May you find peace and find a path most beneficial and logical. I am Muslim, and I find this religion a great source of peace. Fasting has health benefits, the theology makes compete logical sense to me, and I value the emphasis on modesty and honesty. I hope you live a long happy life, ameen! ♥️
I embraced Islam In 1995! SubhanaAllah! My Life has been Beautiful even with all my ups&down in life only because of the Mercy of Allah SubhanaAllah ta'ala! Ameen
He is a great teacher! No matter what religion a person follows, what is taught here applies for all humanity. I was once christian too, as is my entire family still is. Thank you for your comment. I think if more people realized this is what islam is all about, the world would be more peaceful! Take care !
Lol if only my Ex was to listen to this. I divorced my ex due to his behaviour that he could not control, funny everything MM has said was what my Ex would say to me, not once did I stop our children from seeing him, and not once did that low lyf ever give a penny towards his children. I raised all 8 children on my own, not one person helped me, not even my own, it's so hard at times but Allhumdolillah I have come through. May Allah swt guide me and help me to achieve my goal in life as well as guide my beautiful children on the right path Ameen
May Allah reward you,sis!Raising 8 children by yourself,SubhanAllah!I understand your pain and I know what you feel but put your trust in Allah and always think at your reward for all the effort and sacrifice you've done for your children.... ❤
From the childs perspective, but my mom is in a similar situation, my dads blaming us for not being Islamic and blaming my mom for brainwashing that he is bad, but in reality, he doesnt see what he doing to other
Mufti, Salaam. I went through divorce with my husband. This video is so important to me. Alhamdulillah that I had the chance to watch it. As I watch this video, I am also recalling how did I take the process of divorcing, I have to say, I was silent. I never spoke of ill about my ex husband, went home to my family accepting that we can no longer be together. The pain was the worst part but in my pain I find my inner peace, The Almighty gave me the chance to worship Him and spend time with overhauling my deen. Alhamdulillah. You are right, when you are respectful and accepting, you will find your truest peace of mind. I wouldn’t trade what I have now in my life after my divorce-My freedom, going back to my family and most esp dedicating my life for the sake of ALLAH (swt). I am now contented. May Allah bless you more and keep safe.
They say "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stand a little taller. You can survive. You were a better person for handling things the way you did.
I went through an emotional abusive relationship for 5 years,I thought my life will be miserable if I divorced but when I got the courage and left my ex it’s the best decision I have ever do in my life,the happiness,peace and freedom after that is unexplainable,Alhamdulilah,I will be forever grateful to my Allah
Divorce is also a test for other family members, friends and people around. Some will neglect you, others will judge you and some will just gossip about it. In sha Allah you should make a video on this too.
Divorce in Islam confuses me. I always hear if a woman wants a divorce without a valid reason, this is a major sin and she can not go to heaven. It is always about woman. I am curious, if a man divorces his wife without a valid reason is this a sin too? Like, if a man marries a woman only for sex and after that he gives triple talaq and marry with another one, then divorces again and marry again and so and so... Is this a sin?
@@cansugungor4405 no Islam didn't make things hard to a woman, that's for those women who go against their husbands and then accusing them for being wrong but the punishment goes to both side either a woman or a man,when a wife disappoint her husband she will be cursed by Allah and his angles and this goes to a man who mistreat his wife too,for more information search surah an Nisa with translation and see for yourself how Allah favour women by his Mercy it's only men use it in opposite directions
@@cansugungor4405 ofc Islam is a balanced religion N it's equal for both so if a man does what u just said it's a big sin and he will b accountable 2 And also u might not know bt in islam every man n women who give talaq or take qula without a valid reason will be questioned and answerable to Allah and triple talaq is not advised it's said to b the worst thing in biggest sin in islam
Rightly said, when I went through my divorce, i heard someone said "I can control my husband, she can't.. that's why she got divorce" .. i used to cry and think why i am chosen for this. But now alhamdulillah i am so content living the life of single mom. Though my family members thinks I have destroyed my life.
Jazakallah khair, Shaikh. My ex-wife agreed to let me meet my daughter after listening to your video. Allah put it in her heart Alhamdulillah, but your video acted as the medium. May Allah bless you with happiness and peace in both worlds. Keep us in your prayers.
My husband and I might file a divorce soon and I was so worried if this would be a right thing to do. “Divorce is also a blessing.” That’s what I needed to hear today… Thank you so much brother.
@@anwar-filosofa-jaafar6006 I'm trying my best to avoid divorce but my husband is not willing to try anymore what can I do? I'm a human being and I'm also tired of all this situation... May Allah (swt) save my marriage inshaAllah
My husband divorced me because her mother n sister doesn't like me....they pressurized him to kick me out of his life ... evil things done for me..I prayed alot I prayed Allah don't break my home...my husband is not listening me...only 3 month and he get enough of me due to his family pressure...he loved me alot....now I m at my father home ..I was loving ..I was caring for him I was helping him I was supporting ..but her family turn his mind ..black magic kind of thing between us ...My enemy won.. ...Allah Allah ..but Allah ...Give me Sbr Allah ..
When I found out Mufti Menk had a divorce, I was surprised and felt at ease knowing that it can happen to anyone. At first it seems like you are going through hell but Alhamdullilah afterwards you feel at ease knowing that Allah is the best of planners. Jazak Allah Khayrun Mufti Menk for this video. What if the other party was deceptive and hid the truth about themselves and presented themselves as something they were not?
