Lack of Financial Freedom is the biggest reason woman stay in bad marriage...its very important to give Financial support like a business setup or rental property to daughters instead of grand weddings..she don't have to compromise with her dignity
its becoming a trend for some podcasters and youtubers to only talk about negative of marraige as if all marraiges are bad. Such a shame. They never talk about it positives. They are also propagating that marraiges are bad but live in is good😂. What a shame.
its becoming a trend for some podcasters and youtubers to only talk about negative of marraige as if all marraiges are bad. Such a shame. They never talk about it positives. They are also propagating that marraiges are bad but live in is good😂. What a shame.
I had a toxic marriage pulled it for 24 yrs and communicated with the kids and left. I could do this because I was financially stable but believe me I am very happy now and same with the kids. So be strong ladies
I think you should have called someone who has seen the bright side of marriage too along with this guest who saw the dark side. Or maybe make another podcast with Riteish and Genelia and ask the same questions and ask them how they both maintained and had a so beautiful marriage. Please note this.
To be very honest, marriages in Bharat are very typical. In arranged marriages especially in certain states it's girls skin color and looks v/s boy's education and salary. Girl brings her looks to the table and boy brings his earning capability for a great lifestyle. I particularly say looks of a girl in an arranged marriage because many educated, smart, intelligent, financially independent and well read girls who are talented are rejected only because of skin color and this happens everyone in the North, Telangana and Andhra. Genelia and Riteish's marriage is a love marriage so they knew each other. again the equation of looks and money does come in. But Genelia herself was an actress so she did have enough money. In my entire group the pretty girls got men who treated them decently and loved them. The girls are well educated, and good looking and their's was also love marriage. but you need to look a certain way to get a man to really Love you in India
@@random_person_on_internet then it is a good thing. Girls at a young age especially in school are told the same. Movies say the same. Everything say the same. Girls who don't fit that mould get better opportunities at work and in Business. Pretty girls get the men but no education. That way it would be justified. Let men marry or date only pretty girls and not other women. Please spare the rest of them with the bad treatment.
Shefali is so true and honest in this conversation .. lots of love for her… no high funda thought.. just day to day problems of specially Indian families….Bring one more episode on relationship with her.. pls
its becoming a trend for some podcasters and youtubers to only talk about negative of marraige as if all marraiges are bad. Such a shame. They never talk about it positives. They are also propagating that marraiges are bad but live in is good😂. What a shame.
Though I agree that everyone should have the right to speak up their minds but brother please don't call the film industry people for relationships related advice bcoz: 1)They comes from world where there is no line between professional & personal life, therefore we have very different perspectives towards life. 2)Because of the kind of work they are in, the people they are surrounded with and the society they live in, is literally poles apart from ours. 3) Most of their opinions on marriage and relationships are bizzare and irrational. These people have damaged the sacredness of marriage as an institution and have ruined the societies. 4) You can't just go and take relationship advices from people who are okay to attach their names with any person just for the sake of publicity. 5)They are literally marrying for the brand values how can anybody ask them for personal life or relationships related advices??? * Nothing against Shefali Shah, I love her work and she just best at it.😊 My thoughts are in general as I follow your channel regularly and lately, I have been observing that your questions to the film celebrities are much about relationships and less about their work. Mind it, they might be experts at acting(बहुत से तो उसमे भी नही है) but that doesn't mean they are experts at relationships as well. Their opinions and thoughts on relationships are only as important as any other common person if not less.
Yes sister i completely agree with you if you want real relationship advise just look around middle class Indians.In love sacrifice is needed but these movie stars don't want to sacrifice and even most of them marries just for money and fame they don't love each other truly.
No one is expert in relationship. Criticize the points not the person. Common people are also not saint. It is just that they don't have many options like celebrities. In multi national companies, affairs are quite common. How many men would remain loyal if they are approached by beautiful women who are out of their league?
@@screensafari17 bro which mnc are you talking about, I interned at Microsoft and haven't seen much cases and why you are getting offended it's true that most marriages are just for money and fame and in reality also such marriages exist but I have witnessed how my parents truly loved each other sacrificed many things and I am sorry if you didn't like any of my words.
Yeah. Everyone has a unique and very different journey. We can relate to a few incidents, but it's up to the individual how does he/she deals with the situation. Not an appropriate person to give general opinion on this issue for sure. She is great on her craft, but in terms of relationships, she can share only her experiences and uni directional perspective.
Hi Raj! An honest opinion here.. If you're bringing psychologists, lawyers, or someone who has actually some experience like people who have studied relationships, marriages or breakups then related questions are valid. A person from media should be asked media related, movies related or fashion related questions.. it increases credibility for us as audience..
Don’t agree here, anyone who’s been in a relationship good or bad can share their experiences provided they are honest about it n here she was quite forthcoming, love her for that. But being a public figure you can’t say it all on a national platform . We should understand that.
I dont know how credible this information is. Shefali Shah is neither a psychiatrist nor a marriage counsellor and being an actress i will think twice before agreeing with her because bollywood is just famous for presenting distorted realities.
@@maryamhinatahir3782 "degree" is backed by some research atleast, specially in psychology. And what Shefali Shah did here was that she shared her own experience (which is just one experience). If a marriage consellor would have come in, he/she would have shared the experiences of multiple couples (multiple experiences) and the different paths they took to resolved their couple issues. There are much more ways to resolve things apart from a divorce. Wouldn't that have been a much better learning for us?
Brother Please put thumbnail like "Dark reality of Indian Marriages" your are making people mindset to see negatives of indian Marriages even before the start of the videos, instead of making people to see what good and what is bad of marriages. Click bait is ok but don't make your audiences pre conception that indian Marriages are bad.
He can't do anything about it. He is just a pawn and he has to follow the orders given to him. Just use your own mind. People who can't judge with their own mind are doomed.
In order to build awareness and psychoeducating people about mental health and healthy relationships, these people are invited and not Psychologist/Marriage Counsellors like us. They may have experience but we definitely have education, expertise, and experience.
@@thenaturallstore going through all this is what makes a case study so I don't know what you're trying to prove. Counsellors also have clients of all types and are less likely to be biased when talking about some emotionally charged topic like relationships.
Hey Raj Shamani ! this is the first podcast I have heart( watched) completely....its like a deep conversation...going to watch all others now....lots of love from Nepal!
Not all points she mentioned are having logical reasoning. She haven't get into the depth of issues & experiences in her own marriage. Her body language is highly impatient. This podcast is just a conversation and not any such to take away. 12:28... Interesting
Very realistic conversation on marriage. It’s ups and downs, 80/20 some days, but you push through. And the part of celebrating is so true. You have to put the work in.
