My philosophy for a happy life | Sam Berns | TEDxMidAtlantic
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Just before his passing on January 10, 2014, Sam Berns was a Junior at Foxboro High School in Foxboro, Massachusetts, where he achieved highest honors and was a percussion section leader in the high school marching band. He also achieved the rank of Eagle Scout in the Boy Scouts of America. Sam was diagnosed with Progeria, a rare, rapid aging disease, at the age of 2. He is featured in the Emmy award-winning documentary Life According to Sam, which premiered on HBO on October 21, 2013, 2 days before his 17th birthday.
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He died at 17. Yet he lived more than those who have died at 70
this quote made my day
+Wesley Wu What you just said makes no sense at all. 70 years is longer than 17 years.
Alex Mate, it's a figure of speech. Please finish grade school before you try to sass me.
Wesley Wu Ah, the classic, "You must be 12" insult. Pathetic. Come up with something good.
Alex I would if your comeback was actually a real roast. Besides, you didn't deny it :)
The maturity of this guy at 17 is impressive, rest in peace :(
he was 14 when he died.
@@barkley8285 He was 17.
The person who has faced enough in his life gains maturity earlier than most of us do!
@@barkley8285 the idea that he died at 14, but his corpse continued to shamble around and communicate simple ideas for years is horrifying to think on
This is often as....its the effect of the disease progeria ......which led to his early ageing and maturity....impressive word is not applicable here at all.....😐
Is anyone watching in 2024?
Me
Me
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1. Focus on the things you're good at, not on the things you cannot do
2. Surround yourself with the people in your life that you love and want to be around
3. Keep moving forward
4. Never miss a party
Thank you so much for your input Sam. You will never be forgotten!
Good tips. Rest in peace.
Let the bad stuff in once in a while, so you can acknowledge it and move past it
Learn that being brave isn't always supposed to be easy
RIP Sam ♡
Finding out that he died a month after this speech is so depressing after hearing his dreams.
Harry Barker wow watching this makes me feel wired now, but I really do feel sorry for that guy hope he had a decent life. :(
Harry Barker I think he died happy though , it was lived well he finished school went to home coming dance =))) he was surrounded with people he loved and he did what he loved.
Harry Barker having that strength inside of you 1month ahead of death is something i'd dream of...this guy lived his life 100% till the end. Respect
Harry Barker
OMG. True. :( May God bless his beautiful soul.
R.I.P brother
This kid is 17? Jesus. The level of maturity and wisdom he displays is unbelievable. What an inspiration.
Brandon J or you only see it that way because you focus on his disability.
Retro Gaming Firstly, yes. The way he overcomes his disability daily is absolutely inspiring. Unbelivably inspiring. As it should be. And if you can't see that, it's your problem. Because I look at someone with a disability and that disability is apparent to me does not make me a bad person. It makes me realistic. There is nothing noble about ignoring such an obvious handicap. There is something to be said however, for seeing a handicap and then being able to look past it and seeing that how an individual handles their handicap so well and so optimistically absolutely adds to the inspiration, not detracts from it. The fact that I can look at him as an entire individual, as a whole, disability and all, is not a fault. It's part of what makes him who he is. And though it's not the only part, not by a long shot, I would venture to say it's a pretty damn big part. Secondly, he would be inspiring even without the disability. The kid is 17 and speaks with the intelligence and eloquence of someone twice his age or older. His maturity and world view are admirable qualities. So get off your high horse and don't make insinuations about why I would consider him an inspiration, when the truth is you don't have the vaguest notion as to what I find inspiring about this young man. Take your nonsense elsewhere.
Brandon J I was referencing your value to his maturity in relation to his disability, not to how he is inspiring. He is inspiring, and I was inspired by him because of his unbelievable strength and optimistic behavior. But he speaks exactly like many people around my age, 15-18, and I have seen many people younger than him speak that way and people are saying that he's mature when they aren't really looking at his maturity but the fact that he's on Ted talks and has a disability. It just annoyed me because people don't compare his maturity to a general population and instead say he's mature because of a disability. Just scroll down the comment section, many people are saying the exact same thing you originally said when it doesn't matter and it, again, annoyed me.
