@@OG-nj3zz This is an assumption. Most people went to co-ed schools including university. Baphi? I would be worried if a man was interested in a woman's money. I will ask again: at what tax bracket do respectful, well raised, hard working women become these nonsensical entitled girls?
3 minutes to 10 Minutes in & I CANT with this Delulu opinion & “the educated women” this& that, I had to pause 🤯… Men really have to work hard to stop this Discussion Periodt! Height is really not that important as it could be compensated by personality, if I’m a lady& I’m tall I would ideally prefer a taller guy. Date a Midget? Would you? Granted if personalities happen to click but you don’t go out putting it on your preferred list…. When it comes to Money, who wants to choose a man who they will be a breadwinner for? You want to go on trips you must cough up the money because you earn higher, it doesn’t work like that… being Headed by a Family head that can’t provide? That’s also unrealistic knowing men Egos & Prides otherwise you inviting yourself to abuse & constant requirement to minimise & deeming your light… remember these people don’t have kids so they looking for Potential fathers of their kids, which schools must they go to? Which neighbourhood must we stay at if you earning R10k while I earn R40k? Problem with Majority of SA Black men is settling for mediocrity & not working hard, even back @ school girls applied themselves more than guys… Now it’s catching up. They even get passed by Other African guys that come here without their education being recognised & starting from Scratch But they hustle, work hard & match or have more than educated SA women.Money is VERY important in a marriage & building a family, it’s not even wanting it for ourselves… Being a housewife, well is a dream…BUT it can be realised if wife puts a few business ideas together Or uses her retirement money correctly… instead of these women being “Delulu”, When are we ever going to Advise men to step up & Match or surpass what a woman is already bringing to the table? When are we Addressing the Mediocrity that men bring to the table& relationships in general… because even if you could lower your “Standard” that man will still not be family oriented, Hustle, be a great father, loyal husband..etc. they will still try to dribble while you provide for them.
We need to have more of these conversations from both men and women to really understand the dynamics that we are faced with as Africans living in South Africa. This was very insightful 💯💯❗️
I always try to advise my female friends, go fourth and make money, but don't think that money will make it easy for you to find a guy, it actually makes it harder, women often confuse that aspect.
It makes it harder in SA because men aren’t setting themselves up to do the Same… they can’t deem their lights & work less so that they can have husbands. There’s more to their working hard than just loosing men.. these women support their families, nieces& nephews & are trying to build generational wealth while you want them to build with people that don’t share same vision & hustle mentality. Haibo guys. SA Men need to Raise the Bar.. Try Multiple streams of income, Do something instead of calling women Delulu for wanting more out of life… we have plans & we trying to also travel the world kuningi, a Partner must be a Partner that matches up.
@@nomynoms1969it's actually a problem women face regardless of race on a global scale. Women from all over the world across all races complain about how their socioeconomics "price" themselves out of the dating market because they cant easily find men who make more than themselves. It seems like f3minist policies couldn't keep that hypergamy under control. Nature vs Nurture and Nature won by a landslide, and that victory is ruthlessly humbling a lot of strong and independent women's egos out there. Desiring equality with men while desiring some semblance of traditional gender roles hasn't been working out for decades but politics don't seem to want to acknowledge this openly. Politics can't rewire nature.
@@NobodyXSomebody Well said...👏This has got nothing to do with pulling down women and lowering their standards from an economic point of view. But unfortunately, your hypergamous nature as a women will inevitably become your enemy as you move from one tax bracket to another.