Being deceived is the worse feeling ever and when confront with lies they just gaslight u and make feel crazy .... hamdoullilah. Allah knows what best for his believers
Iman Lindsey Indeed. Makes one feel foolish and stupid for trusting and question all the ‘truths’. I didn’t even know what gaslight means but once I found out, it made sense and was exactly what they did. They made me feel terrible for even doubting and made up some story to make it sound authentic but aH Allah showed us the truth. Marriage is a sacred pact, how can people begin it on such big lies? Seems people don’t fear Allah anymore? I just wonder why Allah had written that for me to experience?
@@MK-ut2ee what are you talking about? Islam does not tell you to suppress injustices carried out against you. Go to a lawyer and expose them even more. sue for mahr. the nikah is a legal contract and you are within your rights to do so.
Thank you Ya shiekh,I went through a divorce and hated my ex husband for what happened but after watching this video insha Allah I will learn to forgive him though am now happily married masha Allah
One thing I say is that when it comes to relationships breaking up, people can't jump to conclusions as to why or who is to blame and say what is right and wrong when they don't know what was going on in a person's marriage. I believe in respecting privacy and not assuming what I don't know. If you don't live it, see it or hear it, you don't know it.
Many men divorce kids along with wife, i meant they dont think kids are anymore their responsibility to maintain and meet their needs of food, clothes, medical, housing, education.
Especially in South Asian countries. Like they go boom divorce, adios, now they're your problem but if the girl is remarrying then it's also his problem.
So true this is what my Ex has done, its their way of Punishing us, they call themselves Mujasis Khudah, in other words, God-like and that they have the power to treat women like this!
My husband left me and 5 children with another woman 12 yrs ago he refuse to give me divorce and 0 responsibility for us me and his children now alhamdu lilaah my children grow up without him and he is crying now for their attention.
Mufti Menk my parents are happy together and do not pray or give zakaat they are very YOLO lifestyle people. I love my parents but they just call themselves Muslim but I'm afraid about their future no one taught me about Islam then I discovered you and other scholars you have inspired me to become a practicing Muslim and stay away from all Haram please make a video addressing this issue
Thank you for the beautiful explanation. It has taken me 27 years to gather the strength I needed to speak up to a very controlling man that most often made me feel like I was not good enough. Hamdullillah for everything
Alhamdulillah dahil dami kung natutunan mula ng mag kahiwalay kami di man maganda pag tatapos ng relasyon namin naging daan naman yun para mas mapalapit ako sa allah kahit masakit dahil may isa kaming anak nag papasalamat parin ako sa kanya dahil dilang ako natuto sa mga pag kakamali ko kundi mas lalo akong napalapit sa allah❤❤❤
I have no words to say abt mufti menk..!no words can discrible how amazing he is allahs creation my day is not complete with out listening to mifti may allah give him the highest rank in jannah AMEEN.
Assalam Aalikum Ayesha.. M advocate but m doing work for saving marriage m marriage counselor.. If u need any help then plz contact me i will try to help u in ur problems..
Not all will ‘release with goodness’ unfortunately. My doa to all divorced couples out there, learn to accept the tests and leave the rests to the creator. Have been there myself. Now I got better from the Al mighty. Alhamdullilah
Oh, my lovely sister, May Allah SWT bless you with saber, don't give up sister, when a Man cannot see you for who you are trust me its best not to stay with him, be strong and invest in yourself, make yourself a better person than you can ever imagine you could be, guide your child to be everything you ever wanted them to be, but please don't invest in hate, these people who go round divorcing as if they are God-Like are not worth the time of day, see this as a blessing from Allah SWT that he has given you the opportunity to live a better life, Imagine what it would have been like if you were to grow old with this man!
Salaam mufti. I am from England and it is quarter past nine in night. Thank you for all the tips and guidance. May Allah bless you. We watched you live on instagram i think in Ramadan amd it really helped. Lots of love 💕
I had an amazing wife, she was always by my side. Always supporting me and give me all love on earth. I was sad because job issues and forgot to say Alhamdullah for a perfect wife I have. Now I have good job but she is not here, she wants to divorce. This is my message to all of you, be grateful for people around you, specially your wife because she is your family and she is everything for you. P Mohammad صلى الله عليه و سلم said : the best of you the best for his family. Because that’s the hard thing more than outside. Ya Rab, give me back my wife because wallah I love her in your protection.
Insh’allah brother you get back together with more love and respect. I’m exactly going through the same thing at the moment and I feel you. May Allah protect everyone’s marriage 🙏
Mash Allah.. Your words were significant . Alhamdulillah it touched my heart and i found everything what i expected . I hope every single person should listen this to have a good knowledge about divorce and to see the beauty of islam...
@@amehnn there are none on this video or majority of the other videos. Also even if there were the automated captions mispronounce a lot of arabic words.
Mufti menk thank you for always accepting and encouraging Muslims at all levels. I often feel sinful and doubting myself but yours words always lead me back to Islam and God.
My parents are going through a divorce and it’s difficult! Only those who go through this know how much it troubles your inner peace and sanity! May Allah give me and my family all the strength and may He always guide us to the right path! Please pray for me and my family everyone 😃
Allhamdulillah. Thank you brother, I so needed to hear this. Thank you for this information. May Allah give me enough patience and strength to file for this divorce after 10 horrible years.
