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My nikkah is next month and am seeing all these lslamic videos about marriage..pray for me brothers and sisters for my day to reach and be blessed..Ameen
I don't know the history much, but I know he had many wives. What about them? Did he give his love equally to all of them? Why this video only talks about Aisha?
I love my Nasir !!! I'll never let him go. He's the sweetest hubby in the whole wide world. I would like thank Allah for such a blessing. 4 years straight still strong Alhamdulillah😊😙
masha'ALLHA , I read another comment by you in a different video about your husband, It's so beautiful, I pray you are always happy together, AMEEN ❤️. Coincidentally my husband is also named Nasir, I wish we were as in love as you and your husband, but sadly we argue all the time 😞.
Assalamualaikum...my parents are in distress because we are two sisters getting aged day by day ,but we are not getting a suitable person for marriage. Please make dua for my family. The reason for not getting married is we are not good in money & status . I request every single person who is reading this please make dua of Khair & Barakah for my family and Every single family facing same issues .
Get up for tahhajud! Pursue other goals in your life in the meantime such as socialising, having hobbies, studying and a career❤️ Inshallah Allah will grant u both husbands that are the coolness of your eyes 🙏 Remember the power of Allah, He can do anything 😊
You need to work on yourself by studying, working, pursing your passions and hobbies. Work on your body, skin and stay healthy. You will attract someone eventually. The more interesting and attractive you'll be, the more people you will attract. Love yourself first before loving someone else. Allah will give you blessings when you put the efforts. Duas are powerful but they're not enough. You need to put the action too.
Saalam sister. I know it's difficult what you're going through then society and family pressure can kill you from inside. I have been there. My advice to you. Get closer to Allah..build yourself and your sister. Start working and studying and creation good friendships and stay awake for life's beautiful opportunities that come your way. You will be happy.. and maybe then only love will reach you. But then you won't be so worried looking for it..because you will be living a fulfilled life inshallah
My dear brothers and sisters who are not married yet In Shaa Allah, soon you will be, Ameen ! Remember... Allah SWT created men & woman in pairs so 'never' despair in finding your soulmate In Shaa Allah, Ameen !
Ma sha Allah this video absolutely describes what we womens need and I deeply respect the way the Prophet (SAW) showed his love, best human being in the world!
Am just 17 and am getting married in two months time and reading all books on how to be a good wife for my husband Ya Allah help me Thank u so much for the likes and prayers I really appreciate it
Try to learning ukhty how the prophet's wives treated him. Like Aisha and Khadijah. Try to be like them, try to be the best wife by learning from the best women of all time. May Allāh bless us all. Amiin.
5 things to do for a happy marriage 1. Verbal communication 2. Giving her enough quality time 3. Gift giving to each other 4. Helping each other 5. Physical touch
Thank you brother! I love my darling and I wish to be his companion in Jannah...may the most beloved blessings of Allah be upon our noble prophet Muhammad.
Dear future one, Whoever u are I hope u watch this It is my dream to be a solehah wife I know that i may hv many flaws But i hope u can cover my flaws with your strengths I hope u will make easier for me to become one by showing our deep love for each other because of Allah I may not know you now But i will always pray for you So we all can guide each other to jannahtul firdaus♥️ Where the live happily ever after start♥️ Hope u read this..amin🌸
A perfect marriage isn’t a textbook ideal that all couples should strive for. There are a few elements that help a marriage to be harmonious and stand a better chance at being as near to perfect as possible. - Great Communicators - Slow to Anger, Quick to Forgive - Don’t Go to Bed Angry
One thing he missed to advice is have patience...you may be expecting love or attention or gift or intimacy say on Sunday but u don't get it.. u get disappointed u wait for Monday and don't get..dont be disappointed.
Idk why, but I want to get married in my age now (17) I want to get married I want to have children because I think I'm so ready for that. I want to teach my children knowledge in Islam example reading QurAn. Plsss pray for me that May Allah SWT will grant me a righteous husband that will love me and our child forever and we understand each other and have fear to Allah SWT Ameen
1. Communication, talking and being careful, say positive and not negative. 2. Show love attention, meaning give time. 3. Small gifts, doesn’t have to be expensive, just to show you care, and remember wedding anniversary, show a sign of love. 4. Helping, around the house, chores and showing care. If she is tired take her outside to eat outside and try once to cook for her. 5. Language of the physical touch, Meaning the man 5B thinks about his own sexual needs which is wrong . But the 5A can be small like a kiss, back massage, simple care of appreciation.
You have described my previous marriage - this is so true and well stated. I pray Allah allows me to find a husband who will allow us to share such as this! Masha Allah!
