I'm 29. will quit my job in 3 months. want to work with an NGO for the Protection of Himalayan Biodiversity. I'm happy. I'm single. no plan to get married soon. In short its absolutely cool.
I grow up with my grandma all my life and when she got old and had dementia, I took care of her, she couldn't talk or remember me. It was very sad, but I never struggled because of not " recognizing her" . To me she was the same, because I saw her soul and her soul and love didn't change. I don't identify with that struggle this woman is talking about.
I've been in a relationship since last 7 years, we were/are literally opposite of each other.. we don't have similar activities that we are passionate about.. everything is going pretty good. I have my goals she has her goals.. we don't have a lot of time to stress a lot about how she doesn't like stuff i do or she does ... I don't think anyone should let anyone judge your relationship as per their experience though being honest with yourself and knowing you're suffering or not is a bit tough .. But if you love each other it'll work anyhow
@@veddhapodkar3672 bro that's what I'm saying one can talk about each other's hardships, relations, memories, childhood any problem they are facing, express emotions ... But yes I agree if I'm talking a lot about my poems/philosophical ideas she'll get bored which in that moment feels like a mini rejection because I'm really into it so I'll be saying it with utmost excitement but i understand it that she's not into it and she has done her part of tolerating it for my sake ... but apart from that we have a lot to talk hahaha and peaceful silence is also something to be embraced.. Talking in the end is to satisfy yourself and make life easier
@@veddhapodkar3672 few years back i had different passion ...may be in next 10-20-50 years I'll have something else .. But she's a different person with a different life ..
@@rohitsharma1285 monogamous relationship is overrated, it's a construct created by society and religion... Enjoy relation while you have it and don't cling on it when it fades away.
@@abhi1017 theoretically it all sounds great... Polygamy looks great ..But if you think v critically you'll understand it's not just more fun ..it also takes away a lot of security and also makes child bearing tedious .. Now don't say child bearing should be a state's responsibility n all 😂 it's just imaginary experiment
Completely disagree on the not knowing your parents at an old age, if you been there actively through their life changes you would be a part of that journey/ transition and wouldn't feel detached, this happens when you disconnect yourself from your family
Iam a psychology student, and going to be a psychologist soon, so this podcast and the previous one I relate to it so much. She is a very good psychotherapist. Somehow our mentalities match alot❤ psychology really changes you a lot. Thank you for this podcast Ranveer! Soon I’ll be on that chair.
There is many studies proving that most kids born from parents who were at least 30, are psychologically healthier than kids from younger parents. I find it a very unwise approach to say that you should hurry to have kids just because of your parents death. If you wait a little bit , and grow psychologically chances are the you can grow as a person and find a better partner for you. Also you had time to fulfill your own dreams, and to have life experience. If parents have unfulfilled dreams, and they settled with somebody they don't truly love, that will end up in inner FRUSTRATION. Frustrated parents will be more likely to bit up their kids and to want their kids to fulfill the dreams that they couldn't do, and that is not good for the kids. Almost all parents I have seen 30+ are better than the younger ones. Having kids thinking about your parents death is dumb. This women is a psychologist? My goodness...
I am son of parents married in 30s and to say I am a disappointment in my family would be an understatement. I've had opposite. My cousins were born when their parents were in their 20s and I can put into words how much excellent they are at almost everything
@@gettingoverit3080 i think she is using ehat she had seen as facts But she is not fully wrong Many people have baby before they are even ready which cause this problem
In my life, I have noticed those who pretends that they know everything about relationship had the fastest breakup or divorce. Zada baat mat karo just observe.
Yeah Ig this is true. The longer you wait, the hotter you date. Guess this is true as I couldn't date in my teens being from a girls only school, so I was practically deprived of the opposite gender's interaction. Recently turned 20 & dated for the very first time. Tho it lasted for a short while, man was it heaven & so worth the wait.