I have heard this so many times, that single, educated and accomplished will not find men to marry us. I figured 🤷🏽♀️ ok, it must be true. So I just forgot about it and focused on a happy life. So even when we get around guys and girls, and this topic comes up, I just stand up and dance or whatever makes me happy. 👍🏾🤭
How can I not be lonely Tembe when the other option is a guy who doesn't use verbs in his sentences and doesn't know that capital letters mean shouting? "You are lonely" that's what you meant to say. YOU WRONG
i agree...100%,we are very delusional shame,i look at my fellow women and just pity how insanely lost we are when it comes to relationships.You also mentioned a very strong point,that ,ok....lets say the "guy" -"potential" ticks all the boxes,does the woman ke fit the mould aswell...? Very tricky phela....ufune umuntfu,yena angakufuni....ay!!
Naturally, women were not designed to have a criteria. Men did the hunting. Modern dating landscape is powered by materialism. It's rather tangible and that's the fallacy.
🤣🤣🤣we want them with wings 🪽 iyoo waze wangiqeda , Thank for knocking some sense into us , Even God can’t find the “right “ people thina siwobani 🤷🏽♀️
The funny thing is that when you lay out this argument to chics they always retort by asserting that they are th exception i.e. they'll get what they want ... Until of course their life experience shows them that they are not
Great video Penson, I remember kevin Samuels always used to say that black women in particular overprice themselves in the dating marketplace, and their expectations are unrealistically high in the man they want. How do they expect to find a partner with such unrealistic standards.
this was hilarious 😂, I think it’s tricky because the modern day woman is caught between being realistic (applying the South Africa context to life) not settling for less and securing a good future for herself. it’s actually complex. I do agree that expecting to find an unmarried man, with no kids in the age range of 35 onwards is very delulu
I’m 23 and honestly I agree that most ladies have indeed become delulu. 😅 when I have these conversations with other women about what they look for in a guy, the first thing they say is TALL , dark,handsome and rich 😂😂😂honestly I blame the influencers on TH-cam. Most women are consuming these videos made by slay queens on this app and they bringing that delulu mentality into the real word. I disagree though with the notion that the more educated women become the more “delulu” they are because uncle Pen I can’t work hard e.g become a chartered accountant then I settle for a man who earns less than me…….educated women have worked hard to live a certain lifestyle and when you get to that level you need a man who is doing better 😁😁😁😁 Just my thoughts. Great video ❤
Can’t settle for what you think you deserve .. that’s ok. I get it and No one should have to settle if they don’t want to. But What’s next .. accept single life and get old alone ? This is because the reality is that chances of having a larger pool of eligible bachelors in future is very low and actually shrinking as we speak.
Meanwhile some of us ladies who don't have such superficial wish lists are not aware of the opportunities this lady got from you and the friends they may have 😂😂😂
I think it's great she knows whT she wants upfront okubuhlungu is when that same lady takes the 10k earner knowing that is not what she wants.. Dukuduku she wants to pressure him and project manage him into what she wants...the guy never signed up for the *upgrade*... Mjolo the pandemic 😂
And it's wild when you consider the fact that when a man can provide for himself, he wants to share it with a woman but when a woman can, she says she doesn't need a man.. The mentalities between the 2 are shocking
But no one wants to suffer 😂 imagine wishing on a guy who earns 10k and then he has 3 kids, now we are down to atleast 2k before any other expenses 😢 and then you deal with crazy baby mamas and then and then and then. Yho ha ah I'd rather be delulu 😢
@pensonmlotshwa I hear you 😅but I still maintain (and I'll speak for myself not all women) even though I may dream of a man with eg 5 traits, realistically I'd probably be open to someone who meets atleast 3 of them. So it's an "aim for the moon and if you miss you'll still land on the stars" type thing. I will never say I'm aiming for an average man out loud, even though chances are I'll probably end up with one
@@MLM424 I love the “aim of the moon” mindset… nothing wrong with goals & dreams… I was talking about people who aggressively stick to their checklist and aren’t willing to budge… You make perfect sense!
@@pensonmlotshwaR100k per month is not Obama. A man who puts in the work should be earning R100k+ per month by 35 and definitely 40. What were you doing for all those years? The height thing is delusional I agree but to each their own.