I don't agree with the point that ambitious person should marry to a non-ambitious one. Because, then the other person won't ever be able to understand your point of view and to acknowledge your efforts towards your ambitions. To succeed in a relationship being an ambitious individual is to align your partner with your goal or other way too. Make his ambition your own and then patiently wait for your turn. Example: Its been 4 years of my marriage and for first three years I worked everything possible to support my husband to achieve his dreams and now he is doing same for me. Now, I am in Germany pursuing my research career and he is at home taking care of my son, his family and of couse his job.
Jab tak shaadi mein naaptol chalega tab tab esa hi ghisipiti jhagre honge.. Marriage is totally a bond between two souls who are different from each other but still likes to be together with the differences and equally enjoys each other's company.. I got married at 25 and i got a partner who is immensely fond of me and i am fond of him.. We both have different personality though.. Not all who are on screen are perfect to give judgements.. Sometimes you should also bring normal common people on podcast too.. So that we all feel related
Ye sb family or society ne suru Kiya h Sirf need dekhi jati h ladka ladki hot h sex mil jayega ladke ki job h to sukh milega Baki iske alawa to koi kuch dekhta nhi ki love sbse pehle hona chahiye
its becoming a trend for some podcasters and youtubers to only talk about negative of marraige as if all marraiges are bad. Such a shame. They never talk about it positives. They are also propagating that marraiges are bad but live in is good😂. What a shame.
Normal common people ho ya celebrity a marriage based on money and flash is a transaction. Marriage without love and willingness is a worst thing a person can be in.
I have been absolutely in awe of Shefali Shah for the last few years. I can't put into words how much adoration my heart holds for her. Thank you @rajshamani for having her on Figuring Out. I am so thankful.
If you started dating in early 30s and want to date for 4-5 years, one might have problems conceiving a child. What if one or both of the partners are not open to adoption. You’re in a trap & this is only one of the reasons why you shouldn’t listen to these people blindly. Marry early, learn to grown and correct your mistakes together. Live a little spiritually. God bless!
First Listen properly what they said then comment on them She never said to date in early 30s ...... She said don't rush to marry take your time dating in early 20s( 21-27) and marry in late 20s ( 29-30) She suggested to focus on your carrer and your individual self and enjoy your early 20s Don't rush into marring just anyone bc you are in your early 20s (24-25) She also said to not rush untill you find the RIGHT PERSON just take your time finding that one person and meet people EXPLORE the world in your early 20s ........If you have found the right person and you are ready then marry anytime you want Just Don't marry anyone just bc you are in your early or mid 20s ......It's a very good advice ....Almost every person who has a carrer or a goal marries in late 20s ( doctors , govt jobs , teachers(phd) so on ) .....She didn't say anything uncommon
But giving birth should be before 25, if you need two kids, when after 25 it is hard to deliver, there will be changes in your hormones, your body, and complications when giving birth.
i dont think age has anything to do with marriage, its about wisdom and also where your heart is. we cant change the fate but every relationship is a gamble
Oh what a podcast! WHAT A PODCAST!!! ❤👏 Kudos and huge thanks to you both for bringing up such content and highlighting the unsaid details. More than loved it ❤
its becoming a trend for some podcasters and youtubers to only talk about negative of marraige as if all marraiges are bad. Such a shame. They never talk about it positives. They are also propagating that marraiges are bad but live in is good😂. What a shame.
@@rajshamani Raaj you used to replied for one's who make a sheer positive comment only, please read constructive criticism as well. It will help you to grow fast and real.... And genuine I am a regular viewer and admirer as well
This was a great podcast and a great conversation. Shefali Shah is a gem 💎. I felt there there were multiple cuts here which stopped the natural flow of conversation, I’d prefer if it was a free flowing conversation. I want my podcast to be uncut and unedited, but that’s just me
This podcast was like realllllyyyy amazing i sat down to watch it with very diff expectation, but till the end i just got a very amazing perspective about relationships and like every relationship in & around us!!!! just wow!!!!!
Answer to last discussion: it's easy to spread negative ideas than positive. As per human psychology, bad habits are easier to form. For example: getting addicted to smoking is easier than a book
its becoming a trend for some podcasters and youtubers to only talk about negative of marraige as if all marraiges are bad. Such a shame. They never talk about it positives. They are also propagating that marraiges are bad but live in is good😂. What a shame.
100%- this person only talks negatively about everything becausr he knows negativity sells😂. He is telling and making this as if all marraiges are bad😂. Such a shameful person.
Her advice on late marriage is not practical especially where women are concerned. Women who decide to have children in mid thirties are at higher risks of having babies with deformities.
Add one more C- Communication. Nowadays couples have stopped or minimized communicating. They r busy in their own world.. rather just talk anything n everything. Just pick up some topic n talk . Tell entire day stories. Go out with frnz n then come n tell ur person how your day went etc..
Life is not like that... In marriage..it's not possible to pick a topic n talk ..plus if one is not interested in talking then it's just enraged both of them... So eventually they or one have to become quite .. other wise. .. what would u eat or wear or buy or do is big discussion for a couple
@@sonasandhujiyes thr will be times wherein either one is tired or just wanna be alone n don't wanna talk, but to make a relationship work, someone needs to create that habit of sharing, talking, maybe gossiping sometimes. It's ok. Start with what the other person likes to hear n then say what u wanna say
its becoming a trend for some podcasters and youtubers to only talk about negative of marraige as if all marraiges are bad. Such a shame. They never talk about it positives. They are also propagating that marraiges are bad but live in is good😂. What a shame.
सृष्टि का सारा सौंदर्य सारा संगीत सारी संवेदनाए साथ जीने साथ रहने से साथ जुड़ने से जागता है अपनी गरिमा अपनी जिद अपनी जीवनशैली अपनी धारणाओ अपने अन्तर्विरोधो के चलते अकेले रहना एक चुनाव है समाधान नही ....
You have asked very good questions from shifali and she has answered all those questions very openly n with utmost honesty. It was a quality conversation. I was glued to the podcast from beginning till end .
She is soo soo intelligent and aware about what women and men feel in their marriage and relationship's etc. And every single individual should watch this episode if ur struggling with your relationship and marriage. I know that there is somethings are wrong with my relationship but I don't want to or I don't know how to address things to my partner after watching this episode in so many topics it just open my eyes for both of us, I will share this podcast with my partner, family and friends!!! Such a great podcast Raj sir keep rocking!!! Love your every podcast!!! ❤❤❤
Mine was an arranged marriage, I am carrier oriented person, so I thought of marring a job person, who has limited time of working, and has good holiday too, so dat he can atleast look after house or kids in my absence. But as days went , he started feeling jealous of my earnings, and he started dominating me to not work so much . But I had my loans going on, for which I had to work. He started comparing me for not doing household chores on time. It was really terrible. And exhausting. And we ended up in divorce. Daughter being with me. So I don't think dat one partner being family oriented and other being carrier oriented is not the real solution.