Retro Gaming That's patently ridiculous. I wasn't tying his maturity to his disability. And nothing I wrote should've led you to that conclusion. If you speak eloquently, then I congratulate you. But if you believe most kids that age speak so verbosely and with such diction, then you're naive. I have younger brothers and younger cousins around the same age and very few of them speak so well. I know relatively few adults that speak English the way it's meant to be spoken.
Brandon J Then I guess we just have different comparatives based on our own experiences with age-similar people.
He was more well- adjusted than most of us, and so intelligent! RIP, Sam!
We don't choose how we are born, but we choose what kind of people we become. What an amazing person!
*"It's better to have a short life that is full of what you like doing, than a long life spent in a miserable way."*
RIP
word
Alan Watts
+Harry Drake
He had both :p
👊
right
"Its not the years in your life, it's the life in your years"
Heard this quote from the band parkway drive in case anyone was wondering
beautiful man
When i see this, I think how could a god allow this?
@Lasse Givoni ahhhh 😳the disease.😳
@Lasse Givoni ok he had happy days too...ok
Why would a god allow a child to have such a terrible disease for even 1 day, but a lifetime of 17yrs??
@Lasse Givoni i know. If there was a true kind loving god. It would never allow this disease.
The reason this disease is real, is because god is not real. Its cruel nature that does this, just like other cruelty of nature.
Seeing this Ted Talk after his death made me realize that he had given this inspiring speech a month before he passed away because of his disease Progeria. Sam stayed positive even with the realization every day could be his last. He was a true fighter, a strong person and I believe we can be as strong as him! Being so strong starts with his philosophy, so let's be happy together for Sam. Do you wanna join me?
He passed away?
@@weareasapeople He passed away in 2014 of complications from progeria, just a year after this video released.
@@weareasapeople he passed away just a month after this video released...
😢❤
According to the video's description, it's already been just over 10 years since we lost him. It's remarkable that he never let his condition take him over, and he fought proudly. I think pretty much the same way he did, in that you should always give yourself something to look forward to, and just be brave. In his 17 years of life, he truly made an impact. A huge one, at that. Rest easy, Sam. ❤️
''being brave is not meant to be easy''
***** He is so smart!
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love his understanding
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***** TRUUUUUU
***** I thought the same thing, great quote, great human being!
The strongest people are those with the best attitudes in the worst situations.
RIP
The Batman Amazing quote.
thats the thing though. economicly and socialy he was in the best situation, id honestly tkae his life ove most american childrens life . its an example of how much money cna help a person. he has money to thank for his healthy and happy life
Thanks Batman, very cool
Thanks for the words bruce
"How nice of you to say" -- The Joker
Anyone in April 2024
I am equally inspired by Sam and saddened by his passing just a month after this talk. I had no idea his disease was so aggressive that he wouldn't make it to college. He seemed and was so vital. What a spirit. We need millions more Sam's - not with Progeria but with his profound wisdom. Job well done by his parents, family and friends as well. None of us live in a vacuum and all of us should be so lucky as to have lived as full a life as Sam did despite it's seeming sort length.
Rest in paradise, friend.
Niall is he died !!!
@Adiratna A xD
@Adiratna A ET go home
Oh so that is what a alien from area 51 looks like
@Adiratna A there's something wrong with you. Show some respect
Don't be sad that he died but be happy that such an incredible person existed among us
Is he dead????
Ya he is dead
Ishita Palak Unfortunately
@@kanchansrivastava1351 what?? Why??
@@slashpastel4445 bcoz he IS. His condition that's why
I was actually depressed and my phycologist told me to go and watch the story of Sam Berns here on TH-cam and indeed I have now come to understand myself now and accepted who truly I am....kuddos to u Sam and may ur soul rest in peace 😢thanks for encouraging me today even though u are no more🤲☑️
Sam is one amazing person. And so must his family be... a child like this had to have "can do" parents who are themselves positive and emotionally healthy. Thank you to Sam's parents. Your son is an inspiration, even after his passing.
