , thank you

  • @bintakassama7844
    @bintakassama7844 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ma Sha ALLAH interesting advice and topic. May ALLAH give us all enough strength AMEEN

  • @parisarashidi8583
    @parisarashidi8583 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Actions speak louder than words... Respect... And you will get repect....and those who neglect you... You will get those who treat you the same way...

  • @Golha2505
    @Golha2505 8 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    this is not just for muslims ,its listen for everyone to know espatially for parents

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      @SenseIslam 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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  • @ainsiddiqui4761
    @ainsiddiqui4761 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I feel so relax after listening mufti menk sahab vdz. It’s really indeed Allhamdolilla

    • @studentmed5272
      @studentmed5272 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Salam 3alaykom , it's nice to see you

  • @aminah761
    @aminah761 7 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    May Allah bless me with a righteous husband

  • @clanwidow4390
    @clanwidow4390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This speach helped me alot. I am still single but am looking for marriage and now I know why I have so many issues with relationships that don’t work now I know how to improve myself to be better. Thank you so much for the wonderful speach! I really needed it. Allah bless you all!

  • @topskilledgaming7715
    @topskilledgaming7715 8 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I'm 15 may Allah bless me with good life and hereafter idk about girls i can live without them i was not created to get children or be rich or famous i was created to obey the lord and worship him alone and expect the man he send to us the prophet peace be upon him when sometimes things didn't work they i want i thank him whatever happens to me :)

    • @Morgenstern505
      @Morgenstern505 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      topskilled Gaming The prophet didn't say it is good to not marry.
      He said, it is pretty bad to not marry and not having children.

    • @queenbeyonce1538
      @queenbeyonce1538 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      topskilled Gaming aww so pure Mashallah, May Allah grant you with anything that is in your benefit 💗

    • @baihaqiamin8622
      @baihaqiamin8622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Now you are 18 rite

    • @alhamdulillah4502
      @alhamdulillah4502 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      20now

    • @pleaserelax20
      @pleaserelax20 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      22 now wow

  • @muhammedrafia1126
    @muhammedrafia1126 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a great speech by mufti menak.. heart touching... allah grant the mercy to us inshallah....
    These words should change my heart....

  • @mariamm4085
    @mariamm4085 8 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I wish every man was like Prophet (P.B.U.H) like just perfect and every women was like Khadeejah (R.A) like just perfect! :) nowadays everyone is selfish no one cares for anyone :(

    • @younghollywoood5299
      @younghollywoood5299 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm sorry u feel that way, hopefully you a granted with happiness, peace, a wonderful husband and jannah insha'Allah

    • @techdiscovery6657
      @techdiscovery6657 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Not everyone, there are a lot of decent people in the world, be patient and may Allah swt grant us both good spouses.

    • @OO-pr7qg
      @OO-pr7qg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where r u from

    • @mineabou
      @mineabou 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@younghollywoood5299
      Only Allah SWT is perfect

    • @mafgm1606
      @mafgm1606 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      The world is ending

  • @shaikgohar5885
    @shaikgohar5885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    May Allah grant ease in our married lives with better understanding... aameen

  • @abdullahrafiq3530
    @abdullahrafiq3530 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Amazing! Ya Allah make us so good and attract good to us!

  • @bestrong1459
    @bestrong1459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    His speech is so wonderful

  • @farsidshakil4183
    @farsidshakil4183 8 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Verily! Today to get a good person to marry is like hunting for a needle in a haystack 😞.But if you are a pious man, Allah will give you a good better half for sure 🙂

  • @mrmyusernamewastaken
    @mrmyusernamewastaken 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a beautiful reminder. May we all be better to our spouses

  • @modhibaamer2203
    @modhibaamer2203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The most beautiful video I’ve ever watched about marriage ❤️ Jazak allah khair

  • @julie-annebergamasco8435
    @julie-annebergamasco8435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I could listen to him all day

  • @myulfan6486
    @myulfan6486 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    MashaAllaah *جزاك الله خير *May Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'alaa reward mufti menk the best *Ameen

  • @beverlyhills6424
    @beverlyhills6424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I Invite you to say 💚
    Alhamdullilah 💚
    La illaha ila Allah 💚
    Subhana'Allah 💚

  • @soniarazo4699
    @soniarazo4699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love this video.....beautiful words Subhanallah💖

  • @samiraanjum3545
    @samiraanjum3545 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I wish I could forward this to my dad 10 years ago.

