This channel is absolutely everything I’ve ever wanted. I’ve always strived to be a feminine woman, there’s something so strong and powerful in a woman affirmed in her femininity.
this comment genuinely made me say "...shucks" to myself, thank you!! Femininity is a glimmering mirage, we are beautiful because we always keep others guessing :)
Your brows are iconic. For me, brows have to be extreme, always. Either too thin or too thick. Either too straight or too arched. No in-betweens. Brows have to make a statement, that's the No1 rule of building your signature aesthetic✨️
My chronic backproblems basically forced me to take care of my body, to take time off, to look at myself, to basically see what I want out of life, to enjoy little things.... and to find your videos. All the things you're telling me are not new to me. But you help me to rediscover myself, basically. All things lead to another. 😉
I can feel your soul talking directly to me and that’s what I dream that others can feel when I talk to them. You have such a magical and dazzling presence
my notes: ❤️ spiritual medium: beauty that you feel ❤️cleopatra: voice and thearticalitt part 1: fudamentals of beauty ❤️ 1. grace: ease with how u interact with others and ur surroundings ❤️2. indifference: not caring about what other people think ( not being rude ) ❤️" masters of time" ❤️ease of interaction and distance from others ❤️ not abiding by the laws of this world ❤️ beauty is a discipline respecting your body " the sacred prostitute" " your beauty derives from a vital connection to the self" ❤️ not contanimated by the outside ❤️ dedication to yourself ❤️ take care of your brain; self reflection. read a book, watch films; expand your experience ❤️ gratification comes from your own accomplishments ❤️ don't dwell on your mistakes ❤️antidote to embarssment is humour part 2: beauty in theatre 1. develop your persona - soild character 2. appearance - GO ALL THE WAY -maintain it 3. movement & language ❤️ your body says what words cannot ❤️ language is a tool of deception - prop up your persona - an art, the gravity ❤️ fluidity and ambiguous; concise THE ACT
I can’t believe I just found this channel, this is exactly the type of thing I geek out on and find fascinating. You give great tips….I’ve gotten to a point in my life where I’ve learned to enable alter egos to convey most of this. They work like a charm to kinda help you get “in character” for different situations in life, I’ve found. And the thing about body language is crucial. I’m a dancer so I’ve been trained to be aware of my body movements at all times, and believe movement is key, not just in how others view us but how we feel about ourselves. It’s amazing what you can convey with non-verbals alone (including eyes and facial expressions). It often says so much more than words could ever say. I’ve also noticed that asymmetrical body postures tend to be the sexiest, most alluring . So; a cock of the head, a tilt of of the shoulder, etc. Maybe that’s why Marilyn Monroe cut one of her heels down-to keep her body in a constant asymmetrical position. Anyway now I’m gonna have to go and watch more if your vids!
I've been binge watching your videos and I just love the way you see the world!! You talk about beauty and self concept in a way that no other youtuber talks about and it really resonates with me as a 21 year old young woman. I think appearance is very important but not in a sense that others have to like your appearance but more like you yourself have to feel confident and comfortable in your body...
i love all your videos that ive seen so far, i love how you seem to see life like movie in which you get to play whatever character you want and its fascinating
I am extremely thankful that I found your channel not only have i found someone who talks about topics I am interested in but also you explain things I have always felt but couldn't put it in words and you have greatly explanded my understanding about being beautiful and the character ❤️ thank you ❤️
I just found you through your more recent videos randomly popping up in my suggestions. I hope you are incredibly proud of yourself. Your content is intriguing, and your growth is impressive. From here to there the embodiment of your intention is so fluid. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I can't express how much I love all the videos on this channel that I've seen so far!!! The subjects and the scripting and just everything is so,,, finesse
“Having peace of mind” I have never had that peace of my mind in my life due to my family financial situation and it does create a lot of anxiety and fear and it causes a lot of uncertainty :’)
These concepts , this philosophy you present are so in line with other favorites of mine. And you help bring those philosophies into another light that brings more perspective and understanding into myself about them. I believe you are just beginning, and you are becoming more awesome. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for being bold. Thank you for "doing it".
