Melina Contacts Destiny And Asks For Money...
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ส.ค. 2024
- Destiny Responds w/ Receipts
► • Destiny Responds w/ Re...
Date: 19 Dec, 2023
▼Follow Destiny▼
►STREAM - www.destiny.gg/...
►TWITTER - / theomniliberal
►DISCORD - discordapp.com...
►REDDIT - / destiny
►INSTAGRAM - / destiny
►MERCH - shop.destiny.gg/
Check Out My Amazon: www.amazon.com...
Buy My Merch: shop.destiny.gg/
#destiny
#politics
#debate
Aba Talks To Destiny About His Divorce►th-cam.com/video/fyyFfj1FxU0/w-d-xo.html
Destiny Responds w/ Receipts►th-cam.com/video/zVG6qt9wvHw/w-d-xo.html
Destiny could we have a conversation? Could really use your help I feel like you’re the only person who could give me insight on the relationship I have with this person
@@ciphercollection your best bet would be writing him an email. I heard he often replies to them, although when I sent my schizo post to him he ignored it, rightfully so tbh.
you should totally have another open marriage bro. it will work this time. also no prenup again. that was really smart.
homie is monetizing his divorce
Good call, divorce is expensive.
Watching Destiny describe Melina's behavior like it's a revelation to anyone is wild. The girl had more red flags than a communist parade.
And destiny has white flags all over his mount and a-holes more white flags than a KKK parades. This guy is a hypocrite Zionist.
Top comment
Ikr, how some1 that smart cant see the obv
Lol I saw it immediately I was like yoooooo
being the type that's okay in an open relationship was easily one of them lmaooo
Destiny-"these things wont happen. Shes chill"
*the next day*
Destiny-"hey guys, it happened"
Also did you guys know Israel's in Asia?
Except Destiny has repeatedly stated that the reason for the breakup was due to her trashing him to mutual friends and acquaintances for years. The problem is he always rationalized the behavior as being his fault due to his own prior trauma from past relationships and his upbringing.
he is still coping, give him time
hahahaa
He is sometimes too good faith to a fault
You literally poached her from a fan. The fact that you're willing to do that to someone and the fact that she left him for you proves you both deserve each other.
👏👏👏
And the cucking cycle continues
Bodied. These are the facts.
Based on
Yooooo salute
Destiny is proof that there is a difference between intelligence and wisdom. He could be a great lawyer one day, but would fail to look both ways on a street and get hit. Sending love and praying for a better tomorrow.
Truth! But"
“Never mistake knowledge for wisdom. One helps you make a living; the other helps you make a life. ” - -Eleanor Roosevelt
He would still suck at being a lawyer any videos talking about mel will be used against him
@@classicallibral5903
She married an intelligent con man (and segregationist). Dropping one liners and following through are two different things.
So what is the difference, Einstein?
@@arbiter8246 between wisdom and intelligence? Intelligence is logic based. Wisdom is understanding the abstract. High intelligence people are usually quick witted, and mentally nimble. High wisdom people usually are intuitive and empathetic towards situations. High intelligence, low wisdom is like Destiny and his understanding of politics vs. Personal relationship. He’s smart in knowledge, but not in understanding people or what they are capable of. Whether it’s Vuash, his ex, his second ex, sneako, etc. He lets sketch people close to him. That’s the easiest way to highlight it.
The 19yo engaged in 2 weeks to a guy while sleeping with another guy and that eventually ended up marrying the 3rd guy turned out to not be mentaly stable ? Damn, shocking stuff.
😂😂😂😂 ikr
Right. He wanted his cake and wanted to eat it too. Sorry, but when you live like this guy... you get what you deserve.
Seriously I always disliked Melina idk why everyone just went along with this type of shit, truly disgusting
open relationships and poly often comprises of crazy people
@@lowserver2*exclusively
If you go into an open relationship don't act surprised if your partner eventually ends up meeting someone they prefer over you
Which seems to be completely obvious but people still try this shit
Same thing happens in mono relationships though so I don't get this point. There is no proof that being in a poly relationship would put you at higher risk of being replaced. Nearly every person I know who has been cheated on or left , it was a mono relationship.
@@_TeeVee_ this is such a stupid mentality, sorry. it's like if i said, well i like swimming out in the middle of the ocean at night cause it's fun and exciting, and you point out that it's dangerous and is a high risk activity, and i counter with well people drown in their bathtubs too so it's fine and exactly equal. like...no? and the reason you know more people in mono relationships that have had bad outcomes is because MOST PEOPLE ARE IN MONO RELATIONSHIPS so of course there will be more...and also more with positive outcomes. also the plural of anecdote is not evidence.
@@_TeeVee_lmao, so the chances of you or your partner developing an attraction/connection to someone else are not increased by encouraging one another to meet and sleep with other people? Catch yourself on
@@_TeeVee_that’s because most people have shit values/ethics and most people are in monogamous relationships. People who want a committed monogamous relationship/life partner and have discipline / sound morals will not cheat or find someone to replace. Trust. I worked with a guy years ago who was in a relationship (I wasn’t aware) and I had a huge crush on him, so was flirting with him all the time. We had a lot in common and got on really well, but once he picked up I was into him he started talking about his girlfriend a lot. Ive always been told I’m an above average attractive woman and his (now wife & mother of his kid) is older and average looking… but that didn’t matter. He wasn’t just gonna jump ship because I came along… why? Because he’s a good man. Good people don’t abandon the people they love to chase the hot new thing. That’s pussy shit and it’s super naive/immature. Monogamous relationships work better than non monog. Proof is blatant.
I can't believe that treating your spouse like a communal sex toy backfired on you
not treating her like that. LETTING and encouraging her act like that ... ;-)
My sides are in orbit
But if she enjoys that treatment there's no issue lol. You guys XD. From what Destiny is saying this fell apart because of standard relationship problems, not as a necessary consequence of it being an open relationship. If open relationships were faulty in general, then NONE of them would be successful, yet if we look at the statistics plenty of them are (yes, you can google that, specifically you can check the Consensual Non-Monogamy fact sheet released by the american psychological association). There are even people who sign up to be a sex slave for their mistress and live perfectly happy lives, you can literally watch the documentaries on youtube. I mean if anything that's far worse, you're a communal sex slave because the mistress can rent you out to others.
But instead there is this kind of retarded backlash, where people think that anything outside of a trad relationship is doomed to failure, and how do we now know this for sure? Because of this single anecdote with Destiny, even though the community SHOULD know overwhelmingly by now not to judge whether or not something is true/false based on a single example.
@radscorpion8 damn dude you're dumb
😂😂😂 amen
Melina got convicted for accounting violations in Sweden, resulting in a fine for ~14,000$. Maybe thats why she asked for some moneh.
"She didnt pay taxes in Sweden even tho she was written at an adress in Sweden. She could have reported to the Swedish Gouverment that she wasnt living in Sweden, but skipped it, hence the fine".