I myself have no time for the going back and forth to court, the fighting over property or money, so that's why I am single and quite content as far as that goes. I have peace not worrying about getting divorce. I have no partner to divorce. Amen and.Hallelujah
I've always been listening your lecture even I'm Christian I have alot lesson to learned from you about Islam thank you and Allah give you long life to live Shiek❤❤
Yesterday I got divorce from my husband.. Bec of his sister doesn't like me... I lost my mom yesterday me and my father cry like hell plz pray for me plz 😭😭😭😭plz
Whoever is reading this, May Allah bless you all with success, health, happiness, patience and strength. May all your dreams come true and may you live the life that you have always dreamed of. May Allah bless you with victory in this life and eternal life too. Amen!
Mufti Menk is force for good in the world. Regardless of whether you are a Christian, Muslim, or Atheist he is a man full of wisdom and knowledge and a great spokesperson for Muslims. Thanks for the great videos!
😢😢😢😢😢 May Allah swt continue to guide you...love you for the sake of Allah sheikh......you a blessing for us may Allah swt perverse you & protect you. 😢
Allah Bless You too. I was very worried about my divorce but you have reminded me of Allah's command and made me think that if I have been abused I have not been paid at all and life has been made difficult for me. Allah Almighty is watching all this ... The pain and sorrow that is not coming out of my heart is that I belonged to the most beautiful, well-mannered, religious family of my family and I was very innocent. The whole world was my parents and siblings and after marriage my husband and his family was my whole world ... I didn't go anywhere alone ... Now that I'm 44, I'm not as beautiful as I used to be, I'm not as strong as I used to be, so far I've taken care of my house, my husband and my children and Now it was my turn to look after, so I was kicked out of the house ... not paying any expenses ... I have become a heart patient after thinking ... I am trying to get out of this trauma but it is very difficult for me at the moment. After 24 years of hard work, now is the time to get rewarded for this hard work ... What happened to me ????????
Such a beautiful explanation my my favourite mufti! Sir I was soo much worried and not a single person could explain me soo beautifully as you did.. You made my life 1000 times easier by guiding me about what is best to do.. May Allah reward you abundantly.. I will never forget the mercy of Allah for showering me through His guidance and mercy. And making you the guidance source..
I have just started watching your "prophet stories" which you did as far as i know on 2011. JizakAllah for that, the way you recite Quran while describing stories of prophets (pb upon them all) is sooo good. thank u so much
I was very sad and upset as my husband has sent me the notice of talaq e hasana. It was to my surprise where i was waiting for him to come back . Your video has brought happiness in my life. I wad smiling with a sense of contentment on each of your phrase. Alhamdulillah
Subhaanallah! May Allah reward you with the best for the best advices. Aameen May Allah make everything easy for the people who have gone through a divorce. Aameen
My husband and I are divorcing because I lost trust in him. He broke every promise and left me to a marry a women to have children with. I am a Christian and I will eventually forgive him and wish him well. I am disabled and have very little money to live on but by the Grace of God, I will survive 😢
Assalam Aalikum everyone.. M advocate frm india n m doing work for saving marriage from divorce.. So plz pray for me also that Allah grant me ease in this work n show me the right path..
May Allah guide those who ill treat the other partner when it comes to Divorce. We think Divorce is bad but it is much better when there is no benefit in continuing the relationship. SEPERATE with respect and practice TAQWA and fear Allah. Divorce is good when it is necessary so that Allah will reward both the parties best of things in their future marriages or the case maybe.
I hope I could meet him one day Inshallah Wisdom overflow.. beautiful to listen....so realistic and true Hope I find a husband that looks and thinks like Menk
MashaAllah may Allah bless you for clarifying this issue and stating the facts most scholars don’t like to talk about this topic as it is they will rather you die in a toxic marriage than get a divorce..
Okay but my husband only nikkah so far the problem is he doesn’t care about me doesn’t talk to me but doesn’t want to let go so sometimes divorce should really be easier
My husband always abuses me mentally he disrespect me even uses bad words always doubt my character and after sometime he says he loves me but I feel very sad and i cry to Allah for answers i have two sons sometimes I think of taking a divorce but then thinking about children i stop.. but now it has become very difficult for me to stay in this marriage seeing how he disrespects me on every other day... I am in a dilemma please help me find the answer. What should I do according to islam...
Nowadays after divorce or during divorce spouse become enemy. It should be dealt with maturely. The remorse, revenge and repression are what we see in every divorce.
Some men use divorce as a weapon to threaten and control their wives. I believe divorce is not a way to punish women rather its a salvation for both a chance to live a better life
Sir, Menk explained it really nice and easy way to all the brothers and sisters about the divorce. May Allah bless him and show us the right way to do the divorce. I been married for 25 years now it’s time to end my relationship with my ex-husband. I have been through a very abusive relationship, may Allah guide me the right way to divorce , ameen!!🤲🏻
I'm a daughter of a divorced Muslim parents. I grew up in a South Asian country, where my stereotypes native people sees divorce in a bad way. In my childhood by watching this type of things around me I thought divorce is some kind of GUNAH. After the separation my mom can't help herself from badmouthing my father, my father is not better. This after situation of my family left me shattered. Even Im afraid of getting married now!