I love everything you said, it's someone I wish I could be. I'm too much of a "realist", someone who only does things if it "makes sense" based on facts and principal and not on how I feel. I think if I were more in touch with my emotions, this would be easier for me but I am too stoic by nature.
The brain is able to change at any moment. You just need to re programme your neural pathways. You can be that if you want to and prepared to spend the time on it. Dr Joe dispensa is somewhere you can start - wishing you lots of good luck! ❤
id love to hear your thoughts on why being ethereal y specifically important for ARTISTS of all branches. Big fan of your videos and as always i love hearing your two cents on topics of beauty and aesthetic living.
I didn’t think you came across as following a script so your hard work in cultivating your mysterious ethereal persona has paid off. The optics for me is; you look like a very self disciplined ballet teacher imparting her talents, passion and knowledge to her students in a no nonsense direct and strict manner yet delivered with a good dose of a nurturing and caring attitude towards your beloved young ballerinas and with a splash of humour and playful enthusiasm. The part about language and how to use it to either communicate truth or obfuscate and obscure and how that relates to theatre and presentation is deep. Your suggestion on not being shy to embellish around strangers is a wise piece of advice. By doing so, you’re giving yourself the opportunity to expand your persona, have a play, try didn’t philosophical ideas or narratives on for size, experiment with your stage presence. It’s so much fun. It’s actually the essence of stand up comedy. As a Scorpio woman (who has a lot of Scorpio placements in my natal chart) I have a magnetism that people can’t explain other than to say that I have an air of mystery about me, (so I’ve been told time and time again) even though I’m also known as the bubbly girl next door, the lady laugher (a very honorary title amongst the comedians) in the comedy scene, and I glide across the floor as I walk. It comes naturally…but also I’m a Tiger in Chinese zodiac and I believe in that stuff so it only stands to reason that I have a bit of a natural catwalk even though one of my legs is slightly clubbed causing me to swing my hips in a certain way that stands out subtly but is eluding to the male gaze. The point I’m making is that there are girls way much prettier than me but I guess it’s my deep dark eyes and my natural “I don’t give a damn what anyone thinks” attitude that keeps them guessing. And my favourite pastime is engaging in deep and meaningful conversations with all walks of life and taking a real interest in people as they share their deepest dirtiest secrets. I love secrets…every one else’s secrets but I’m very uncomfortable with them knowing mine. 😁 Also I have been described as being highly authentic. I think it’s my superpower. But I also think it’s a Scorpio thing for me.
I love your explanation of yourself. I'm also a Scorpio and I instinctively carry similar traits that are rare among women. People often say I light up a room when I come in. They want to be near me. They admire me. Men are drawn to me without any provocation on my part. I've always been unique and different and as I've grown older, I embrace who I am in totality. I am a Scorpio. I am an Empress. I am a Muse. I am Rare.
I love glamour and artifice on others and as a concept but not for me. I prefer to let my nature "beauty" or state just be. Of course, grooming and hygiene are a given, but I have never worn makeup and never will. I prefer health and God's mastery to represent my beauty. I trust my DNA if I am making myself clear. I don't think my view aligns with is, or does it? I would love to hear your or anyone else's thoughts! I feel a truly physically beautiful human doesn't need artifce. Artificial beauty is not pure physical beauty at all. Criterion example: If one has children, it will not be pasted down. Nature does not need " makeup" to be beautiful. It just is. It's beauty has lasted from time immemorial. Now, style I am completely into!
I know this is a very old video but the intentional creation of a persona is a no-win situation because you’ll never get the sense that people love the true YOU.