You can listen to the whole swedish court settlement if you type: "INFLUENCERN MELINA GÖRANSSON DÖMS FÖR BOKFÖRINGSBROTT"
Its in Swedish tho.
The last paragraph is the funniest fucking thing 😂😂😂
Who needs soap operas when u have internet relationship drama. Amazin'
Na seriously
so....do you love black people?
AhhhhMAyZiN
Ahhmaayyzin
It's incredible, Netflix should adapt Tiny's life like The Crown
Destiny: My Ex-wife never wanted my money.
Destiny's Ex-wife: Yo, Destiny give me 100k?
Did she take his money when they were together though??
@@Adam-zh4hm she didnt need to because costs were low since she was living with him and he probably payed for most of it? now she is with a jobless insane person and she doesnt want to work so no income?
@@Adam-zh4hmI would guess yes, I would assume she had access to his money or would ask
@@Adam-zh4hm free rent and gain audience and clout
@@Adam-zh4hmhe literally gave her a career, LOL. Which is why she had no problem leaving him. Melina had the greatest relationship deal in history. She married a man who made her famous and gave her a career in which she didnt need him anymore, all while she was allowed to get trains ran on her while having boyfriends. Imagine getting a deal like that
I was married to someone like Melina. Exact for the whole open relationship situation. When you’re with someone like Melina you feel like you’re going insane. They completely rewrite history in their favor and will make you a monster to everyone else. It’s mentally exhausting. I feel for destiny but I’m so glad he is no longer with her.
Did you also spend literal years telling your millions of viewers how red pill is not true because feminism is the best, women are nice, don't lie, and certainly don't weaponize sympathy to drain men of resources?
I have no doubt she's insane when she's angry with him. Most women I've ever met or dated.
Destiny has said in the past that she's chill and smart and understanding.
The problem I've seen between them is actually a problem of Destiny's.
So many streams I've seen his avoidance of interacting with her when he's streaming or working or researching which is most of every day.
100% if a man doesn't put 50% of his day at home it will feel to the woman that they are just roommates and never spend time. That's true for the majority of women.
But if she plays the victim of everything I completely understand his frustration.
For example I was in a horrible abusive relationship with a women when I was 20 and she decided to put hands on me, literally hitting me with a pan, I responded with pushing her away from me on the third smack to the face.
Immediately she was acting like she was an abuse victim from being shoved back and running out of the house and leaving. If you heard her tell it, it was the focal point of her PTSD that haunts her to current day (15 years later)
thats just called women, my ex was the same.
@@zebulonreynaud919yeah because Destiny is completely blameless in this situation.. lol
@@mariek3460What did he do?
Destiny is, indeed, a girl's name
What sucks about this is I can’t even make fun of people for watching reality tv since I’m watching all of this
Give yourself some credit, reality TV isn’t entirely real lol, this is more real than that slop.
What's TV?
certified open-minded moment. He asked for it. Warned, but never listened. Deserved
@@nwonomad i googled it. Apparently its a monitor + some other network to stream video. Generally goes in a big room. You don't have a keyboard. Instead, you use a smaller control device to change the stream
Reality TV sucks & I'm watching this lol.
“If you can’t keep a girl happy it’s your fault” Destiny
Well well well
Gavin was right
@@Ailidan the Pimp on a Blimp was right.
*Cameraman points at a literal well
"This is how large Melina's hole is" 😂
lost his chick to a femboy🤣🤣🤣
Its okay to learn
This is what you get for thinking you're always the smartest person in the room.
In the interview with Jesse Lee Peterson she said she prioritizes happiness in life and could barely name any morals she has. This outcome was clear from the get go
Hindsight is a powerful thing.
For someone who is manipulative, finding someone who is incredibly self-critical is a gold mine.
buuuut she fell for a soy boy suicide rizzz
Being self-critical doesn't mean anything without a plan for action.
Self-flagellation and self-improvement are two different things.
I despise people like Melina. And Destiny is a shit friend if he let Darius get lied about if he knew the truth. Can’t believe he played the it’s not my place card. More shit karma for Destiny, he had this coming. 😂
He seems to be self reflecting on a superficial level.
Don't know why my ex still left me then
A general piece of good advice is that regardless of relationship style, if you start a relationship with someone who left/devalued another person to be with you, they'll likely do the same to you in the future
It’s a simple concept but ego and emotions are a real bitch. People tend to think that they are “special” or have more value than the previous partner and therefore the same thing won’t happen to them
Yup, in this vid he said she was engaged to a 3rd guy in NZ so she could live there. Huge red flag
@@1234567Aesop Yeah that new lore drop was crazy. What was he thinking marrying someone like this? LOL
@@suzu8253 I think that you can correctly connect the dots but the way you're doing it is pretty shallow and narrow-mindded. If a girl leaves another dude for someone (engaged or not) it doesn't immediately mean she will do the same with a new partner. For example: If someone killed and when to prison there's a statistically higher chance for them to kill again when they come out, but that doesn't mean they will. It's way more complicated than that. People saying "ohh she did this once, shes bound to do it again" are the problem. Very shallow way to look at something so complicated - feelings and human relationships.
@@sadudas11this happened to me almost exactly. The person makes you feel you are the exception, even directly addressing the fact they left someone for you, but ultimately certain character traits pop up time and again
I’m so glad I got a chance to watch this. It lets me see how dumb stupid and pathetic I sounded in the past. Trying to justify and downplay the actions of someone treating you like shit. Anyone taking advice from this man needs to just stop it. He is clearly in denial about what really happened between him and his wife. You got downright finessed my guy. Don’t worry it has happened to all of us at some point. Take notes move forward and adjust.
Destiny can win all the debates he wants, but losing your wife to a tiktoker is the biggest L. Big ups destiny
It doesn't matter who he is lol. She is clearly into loveable femboys, nothing wrong with that :P
Sad that you make a mockery of such a horrible thing for someone to go through…
No one really deserves this and he’s being super upfront and honest about his flaws. And you have zero compassion?
Thats crazy hahah
@@VaughanMatehow can you have compassion for destiny when everybody told him an open relationship was a stupid idea & it would fail. He did it to himself.
@@Ofwudann to be fair, wouldn’t you also ignore a bunch of strangers on the Internet making judgements about your relationship?
It’s not like you’re all of his personal friends. Be real.
@@VaughanMate cuck energy lol
Oh no a promiscuous woman who Destiny met while she was engaged, lied and backstabbed Destiny? And it turns she actually doesn't make much money and is now asking for a sum of at least 6-figures in the divorce? I could've never guessed this was going to happen. I'm shocked
Can’t turn a whore into a house wife
If you want stable relationships and maybe one day a good marriage, don't model yourself after Destiny's and his ex's lifestyle.
$100k is not a big divorce settlement for a guy like Destiny lol
@@jacksonjDellthat’s not a divorce settlement, that’s her blackmailing him.