You are right..like broken two hearts, kids, two families...its hard and painful.May Allah kareem give you strong heart and protect you and give you one of the best person who respect you, care you, love you...ameen sum ameen
Im divorced...she divorced me and have relationship with someone else...i came closser to ALLAH mashALLAH namaz and dua heal my heart! I forgot her but its making me sad
Im divorce for 15 years. If u get difficulties in u marriage, no communication or understanding, its not the end of the world. Yes there will be difficulties in the marriage.but as time goes ,if u had sabr in u heart,u will found solutions...Do everything in correct manner. Be equal, if u had children nafiekah and pay for u children. If u not equal, u will be the big looser in life.. Don't scream or shout to one another, cz thst will cause alot of trouble.
I love my husband i can't without him but he decided to divorce we Just got married before Ramadan iam really in a tough situation Pray for us please that Allah give us Hidaya Ameen
Thank you mufti menk...it is you we always always search for no matter what the issue is..we know you have the besst answers for all our questions in our minds...soo soo grateful to be following you mufti..we adore you and your teachings...may Allah bless you n ur family abundantly..insha Allah...
It's pathetic that the Divorce in these days is encouraged and is being normalized just like avoiding any disliked food. It's absurd when some scholars are generalizing it, in fact playing with lives of people or at least one person involved....
Mashaalah sheikh Beauty in Islam Everything in our deen is all about kindness love and been thankful to Allah. May Allah make it easy for those who are going through this difficulty. Be respectful 😎
Thank you Mufti Menk for addressing subjects like these! Would love to be able to hear you speak in East London Mosque one day inshallah! Is there any public dates where I can find when Mufti Menk come to London?
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I have dove deep into Islam lately. Just got a digital copy of the Quran. Really thinking of joining the path and becoming Muslim
May you find peace and find a path most beneficial and logical. I am Muslim, and I find this religion a great source of peace. Fasting has health benefits, the theology makes compete logical sense to me, and I value the emphasis on modesty and honesty. I hope you live a long happy life, ameen! ♥️
I embraced Islam In 1995! SubhanaAllah! My Life has been Beautiful even with all my ups&down in life only because of the Mercy of Allah SubhanaAllah ta'ala! Ameen
Allah will guide you
May the almighty Gide every soul in to the righteous path! Ameen
May ya Allah make it easy for you
I’m a Christian and I respect this man a lot and his wisdom is just incredible I enjoy his teachings
He is a great teacher! No matter what religion a person follows, what is taught here applies for all humanity. I was once christian too, as is my entire family still is. Thank you for your comment. I think if more people realized this is what islam is all about, the world would be more peaceful! Take care !
Sometime we are separated with our thoughts focused on the messenger and not the message.
Sir thank you so much for speaking about divorce....I am too much worried now a days because I don't want to live with my husband
Excellent
MASHAALLAH ❤❤❤
For thoes who are going through divorce May Allah make it easy for you. Ameen. May Allah bless us and forgive us. Ameen
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Ameen.
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Lol if only my Ex was to listen to this. I divorced my ex due to his behaviour that he could not control, funny everything MM has said was what my Ex would say to me, not once did I stop our children from seeing him, and not once did that low lyf ever give a penny towards his children. I raised all 8 children on my own, not one person helped me, not even my own, it's so hard at times but Allhumdolillah I have come through. May Allah swt guide me and help me to achieve my goal in life as well as guide my beautiful children on the right path Ameen
May Allah reward you,sis!Raising 8 children by yourself,SubhanAllah!I understand your pain and I know what you feel but put your trust in Allah and always think at your reward for all the effort and sacrifice you've done for your children.... ❤
From the childs perspective, but my mom is in a similar situation, my dads blaming us for not being Islamic and blaming my mom for brainwashing that he is bad, but in reality, he doesnt see what he doing to other
You’re so strong mashallah
You are amazing mashaAllah sister. Blew me away listening to that
How did u raise 8 children on your own? Why was their father not feeling any responsibility?
Mufti menk teaches and explains in a really beautiful way MashaAllah may Allah grant him Jannatul Firdaus
Ameen
Aameen ya Rabb Al Alameen
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Aameen
Allahumme Amin
Mufti, Salaam. I went through divorce with my husband. This video is so important to me. Alhamdulillah that I had the chance to watch it. As I watch this video, I am also recalling how did I take the process of divorcing, I have to say, I was silent. I never spoke of ill about my ex husband, went home to my family accepting that we can no longer be together. The pain was the worst part but in my pain I find my inner peace, The Almighty gave me the chance to worship Him and spend time with overhauling my deen. Alhamdulillah. You are right, when you are respectful and accepting, you will find your truest peace of mind. I wouldn’t trade what I have now in my life after my divorce-My freedom, going back to my family and most esp dedicating my life for the sake of ALLAH (swt). I am now contented. May Allah bless you more and keep safe.
They say "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stand a little taller. You can survive. You were a better person for handling things the way you did.
Same here may Allah guide us
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Same here. We didn't get along. We divorced because it was unbearable. I was depressed. Alhamdulillah i got my freedom.
Same here sister and the same situation I'm going through.But I still love and respect my ex husband.
I went through an emotional abusive relationship for 5 years,I thought my life will be miserable if I divorced but when I got the courage and left my ex it’s the best decision I have ever do in my life,the happiness,peace and freedom after that is unexplainable,Alhamdulilah,I will be forever grateful to my Allah
@@Ocd.man1981 Allahumma Ameen! Thank you brother!