In this case I am so lucky and blessed with so much love and happiness my fiancee loves me so much so do I .while sleeping also he says that he loves me 💘but from childhood to until I met my fiance around 2 years ago I spent my whole life alone searching for love and then finally god sent my angel 😊😃😇😍 I am very grateful and thankful to god every moment of my life thank you god. Keep showering your blessings upon us Aameen 😇😇😇
Summary: Forgive me is I made any mistakes but hope this is helpful The first Language of the love is the language of the tongue.- words of affirmation: being positive at all times when taking to one another. Second language of love is language of time: Woman love to receive but man find it difficult to give. Shows you care and priorities time for each other - 24 hours in a day but not inregard to clock time but in regard to quality time (and attention) spent together. *Third langue of love is the language of gift giving - signify your love for another physically through gifts. It can be free but just need to show that you are thinking about each other :) Such as writing a card for ur loved one.- something from the heart, a poem etc... “It’s the thought that counts”. Or it can be cheap but significant gift items like giving flowers from time to time. -Celebrate Wedding anniversary - romantic dinner The forth language of love is the language of helping. Dividing chores and setting up routines when cleaning etc... to demonstrate that your not taking advantage of your wife or to show that you appreciate what they do. Similar to woman taking responsibility in house work, men take responsibilities of the finances. Men wish woman would appreciate them and hear them out as they are taking care of the family by working all the time, not ignoring you. He loves you so that’s why he works non stop not because he has no time for u or doesn’t think about you. Understand each other’s language and talk things through- communication is key Wife’s take the finances for granted and men take the hosue work for granted so we both need to understand each other more and know that it is a language of love. The fifth language of love is the language of physical touch 5A: the actions of touch - physical touch to show you appreciate and care for her -Kiss, hug , message etc... 5B - the act of Intimacy When you are not receiving any other language of love, the wife might think that she isn’t appropriatd and wouldn’t wanna give the langue of 5B. 5B Become a language of chore. Wife thinking : Only costing to me when he needs me , not caring about the sacrifices, the effort, the love, the dedication etc... 5B becomes a burden and chore rather then something beautiful and intimate/romantic.
I am tickled about the swahili language. Thanks for these very important points. JazakaAllah their. It's always a pleasure listening to you. Allah Barik.
Expression of love The best example of best lover in this world is Sayidinna Muhammad shallahu'alaihiwassalam with his wives. Yes, indeed our prophet story of love is very beautiful to be Example for the ummah. Especially his love with sayidah Khadijah and Ummul Mukminin 'Aisyah Radhiallahu'anhum. Our prophet express his love with the phrases word and meaningfull action. As a husband He is not shame to play or kidding with his wives without doing any undignity things.
AsSalamuAlaikum Brothers. InshaAllah please keep in mind that we love attention from our husbands! We hide our beauty when we are out of the home and avoid committing shameful acts with males in particular. When you (our husbands) neglect to show us love, affection, and attention it make us feel alone in our marriage and deprived of love.
This advice is so pertinent throughout every marriage no matter how old. I live this talk so much, especially coming from an Islamic perspective with such detail to the humanity and emotions that every human has been blessed with by Allah (SWT). Jazakallah for speaking on this and speaking about topics that are unfortunately the majority of muslims feel is not Islamic to speak of.
What a man he was! The pride of mankind. Ya Allah! Bless Muhammad Salli Allahu Alaihi Wa Sallam and his family and progeny and grant him Muqamum Mahmood and Al Waseela and Al Fadeela. Bring forth the day in this world when all the souls praise him and make him praised by all those who are conscious on Judgement Day and make us from among those who praise him as part of his friend circle, free of fear and in Your Good Grace with our books in our right hands. Ameen. Let us be close to him in Jannah and may our greetings to him be Salaam and his rightful praise. Allah! Every one of your words is a universe. Send upon Muhammad Salli Allahu Alaihi Wa Sallam your words of praise without bounds. Ameen.
Languages of love: For men "I'll take care of all financial responsibility and u just need to give me a lot of physical intimacy" in return. For women: 1. Verbal and constant affirmation of love. 2. Quality time and attention. 3. Give her gift. 4.Help her on the household chores once in awhile. 5-a Need physical touch. *If all this above or u missed one or two women will feel taken for granted. * intimacy will become a chores and despise it sometimes. Man's focused is on major important things that is to cater the needs of family and women's language is somehow diffirent., it's like cherish and nourish them.
Thinker Bell For men "Complete submission" You missed a very important part as this is also highlighted in Noble Quran and hadith of the Prophet ( pbuh ).