@@MrFunzerkeryeah and people warned him these type of relationships don’t work, but he thought he was smarter and better then everyone else that’s why he thought it would work.
Since I'm a raging feminist and hardcore "believe all woman" guy, I can't believe that Melina would do this too her ex-wife destiny, because that is a girl's name.
Feminist in the dgg community? LOL. The second he said he slapped her everyone in chat spammed BASED emoji, shows the incel community destiny has.
That’s a good
😅
We have officially peaked
Nailed that one.
Destiny publicly loses the traditional monogamous marriage debate in real time.
At least we know now that taking any gender advice from destiny is a very unwise decision
Apparently being a smart woman, according to Destiny is:
1. Be able to have a conversation with him.
2. Betray him with an unhinged, outlandish lie that is easily refuted once it's public.
Yeah Melina has never seemed that smart
As with many Destiny takes regarding women, this seems to be one explicitly to stop anyone claiming he's misogynist, despite not actually being true. He said similar about Lav, Stardust, and (idk her name, the one who talks about bubbles), despite all of them being pretty obviously not very smart. Because he knows if he says that openly he'll have a bunch of people who already hate him jump down his throat and call him misogynist.
Which, personally, I don't see the point in appealing to people who already hate you. They're stupid, call them stupid. You're not saying they're stupid BECAUSE they're women, that would be sexist. They're just stupid and HAPPEN to be women.
@@Winasaurus I think people can be both incredibly smart and stupid at the same time. A lot of the times people like Lav or Mel have been stupid is when their emotions are running high, which makes sense.
You have to be a smart woman like Destiny
@@Winasaurus
"You're not saying they're stupid BECAUSE they're women, that would be sexist. They're just stupid and HAPPEN to be women."
Most people can not make that distinction
OH NO! WHO could have possibly seen this coming!? Did any of YOU guys think this could happen??
😂 You harsh with it bro 😂
Not only is Melina nuts, but it is almost like these open and/or poly "marriages" do not work. Someone always falls for someone else... And like in this case there is someone else in your partner's ear like Wormtongue, that you allowed in.
@@kosmicosis yeah open/poly relationships are the beginning of the end. bad sign if you're in one. the idea of having sexual relations with others and not catching feelings is stupid.
@@PolarNights123it's friends with benefits just with extra steps
@@Lala-kc2fw or just cheating with extra mental gymnastics to justify it, because technically you still have that “core” relationship, hence the marriage.
Melina is literally a sociopath jumping from nerd to nerd devouring their souls until she gets bored. I mean hey, FNF did warn you bro
Yup. Some will try to say she’s a “sexually liberated woman”, but anyone with half a brain can see through that
Melina doesn’t believe in souls.
my soul is waiting for devouring 😩
Most of the people I’m aware of being intimate with Destiny have claimed he is manipulative and abusive, where there is smoke there is fire.
It’s hard too feel bad for a guy who literally did this too himself? What did he expect? A happy ending?
Too vs. to
I think a happy ending was exactly what he was expecting… iykyk 😂
Most of our suffering is self contributive, so you're essentially saying you're generally an uncompassionate person. Just a fyi for ya.
@MrTimberwolfsden except most wouldn't marry a girl who wants no pre nup and an open relationship. Dude was just a rich nerd who got played by a pretty face
4@@JayWay-tb8sw
isnt it crazy how we can see a relationship build and unfold over the years online, without even personally knowing these people one bit
Not caring either.
Sht should stay private. How many of these internet guys and girls ruined their image with this stuff now? And they never learn...
Streamers are so mentally ill
*I* know Destiny personally. He’s my friend 🗿
Myron told him man
Woman don’t respect you if they are open on their end
You know what she is gonna do she prob gonna stay with him for money
He should not put his life
Online 😂
This was my first time and i only came to voice my opinion on him being cuck and this is the result always but hopefully she doesn’t wreck him money wise but he is stupid for this
Watched 30 mins of this video and got exhausted hearing about the type of life you have.
Now, I'm getting ads about narcissistism and psychology on YT.
The algorithm thinks I'm into narc drama, lol!
I watch Destiny's videos sometimes to see how robots try to feel out the real world.
You're pretty much a robot bro, and I don't think psychology would work on your kind.
I hope Destiny will learn from this and sees that EVERYONE was trying to fucking warn him about this and he just ignored them.
This man is literally going through everything he’s argued against on Fresh & Fit while deep down he’s being red pilled even if he doesn’t want to be
there was always a deep down connection there, two sides of the same f'd up coin. they got problems with emotional trust and relational vulnerability and D was always coping with his lack of (inner) masculinity.
Myron literally called this like three or four months ago, and even confront Melina about it on some panel -- and she insisted that that wasn't the case. Myron was proven right once again.
Bro needed some empirical data for sharing your wife😂
@@Billy-bc8pkNot really, considering destiny is the one who wants to keep the relationship open. She wanted to close it. How was he right?
he was conservative before I don’t know if that is redpilling. He actively choose to be a left wing nut when he grew up traditional.
You're trying to tell me the guy with all the time in the world to coddle you and listen to you 24/7 also happens to be broke and umemployed? No way! I'm shocked.
The future is female, but the men must pay for it. Stephen better be funding their vacations and for when the kid comes the luxury 24/7 nursery they stop by to see after doing each lap of the world.
Imagine having your own wife choose a feminized unemployed crossdresser over you
I mean....its not like destiny has a strict 60hour work week... His job is to play games and talk to people
BPD people are better off together, destiny can't fathom that BPD men commit all familicide after getting cheated on 😂😂😂😂 so he's gotten off lucky being a dude tbh
@@ferrisbueller9991Looks like it does trickle down 😤
Most of the time, people in open relationships are still searching while you’re the place holder. When they meet someone who they prefer over you, suddenly you’ll find your “open” relationship to be too “crowded” instead.
agreed
a euphemism for the modern dating scene...
I was in a 12 year relationship (8 year’s married) with an unrepentant narcissist who is proud that she is one. Fortunately, we had a daughter who is the best thing in my life. Three years later after the divorce, I have an awesome girlfriend who actually cares. Destiny bro, you are too smart to let people shit on you for this crazy chick. Keep doing what you’re doing and I’m sure you know you’ll get through this shit!
Yeah. He was smart enough to not listen to thousands of people telling him that what he is doing was in the most obvious way r*tarded. So why would he start listening now that he came to the same realization on his own? Toppest kek, some guys never learn.
Wowee, Destiny straight walked through an army of red flags when he started dating her.
Engaged to a guy in 2 weeks? While she was with another guy? Fellas, run from someone like that. Just, run
Vincent Van Melinas
He confused the red flags for redpillers and then got mad at the wrong people
Why does destiny refer to himself in the third person??? why doesnt this title say 'Melina Contacts me And Asks For Money...'
