Hello! Really happy to of gotten to animate this :D for folks watching the video, here's the timestamps 1- They Constantly lie to you 0:35 2- They Intentionally confuse you 1:03 3- They make you believe others are against you 1:48 4- They Attack you 2:19 5- They wear you down overtime 2:54
Hello! i'm the animator behind this video! Im really glad you thought that was a good choice ;D I'm a big fan of YTTD and if I get given any more videos about gaslighting to animate im probably going to do more YTTD stuff
Im in love with all the attention to detail, like - All the different characters they took the time to draw so well - Yttd music - References to the actual story like the laptop, kanna defending sou, sou accusing sara in the first main game - Yttd settings and backgrounds - “Sou: Hi! I’m going to gaslight you!” - KEIJI GIVING SARA BUNNY EARS Huge props to the animator and those who worked on this video!!
Hello I was the animator behind this video! I'm really glad you liked the attention to details your the first person to mention the bunny ears so far lol
Hello! I'm the animator behind this video! I'm really glad you liked how I used Sou as an example for someone who gaslights. No shade to the character of course I understand he has his reasons for what he did, but he still made a wonderful example for this video lol
My father and stepmother did this to me for ten years on top of other mind games and verbal abuse as well as neglect. Thank you for making this, Psych2Go. I appreciate the time and effort you put into each and every one of your videos
My father has also done and still does verbal aggression with me, to this day I don't understand why he hates me so much, if I was always sweet to him. I'm so sorry for you, wish you a blessed, lovely n Sweet things to your life.🙏
Thank you. Unfortunately, there were other factors at play, such as I had no say in whether or not I wanted to go stay with them, but there were also the factors of both of them being malignant narcissists and alcoholics, with my father having untreated mental health issues on top of the above. I am now 14, and I escaped my father when I was 12, and haven't seen or heard from him ever since. I live with my mom, stepfather, and younger sisters. I aspire to be a doctor, and have the goal of being better than my estranged father and stepmother ever will be.
Now, YTTD is not something I expected in a Psych2Go video at all. But video was helpful since meanin of gaslightning was a bit hazy for me yet it's something I experienced(was guilttripping me, saying others were badmouthing me yet she was doing so behind my back)and which still has aftereffects of having less faith in myself... well, at least I got better and that person is in a metaphorical hell(got what they deserved)
Hello! I'm the animator behind this video ^^ When i was given a topic about gaslighting i knew I had to put YTTD into it. I'm really happy that this video was able to help you out!
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My friends were extremely manipulative and they did it through GUILTRIPPING and I finally left that shitty friendgroup, I really wish other people don't have to go through it too. It's absolutely horrible.
@@Psych2go Gaslighting has long been in my older brother's behavioral repertoire. He is all but 2 years and eight months to the day older than me (as well as my twin sister--we'll be turning 63 this month, the older brother turns 66 in mid-December). That brother and I have shared a lot of things including people I once called friends over the years. But with the passing of our parents (father 8 years ago, mother this past April) the situation has deteriorated to the point where I have no use for him as well as those he continues to slander me about. Problem is, other factors have forced me to become extremely isolated. Never have I needed true friends more and I'm being forced to relocate because of the affordable housing crisis. I'm on my 2d SSDI disability claim and live 7 hours away from those who have become toxic to me over time, but suddenly cannot afford to live anywhere near my trusted therapist with whom I had a phone session just today. I shan't go any further, but I gather you have an inkling of just one part of the current crisis I'm staring down and trying to deal with every day.
Wow! I really like number 4, "they attack you", its such a common way that gaslighters do, it feels miserable and makes you negative talk yourself to the point where you believe them. Big hugs to everyone that is struggling with being gaslighted constantly. Whether they are in a relationship, family, or close friends. Remember to stay strong and remember sometimes its better to cut your losses early before it becomes to hard later. ❤❤❤
It is so true when you say that cutting your losses early will save you a lot of hardship. Sadly, this is where I feel that the Canadian divorce system fails. I had to endure ten years of gaslighting from 2 narcissists as a child, and I couldn't cut ties with them until I was 12, and by that point, it was extremely difficult because even though I knew I would be better off without them, I just couldn't do it. Thankfully I did, but it was still difficult nonetheless. I wish I could've cut ties with them sooner, because it would've saved me a lot of trouble....
Imagine that my ex said that if I keep doing a certain thing I’ll ruin all of my future relationships, and btw I only asked him why he said something different in the past. Yeah I did that a lot, because he said some things and then he changed what he said, or acted differently so I wanted to know why this was happening. I guess I was always finding out that he was lying or not telling all the truth and in the end he was exhausted. But that reaction made me feel really bad about myself, after all I just wanted to know which was the truth
This is so accurate to your turn to die’s story,this is 100% sou’s relationship with sara up until he dies so the real mastermind can be revealed they don’t even make him out to be the mastermind he just gaslights sara and he’s not even gaslighting JUST sara alone he also gaslights kanna and sometimes q-taro
Hello! i'm the animator behind this video ^^ I was debating on putting him down as shin in the video but I didn't want to spoil the game for anyone who hasn't played it yet so I decided to put him down as Sou
1- They constantly lie to you 2- They intentionally confuse you 3- They make you believe others are against you 4- They attack you 5- They wear you down all the time
As a gigantic fan of Your Turn To Die/Kimi ga shine, this makes it super better, all thosr aside, I really thank you for helping me out in my journey of life 😭, this made me realize one of my relationship/friendship with someone, it's quite toxic, but I'm thinking of ending our friendship. Thank you so much! (I somehow always simp for antagonists, like Shin Tsukimi/Sou Hiyori, Sue Miley, Safalin, Ranger/Laizer, Kokichi, Nagito, and more- ☠️)
Hello! I'm the animator behind this video here, I'm really glad you liked the video! I wanted to include some of the other antagonists in the video but a lot of the character designs in YTTD are complicated and hard to animate, I could draw them on their own but when it comes to animation the simpler the better. My fav antagonist is prob either Ranger, or Midori/Sou though I didn't want to include any spoilers for people who havn't played YTTD so i decided to just put him as Sou since thats how he introduces himself in the beginning
@@Post_Punk Oh my goodness! Hello! It's so nice to meet you! I do understand, because animating isn't really that easy, as someone who's practicing to be an animator and digital artist, your work is very nice! I enjoy it. I've actually finished the whole game, and now I'm just sitting in the corner of my room crying because of Joe's death repeating in my head- 😭, I've finished all routes besides the Alice/Kanna route, I'm currently in my danganronpa and Your Turn to Die phase. It's really nice seeing other people knowing Your Turn To Die, because it's honestly a nice game! Besides all that, I love your animation, I'm looking forward to see more! Good luck with your animating! (Congrats for being a new member in the psych2go team, or I'm not really sure what the team is called yet, but I hope for a good career journey for you!)