    • @haqullabahabu2074
      @haqullabahabu2074 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Samira Anjum Assalam o Alaikum i want to marry with any poor needy lady, no jahaz or etc required with thanks, belong from KARACHI, my real year of birth is 1986 and having good job and also starting new business plz pray, if there is any in your link plz contact 00923232402332 whatsapp or imo widowed or divorced also excepted preference given to educated and needy lady

    • @diamonddust3951
      @diamonddust3951 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@haqullabahabu2074 did you get married to the lady u wanted brother ?

  • @sadanovicpiev971
    @sadanovicpiev971 8 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    guys make dua for me I'm going to get married it's arrange married next year I will go pakistan and im just 22 years old jazakhAllah

    • @Medea007
      @Medea007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      you're screwed

    • @sham-ll6zf
      @sham-ll6zf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope it is all well .Bithinillah

    • @anisahkhan3268
      @anisahkhan3268 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hope you are happily married

    • @queenaisha6335
      @queenaisha6335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Allah be with you sometimes they work

    • @irsamir3697
      @irsamir3697 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stay bless girl

  • @fatimanoorahmad8720
    @fatimanoorahmad8720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters! Ramadan Kareem! We are working in order to enjoy our married life we are not married in order to enjoy our working life! Thats a big truth... many men dont understand this and they lose the balance! May Allah (swt) forgive us and accept our fasting and prayers in this holy month of Ramadan! Amen! May Allah (swt) bless us to improve our character and become better people in this holy month of Ramadan amen ya rabb!

  • @yasinimalya4001
    @yasinimalya4001 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This topic is really powerful may Allah lead us on our self and our relationships Alhamdulillah

  • @cruxvii7416
    @cruxvii7416 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ma Shah Allah
    The way Mufti and Nouman ali khan and other various speakers speak are so much better than the jokes in Pakistan.
    May these islamic scholars and all the Muslims be granted in Jannah tul firdous.
    Ameen.

  • @parisarashidi8583
    @parisarashidi8583 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It does not matter what colour you are or religion.. You both pray for each other... And both pray to God those are the successful relationships...

    • @sal702
      @sal702 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well if I married a person with a different religion, and both of our religions says if you don't accept it you are going to Hell, then there is only two possibility:
      1. I'm a hypocrite and don't believe in my religion.
      2. I don't love him/her and don't care if they are going to be tortures in Hell.

  • @Tajdeed-e-Imaan1829
    @Tajdeed-e-Imaan1829 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's the fact which every Muslim should know and mufti menk I really appreciate your advice may Allah give you a happy life

  • @ramadanosei
    @ramadanosei 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    May Almighty Allah continue to increase u with more knowledge

  • @klee773
    @klee773 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When I first got engaged with my husband was different with me, and was in rush to get married with me he told me we cannot wait we have to marry quick. He looks so nice and gentle and when we got married he look completely different, even with people is so rude, and difficult with his parent too, he pretend everyone has to do what he want.
    He says to me you have to obey me.
    We cannot discuss about anything, he always blame me for everything.
    One day he said to me I don’t love you, I don’t want you.
    I cried soooo much every single day, I couldn’t stop.
    I ask him why, he said there is no communication and you don’t obey me...
    I love him and hate him in the same time.
    I wish I can get rid of this love, is making me crazy.
    sometimes I feel can’t stay far from him, he doesn’t care about what I feel and what I say, he want to be listen all the time with no comments.
    How to get rid of this love anyone can tell me, is not good for me.
    I said to him that I love him and I can’t stay without him and he said his worried about me and told me I will think about it... in my heart I felt so bad to do this like I have my future in his hands.
    We get back together and after few days we argue because he doesn’t listen to me he just want me to listen to him, and then he told me you want this you beg me to get together and now you don’t listen. What shall I do?? Help

    • @fitrahqistini8503
      @fitrahqistini8503 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      May Allah give you strong..Ameen

    • @yumnaibrahim4045
      @yumnaibrahim4045 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'll pray for u

    • @almenabutt8044
      @almenabutt8044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He is a toxic person if ur family is supportive leave him.

    • @lilacblue783
      @lilacblue783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do istikara and ishtishara. Ask Allah for guidance and seek advice from those around you. You should also get marriage counseling .

    • @cnncnn1303
      @cnncnn1303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you always cry and feel anxious , you cant fix it ..there's no love in it ..you cant also make him love you or feel you ...in short he has his own nature ...either you have to go with his nature or dont stay in a place you are not loved or belonged ...I hope now you doing fine ?

  • @mohamedkarmokohjalloh3610
    @mohamedkarmokohjalloh3610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    May continue to give you good health and more wisdom understanding for your work

  • @samirkhulakpam786
    @samirkhulakpam786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's just an important n inspirational message ..
    Lv u all for sharing this 😍

  • @Lenasantana1
    @Lenasantana1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Awesome video, well said. God bless you.