I could sure use some honest advice and feedback. Long story short, I have been married to someone who has narcissistic traits. About 2 months ago we attended our 19th marriage counseling session together. At that session I told my wife that somehow our marriage needs to drastically get better quickly, or I feel we need pull the plug and end our marriage since we have been going to marriage counseling for far longer than we probably should have been going; and not much, if anything, has improved. Part of me was hopeful that this was going to be the warning shot and my wife would finally hear me; that she would finally understand that I am done with the narcissistic type of behavior, done with the mean comments, the high level of control, and being made out to feel like I am never doing the right thing, never doing it quickly enough, etc. Unfortunately, the few weeks after that counselling sessions things did not improve, they actually seemed worse. For example, one morning I started her car so it was warm for her when she left for work (which I do for her quite often). I wasn’t looking for a pat on the back, but she very rudely said “oh, thank you so much for everything you do”. One day I went and bought a shovel and salt and cleaned the ice from the sidewalk. Instead of getting any type of thanks or appreciation, she told me that it is so interesting that I had time to go to Dollar General (which is about 3 miles from our house) and buy a new shovel and salt. I got criticized for doing laundry and putting in on ‘her side’ of the bed and not having it moved off of the bed so she could lay down at night without having to touch laundry. I got criticized for having the space heater on in the living room. I got criticized for eating all the lasagna; when in fact I put it in a Tupperware container so she could take it in her lunch. I got questioned on going for a walk along the river. It was just relentless verbal attacks. By no means am I a perfect husband, I am far from it, and I have made plenty of mistakes, but I have always tried to be loving and supportive and take care of her and our kids. I have dealt with this type of narcissistic behavior for a very long time. Just another example, I recently learned why I was in severe pain for a couple of days this past summer; I was passing a 6mm kidney stone. While I was in pain, I got in a hot bath to try and alleviate some of the pain. I recall vividly her making a mean comment that I was in the bath while she was doing something for the kids. I have agonized over the decision for many months, and probably years now, but about 5 weeks ago I asked for divorce and have been moved out since that time. She said it wasn’t fair and that I blindsided her, even though we have attended those 19 marriage counseling sessions together; I reluctantly agreed to separation for now. For the last five weeks, I have been buried in loving texts, pictures of our kids and of some fun memories in the past, she sent me the wedding song that we danced too, she has been sending me quotes from the bible, she asked that I listen to various books on making marriages work, etc; she asked that I meet with our Deacon at church and attend a church marriage weekend retreat. She has buried me in a variety of ‘tactics’ to try and get me back home; she has thrown our vows in my face multiple times and said that I am destroying the kids by moving out. I have been holding strong and have not caved by moving back in; recently she has been all over the board with her comments and emotions. Seems silly talking about, but we own a car and a truck. For the last 5 weeks I have drove the truck and she has had the car. A couple of days ago she said she wants the truck, which is no problem, but I asked her why; she said she doesn’t need to answer why, she just wants it. She said she plans on keeping the truck for a few weeks since its not fair that I got to drive it for a few weeks (I don’t know the intentions of this, other than some form of power play, or maybe knowing if she has the truck, I won’t be able to use it to do things I enjoy). She also seems to be getting controlling with the kids; she told me that I am the one who decided to leave them, so its not fair for me to ever get both of our kids overnight while she is alone, since she didn’t decide to leave. I reminded her that I didn’t leave the kids, that I only left her. Shortly after making these types of comments, she follows up with a load of very nice loving texts. This is all extremely hard for me, because she occasionally acts nice and says she is willing to try and change, but seems all over the place with her comments and emotions; I’m afraid I will fall back into the trap. I worry greatly about our kids, I feel she is subjecting them to a ton of sadness and possibly emotional manipulation, with the intentions being of playing the victim card in front of the kids and trying to make them feel bad for her and make me out to look like the bad guy (she told me she is always crying in front of the kids…and even yesterday when I saw her she cried multiple times in front of the kids). Even though I asked for divorce, I still do not wish her unhappiness; I just want everyone to get along and be nice and supportive with everyone. To make matters even more frustrating, yesterday she told me she was offered a job in Michigan (about 5 hours from where we currently live in Ohio). I am settled here in Ohio now, have a good job here, etc. I am happy for her that she was offered the job, I know that is more what she wants to do versus her current job, so that part makes me happy; but come on, wanting to relocate now while we are separated. I feel like she is doing everything she can to try and make things difficult for me, especially with our 2 kids. Random place to insert this comment….but I just thought it was odd; she claims to want the marriage to work, but considering uprooting to Michigan. I manage all of our finances, yesterday she said she wants all of our bank account log in information. Which is fine, no problem, it is both of our money; I just thought it was a little odd. Not sure the intentions behind it. Maybe just wanting to see how much is there, if I have been taking any, what I have spent money on; who knows?! Any words of advice would be greatly appreciated.
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@@asmay8275dr yasir qadhi.
I am 29 years old
Struggling to find Life partner
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@@JDFromAnotherPlanet please brother do istihara
Best things in life are for free
Everyone is looking to marry a good person but no one is trying be a good person
Mirza Baqir subhanallah this is very true
Inshallah we will all become good spouses and get married to a lovely spouse as well
Ameen
Inshallah
Subhanallah,it might be true buh let's work upon our characters before we get fully committed... insha'Allah
Mirza Baqir so true
My nikkah is next month and am seeing all these lslamic videos about marriage..pray for me brothers and sisters for my day to reach and be blessed..Ameen
Ameen ameen ameen
Are you still married? If so Masha Allah
When you are single all your life and this comes up in your feed. May Allah give us all mutaqi, loving and caring spouses.