You're not LISTENING, and have thus - predictably - missed the point entirely: you shouldn't NEED others to love or to "see" or KNOW you - the ethereal doesn't rely on external validation to give its life purpose or meaning; its value is inherent, and is not determined or influenced by the opinions of others. Its truth remains true, whether or not others willingly accept it as such; one can believe that the Earth is flat all they'd like - this belief has no impact on the Earth's true shape; it will still be round tomorrow, as it always has and always will be. And the ethereal don't need to source their significance, power, or worth through others - they already possess those things in abundance, in their natural state. Their contentment and self worth don't have to be manufactured with tools and ingredients borrowed from others; they already have all that they need to accomplish this, held within them. The ethereal understand that the opinions of others rely entirely on the opiner's genetics; their environment, experiences, and memories; their deeply held biases, flawed logic, unrealistic expectations, hasty conclusions, and preconceived notions; the accuracy and scope of the data in their possession (and their individual ability to analyze &, comprehend same); their current emotional state, unique brain chemistry, and hormonal im/balance; their political & religious beliefs systems; their motivations, goals, fears, and desires; and their own sense of selves, and the unique ways in which they experience and interpret their OWN realities... But the one factor that others' opinions have little to nothing to do with is who YOU are as a person - and, as such, they are in no way an accurate or reliable depiction of, and nor do they reflect on, your true identity or value. Others' opinion about you dont actually concern you, and, consequentially - you should be as unconcerned and unbothered by them - and as uninterested and incurious to know them - as you are by what Bob from Miami (a silly and unimportant little man who youve never met, and never will - and would have forgotten within seconds, even if you had) ate for lunch yesterday - this info is meaningless to anyone who isnt Bob - and thus, it is beneath your notice. As my grandma - one of the most naturally and inherently feminine and ethereal women I've ever met (and I've had cause to meet a LOT of feminine and ethereal women in my life) - always said: other people's opinions about you are none of your business. A goddess/deity doesn't fret over or wonder if she is loved by humankind - despite their inability to truly know or understand her - she simply IS. The creator of this video talks extensively on the value and power of indifference, passivity - not in their current vernacular (where indifference implies callousness, and where passivity implies weakness), but in the sense that the external (not just others' thoughts and actions, but also the things that happen TO us, the events outside of our control) should have no power or influence over you. The ethereal fashion their own reality, and tell their own truth. They are their own god, and their reality is exactly as they've fashioned it. Their your truth is as they say it is, and their knowledge is both absolute, and entirely self-contained. They are uncontrollable, uncatchable - they cannot be pinned down, one cannot wrap their head around them, and nor can they be crammed into a box. The ethereal cannot be captured any more than a one can hold captive a beam of light. The ethereal cannot be controlled any more than any human could hope to control a hurricane. And the ethereal cannot be truly known or understood any more than one can understand or know the source of dreams. The ethereal are a world unto themselves - otherworldliness embodied - separate, self-contained, and self-certain (the video creator also discusses the quality and value of being self-contained at length). The ethereal is too rare, too complex, too powerful to be described, defined, or dissected by mere humans - peons, really; one could spend a hundred years shadowing their every move, and be no closer to knowing or understanding them in truth. To be ethereal is to be INSCRUTABLE. This is what the video creator means, when she talks about mystery, secrecy, isolation, self-containment, indifference, passivity - THIS is the ethereal and the feminine practice of creating a persona, crafting a mask, and controlling the narrative.... Capice?
@@elizabethstubbscp9184 ethereal isn’t a real thing. What you described is AT BEST, a form of visualization similar to the concept of chi in martial arts, in order to achieve a state. At worst… it’s a delusion. If you actually convinced yourself that because you “ethereal” you ACTUALLY don’t care that the true you is understood and appreciated, then unfortunately I’d venture you’re delusional.
I find your mind to be like an extraordinary palace with many locked doors--what is on show in the parlour, however, is extraordinary, ornate, beautiful and precious. I've been binging your videos--you have such a unique and beautiful way of looking at things. I do have a question on your opinion about something--do you think a certain shyness can ever be played to one's advantage? Let's say we are talking about a woman with a very girlish, ingenue essence. There isn't indifference there, but to your mind is there any charm in it?
There is absolutely indifference associated with shyness, naïveté, and girlhood or youthfulness. I've always taken inspiration from children for their literal lack of awareness. Their indifference is pure because they have so sense of self yet. The qualities you mentioned can absolutely be played to your advantage. In a woman, it's what people used to call "coy".