Yep the guy I'm seeing has 5kids different baby mamas. We're the same age, he's tall 180cm and handsome and earns 16k, urenta one room and drives a van, runs his own business and is a serial womanizer 😅 haai I surrender... It's not worth it honestly. He's promiscuous..., dishonest... Umkhaba uzipha amandla cause he drinks a lot...😅
lets say she meets that 1 percent guy, a rich, tall, young and single man with money is fuckin supermodels not hardworking average women excuse my French. you put it so well
@tranquilsoothingsounds3334 unfortunately not all women can be 10s no matter the year. Take away the top positions and income and see if she'd compete with our unemployed but gorgeous sisters. They'd sing a more humble tune. 10s are far and few apart and they fuck 6.0 inch super rich hot guys 👦
@@pensonmlotshwa it's weird since im a Christian guy, but I've noticed they use it to either act like they are above you or belittle you, "only a real man of God will lead me" or if they want you to forget about their past or call you insecure about it on some "I'm born again. God forgives and I won't settle for less"
this was hilarious 😂, I think it’s tricky because the modern day woman is caught between being realistic (applying the South Africa context to life) not settling for less and securing a good future for herself. it’s actually complex.
Well just by listening to your yep yepping i guess am queen dilulu ngoba i won’t settle, i take it to his walk his laughter his chewing i mean how he swallows 😂😂😂😂 angeke anisi yeke dilulu and proud 😊😊😊
The more educated they are, the more they don’t understand why you are fine with Mediocrity … if you also as educated & earn around the same, I don’t see you having a problem with a Successful educated woman because you would know earning R70k & having a partner that earns R10k is too unbalanced to build together… worse if they not hustling or having more ambition & drive. Y’all need to be left here, those women need to Travel & meet their Husbands else where instead of settling for SA men that don’t want to raise the Bar… it’s now time for Black families to build Legacies, afford their kids way better & yall are stuck, left behind wanting the Bar to be dropped because you not working hard enough to raise it🙄
women should have high standards. because, they choose whats best for their offspring(this is from a biological standpoint) regardless i agree womens standards be crazy especially 2day but complianing dont help
Fine line between a woman trying to value her self worth vs delusional. Also SA is one small country vs the rest of the world. After watching Indian Matchmaking and seeing women who had very picky high standards, but still found their match. Why not wait it out? Obviously have clear reasoning and values, beyond superficial materialism, but our parents and grandmothers generation could not afford standards because they were dependent and had to put up with a lot of shit else theyd be on the street. We have a certain freedom that we can wisely yield. Nothing wrong with dying unmarried vs putting up with 20 years of bullshit, in my opinion
Can someone pls give KS his flowers. He talked about all these points of course in American context . From the man needing to make double income to compensate for the stayhome wife .. to crunching the numbers on how many eligible men are available. Also, he was bold enough to argue with the women everyday without fear of being cancelled.
I'd rather be educated and prosper in my career and be choosey than having no career/no ambition nd have a man, that will later cheat and abuse me. NO THANK YOU
I think men and women both need to collectively get off social media and touch grass. Also I think being career focused as a woman makes sense cause you're an adult and everyone needs to self actualize and pay bills regardless of gender.
Another Kevin Samuels / Redpill ... 😊... I stopped listening at sharing ... its toxic men trying to condition women for men's lack of discipline. I agree, women place far more importance on standards that don't make a home / family. But inviting women to condition themselves for toxicity is just harmful & undermines men.
Ey mf2 let these people buy dogs or cats they'll be happy,hhayi singaphela phela umjolo umsangano if you will base your needs of the content you are consuming ngikutshele sisenkingeni kabi.😅😅😅
They think earning more money will enable them to date high quality men, but the men they want aren’t interested in their money.
@@OG-nj3zz This is an assumption. Most people went to co-ed schools including university. Baphi?
I would be worried if a man was interested in a woman's money.