Many a times Raj's questions were offtrack for which there can be no definite answer. I however loved the way Shefali fielded all of them. Honest and from the heart. Have always loved her.
This podcast is so relatable. The discussion on flawed marriages and kids growing up to believe that marriages are a flawed concept and then being pushed by the same parents into marriage saying sab marriages ek jaisi nahi hoti...and then pressurizing them to ignore red flags saying sabki aisi hi hoti hain. Hypocrisy at its peak.
way more interesting in general perspective! sometimes what all matters about a relationship is two of them how they deal with things for betterment rather than getting out of relationship and its fine when things are not working for both of them to get out of the relationship. diplomatic gen z . love is a choice shamani as u said , loving them even when things are not fine is what that works for long lasting . may be the need for long lasting relationship is not a goal for few then whats that u needed in a 70 year life ! peace and happiness with yourself is ultimate .so the thing is build yourself strong to deal with anything and stand for yourself is what i learned .
Such an amazing podcast.. what a great personality Mrs. Shefali.. I so much respect her and like a big fan of her now after this podcast . So honest and truthful lady .. Salute and Thanks for coming and sharing ur thoughts here mam..!
Hey Raj... How do you know that we are this age and going through this decision of finalling a partner and of doing marriage and having kids etc. I have been overthinking so much about it recently that am I overage now (considering biological clock and possibility of find a right partner matching with my profession and other life ki complexities) Thank you so much for doing this podcast at right time. Your 4 Cs summed it all. I would just add Value system, outlook towards money and it's expenditure also into it. Just a request... please bring more such episodes connecting with tier 2 middle class of our age and also on how can we increase our chances of marrying a right partner (considering profession, location, age etc) and best mediums to go for like through relatives or matrimonial sites or workplace or friends etc. And 1 very important thing... about this biological clock ticking away for females thing.
I really like your podcast but with great actors like Vidya Balan and shifali shah why are we stuck on with marriage & relationship? They are ACTORS not a couple therapist . Yes they are humans like all of us with opinions and relationships. But I wish we could have known more about her journey. What is the right time to marry ? Asking shifali shah won't influence us . Idk . It's disappointing ya !
True.. there is too much talk about marriage. Raj, there are NO formulas.. what will work is very subjective. Maybe you could talk about how middle aged women can become actors!
Some very important & beautiful questions asked 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 which need to be highlighted or required awareness - specifically the generational thing of child seeing the same pattern of house women having no value
Great podcast! Would've loved to hear the conversation for longer as the questions asked from your side along with the very straightforward message she put out with each of her answers was a treat to watch. One feedback would be to let the guest talk and complete what they want to say, I felt like there were multiple times on this podcast where you kept talking over her.. it may be bcuz of the way it's edited but if not, I would suggest taking this into consideration
Marriage is a complicated thing and giving generic tips like "early marriage is bad" will help no one, because there are studies showing people who marry outside 22-28 range tend to get divorced soon....This lady doesn't know the reality of marriages in these times... my family has been searching for a bride since 2 years and haven't found a match even though I'm handsome guy with good salary and background.....some of my friends have been rejected by girls because they crossed age 30...
And do you know the reason why? It’s because people are able to recognize right from wrong. Earlier people married at 10 to 13. Is that okay? Wait for forebrain to develop. Get financial ability. Ok now why you want to marry and stay married for 60 years. Marriage only works 45per or so. It’s natural. Marriage is a man made conscious decision. It’s not natural.
She has literally compared a life partner with work, like if a person is a workaholic then she/he may not need a life partner....! I wonder if she's aware of WTH is coming out of her mouth!
She said there are people who are completely involved with work. Such workaholics many not prefer to have a partner because they want to devote all their time to work..for example people like Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam who dedicated their whole life to their profession. Such people also exist..@@nandinisharma2577
Kindly put longer videos if possible or put it in parts if the reason is algorithm, I would like to listen more in these conversation, thank you for this amazing content 🙏❤️
Marriage in early or late thirties is really bad. Genetically Caucasian women have large egg reserves and longer maternal windows. Modern Asian / Indian women have low egg reserves and low maternal window. Above 30 , women are considered advanced maternal age and complications of food allergies, Down syndrome, autism for the fetus increases exponentially! Also you down want to be too old too take care of your kids and experience the joy of your grandkids! Your kids want to be there for them!
Your comment made sense till Talking about your next gen... You want to alive to look after your Grand kids.... is TOO MUCH to Expect from Life... Does "LIVING FOR OWN, SELF IMPROVEMENT, PRIVATE TIME, PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT " comes to your Radar or ... no personal goals/upliftment... just Family Planning 😅
Overall, I found this piece a great watch; time well spent on food for thought! Shefali Shah has shared thoughts which I found eminently sensible, very pragmatic and in sync with the times. Like me she also finds marrying earlier than age 25 whether boy or girl, quite ridiculous! Also, I really like the bit where you'll discuss how women need to ensure their own self-worth/financial independence/me time/individual interests/ instead of glorifying the traditional Indian perspective of being the " त्याग की मूर्ति" THERE'S NOTHING THAT DRIVES ME UP THE WALL THAN THIS DOES !!! 😊
I totally agree….bro does amazing podcast but someone please remind him sometimes that we want to hear the guests experiences please so let them speak…
Even it bothered me..lil disrespectful..pura sun ne k baad last me fatafat cut kardeta hai line..he is more eager or curious in his own written questions rather than experiencing other person energy.
I am a fan of Shefali since watching her tv serial "Hasratein". I find her very expressive and real in her life. But i would make it a point here in the context of Animal movie that Animal kind of movie invokes the evil personality of a person. Prior to create such movie, we need to think of the targeted audience and ots mindset. Its irony of the society that Mother India dekh k koi Mother India nahi banta but Animal dekh k kafi logo k andar k Animal bahar aate he. In a country like India, where Bollywood is an influence to majority of the society, film creater tribbe should be mindful about their creativity of the film. Shefali is just a film star but loved the podcast. Points of discussion were suchthat anyone could relate. Thanks Raj !