Do not be sad that he died, be glad that he was born, What a powerful philosophy that can change a negative perspective into a positive one
Amen. Be grateful for his shining light. It sure blessed me today.
Sharp knife............
For a short life..........
Well i have had just enough time.......(rip)
I'm crying...
Thank you for these words
@@Music-jj2em 0p
Can we talk about how good of a public speaker he was, especially at only 17? I know many adults who not be able to go in front of a crowd and speak with this much confidence.
Spot on. His message was so rich that I almost overlooked how well he delivered it.
he has a nice voice.
@@magpineapple i actually found him so cute.. RIP
He may not had the appearance but he surely had talend of public speaking! There are handsome guys who cant even make a school like presentation...
I think loving with anyone staring at u, ans being the center of every situation either makes u socially sick or socially skilled
Finding out that he died after watching the full video made my heart drop and made the impact of his words tenfold. I feel so much for these beautiful souls who deserve so much more than they got from this world yet gave back everything they had to give and we are still being gifted with such positive impact. Thank you Sam. You may not have lived to become an engineer or a doctor but you are operating a huge influence on people every single day.
1. Be OK with what you ultimately can't do, because there is so much you CAN do.
2. Surround yourself with people you want to be around.
3. Keep moving forward.
4. Never miss a party if you can help it.
The saddest realization for me was probably that he was definitely smart enough to know that he doesn’t have much time left, yet he went up on that stage and told millions of people about his dreams, which he knew he wouldn’t have enough time to achieve
Why did he want to study biology then?
@@creativitysubs9935 probably just a passsion. Didn’t have much time, so might as well do something he loves for as long as he can
@@creativitysubs9935 You could be ran over by a car tomorrow, so why do anything long-term in life? These are the types of questions that bring us nowhere. Do for this life as if you live forever, but be grateful for it as if you die tomorrow.
@@creativitysubs9935 He mentioned cell biology and genetics. It is possible he was inspired by his condition.
Yeah its so sad. He literally passed away almost a month after this video was posted :(
18 years old and he lived much more and probably happier than the most of us
What kind of life are you living that you now announce his lifestyle better then yours!?
@@matthewkain1860 he means probably not a better life but the way he looked at life with a positive outlook letting him be happier than most
phx_frosty yeah I’m just joking.
Hippie8 Studios what kind of joke is that? Jokes are meant to be funny 😂
Jozzy&Jax if you can’t see the humour in someone else saying that the person in the video lived a better life despite having a lot of disabilities (no disrespect to the actual person who is dead, or the commenter) then I don’t know what to tell you
A fantastic orator…for someone so young he has a natural ability to speak publicly whilst being engaging.
9 years later and this young man has definitively had a greater effect on the world than any of his peers that outlived him. Just for trying to be a healthy, happy human being. The brightest of lights really do burn the shortest.
Unfortunately he passed away about a yrs after he did that speach.
His body was too small to contain such a huge spirit. May he rest in peace.
Kot z Cheshire 😭😭😭
Or may not
I can only think of that is was on accident
it reminds me of freak the mighty
Great things come in small packages.
He was a much better person than a lot of us.
+Aylin Ledezma define a good person.
True.
La verdad es qe hay qe tener muchisima fortaleza para vivir así. Justo estoy en una de mis peores depresiones, tengo todo, y no lo agradezco :c
+Aylin Ledezma was? what do u mean by WAS?
+Aylin Ledezma i gree.
What most of us could not do in 80 years of our lifetime, Sam did it in less than 17.What a brilliant life he had ...God bless his soul.
Rest in peace Sam. Thank you for inspiring this. I really appreciate you.
This guy has amazing speaking skills for a 17 year old
yeah hes so cal and all that
Because he’s actually about 200 by this point
@@m.skhrel1733 Still 17 years of time to collect that much experience and to develop such a beautiful mind. Sam is impressive
He passed away a month after this :/
Listen to 2pac at 17
This guy may have been weak physically, but he is stronger in spirit than anyone I’ve ever encountered.