I will ask again: at what tax bracket do respectful, well raised, hard working women become these nonsensical entitled girls?
It's us as guys we are not making ourselves high-value enough and these Females are putting in the work.
I blame the story books they read😂💯
That they will marry Prince Charming...and live Happily Ever After 😅
100%😂
@@pensonmlotshwa😭 yes😢
3 minutes to 10 Minutes in & I CANT with this Delulu opinion & “the educated women” this& that, I had to pause 🤯… Men really have to work hard to stop this Discussion Periodt! Height is really not that important as it could be compensated by personality, if I’m a lady& I’m tall I would ideally prefer a taller guy. Date a Midget? Would you? Granted if personalities happen to click but you don’t go out putting it on your preferred list…. When it comes to Money, who wants to choose a man who they will be a breadwinner for? You want to go on trips you must cough up the money because you earn higher, it doesn’t work like that… being Headed by a Family head that can’t provide? That’s also unrealistic knowing men Egos & Prides otherwise you inviting yourself to abuse & constant requirement to minimise & deeming your light… remember these people don’t have kids so they looking for Potential fathers of their kids, which schools must they go to? Which neighbourhood must we stay at if you earning R10k while I earn R40k? Problem with Majority of SA Black men is settling for mediocrity & not working hard, even back @ school girls applied themselves more than guys… Now it’s catching up. They even get passed by Other African guys that come here without their education being recognised & starting from Scratch But they hustle, work hard & match or have more than educated SA women.Money is VERY important in a marriage & building a family, it’s not even wanting it for ourselves… Being a housewife, well is a dream…BUT it can be realised if wife puts a few business ideas together Or uses her retirement money correctly… instead of these women being “Delulu”, When are we ever going to Advise men to step up & Match or surpass what a woman is already bringing to the table? When are we Addressing the Mediocrity that men bring to the table& relationships in general… because even if you could lower your “Standard” that man will still not be family oriented, Hustle, be a great father, loyal husband..etc. they will still try to dribble while you provide for them.
😂 sure thing
💯
Lapho of that 500 you must still find one who's mentality stable, because kuyahlany'wa langaphandle!
We need to have more of these conversations from both men and women to really understand the dynamics that we are faced with as Africans living in South Africa.
This was very insightful 💯💯❗️
We definitely need more of these conversations… they are very important.
Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏽
I always try to advise my female friends, go fourth and make money, but don't think that money will make it easy for you to find a guy, it actually makes it harder, women often confuse that aspect.
They ALWAYS confuse that aspect! Yho!!!
It makes it harder in SA because men aren’t setting themselves up to do the Same… they can’t deem their lights & work less so that they can have husbands. There’s more to their working hard than just loosing men.. these women support their families, nieces& nephews & are trying to build generational wealth while you want them to build with people that don’t share same vision & hustle mentality. Haibo guys. SA Men need to Raise the Bar.. Try Multiple streams of income, Do something instead of calling women Delulu for wanting more out of life… we have plans & we trying to also travel the world kuningi, a Partner must be a Partner that matches up.
@@nomynoms1969it's actually a problem women face regardless of race on a global scale. Women from all over the world across all races complain about how their socioeconomics "price" themselves out of the dating market because they cant easily find men who make more than themselves. It seems like f3minist policies couldn't keep that hypergamy under control. Nature vs Nurture and Nature won by a landslide, and that victory is ruthlessly humbling a lot of strong and independent women's egos out there.
Desiring equality with men while desiring some semblance of traditional gender roles hasn't been working out for decades but politics don't seem to want to acknowledge this openly. Politics can't rewire nature.
@@NobodyXSomebody Well said...👏This has got nothing to do with pulling down women and lowering their standards from an economic point of view. But unfortunately, your hypergamous nature as a women will inevitably become your enemy as you move from one tax bracket to another.