Hello! I'm glad you liked the video i worked hard animating it 💪 if I'm given any more videos about gaslighting or themes that fit YTTD im def going to be taking that opportunity to do so
Hello! i'm the animator behind this video ^^ Me using Sou in the video as an example of gaslighting isn't me trying to say his reasons were bad. I understand why he did what he did, and I love the character ^^ thats why when i was given the chance to make a video on gaslighting I knew I had to do it.
im sorry, this is very off topic, but this has to be my favorite animation! as someone who likes yttd this is very intriguing/fun to watch! props to the person who animated this!
I spent 11 years with a person like this. Heartless master manipulator who was building second reality behind my back, yet I thought the world was against me and that person was the only one who was on my side. After break up it felt like someone tore out a hudge part of yourself from your body, cos those ppl often have a chameleon personality which makes you believe they r second part of your soul, and the moment u do realize they never loved you and all of the reality u lived in was an illusion its the worst and best moment of your life. To whoever in relationship like this, run. It takes a lot of time to comeback to your true self, but it will happened eventually. For me it was more than a year, which was mostly crying at the beginning. Now after 13 months it happens I'm crying sometimes but out of pure happiness, as there were moments when one's losing hope in the relationship with master manipulator and forgets what "normal life" used to be. Stay strong.
I'm currently trying to move on after a recent breakup with my gf who I've been with for 2 years. And I've been watching a lot of your videos in regards to love and self-care, and it's been helping me a lot through these hard times. Thank you for videos like these. It's helping me a lot through my healing process.
My horrible "mother" Gaslit Me for years!! She's no longer allowed in My Life. And, the Priest at this new church I was trying out., Also a Gaslighter. Honestly, I DID not see THAT coming. I do not attend that church, anymore! Thanks for your content! It IS Helpful.
I also among so many experienced this too from my mother and sister as a child, and throughout my teen years. I believed I was a horrible child at 6 years old from all the gaslighting. It is strange though, as an adult I took all of what they said, and believed all of it. I still struggle today about my self worth, having deep insecurities, and I do believe this has had an effect on my life; decision making, etc. Also, some of my relationship choices nearly matched my mother. There are a couple of ideas I have, such as; Replacing a negative thought you have about yourself with a positive one, even if you don't believe yourself just keep doing it. It changes your thought process about yourself in the long run. Also, cognitive therapy is very helpful if needed. Love & Light to all. ♡
My first love seems to be an expert on gaslighting. She always promised things and didn’t keep her word. She always said that her father will go nuts because of religious reasons. That ended in a huge dispute and it took about 5/6 years to get out of that vicious circle. I’m pretty sure that my biggest love did. some gaslighting when we broke up. I assumed that she was worried of getting dumped while I was fully committed to us. She left me because of her fear of being left and blamed me. I think it’s an after effect of traumatic events in her life before we’ve met. I still think of her as a amazing person.
I love that you guys never stop changing the animations of your videos! I never know what to expect but always learn something new and enjoy the video 💜
Hello I'm one of the Animators for psych2go! I animated this video ^^ My channel is in the description of the video if you don't believe me lol Thank you!
When I was in highschool, I got one guy who was gaslighting one of my close friend. At first I had my doubts when I noticed a change in my friends behaviour , later when I asked her about what was going with her , she then told me all about that happened between her and that guy ( one of this old classmate). As soon as I understood the situation , I told her that she's been gaslighted by that guy. I advised her not get any more involved with that guy than she is already did. After few weeks when I met with her again she was doing fine and also started acting normal than ever . This points mentioned in this video are very well matched and really something to look out for .
You guys are popping out videos fast. That's awesome! As long as you guys aren't burnt out, keep up the good work at a steady pace. You make a difference more than you realize.
I was gaslit by my “best friend” for two years without realizing it. He constantly lied, attacked me, wore down my self esteem, and planted doubts about my other friends in my mind (about what they were saying/thought about me). He made me think I was insane, and that he was the only one I could trust. Really hurt my GPA and social life waking up from it too.
All of these signs apply to my online ‘friend’. I have the ability to leave them at any time, and I have before. I left them for almost a year straight. But it’s really, really hard to leave when there’s other people falling victim to their gaslighting, specifically people you met as a result of them. And you obviously think about telling them, but you fear that they’ll defend the gaslighter. Also, here’s a thing, the gaslighter may have talked about you TO them behind your back. And then they’ll think that YOU are the gaslighter. I know this because said gaslighter has talked about my own friend to me. Luckily I know that they are trustworthy, but I question it sometimes, which proves how powerful gaslighting really is.
until today, many people around gaslight me, twisting my reality, convincing me that their narcissistic, manipulative behavior is a form of love and is normal. this affected my trust issues and confused me a lot, dismissing and invalidating my feelings made me suppress my emotions unconsciously. most ppl in my area, starting at home, gaslight me. I feel alone.