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
Alhumdulillah we ain't in haram relationships
I am getting married on the 2nd April in sha Allah. On Friday. Wish me well brothers and sisters. Ma sha Allah
congrats, i guess you are married now
Congratulations, may Allah bless your marriage with pious children if you want children.
Mashallah may Allah swt shower u wil all the blessings
May Allah bless your marriage with love, peace and tranquility ❤️🙏
@@anwarbey5428 Thanks bro. Yes I am.
Am not yet married but this makes me miss my future wife
Hah
🙄🙄
Hahaha soon Insha'Allah
Hahahaha she is in quarantine. May Allah grant you a blessed mariage
@@nad888 amin amin
Prophete Mohammad pbuh was a very good husband ='(( Aisha and Khadija were lucky to have him
Indeed
True 🥰😍😭🤲?
Yes he was indeed
@@limitlessimmortal3449 me too I am crying because he was soo goodd =((((
I don't know the history much, but I know he had many wives. What about them? Did he give his love equally to all of them? Why this video only talks about Aisha?
Languages of love
01.vocal language
02.Time
03.Gifts
04.Helping in House chores
05.Spending on family
06.Physical touch
07.Sexual Intimacy
thank you for saving my time i was going to watch it a second time to note the 5 things thank you so much may Allah bless u with more barakah in time
@@adilchaudhary4576 you're very kind
Hussain only lucky person has some of those,unlucky like me!better no one knows….
Ya Allah please grant me a husband who fear you and follow the sunnah of our beloved Rasullullah S.A.W
Aaameen
Ameen💕
Ameen
Ameen
Aameen 🤲
I’m not married and this how I pictured about marriages. Fallowing our prophet “SAW” I pray we all give to our partners the love we want to receive.
Sis, your profile pic is causing fitnah to us men.
May Allah give countless love to every husband and wife and protect them evil eyes Aameen
🤲🤲🤲
Ameen
Amen
Aameen😊
Aamiin
Ameen Ya Allah
I love my Nasir !!! I'll never let him go. He's the sweetest hubby in the whole wide world. I would like thank Allah for such a blessing. 4 years straight still strong Alhamdulillah😊😙
masha'ALLHA , I read another comment by you in a different video about your husband, It's so beautiful, I pray you are always happy together, AMEEN ❤️. Coincidentally my husband is also named Nasir, I wish we were as in love as you and your husband, but sadly we argue all the time 😞.
Its not ok to put such a comment here!!!
@@saiqhai9968 every pair is argueing ...its normal
Was it an arranged marriage sis?
Maa shaa Allah may Allah pour plenty of love among you 😍🎉🎉👍🏻
Assalamualaikum...my parents are in distress because we are two sisters getting aged day by day ,but we are not getting a suitable person for marriage. Please make dua for my family. The reason for not getting married is we are not good in money & status . I request every single person who is reading this please make dua of Khair & Barakah for my family and Every single family facing same issues .
Aleykoum salem its the same in my family...
may Allah giving them pious husband !!
Get up for tahhajud! Pursue other goals in your life in the meantime such as socialising, having hobbies, studying and a career❤️ Inshallah Allah will grant u both husbands that are the coolness of your eyes 🙏 Remember the power of Allah, He can do anything 😊
Amin
You need to work on yourself by studying, working, pursing your passions and hobbies. Work on your body, skin and stay healthy. You will attract someone eventually. The more interesting and attractive you'll be, the more people you will attract. Love yourself first before loving someone else. Allah will give you blessings when you put the efforts. Duas are powerful but they're not enough. You need to put the action too.
Saalam sister. I know it's difficult what you're going through then society and family pressure can kill you from inside. I have been there. My advice to you. Get closer to Allah..build yourself and your sister. Start working and studying and creation good friendships and stay awake for life's beautiful opportunities that come your way. You will be happy.. and maybe then only love will reach you. But then you won't be so worried looking for it..because you will be living a fulfilled life inshallah
Muhammad S.A.W was so romantic mashAllah alhamdulillah!! ♥🌹💍😢
i am going to marry soon in sha allah pls pray for us ( all muslim ) jazakallah khair
In Shaa Allah I am going to get married before end of this year. Dua for me.
May Allah make your marriage a happy one
@@drmuzamil912 Aameen Yaa Rabbal Aalameen ❤️. Jazhakallahu Khair bro.
insha'Allah may u have a blessed and happy married life ameen
May Allah make ur marriage a happy one
How do you know that? Corona ? I mean...is this possibke because of covid 19. 😄 how old are you?
My dear brothers and sisters who are not married yet In Shaa Allah, soon you will be, Ameen !
Remember...
Allah SWT created men & woman in pairs so 'never' despair in finding your soulmate In Shaa Allah, Ameen !
Ameen
Ameen
jazakAllah for this. may Allah reward you and bring someone into your life who is good for you. please make dua for me also x
im 14, don't say inshallah to me 😂
Thank you.