Fookin whole set up is weiiiird, weiiiird, weiiiird (done in a Rachel Zeglar nasal soy voice)
Yeah, it’s almost like he’s not nearly as smart as he or his orbiters give him credit for being. It’s almost like he’s just a fast talker who figured out some cheap rhetorical tricks.
but what if she's hot though?
Don't let his divorce distract you from the fact that destiny is a girl name
Amazin'
You beut
BEYTA!
oof
How do people still find this shit funny
destiny's advice about logging stuff in a relationship is really off based.
If you've come to the point where you're logging, recording, taping, etc your partner - your relationship is effectively over. now everything you do is about winning the optics games you play with your friends, family and lawyers.
I didn't log anything, and it was weaponized against me. Then the lies came out when I scrolled through the chat history. lol
I looked like a total monster in her logs but my history gave the context for why I was reacting.
Never underestimate the power of emotion over logic.
Expectation:marrying Melina
Reality:Marrying Malenia
ROT
10/10
Malenia
Male is with the scarlet rot head tho 🫣
all for the rotussy
I, for one, am shocked, shocked I tell you, that a 25 year old women who never held a real job in her life would act immaturely in the context of a relationship. There's no way anyone could've predicted this.
women is plural btw
Should be womxn, it's misogynistic to use the word man/men
@@borizzle1 appropriate typo to be honest. Captures the sentiment of his comment better in plural form
shocker!
This is not a typo. This is god’s froydian slip
Honestly, I really want to empathise with Steven, but my god, I simply can't bring myself to. I hope Steven learned from this experience and is actually going to change his view on open relationships, as he clearly is suffering.
1) Because it was obvious to everyone
2) he banned people for stating the obvious
3) Obviously those people were right …
And I don’t exactly believe everything he says , as I also see some pretty toxic things from his side, live. In one stream he literally said he would rather be with his orbiters then her… like isn’t that completely toxic? And I’m supposed to believe he was an angel when the camera was off.
Remember Guys Destiny is always a good guy he never lies and always is the most considerate person in the room out of anybody... He is the "Golden Boy" of all humanity.
When he says he has receipts he has receipts. That’s something no one else on the internet backs up in the same way. I think he’s an idiot and should have seen this coming but I don’t think he’s lying. His reputation hinges on him being able to back up what he says with facts. He owns his mistakes and wants to be better.
Day 1: I love Mel, if you talk shit about her, you will be banned. I don't even know if we're going to actually file for divorce. She's a kind and smart person, she won't start shit.
Day 2: I hate Mel's guts, she has everything that's coming to her. She's a manipulator and a backstabber.
Crazy how viewers called Melina being a psycho long ago and got banned for reiterating it recently lmfao...
couldn't have happened to a bigger creep
There is no feeling worse than discovering that you've been completely wrong in defending someone who proves to be exactly as bad or worse than everyone warned you they were because you realize you betrayed yourself. It damages your self-trust. That is why the emotional swing is so radical.
He banned people for insulting his wife because he thought it was his position to defend his wife. Now, he sees that he was defending the snake in the garden - he was guarding the traitor thereby making himself a traitor to himself. Of course he feels extreme about it.
@niggymonkey I'm not talking about what 'will work'. I made a lot of excuses for my ex because I wanted things to work. It's like self-gaslighting. I think it's called the sunk cost fallacy or something, but basically it can feel very difficult to walk away from something you've invested in a lot, and lots of people compromise themselves instead of ending the relationship.
So, I'm talking about real human psychology, not critiquing from a detached, exterior perspective. Will Smith made a very similar mistake, he hit a person to defend the honour of a woman that would never have done the same for him, making himself look like a simp and a chump.
Even famous people are susceptible to blindspots and betraying themselves. You don't have to agree with them or excuse their behaviour, but it is worthwhile to try at least to understand how it happens to protect yourself. I'm saying that Destiny's actions are comprehensible even if they aren't justifiable. Hopefully, in the future, he will have better boundaries in relationships and will be more loyal to his principles than his pussy.
@@barbados3592oh no what did destiny do?
@@barbados3592 Huh
How the hell do people who seem to dislike each other this much stay in a relationship for five years? I can't imagine holding this much resentment towards my partner.
You’d be surprised at the amount of relationships are filled with this much animosity.
But in all of them including Destiny’s, this kind of animosity shouldn’t be tolerated. Nobody deserves to be in a relationship like this.
It probably helped that he was able to hang out and sleep with anyone he wanted during that time. Probably difficult to stay hung up on anything with that lifestyle
sekkusu daisuki!
I'm probably pretty biased on this myself, but I'm convinced most or at least a significant portion of relationships are kinda toxic. People in general are kinda toxic. If you truly have a good working relationship, you are lucky and are in the minority.
@@talkingtakotaco8611That's my observation as well so I think you're right
Bro, you're way more hurt than you say you are. You should address that.
its good to see you moving on from this, and teaching other young men, this was the best thing to ever happen to you mate. because you had to learn this sooner or later, and now you have. better now than later, you got it over with. Now you can build a new life with a new perspective
I love how positive and kind you are, we all learn
Subconsciously or otherwise, Destiny enjoys these types of chaotic relationships. He thinks the drama is gratifying; he likes to be the stable and rational guy. I can't think of any other reason he continues to seek out these kinds of relationships.
Thanks for the psychoanalyst on something he has literally openly admitted to multiple times, champ.
imo, seems like a major cuck/simp behavior.
pretty sure he never wanted this `open`relationship. he just got persuaded into it.
that was crimson flag., golddigger behavior right there.
she manipulated him to the extreme and whenever he would start pushing back, she would blame him for being mad or whatever other emotion he would talk back /defend himself with.
@@Malum95destinys not gonna fuck you lol
its because hes a BAYTA
@@Malum95remember how many times he also said his take about how people admit to stupid or shitty behaviors to get a dopamine hit off of "acknowledging" it but don't do anything about it. Totally wasn't projecting was he?.
I’m not allowed to make fun of my sister for watching Keeping Up With the Kardashians anymore
Destiny just eat your own words, be a man and give your ex 50% of your possessions.
Ahhhhhhhh. You’re growing up lad. Happy to see it lol
Stop abusing her destiny. Give her half your money already 😊
He will not because he thinks it is his money only. It is not other man's money. He loves to argue in bad faith (quarrel) that other men should just give away money to females. But not applicable to himself.
@@user-ru7qn5om1qobviously they don’t share assets and her work has not been affected whatsoever or her career jeopardized. This is completely different than a stay at home mother who forgoes her career and later wants a divorce, she’s entitled to that money to survive.
@@user-ru7qn5om1q why should he even entertain the idea to give her money?
@@user-ru7qn5om1q doesn't matter, she owns half the money, "his" money!!!