0:36 > they constantly lie to you. 1:06 > they constantly lie to you. 1:47 > they make you believe others are against you. 2:20 > they attack you. 2:54 > they wear you down over time. Being gaslit suck, especially from PARENTS! Beware
3:37 The smartest person can fall prey. This is a true statement,a truth that can be taken literally farther than you may initially think. I have a high level of intelligence I’ve inherited from my family, given multiple of my family members are part of high iq societies. I’ve been a victim of gaslighting at the hands of my parents my entire childhood. I’m 19, and I’ve only recently recognized that truth with the help of moving away from them. I’m grateful I can recognize patterns of toxicity now including gaslighting. But don’t dismiss this point, this is arguably the most important one. You may think “Oh they’re legitimately intelligent, they must not have any problems because they’re either too smart to have them or if they do have them, they can resolve it fairly easily.” No. I understand the reasoning behind this way of thinking, however you should also take note that high intelligence can also lead to doubt coupled with overthinking because of the ability to see more possibilities and outcomes than the general population, leading to overwhelm mostly due to the fact that BECAUSE most others can’t see them, the intelligent person who is a victim to gaslighting will find that they have no one to turn to to reassure and comfort them, OR give insight and deny that any negative possibility is false.
My "ex" would always tell me I'm never honest with them, when in fact they were never honest with me. It pissed me off so much, and I told them "I'm more honest than you, and you know that" but they just ignored it, and telling me that I'm lying. They even called me a narcissist because I "only care about myself" when all I was doing was doing was looking out for myself. Never let someone else try to make you doubt what you KNOW is the truth. Stand up for yourself!
My friends have gaslighted me before. My friend who betrayed me actually gaslighted my friends to get me out of the friend group. Gaslighting is a real problem. And thank you for everything Psych2go
With this and various other behaviors, I'm often wondering about people who do these things and genuinely don't realize they're doing it. I feel like I've been in a few situations that may have been gaslighting, but I'm not sure how aware the person was about their manipulations and twisted perspectives. Both people came from very different, but very toxic upbringings with residual learned behaviors.
back in 3rd and 4th grade I've had this girl whom I had made " friends" with , and by that I mean turning me against my whole class , forcing me to do things against my own will and embarrass myself to do something that she wants in the perception that she is scared of ruining her reputation , mind her that if I've told anyone she would've been gone long before 😐 - u could say people like her are the reason why my trust issues and my panic attacks around new environments exist
YTTD. I clicked it for that. But this did make me realize and how to confront someone I know who gaslights me. Thanks. Also thanks for FORCING me to click on this 😂
There was this girl, i was her friend. For like 3-4 years she was "toxic" to me. Never knew how to tell anyone what she did. Finally Know what she was doing. Gaslighting me
When I first saw the notification for this video, I wasn't sure if the misspelled title was done on purpose to mess with us. "Sublte signs your being gaslighted". Thanks for fixing it 🤣
Being gaslight is something I have a real personal experience with and I really hope I’m not the only one who has had the experience of their ex gaslighting you when said ex is hanging out with their new boyfriend/girlfriend.
Have mercy have ya'll been secretly recording my life ... your examples sound verbatim like my very soon to be ex-husband... Can't wait to live and breath freely again .. already have a great therapist, got some work to do, but I feel positive for the 1st time in 30 years!!!
All my childhood my bestest friend/cousin would gaslight me, make me feel like I’m below them, and make me feel sensitive, I had to ask to do basic things, they manipulated me, and they would warp my vision on my extremely good friend. I very recently learned how toxic this relationship thanks to you phy2go, I have a lot of trouble having a healthy relationship with people since I always want to be alone and feel anxious when someone asks me to do stuff that my toxic friend would not agree to even though I really wanted to go there. since me and the toxic person are related I still see them like once every two months for family stuff or when I need to be at their house because no one’s at my house and they have not made any change whatsoever, it’s like they don’t want to grow which is pretty sad ngl
I had a housemate who gaslighted me. He would lie to me, deceive me, try to get a reaction out of me, and blame me for everything - even when it was he fault. He wouldn't clean up after himself. His ego was so big, that I'm surprised his head fit through the door. When he started taking my stuff, and telling me that I must've misplaced it, I felt like my grip on reality was slipping. I moved out of a house that I liked in a location I liked to get away from him. In the following weeks I technically became homeless and I stayed with an aquaintance of my uncle. Even then, I still refused to move back to that house. I even had to go through a tribunal to get my name off the lease, as there's no protections for domestic violence among housemates. He then couldn't afford the rent, and ran out on his lease. Unfortunately my bond money (security deposit) was still attached to that house, and I lost 2/3 of it. :(
My friend is being gaslighted in their relationship, i told them that multiple times but i have no idea what to do, cause they keep going back to their partner and its only hurting them more.. man. Update: They broke up! I'm so happy for them.
Not sure if what's happening to me is gaslighting, but lately my family has been making me feel like the problem child because I have been getting disrespected by them and they violate my boundaries. There was a time that I let them and didn't say anything. Now I've finally started to call out the behavior and asked to be treated better and they make me believe that I'm blowing everything out of proportion and trying to find disrespect where there wasn't any. Like I've set boundaries and they mock my boundaries. Or I've put distance between us to save my own mental well being and I get told that the act of taking time to myself is disrespectful. Or that walking away from conflict is disrespectful. I'm seriously at my wits end. I try resolving conflict with my family by talking it out and I can't get a sentence out before I start crying. Then they tone police me and tell me that my stance/expression is very aggressive and they don't want to talk it out with me because of my body language. I've tried talking it out and they will bring up random things that upset them and when I try to elaborate on what upset them, they ask me "what are you talking about now?" And act like I'm bringing up completely random things when THEY BROUGHT IT UP IN THE FIRST PLACE!! There's been times where I'm trying to resolve an issue that happened immediately in the moment and they bring up the past to guilt trip me and remind me of things I did that I already apologized for that they never let go of. I haven't gotten an apology for a very messed up comment that my sister's boyfriend made. I havent gotten an apology for being condescended at my workplace in front of my coworkers. And I haven't gotten an apology for being mocked and guilt tripped whenever I get disrespected and try to resolve the issue. I just want to be treated like an equal and now it seriously feels like I'm being singled out because my family will invite all my other siblings over and never talk to me. I've tried opening communication with my sister over text and will go two weeks without an answer, but then I'm told to my face that I don't reach out enough and if I don't come along when my siblings are invited that it's my own fault for feeling left out. It feels like they're giving me the cold shoulder because I won't let them treat me poorly. I don't know what to do or how to make them realize that the way they're treating me actually IS wrong and I'm not just making a huge deal about everything.
