Why I Do Not Compare Myself to Other Women

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  • @tristessesdelalune
    @tristessesdelalune 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Fixating on other women can be such a waste of time because you can never truly understand the entire complexity of another person. Any attempt to fully capture or emulate the essence of someone else will likely end up being a mere caricature ; too inauthentic and too biased by our own views.

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      At the end of the day it’s just lazy and self-evading.

    • @doloresvangaal2248
      @doloresvangaal2248 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's a very insightful, beautiful, yet sobering message.

    • @Digbilso
      @Digbilso 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well, beauty comes from within, so any attempt you make to copy surface level attributes will always be that- surface level. The inner work someone like Heaven Sent Honey has done is obviously immense. I can put on many different types of personas trying to capture that, but if I never build the foundations for the house, it is simply a shell of a house.

    • @linasuleman5470
      @linasuleman5470 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ¹¹¹¹¹¹¹¹¹1¹¹1​@@HeavenSentHoney

  • @Sophie-d5n7n
    @Sophie-d5n7n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    Something that really helped with my 'selfishness' was by turning my mind into as interesting of a place I could possibly make it by consuming as much art and knowledge as I could. My mind became my world and my home. Whenever I am interacting with something in the 'real' world, it's as though I am stepping out and going outside for a bit, but I always need to return to the comfort of my inner world. If I feel the urge to compare myself to someone, I think to myself, sure, they may be great, but being them will never feel like home.

    • @msmayalanski
      @msmayalanski 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I LOVE THIS

    • @arletbode4847
      @arletbode4847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This is a fascinating concept Sophie, I would love to hear more details on how you cultivated your inner world so richly.

    • @Sophie-d5n7n
      @Sophie-d5n7n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@arletbode4847 Thank you so much! I didn't really think anyone would care haha. But your comment gave me the idea to make a video on this. I will put it in my notes

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      THIS IS A COMMUNITY BABE. We are all gathered here not just to listen to me! Are you kidding!?

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I feel so strongly about this whole idea of “stepping out of your mind”. As if your mind in the home and and the real world is a leisurely walk or an errand you have to run😂

  • @divyatmikam7018
    @divyatmikam7018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    i wish i could express the bliss and serenity this channel brings me, but i think you already experience it when you make these videos. thank you for bringing me closer to being my own god.

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Of course it’s lovely to hear you all say it, no matter how much self assurance I have ❤️

  • @parkxbee4600
    @parkxbee4600 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I adore your effort for adding the tranquil sounds of waves in the background. Your concept deeply resonates with them, having it's own smylte

  • @tristessesdelalune
    @tristessesdelalune 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This video is so beautiful. It always feels like your words are carefully picked. It's so pleasing to listen to.

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The words ARE carefully picked. My goal is for my voice alone to be pleasing to listen to. I feel one step closer now ❤️. Thank you.

  • @Bbrrbbrrbarabra
    @Bbrrbbrrbarabra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    i love you so much, your channel is actually helping me through depression and friend break up, but when i see your videos it's like your an older sister telling me advice I've always waited to hear, and i'm so grateful for casually finding you, thanks so much, you have an important impact in my life right one way

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am so happy to hear that. Glad I could be of help to you. If anything I'm more reliable than a sister because my videos are always available to you haha!

  • @nadiiabodnarchuk6630
    @nadiiabodnarchuk6630 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The pull to follow your path and you is strong, might be especially for those who lost in the ocean of their own inner world - pain, sensitivity, hope… people can say you guide them, or you are a light for them. And you have power and mind sharpness to do it, like magician. But I don’t feel the need to follow you, or you to be my teacher. Im just grateful you exist somewhere far away physically, but yet too close to me mentally and spiritually. I feel your power and I’m empowering myself from you, from what you are saying and how you articulate it. I have the same vision, but that vision was not given easily to me, it was obtained through solitude and pain of transformation… I would be happy to know you. Greetings from Ukraine ❤

  • @LitaSixx
    @LitaSixx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Yet when women try to be different, an individual, people will accuse them of being "not like the other girls" a term created to shame women and women only 🙄 being an individual is looked down upon and being a sheep is encouraged. Everyone being the same will destroy creativity for one, among other things but anyways. Thank you for this message 🖤

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Yeah it’s a parody of what we actually are. There is indeed a group of women who use individuality as a guise, but only they feel the need to force it down everyone’s throat. A true individual does it all for themselves, doesn’t mind who watches.