May Allah grant us all a pious husband/wife ameen.
I’ll bet that whole crowd in the masjid went home and did something super beautiful for their wives. Ma Sha Allah!
Ma sha Allah this video absolutely describes what we womens need and I deeply respect the way the Prophet (SAW) showed his love, best human being in the world!
Guys we must help our brothers in Yemen 😥
And sisters to sir but I'm from Kenya
@@itsubah9311 then pray for them
Am just 17 and am getting married in two months time and reading all books on how to be a good wife for my husband
Ya Allah help me
Thank u so much for the likes and prayers I really appreciate it
Try to learning ukhty how the prophet's wives treated him. Like Aisha and Khadijah. Try to be like them, try to be the best wife by learning from the best women of all time. May Allāh bless us all. Amiin.
Ameen
May Allah bless you and give you sabr
May allah be with u sister ❤
Omg. I'm 17 too and I don't know how I can think about marriage rn. May Allah (swt) grant you a blessed marriage Insha Allah
5 things to do for a happy marriage
1. Verbal communication
2. Giving her enough quality time
3. Gift giving to each other
4. Helping each other
5. Physical touch
MashaAllah ❤ for summarizing
Yah Allah, help me bring peace to my future husband and help him bring me peace as well....Ameen
“Like a thight knot...”is there ever a more beautiful thing to say?😍
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Dear ;Future husband 💚
I hope you saw this 🤗
Insha Allah 💕
Thank you brother! I love my darling and I wish to be his companion in Jannah...may the most beloved blessings of Allah be upon our noble prophet Muhammad.
I'm 28yrs still not married , may Allah bless me the right person (Dua for me)
Isha Allah
My name khalifa Athman omar
May Allah Azzawajal bless you with the best man and good companion insha'Allah
Tight like a knot
How's the knot is it still tight...
Ma sha Allah... i want love like that in sha Allah
musamturay928@gmail.com
@@musamturay7896 may allah grant it for you?
Ameen we need I love like that sure my dream
Aameen 🤲🏻 even i want the same type of love Subhanallah
haha yeah i find it so cute🥺
Dear future one,
Whoever u are
I hope u watch this
It is my dream to be a solehah wife
I know that i may hv many flaws
But i hope u can cover my flaws with your strengths
I hope u will make easier for me to become one by showing our deep love for each other because of Allah
I may not know you now
But i will always pray for you
So we all can guide each other to jannahtul firdaus♥️
Where the live happily ever after start♥️
Hope u read this..amin🌸
Amiin dear sister
Ameen Sist.
Yes I am reading it 😁😁😁
Yes I am reading it 😁😁😁
Subhanallah beautiful dua Maa shaa Allah, 😍
May Allah bless everyone with righteous spouse with healthy relationship..
Aameen ya rabb 🤲
Ameen
Aameen
@A simple Guy Just simple no I am not . If u asking due to my name . It's for privacy reasons . Not my real name
Everyone can say I love you but very few will stay to prove it
Korrekt
Are you married
@@miriamcamilleri5228 because I'm single an trying to find a wife
A perfect marriage isn’t a textbook ideal that all couples should strive for.
There are a few elements that help a marriage to be harmonious and stand a better chance at being as near to perfect as possible.
- Great Communicators
- Slow to Anger, Quick to Forgive
- Don’t Go to Bed Angry
Actually it was great to listen. May Allah grant our Muslim men a perfect hidayah to treat their wives like rasul (sws). Ameen
Aameen
I recently got engaged.
One thing he missed to advice is have patience...you may be expecting love or attention or gift or intimacy say on Sunday but u don't get it.. u get disappointed u wait for Monday and don't get..dont be disappointed.
when you are married but disappointed and think that there is no love between you but only needs .I wish there is happiness in my life😌😌😔😔
May Allah SWT grant you love and rahma in your marriage and make your marriage the best thing ever happened to you and your spouse.
It matters how your life comes to an end. But, You don't know when your life gonna end. So, Keep doing good deeds.
That's all
I am definitely saving this video to watch with my future husband one day.
InshaAllah
Me also 😊
Idk why, but I want to get married in my age now (17) I want to get married I want to have children because I think I'm so ready for that. I want to teach my children knowledge in Islam example reading QurAn. Plsss pray for me that May Allah SWT will grant me a righteous husband that will love me and our child forever and we understand each other and have fear to Allah SWT Ameen
Aameen
If you able to, get married
Sister I have a brother who's 22 and ready to get married. Let me know. I will connect u for the sake of Allah. Or any good sister that u know
❤️
Adidja Ngarukiye match making on TH-cam 🤣🤣
Mansha Allahh for my husband😍😍He treats me exactly like that, I pray that Allah blesses the work of his hands
Mashallah
Mashaallah very informative.. .let Allah bless us with best in both the worlds...ameen
Today I just said something good to my love! Thank you for such beautiful and loving videos.