Don't you think she has life experiences. MAy be she has 3 decades of experience certificate of being in a marriage and seeing the people around how they are in their marriage, that's quite a credibility
@@geethanjalihc4078 my kaamwali bai has more experience. It’s about d quality. She’s not an intellectual/researcher of any kind. She’s a hack at best. Ask about acting, not life 🤦♀️
I really liked this episode. Shefali Shah is my favorite. And you were asking all the right questions. Also, you seemed to be a very sensitive person in all the conversations. So, watching this was a really good experience for me. Thank you both for a candid conversation on all that is so relevant and relatable!!😊
Great job Raj ! Sharing with us so much of life wisdom. Just a suggestion...how about you make some of your podcasts outdoors, like walking in the park or along the beach with your guest, to add more variety to your content .
I was in a bad marriage for a long time. So much so I went into Major Depression and had to take drugs (medicine) and I was continuing this "bcoz of the kuds". However it was my kids who encouraged me to take a divorce so that they wouldn't have to intervene and get things out of hand!
At 10:00 they are talking a girl getting married at the age of 25 years. Shefali maam is against it. She saying teach her and all. Thats completely correct. But actually it is true that after certain age people are not getting suitable prospects as their life partner. Its difficult. I am 26. My parents started searching guys. But i am not getting it. I was also stubborn that i don't want get married and all not at the age of 25. When i realised its time to get married. I am not getting guys. So its true.. age matters. I am not against anybody's opinion.i respect each and everyone's opinion. People say that i can live life alone. Why to get married and all. But you know what after certain age you will realise that we need someone to share that how was your day? Somebody should be their to takecare if you are not well. Parents are their, friend, family everybody will be their. But few things you can't share with parents family friends. Its only life partner with whom i can share.
Not trying to be mean but girl you are not finding guys because you are extremely obese :) you don't look 26 but actually look in your 30's Try to follow a good diet,do exercises and try to maintain a good bmi as it also matters when a woman wants to be pregnant 😊 I am a woman so please don't think I am bashing you But it is The truth that Men like younger and fit women
Lack of Financial Freedom is the biggest reason woman stay in bad marriage...its very important to give Financial support like a business setup or rental property to daughters instead of grand weddings..she don't have to compromise with her dignity
Well said 👍
its becoming a trend for some podcasters and youtubers to only talk about negative of marraige as if all marraiges are bad. Such a shame. They never talk about it positives. They are also propagating that marraiges are bad but live in is good😂. What a shame.
You live in dream.. wake up kid this is not world works
Nah ..even with financial freedom ladies are not being able to move out of marriage
If u are earning less than your husband then that could be a card towards u as well.
Omg her brain is exactly like mine!!! So so true !! Love her for coming and being so vocal about what the reality is! Salute!
its becoming a trend for some podcasters and youtubers to only talk about negative of marraige as if all marraiges are bad. Such a shame. They never talk about it positives. They are also propagating that marraiges are bad but live in is good😂. What a shame.
I had a toxic marriage pulled it for 24 yrs and communicated with the kids and left. I could do this because I was financially stable but believe me I am very happy now and same with the kids. So be strong ladies
Happy to know that your kids are happy.
I'm in toxic marriage becoz of my children n I'm happy as kids love their father n getting a healthy environment to grow ,I'm satisfied with dis .
So did he return
I think you should have called someone who has seen the bright side of marriage too along with this guest who saw the dark side. Or maybe make another podcast with Riteish and Genelia and ask the same questions and ask them how they both maintained and had a so beautiful marriage. Please note this.
Very good suggestion!!
To be very honest, marriages in Bharat are very typical. In arranged marriages especially in certain states it's girls skin color and looks v/s boy's education and salary. Girl brings her looks to the table and boy brings his earning capability for a great lifestyle. I particularly say looks of a girl in an arranged marriage because many educated, smart, intelligent, financially independent and well read girls who are talented are rejected only because of skin color and this happens everyone in the North, Telangana and Andhra. Genelia and Riteish's marriage is a love marriage so they knew each other. again the equation of looks and money does come in. But Genelia herself was an actress so she did have enough money. In my entire group the pretty girls got men who treated them decently and loved them. The girls are well educated, and good looking and their's was also love marriage. but you need to look a certain way to get a man to really Love you in India
@@vidyaasvideos trust me it is The same everywhere in the world
Only pretty women are treated well by men
@@random_person_on_internet then it is a good thing. Girls at a young age especially in school are told the same. Movies say the same. Everything say the same. Girls who don't fit that mould get better opportunities at work and in Business. Pretty girls get the men but no education. That way it would be justified. Let men marry or date only pretty girls and not other women. Please spare the rest of them with the bad treatment.
@@vidyaasvideos are yu South Indian??
Shefali is so true and honest in this conversation .. lots of love for her… no high funda thought.. just day to day problems of specially Indian families….Bring one more episode on relationship with her.. pls
its becoming a trend for some podcasters and youtubers to only talk about negative of marraige as if all marraiges are bad. Such a shame. They never talk about it positives. They are also propagating that marraiges are bad but live in is good😂. What a shame.
Shefali Shah is a wonderful actress and she is doing really good acting in podcast also.
I second that... another episode is a must...
Though I agree that everyone should have the right to speak up their minds but brother please don't call the film industry people for relationships related advice bcoz:
1)They comes from world where there is no line between professional & personal life, therefore we have very different perspectives towards life.
2)Because of the kind of work they are in, the people they are surrounded with and the society they live in, is literally poles apart from ours.
3) Most of their opinions on marriage and relationships are bizzare and irrational. These people have damaged the sacredness of marriage as an institution and have ruined the societies.
4) You can't just go and take relationship advices from people who are okay to attach their names with any person just for the sake of publicity.
5)They are literally marrying for the brand values how can anybody ask them for personal life or relationships related advices???
* Nothing against Shefali Shah, I love her work and she just best at it.😊
My thoughts are in general as I follow your channel regularly and lately, I have been observing that your questions to the film celebrities are much about relationships and less about their work.
Mind it, they might be experts at acting(बहुत से तो उसमे भी नही है) but that doesn't mean they are experts at relationships as well.
Their opinions and thoughts on relationships are only as important as any other common person if not less.
I’m 100% agree with your opinion.
Yes sister i completely agree with you if you want real relationship advise just look around middle class Indians.In love sacrifice is needed but these movie stars don't want to sacrifice and even most of them marries just for money and fame they don't love each other truly.
No one is expert in relationship. Criticize the points not the person. Common people are also not saint. It is just that they don't have many options like celebrities. In multi national companies, affairs are quite common. How many men would remain loyal if they are approached by beautiful women who are out of their league?
@@screensafari17 bro which mnc are you talking about, I interned at Microsoft and haven't seen much cases and why you are getting offended it's true that most marriages are just for money and fame and in reality also such marriages exist but I have witnessed how my parents truly loved each other sacrificed many things and I am sorry if you didn't like any of my words.