    • @Digbilso
      @Digbilso 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@HeavenSentHoney Perfectly put. I was recommended derry girls recently and in one of the scenes two of the school girls wear jean jackets to be 'individuals' among everyone wearing uniforms. One of them gets dress coded and the other says, well if you wont wear this jacket with me then i wont be an individual on my own, which left me thinking. I thought this whole thing WAS about being an individual, why are you all of the sudden not wanting to be one? Because you are not alone in it and you are not an individual. It was all for show for the other kids. They just wanted to seem cooler:/

  • @jennlt35
    @jennlt35 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is my favorite video of yours so far ❤ I love that you’re addressing the unhealthy competition amongst women in our society. It really is a waste of time, energy, and it’s above all very very sad. I love that you ended with the setting of us sitting together and whispering wisdom into each other’s ears in a sisterhood bond. I want that for all women of all ages.

  • @wyrdwitch13
    @wyrdwitch13 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Every flower in the garden is uniquely beautiful, no two are alike and each has it's own place to be. I also love the Jungian concept of the golden shadow, similar to what Nietzsche said regarding envy/admiration of others. I have been binge watching your catalogue of content, thanks for the satisfying soul food you create!

  • @brynncisewski6816
    @brynncisewski6816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    this video (like all your others) is perfection. im obsessed

  • @rayoobj8800
    @rayoobj8800 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    * I AM OF THE RACE OF WOMEN *👏

  • @wayawuffin
    @wayawuffin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    as i’ve gotten older, i’ve turned so much of that energy focused on how and why other women do what they do, inwards. i spent so much of my youth trying to grasp onto others for a sense of identity that i realized i knew very little about myself! now that i live alone and don’t have classmates i feel pressured to conform with, i’ve learned so much about my own inner world and it’s helped me so much in dulling that need to compare. anyway, yes yes yes and thank you for another great video!!

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      People really can be like a sickness if you’re around then too often. It’s like getting too much sun.

  • @Gabster1990
    @Gabster1990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have made friends of all types of looks and on thing we all have in common is to be loved and we all have our insecurities.

  • @MuseSunflower
    @MuseSunflower 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So many juicy quotes in here I'll have to save. You're the best dear 🥰

  • @s.w.126strawberry6
    @s.w.126strawberry6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Coming back to this video and still your words are pure gold to me, like poetry. I was thinking about how you use the word flesh (kind of obscure, I know) and I was thinking about all the distinctions the Greeks make in their language to describe the body and our functions and life, such as dianoia, noesis, anoesis, soma, Sarx (flesh, but with a mortal & sinful connotation), pneuma, psyche, Kurdish, orexis, psusche, Zoe, etc. I think you’d love this distinctions as much as I, so I just wanted to touch on it here a little. Thank you
    “Emulation over envy,” self-realization over all of that

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh my god! Thank you for this comment. It reminds me how BEHIND I am on the Greeks, shit. I have an article I have been procrastinating reading about “phantasia” and how it relates to I believe Aristotle’s works. Again I haven’t read it but you are reinforcing the necessity to look it over and stop wasting time haha.

  • @sof6694
    @sof6694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    it's always so nice to listen to anything you have to say

  • @Hellokittyy555
    @Hellokittyy555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Your words resonate deeply. I love this so much 💕

  • @julianaalmeida5758
    @julianaalmeida5758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your ideas resonate deeply with me. Until we figure out what it is that makes us us, as individuals, as entities, we are not able to serve others with something that is uniquely ours. If possible, I’d love to hear more about what you have to say on the whole “adopted nature” you mentioned. We live in a man’s world and I’d like to know what you think is ours and what you think has been embodied/must be resignified. Much love ❤️

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for the video idea. I’m going to have to make another post to see what kind of content you all want to see from me. When I do, I hope you’re notified so that you can write that idea in the comments!