Fatimah nobihusein 😂
You are still a kid according to your picture. Pls dont kidding
Inshallah, I'll love my wife more than my life, trying to make her so proud of herself.i miss you my future wife.
1. Communication, talking and being careful, say positive and not negative. 2. Show love attention, meaning give time. 3. Small gifts, doesn’t have to be expensive, just to show you care, and remember wedding anniversary, show a sign of love. 4. Helping, around the house, chores and showing care. If she is tired take her outside to eat outside and try once to cook for her. 5. Language of the physical touch, Meaning the man 5B thinks about his own sexual needs which is wrong . But the 5A can be small like a kiss, back massage, simple care of appreciation.
May Allah give each n every girl d wisdom to b a good n pious wife....
Ameen. May He also give each and every boy the wisdom to be a good and pious husband. Ameen
Our beloved prophet Muhammed s.a.v.s was such an inspiration and continues to be for all of us Muslims ❤
Alhamdulillah ❤️ I have the most loveable husband, :)
May Allah make all our marriage successful and filled with love and understanding, Ameen ya Rabb.
Great work. May this will turn some hearts.
Please pray for me. Allah bless u all.
You have described my previous marriage - this is so true and well stated. I pray Allah allows me to find a husband who will allow us to share such as this! Masha Allah!
In this case I am so lucky and blessed with so much love and happiness my fiancee loves me so much so do I .while sleeping also he says that he loves me 💘but from childhood to until I met my fiance around 2 years ago I spent my whole life alone searching for love and then finally god sent my angel 😊😃😇😍 I am very grateful and thankful to god every moment of my life thank you god. Keep showering your blessings upon us Aameen 😇😇😇
Hahaha engagement time is like this. I pray may he be the same as your husband Inshaa Allah ameen
Summary:
Forgive me is I made any mistakes but hope this is helpful
The first Language of the love is the language of the tongue.- words of affirmation: being positive at all times when taking to one another.
Second language of love is language of time:
Woman love to receive but man find it difficult to give.
Shows you care and priorities time for each other - 24 hours in a day but not inregard to clock time but in regard to quality time (and attention) spent together.
*Third langue of love is the language of gift giving - signify your love for another physically through gifts.
It can be free but just need to show that you are thinking about each other :)
Such as writing a card for ur loved one.- something from the heart, a poem etc...
“It’s the thought that counts”.
Or it can be cheap but significant gift items like giving flowers from time to time.
-Celebrate Wedding anniversary - romantic dinner
The forth language of love is the language of helping.
Dividing chores and setting up routines when cleaning etc... to demonstrate that your not taking advantage of your wife or to show that you appreciate what they do.
Similar to woman taking responsibility in house work, men take responsibilities of the finances. Men wish woman would appreciate them and hear them out as they are taking care of the family by working all the time, not ignoring you. He loves you so that’s why he works non stop not because he has no time for u or doesn’t think about you.
Understand each other’s language and talk things through- communication is key
Wife’s take the finances for granted and men take the hosue work for granted so we both need to understand each other more and know that it is a language of love.
The fifth language of love is the language of physical touch
5A: the actions of touch - physical touch to show you appreciate and care for her
-Kiss, hug , message etc...
5B - the act of Intimacy
When you are not receiving any other language of love, the wife might think that she isn’t appropriatd and wouldn’t wanna give the langue of 5B.
5B Become a language of chore. Wife thinking : Only costing to me when he needs me , not caring about the sacrifices, the effort, the love, the dedication etc...
5B becomes a burden and chore rather then something beautiful and intimate/romantic.
Still 18 and I'm already missing my future husband lol😂💔
No need to look any further. Plenty of loners in the comments section. Match made in the comments section.
Safia Muhammad hey ya
I'm missing you too😊
👍
Relate 😩
True love comes. From understanding and appreciation
Really true if u don't get 5A u feel used💔
Please make an Arabic translation so I could send it to my husband ..God bless you and grant you jannah alferdous
This video is EVERYTHING!!!!! It’s addresses EVERY SINGLE ONE OF my concerns
Absolutely beautiful lecture 👌 exactly how we as wives feel, may Allah tala grant true love between all the couples...
I pray my married life turns out the same.
Ameen
MashaAllah everything is explained so beautifully, simple and clear .
Ive learned a lot from this, i hope all men can appreciate how beatiful there wife and loving them. No matter whats there physical image..
❤️❤️I wish all married people cld be like ☝️nwdys when I hear abt marriage 😭😭I am rlly scared of tht 🤧
Even iam scared, 😥May Allah grant us pious spouse and make us pious too aameen ya rabbul Alamein 🤲🏻
i wish my husband could alive and v can leave a life how he teaches us...tq sir...may allah peace my husband soul in jannah ameen....
Ameen
may allah grant him jannatul firdaus. AMEEN
May Allah unite 🙏 you all in janutul firdows
"Her Father"❤
I wish everyone could listen to this and realize how important it is
Subhanallah hahah 🔥😍😀 I learn something cuz I'm going to get married soon inshAllah
Ameen
MashaAllah BarakaAllah feek for this wonderful lectures
This is so pure...my heart just melted....