I have heard this so many times, that single, educated and accomplished will not find men to marry us. I figured 🤷🏽♀️ ok, it must be true. So I just forgot about it and focused on a happy life. So even when we get around guys and girls, and this topic comes up, I just stand up and dance or whatever makes me happy. 👍🏾🤭
But the reality is that you're lonely and horny
It is called ''the art of pretending''
I'm not sure I understand.. which part is the pretending? 😊
YOU LONELY
How can I not be lonely Tembe when the other option is a guy who doesn't use verbs in his sentences and doesn't know that capital letters mean shouting? "You are lonely" that's what you meant to say.
YOU WRONG
i agree...100%,we are very delusional shame,i look at my fellow women and just pity how insanely lost we are when it comes to relationships.You also mentioned a very strong point,that ,ok....lets say the "guy" -"potential" ticks all the boxes,does the woman ke fit the mould aswell...? Very tricky phela....ufune umuntfu,yena angakufuni....ay!!
Also you are in your 30s, you are competing with women who are in their 20s for that same 35 to 40 year age range so the odds stake up even more!
Brother , you broke it down so simply that now every man is highly driven to perform at his best . Truly inspiring us as amajita .
😂😂😂They argue a lot after 25😭😭🔥😂im 22 , nd one question i used to ask myself growing up was why gents like to date young girls mara manje ngiyabona.
Naturally, women were not designed to have a criteria. Men did the hunting. Modern dating landscape is powered by materialism. It's rather tangible and that's the fallacy.
Focus on ya purpose fellas...
That’s what we HAVE to do!!!
Must be taller than Lebron 😭. Gotta love the Mlotshwa brothers
The average South African male height, according to statistics: 169 cm
Thank you for the education 🙏🏽
🤣🤣🤣we want them with wings 🪽 iyoo waze wangiqeda , Thank for knocking some sense into us , Even God can’t find the “right “ people thina siwobani 🤷🏽♀️
The funny thing is that when you lay out this argument to chics they always retort by asserting that they are th exception i.e. they'll get what they want ... Until of course their life experience shows them that they are not
They think they are Beyoncé!
They think they are Michelle Obama!
Life shows them FLAMES!!!
The average height is 1.68cm for South African males
🎯. Well articulated.
Thank you Nxumalo
Great video Penson, I remember kevin Samuels always used to say that black women in particular overprice themselves in the dating marketplace, and their expectations are unrealistically high in the man they want. How do they expect to find a partner with such unrealistic standards.
HOW DO THEY EXPECT TO FIND A PARTNER????!!!! Like How Sway????
"things that can't go overnight"
I've never heard it phrased so well
Leadership has spoken 👏 🙏 🙌
Hahahahahahahahaha!!!! 😅
this was hilarious 😂, I think it’s tricky because the modern day woman is caught between being realistic (applying the South Africa context to life) not settling for less and securing a good future for herself. it’s actually complex. I do agree that expecting to find an unmarried man, with no kids in the age range of 35 onwards is very delulu
Which city are you based in?
"Ba le ku 7D" 🤣😂🤣😂
This was refreshingly funny 😂
I’m 23 and honestly I agree that most ladies have indeed become delulu. 😅 when I have these conversations with other women about what they look for in a guy, the first thing they say is TALL , dark,handsome and rich 😂😂😂honestly I blame the influencers on TH-cam. Most women are consuming these videos made by slay queens on this app and they bringing that delulu mentality into the real word.
I disagree though with the notion that the more educated women become the more “delulu” they are because uncle Pen I can’t work hard e.g become a chartered accountant then I settle for a man who earns less than me…….educated women have worked hard to live a certain lifestyle and when you get to that level you need a man who is doing better 😁😁😁😁
Just my thoughts.
Great video ❤
Can’t settle for what you think you deserve .. that’s ok. I get it and No one should have to settle if they don’t want to. But What’s next .. accept single life and get old alone ? This is because the reality is that chances of having a larger pool of eligible bachelors in future is very low and actually shrinking as we speak.