@@user-ru7qn5om1qhe only says that if the woman gives up a career to have kids with him, which Mel did not so she gets no money
So, Destiny knew Melina was dating guy A while being engaged to guy B in NZ and he didn't see the red flags? And the idea that Melina is now bouncing to the next relationship, like she did with the two guys in NZ? I don't know why, but this changed the way I view Destiny.
Knowing Destiny, this was the reason he found her attractive, cos she was unhinged and crazy.
Destiny is autistic. You have to keep in mind he thinks about stuff very differently
Signed an autistic person
A red flag is not a stop sign, she was in an open relationship there as well. Destiny got 5 years out of it and came out ahead in this.
If this changes the way you see destiny this is your first destiny video welcome to the channel
hes mentioned many times that he likes crazy women and has a long history of associating with people he probably shouldn't because e enjoys it. IDK why this would change anything you think of him
I for one, am SHOCKED. No one saw this coming.
"Why is believing women such a hard concept to grasp"
-Destiny
That aged well
he spent so much time trying to “debunk” the red pill just to become living proof of it LMAO
Living proof of what exactly
@@albertorodriguez3927something something open relationship bad
@@albertorodriguez3927don’t simp for females first rule
how not to have relationship as a man living proof 😂😂😂
@@Cdlee-oo9hn oh then you're right. That's all that the red pill does is teach you how not to have any woman as a man. Kiss the homies instead right? I think the biggest part that destiny didn't live as the red pill was the fact that he got laid more than any of those red pill "daddys" as red pillers refer to them as. I think that was wrong of him to do. It's okay that he had a wife and divorced her, as the red pill preaches, but sleeping with those women?? Not okay, and in that case he definitely didn't become proof of the red pill.
Mel: “I abandoned Sweden for you😫”
Also Mel : *cheats and leaves Destiny for cab driver*
Cheats?
How’s it cheating?
Married? Literally definition of cheat. Keep changing definitions so you dont understand what everyone else is talking about.
@dough.boy. yeah but they allow each other to sleep with other people. Destiny does it himself. So the normal definition of cheating doesn't work here
@@agamersdiary1622 the rules of their relationship was they're romantically exclusive while sexually liberal.
Melina is right! You've become a lesson for all young misguided men.
I genuinely agree, I’m a mother to a son and I would cut contact if he was in an open marriage, what an insult to me as a mother, I spent my whole life taking care of you and you’ll stoop to being with a women who treated you less than me ? NAHHHH I’d be furious as a mother
@@lisalarsen2384 when your son is 18 that stuff will be a lot more common, you better start praying.
@@based4573 I know I’m 25 and he’s only 6 so I obviously don’t think about it unless I watch stuff like this but this wasn’t even in my scope of thinking when I was a non mom who was single lol
@lisalarsen2384 you're a mother with values, may God bless you and your son!
@lisalarsen2384 talk to him it helps a lot. Let him not learn from the street.
These videos don't have timestamps?
When Destiny gets frustrated when people aren’t hearing his advice, just remember, he doesn’t listen to his own advice🤦♂️
Destiny is absolutely the last person in the world I would take advice from on a broad range of issues.
ya didnt he have like 2 divorce like hes the worst person to take advice about girls and relationship @@bruce5597
@@bruce5597yeah he kinda silly.
@@bruce5597where does his confidence come from. He thinks because he talks fast he’s right about everything.
You’d be better off literally doing the opposite of whatever he advises.
The moment he said he was in a open relationship I was like this is not going to end well
This isn't about redpill or poly, this about narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and learning to trust your gut.
Considering the fact that you only recently found out that someone you love is a walking lie, I'd say you're handling this really well.
She will get hers, just keep doing you and let her fall into her own trench.
Melina will never grow out of this because she's incapable of self reflection.
So basically he's known all along how bad of a person she is and always was but he put up with it and assumed it would work out?? This is actually sad dude, just proves it doesn't matter how smart someone is they can be a complete moron in some areas.
Theres more to it than that, he's aware of all of this in my opinion. Its the "i can fix her" weirdo ego shit that drives these kinds of relationships. EDIT: I was a bit broad in my statement here, its a hard thing to explain. Not pure "i can fix her" mentality, but similar and coming from the same illogical points. More like "I can handle her bullshit activities, unlike every other guy" or something along those lines.
It doesnt matter anyways, just my 2c.
I think he's just attracted to sassy argumentative people.
@@Domebuddy He's attracted to crazy. It's why he let MrGirl, Lav, Vaush, Hasan, that cult chick, and Quoran-whatever onto his streams. Their oddness excites him.
He said it himself he's a simp
@@anubis7457we all know crazy girls are the best in bed lol they are a lot to deal with but man it's worth it sometimes lmao
He set himself up, ignored a tonne of red flags, and made consistently bad decisions. It was completely obvious what the eventual outcome would be.
Red pill was right about her 😂 he still coping. I’ve been married for 7 years, much better track record.
Tbf I'm just shocked it didnt happen sooner... There were so many problems beforehand where they still stay together, that a part of me thought they'd still stay together after this shit.
@@Spartan69117dont jinx yourself mate
Sorry you had to go through this to understand sharing your wife and having no boundaries in a relationship most likely won't work. You'll come out stronger and wiser, blessings bro🙌🏽
They both shared each other
@Lloye-yn1hq The truth is, that the dynamic in relationships is not the same. When men go outside their marriage most of the time is because it is a slip. When women do it, generally means that they don't respect their husbands 🤷🏽♂️ that is a fact and it has been for hundreds of years. I would not agree with it, but understand the facts and history. Anyhow, blessings Destiny 🙌🏽
@@agustinvillasenor9486 No, it means the same thing. And I like Destiny HOWEVER, he has a kid, 10 yrs older, bi & an open relationship. Sounds like having your cake and eating it & the table!
@Lloye-yn1hq in general that's not the case, if that's your preference it doesn't mean the rest of the world have the same mindset. I recommend you get out of America every once in a while 😁
Many men leave their wives for their side chick in younger age so same thing
I'm not gonna lie destiny, this is the first time in your career where i find a story just makes you look crazy. maybe you can have a formal sit down interview to discuss your relationship (in a way that's not exploitive to you) so that people can see the human side of this relationship rather than just the crazy side.
Everyone else knew this would end in Divorce, but Destiny getting her to sign a post-nuptial is a total win.
But he is abusive. So it was singed under duress and therefore is not a valid contract. A judge will throw it out in a second lol
@@kekin4562 She'll have to prove it was under duress because I don't think one can claim whatever in front of a judge. Also, you are free to not trust Destiny on what he's saying but I don't understand why you would trust Melina without any solid proof.
What did she sign ? Can someone update me please .. I’m just passing by
@@kekin4562 What proof do you have? Are you honestly so naive to just believe anything a woman says?
@@kekin4562not true whatsoever! 😂😂😂
End of the day, I'm sorry man. I've been watching you off and on since the starcraft days. Sucks to go through a rough time like this. You already know this of course, but it'll pass and things will get better.