We learn so many things
Dr. Yasser Qadhi, may Allah bless you
MashaAllah the best five languages for marriage ❤
The great, the kind, the pious, the romantic and the most loving man prophet Muhammad saw
May Allah bless all Muslim brothers and sisters with happiness in theìr family life
Aameen
Alhamdulillah, he is not perfect but he is trying! May Allah bless his heart😍
Plz Allah help me to have patience....to have self control...I'm bursting out tears all the time ..😭😭
I am tickled about the swahili language. Thanks for these very important points. JazakaAllah their.
It's always a pleasure listening to you. Allah Barik.
Came here after heard very hurtful words from my spouse.
Sorry May Allah s.w.t give you a better spouse ameen 😢🤲🏻💗
I feel loved after listening my Nabi❤️
Expression of love
The best example of best lover in this world is Sayidinna Muhammad shallahu'alaihiwassalam with his wives. Yes, indeed our prophet story of love is very beautiful to be Example for the ummah.
Especially his love with sayidah Khadijah and Ummul Mukminin 'Aisyah Radhiallahu'anhum.
Our prophet express his love with the phrases word and meaningfull action.
As a husband He is not shame to play or kidding with his wives without doing any undignity things.
There is no story nicer than the love story of the prophet Muhammad (SAW) and Aisha (RA). Its too amazing may Allah make our hearts pure ameen
Wish I had a wife to give her these things.
All the best
Whish I had things so I can give to to my wife
I hope u get to do these things for her soon iA
i wish if my husband now this
Juice Gentleman inshallah brother
InShaAllah may allah bless everyone including me with a good deeni and kind hearted spouse Aameen 💕🤲🏻
Alot of life lessons ....good video 🙂
1. Verbal
2. Time
3. Gift Giving
4. Helping
5. Physical Touch
a) Small things Like giving a Hug
b) You know what
May Allah(s.w.t) protect us from corona virus😢
Inshallah
Ameen
Aaamin
How sweet, ya Allah make it easy for us to find a right spouse
Ameen yarrab
AsSalamuAlaikum Brothers. InshaAllah please keep in mind that we love attention from our husbands! We hide our beauty when we are out of the home and avoid committing shameful acts with males in particular. When you (our husbands) neglect to show us love, affection, and attention it make us feel alone in our marriage and deprived of love.
This advice is so pertinent throughout every marriage no matter how old. I live this talk so much, especially coming from an Islamic perspective with such detail to the humanity and emotions that every human has been blessed with by Allah (SWT). Jazakallah for speaking on this and speaking about topics that are unfortunately the majority of muslims feel is not Islamic to speak of.
Alhmdulilah i got best husband
Masha'Allah 😍
Am single and am praying for a good husband 🙏🏼🙏🏼 inshallah
Very beautiful message of love 🌹🌹
I not want to be a wife again but i want so much to have a wonderful men in my life for to live a reall love story
💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
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MashaAllah , i don't know when Allah sends me the man with this 5 language of love
InshaAllah
What a man he was! The pride of mankind. Ya Allah! Bless Muhammad Salli Allahu Alaihi Wa Sallam and his family and progeny and grant him Muqamum Mahmood and Al Waseela and Al Fadeela. Bring forth the day in this world when all the souls praise him and make him praised by all those who are conscious on Judgement Day and make us from among those who praise him as part of his friend circle, free of fear and in Your Good Grace with our books in our right hands. Ameen. Let us be close to him in Jannah and may our greetings to him be Salaam and his rightful praise. Allah! Every one of your words is a universe. Send upon Muhammad Salli Allahu Alaihi Wa Sallam your words of praise without bounds. Ameen.
Aameen
Subhan allah.may allah bless us all with the same language of love.
Languages of love:
For men "I'll take care of all financial responsibility and u just need to give me a lot of physical intimacy" in return.
For women:
1. Verbal and constant affirmation of love.
2. Quality time and attention.
3. Give her gift.
4.Help her on the household chores once in awhile.
5-a Need physical touch.
*If all this above or u missed one or two women will feel taken for granted.
* intimacy will become a chores and despise it sometimes.
Man's focused is on major important things that is to cater the needs of family and women's language is somehow diffirent., it's like cherish and nourish them.
Thinker Bell For men "Complete submission"
You missed a very important part as this is also highlighted in Noble Quran and hadith of the Prophet ( pbuh ).
It is very wonderful work. May Allah reward you for the work! Amen
Ma sha Allah. I read This Book too!
Can you please tell me the name of the book? Thank you!