DUDE your parents are MEGA Toxic and no taking time for yourself it's not DISRESPECTFUL. Your parents are trying to guilt trip you about something you HAVEN'T DONE and make you feel bad for it. My advice is find people that, care about you and your well-being. Or maybe when you become, independent cut ties with THEM. MAYBE call a friend that, can help.
@@matleo7988 I appreciate the advice but I really don't want to go no contact with my family. They're the only ones that I actually care to resolve issues with. If it was friends I'd have no qualms about cutting ties. I want to try and see eye-to-eye with them if at all possible. Maybe things will get better in time. If not, then I think your advice is the only alternative I really have here
bro I'm sorry you have to go through that. My older sister does the same thing, gaslights me by saying I am disrespecting her and hurting her feelings whilst she is being negative and having an attitude when she talks to me. She also tries to guilt trip me with what I did wrong in the past (which I have already solved) for an excuse to gaslight
@@Iuffycs I've been no contact with said sister for 8 months now. Go figure this comment was leading up to me needing to break it off :/ The best advice I can give is to just be firm in your boundaries and if the chaos and negativity and gaslighting keeps persisting, it's best to stonewall or just go no contact if things escalate to violence or abuse. I'm sorry you're going through gaslighting too. It sucks worse when it comes from family who you'd think know you the best, so they would be the right people to go to for support. I know how that feels all too well. I hope everything works out with you and your sister and you can come to an understanding before it ever has to turn into something more drastic. Just keep your head up and embody exactly the kind of person you want to be and treat others the best you can. Can't be wrong all the time if you know you're trying your best everyday!
i think it might be worth pointing out that "gaslighters" may not be a clear conscious role. they might be trapped in their own lies moments at a time, instinctively/unconsciously exploiting/observing little thing that helps isolate people toward their cause. i feel bad for this friend of mine trapped behind his wife's iron claw. even their new neighbor who barely heard them through the walls was like... "she's kindda controlling huh?"
Hello! Really happy to of gotten to animate this :D
for folks watching the video, here's the timestamps
1- They Constantly lie to you 0:35
2- They Intentionally confuse you 1:03
3- They make you believe others are against you 1:48
4- They Attack you 2:19
5- They wear you down overtime 2:54
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I love the your turn to die references
Wowww, you animated it?? You deserve praise!!😭😳💓
good job, this looks really cool
My respect for u is over the roof rn ty for involving yttd
love YTTD, Shin is the perfect example of a person who gaslights
EXACTLY
Right Midori and Shin Two peas in a pod
Hello! i'm the animator behind this video!
Im really glad you thought that was a good choice ;D
I'm a big fan of YTTD and if I get given any more videos about gaslighting to animate im probably going to do more YTTD stuff
@@Post_Punk ITS SO GOOD!! DANGANRONPA REFERENCE NEXT PLS🥰🥰
@@Zukiyows18art maybe maybe
Im in love with all the attention to detail, like
- All the different characters they took the time to draw so well
- Yttd music
- References to the actual story like the laptop, kanna defending sou, sou accusing sara in the first main game
- Yttd settings and backgrounds
- “Sou: Hi! I’m going to gaslight you!”
- KEIJI GIVING SARA BUNNY EARS
Huge props to the animator and those who worked on this video!!
Hello I was the animator behind this video!
I'm really glad you liked the attention to details your the first person to mention the bunny ears so far lol
@@Post_Punk yeah ofc! the bunny ears are iconic-
@@Post_Punk Hey uhh I got a question, what does gaslighting mean
@@ping5825 tldr its to make someone stop believing their reality
@@Post_Punk ...tldr????
YOOO!!! using Sou Hiyori as an example of a person gaslighting is just perfect!!! 💙💚
High five!
@@Psych2go 🙏 :D
Hello! I'm the animator behind this video!
I'm really glad you liked how I used Sou as an example for someone who gaslights.
No shade to the character of course I understand he has his reasons for what he did, but he still made a wonderful example for this video lol
@@Post_Punk
That's awesome! Keep up the good work! :3
@@Post_Punk Yess!! Great job!!
My father and stepmother did this to me for ten years on top of other mind games and verbal abuse as well as neglect. Thank you for making this, Psych2Go. I appreciate the time and effort you put into each and every one of your videos
Sorry to hear that you had to go through all that.. it's really tough especially from our caregivers..
I relate to this to a high level, im so sorry you had to go through it as well, know that you're never alone and wishing the best for you hun💖💖
My father has also done and still does verbal aggression with me, to this day I don't understand why he hates me so much, if I was always sweet to him. I'm so sorry for you, wish you a blessed, lovely n Sweet things to your life.🙏
@Sarcastic Butt It's NOT funny! It's a serious matter. I hope you never go through this.
Thank you. Unfortunately, there were other factors at play, such as I had no say in whether or not I wanted to go stay with them, but there were also the factors of both of them being malignant narcissists and alcoholics, with my father having untreated mental health issues on top of the above. I am now 14, and I escaped my father when I was 12, and haven't seen or heard from him ever since. I live with my mom, stepfather, and younger sisters. I aspire to be a doctor, and have the goal of being better than my estranged father and stepmother ever will be.
I LOVE THIS YTTD REFERENCE LOL
Same, caught me off guard
Thank you!!
I'm the animator behind this video here ^^ im so happy that people liked the YTTD references
@@Post_Punk thank YOU for that sou is litteraly the embodyment of gaslighting and the yttd popularity scene is too small imo
I swear you're reading my mind, I JUST finished watching yttd! And Sou is literally the perfect example.
YES.
Now, YTTD is not something I expected in a Psych2Go video at all. But video was helpful since meanin of gaslightning was a bit hazy for me yet it's something I experienced(was guilttripping me, saying others were badmouthing me yet she was doing so behind my back)and which still has aftereffects of having less faith in myself... well, at least I got better and that person is in a metaphorical hell(got what they deserved)
i didnt expect it either lol i got so excited
Hello! I'm the animator behind this video ^^
When i was given a topic about gaslighting i knew I had to put YTTD into it.