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I'm actually in tears rn what a strong and kind hearted soul,i feel sad i didn't get to meet this truly amazing and inspiration child. I hope hes soul is at peace😭💙.
@@kaniyan1953 huh
you haven't met many people then
Its over 9000!!!
Sam's philosophies are inspring to everyone,not only to those who has a severe desease but also us healthy people who still have too much annoyance and dissatisfaction towards life.We should all be more optimistic like him. (Daniel, 17 y.o., China)
Honestly RIP. 17 yrs that seem to have touched more than most of us will. Rest In Peace you good soul... A model to us all.
For a 17 year old, he is one of the greatest public speakers I have ever heard. Very inspirational!
He passed away sadly
shmuel kavian he is funny potato
then i guess you should see more... actually don't, it's a waste of time
I don't see him as inspirational personally, but I see him as a wonderful guy with a dream that I think he ultimately realized - to life his life happy. And he did. To the end.
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This kid had to deal with this disease and still was probably a better person than all of us.
I agree. I wish people could be more like him. The world would be so much better if was like that.
No probably. He was a better person than all of us.
He looks like Golum
John Boona, preach.
No he was not
I can't comprehend how someone can be so strong. Life hit you hard, but you fought back. You are someone that learned how to handle life at such a young age. I can't believe the amount of strength, maturity, and mindest it takes to be like you. Sam you are a living example anything is possible, and you should know you have changed the world by being you. God bless you, and rest in peace.
Exactly. So amazing
Freaking inspiration. Im his age and have been suffering from muscle wasting conditions and sometimes felt as if my life was over. Not anymore, ill strive forward
Sam Berns was ahead of his time. He was too powerful for this world. when you are bombarded with the inevitability that your life could be over at any given moment your mind ages rapidly. but you also learn to love every living breathing moment.
somehow, someway in this lifetime, we were able to experience the presence of Sam Berns. He is Loved. We will keep him in our hearts until our last breath.
love yourself people. love every single day you get to exist.
Good comment, he was so wise for his age bless him.
R.I.P. Sam, you will be missed by so many.
Eventhough he seemed nervous, he had the courage to go on TEDx and perform in for hundreds of people live, and millions of people online. He is truly living his life to the fullest.
Cool dude +1
Lived
+ULTRAMAXAMPAXAM good point
+Wellstar He died one month later after this video was posted :C
+Dat Guy I know, its sad 😦
Wellstar :'C
I realized that how long you live doesn’t really matter. He lived his best life. I have to make the most of it too
You are right
Damn right
That got a little too deep
bruh its megamind
chp Lol haha you’re so edgy 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
cannot believe it was 10 years ago he seem so fresh , the time dilates , truly was an awesome personality ....RIP
Sam has such a sweet soul. Since he passed a month after this video, I pray that he is now even happier and free. This is such an amazing video...
🤣
The less attachment to ego, the happier the person seems to be.
The Fearmoths so True
The Fearmoths Humility my friend, humility. It is the only antidote to shame.
The Fearmoths true
The Fearmoths مسرحيات
buddhism in a nutshell
Sam passed away not even a month after this was posted 😢. The fact that there are still new comments, likes, and views on this video daily, almost a decade after it was posted, shows just how meaningful and impactful he was to so many in his short time alive. What an amazing kid.
So true!
u are right
It really is inspiring and heart-warming
Man u started crying when I heard this.
Makes me sad 😔
This young man represents the best of what humanity has to offer. I'm overwhelmed by his innate goodness.
He believed he could change the world and I believed in him. Because his philosophy gave me strength now. I felt that I could make his dream come true if I lived happier, so I will live happier than anyone else and engrave the 12-minute speech in my heart. On Friday, February 10, 2023, I heard his voice, I knew him, and now I can't forget him. All I can say to him is thank you for your philosophy reaching me.
rest in peace, Sam
Learning that he passed away shortly after this talk was posted was like a punch in the chest. What a pure soul we all would have loved to have known. What an inspiration you are, Sam.
yes Megan, and we all pass, yet...passing in purpose & peace is a key. as C.S Lewis declares in 'Mear Christianity'
He left us this wonderful message. It will live on for centuries in the internet database.