I love this video, I have one question though, what is the difference between theatre or what you call theatrical performance with performatism* (*the one you spoke of in another vid and how it's unhelpful for a feminine woman)
That’s a great question actually. Performatism is done solely for the approval of others while Theatricality is a way to express yourself in a more stylistic and enhanced way. Performatism is adapting a false persona you don’t truly identify with while theatricality plays off of qualities you already have and admire in yourself. Hope that makes sense!
I‘m binge watching your videos 🧡😍 do you think you can make a video on aging? I‘m 37 and feel bombarded with messages that I won’t be beautiful or desirable anymore
As I am still young I don’t feel like I have anything to say on that subject because I don’t have personal experience with aging. Although I know it’s especially hard on women, and the onset of aging anxiety is early for us, I can only give you my perspective at face value. I would love to tell you fear of aging is bullshit. Or that women are generally more confident and feel more connected to their true self and their sexuality as they age. I can say those things but I can’t attest to the horror many women feel, something I’m sure I will come face to face with myself. All I can really offer is the generic advice of learn to embrace it and feel confident at your age.
I,a woman all the way in Nigeria is reading your comment,and hoping you'll see this.Its June 2024 and if your still here think of all the people that didn't make it.Women generally look better as they age.As long as you're living a healthy lifestyle and you feel good in your body.Thats the secret.❤❤
What if you can't stop using the f word people get the wrong impression when you say that word they think you're a freaking truck driver it's a hard word to stop❤😊 new subscriber here thank you beautiful 😎
Listening on AirPods.oh my gosh the sound from you video is as a wave undulating and a high pitch whistle,disorienting and un-comfortable to listen to,ty.
“You wake up with it. You leave the house with it. You go to bed with it. Take it seriously.” 🔥
If you HAVE IT…
@@Dayieou You have it
This channel is absolutely everything I’ve ever wanted. I’ve always strived to be a feminine woman, there’s something so strong and powerful in a woman affirmed in her femininity.
this comment genuinely made me say "...shucks" to myself, thank you!! Femininity is a glimmering mirage, we are beautiful because we always keep others guessing :)
Yess this space is absolutely divine 🥰🥰
The makeup is giving Jean Harlow and I love it so much
Your brows are iconic.
For me, brows have to be extreme, always. Either too thin or too thick. Either too straight or too arched. No in-betweens. Brows have to make a statement, that's the No1 rule of building your signature aesthetic✨️
“No one wants Mary in the middle.”
I love your method of delivery. Truly entertaining and original. Brava 👏
My chronic backproblems basically forced me to take care of my body, to take time off, to look at myself, to basically see what I want out of life, to enjoy little things.... and to find your videos. All the things you're telling me are not new to me. But you help me to rediscover myself, basically. All things lead to another. 😉
Happy I could do that for ya!
I can feel your soul talking directly to me and that’s what I dream that others can feel when I talk to them. You have such a magical and dazzling presence
Oh my god thank you ❤️❤️❤️
Oh I’m gonna binge this whole series rn actually, im excited
PLEASE DO ❤
my notes:
❤️ spiritual medium: beauty that you feel
❤️cleopatra: voice and thearticalitt
part 1: fudamentals of beauty
❤️ 1. grace: ease with how u interact with others and ur surroundings
❤️2. indifference: not caring about what other people think ( not being rude )
❤️" masters of time"
❤️ease of interaction and distance from others
❤️ not abiding by the laws of this world
❤️ beauty is a discipline respecting your body
" the sacred prostitute"
" your beauty derives from a vital connection to the self"
❤️ not contanimated by the outside
❤️ dedication to yourself
❤️ take care of your brain; self reflection. read a book, watch films; expand your experience
❤️ gratification comes from your own accomplishments
❤️ don't dwell on your mistakes
❤️antidote to embarssment is humour
part 2: beauty in theatre
1. develop your persona
- soild character
2. appearance
- GO ALL THE WAY
-maintain it
3. movement & language
❤️ your body says what words cannot
❤️ language is a tool of deception
- prop up your persona
- an art, the gravity
❤️ fluidity and ambiguous; concise
THE ACT
💋💋💋tysm
I can’t believe I just found this channel, this is exactly the type of thing I geek out on and find fascinating. You give great tips….I’ve gotten to a point in my life where I’ve learned to enable alter egos to convey most of this. They work like a charm to kinda help you get “in character” for different situations in life, I’ve found. And the thing about body language is crucial. I’m a dancer so I’ve been trained to be aware of my body movements at all times, and believe movement is key, not just in how others view us but how we feel about ourselves. It’s amazing what you can convey with non-verbals alone (including eyes and facial expressions). It often says so much more than words could ever say. I’ve also noticed that asymmetrical body postures tend to be the sexiest, most alluring . So; a cock of the head, a tilt of of the shoulder, etc. Maybe that’s why Marilyn Monroe cut one of her heels down-to keep her body in a constant asymmetrical position. Anyway now I’m gonna have to go and watch more if your vids!