Realizing that my husband is just like Destiny and I honestly used to act like Melina back towards when we first started dating. Glad I acknowledged it and changed. Yikes
When you’re grown but your marriage has the dynamics of a middle school relationship
Touch grass was never just a joke being chronically online leaves you the same as them
@@AriaputriM Is this a case of "Chronically online" though? Maybe. I wouldn't be surprised if the girl left Destiny for his uhhh... "Lack of masculinity" for a lack of a better word. And no doubt that lack was triggered by being online.
Still, I do wonder if that's it. WHat if he's like this without the internet?
I am shocked that a polyamorous relationship ended in a dumpster fire. Who could have seen this coming?
ikr he wasnt getting along with his girlfriend’s boyfriend’s
what does the poly nature of the relationship have to do with this?
@senatordodo4240 lol, lmao
@@myusernamewasinuse tell me
@senatordodo4240 no, it's a secret
The introspection says it all… he is never to blame and always takes the high road 😂
Who expected for them to not work, mhhh
Destiny after his second divorce: “I calculated everything from the beginning. It was all a part of my plan” 💀
And they were all wrong!
Destiny is like Aizen... if Aizen lost every exchange he participated in lol.
@@thekamotodragonaizen has the literal power of if people saw him, they lost, and he still somehow lost.
If he was real that'd be so much more embarrassing than failing an open marriage lmao.
Sidenote, bleach had so many cool ideas, but somehow made the least fucking sense of the big 3 and that's so sad.
@@BrendanishLeo true, but also I'll say that if Aizen was "real" as you put it, he also wouldn't have lost because anime bs wouldn't have happened to him lol. His plan was actually goated, except he didn't account for the main character's bs anime powerup out of nowhere. The only thing he should've done differently imo is be less arrogant, so like for example, he should have told exactly zero people what his sword does, and he shouldn't have left any of the serious threats (like the MC) alive to come back later.
Also, I think that Bleach was unfortunately the least well-written of the big 3, because I think Kubo wasn't the most competent writer compared to the others, like he was good, but i think he's much more visually focused, as in Bleach was more about the visual spectacle than the actual story. I mean dude was a fashion designer before this lol. I view Bleach as all drip, no substance tbh.
I just cant understand why he keeps getting married if he dont wanna fuck the same chick for life, state sanctioned relationships (Marriage) are weird
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 🗣️ *Destiny discusses being irritated about friends being told he's abusive and a liar.*
01:42 😡 *He's upset about being labeled a liar and reflects on the leak incident.*
04:10 🔄 *Describes how stories about their relationship are narrated differently to mutual friends.*
06:10 🔄 *Mutual friends' beliefs are skewed due to differing accounts of their relationship issues.*
08:15 🤥 *He's frustrated by accusations of lying and being portrayed as abusive.*
09:36 💭 *Reflects on initial gut feelings about Melina and reassesses past situations.*
12:39 💬 *Melina avoids leakingdetails as it reflects poorly on her, despite threats to do so.*
13:34 🤔 *He's careful not to portray Malina negatively despite personal animosity.*
16:31 💔 *Struggles between seeing Melina as manipulative or emotionally underdeveloped.*
17:14 😤 *Regrets sending aggressive messages to Melina, realizing his emotional state.*
18:36 🔄 *Seeks feedback to reassess the situation and reflects on his behavior.*
19:19 🤔 *Despite conflicting perspectives, he's open to reconciling and seeking advice.*
20:30 🤐 *Passive-aggressive tweets from Molina were noticed and tracked by Destiny, revealing the unhealthy communication loop.*
22:46 🕵️♂️ *Destiny reflects on dismissing initial concerns about Molina's behavior, realizing later that the suspicions were likely accurate.*
23:57 📜 *After discovering Molina's messages to mutual friends, Destiny initiates divorce proceedings.*
24:40 💬 *Molina reconnects after days, demanding $100,000 as moral compensation for leaving the US and claims of emotional manipulation.*
27:39 🧐 *Destiny confronts Molina's lies and manipulations during a tense 40-minute call, exposing inconsistencies in her claims.*
28:21 🔄 *Molina's tendency to emotionally rewrite history comes to light as she claims sacrifices in Sweden that contradict past statements.*
31:35 💸 *Destiny's legal situation post-divorce seems stable due to Florida's laws and lack of shared assets, making a prolonged legal battle unlikely.*
33:00 🏦 *Destiny retrieves money before a therapy session, feeling it wouldn't be helpful; the relationship boundaries considered for change were sensitive and embarrassing to articulate.*
34:41 🤔 *Destiny clarifies Molina's accusation of lying about paying for an apartment, highlighting how money was interconnected between their lives.*
38:11 💡 *Destiny's self-reflection shifts his perspective, realizing the toxic dynamic and feeling more confident about moving on.*
39:22 🤔 *Setting boundaries was a struggle in the relationship; taking responsibility for everything led to a cycle of blame.*
41:09 🔄 *Assuming fault for everything in a relationship, a cycle that hindered growth and led to self-blame.*
42:50 🚷 *Relationships impacted negatively due to assumptions and lack of boundary setting, leading to conflicts.*
44:29 🤔 *Experiencing frustration over not being taken seriously or believed, despite clear awareness of situations.*
47:55 🚫 *Limiting certain behaviors like screaming or throwing things to a minimal occurrence in relationships.*
50:46 🤷♂️ *Efforts to mend relationships turned futile despite attempts to reconcile differences and misunderstandings.*
53:50 🎮 *Recounting a moment of pushing away during gaming, the most intense physical interaction mentioned.*
56:33 📆 *Caution about dating significantly younger people due to evolving life perspectives and priorities.*
57:28 🔒 *Acknowledging disparities in relationship wants and life stages, leading to potential conflicts.*
58:53 🤝 *Recognizing Molina's astuteness in controlling narratives, while feeling unfairly portrayed in private.*
59:50 📱 *Destiny advises verifying information before believing rumors, emphasizing the importance of asking for context or evidence, especially in conversations about unhinged behavior.*
01:02:11 🤔 *Context matters: If a situation's backstory spans years, consider it's possibly distorted.*
01:02:57 🗣️ *Destiny shares frustration over details of personal relationships being shared without context, causing misunderstandings and resentment.*
01:06:03 🚫 *Complex rules in relationships can feel suffocating, leading to missteps even with good intentions.*
01:09:17 💔 *Relationships involving jealousy and possessiveness might need clearer boundaries or reconsideration.*
01:11:00 🔄 *Many women in Destiny's circles don't engage in casual sex as much as expected, citing reasons like lackluster encounters or risks.*
01:15:01 🤷 *Destiny discusses his feelings about partners' actions: Emotional betrayal hurts him more than physical infidelity.*
01:15:42 🤔 *Destiny considers being a "secondary" partner in a poly relationship might suit his disposition.*
01:16:11 🧐 *Destiny doesn't experience jealousy but acknowledges his inability to empathize with those who do.*
01:18:14 👫 *Possessiveness levels vary; exclusivity might not equate to a stronger bond for everyone.*
01:19:28 🤔 *Considering an open relationship? Starting from the beginning is crucial; diving in without groundwork often leads to disasters.*
01:20:18 🛌 *Relationships are cherished, providing companionship and warmth. Being alone for long periods feels daunting.*
01:21:31 💔 *Pressure to be someone's sole source of romantic attention is overwhelming; multiple emotional connections feel like too much.*
01:22:38 🧠 *ADHD medication helped maintain focus in relationships, easing conflicts and enhancing attention during conversations.*
01:24:04 🚫 *Words of affirmation in relationships don't resonate; actions speak louder. ADHD meds temporarily altered this perception.*
01:25:25 🌐 *Public life impacts relationship dynamics; while it's sometimes annoying, it also shields from certain relationship dramas.*
01:26:47 🤔 *An open relationship's downsides differ from those in monogamous relationships; the former's upsides seem more appealing.*
01:27:19 🌍 *Long-distance relationships can be complicated, especially with international travel and legalities involved.*
Made with HARPA AI
Commenting for engagement to keep this near the top.