I dont agree the fact of dating based on " physical attributes " .. The older one turns and has waited should be able to date wiser people who understand communication, compromising in relationship. 😅
Yeah you are correct you will get bored with their outer beauty soon so better to be look for loving and undrstanding partner whom you can be best friend and hqve at least some qmount of same opinions to topics
I just want to say that even if your parents had you very young, your parents can also die while you are still very young, as it happened to my cousins for example. I would say marry when you are ready and when you find the right person, don't choose your life based on your predictions about your parents death because it's not something you can fully control.
Exactly! To settle with anyone just because you want to hurry thinking about your parents death, is the stupidest advice I have ever heard. People should be thinking about if they are ready to provide happiness for THE KIDS, not about when will their parents die.
@thezoldics7648 listen I married young, and my mother died at 53. I choose my husband because of love, not because of my parents death. If I would have done that, my plan would have failed. You never know when somebody is gonna die and you shouldn't plan your life around death, thats all I am saying. I am happy in my marriage but I know MANY indians who were pushed to marry in their early 20s, and are divorced by the time they are 30, because they married just because people told them its time not because they truly were sure about that person. Any real psicologist would tell you, you cannot plan life in that robotic way. Its more important to find the right person and to be ready for marriage than to just do it because of your birthday. Because if you just rush it because of your birthday most times you are gonna end up divorced. Also by the way, I lost my sister at 19. You truly never know how life is gonna go and I would advice you take your decisions based on something deeper than birthdays. I am sorry to say that but this psychologist is giving aunty advice, with zero wisdom. What she says is the reason why all my indian friends in their 30s are divorced. If you happen to find the love of your life early , then cool get married. I met my husband at 17, just because in my particular case, it happened like that. Some people meet their love later on, and that should he respected too and to push them to just marry anyone because its time, its a huge mistake. We are not like animals, love can be complicated. Its not like if you have a dog and you can plan to buy a female or male dog for your dog to reproduce by next week. Human beings are more complex.
@thezoldics7648 ok. But most people in my country marry when they are both in their 30s. I guess they dont love each other according to you😆 I was leaving a message for people who thinks man and woman have a soul and a mind. If you don't think that, if you think we dont go further than animals, then I can't really discuss with you. Good luck with your life 😘
Until one finds out the Right purpose of life , n the spiritual reasons which have brought the two persons together , nothing works out with these analyses, my dear !
I Like Ranveer Bhayyas Point on Finding Love With Some Common Fun Activities:) If A Couple Gets Together In Doing Same Sort of Funny Interesting Hobbies their Bond Themselves Will Increase To A Good Point and if Given it's some kind of Rare Fun Activities then your Partner is Your Lucky Charm.
I am a private employee,a software developer to be precise. In my head It is like I always have to keep my work as first priority unless there is a medical emergency in my family because I like what I do and I think I am obliged to put in extra effort for my company because it helps me make a living. so my company is as vital as oxygen to me and I think everyone should feel the same way. but many young people mostly girls believe in work-life balance, enjoyment and all that bullshit. Though I am friendly with such people on the surface but deep down I don't respect such mentality people at all and I can't not marry someone that I don't respect. So is it possible to find girls of similar mindset like mine?
Hey Ranveer every time i saw your videos you are much connected with the other person you are deeply involved with conversation how was that possible man ?🤔😆
Love the shows, but careful- we know you got friends in the industry -okay, but don't spread false narratives re SSR, everyone knows he's been murdered. Mental Health - great. But please don't use it to cover up crimes and spread false narratives.
I need to say something, why always men be the victim and the first one to run for the relationship and women are the one to choose him. Women needs equality by the way as men, so don't chase a women, work your ass off and be rich. Let the women chase you and you and you be the one to choose women.Because A king is more than enough to run a kingdom not a queen.
I'm 29. will quit my job in 3 months. want to work with an NGO for the Protection of Himalayan Biodiversity. I'm happy. I'm single. no plan to get married soon. In short its absolutely cool.