Meanwhile some of us ladies who don't have such superficial wish lists are not aware of the opportunities this lady got from you and the friends they may have 😂😂😂
I think it's great she knows whT she wants upfront okubuhlungu is when that same lady takes the 10k earner knowing that is not what she wants..
Dukuduku she wants to pressure him and project manage him into what she wants...the guy never signed up for the *upgrade*...
Mjolo the pandemic 😂
I believe when a woman can provide for herself she doesn't need a man
And it's wild when you consider the fact that when a man can provide for himself, he wants to share it with a woman but when a woman can, she says she doesn't need a man.. The mentalities between the 2 are shocking
She might not need a man to provide financially for her but don’t you think she might want a man to share her life with? Companionship🤷🏽♀️
😂keep it up , started laughing from the start of the video
She may be single, but trust me she's not a virgin 😂
In fact her body count will probably shock you seeing that she's 30 🤣🤣🤣
You need to understand that a lot of people do not necessarily know what they want for themselves , they want what others have.
This woman must just send an application to become a 9th wife to "Mseleku", she must share a man.
Mseleku doesn’t fit her criteria!!! 😂😂😂
He’s too short… and she doesn’t want to share a man 🙈
Yoh!! 🔥 ... what you said about postgrad is true. 😂😂 I got my Masters last year (doing PCGE now). Kubi. Kubi!!!!
But no one wants to suffer 😂 imagine wishing on a guy who earns 10k and then he has 3 kids, now we are down to atleast 2k before any other expenses 😢 and then you deal with crazy baby mamas and then and then and then. Yho ha ah I'd rather be delulu 😢
No one said suffer…
Just be more realistic based on the dynamics of the world…
Not all women can be with Obama!
@pensonmlotshwa I hear you 😅but I still maintain (and I'll speak for myself not all women) even though I may dream of a man with eg 5 traits, realistically I'd probably be open to someone who meets atleast 3 of them. So it's an "aim for the moon and if you miss you'll still land on the stars" type thing. I will never say I'm aiming for an average man out loud, even though chances are I'll probably end up with one
@@MLM424 I love the “aim of the moon” mindset… nothing wrong with goals & dreams…
I was talking about people who aggressively stick to their checklist and aren’t willing to budge…
You make perfect sense!
@@pensonmlotshwaR100k per month is not Obama. A man who puts in the work should be earning R100k+ per month by 35 and definitely 40. What were you doing for all those years? The height thing is delusional I agree but to each their own.
Yep the guy I'm seeing has 5kids different baby mamas.
We're the same age, he's tall 180cm and handsome and earns 16k, urenta one room and drives a van, runs his own business and is a serial womanizer 😅 haai I surrender... It's not worth it honestly. He's promiscuous..., dishonest... Umkhaba uzipha amandla cause he drinks a lot...😅
Modern feminism is destroying the dating market and all this will end in tears for a lot of women, including men.
😂😂 am 40 and said all things r possible with God and my son is 14 and said no mom she must make him in the Lab...
ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE!!!
I love it 😅❤
Friendly advice, listen to your son ma'am.
😅 It's possible, but is it probable? That is the question.
Ekse Bra Pen_ Please can you address salary disparities among different races in the corporate world. Danko!
Solid topic!
I’ll def cover that for you 🙏🏽
Kevin Samuels made the same observation. They will all end up with cats.
His observations came from rollo tomasi and patrice o neil
lets say she meets that 1 percent guy, a rich, tall, young and single man with money is fuckin supermodels not hardworking average women excuse my French. you put it so well
…it’s crazy right!!!
Mina I give up with some of our sisters!
What do you mean by supermodels.In 2024 all the women are 10s . So they do qualify and deserve the 1% guy .
