relationship advice for single lonely men

friend zone sucks for both parties. being an person who has a tendency to be introverted, anxious and have low self esteem I've struggled to get into dating. here's what I've learnt from my past mistakes and the research I've done to understand it better.
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You are very self aware that’s good some men aren’t when aware can reflect and progress
Women love self confidence sometimes fake it til you make it but important to work on yourself and set some personal goals
we must all be able to regulate our emotions if feeling need that connection just observe it perhaps don’t react then an answer will be shown
Become obsessed with yourself and hit the gym be selfish and seek adventures
Join a group or running group to broaden your connections
I hope you gain self esteem and great confidence
Appear not available appear self focused you will meet someone when you’re not looking
Always take care of yourself
Vlog your progress or do monthly updates

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Thanks 🙏👍