Yeah. Everyone has a unique and very different journey. We can relate to a few incidents, but it's up to the individual how does he/she deals with the situation. Not an appropriate person to give general opinion on this issue for sure. She is great on her craft, but in terms of relationships, she can share only her experiences and uni directional perspective.
Hi Raj!
An honest opinion here.. If you're bringing psychologists, lawyers, or someone who has actually some experience like people who have studied relationships, marriages or breakups then related questions are valid. A person from media should be asked media related, movies related or fashion related questions.. it increases credibility for us as audience..
Agree… she is just doing acting in front of camera now in this podcast.
Absolutely agreed!
Don’t agree here, anyone who’s been in a relationship good or bad can share their experiences provided they are honest about it n here she was quite forthcoming, love her for that. But being a public figure you can’t say it all on a national platform . We should understand that.
Agreed..
Professionals are to some extent biased and bound to talk in a certain way. I think non professionals are less biased
Unfortunately her own marriage failed and she making her personal experience as universal truth..
Ofcourse she'll talk with experience she had.. she's not any relationship expert. U learn from ur surroundings and ur own home
I dont know how credible this information is. Shefali Shah is neither a psychiatrist nor a marriage counsellor and being an actress i will think twice before agreeing with her because bollywood is just famous for presenting distorted realities.
Unfortunately we always label mindful people. On the other side most of psychiatrist just have degree so they allowed to whatever they want. Right?
@@maryamhinatahir3782 "degree" is backed by some research atleast, specially in psychology. And what Shefali Shah did here was that she shared her own experience (which is just one experience). If a marriage consellor would have come in, he/she would have shared the experiences of multiple couples (multiple experiences) and the different paths they took to resolved their couple issues. There are much more ways to resolve things apart from a divorce. Wouldn't that have been a much better learning for us?
Totally agreed. The most irritating podcast in my opinion
Agree totally i thought she ll talk abt her career
It's not information he already mentioned in first few minutes, it's her wisdom she is sharing.
Brother Please put thumbnail like "Dark reality of Indian Marriages" your are making people mindset to see negatives of indian Marriages even before the start of the videos, instead of making people to see what good and what is bad of marriages. Click bait is ok but don't make your audiences pre conception that indian Marriages are bad.
Bro thumbnail says toxic marriage and red flag which itself interprets negativity
Most of his thumbnails are like that… even an Adani one…raj knows negativity sells and he is cashing in on that
@@vivekalexander1217 yeah all you tubers r behind dis tactic to garner viewership
He can't do anything about it. He is just a pawn and he has to follow the orders given to him. Just use your own mind. People who can't judge with their own mind are doomed.
Then you are fool if you are making your mind with half information, without watching whole video.
A very nice , real conversation on relationships , marriages.......
Her views are based on her experiences. I think while taking decisions one needs to consider their own situations, feelings etc.
In order to build awareness and psychoeducating people about mental health and healthy relationships, these people are invited and not Psychologist/Marriage Counsellors like us. They may have experience but we definitely have education, expertise, and experience.
So you think reading books and doing cases is more valuable rather than going through all this?
@@thenaturallstore going through all this is what makes a case study so I don't know what you're trying to prove. Counsellors also have clients of all types and are less likely to be biased when talking about some emotionally charged topic like relationships.
The way she is sitting - it's more like how comfortable cool she makes the environment
Best podcast everyone must watch this 😊 many many tiny things to learn from this podcast
Continuity is not breaking that's good 👍🏻
Hey Raj Shamani ! this is the first podcast I have heart( watched) completely....its like a deep conversation...going to watch all others now....lots of love from Nepal!
Very nice episode. great questions and Shefali did wonderfull job answering them.
bro please try to communicate in hindi because the community to whom you want to teach/target , unable to understand english.
Not all points she mentioned are having logical reasoning. She haven't get into the depth of issues & experiences in her own marriage. Her body language is highly impatient. This podcast is just a conversation and not any such to take away.
12:28... Interesting
Do you know about personalities?? People have various of personalities. It just hers
True
@@Tourdarshan
Yes Dear! I myself is a Marital Relationship Counsellor. 🙏
She speaks mostly woman POV only
Absolutely true
Very realistic conversation on marriage. It’s ups and downs, 80/20 some days, but you push through. And the part of celebrating is so true. You have to put the work in.
I don't agree with the point that ambitious person should marry to a non-ambitious one. Because, then the other person won't ever be able to understand your point of view and to acknowledge your efforts towards your ambitions. To succeed in a relationship being an ambitious individual is to align your partner with your goal or other way too. Make his ambition your own and then patiently wait for your turn. Example: Its been 4 years of my marriage and for first three years I worked everything possible to support my husband to achieve his dreams and now he is doing same for me. Now, I am in Germany pursuing my research career and he is at home taking care of my son, his family and of couse his job.
REAL LIFE = ACCEPTANCE +FORGIVENESS +LOVE +REPENTANCE +SERVICE
Jab tak shaadi mein naaptol chalega tab tab esa hi ghisipiti jhagre honge..
Marriage is totally a bond between two souls who are different from each other but still likes to be together with the differences and equally enjoys each other's company.. I got married at 25 and i got a partner who is immensely fond of me and i am fond of him.. We both have different personality though.. Not all who are on screen are perfect to give judgements.. Sometimes you should also bring normal common people on podcast too.. So that we all feel related
Ye sb family or society ne suru Kiya h
Sirf need dekhi jati h ladka ladki hot h sex mil jayega ladke ki job h to sukh milega
Baki iske alawa to koi kuch dekhta nhi ki love sbse pehle hona chahiye
100%
its becoming a trend for some podcasters and youtubers to only talk about negative of marraige as if all marraiges are bad. Such a shame. They never talk about it positives. They are also propagating that marraiges are bad but live in is good😂. What a shame.
Behen tum lucky aur highly understanding ho...in most of the cases aisa nhi hota hai...just 2 different opinions (you and shefali) stating facts...()
Normal common people ho ya celebrity a marriage based on money and flash is a transaction. Marriage without love and willingness is a worst thing a person can be in.
It is two people sharing their personal opinions... not a nail in the thumb....it all deoends and varies person to person and good luck
Wonderful podcast! Huge fan of Shefali Shah
This could have been a lengthier episode..I feel like many portions were just cut off abruptly
Seriously, I've never watched anyone's podcast all the way through until the end. But Raj, you and your content are so good.
You gain a subscriber.
Thankyou🙌 Let me know what you want to see next on our podcast💯
Very informative.. much needed... and the flow of the podcast was awesome - Natural & On-point
Thankyou🙌🙌
I have been absolutely in awe of Shefali Shah for the last few years. I can't put into words how much adoration my heart holds for her. Thank you @rajshamani for having her on Figuring Out. I am so thankful.