Why good people always go fast, im cryin rn
He changed the world, just like he wanted to
i mean didnt megamind die in the movie
so why wouldnt the white megamind do the same?
The fact that he died a month after this really makes me mad. This boy was so good and positive. He was so innocent. I hope his soul is at peace.
I feel a seepage in my faith at moments like this. They say the good die young, but he was afflicted right from the start. I do not question God, but the word why still rattles around within me. This young man had wisdom beyond his years, maybe that was his purpose. Like you, I pray he is at peace.
I don't believe in wibbly ethereal/divine Magic souls but people like this and occasions like this make me wish there were souls/proof of souls. There's no proof either way. But times like these? A soul would be something comforting to believe in.
@@ToeMunchEnja I believe I know how you feel. I too wrestle with certain possibilities and being a practical man coming to terms with my own experiences proved very difficult. I can't nor would I try to convince you because you have to have your own experience. Word alone is not enough, even if you did experience something you might think you're in need of medication.
I am not talking psychics or spiritual meetings, I can only tell you of my parent's experiences. My father died in 1973 but six weeks before he told my mother his sister Amy came to him. she sat down on the bed just before father left the bedroom and told him it was time for him to prepare for his passing. She made two visits. After my father passed away it was mid-1984 whilst my mother was watching television when she saw my father sat opposite her.
she thought she was losing her mind and left the room. She returned with a cup of tea but father was still there. This continued for the next eighteen months every two months or so, my mother passed away in 1986. My sister received visitations from our mother apparently to let her know she was alright, I never received any such visits.
I cannot prove or disprove these claims, but when I was stationed in Germany I was on duty on my own when I had a number of experiences that were beyond explanation. However, I ventured to mention to fellow troop members what had happened and was told, "why do you think duty was taken in the guardroom". I have no explanation as to what happened, but suffice it say, it was not pleasant. This probably proves nothing to you as it's just my word, but I know what I saw and I would not try to convince you one way or the other. Justin.
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Yes . He' s an angel ,
Very touching. He was so brilliant, and wise. May his beautiful soul rest in peace ❤
Sam is way more confident and charismatic than I could ever be, I look up to this man.
What made me cry was the fact that he was holding on his tears for a long time. No one else can do that. I wish I could hug this superhero. I don't know where are you, but I am pretty sure, you've changed the life of ~19 million viewers.
trollmaster420. shut up i bet if you were like that you be crying
Hey buddy listen. You should thank god that you are normal, and not like Sam. You can't imagine being like him. I know you're trolling but sometimes it's better not to. Because, it's not even funny.
Ishtmeet Singh Rissam he didnt change the lives of 19 million people, probably no more than a couple thousand since most people watch it and forgrt about it in under a year... But it was still a grest video to watch
***** Thanks for your opinion. :)
bro something happen i. your life
undescribable feelings came to my mind when i found out he passed away, RIP SAM BERNS, you left us the lasting philosophy
+ConservativeElite that's so edgy and funny like 9/11 hahahaha just kidding, grow up / go fuck your self
who cares what anyone says about sam? the only thing you should care about is the philosophy he left us, so use it! block it out! people just say shit cuase there upset with them selfs on how much they over look the things they have in life. #liveahappylife
Of course he was a great guy, but that doesn't mean that he didn't look weird. You don't have to look acceptable to society to be a good person.
i strongly agree. We are all one.