How did you create this in only 16 minutes?
That’s crazy
@@meme6335 Read to the end.
|
Made with HARPA AI
@@meme6335 He watched it live
Enjoy being "right" on the internet and wrong in life.
Many such cases
I can tell this is partly his fault if he’s just now realizing screaming and throwing things is a dealbreaker. That means he had loose boundaries, which will lead a relationship with a woman to the gates of hell every time.
Wow, there are so many jaded people in this section. A well-raised woman will never do such things. Raise better women if you want a better future.
@@IgnoreMeImWrongthat’s my point. If your partner is throwing things or screaming at you it’s past the point where the relationship should have already been dissolved, is all I’m saying. A guy not saying no to a relationship where that stuff is occurring is going to make the guy look like he has no backbone, which will decrease respect and just generally deteriorate the relationship.
He's 100% right that you can't raise kids properly in a polymoronic relationship. lol
Destiny won't realize this. Ever. He's sunk so much emotional weight into the idea that little to no accountability in a relationship is on par with monogamy and devotion to one partner.
You absolutely can, these two couldn't
@@soup8786your three dads beg to differ? Sorry, I disagree with them. My source? Me.
@@martymcfly88mph35 are you the human incarnation of the aids virus? Yes . Source? Me.
@@martymcfly88mph35🤣
So Melina is the new Ana/Lav/every woman Destiny ever had sex with. Who would have guessed?
truly no one could have predicted this..
Can you catch me up...who's Ana and Lav?
i mean like i want to feel bad for you and have sympathy.... but this is exactly why people argued so strongly against him so many time and he showed no empathy....
for someone that is so set in his ways when it comes to politics or debating about the moral compass of other people; it’s mind blowing that you’re confused that your open relationship marriage didn’t work out lmao
imagine taking advice , or listening to this guys 'life advice', and actually believing him
28:27 taking facts over emotional state lmao, pretty sure Destiny had an argument with redpillers about this and he vehemently denies it knowing he himself is lying lmao
Life is the best teacher. After this he will look at the world differently and learn from it. People have to learn life lessons on their own for it to sink in.
@@bustadouglas8638I really want to see how he performs the next time he's on F&F.... that is going to be a wild episode.
I certainly would, this guys been through a nightmare of a relationship and seems very reasonable and level headed about most things, I would certainly if I had the chance ask him about shit if I was getting into a relationship.
@@hedgehog11953 Best to get advice about women from a man who actually understands woman, which isn't Destiny, not by a longshot, not even after all this. At best you'll get some politically correct, muddled, inactionable, purple pill advice from him.
Destiny embraces the woman allegations and drops the cattiest stream ever
Yaaaaaaaaaasssss
God I love seeing him get clapped 😂
@@just_a_turtle_chadremove those last two words and you find the truth 😂
@@just_a_turtle_chadbro you like gay porn? I mean it’s fine but like really? You didn’t need to announce that publicly do you want a cookie?
@@just_a_turtle_chadthere you go, fence sitting again. Lemme check the latest Lasan stream and see what you said there brb
Watching this is a waste of precious life time.
Why waste your life commenting then ?
This is one of those things where you just can’t help but feel bad lmao. Respect for sticking to your decision and following through, but definitely should have listened to your gut and the masses of supporters pointing out the red flags. The cool thing about Destiny though is that his relationship has been viral so much on many different platforms, and everyone called exactly what happened, but Destiny is a pretty authentic and genuine guy who doesn’t seem to be fronting or covering anything up. No one is really attacking him going “Told you so you moron” , since he’s basically saying himself, “Should have listened to you guys and my gut, I’m an idiot looking back and seeing the insanity.” Only direction to go is up, keep your head high and rebuild.
For how incredibly smart steven is. It blows my mind how stupid he is when it comes to relationships with an S/O. Mind boggling how he fools himself on so many fronts to justify that he is "correct." Even when it all comes crashing down he's half-blind.
I have noticed this is the single thing smart (men) usually completely fail, with women. Look at someone like Aba from Aba N Preach. When he did the dating series during corona lockdowns. He came off lame and stupid. Not like someone who knew what he was doing while talking to these ladies in a romantic setting.
I’ve listened to him
Talk about dating and relationships and thought he was off quite a bit in that arena .. he truly seems a bit naive about female nature
@@brianmeen2158He is surely not naive to female nature.
His advice and prescriptions are very sound and grounded unlike redpill and further left spaces.
He is just very naive (it seems) to the role he plays in a problem. He’s a big boy so he thinks it’s his fault and it’s his big boy problem.
So he downplays it because it’s his problem to fix, when it seems it was hers.
@@brianmeen2158its bc he's a feminist. its basically his religion so his beliefs are strong enough to override reality in his mind
@ravenarrowz- Ego is blind to it too.
“As a guy we have to accept there will be shit thrown/broken, some pushing/shoving, screaming and other behavior that would be problematic if a guy did it.”
Actually, no. I’m a woman who refuses to behave this way in conflict with anyone, but especially with my partner. It’s unacceptable, full stop. The only time I ever screamed at someone I was dating was because he screamed at me and provoked me to that state. I still take ownership of my reaction, though, and I should have walked away and told him we were done the second he did it rather than scream back.
Men, you do not have to accept this type of behavior. Sane women do exist. There are plenty of us who want to have productive conflict with our partners and not screaming matches or full on domestic violence. Fuck that.
“Sane” women are so rare it’s easier and closer to the truth to just say they don’t exist.
good one LMAO
Will you marry me
We don't accept, it just happens. Lol
It’s not a woman thing it’s a relationship thing. Men do this as well and I’d think most relationships have this happen at some point which is a reason why it’s probably good most relationships fail.