If you started dating in early 30s and want to date for 4-5 years, one might have problems conceiving a child.
What if one or both of the partners are not open to adoption.
You’re in a trap & this is only one of the reasons why you shouldn’t listen to these people blindly.
Marry early, learn to grown and correct your mistakes together.
Live a little spiritually.
God bless!
you can always freeze the eggs !
First Listen properly what they said then comment on them
She never said to date in early 30s ......
She said don't rush to marry take your time dating in early 20s( 21-27) and marry in late 20s ( 29-30)
She suggested to focus on your carrer and your individual self and enjoy your early 20s Don't rush into marring just anyone bc you are in your early 20s (24-25)
She also said to not rush untill you find the RIGHT PERSON just take your time finding that one person and meet people EXPLORE the world in your early 20s ........If you have found the right person and you are ready then marry anytime you want
Just Don't marry anyone just bc you are in your early or mid 20s ......It's a very good advice ....Almost every person who has a carrer or a goal marries in late 20s ( doctors , govt jobs , teachers(phd) so on ) .....She didn't say anything uncommon
But giving birth should be before 25, if you need two kids, when after 25 it is hard to deliver, there will be changes in your hormones, your body, and complications when giving birth.
@@preethachandy5113 you need more education and exposure
You make your mistakes but please don’t make a new innocent child suffer along with you. It causes irreversible damage to the child.
i dont think age has anything to do with marriage, its about wisdom and also where your heart is. we cant change the fate but every relationship is a gamble
Oh what a podcast! WHAT A PODCAST!!! ❤👏 Kudos and huge thanks to you both for bringing up such content and highlighting the unsaid details. More than loved it ❤
Thankyou🙌🙌
its becoming a trend for some podcasters and youtubers to only talk about negative of marraige as if all marraiges are bad. Such a shame. They never talk about it positives. They are also propagating that marraiges are bad but live in is good😂. What a shame.
@@rajshamani Raaj you used to replied for one's who make a sheer positive comment only, please read constructive criticism as well. It will help you to grow fast and real....
And genuine I am a regular viewer and admirer as well
This was a great podcast and a great conversation. Shefali Shah is a gem 💎. I felt there there were multiple cuts here which stopped the natural flow of conversation, I’d prefer if it was a free flowing conversation. I want my podcast to be uncut and unedited, but that’s just me
Thank you so much to you both ❤very real and inspiring podcast. Respect is main in Good relationship. Stay blessed all.
This podcast was like realllllyyyy amazing i sat down to watch it with very diff expectation, but till the end i just got a very amazing perspective about relationships and like every relationship in & around us!!!! just wow!!!!!
Answer to last discussion: it's easy to spread negative ideas than positive. As per human psychology, bad habits are easier to form.
For example: getting addicted to smoking is easier than a book
Yea I was thinking the same, he completely changed her perception. But they both have their reasons, they're both right, but its just what you said.
And i think all the negativity in u tube becoming reason for depression. Real life is very simple.
its becoming a trend for some podcasters and youtubers to only talk about negative of marraige as if all marraiges are bad. Such a shame. They never talk about it positives. They are also propagating that marraiges are bad but live in is good😂. What a shame.
100%- this person only talks negatively about everything becausr he knows negativity sells😂. He is telling and making this as if all marraiges are bad😂. Such a shameful person.
@@ZoldicsDiaries you r right
These influencers are f#cked up totally
Empathize with your partner. It's not always about you. It's a marriage, balance is imp.
I just love this lady. How she speaks, how she react, how she understand the thnigs is incredible
She. Also cm out from. Bad. Marriage ,and now. Happy with 2nd hsbnd vipul. Shah r
Thankyou so much for this podcast ❤ Raj Shamani
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Her advice on late marriage is not practical especially where women are concerned. Women who decide to have children in mid thirties are at higher risks of having babies with deformities.
Mid thirties is ok, mid forties is problem.
children are not only reason for marriage.
who cares about fooking babies...first manage each other
@@_Avinash_singh_solanki_ not necessary, it can go on till 50-55
Pehle khud ki Khushi dekh lo fir bcche peda Krna
Bcche to God bhi le skte h
Aya smj?
👏🏻❤ Raj, bring more & more podcasts on relationship
Stay tuned! Many more to come💯💯
Find a guy who can be with you for a year without sex
Marry him
That's all don't watch stupid podcasts
Raj Shamani, You're the best! I subscribed because I love your content!
Thankyou so much! your support and love is something that motivates me to bring the best content that might add value to my audience!!!
Yes but don’t let people spread negativity. Thumbs down 👎🏽
loved this one with all my heart. this woman has so much wisdom!
Add one more C- Communication. Nowadays couples have stopped or minimized communicating. They r busy in their own world.. rather just talk anything n everything. Just pick up some topic n talk . Tell entire day stories. Go out with frnz n then come n tell ur person how your day went etc..
Life is not like that... In marriage..it's not possible to pick a topic n talk ..plus if one is not interested in talking then it's just enraged both of them... So eventually they or one have to become quite .. other wise. .. what would u eat or wear or buy or do is big discussion for a couple
Jab criteria hi beauty aur money hai partner select karne ka to communication kaise hoga.
@@sonasandhujiyes thr will be times wherein either one is tired or just wanna be alone n don't wanna talk, but to make a relationship work, someone needs to create that habit of sharing, talking, maybe gossiping sometimes. It's ok. Start with what the other person likes to hear n then say what u wanna say
They are busy tagging on IG😂😂 indirect taunts... I feel bad for such partner
its becoming a trend for some podcasters and youtubers to only talk about negative of marraige as if all marraiges are bad. Such a shame. They never talk about it positives. They are also propagating that marraiges are bad but live in is good😂. What a shame.
Same old relationship stuff.
YOU MISSED THIS AMAZING CHANCE TO ASK SO MANY GREAT QUESTIONS ABOUT HER LIFE, HER CAREER.. ACTING SKILLS ETC..
Nice message " chose to be alone, rather being with wrong partner"
सृष्टि का सारा सौंदर्य सारा संगीत सारी संवेदनाए साथ जीने साथ रहने से साथ जुड़ने से जागता है अपनी गरिमा अपनी जिद अपनी जीवनशैली अपनी धारणाओ अपने अन्तर्विरोधो के चलते अकेले रहना एक चुनाव है समाधान नही ....
Thankyou for this program,its an eye opener.I shared it with my grand children
Love listening to her. Lovely podcast, please Invite her again, Thank you.
You have asked very good questions from shifali and she has answered all those questions very openly n with utmost honesty. It was a quality conversation. I was glued to the podcast from beginning till end .