Still himalayas will eng one day just like us don't waste time.
Find happiness in yourself. Single life gives us freedom to live in our own way
@thezoldics7648 Let him influence others. Lol, Single life = Freedom. Let the population decline even if humanity extinct
U are my inspiration
I envy you
Just lower you expectations! And you will be the happiest person.
Broo 🌚
😂😂what about if other person has too much expectations?
I grow up with my grandma all my life and when she got old and had dementia, I took care of her, she couldn't talk or remember me. It was very sad, but I never struggled because of not " recognizing her" . To me she was the same, because I saw her soul and her soul and love didn't change.
I don't identify with that struggle this woman is talking about.
I can relate ❤
I've been in a relationship since last 7 years, we were/are literally opposite of each other.. we don't have similar activities that we are passionate about.. everything is going pretty good.
I have my goals she has her goals.. we don't have a lot of time to stress a lot about how she doesn't like stuff i do or she does ...
I don't think anyone should let anyone judge your relationship as per their experience though being honest with yourself and knowing you're suffering or not is a bit tough ..
But if you love each other it'll work anyhow
@@veddhapodkar3672 bro that's what I'm saying one can talk about each other's hardships, relations, memories, childhood any problem they are facing, express emotions ...
But yes I agree if I'm talking a lot about my poems/philosophical ideas she'll get bored which in that moment feels like a mini rejection because I'm really into it so I'll be saying it with utmost excitement but i understand it that she's not into it and she has done her part of tolerating it for my sake ... but apart from that we have a lot to talk hahaha and peaceful silence is also something to be embraced..
Talking in the end is to satisfy yourself and make life easier
@@veddhapodkar3672 few years back i had different passion ...may be in next 10-20-50 years I'll have something else ..
But she's a different person with a different life ..
@@rohitsharma1285 monogamous relationship is overrated, it's a construct created by society and religion... Enjoy relation while you have it and don't cling on it when it fades away.
@@abhi1017 theoretically it all sounds great... Polygamy looks great ..But if you think v critically you'll understand it's not just more fun ..it also takes away a lot of security and also makes child bearing tedious ..
Now don't say child bearing should be a state's responsibility n all 😂 it's just imaginary experiment
@@rohitsharma1285 relying on someone else for sense of security is a hopeless persuite you will most likely or always end up being disappointed.
Completely disagree on the not knowing your parents at an old age, if you been there actively through their life changes you would be a part of that journey/ transition and wouldn't feel detached, this happens when you disconnect yourself from your family
Iam a psychology student, and going to be a psychologist soon, so this podcast and the previous one I relate to it so much. She is a very good psychotherapist. Somehow our mentalities match alot❤ psychology really changes you a lot. Thank you for this podcast Ranveer! Soon I’ll be on that chair.
Congratulation! We will be happy to see you in this Chair Shivika❤️
Same bruh ✨. MSc Clinical ongoing !
It's not real science.
I am also psychology student
@@abhi1017 its not always about physics chemistry
There is many studies proving that most kids born from parents who were at least 30, are psychologically healthier than kids from younger parents.
I find it a very unwise approach to say that you should hurry to have kids just because of your parents death.
If you wait a little bit , and grow psychologically chances are the you can grow as a person and find a better partner for you. Also you had time to fulfill your own dreams, and to have life experience.
If parents have unfulfilled dreams, and they settled with somebody they don't truly love, that will end up in inner FRUSTRATION.
Frustrated parents will be more likely to bit up their kids and to want their kids to fulfill the dreams that they couldn't do, and that is not good for the kids.
Almost all parents I have seen 30+ are better than the younger ones.
Having kids thinking about your parents death is dumb.
This women is a psychologist? My goodness...
Hmm intresting
But i think what she was try to say is that don't plane a child at the age of 34 or 35 something
30 ke baad conceive krne me mushkil bhi hoti hai - 1st pregnancy
Well said !!