@tranquilsoothingsounds3334 unfortunately not all women can be 10s no matter the year. Take away the top positions and income and see if she'd compete with our unemployed but gorgeous sisters. They'd sing a more humble tune. 10s are far and few apart and they fuck 6.0 inch super rich hot guys 👦
This is nice. This guy just opened something in my mind. It's a bit motivational for a gent
I appreciate your kind words 🙏🏽
Thank you
😂🔥🔥This Delulu name has me😂😂🔥🔥the tone Shout out Bra Pen😊
avarege height for black man in SA is 169cm
WHAAAAAAAT?????
That’s CRAZY!!!
It's 175cm
I’m 168. Im really short. It can’t be that low 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
@@shaunhlatshwayo9832 no according to the data it's 169cm, 175cm is the American average height but here we short
@@therealbongamkhize it is bro
Bro did you really have to make a Spar cashier example?😂😂😂
My bad… I was just using a general hard working profession that does earn R10000000 a month.
😂😂
Once she says "God", i just clock out
Hahahahahaha!!! 😅
@@pensonmlotshwa it's weird since im a Christian guy, but I've noticed they use it to either act like they are above you or belittle you, "only a real man of God will lead me" or if they want you to forget about their past or call you insecure about it on some "I'm born again. God forgives and I won't settle for less"
@@gintoki_sakata__ Shit, you just went real deep!
So many use God/religion like "reserve psychology" vibes? That's crazy!
Speak Sir!!!!!
@@gintoki_sakata__my guy youre speaking facts😂😂
this was hilarious 😂, I think it’s tricky because the modern day woman is caught between being realistic (applying the South Africa context to life) not settling for less and securing a good future for herself. it’s actually complex.
It’s crazy, but kuncono noma ulindele lokho onakho. 6 feet tall uzovelaphi ngiwu-156cm kwamina😂😂😂😂😂😂. Yekani ukudlala iTV
Uzovelaphi????????
Love this❤
They can date themselves we man have too many options 😂
I blame the gram.
As we as gents get older, these huns values decreases.
Delulu is me 😅I am delulu and I’m willing to die a childless delulu spinster 😅Danko!!!
Well my beautiful Dr I'm willing to fix the child problem for you I've got 2 wives there won't be any hassles for.so nkosazane how about it 😊😊😊😂
Yes girl! Up those standards. If he’s earning less than R10mil it’s not worth it
That last part🙌🏾
So informative. Thanks brother🙌💯
FACTS upon FACTS
Well just by listening to your yep yepping i guess am queen dilulu ngoba i won’t settle, i take it to his walk his laughter his chewing i mean how he swallows 😂😂😂😂 angeke anisi yeke dilulu and proud 😊😊😊
The more educated & accomplished they are, the sillier they become 😂
YHO!!!
And futhi!!!
The more educated they are, the more they don’t understand why you are fine with Mediocrity … if you also as educated & earn around the same, I don’t see you having a problem with a Successful educated woman because you would know earning R70k & having a partner that earns R10k is too unbalanced to build together… worse if they not hustling or having more ambition & drive. Y’all need to be left here, those women need to Travel & meet their Husbands else where instead of settling for SA men that don’t want to raise the Bar… it’s now time for Black families to build Legacies, afford their kids way better & yall are stuck, left behind wanting the Bar to be dropped because you not working hard enough to raise it🙄
@@nomynoms1969😍😍
@@nomynoms1969 preach
True
women should have high standards. because, they choose whats best for their offspring(this is from a biological standpoint) regardless i agree womens standards be crazy especially 2day but complianing dont help
bafunde mahala labo abana common sense
Makes sense why they are still single bar too high they must just be reasonable and seek happiness love instead of looks and money
Fine line between a woman trying to value her self worth vs delusional. Also SA is one small country vs the rest of the world. After watching Indian Matchmaking and seeing women who had very picky high standards, but still found their match. Why not wait it out? Obviously have clear reasoning and values, beyond superficial materialism, but our parents and grandmothers generation could not afford standards because they were dependent and had to put up with a lot of shit else theyd be on the street. We have a certain freedom that we can wisely yield. Nothing wrong with dying unmarried vs putting up with 20 years of bullshit, in my opinion
Hahahahahahahahaha. So you clocking this now? KS been telling us this but y'all ain't listening.