  • @thehealedtraveller
    @thehealedtraveller 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't know why I like the way this man tackle situation

  • @nafuuuu7
    @nafuuuu7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    In sha allah I'll be the best wife to my husband, may Allah bless us honest, loyal, pious man. Ameen ❤️

  • @fathimazaharah3004
    @fathimazaharah3004 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Insha'Allah to be married on August 16 2024 .... Very useful Alhamdulillah

  • @Knightsbridge256
    @Knightsbridge256 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I pray to Allah to make my relationship firm and we reach in marriage Ameen

  • @rakiaseidu41
    @rakiaseidu41 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Am not married am still praying mey Allah make it easy for me, Ameen

    • @Elizabeth-jk4yj
      @Elizabeth-jk4yj 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why do u wanna get married?

  • @jenetiseid6275
    @jenetiseid6275 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    May Allah protect you any where you go and give you long life. Aminnnn may Allah give us best married life.

  • @truthintheknowledge567
    @truthintheknowledge567 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely life is full of learning...this is epic one...

  • @legendsofmyself
    @legendsofmyself 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    ma shaa Allah. jazakallahu Khayran for this video

  • @t33kz
    @t33kz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this video so much. Insha'Allah I ask Allah for all us to be the best of people to our spouses. Ameen!

  • @shaikishrath7967
    @shaikishrath7967 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Masha Allah
    Very heart touch speech
    Interesting speech❤
    Jazakallah....

  • @mojeedsuliyat6835
    @mojeedsuliyat6835 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MashaAllah may Allah increase your knowledge Sheikh

  • @Shadowy_knight22
    @Shadowy_knight22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I'm 19, pray for me that marry a Muslim woman soon inshallah.

    • @koko..56
      @koko..56 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ROadROckster Productions same I want to get married I want to leave my dad

    • @Shadowy_knight22
      @Shadowy_knight22 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@koko..56 dad not letting you?

    • @koko..56
      @koko..56 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My sister is 27 and my other sister is 25 and they still not married Bc of my dad he said no to all of them that ask for my sisters so now on one asking for them them 😞 my dad has no heart wallah

    • @koko..56
      @koko..56 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so sorry if l look like a Harsh Person l swear I’m not it’s just my dad makes my life a living hell

    • @Shadowy_knight22
      @Shadowy_knight22 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@koko..56 no I understand, parents can be stubborn and make harder for us

  • @almalyntaufan368
    @almalyntaufan368 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    JAZAK'KAWALLAH KHAIRAN YAH SHEIKH MUFTIE

  • @farziran87m6
    @farziran87m6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My friends I am having a hard time I'm going thru health issue and my imaan is low. Plz pray for me

    • @AyseNuur
      @AyseNuur 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      farziran87 m InsaAllah you will get well

    • @lishali1354
      @lishali1354 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      May Allah make it easy for you 🤲

    • @SAS-tt6zr
      @SAS-tt6zr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ALLAH will help uou

    • @SAS-tt6zr
      @SAS-tt6zr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ALLAH help you.

  • @linamukandoli9403
    @linamukandoli9403 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This message is truthful and beautiful mashaa'Allah. Jazaka Allahu khairan, brother. Character, behavior and religion indeed.

  • @Nomadi2515
    @Nomadi2515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    May grant Allah grant us spouses who takes us to Jannah ♥️ Insha’Allah!

    • @umar9174
      @umar9174 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@omarti4905 that is weird man stop just asking girl online. Go meet someone in real life

  • @mirzamarufahmed
    @mirzamarufahmed 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my favourite channel. Love from Bangladesh❤.

  • @zanetruesdale8336
    @zanetruesdale8336 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love all the positivity in the comment sections of these videos

    • @corporallawbreaker4163
      @corporallawbreaker4163 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed.. So is marriage a fusion card or ritual card
      😀

    • @zanetruesdale8336
      @zanetruesdale8336 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yautja Marriage is a ritual card and having children is the fusion 😁

    • @corporallawbreaker4163
      @corporallawbreaker4163 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Zane Truesdale well said 😀

    • @ZEDKhalid
      @ZEDKhalid 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah, i am surprised to see there are no creeps here!
      (dont forget spammers and people who are way over their head)

  • @alisrwsht7109
    @alisrwsht7109 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A very nice speech
    Jazakumu allaha khairan

  • @aimanaiman3997
    @aimanaiman3997 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    very well said,, Masha Allah... May Allah blessed mufti menk,, inspiring lecture..

  • @goodmind4337
    @goodmind4337 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You Are A Great Person Menk Sir!!! I Love You!!!!