I am son of parents married in 30s and to say I am a disappointment in my family would be an understatement. I've had opposite. My cousins were born when their parents were in their 20s and I can put into words how much excellent they are at almost everything
@@gettingoverit3080 i think she is using ehat she had seen as facts
But she is not fully wrong
Many people have baby before they are even ready which cause this problem
In my life, I have noticed those who pretends that they know everything about relationship had the fastest breakup or divorce. Zada baat mat karo just observe.
Yeah Ig this is true. The longer you wait, the hotter you date. Guess this is true as I couldn't date in my teens being from a girls only school, so I was practically deprived of the opposite gender's interaction. Recently turned 20 & dated for the very first time. Tho it lasted for a short while, man was it heaven & so worth the wait.
I know this lady.
I met her twice in Mumbai in a common friend's house.
what a kind hearted soul
Hello
3:55. What worked when we dated?
Staying away from each other because it was a long distance relationship!
I dont agree the fact of dating based on " physical attributes " ..
The older one turns and has waited should be able to date wiser people who understand communication, compromising in relationship. 😅
Yeah you are correct you will get bored with their outer beauty soon so better to be look for loving and undrstanding partner whom you can be best friend and hqve at least some qmount of same opinions to topics
@@anshmittal3098 yes! Same opinion in some things and willingness to love even the differences will make any relationship beautiful.
I just want to say that even if your parents had you very young, your parents can also die while you are still very young, as it happened to my cousins for example.
I would say marry when you are ready and when you find the right person, don't choose your life based on your predictions about your parents death because it's not something you can fully control.
Exactly! To settle with anyone just because you want to hurry thinking about your parents death, is the stupidest advice I have ever heard.
People should be thinking about if they are ready to provide happiness for THE KIDS, not about when will their parents die.
@thezoldics7648 listen I married young, and my mother died at 53.
I choose my husband because of love, not because of my parents death.
If I would have done that, my plan would have failed.
You never know when somebody is gonna die and you shouldn't plan your life around death, thats all I am saying.
I am happy in my marriage but I know MANY indians who were pushed to marry in their early 20s, and are divorced by the time they are 30, because they married just because people told them its time not because they truly were sure about that person.
Any real psicologist would tell you, you cannot plan life in that robotic way. Its more important to find the right person and to be ready for marriage than to just do it because of your birthday.
Because if you just rush it because of your birthday most times you are gonna end up divorced.
Also by the way, I lost my sister at 19.
You truly never know how life is gonna go and I would advice you take your decisions based on something deeper than birthdays.
I am sorry to say that but this psychologist is giving aunty advice, with zero wisdom.
What she says is the reason why all my indian friends in their 30s are divorced.
If you happen to find the love of your life early , then cool get married. I met my husband at 17, just because in my particular case, it happened like that.
Some people meet their love later on, and that should he respected too and to push them to just marry anyone because its time, its a huge mistake.
We are not like animals, love can be complicated. Its not like if you have a dog and you can plan to buy a female or male dog for your dog to reproduce by next week.
Human beings are more complex.
@thezoldics7648 ok. But most people in my country marry when they are both in their 30s. I guess they dont love each other according to you😆
I was leaving a message for people who thinks man and woman have a soul and a mind. If you don't think that, if you think we dont go further than animals, then I can't really discuss with you.
Good luck with your life 😘
@thezoldics7648Speak about yourself. Ik plenty of women who married in their 30s. Had kids at 35
@@Yulia.chandrikawhere are you from?
Please Ranveer, bring more of this content. This was absolutely good❤
Thats Preety Amazing ..2 or 3 serious relationship still Ranveer is Single ready to Mingle ....Ladki ka Chakkar Babu Bhaiya Ladki ka Chakkar
Ranveer thank for providing such a quality content which help us a lot
🥛
Looking Handsome Ranveer😸🌚
Until one finds out the Right purpose of life , n the spiritual reasons which have brought the two persons together , nothing works out with these analyses, my dear !