  • @soyestee
    @soyestee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    u speak to my soul. thank u celine. xo

  • @Princessbubblegum567
    @Princessbubblegum567 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your channel is such a breath of fresh air. I've been really enjoying your videos since I discovered your channel

  • @zeynepozkan5385
    @zeynepozkan5385 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i feel like i have too many things to say but right now i just want to say that i love you and thank you for making these videos

  • @ladymonmorensi
    @ladymonmorensi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Girls should support girls ❤️ Thank you!

  • @Jwuicey
    @Jwuicey 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You’re so otherworldly 💕

  • @justicewokeisutterbs8641
    @justicewokeisutterbs8641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This would be a great channel to put you to sleep at night .

  • @jessicamasonsonneborn4864
    @jessicamasonsonneborn4864 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow I'ma transgender mtf person who loves being a woman and your words help me realize I've made the correct decision

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      🥲 I’m so happy for you, my god.

    • @jahmya58
      @jahmya58 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Congratulations btw ❤

  • @jiachen8001
    @jiachen8001 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can’t thank you enough for what this has made me reflect about my life

  • @valeriejan2329
    @valeriejan2329 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is one of the most insightful and articulate videos I've come across on this platform 👏

  • @kpayge5490
    @kpayge5490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is your best work.

  • @cleoharding
    @cleoharding 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I ADORE your videos

  • @divyatmikam7018
    @divyatmikam7018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    my ideal god is someone who excels in everything she does- i have worked years crafting this image of myself. yet i struggle with the concept of individualism- a key component to my image is being someone revered by everyone i meet. i'm scared that stepping back from social circles or not putting as much effort to please those around me will make me lose their favour. what are your thoughts?

    • @nataliesparks4829
      @nataliesparks4829 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      please if you are referring to the God of the bible use a capital letter G . there are other gods, so you have to be more specific. please and thank you

    • @divyatmikam7018
      @divyatmikam7018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nataliesparks4829 i'm not, but i'll keep that in mind! 'god' here refers to when celine talks about 'becoming your own god'

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dedication is more admirable than most things.

  • @haveaniceday2208
    @haveaniceday2208 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great messages here. Thank you!

  • @tatianalatreille9462
    @tatianalatreille9462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Needed this! Thank you 🙏💕

  • @sosi5710
    @sosi5710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is amaze ! 💗🌸✨💎

  • @theerarestjewel
    @theerarestjewel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bravo. Really loved this

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️ Thank you for watching babe.

  • @kaitlinmontgomery2750
    @kaitlinmontgomery2750 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are glorious ✨️ 🩵

  • @EtherianAdventuress
    @EtherianAdventuress 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am the crone. I am the crazy elder auntie. I danced upon a similar trail and want to know I love you.

  • @user-kd6tb2qx6v
    @user-kd6tb2qx6v 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ❤

  • @lanie5120
    @lanie5120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    could i share the link to this video on my instagram story?
    i loved the video, thank you 💗

    • @HeavenSentHoney
      @HeavenSentHoney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry it took so long to reply! Of course you can.

  • @megumimichelle8536
    @megumimichelle8536 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    is that your nature hair?

  • @okays297
    @okays297 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i love you

  • @gud6823
    @gud6823 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    yess

  • @1415gatewayable
    @1415gatewayable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh so this is what woman talk about when men aren't around... I'm on to you can't kill us all!! 😡

    • @emilywebb6826
      @emilywebb6826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      What the hell are you talking about

    • @1415gatewayable
      @1415gatewayable 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emilywebb6826 nothing, go back to sleep. It's a joke I did for a friend

    • @madisonj5136
      @madisonj5136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Eww

    • @1415gatewayable
      @1415gatewayable 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@madisonj5136 that's what your mother said when she saw my pipi

  • @iselamoli
    @iselamoli 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for creating this video 🩶 (and all of your others, too)

    • @iselamoli
      @iselamoli 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Also!!! Your makeup is so pretty