for the bullies: n u have a bully demon inhabiting u... apparently... u might wanna 'get yerself well...' stop allowing bully demons to occupy u... in indulging in such toxic, energetically parasitical behavior, u r making the world a sicker place... n as well have the potential to cause harm to others who do not deserve your insanity... so... may u get yerself well, n stop allowing bully demons to inhabit u, n in so doing u will then b making the world a better place... u might wanna get in touch with who u truly r in yer creator's eyes... the amazingly inspiring young person, wise beyond his time; sam berns certainly seemed in tune with his truth n his calling. what an exceptional, magnificent bright light n kind soul. if only more people were so great as he lived. apparently he lived well. he also seemed to have a wonderful support system... and he made quality choice as he stated. perhaps u have not had such a quality support system as sam has had the fortune of having. however, u likely also r not facing at least a number of challenges which same faced... so... but whatever your problems r, how u ended up becoming so sick... spiritually ill, n psychologically injured... that u feel it is ok, n funny to b abusive to people who do not deserve your bullying... i hope u get to the bottom of yer issues so u can work on yerself n get real. ps: u keep bullying u r going to b accruing monumental karmic debt fer yerself... but 'don't think twice... it's alright...' i m guessing u r a lost teenager... so i m going easy on u. may u get a clue n grow up.
It makes me feel so inspired and enlightened
I watch it every 2-3 months for last so many years❤
legend has it, Bern did not die but was accorded the gift of rest for his courage, confidence and ability to overcome the obstacles in his life. A true champion
He has got such a sweet voice
had
@@jametron6135 It is soo saad to know that he died :(
Hi
@@itsnourrr6699 yes🙏
@@shaikjameerbasha1297 what?
one of the most articulate and well spoken 17 year olds I've ever seen in my life. Rest in Peace Sam
Being freaky is good right?
He convinced you
He may be smart, but you clearly haven't met a lot of smart 17 year olds.
oh damn i havent even watched it yet.
❣️
True
See how inspiring he is! Whenever i feel tired about my lyf...defenitely you are the one that defines my life endlessly... remembering you always...❤
🙂
What a brave young man he was. His philosophy can be applied for any handicapped as well as those who are feeling depressed or just want to live a happy life even being a normal human being. We all experience hi and low moments, we can be sick at any moment in our lives, no matter what we can live a happy life.
My first reaction upon discovering that he passed away shortly after this was: "what a shame; he didn't get to change the world". Then I looked at the 38 million plus views of people searching for happiness and l laughed at myself...
E S that is very rude. Dont say that kinda stuff
@E S karma exists, you are unknown
@E S u're #%$#$
E S: It must be painful to be you. I pity you.
100th like
He started life on hard mode, and he still found happiness. Respect.
@Beeg Succ At least he lived happily.
Beasley Book i think it’s it’s called a early access speedrun with limited features
@Beeg Succ that's why they talk in the past
*Hardcore minecraft initiate*
Beasley Book rip
He lived a short influential life that will impact everyone whoever knew him or watched him or heard him speak. He achieved more than most of us do in double, or triple his lifetime
My applause for this man. He was happy even if he had this painful nonsense. Not everyone manages to be happy despite this :)
He proved that this quote is right:
"If life gives you 100 reasons to cry,
Give it 1000 reasons to smile"
Huge respect for him..🙏🙏👏👏
Iam sorry to tell you bro he died 😢
5 years ago
Hk
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This is one of trending comments now days I know you have published comments 4days ago
I cried when I read this comment
This bro is happier than most people i know that are able bodied
***** oh shit did he die?!
***** thats really sad
That's sad, this video really helped me out, life is so unfair, he should have lived longer :(
Demons and Doodles he!?! Idono what it is he or she
Show some respect!! He passed away in 2014, for something HE had no control over. Shame on whoever jokes this legend.
Тяжелое испытание, родиться в таком теле.
Дух молодой, масса энергии и желания жить, а тело подводит...
Этот мальчик в теле старичка умер почти 10 лет назад, в 2014 году.
Светлая память и назидание нам всем.
Любите жизнь!
пудин пиндос
тебе не пофиг?
@@user-xs2lg5sz4o ты меньше бухай.
Больше думай.
И тебе будет не пофиг
Мое глубокое уважение этому парню! Благодарю! это очень ценно! всем счастья и любви!!!
''I try hard to not waste energy feeling badly for my self, Because when i do i get stuck in a paradox''
- Sam Berns
this guy deserves endless respect
Yeah, that's not worded right lol. He is respectable, and sure he has some good points, but understand them. Don't just give him respect because he is tslking on this show.