I'm really happy that this video was able to help you out!
@@Post_Punk oh, that’s nice! Because it fits the storyline of yttd real well. I love yttd, and the animation looks nice! ^^
@@sunnlust I AGREE
@@Post_Punk I LOVE YOUR ART STYLE
Glad to see YTTD in more things. And Sou is the best example for this for sure
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Love you ❤️
Okay
That's amazing 🥰🥰
yeah this is cool
Hi I’m going back to sleep
I love that yttd is being used in this
My friends were extremely manipulative and they did it through GUILTRIPPING and I finally left that shitty friendgroup, I really wish other people don't have to go through it too. It's absolutely horrible.
Sorry to hear that. Losing toxic friends can be liberating but also hurtful. Hopefully, you find your core 5 friends who are empowering!
@@Psych2go Gaslighting has long been in my older brother's behavioral repertoire. He is all but 2 years and eight months to the day older than me (as well as my twin sister--we'll be turning 63 this month, the older brother turns 66 in mid-December). That brother and I have shared a lot of things including people I once called friends over the years. But with the passing of our parents (father 8 years ago, mother this past April) the situation has deteriorated to the point where I have no use for him as well as those he continues to slander me about.
Problem is, other factors have forced me to become extremely isolated. Never have I needed true friends more and I'm being forced to relocate because of the affordable housing crisis. I'm on my 2d SSDI disability claim and live 7 hours away from those who have become toxic to me over time, but suddenly cannot afford to live anywhere near my trusted therapist with whom I had a phone session just today. I shan't go any further, but
I gather you have an inkling of just one part of the current crisis I'm staring down and trying to deal with every day.
Same here. "Friends" AND family. Left them all behind.
Wow! I really like number 4, "they attack you", its such a common way that gaslighters do, it feels miserable and makes you negative talk yourself to the point where you believe them. Big hugs to everyone that is struggling with being gaslighted constantly. Whether they are in a relationship, family, or close friends. Remember to stay strong and remember sometimes its better to cut your losses early before it becomes to hard later. ❤❤❤
Big hugs to you too!
It is so true when you say that cutting your losses early will save you a lot of hardship. Sadly, this is where I feel that the Canadian divorce system fails. I had to endure ten years of gaslighting from 2 narcissists as a child, and I couldn't cut ties with them until I was 12, and by that point, it was extremely difficult because even though I knew I would be better off without them, I just couldn't do it. Thankfully I did, but it was still difficult nonetheless. I wish I could've cut ties with them sooner, because it would've saved me a lot of trouble....
Imagine that my ex said that if I keep doing a certain thing I’ll ruin all of my future relationships, and btw I only asked him why he said something different in the past. Yeah I did that a lot, because he said some things and then he changed what he said, or acted differently so I wanted to know why this was happening. I guess I was always finding out that he was lying or not telling all the truth and in the end he was exhausted. But that reaction made me feel really bad about myself, after all I just wanted to know which was the truth
True that. Thanks.
Thankyou brother!... Still having a hard time... But I am trying to keep myself as simple as possible and as sane as possible
This is so accurate to your turn to die’s story,this is 100% sou’s relationship with sara up until he dies so the real mastermind can be revealed they don’t even make him out to be the mastermind he just gaslights sara and he’s not even gaslighting JUST sara alone he also gaslights kanna and sometimes q-taro
Is it available on ios
@@swanb5226 i think it is,im not entirely sure
@@swanb5226 the game has to be played in a browser (can be downloaded in pc), search it up
@@shidou. oh okay thanks
Ah Sou Hiyori (known as Shin) the gaslighter, trying to gaslight Sara!
Hello! i'm the animator behind this video ^^
I was debating on putting him down as shin in the video but I didn't want to spoil the game for anyone who hasn't played it yet so I decided to put him down as Sou
@@Post_Punk yea, nice!
Confidence is something you create within yourself by believing in who you are
Confidence is always empowering, but sometimes, even gaslighter can break the walls down.
1- They constantly lie to you
2- They intentionally confuse you
3- They make you believe others are against you
4- They attack you
5- They wear you down all the time
I love how yttd was added, the storyline fits the topic real well!
As a gigantic fan of Your Turn To Die/Kimi ga shine, this makes it super better, all thosr aside, I really thank you for helping me out in my journey of life 😭, this made me realize one of my relationship/friendship with someone, it's quite toxic, but I'm thinking of ending our friendship. Thank you so much! (I somehow always simp for antagonists, like Shin Tsukimi/Sou Hiyori, Sue Miley, Safalin, Ranger/Laizer, Kokichi, Nagito, and more- ☠️)
Hello! I'm the animator behind this video here, I'm really glad you liked the video!
I wanted to include some of the other antagonists in the video but a lot of the character designs in YTTD are complicated and hard to animate, I could draw them on their own but when it comes to animation the simpler the better.
My fav antagonist is prob either Ranger, or Midori/Sou
though I didn't want to include any spoilers for people who havn't played YTTD so i decided to just put him as Sou since thats how he introduces himself in the beginning
@@Post_Punk Oh my goodness! Hello! It's so nice to meet you! I do understand, because animating isn't really that easy, as someone who's practicing to be an animator and digital artist, your work is very nice! I enjoy it. I've actually finished the whole game, and now I'm just sitting in the corner of my room crying because of Joe's death repeating in my head- 😭, I've finished all routes besides the Alice/Kanna route, I'm currently in my danganronpa and Your Turn to Die phase. It's really nice seeing other people knowing Your Turn To Die, because it's honestly a nice game! Besides all that, I love your animation, I'm looking forward to see more! Good luck with your animating!
(Congrats for being a new member in the psych2go team, or I'm not really sure what the team is called yet, but I hope for a good career journey for you!)
@@Merly-d8q Thank you!!!
I wish you the best of luck with animation and digital art!!!
@@Post_Punk Thank you! I wish you the best of luck for you too!
congrats for getting the animator to reply, bestieee
Oh, oh yttd brain enjoyed this a lot, absolutely going feral over this, using Sou and Sara as an example? *chefs kiss*
Hello!