Thank you for being here love!
there’s definitely something magnetic about your voice. i just want to listen to you. your voice is assertive but gentle
You look like a divine, mystic lady! !!!💐💐💐
THANK YOU SO MUCH!
true
I've been binge watching your videos and I just love the way you see the world!! You talk about beauty and self concept in a way that no other youtuber talks about and it really resonates with me as a 21 year old young woman. I think appearance is very important but not in a sense that others have to like your appearance but more like you yourself have to feel confident and comfortable in your body...
i love all your videos that ive seen so far, i love how you seem to see life like movie in which you get to play whatever character you want and its fascinating
YOU are so SWEET
@@HeavenSentHoney thankyouuuu i was jjust saying the truth tho
Yes she is very refreshing it’s beautiful
I am extremely thankful that I found your channel not only have i found someone who talks about topics I am interested in but also you explain things I have always felt but couldn't put it in words and you have greatly explanded my understanding about being beautiful and the character ❤️ thank you ❤️
I just found you through your more recent videos randomly popping up in my suggestions. I hope you are incredibly proud of yourself. Your content is intriguing, and your growth is impressive. From here to there the embodiment of your intention is so fluid. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
i’m so thankfull for this channel just every detail is talk something about beauty speak to my soul
I can't express how much I love all the videos on this channel that I've seen so far!!! The subjects and the scripting and just everything is so,,, finesse
hahaha appreciate it!
This channel goes hand in hand with focusing on self concept. I like to hear you speak as I'm getting ready/unready. Thanks you so so much
You’ve come such a far way!! So proud of you and your growth, you’ve already helped me and so many so much🩷
This video is exactly what I’ve been needing, thank you so much for sharing. I’m so excited to see more of your videos.
excited to share babe
Girl this doesn’t sound scripted at all. You are doing amazing 🩵👽
Such a refreshing and daring view of femininity... you're gorgeous) So well-read an eloquent 🤗
I love subtle simple soft beauty.
i would love to read a book by you! i feel like this video is exactly what i needed rn
you are a genius actually
I needed this so much. You’re amazing. I love your channel
Ethereal beauty can be hard to cultivate in the modern world! Great job!
I appreciate so much how you constantly invoke respect -- respect for your body, respect for the process, etc
You are heaven sent. I love your subtle boldness and unapologetic message. Brava! ❤
couldn't tell that what you were saying was scripted, you said it so well and your beauty is captivating. Much love 💜
“Having peace of mind”
I have never had that peace of my mind in my life due to my family financial situation and it does create a lot of anxiety and fear and it causes a lot of uncertainty :’)
Absolutely loved this video! Keep it up girl!💕
Thank you 🥺
These concepts , this philosophy you present are so in line with other favorites of mine. And you help bring those philosophies into another light that brings more perspective and understanding into myself about them. I believe you are just beginning, and you are becoming more awesome. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for being bold. Thank you for "doing it".
Gorgeous elucidation! Thank you for making this. And I absolutely love how you ended it
I just found this channel today and I'm in LOVE!!! ❤
I’ve just happened upon your channel, and I feel like my life is about to change 😌
I sure hope so!
Same
🙂↕️
i am so glad i came across this wonderful video ❤️ thank you so much for this
You're so welcome!