Alhamdulillah
Divorce is also a test for other family members, friends and people around. Some will neglect you, others will judge you and some will just gossip about it. In sha Allah you should make a video on this too.
Divorce in Islam confuses me. I always hear if a woman wants a divorce without a valid reason, this is a major sin and she can not go to heaven. It is always about woman. I am curious, if a man divorces his wife without a valid reason is this a sin too? Like, if a man marries a woman only for sex and after that he gives triple talaq and marry with another one, then divorces again and marry again and so and so... Is this a sin?
@@cansugungor4405 no Islam didn't make things hard to a woman, that's for those women who go against their husbands and then accusing them for being wrong but the punishment goes to both side either a woman or a man,when a wife disappoint her husband she will be cursed by Allah and his angles and this goes to a man who mistreat his wife too,for more information search surah an Nisa with translation and see for yourself how Allah favour women by his Mercy it's only men use it in opposite directions
I would love if sheikh would addres this too
@@cansugungor4405 ofc Islam is a balanced religion
N it's equal for both so if a man does what u just said it's a big sin and he will b accountable 2
And also u might not know bt in islam every man n women who give talaq or take qula without a valid reason will be questioned and answerable to Allah and triple talaq is not advised it's said to b the worst thing in biggest sin in islam
Rightly said, when I went through my divorce, i heard someone said "I can control my husband, she can't.. that's why she got divorce" .. i used to cry and think why i am chosen for this. But now alhamdulillah i am so content living the life of single mom. Though my family members thinks I have destroyed my life.
Jazakallah khair, Shaikh. My ex-wife agreed to let me meet my daughter after listening to your video. Allah put it in her heart Alhamdulillah, but your video acted as the medium. May Allah bless you with happiness and peace in both worlds. Keep us in your prayers.
Alhamdulillah JazakAllah Khair
Subhanallah ✨🙌🏽
May Allah swt make it easy for you both.
@naza ameen minali5713
Your happiness is between you and Allah. Allahu Akbar!
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I loved that line too
My husband and I might file a divorce soon and I was so worried if this would be a right thing to do. “Divorce is also a blessing.” That’s what I needed to hear today… Thank you so much brother.
Just remember its should be the last resort
Sister how are you doing
@@anwar-filosofa-jaafar6006 I'm trying my best to avoid divorce but my husband is not willing to try anymore what can I do? I'm a human being and I'm also tired of all this situation... May Allah (swt) save my marriage inshaAllah
i hope you're doing well sister.may allah bless you.
Divoce is a blessing how?....Allah Subha o Talah dont like..
My husband divorced me because her mother n sister doesn't like me....they pressurized him to kick me out of his life ... evil things done for me..I prayed alot I prayed Allah don't break my home...my husband is not listening me...only 3 month and he get enough of me due to his family pressure...he loved me alot....now I m at my father home ..I was loving ..I was caring for him I was helping him I was supporting ..but her family turn his mind ..black magic kind of thing between us ...My enemy won.. ...Allah Allah ..but Allah ...Give me Sbr Allah ..
Same happened with my sister😭
You will find someone much better sis. Definitely Allahumma aameen
U can stay single and can still live a better life
Same as u happen with me also 😢😭😭😭😭
😢😢like same situation.
When I found out Mufti Menk had a divorce, I was surprised and felt at ease knowing that it can happen to anyone.
At first it seems like you are going through hell but Alhamdullilah afterwards you feel at ease knowing that Allah is the best of planners.
Jazak Allah Khayrun Mufti Menk for this video.
What if the other party was deceptive and hid the truth about themselves and presented themselves as something they were not?
Being deceived is the worse feeling ever and when confront with lies they just gaslight u and make feel crazy .... hamdoullilah. Allah knows what best for his believers
Iman Lindsey Indeed. Makes one feel foolish and stupid for trusting and question all the ‘truths’.
I didn’t even know what gaslight means but once I found out, it made sense and was exactly what they did. They made me feel terrible for even doubting and made up some story to make it sound authentic but aH Allah showed us the truth.
Marriage is a sacred pact, how can people begin it on such big lies?
Seems people don’t fear Allah anymore?
I just wonder why Allah had written that for me to experience?
I was Surprised too. I like his honesty
@@MK-ut2ee what are you talking about? Islam does not tell you to suppress injustices carried out against you. Go to a lawyer and expose them even more. sue for mahr. the nikah is a legal contract and you are within your rights to do so.
@@MK-ut2ee true indeed. I agree with you 100%!
Subhanallah i just got divorced and we left on good terms alhumdulillah... may allah give us all goodness
Ameen
Thank you Ya shiekh,I went through a divorce and hated my ex husband for what happened but after watching this video insha Allah I will learn to forgive him though am now happily married masha Allah
Masha allah...
Even me i cannot forgive my ex husband bt I've already watched I learn to forgive mufti menk allah will bless u and ur family 🤲 ameen
One thing I say is that when it comes to relationships breaking up, people can't jump to conclusions as to why or who is to blame and say what is right and wrong when they don't know what was going on in a person's marriage. I believe in respecting privacy and not assuming what I don't know. If you don't live it, see it or hear it, you don't know it.
I'm feeling at ease when I listen mufti menk May Allah guide me in my situation,
Many men divorce kids along with wife, i meant they dont think kids are anymore their responsibility to maintain and meet their needs of food, clothes, medical, housing, education.
Yes and now we should discuss that. Ok fine divorce but what about the provision of the kids?