Zubaida Ramdjan Sure sis. Its the five Love languages by Gary Chapman
I could sure use some honest advice and feedback. Long story short, I have been married to someone who has narcissistic traits. About 2 months ago we attended our 19th marriage counseling session together. At that session I told my wife that somehow our marriage needs to drastically get better quickly, or I feel we need pull the plug and end our marriage since we have been going to marriage counseling for far longer than we probably should have been going; and not much, if anything, has improved. Part of me was hopeful that this was going to be the warning shot and my wife would finally hear me; that she would finally understand that I am done with the narcissistic type of behavior, done with the mean comments, the high level of control, and being made out to feel like I am never doing the right thing, never doing it quickly enough, etc. Unfortunately, the few weeks after that counselling sessions things did not improve, they actually seemed worse. For example, one morning I started her car so it was warm for her when she left for work (which I do for her quite often). I wasn’t looking for a pat on the back, but she very rudely said “oh, thank you so much for everything you do”. One day I went and bought a shovel and salt and cleaned the ice from the sidewalk. Instead of getting any type of thanks or appreciation, she told me that it is so interesting that I had time to go to Dollar General (which is about 3 miles from our house) and buy a new shovel and salt. I got criticized for doing laundry and putting in on ‘her side’ of the bed and not having it moved off of the bed so she could lay down at night without having to touch laundry. I got criticized for having the space heater on in the living room. I got criticized for eating all the lasagna; when in fact I put it in a Tupperware container so she could take it in her lunch. I got questioned on going for a walk along the river. It was just relentless verbal attacks. By no means am I a perfect husband, I am far from it, and I have made plenty of mistakes, but I have always tried to be loving and supportive and take care of her and our kids. I have dealt with this type of narcissistic behavior for a very long time. Just another example, I recently learned why I was in severe pain for a couple of days this past summer; I was passing a 6mm kidney stone. While I was in pain, I got in a hot bath to try and alleviate some of the pain. I recall vividly her making a mean comment that I was in the bath while she was doing something for the kids. I have agonized over the decision for many months, and probably years now, but about 5 weeks ago I asked for divorce and have been moved out since that time. She said it wasn’t fair and that I blindsided her, even though we have attended those 19 marriage counseling sessions together; I reluctantly agreed to separation for now. For the last five weeks, I have been buried in loving texts, pictures of our kids and of some fun memories in the past, she sent me the wedding song that we danced too, she has been sending me quotes from the bible, she asked that I listen to various books on making marriages work, etc; she asked that I meet with our Deacon at church and attend a church marriage weekend retreat. She has buried me in a variety of ‘tactics’ to try and get me back home; she has thrown our vows in my face multiple times and said that I am destroying the kids by moving out. I have been holding strong and have not caved by moving back in; recently she has been all over the board with her comments and emotions. Seems silly talking about, but we own a car and a truck. For the last 5 weeks I have drove the truck and she has had the car. A couple of days ago she said she wants the truck, which is no problem, but I asked her why; she said she doesn’t need to answer why, she just wants it. She said she plans on keeping the truck for a few weeks since its not fair that I got to drive it for a few weeks (I don’t know the intentions of this, other than some form of power play, or maybe knowing if she has the truck, I won’t be able to use it to do things I enjoy). She also seems to be getting controlling with the kids; she told me that I am the one who decided to leave them, so its not fair for me to ever get both of our kids overnight while she is alone, since she didn’t decide to leave. I reminded her that I didn’t leave the kids, that I only left her. Shortly after making these types of comments, she follows up with a load of very nice loving texts. This is all extremely hard for me, because she occasionally acts nice and says she is willing to try and change, but seems all over the place with her comments and emotions; I’m afraid I will fall back into the trap. I worry greatly about our kids, I feel she is subjecting them to a ton of sadness and possibly emotional manipulation, with the intentions being of playing the victim card in front of the kids and trying to make them feel bad for her and make me out to look like the bad guy (she told me she is always crying in front of the kids…and even yesterday when I saw her she cried multiple times in front of the kids). Even though I asked for divorce, I still do not wish her unhappiness; I just want everyone to get along and be nice and supportive with everyone. To make matters even more frustrating, yesterday she told me she was offered a job in Michigan (about 5 hours from where we currently live in Ohio). I am settled here in Ohio now, have a good job here, etc. I am happy for her that she was offered the job, I know that is more what she wants to do versus her current job, so that part makes me happy; but come on, wanting to relocate now while we are separated. I feel like she is doing everything she can to try and make things difficult for me, especially with our 2 kids. Random place to insert this comment….but I just thought it was odd; she claims to want the marriage to work, but considering uprooting to Michigan. I manage all of our finances, yesterday she said she wants all of our bank account log in information. Which is fine, no problem, it is both of our money; I just thought it was a little odd. Not sure the intentions behind it. Maybe just wanting to see how much is there, if I have been taking any, what I have spent money on; who knows?! Any words of advice would be greatly appreciated.
MASHALLAH we learn every day
Alhamdulillah..married and have also read the 5 love languages..its a nice book
MashaAllah..What a romantic things..hopefully Allah send me a moeslim spouse who can implement these five things..inshaAllah..ameen..
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