I liked the video. I also appreciate your transparency. I find it adds to a person’s charisma. 😊
I love everything you said, it's someone I wish I could be. I'm too much of a "realist", someone who only does things if it "makes sense" based on facts and principal and not on how I feel. I think if I were more in touch with my emotions, this would be easier for me but I am too stoic by nature.
The brain is able to change at any moment. You just need to re programme your neural pathways. You can be that if you want to and prepared to spend the time on it. Dr Joe dispensa is somewhere you can start - wishing you lots of good luck! ❤
Dispenza
It’s so wonderful that you’re doing what you’re doing. I’m a new fan.
9:30 I needed to hear that. Thank you!
THANK YOUUU ❤ love the content. Sending you lots of love 💕
This is the first video I’ve come across like this that isn’t super flowery wording. This feels so much more substantial to chew on.
I just wanna say THANK YOU QUEEN💋
id love to hear your thoughts on why being ethereal y specifically important for ARTISTS of all branches. Big fan of your videos and as always i love hearing your two cents on topics of beauty and aesthetic living.
no one can do it like you. thank you so much
I’ve gained so much wisdom from this. Ily ❤
I wish i discovered your videos when i was 18. I could have used this advice a long time ago.
I didn’t think you came across as following a script so your hard work in cultivating your mysterious ethereal persona has paid off.
The optics for me is; you look like a very self disciplined ballet teacher imparting her talents, passion and knowledge to her students in a no nonsense direct and strict manner yet delivered with a good dose of a nurturing and caring attitude towards your beloved young ballerinas and with a splash of humour and playful enthusiasm.
The part about language and how to use it to either communicate truth or obfuscate and obscure and how that relates to theatre and presentation is deep. Your suggestion on not being shy to embellish around strangers is a wise piece of advice. By doing so, you’re giving yourself the opportunity to expand your persona, have a play, try didn’t philosophical ideas or narratives on for size, experiment with your stage presence.
It’s so much fun. It’s actually the essence of stand up comedy. As a Scorpio woman (who has a lot of Scorpio placements in my natal chart) I have a magnetism that people can’t explain other than to say that I have an air of mystery about me, (so I’ve been told time and time again) even though I’m also known as the bubbly girl next door, the lady laugher (a very honorary title amongst the comedians) in the comedy scene, and I glide across the floor as I walk.
It comes naturally…but also I’m a Tiger in Chinese zodiac and I believe in that stuff so it only stands to reason that I have a bit of a natural catwalk even though one of my legs is slightly clubbed causing me to swing my hips in a certain way that stands out subtly but is eluding to the male gaze.
The point I’m making is that there are girls way much prettier than me but I guess it’s my deep dark eyes and my natural “I don’t give a damn what anyone thinks” attitude that keeps them guessing.
And my favourite pastime is engaging in deep and meaningful conversations with all walks of life and taking a real interest in people as they share their deepest dirtiest secrets. I love secrets…every one else’s secrets but I’m very uncomfortable with them knowing mine. 😁
Also I have been described as being highly authentic. I think it’s my superpower. But I also think it’s a Scorpio thing for me.
I love your explanation of yourself. I'm also a Scorpio and I instinctively carry similar traits that are rare among women. People often say I light up a room when I come in. They want to be near me. They admire me. Men are drawn to me without any provocation on my part. I've always been unique and different and as I've grown older, I embrace who I am in totality.
I am a Scorpio.
I am an Empress.
I am a Muse.
I am Rare.
@@scorpio-girl687
❤️ it.
Fantastic job...thank you...you have covered it all , very inspiring!! peace J
Glad you enjoyed it!
I love glamour and artifice on others and as a concept but not for me.
I prefer to let my nature "beauty" or state just be. Of course, grooming and hygiene are a given, but I have never worn makeup and never will.
I prefer health and God's mastery to represent my beauty. I trust my DNA if I am making myself clear.
I don't think my view aligns with is, or does it? I would love to hear your or anyone else's thoughts!
I feel a truly physically beautiful human doesn't need artifce. Artificial beauty is not pure physical beauty at all.
