ADHD Masking - Hiding Your True Self From Others

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ต.ค. 2024

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  • @ingak.8015
    @ingak.8015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There is so much truth in your video - we can all recognise ourselves. For example, I would much rather work with animals (or at least be near them) than with people. Sometimes I just dream of cleaning up the environment, raking leaves, planting flowers, cleaning cages, in a zoo, but not working with people. That's the weird side of me.😄

    • @ADHDPatrick
      @ADHDPatrick  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello Inga! Thank you for sharing, I actually once applied to working in a zoo abroad, but didnt get the job :D

  • @sukiatwal3762
    @sukiatwal3762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Trying to learn about adhd, looking forward to your teachings. I definitely know about masking.

    • @ADHDPatrick
      @ADHDPatrick  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad to hear that Suki! :)

  • @Sopherian
    @Sopherian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lmfaooooo that masking scène at the beginning hahaha 😂😂😂 I couldn't stop laughing. Such an amazing video! You explain everything so good. Hope life treats you well sweetheart ❤️

    • @ADHDPatrick
      @ADHDPatrick  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Soaphy! Hahaha I laughed too very hard when I was watching it :D Thank you so much! Yeah I m okay, been quite busy lately with life :) Hope you are doing fine yourself too sweetie!

  • @donaldbraugh2314
    @donaldbraugh2314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So good. Nice perspective that is useful for me and others I'd assume. I'm sending this link to an ADHD Coach from FLORIDA.

  • @homeworkshopengineering
    @homeworkshopengineering 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. I did 10 years as a self employed project manager and I managed to do it well but it drained the life out of me until an almost full on depressive episode.
    After that I walked away and went back to my passion which is engineering but hands on. What a difference. I have to tell
    Myself to stop as it’s my hobby and my business.
    Only been diagnosed a few weeks and start meds next week. I will be now getting help with things I struggle to do and focus on what I do well instead of beating myself up over failing them.

    • @ADHDPatrick
      @ADHDPatrick  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! :) That is awesome that you can make a living with your passion, its truly a gift. Mental health is more important than a big paycheck in my opinion. I cannot imagine how being project manager was like... Good luck to you! :)

    • @homeworkshopengineering
      @homeworkshopengineering 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ADHDPatrick Thanks Patrick, the project management took all the things I struggle with and rolled them into place haha. Glad I noticed in the end.
      Started Concerta 3 days ago and I am blown away with how I feel.
      Instead of insanely happy and hyper or very angry I now feel more peace and the noise in my head has reduced drastically. Had no idea how hard it was until I started taking steps to change it.
      Love your straight to the point videos and have inspired me that maybe I need to share my journey to help others also.

    • @ADHDPatrick
      @ADHDPatrick  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@homeworkshopengineering Glad to hear that! I know the feeling.Thank you! Go for it! :)

  • @jethrobradley7850
    @jethrobradley7850 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can relate to dreading certain tasks at work - and avoiding them as much as possible - in case I am 'found out'. I'm guessing this might also be connected with 'impostor syndrome'

    • @ADHDPatrick
      @ADHDPatrick  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello Jethro, yeah good old impostor syndrome, story of my life hehe...

  • @lenniebruce
    @lenniebruce 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think you suffer very much like myself. Masking and not wanting to reveal as I wanted to look normal, while I'd think to myself as not normal and some kind of social/human anomoly. Yip sooner or later we'll crash or take a 'burnout' as I refer to it.

  • @ffjsjkvjlcvmefbvebetberb3636
    @ffjsjkvjlcvmefbvebetberb3636 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Are you still in concerta dose 36 or 18 and are you tolerated or not?

    • @ADHDPatrick
      @ADHDPatrick  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Still on 18-36 mg dose :)

  • @JT0007
    @JT0007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you addicted to your ADHD medicine?