I'm glad you liked the video i worked hard animating it 💪
if I'm given any more videos about gaslighting or themes that fit YTTD im def going to be taking that opportunity to do so
Sou had good reasons tho, and a lot of suspicion he had was very very well founded.
Hello! i'm the animator behind this video ^^
Me using Sou in the video as an example of gaslighting isn't me trying to say his reasons were bad. I understand why he did what he did, and I love the character ^^ thats why when i was given the chance to make a video on gaslighting I knew I had to do it.
Omg i love YTTD >:0
It's such a good game.
Very good game
Omg I love Your Turn To Die!! It’s so fun to see all these new animations with cool anime/game references :)
Love the 'Your Turn To Die' animations! It was really cute, and fit the video strangely well.
Further broadening this subject we can see how not only people gaslight us but collectively in social media, "news", etc...
This video is great, and I love the fact that it was themed on YTTD! Glad to see the community growing bigger!
YES, YTTD!
im sorry, this is very off topic, but this has to be my favorite animation! as someone who likes yttd this is very intriguing/fun to watch! props to the person who animated this!
OH MY GOSH ITS YTTD WHOEVER THE ARTIST IS THANK YOU SO MUCH
Hello I'm the artist! (My channel is in the description if you don't believe me)
Your animators really appreciated me! I love Sara and Sou because they are from Kimi ga Shine
But watch out for the police
I spent 11 years with a person like this. Heartless master manipulator who was building second reality behind my back, yet I thought the world was against me and that person was the only one who was on my side. After break up it felt like someone tore out a hudge part of yourself from your body, cos those ppl often have a chameleon personality which makes you believe they r second part of your soul, and the moment u do realize they never loved you and all of the reality u lived in was an illusion its the worst and best moment of your life.
To whoever in relationship like this, run. It takes a lot of time to comeback to your true self, but it will happened eventually. For me it was more than a year, which was mostly crying at the beginning. Now after 13 months it happens I'm crying sometimes but out of pure happiness, as there were moments when one's losing hope in the relationship with master manipulator and forgets what "normal life" used to be. Stay strong.
I'm currently trying to move on after a recent breakup with my gf who I've been with for 2 years. And I've been watching a lot of your videos in regards to love and self-care, and it's been helping me a lot through these hard times. Thank you for videos like these. It's helping me a lot through my healing process.
I just came here for the Your Turn To Die references!! Thanks, its really well done!!
My horrible "mother" Gaslit Me for years!! She's no longer allowed in My Life. And, the Priest at this new church I was trying out., Also a Gaslighter.
Honestly, I DID not see THAT coming.
I do not attend that church, anymore!
Thanks for your content! It IS Helpful.
is that Your turn to die on the thumbnail??? whoever designed that needs a raise😭🤣
I would like a raise >.>
(Hello I'm the animator behind this video)
I was not expecting YTTD references in a Psych2Go video and I can’t say I’m complaining 😄
I also among so many experienced this too from my mother and sister as a child, and throughout my teen years. I believed I was a horrible child at 6 years old from all the gaslighting. It is strange though, as an adult I took all of what they said, and believed all of it. I still struggle today about my self worth, having deep insecurities, and I do believe this has had an effect on my life; decision making, etc. Also, some of my relationship choices nearly matched my mother. There are a couple of ideas I have, such as; Replacing a negative thought you have about yourself with a positive one, even if you don't believe yourself just keep doing it. It changes your thought process about yourself in the long run. Also, cognitive therapy is very helpful if needed. Love & Light to all. ♡
My first love seems to be an expert on gaslighting. She always promised things and didn’t keep her word. She always said that her father will go nuts because of religious reasons. That ended in a huge dispute and it took about 5/6 years to get out of that vicious circle.
I’m pretty sure that my biggest love did. some gaslighting when we broke up. I assumed that she was worried of getting dumped while I was fully committed to us. She left me because of her fear of being left and blamed me. I think it’s an after effect of traumatic events in her life before we’ve met. I still think of her as a amazing person.
I love that you guys never stop changing the animations of your videos! I never know what to expect but always learn something new and enjoy the video 💜
Hello I'm one of the Animators for psych2go! I animated this video ^^
My channel is in the description of the video if you don't believe me lol
Thank you!
I love that you use Your Turn to Die Animation to represent this video. I can't wait when the game gets finished
OMG I WILL NEVER THOUGHT YTTD WILL BE HERE ANIMATED
Been there. It's nice to know your warning people about this stuff! It's a good way to make sure that no one will be tricked
Glad you can see the value in this! Any suggestions for follow up topic?
I don't think I could, I bet you will though!
When I was in highschool, I got one guy who was gaslighting one of my close friend. At first I had my doubts when I noticed a change in my friends behaviour , later when I asked her about what was going with her , she then told me all about that happened between her and that guy ( one of this old classmate). As soon as I understood the situation , I told her that she's been gaslighted by that guy. I advised her not get any more involved with that guy than she is already did.
After few weeks when I met with her again she was doing fine and also started acting normal than ever .
This points mentioned in this video are very well matched and really something to look out for .
Just left a relationship last night after putting my foot down for being used and gas lit.
Proud of you! What are your next steps to enforce your boundaries if they contact you again?
I did this yesterday too. And I finally feel free, after 8,5 years of being abused by narcissist.
YTTD WAS THE MOST UNEXPECTED THING PSYCH2GO DREW-
You guys are popping out videos fast. That's awesome!
As long as you guys aren't burnt out, keep up the good work at a steady pace. You make a difference more than you realize.
Thank you!
Little behind the scenes thing
I'm the animator who worked on this video!
At psych2go we have multiple animators working on these videos ^^
Sou was the perfect example for this lol, great job.
I was gaslit by my “best friend” for two years without realizing it. He constantly lied, attacked me, wore down my self esteem, and planted doubts about my other friends in my mind (about what they were saying/thought about me). He made me think I was insane, and that he was the only one I could trust. Really hurt my GPA and social life waking up from it too.