She is soo soo intelligent and aware about what women and men feel in their marriage and relationship's etc. And every single individual should watch this episode if ur struggling with your relationship and marriage.
I know that there is somethings are wrong with my relationship but I don't want to or I don't know how to address things to my partner after watching this episode in so many topics it just open my eyes for both of us, I will share this podcast with my partner, family and friends!!!
Such a great podcast Raj sir keep rocking!!! Love your every podcast!!! ❤❤❤
Beautiful podcast ❤…….thoroughly enjoyed it ✨
Just ask her how much her husband makes. Then you will find the answer for why and what she ' loved more'.
Wonderful red flags called out... best talk on marriage
No disrespect, but how does an actor become an expert on relationships?
What's the qualification?
Again, no disrespect intended to anyone..
I didn't expect this to be that greatt.. but I loved listening to every single conversation in this podcast.. awesome
loved this particular one
Mine was an arranged marriage, I am carrier oriented person, so I thought of marring a job person, who has limited time of working, and has good holiday too, so dat he can atleast look after house or kids in my absence. But as days went , he started feeling jealous of my earnings, and he started dominating me to not work so much . But I had my loans going on, for which I had to work. He started comparing me for not doing household chores on time. It was really terrible. And exhausting. And we ended up in divorce. Daughter being with me. So I don't think dat one partner being family oriented and other being carrier oriented is not the real solution.
हिंदी में समझ में ज्यादा आता है मुझे 😊
Many a times Raj's questions were offtrack for which there can be no definite answer. I however loved the way Shefali fielded all of them. Honest and from the heart. Have always loved her.
Majority Indian marriages are all full of sacrifice type of life for for future of their children etc
Maybe when they reincarnate the hope is a better life. If we thought this is the life we may think differently.
This was an amazing podcast 🎉❤❤❤
This podcast is so relatable. The discussion on flawed marriages and kids growing up to believe that marriages are a flawed concept and then being pushed by the same parents into marriage saying sab marriages ek jaisi nahi hoti...and then pressurizing them to ignore red flags saying sabki aisi hi hoti hain. Hypocrisy at its peak.
way more interesting in general perspective! sometimes what all matters about a relationship is two of them how they deal with things for betterment rather than getting out of relationship and its fine when things are not working for both of them to get out of the relationship. diplomatic gen z . love is a choice shamani as u said , loving them even when things are not fine is what that works for long lasting . may be the need for long lasting relationship is not a goal for few then whats that u needed in a 70 year life ! peace and happiness with yourself is ultimate .so the thing is build yourself strong to deal with anything and stand for yourself is what i learned .
Thanks Raj and I really appreciate it the kind of question you ask. Your podcasts are very informative.
Thankyou🙌🙌
Such an amazing podcast.. what a great personality Mrs. Shefali.. I so much respect her and like a big fan of her now after this podcast .
So honest and truthful lady .. Salute and Thanks for coming and sharing ur thoughts here mam..!
First time I have seen something which is very practical in today's time.
Hey Raj... How do you know that we are this age and going through this decision of finalling a partner and of doing marriage and having kids etc. I have been overthinking so much about it recently that am I overage now (considering biological clock and possibility of find a right partner matching with my profession and other life ki complexities)
Thank you so much for doing this podcast at right time. Your 4 Cs summed it all. I would just add Value system, outlook towards money and it's expenditure also into it.
Just a request... please bring more such episodes connecting with tier 2 middle class of our age and also on how can we increase our chances of marrying a right partner (considering profession, location, age etc) and best mediums to go for like through relatives or matrimonial sites or workplace or friends etc. And 1 very important thing... about this biological clock ticking away for females thing.
I really like your podcast but with great actors like Vidya Balan and shifali shah why are we stuck on with marriage & relationship? They are ACTORS not a couple therapist . Yes they are humans like all of us with opinions and relationships. But I wish we could have known more about her journey. What is the right time to marry ? Asking shifali shah won't influence us . Idk . It's disappointing ya !
Exactly.. this is non-sense.
True.. there is too much talk about marriage. Raj, there are NO formulas.. what will work is very subjective. Maybe you could talk about how middle aged women can become actors!
I agree.
Ek dum! I was like... .. bawadi ho gayi ke? 😂 They are having convo like night out with friends 😅
Awesome podcast... Loved shefali... A very genuine human being❤
This is called real content
Its a very nice conversation,shefali spoke without any filters which probably many are not ready to digest as well, but keep doing more such podcasts
I am speechless because it was a mind-blowing podcast. I just loved it. Keep up the good work.
Your Podcasts are amazing and the topics you discuss are very relevant to real life .
6:15 she said that she is earning and she is independent. If man says he is earning and independent then women go to court and files false case of 498
Listen to her further. She is saying that men too have terrible marriages.
@@alankritakaushalyup
Stop victimizing yourselves unnecessarily..
Both genders have terrible marriages from their pov and experiences
@@alankritakaushal men's terrible marriage don't have solution.. they can't give divorce they have to pay money.
But women don't have to pay to men
Some very important & beautiful questions asked 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 which need to be highlighted or required awareness - specifically the generational thing of child seeing the same pattern of house women having no value
She's living on another planet kya ,yaar raj kya hogaya aaisey guest kyon ?! Shes a great actress no doubt.
Whats wrong she spoke on this topic?
@@maryamhinatahir3782 nothing to say I have unsubscribed , n it won't make a difference.
Great podcast! Would've loved to hear the conversation for longer as the questions asked from your side along with the very straightforward message she put out with each of her answers was a treat to watch. One feedback would be to let the guest talk and complete what they want to say, I felt like there were multiple times on this podcast where you kept talking over her.. it may be bcuz of the way it's edited but if not, I would suggest taking this into consideration
Marriage is a complicated thing and giving generic tips like "early marriage is bad" will help no one, because there are studies showing people who marry outside 22-28 range tend to get divorced soon....This lady doesn't know the reality of marriages in these times... my family has been searching for a bride since 2 years and haven't found a match even though I'm handsome guy with good salary and background.....some of my friends have been rejected by girls because they crossed age 30...
And do you know the reason why? It’s because people are able to recognize right from wrong. Earlier people married at 10 to 13. Is that okay? Wait for forebrain to develop. Get financial ability. Ok now why you want to marry and stay married for 60 years. Marriage only works 45per or so. It’s natural. Marriage is a man made conscious decision. It’s not natural.
That's fuckin truth
But some suedo feminist will not agree with it because of their illogical mindset
She has literally compared a life partner with work, like if a person is a workaholic then she/he may not need a life partner....!
I wonder if she's aware of WTH is coming out of her mouth!
