I used to do everything under the sun for my children. Jiki Jiki I loose my job, I'm now a dead beat, it's mad crazy. Lapho I used to run the show alone for over 5 years. Umuntu ehleli nje. Anyways thanks for raising the topic 🙏🏾
Hi Penson uyazi mfethu I am half way on your video and you talk exactly what i always say within my heart that people judge wrong all the time when its comes relationships ay man! You 100% bru
I get hurt when people breakup to a point where I cry, mostly if it's people im really fond of. Thembinkosi and Natasha's split deeply broke my heart 😢😢. We never saw that coming considering that they looked just now in Feb!!!! I hope they'll bith find happiness romantically ❤❤
I think the biggest issue is that women would want best for the child while men just want basic for the child. Women will want you to spend last penny on a child while men don't want to.
Cha mfana shuthi nobabili ninobhuti wakho aniphilile, ukuthi umjita akakwazi ukondla akusho ukuthi Ingane mele ihlale naye there are lot of things to consider(like inhlawulo) before reaching such an extreme point.
Bro i don't know if you haven't noticed, but women rarely do take accountability/responsibility. It's very very rare to hear a woman admitting her part on a broken relationship. I've made peace with it. This is why men lead by nature, because they can take responsibility they're not to have a victim mindset. It's time men accept this type of nature.
I hear you...and I agree. However we need to shape society the way that will promote positive growth. It seems like other cultures are getting things a lot better than us... both men and women seem to take accountability and responsibility for their actions. Thina we seem to be getting worse!
@@pensonmlotshwa Our society has made the man an enemy, which is making it even more difficult. Popular media always seem to be lecturing men on how men should treat women, but you'll never hear them lecturing women on how they should treat men. It's too much double standards. But people like you will raise enough awareness on this issue, and I do hope in future things will get better.
Ngempel lets look at both of them lets not pick sides between them nam m a women impel but i hate how men get oppressed as if they dnt hv feelings babntu nabo so lets normalize saying men are deadbeat dad lets stopp blaming guys we dnt knw whats happends behind close doors father do what u can practically do the mother can expect alot of u but you as a father do wht u can practically cn do no sisters cant do take ingan to fathers like dat nahh children' are expensive nd truth is asinamali as women i dnt think we should not expect alot from our men honestly
Sometimes you discover that the woman you having a child with is a Narcissist which means the dynamics of that relationship are different from normal , you realise that you are in trouble and your child is in deep trouble too ay shame
Your passion on this topic is tangible. We need to do better. Everything is not as it seems. A lot of good men are painted horribly by bitter baby mammas!
I used to do everything under the sun for my children. Jiki Jiki I loose my job, I'm now a dead beat, it's mad crazy. Lapho I used to run the show alone for over 5 years. Umuntu ehleli nje. Anyways thanks for raising the topic 🙏🏾
I’m so sorry you lost your job… but things will turn around soon!
Keeping pushing bro!
Fuck all the negative energy!
Don't worry gazi uzovuka futhi❤
Lucky u u got to runn the show abanyer bethu 3mnths njr usebenza uphel umsebenzi 😢
Hi Penson uyazi mfethu I am half way on your video and you talk exactly what i always say within my heart that people judge wrong all the time when its comes relationships ay man! You 100% bru
Dankie my brother!
I appreciate your kind words!
Yerrrrrr spot on bro!!!! Flip!!!!👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
Preach!
🎯. Nuance is important.
Very important!
I get hurt when people breakup to a point where I cry, mostly if it's people im really fond of. Thembinkosi and Natasha's split deeply broke my heart 😢😢. We never saw that coming considering that they looked just now in Feb!!!!
I hope they'll bith find happiness romantically ❤❤
Dlala Penson😂 love your passion grootman
I think the biggest issue is that women would want best for the child while men just want basic for the child.
Women will want you to spend last penny on a child while men don't want to.
Anything more than the basics is a luxury...
The parents need to get to a middle ground.
Funny how some of those women don't want to do that with their money
@@pensonmlotshwafacts!
Cha mfana shuthi nobabili ninobhuti wakho aniphilile, ukuthi umjita akakwazi ukondla akusho ukuthi Ingane mele ihlale naye there are lot of things to consider(like inhlawulo) before reaching such an extreme point.
Bro i don't know if you haven't noticed, but women rarely do take accountability/responsibility. It's very very rare to hear a woman admitting her part on a broken relationship. I've made peace with it. This is why men lead by nature, because they can take responsibility they're not to have a victim mindset. It's time men accept this type of nature.
I hear you...and I agree.
However we need to shape society the way that will promote positive growth.
It seems like other cultures are getting things a lot better than us... both men and women seem to take accountability and responsibility for their actions.
Thina we seem to be getting worse!
@@pensonmlotshwa Our society has made the man an enemy, which is making it even more difficult. Popular media always seem to be lecturing men on how men should treat women, but you'll never hear them lecturing women on how they should treat men. It's too much double standards.
But people like you will raise enough awareness on this issue, and I do hope in future things will get better.
Ngempel lets look at both of them lets not pick sides between them nam m a women impel but i hate how men get oppressed as if they dnt hv feelings babntu nabo so lets normalize saying men are deadbeat dad lets stopp blaming guys we dnt knw whats happends behind close doors father do what u can practically do the mother can expect alot of u but you as a father do wht u can practically cn do no sisters cant do take ingan to fathers like dat nahh children' are expensive nd truth is asinamali as women i dnt think we should not expect alot from our men honestly
Is Penuel your brother?
he is !
He's my older brother.
He looks younger, are you on gear?@pensonmlotshwa
@@WaNyeleti1 Am I on what?
@pensonmlotshwa you look like you lift weights, are you natural or not?
Sometimes you discover that the woman you having a child with is a Narcissist which means the dynamics of that relationship are different from normal , you realise that you are in trouble and your child is in deep trouble too ay shame
And narcissist people are the worst bro!!!
You discover that when you have a child with her already 😅😂
@@nontoncube8450 The worse experience ever😔😪
Your passion on this topic is tangible. We need to do better. Everything is not as it seems. A lot of good men are painted horribly by bitter baby mammas!