NOT THE YTTD REFERNCES😭😭
All of these signs apply to my online ‘friend’. I have the ability to leave them at any time, and I have before. I left them for almost a year straight. But it’s really, really hard to leave when there’s other people falling victim to their gaslighting, specifically people you met as a result of them. And you obviously think about telling them, but you fear that they’ll defend the gaslighter. Also, here’s a thing, the gaslighter may have talked about you TO them behind your back. And then they’ll think that YOU are the gaslighter. I know this because said gaslighter has talked about my own friend to me. Luckily I know that they are trustworthy, but I question it sometimes, which proves how powerful gaslighting really is.
until today, many people around gaslight me, twisting my reality, convincing me that their narcissistic, manipulative behavior is a form of love and is normal. this affected my trust issues and confused me a lot, dismissing and invalidating my feelings made me suppress my emotions unconsciously. most ppl in my area, starting at home, gaslight me. I feel alone.
I've never been gaslighted but you aren't alone.
@@matleo7988 thank you.
your turn to die reference THANK YOU😭
WAAAH!! YTTD!! YES!!
Posted 20 seconds ago… I feel privileged. I’ve been your sub for a long long time and never been this early. I love your content
Thank you for the support! Where are you watching from?
@@Psych2go holy shit you replied to me. I’m watching from usa 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I remember a friend of mine. He used to gaslight me all the damn time. And I'm so glad that I cut off ties with that toxic friend.
Or maybe you should say "Friend" instead of just Friend.
YOUR TURN TO D!E THEME >>>>
0:36 > they constantly lie to you.
1:06 > they constantly lie to you.
1:47 > they make you believe others are against you.
2:20 > they attack you.
2:54 > they wear you down over time.
Being gaslit suck, especially from PARENTS! Beware
3:37 The smartest person can fall prey.
This is a true statement,a truth that can be taken literally farther than you may initially think. I have a high level of intelligence I’ve inherited from my family, given multiple of my family members are part of high iq societies. I’ve been a victim of gaslighting at the hands of my parents my entire childhood. I’m 19, and I’ve only recently recognized that truth with the help of moving away from them. I’m grateful I can recognize patterns of toxicity now including gaslighting. But don’t dismiss this point, this is arguably the most important one. You may think “Oh they’re legitimately intelligent, they must not have any problems because they’re either too smart to have them or if they do have them, they can resolve it fairly easily.” No. I understand the reasoning behind this way of thinking, however you should also take note that high intelligence can also lead to doubt coupled with overthinking because of the ability to see more possibilities and outcomes than the general population, leading to overwhelm mostly due to the fact that BECAUSE most others can’t see them, the intelligent person who is a victim to gaslighting will find that they have no one to turn to to reassure and comfort them, OR give insight and deny that any negative possibility is false.
I never expected psych2go to have YTTD in a video
Also shin was a great example to use
No more, but I was in this situation with someone. he turned me against my friends, my family and I don't know why this person was so convincing.
Love the yttd reference!!
There is always a message in the way a person treats you............Just listen.....
I can't believe that's what happening with me since childhood by my own parents! And it's still happening even today!
Bruh, poppin off with Your Turn to Die XD
I love this
YTTD OMGGGGGG ITS A HUGE YTTD REFERENCE YTTD WE WOOOOOONNNNNNN WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOO
Who else clicked on this not because of topic but because of YTTD reference
Yo! It’s so cool to finally see characters I know on your videos!
Shins Position is so accurate
I will admit the thumbnail took me off guard, last place I would expect a yttd mention but here we are!
i love the yttd animation!
My "ex" would always tell me I'm never honest with them, when in fact they were never honest with me. It pissed me off so much, and I told them "I'm more honest than you, and you know that" but they just ignored it, and telling me that I'm lying. They even called me a narcissist because I "only care about myself" when all I was doing was doing was looking out for myself. Never let someone else try to make you doubt what you KNOW is the truth. Stand up for yourself!
Claim your “here within an hour” ticket right here❤️
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Nice video! I love the animation, thank you so much for putting this out!
Valentine did such an amazing job on the animation!
Hello! i'm the animator behind this video! :D
I'm really glad you liked the animation in this video! I worked hard on it 💪
My friends have gaslighted me before. My friend who betrayed me actually gaslighted my friends to get me out of the friend group. Gaslighting is a real problem. And thank you for everything Psych2go
With this and various other behaviors, I'm often wondering about people who do these things and genuinely don't realize they're doing it. I feel like I've been in a few situations that may have been gaslighting, but I'm not sure how aware the person was about their manipulations and twisted perspectives. Both people came from very different, but very toxic upbringings with residual learned behaviors.
back in 3rd and 4th grade I've had this girl whom I had made " friends" with , and by that I mean turning me against my whole class , forcing me to do things against my own will and embarrass myself to do something that she wants in the perception that she is scared of ruining her reputation , mind her that if I've told anyone she would've been gone long before 😐 - u could say people like her are the reason why my trust issues and my panic attacks around new environments exist
This was a enlightening video. A former boss of mine would do this all the time to the point where I knew it was time for me to find another boss.
YTTD. I clicked it for that. But this did make me realize and how to confront someone I know who gaslights me. Thanks. Also thanks for FORCING me to click on this 😂
PLEASE MAKE MORE YTTD ONES!!! I loved this one so much! Shin/ Sou is one of my favorite characters!!! This was also very informative!!! 💗💗💗💗💖💖💖💖
Its very true that anyone can be gaslighted as it is gradual
There was this girl, i was her friend. For like 3-4 years she was "toxic" to me. Never knew how to tell anyone what she did. Finally Know what she was doing.
Gaslighting me
It's really nice seeing your artsyle's development over time
Love the YTTD theme.
When I first saw the notification for this video, I wasn't sure if the misspelled title was done on purpose to mess with us. "Sublte signs your being gaslighted".
Thanks for fixing it 🤣
Wow! I loved it (such as the YTTD references)! Interesting video, keep up!
Being gaslight is something I have a real personal experience with and I really hope I’m not the only one who has had the experience of their ex gaslighting you when said ex is hanging out with their new boyfriend/girlfriend.
Have mercy have ya'll been secretly recording my life ... your examples sound verbatim like my very soon to be ex-husband... Can't wait to live and breath freely again .. already have a great therapist, got some work to do, but I feel positive for the 1st time in 30 years!!!