She said there are people who are completely involved with work. Such workaholics many not prefer to have a partner because they want to devote all their time to work..for example people like Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam who dedicated their whole life to their profession.
Such people also exist..@@nandinisharma2577
Kindly put longer videos if possible or put it in parts if the reason is algorithm, I would like to listen more in these conversation, thank you for this amazing content 🙏❤️
Marriage in early or late thirties is really bad. Genetically Caucasian women have large egg reserves and longer maternal windows. Modern Asian / Indian women have low egg reserves and low maternal window. Above 30 , women are considered advanced maternal age and complications of food allergies, Down syndrome, autism for the fetus increases exponentially! Also you down want to be too old too take care of your kids and experience the joy of your grandkids! Your kids want to be there for them!
Your comment made sense till Talking about your next gen...
You want to alive to look after your Grand kids.... is TOO MUCH to Expect from Life...
Does "LIVING FOR OWN, SELF IMPROVEMENT, PRIVATE TIME, PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT " comes to your Radar or ... no personal goals/upliftment... just Family Planning 😅
@quizudita I am living my best life and stating facts about human biology! Quoting everything in cap .. you seem very frustrated!
I used to watch your shorts
Tiday saw two long videos and immediately subscribed it
Your thoughts are very reliable
Baseless prodcust ...
Only show negativity...
This could be the life of TR 1 City's ....
All episode are class ,I shared with my loveobe keep doing podcast
OMG HAS TO BE MY MOST FAV PODCASTS TILL NOW , love the way she spoke and the points she kept is so on point 🙌
Loved everything of what Shefali said..women of today can resonate to it..
Jab AAP dono ko Hindi aata he to English kayu?
I don't understand English
Inhe apni bhasha par sharam aati hai. Iss maamle me Beerbiceps accha hai. Uska hindi channel bhi hai ❤
Phir angrej ke aulad kaise lagenge.
Overall, I found this piece a great watch; time well spent on food for thought!
Shefali Shah has shared thoughts which I found eminently sensible, very pragmatic and in sync with the times.
Like me she also finds marrying earlier than age 25 whether boy or girl, quite ridiculous!
Also, I really like the bit where you'll discuss how women need to ensure their own self-worth/financial independence/me time/individual interests/ instead of glorifying the traditional Indian perspective of being the " त्याग की मूर्ति" THERE'S NOTHING THAT DRIVES ME UP THE WALL THAN THIS DOES !!!
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Is it just me or are you all also annoyed by how he is talking over Shefali…..it’s very cringy to me!! And disrespectful too
It is just only you mam. He talked very nicely and she seems very happy about the conversation in the last.
I agree he almost always does this..... Talks to much over others
I totally agree….bro does amazing podcast but someone please remind him sometimes that we want to hear the guests experiences please so let them speak…
Even it bothered me..lil disrespectful..pura sun ne k baad last me fatafat cut kardeta hai line..he is more eager or curious in his own written questions rather than experiencing other person energy.
I am a fan of Shefali since watching her tv serial "Hasratein". I find her very expressive and real in her life. But i would make it a point here in the context of Animal movie that Animal kind of movie invokes the evil personality of a person. Prior to create such movie, we need to think of the targeted audience and ots mindset. Its irony of the society that Mother India dekh k koi Mother India nahi banta but Animal dekh k kafi logo k andar k Animal bahar aate he. In a country like India, where Bollywood is an influence to majority of the society, film creater tribbe should be mindful about their creativity of the film. Shefali is just a film star but loved the podcast. Points of discussion were suchthat anyone could relate. Thanks Raj !
All of his Podcasts have similar template. Relationship, Marriage, Red flags etc. Bro don't you have anything better to talk about with women guests ?
Absolutely right Shefali ,I agree with you ❤
Y is an actor giving advice on society, psychology, relationships?? Bring in experts in d field. Not this 👆👆 🤦♀️
Don't you think she has life experiences. MAy be she has 3 decades of experience certificate of being in a marriage and seeing the people around how they are in their marriage, that's quite a credibility
Do you understand experience?
@@Nitin0g even a donkey has experience. Is it relevant??
@@geethanjalihc4078 my kaamwali bai has more experience. It’s about d quality. She’s not an intellectual/researcher of any kind. She’s a hack at best. Ask about acting, not life 🤦♀️
I really liked this episode. Shefali Shah is my favorite. And you were asking all the right questions. Also, you seemed to be a very sensitive person in all the conversations. So, watching this was a really good experience for me. Thank you both for a candid conversation on all that is so relevant and relatable!!😊
Yeh sikhayegi ab hume jiski khud ke marriage ka pata nhi. Like others she might be faking too
exactly :v
Great job Raj ! Sharing with us so much of life wisdom. Just a suggestion...how about you make some of your podcasts outdoors, like walking in the park or along the beach with your guest, to add more variety to your content .
She is so negative throughout the podcast and 80% of hers thoughts are wrong with the narrative of toxic feminism touch
we need guests who provide best solutions for women to get physical and financial strength, and for all the class....
Like who Addicted of Raj shamani podcast❤
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I was in a bad marriage for a long time. So much so I went into Major Depression and had to take drugs (medicine) and I was continuing this "bcoz of the kuds". However it was my kids who encouraged me to take a divorce so that they wouldn't have to intervene and get things out of hand!
At 10:00 they are talking a girl getting married at the age of 25 years. Shefali maam is against it. She saying teach her and all. Thats completely correct. But actually it is true that after certain age people are not getting suitable prospects as their life partner. Its difficult. I am 26. My parents started searching guys. But i am not getting it. I was also stubborn that i don't want get married and all not at the age of 25. When i realised its time to get married. I am not getting guys. So its true.. age matters. I am not against anybody's opinion.i respect each and everyone's opinion. People say that i can live life alone. Why to get married and all. But you know what after certain age you will realise that we need someone to share that how was your day? Somebody should be their to takecare if you are not well. Parents are their, friend, family everybody will be their. But few things you can't share with parents family friends. Its only life partner with whom i can share.
Ye country bas Indian boys ke wives,gf,lovers ke hai...baaki....desh chod de....Bas Indian boys ke wives/gf reh sakte hai yaha...
Not trying to be mean but girl you are not finding guys because you are extremely obese :) you don't look 26 but actually look in your 30's
Try to follow a good diet,do exercises and try to maintain a good bmi as it also matters when a woman wants to be pregnant 😊
I am a woman so please don't think I am bashing you
But it is The truth that Men like younger and fit women
26 is not too old actually
You just need to do some self-care 😊
😂 partner hain ..radio fm nahi
Great Podcast!! Thanks Raj Shamani!!