Especially in South Asian countries. Like they go boom divorce, adios, now they're your problem but if the girl is remarrying then it's also his problem.
So true this is what my Ex has done, its their way of Punishing us, they call themselves Mujasis Khudah, in other words, God-like and that they have the power to treat women like this!
Not true in America 80% women file for divorce and they get alimony and child custody after the divorce men have way more to lose
My husband left me and 5 children with another woman 12 yrs ago he refuse to give me divorce and 0 responsibility for us me and his children now alhamdu lilaah my children grow up without him and he is crying now for their attention.
I love how he gets striaght to the point in his videos
Going through a divorce and had a lot of help in these advises. May Allah Bless You!
Mufti Menk my parents are happy together and do not pray or give zakaat they are very YOLO lifestyle people. I love my parents but they just call themselves Muslim but I'm afraid about their future no one taught me about Islam then I discovered you and other scholars you have inspired me to become a practicing Muslim and stay away from all Haram please make a video addressing this issue
Best sister, may Allah give you strength to handle this. Your message touched my heart ❤🤲🏼
Masha Allah..... May Allah help you dear...
May allah guide you and bless you with someone who will guide and protect you and your family inshallah
This is indeed a timely reminder for me from Allah through you. “Live and let live”
Thank you for the beautiful explanation. It has taken me 27 years to gather the strength I needed to speak up to a very controlling man that most often made me feel like I was not good enough. Hamdullillah for everything
Alhamdulillah dahil dami kung natutunan mula ng mag kahiwalay kami di man maganda pag tatapos ng relasyon namin naging daan naman yun para mas mapalapit ako sa allah kahit masakit dahil may isa kaming anak nag papasalamat parin ako sa kanya dahil dilang ako natuto sa mga pag kakamali ko kundi mas lalo akong napalapit sa allah❤❤❤
I have no words to say abt mufti menk..!no words can discrible how amazing he is allahs creation my day is not complete with out listening to mifti may allah give him the highest rank in jannah AMEEN.
Going through an unhappy marriage kills you. 10 years and I’m mentally exhausted.
I share your pain sister. May Allah guide us.
Yes totally agreed - also going through an unhappy divorce or separation is also mentally exhausting.
7 years for me and now divorcing. It's a painful lonely process to transition through the divorce into a new happy life but it is worth it.
Assalam Aalikum Ayesha.. M advocate but m doing work for saving marriage m marriage counselor.. If u need any help then plz contact me i will try to help u in ur problems..
@Dan it is equally mentally hard on them if not more - sadly. If people part ways in kindness - it won't be as bad for the children
Not all will ‘release with goodness’ unfortunately. My doa to all divorced couples out there, learn to accept the tests and leave the rests to the creator. Have been there myself. Now I got better from the Al mighty. Alhamdullilah
This the single most level headed advice I've seen on divorce. I feel peace. May Allah bless us all
Make dua for me. I am going though difficult time right now. Might be a divorce and I have a child as well. Inshallah things get better.
Insha'Allah... if it's good for you then Allah SWT will help you
I prayed for you. May Allah grant you peace and contentment and guide you through everything
Oh, my lovely sister, May Allah SWT bless you with saber, don't give up sister, when a Man cannot see you for who you are trust me its best not to stay with him, be strong and invest in yourself, make yourself a better person than you can ever imagine you could be, guide your child to be everything you ever wanted them to be, but please don't invest in hate, these people who go round divorcing as if they are God-Like are not worth the time of day, see this as a blessing from Allah SWT that he has given you the opportunity to live a better life, Imagine what it would have been like if you were to grow old with this man!
Naz Khan bro. I’m a guy who wrote the original comment. Not sister. Lol
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Salaam mufti. I am from England and it is quarter past nine in night. Thank you for all the tips and guidance. May Allah bless you. We watched you live on instagram i think in Ramadan amd it really helped. Lots of love 💕
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@Neolaiyy ameen. Same to you💙💙
I thank God I never had to go through no divorce problems in my life. My blessing.
U are lucky sister ma sha Allah
I had an amazing wife, she was always by my side. Always supporting me and give me all love on earth.
I was sad because job issues and forgot to say Alhamdullah for a perfect wife I have.
Now I have good job but she is not here, she wants to divorce.
This is my message to all of you, be grateful for people around you, specially your wife because she is your family and she is everything for you.
P Mohammad صلى الله عليه و سلم said : the best of you the best for his family.
Because that’s the hard thing more than outside.
Ya Rab, give me back my wife because wallah I love her in your protection.
Amin Suma Amin In Shaa Allah.
Insh’allah brother you get back together with more love and respect. I’m exactly going through the same thing at the moment and I feel you. May Allah protect everyone’s marriage 🙏
@@alkurdi4851 in sha Allah-Allah bles you and ur mariage.
Kasiaan dech
I wait 7 years for my husband came back to me..
Mash Allah.. Your words were significant . Alhamdulillah it touched my heart and i found everything what i expected . I hope every single person should listen this to have a good knowledge about divorce and to see the beauty of islam...
I hope one day Mufti Menk's videos will have captions for the hearing impaired to be able to read and also learn with us.
Turn on the subtitle.
@@amehnn there are none on this video or majority of the other videos. Also even if there were the automated captions mispronounce a lot of arabic words.
I hope Mufti Menk sees this !