So this is “love”. Spend years together and then after split up it was all suddenly bad . People are terrible. There are so many women(and some men) who use romance in the most opportunistic way possible.Also i hear so often the most confident people, as in posing their opinions as “fact” in a confident manner, sounding to me like they really do not know much. Getting to know oneself and what it means to be a human is not easy yet here we are. So many think its all cut and dry
Stick with monogamy
Well no an open relationship doesn’t work no matter the llove”
Honestly. Say what you want about the open relationship thing which…. yeah. These people need to stop living their personal lives on the goddamn internet. I don’t care who you fuck or how many people or whatever kind of newfangled relationship you are trying to have.
Broadcasting it like this is about the least healthy thing in the world
he is drip feeding us the drama, barely keeping us above hunger, the abuse is sick
I grew up with a person like Melina and I genuinely dont know how Destiny managed to keep the relationship going for so long. I know she has good traits but that kind of one sided telling of events, weaponisation of everything and never acknowledging any fault drives me fucking insane. Leaving was the single best decision I ever made in my life. I hope Destiny can move forward with this in a healthy way and work on the boundaries thing.
He's a gamer that wanted a convenient pretty lay that okayed an open relationship. He deserves everything he gets.
I have a girlfriend like this. We've been besties a long while but when I eventually saw that she only retells stories in a way that makes her look good and sometimes couldn't see when she was clearly in the wrong, I haven't ever really trusted her like I once did if I'm honest. Unreliable narrator. I also generally don't vent my fights with my husband to others because one we usually resolve it quickly on our own. But secondly I only open up in cases where I'm like genuinely confused on who's in the wrong or if I'm being the asshole. So I try to tell a friend the events in a way that's sympathetic to both me and my husband.
I feel like any other approach is kinda toxic
I'm laughing my ass of at him for degrading himself by agreeing to an "open relationship"
As if cucking yourself ever lead to a healthy, long term relationship 😂
money
How can you expect any boundaries when there's zero loyalty
You dont need debates when truth speaks for itself
Stopped watching Destiny for 3 months and now his wife is now his ex wife and is asking him for money
She left him for a bum, defamed him publicly, and thinks he is going to continue to support her financially, thats Mad.
It's crazy how he kind of acts like he's self aware of how he invites chaos and strife into his life through associating with unhinged people, and taking part in destabilizing activities like having an open relationship, marrying someone who is very young and idealistic, neglecting the boring parts of relationships which create the actual bond, not adequately protecting himself from potential threats such as by not getting a prenup and so on. Then he goes on to rationalize all of his behaviour in a very weak transparent way that apparently everyone in the world can see through except for him and he just does the same thing on repeat. Then he talks about how he does all of this because he sees the world in some kind of special way with no preconceived notions or biases, and its other people that are biased or unreasonable. Its nuts.
It's really annoying when he says the open relationship is good for him because he is the "exception" and it might not work for other people. You can't say you are the exception if it's never worked for you either. When you are retired and 90 years old with your wife of 50 years and you've had an open relationship the whole time, then you can say you are the exception if you want. Having a chaotic 5 year relationship that ends in divorce and probably a ton of drama, and potentially damaging financial consequences isn't "being the exception", its being an idiot. The open relationship might not even be the biggest problem in the relationship, but it makes no difference really when there are a million other problems piled on top. Saying the open relationship couldn't didn't contributed significantly is like saying you didn't hurt yourself when you wiped out on your motorcycle and broke your arm, because you also broke every other bone in your body falling down the stairs on the same day, so who knows what happened.
That was a great analysis and a fun read! 😆 defo agree
He's a more sophisticated boogie2988
That's why I always said that I can't take him seriously, even if he does have a point on certain issues. If you're a man, and I don't feel any respect for you, then your opinion doesn't matter to me. If you allow your girl to fuck around, then what's there to respect?
I don't think he's saying he's the exception because he believes he's special and can make open relationships work. He thinks he's the exception because he desires multiple casual sexual partners and an open relationship is the only way to make that equitable on both sides.
Same could be said for monogamous relationships, how many monogamous relationships have you been in that failed, have you and everyone else in the world who remains married, marry the first person they were ever in a relationship with? No, so I guess no one has a successful relationship until they are 90 years old and been married for 50 years, which is very few people. So I guess successful relationships period are the exception, so doesn't really matter whether it's open or not, may as well just do what you want and hope you're the exception.
Or you know, not be retarded and recognize not everyone is you, and people have different wants, needs, and values, and a single rule for what will work doesn't apply to everyone equally, and finding something that works requires a bit of trial and error, especially when it involves other people who also have and entirely different mind and consciousness from you to deal with.
Remember, Destiny has a kid too.. something I've yet to see discussed is how this whole thing that has made Destiny a joke online is going to affect the kid when he finds out or gets bullied over it at school (if he hasn't already). Finding out your dad was in an cringey alternative "relationship" that ended up failing despite Destiny insisting it works for him as he is the exception to the rule is probably the equivalent to kids finding out their mom was on OF. Polyamory is so damaging to children just as divorce is. Children need stability in the home or else mental and emotional issues will develop. He already has to grow up without his father in the home and now this... let Destiny be a warning of the problems with poly.
I don't think the child lives with Destiny though. If he has any brains he will use his mother's last name.
No 'just as divorce' . A turbulent divorce will affect the children, but a fair one with caring parents for their children won't affect them that much. What messes up with children is the trauma of being in the middle of violence, physical or verbal or both. Good parents try their very best to keep the hard part away from them and find the moment to give them an explanation. Every couple is unique and you can't generalize.
@@NI0256 You can't generalise, yet here you are making the most contentious generalisation in history - that divorce 'won't affect children that much'. Irony much? Sounds like a cope to me.
Why are you discussing all this private life shit online?
“Our relationship was open, and then it became poly and then it was dead” also describes my experience with open relationships. In a good relationship right now and we’ve talked about it, but I would never take such an unnecessary risk again.
it doesn't sound like they had a poly relationship ever, just an open one lol
@kenevans9902 You failed reading comprehension. Or maybe just dont know the difference between open and poly?
@osvelit Idk, I feel like Destiny moved it towards poly when he said he wanted to really know the people he had sex with because it made it better than a hookup. That extra spice is called emotional connection. That's why Melina kept saying they need to know they are not your girlfriends and make it clear it's for sex. Mel might have done it too but I don't watch her trash so I have to go off his word which says he made it a bit more than sex. I think all of this is playing with fire but open should just be banging. This whole really getting to know the person to the point they get confused into thinking they are bf/gf is Destiny giving poly signals and showing emotional availability.
@@wvance0316 right, but that still isn't poly. that's just being dumb as fuck about an open relationship
@@silversalmon9909if there's an difference, it's hardly significant. anyone in one of these pseudo relationships is kidding themselves. monogamy is the only way towards true fulfilment.