We def listen… but we need to keep telling them until they fully understand.
Can someone pls give KS his flowers. He talked about all these points of course in American context . From the man needing to make double income to compensate for the stayhome wife .. to crunching the numbers on how many eligible men are available. Also, he was bold enough to argue with the women everyday without fear of being cancelled.
Im just waiting on your take on Ntandokazi situation. I'd really like you to touch on it. I think we can learn a thing or two
Hahahahahahahaha!!!
I’ll give my 2cents on the topic 😅🙏🏽
Yo just subscribed because of the facts here😂
Wasimosha uCindarella😂😂😂😂
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
Lool there is this other lady who was presenting mzanzi insider, she is saying that she is a virgin🤣...that time she is in her 30s
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😂😂😂 mjita ufana kakhulu ne owty yakini ngeke
Wangishiyela ibele mos 😅🫶🏽
Lol even the voice they sounds similar with black Pen
I'd rather be educated and prosper in my career and be choosey than having no career/no ambition nd have a man, that will later cheat and abuse me. NO THANK YOU
😂😭😭😭The beer one has me ayi ayimnandi ie Hieneken 😂😭😭🔥😂😭
Save money better woman are coming
I think men and women both need to collectively get off social media and touch grass. Also I think being career focused as a woman makes sense cause you're an adult and everyone needs to self actualize and pay bills regardless of gender.
I only tolerate woman I want. I can't only imagine being friends with them 😂😂😂 The delulu is not worth it shame
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 Not...Yes girl
Another Kevin Samuels / Redpill ... 😊... I stopped listening at sharing ... its toxic men trying to condition women for men's lack of discipline. I agree, women place far more importance on standards that don't make a home / family. But inviting women to condition themselves for toxicity is just harmful & undermines men.
7D 😭😭😂😂
They are really dululu 😅 with their preferences
Super delulu! 😅
Amadoda nje awakaze athanda ukusibona siJabule nama dreams ethu 🤣🤣🤣😂
Ey ngaze ngandakaza 😂😭🤣
😏 Eyyy, don't mind me I'm just sitting on my couch with a big bowl of popcorn going through the comments. Peace out bro, dig the content.
Please share the link of the video of the psychologist you were mentioning
Ayii they are hurt😢after God fear women
FEAR WOMEN!!!!!!!! 😂😂😂
Eyi they want it all
ALL OF THEM FUTHI!!!!
the more i listen to the video.... the more i see.... you thought their expectations would be logical
koz they accomplished in their careers😂
NOPE!!! I know our sisters!
No logic there 😅
I blame Disney
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 7-D life
Of the 500 how many arent gay?👀
We always say women don't know what they want, so why are we listening to them? Lol
single no kids? he gay gurl😂
Ladies please avoid such men 😂 thanks
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Dude 😂😂😂😂 can you change the caption 2 some woman please? Not all woman live on tiktok and social media! Some of us are traditional 🤷🏻♀️
Then you have nothing to worry about innit
Ey mf2 let these people buy dogs or cats they'll be happy,hhayi singaphela phela umjolo umsangano if you will base your needs of the content you are consuming ngikutshele sisenkingeni kabi.😅😅😅
uzomdweba loyo bhuti.
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Only 5% of the world is over 6 feet tall.
Uthini Kodwa nxa umkhuza ?? 😂
The minute a man hears a criteria that he doesnt match its delulu
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Unrealistic relationship standards to you
That’s fair…
They are unrealistic to me… and 99.9% of the population 😅🙈
Why are you sounding like Penelope they you voice are twins with him