10:43 - 12:40
I think.. For being in a relationship... Atleast 50% of your song playlist should match😆
Agreed 💯😂
Lol no I have been in relationship for 7 years. Lol our playlist are total opposite 🤣
@@LINTJ123 Change playlist or partner.
Not just music taste but sense of humor & interests as well
I Like Ranveer Bhayyas Point on Finding Love With Some Common Fun Activities:) If A Couple Gets Together In Doing Same Sort of Funny Interesting Hobbies their Bond Themselves Will Increase To A Good Point and if Given it's some kind of Rare Fun Activities then your Partner is Your Lucky Charm.
Madam your voice is so beautiful and effective..... feels like listening constantly..., 😍
i love my solitude
A point of view for couples in metropolitan cities of india which is not even 5% of entire population.
Best and real advice at 5:10 sec.. Thanks someone saying it
She is right with this. She is a bad therapist thou. Believe me
Thanks for the content 💖💖
I learnt a lot for this video 🥰🥰
Plz continue this series
Knowledgeable🙇
Sorry - Ye face se sir h Or voice se mam 🙆♂️
I saw it for 4 mins n then i realised that I don't have any girlfriend 😂😂😂
Your horror podacsts were interesting for me but don't know why this particular topic scared me to death! 💔
Same
Its something i agree with and belive in
Ranveer bhai konsa watch ⌚ pehna hai please bata dena mast lagle raha hai ❤️ please reply 🙏🥺
wow ranveer u nailed it
Sir literally..
I am your big fan
Thanks for this.
Bro you are doing great job but there are many who donot understand English so if you want to cater large audience please make videos bilingual.
A very useful podcast
I am a private employee,a software developer to be precise. In my head It is like I always have to keep my work as first priority unless there is a medical emergency in my family because I like what I do and I think I am obliged to put in extra effort for my company because it helps me make a living. so my company is as vital as oxygen to me and I think everyone should feel the same way. but many young people mostly girls believe in work-life balance, enjoyment and all that bullshit. Though I am friendly with such people on the surface but deep down I don't respect such mentality people at all and I can't not marry someone that I don't respect. So is it possible to find girls of similar mindset like mine?
I don't know I am right or wrong, but her voice sounds similar to the voice of the TH-cam channel named the spill bee
Hey Ranveer every time i saw your videos you are much connected with the other person you are deeply involved with conversation how was that possible man ?🤔😆
i m downloading it.....
Unsuccessful relationships only last for week or month I don’t know what 😅
Psychologist name?
Havovi Hyderabadwalla
❤❤love you ranveer
Omkar and ishita?
The best podcast
Karen its you?
'You experience trauma with that person.' Wahahahahaha..., so funny. 😂😂
Did not help by atomic level!
How are the comments so improportional to views in this channel?
Female shajid khan💀
Love the shows, but careful- we know you got friends in the industry -okay, but don't spread false narratives re SSR, everyone knows he's been murdered. Mental Health - great. But please don't use it to cover up crimes and spread false narratives.
Which is this movie in thumbnail 😅
Wtf see is saying my parents literally didn't changed since I am seeing them 🤦🤦
No I'm not to learn here. I'm here to get brain washed.
I need to say something, why always men be the victim and the first one to run for the relationship and women are the one to choose him. Women needs equality by the way as men, so don't chase a women, work your ass off and be rich. Let the women chase you and you and you be the one to choose women.Because A king is more than enough to run a kingdom not a queen.
Don't chase in a relationship. Or in dating. Never do that. Nobody appreciates mind games. Be upfront since the beginning
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Mu pasand nhi aaya
She looks so scary
U dont have to say that bro !
@@prakharsolanki6364iska thobada bhayanak hoga. He seems antic piece, ignore such people who comment on appearance
Love you ranbeer you are just great guru for us to advice lotss of knowledge ❤🫂🫂🫂