The auto subtitle sometimes are very wrong sadly. Pre set subtitles are more beneficial
Mufti menk thank you for always accepting and encouraging Muslims at all levels. I often feel sinful and doubting myself but yours words always lead me back to Islam and God.
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May Allah bless everyone of you❤️🌙
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My parents are going through a divorce and it’s difficult! Only those who go through this know how much it troubles your inner peace and sanity! May Allah give me and my family all the strength and may He always guide us to the right path! Please pray for me and my family everyone 😃
May Allah swt make it easy for you ameen
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Allhamdulillah. Thank you brother, I so needed to hear this. Thank you for this information. May Allah give me enough patience and strength to file for this divorce after 10 horrible years.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
Interesting topic
May Allah Almighty guide us Aameen
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I myself have no time for the going back and forth to court, the fighting over property or money, so that's why I am single and quite content as far as that goes. I have peace not worrying about getting divorce. I have no partner to divorce. Amen and.Hallelujah
Good for you. Marriage does not equal happiness.
I've always been listening your lecture even I'm Christian I have alot lesson to learned from you about Islam thank you and Allah give you long life to live Shiek❤❤
Yesterday I got divorce from my husband.. Bec of his sister doesn't like me... I lost my mom yesterday me and my father cry like hell plz pray for me plz 😭😭😭😭plz
May Allah give you better
@@keeper341 aameen
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separate with dignity and respect
Whoever is reading this, May Allah bless you all with success, health, happiness, patience and strength.
May all your dreams come true and may you live the life that you have always dreamed of.
May Allah bless you with victory in this life and eternal life too. Amen!
Allahuma Aameen
Ameen. Insya-Allah.
May ALLAH bless u
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Ameen
Mufti Menk is force for good in the world. Regardless of whether you are a Christian, Muslim, or Atheist he is a man full of wisdom and knowledge and a great spokesperson for Muslims. Thanks for the great videos!
this was beautifully explained I learned new things again. mufti menk is truely the best teacher. mashallah may allah grant you janna
😢😢😢😢😢 May Allah swt continue to guide you...love you for the sake of Allah sheikh......you a blessing for us may Allah swt perverse you & protect you. 😢
One of the most beautiful lectures I’ve herd from mufti menks collection
Allah Bless You too. I was very worried about my divorce but you have reminded me of Allah's command and made me think that if I have been abused I have not been paid at all and life has been made difficult for me. Allah Almighty is watching all this ... The pain and sorrow that is not coming out of my heart is that I belonged to the most beautiful, well-mannered, religious family of my family and I was very innocent. The whole world was my parents and siblings and after marriage my husband and his family was my whole world ... I didn't go anywhere alone ... Now that I'm 44, I'm not as beautiful as I used to be, I'm not as strong as I used to be, so far I've taken care of my house, my husband and my children and Now it was my turn to look after, so I was kicked out of the house ... not paying any expenses ... I have become a heart patient after thinking ... I am trying to get out of this trauma but it is very difficult for me at the moment. After 24 years of hard work, now is the time to get rewarded for this hard work ... What happened to me ????????
May Allah SWT make things easy for you and give u strength
Ameen
So sad to hear this from u may Allah pak make ur journey eAsy fr u ameen
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He did!
Congrats
He did.
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Such a beautiful explanation my my favourite mufti! Sir I was soo much worried and not a single person could explain me soo beautifully as you did.. You made my life 1000 times easier by guiding me about what is best to do.. May Allah reward you abundantly.. I will never forget the mercy of Allah for showering me through His guidance and mercy. And making you the guidance source..
Mashaa Allah, May Allah grant everyone goodness. Ameen
My Happiness is between me and my Rabb. Allahu Akbar🥺❤️
I have just started watching your "prophet stories" which you did as far as i know on 2011. JizakAllah for that, the way you recite Quran while describing stories of prophets (pb upon them all) is sooo good. thank u so much
Assalamualaikum ya Mufti❤... it is 11:22 pm here but I was waiting for your khutbah.
Your ideas on such things are amazing.
BarakAllah Fik.
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May Allah reward you Mufti Allah says : و من أحسن قولا ممن دعى إلى الله و عمل صالحا و قال إنني من المسلمين.
Assalamu alikum Shaik
You convinced me jazakallah
Hyru ,may Allah grant us jannathul firdouse ameen yarabal alameen
I don't like to comment but you forced me to do it
You are speaking exactly from my heart so true I know it from my experience MashAllah gzk
Don't ever skip any of Mufti Menk's ad
He is genuine and teaches with the realities of life
I love you Mufti menk
I was very sad and upset as my husband has sent me the notice of talaq e hasana. It was to my surprise where i was waiting for him to come back . Your video has brought happiness in my life. I wad smiling with a sense of contentment on each of your phrase. Alhamdulillah
Subhaanallah! May Allah reward you with the best for the best advices. Aameen
May Allah make everything easy for the people who have gone through a divorce. Aameen
My husband and I are divorcing because I lost trust in him. He broke every promise and left me to a marry a women to have children with. I am a Christian and I will eventually forgive him and wish him well. I am disabled and have very little money to live on but by the Grace of God, I will survive 😢
Mashallah! Thank you for helping me find Islam :)
May Allah guide everyone and May Allah grant us all Paradise.
I wish i have a father in law like you. Mufti menk
May Allah give us Iman so we respect and listen to one another.