+andersraggan Shame respect is a lie I perfer an honor system, so ya.
AAAAAALIEEEEEEN
+Greedy Jew LOL XD XD
+Greedy Jew , Where did you come up with your screenname?
I still come back to this vid from time to time. Thanks, Sam for having been part of this world.
Anyone who are watching in 2024?
Yes i am her
What an amazing young man. R.I.P Sam.
H-he passed?😓
+Larry MyLife yes
+Ren Lok He's dead? : /
yeah, very sad :(
Ren Lok omgg how sad :( really admirable guy
I'm not crying, I've been taking notes. At 78, I can still learn from a 17-year-old who died 7 years ago! During this pandemic, we have all been focused on the things we can't do. I'm changing my story as of now.
Hello Sandra , how are you doing, I hope you're doing good? Am Tom from Denver Colorado, Where are you from?
Hello Sandra , how are you doing, I hope you're doing good? Am Tom from Denver Colorado, Where are you from?
Ohh no!! I have never seen him before. What an amazing human being. So sad to hear he passed away.
Let me give you a hug, we all deserve it from time to time.
@Janis Joplin Having lost two brothers-in-law to Covid-19, I know the danger is real. I have found it useful in life to be able to learn from others' mistakes; saves having to catch everything myself.
Couldn't stop watching the video. Sending him love.. wherever he is. It's just so emotional to listen to him and learn he is not alive anymore.
Pessoa forte interiormente digna de muita admiração! Cabeça boa!
this guy is better spoken than literally 70% of american kids....
Is that supposed to be impressive?
is that a serious question?
The way you posed that comparison makes it seem like it was some sort of staggering statistic. I'm saying that, while being better spoken than 70% of American youth, it's not wildly impressive
it is very impressive...if someone like him, who has gone through a lot, is competent in his communication when so many others struggle to put together a sentence even though they have no disability or disadvantage, it says something. And it also highlights the sheer stupidity that is apparent among much of the american youth.
***** your saying this like America is the only country with stupid youth
The fact that he’s wiser and smarter than most people, and holds a stronger mentality than many people who don’t face his challenges, truly showed his ability to change the world, like he has. Rest in peace, Sam.
Rest in piece😭😭
he is changing the world even after his death, RIP Sam
bruh that is peace
once my eggs swelled up and I had them as his head
Why is it that those who experience deviations, pain, suffering, and all bad things in this world can be so wise? It's because they know how to appreciate life, appreciate the world, appreciate everyone, appreciate everything. He went through so much but seems as if he had never despised anything at all. He truly is such a wise kid (I'm younger tho). At least it's satisfying enough for me to see that he spent his final days and months happy and well. He even got to enjoy how it feels to graduate from highschool, how's that for something.
I’m so happy he was surrounded with supportive people. He is so sweet. Rest in paradise, sweet one.❤️
What a pure soul, so eloquently spoken too, not an ounce of insecurity.
He is a true fighter. He fought with his negative thoughts, the society, the feelings of abnormal in front of school friends, teachers and staffs. He is a true inspiration.
*was, he passed away unfortunately
Even though his life was short, he made the most of it.
@@kevinboros7427 life is your creation.
@@nygelpereira6540 He still is
He left just within a month after this 😢😔😭
1. Focus on what you can do
2. Surround yourself with people who you like
3. Be forward looking
@@arrowman3848 Of course we should watch our back. That's not the point. It's well known having to watch our backs is the kind of world we live in. But the 3 items listed are a great place to start. 👍 😉 💜
Thanks
Good advice... Something I hope to remember...
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What an uplifting, articulate, wise, humble, kind human being. He definitely have God's grace when he is resurrected.
My takeaways
1. Dont worry about the things you cant do but instead think about want to can do.
- We often worry about the things which are not in our control. So there is no point to keep worrying about that. We need to focus on the things which is in our control.