Only here because YTTD
real me too
So happy another video got posted!
All my childhood my bestest friend/cousin would gaslight me, make me feel like I’m below them, and make me feel sensitive, I had to ask to do basic things, they manipulated me, and they would warp my vision on my extremely good friend. I very recently learned how toxic this relationship thanks to you phy2go, I have a lot of trouble having a healthy relationship with people since I always want to be alone and feel anxious when someone asks me to do stuff that my toxic friend would not agree to even though I really wanted to go there. since me and the toxic person are related I still see them like once every two months for family stuff or when I need to be at their house because no one’s at my house and they have not made any change whatsoever, it’s like they don’t want to grow which is pretty sad ngl
Omg. I love the Your Turn To Die art.
The thing is.... I don't even know if they're lying to me or not because they're my parents and I've grown up to follow everything they've said
I had a housemate who gaslighted me. He would lie to me, deceive me, try to get a reaction out of me, and blame me for everything - even when it was he fault. He wouldn't clean up after himself. His ego was so big, that I'm surprised his head fit through the door. When he started taking my stuff, and telling me that I must've misplaced it, I felt like my grip on reality was slipping. I moved out of a house that I liked in a location I liked to get away from him. In the following weeks I technically became homeless and I stayed with an aquaintance of my uncle. Even then, I still refused to move back to that house. I even had to go through a tribunal to get my name off the lease, as there's no protections for domestic violence among housemates. He then couldn't afford the rent, and ran out on his lease. Unfortunately my bond money (security deposit) was still attached to that house, and I lost 2/3 of it. :(
My friend is being gaslighted in their relationship, i told them that multiple times but i have no idea what to do, cause they keep going back to their partner and its only hurting them more.. man.
Update: They broke up! I'm so happy for them.
Sent this video to your friend!
MAYBE will help.
@@matleo7988 Yeah i was planning on doing that! I really hope they can free themselves before it gets out of control
Man, I love this channel.
Thanks for the kind words!
HAHAHAHA SOU IS A GREAT EXAMPLE BUT IM CRYING 💀
I just came here for the Yttd but then this video really helped me. Huh.
Okay so I do all that to myself...... Scary..... 😅😅
You gaslighter!!
Stop-
Not sure if what's happening to me is gaslighting, but lately my family has been making me feel like the problem child because I have been getting disrespected by them and they violate my boundaries. There was a time that I let them and didn't say anything. Now I've finally started to call out the behavior and asked to be treated better and they make me believe that I'm blowing everything out of proportion and trying to find disrespect where there wasn't any. Like I've set boundaries and they mock my boundaries. Or I've put distance between us to save my own mental well being and I get told that the act of taking time to myself is disrespectful. Or that walking away from conflict is disrespectful. I'm seriously at my wits end. I try resolving conflict with my family by talking it out and I can't get a sentence out before I start crying. Then they tone police me and tell me that my stance/expression is very aggressive and they don't want to talk it out with me because of my body language. I've tried talking it out and they will bring up random things that upset them and when I try to elaborate on what upset them, they ask me "what are you talking about now?" And act like I'm bringing up completely random things when THEY BROUGHT IT UP IN THE FIRST PLACE!! There's been times where I'm trying to resolve an issue that happened immediately in the moment and they bring up the past to guilt trip me and remind me of things I did that I already apologized for that they never let go of. I haven't gotten an apology for a very messed up comment that my sister's boyfriend made. I havent gotten an apology for being condescended at my workplace in front of my coworkers. And I haven't gotten an apology for being mocked and guilt tripped whenever I get disrespected and try to resolve the issue. I just want to be treated like an equal and now it seriously feels like I'm being singled out because my family will invite all my other siblings over and never talk to me. I've tried opening communication with my sister over text and will go two weeks without an answer, but then I'm told to my face that I don't reach out enough and if I don't come along when my siblings are invited that it's my own fault for feeling left out. It feels like they're giving me the cold shoulder because I won't let them treat me poorly. I don't know what to do or how to make them realize that the way they're treating me actually IS wrong and I'm not just making a huge deal about everything.
DUDE your parents are MEGA Toxic and no taking time for yourself it's not DISRESPECTFUL.
Your parents are trying to guilt trip you about something you HAVEN'T DONE and make you feel bad for it.
My advice is find people that, care about you and your well-being.
Or maybe when you become, independent cut ties with THEM.
MAYBE call a friend that, can help.
@@matleo7988 I appreciate the advice but I really don't want to go no contact with my family. They're the only ones that I actually care to resolve issues with. If it was friends I'd have no qualms about cutting ties. I want to try and see eye-to-eye with them if at all possible. Maybe things will get better in time. If not, then I think your advice is the only alternative I really have here
bro I'm sorry you have to go through that. My older sister does the same thing, gaslights me by saying I am disrespecting her and hurting her feelings whilst she is being negative and having an attitude when she talks to me. She also tries to guilt trip me with what I did wrong in the past (which I have already solved) for an excuse to gaslight
@@Iuffycs I've been no contact with said sister for 8 months now. Go figure this comment was leading up to me needing to break it off :/ The best advice I can give is to just be firm in your boundaries and if the chaos and negativity and gaslighting keeps persisting, it's best to stonewall or just go no contact if things escalate to violence or abuse.
I'm sorry you're going through gaslighting too. It sucks worse when it comes from family who you'd think know you the best, so they would be the right people to go to for support. I know how that feels all too well. I hope everything works out with you and your sister and you can come to an understanding before it ever has to turn into something more drastic.
Just keep your head up and embody exactly the kind of person you want to be and treat others the best you can. Can't be wrong all the time if you know you're trying your best everyday!
@@kitcat2179 Thank you, I have been doing that lately :)
i think it might be worth pointing out that "gaslighters" may not be a clear conscious role. they might be trapped in their own lies moments at a time, instinctively/unconsciously exploiting/observing little thing that helps isolate people toward their cause. i feel bad for this friend of mine trapped behind his wife's iron claw. even their new neighbor who barely heard them through the walls was like... "she's kindda controlling huh?"