Assalam Aalikum everyone.. M advocate frm india n m doing work for saving marriage from divorce.. So plz pray for me also that Allah grant me ease in this work n show me the right path..
May Allah guide those who ill treat the other partner when it comes to Divorce. We think Divorce is bad but it is much better when there is no benefit in continuing the relationship. SEPERATE with respect and practice TAQWA and fear Allah. Divorce is good when it is necessary so that Allah will reward both the parties best of things in their future marriages or the case maybe.
I hope I could meet him one day Inshallah
Wisdom overflow.. beautiful to listen....so realistic and true
Hope I find a husband that looks and thinks like Menk
MashaAllah may Allah bless you for clarifying this issue and stating the facts most scholars don’t like to talk about this topic as it is they will rather you die in a toxic marriage than get a divorce..
I don't appreciate people saying divorce is an option. True partners work things out. LAST option is divorce.
Okay but my husband only nikkah so far the problem is he doesn’t care about me doesn’t talk to me but doesn’t want to let go so sometimes divorce should really be easier
Assalamualaykum wish those going through divorce listen to Mufti. Most of the time divorce is ugly specifically when kids are involved.
This is beautiful. I sent this to my husband who I am divorcing, because this could teach him a lot. Thank you Muft, I hope he watches it. ♥️
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Jazakallahu khayr Mufti may Allah grant you jannatul firdaus.Ameen
My husband always abuses me mentally he disrespect me even uses bad words always doubt my character and after sometime he says he loves me but I feel very sad and i cry to Allah for answers i have two sons sometimes I think of taking a divorce but then thinking about children i stop.. but now it has become very difficult for me to stay in this marriage seeing how he disrespects me on every other day... I am in a dilemma please help me find the answer. What should I do according to islam...
Nowadays after divorce or during divorce spouse become enemy. It should be dealt with maturely. The remorse, revenge and repression are what we see in every divorce.
Some men use divorce as a weapon to threaten and control their wives. I believe divorce is not a way to punish women rather its a salvation for both a chance to live a better life
Very true and I am the victim
Sir, Menk explained it really nice and easy way to all the brothers and sisters about the divorce. May Allah bless him and show us the right way to do the divorce. I been married for 25 years now it’s time to end my relationship with my ex-husband. I have been through a very abusive relationship, may Allah guide me the right way to divorce , ameen!!🤲🏻
I am going through divorce now inshaallah i will follow u r words☺
This is for me tonight, we separated 7yrs down the line, but no one bother to each another I think it's a good break,, may Allah grant you
Success seems to be connected with action. Successful people keep moving. They make mistakes, but they don't quit.
-The Shades
It is subject to what Allah subana wata'ala has written for you, one can knock 1000 doors and none can open
@@fahimikram3719 exactly
The icing on the cake is when disaster strike, you anticipate the next one: your health.
I just love you for the sake of Allah brother in islam.
Please live to teach us more in Sha Allah.
There are women who won't divorce the men too. they want to hold on to a love that no longer exists.
Very true.
Yess...truly..My case..
This lecture is touching every muslim. May Allah strengthen us to do the right...Aameen.
I'm a daughter of a divorced Muslim parents. I grew up in a South Asian country, where my stereotypes native people sees divorce in a bad way. In my childhood by watching this type of things around me I thought divorce is some kind of GUNAH. After the separation my mom can't help herself from badmouthing my father, my father is not better.
This after situation of my family left me shattered. Even Im afraid of getting married now!
You are right..like broken two hearts, kids, two families...its hard and painful.May Allah kareem give you strong heart and protect you and give you one of the best person who respect you, care you, love you...ameen sum ameen
Thank you for the advice for me that going through divorce right now ... May Alloh guide me in the good way for this ... Aamiin
Im divorced...she divorced me and have relationship with someone else...i came closser to ALLAH mashALLAH namaz and dua heal my heart! I forgot her but its making me sad
I have started reciting tahajjud and things getting better
Facing the toughest time 😢
Me too
Im divorce for 15 years. If u get difficulties in u marriage, no communication or understanding, its not the end of the world. Yes there will be difficulties in the marriage.but as time goes ,if u had sabr in u heart,u will found solutions...Do everything in correct manner. Be equal, if u had children nafiekah and pay for u children. If u not equal, u will be the big looser in life.. Don't scream or shout to one another, cz thst will cause alot of trouble.
I love my husband i can't without him but he decided to divorce we Just got married before Ramadan iam really in a tough situation
Pray for us please that Allah give us Hidaya Ameen
In sha allah Allah will will solve the prblm . Allah is the best planner .And always be patience. As-Salamu-Alaikum .
As a muslim, I appreciate your advice.
Allahu Akbar
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Thank you mufti menk...it is you we always always search for no matter what the issue is..we know you have the besst answers for all our questions in our minds...soo soo grateful to be following you mufti..we adore you and your teachings...may Allah bless you n ur family abundantly..insha Allah...
It's pathetic that the Divorce in these days is encouraged and is being normalized just like avoiding any disliked food. It's absurd when some scholars are generalizing it, in fact playing with lives of people or at least one person involved....
Mashaalah sheikh
Beauty in Islam
Everything in our deen is all about kindness love and been thankful to Allah. May Allah make it easy for those who are going through this difficulty. Be respectful 😎
Thank you Mufti Menk for addressing subjects like these! Would love to be able to hear you speak in East London Mosque one day inshallah! Is there any public dates where I can find when Mufti Menk come to London?
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