2. Surround yourself with people enjoy
- If you are surrounded by Toxic environment, need to get out immediately. Because your environment will define your personality and your ability for growth. For example,there are plants/fruits which will grow only in a particular environment like strawberries and Kiwi. If you want to grow strawberries in hot environment it will never grow, no matter how hard you try. So its really important to be in the right environment.
3. We need to keep moving forward.
- We often think about past event which hurt us or was unpleasant. The duration of those unpleasant past events can be anywhere between 5mins to 10mins, but we keep repeating that 5min event in our head again and again. This causes the mind to be in negative state and we will have no control over the positive states like happiness, grateful, empathy. Its really important to be in positive states all the time to make good decisions and enjoy the present moment. Hence, to take our mind off the past events, we need to have something to look forward to and keep focusing on the goal which you want to achieve. This will help our mind to not focus on the past and help us to focus on our future goals.
Great assessment.
Man I'm an ungrateful sack sometimes. He was dealt some of the worst cards in life, but made one of the best lives out of it. I'm sure he comes from a great family. Rest in peace
Yeah, I’m ungrateful a lot too. I think we all need to improve and be happy and more like Sam.
“Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened” -Dr.Seuss
People at the funeral :
@@Harsh-xk9ly so what that's the ultimate destination for new journey my boy.belive
Thanks
I made this commment to 666
Ugh
What a powerful man! A disease or ill fortune cannot touch him. I don't want to say unfortunate is wealth, but we should value everything we have now. Being a person who values time and health.
Bright, articulate and gentle. He is a real hero, a hero of life.
He wanted to live but couldn’t.
I will remember him when I’m at my hard days in the future.
May the force come with you!
He lived to the full...❤️
Some people could live, but they don't want to.
Shuken 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
The sad part is the fact that there are many people who could live but don't want to.
Is it possible to miss someone you've never met? Apparently, it is. What an amazing person Sam Berns was. And only 17.
Truly said❤️❤️
@@prakharsinghkaushik
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i felt this one
what a pure heart
Im glad he left his mark on the earth before he left it
This guy was really a true legend, May he rest easy in heaven
I enjoy it when people with disabilities give inspirational speeches or presentations. It makes the point more ironclad than a non disabled person because it can show how strong you can be no matter what. As he says, keep moving forward. 😌
The amount of intelligence Sam possesed at the age of 17 is very inspiring. We need more people like Sam who possess the inteligence to change the world and who possess a heart of gold.
The amount of times you used "possess" makes me cringe
true
RepKickz Don't be so possessive over the word 'possess'. ;)
Natasha M. Lmao she has no chill
+Michael Weston FUCKBOI ALERT
This young sam had better clarity in life than most of the grown up ppl lack.
Liu Kang I think he had better clarity in his life than anyone.
I can't watch this... every time his voice breaks up when he speaks about things he's thankful for, I feel like I'm going to cry. I wish I could have been his friend.
Just a young man facing a difficult future with all the dreams and love that he can muster. Rest in Power beautiful boy.
He really changed the world 😊
A 17 year old boy schooling a 48year old grown man about happiness- thank you 🙏 RIP you legend.
RIP? is he dead
@@yanisntungane9424 yes
@@faizfaizar II
So inspiring . We take life for granted . Reminder to us to be happy , have a purpose and keep moving forward.
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The confidence he spoke with is mesmerising, RIP dear... ❤
RIP for who?
@@AbdelrahmanOsama Sam Bern.
@@n.rgangwar2219 Omg!!! I've just watched this for the first time... How sad this is :(
Did he died?
No confidence to anyone..~ R.I.P.
Принять себя таким каким ты есть и научиться жить так,чтобы и другие брали с тебя пример,это большое и доброе дело!!!❤Покойся с миром у Всевышнего,а мы возьмем твои слова за правило.Спасибо ,что был с нами!❤❤❤
Какие слова за правило?
За что спасибо, что он сделал, кто это, чем он помог?
While he had lived on earth for just 17 years he had positively enjoyed his life and if can have gratitude for his little life full of a lot of daily challenges why can't we can have gratitude towards our lives? Why can't we can have a positive outlook for our lives?
Remember life is a precious gift of god so live it at it's best...❤