Criterion example: If one has children, it will not be pasted down. Nature does not need " makeup" to be beautiful. It just is. It's beauty has lasted from time immemorial.
Now, style I am completely into!
your videos are amazing!
thank you!
the MM fact is fascinating, never knew that
Absolutely love you! Hope your success carries on and dont forget up when your famous 😂❣
I’ll never forget anyone who listens to my babble in front of a camera every week! Thank you so much!
loved this video!! grateful to have found your channel and to learn with you😻❣️✨
I know this is a very old video but the intentional creation of a persona is a no-win situation because you’ll never get the sense that people love the true YOU.
You're not LISTENING, and have thus - predictably - missed the point entirely: you shouldn't NEED others to love or to "see" or KNOW you - the ethereal doesn't rely on external validation to give its life purpose or meaning; its value is inherent, and is not determined or influenced by the opinions of others. Its truth remains true, whether or not others willingly accept it as such; one can believe that the Earth is flat all they'd like - this belief has no impact on the Earth's true shape; it will still be round tomorrow, as it always has and always will be. And the ethereal don't need to source their significance, power, or worth through others - they already possess those things in abundance, in their natural state. Their contentment and self worth don't have to be manufactured with tools and ingredients borrowed from others; they already have all that they need to accomplish this, held within them.
The ethereal understand that the opinions of others rely entirely on the opiner's genetics; their environment, experiences, and memories; their deeply held biases, flawed logic, unrealistic expectations, hasty conclusions, and preconceived notions; the accuracy and scope of the data in their possession (and their individual ability to analyze &, comprehend same); their current emotional state, unique brain chemistry, and hormonal im/balance; their political & religious beliefs systems; their motivations, goals, fears, and desires; and their own sense of selves, and the unique ways in which they experience and interpret their OWN realities... But the one factor that others' opinions have little to nothing to do with is who YOU are as a person - and, as such, they are in no way an accurate or reliable depiction of, and nor do they reflect on, your true identity or value. Others' opinion about you dont actually concern you, and, consequentially - you should be as unconcerned and unbothered by them - and as uninterested and incurious to know them - as you are by what Bob from Miami (a silly and unimportant little man who youve never met, and never will - and would have forgotten within seconds, even if you had) ate for lunch yesterday - this info is meaningless to anyone who isnt Bob - and thus, it is beneath your notice. As my grandma - one of the most naturally and inherently feminine and ethereal women I've ever met (and I've had cause to meet a LOT of feminine and ethereal women in my life) - always said: other people's opinions about you are none of your business. A goddess/deity doesn't fret over or wonder if she is loved by humankind - despite their inability to truly know or understand her - she simply IS.
The creator of this video talks extensively on the value and power of indifference, passivity - not in their current vernacular (where indifference implies callousness, and where passivity implies weakness), but in the sense that the external (not just others' thoughts and actions, but also the things that happen TO us, the events outside of our control) should have no power or influence over you. The ethereal fashion their own reality, and tell their own truth. They are their own god, and their reality is exactly as they've fashioned it. Their your truth is as they say it is, and their knowledge is both absolute, and entirely self-contained. They are uncontrollable, uncatchable - they cannot be pinned down, one cannot wrap their head around them, and nor can they be crammed into a box. The ethereal cannot be captured any more than a one can hold captive a beam of light. The ethereal cannot be controlled any more than any human could hope to control a hurricane. And the ethereal cannot be truly known or understood any more than one can understand or know the source of dreams. The ethereal are a world unto themselves - otherworldliness embodied - separate, self-contained, and self-certain (the video creator also discusses the quality and value of being self-contained at length). The ethereal is too rare, too complex, too powerful to be described, defined, or dissected by mere humans - peons, really; one could spend a hundred years shadowing their every move, and be no closer to knowing or understanding them in truth. To be ethereal is to be INSCRUTABLE. This is what the video creator means, when she talks about mystery, secrecy, isolation, self-containment, indifference, passivity - THIS is the ethereal and the feminine practice of creating a persona, crafting a mask, and controlling the narrative.... Capice?
@@elizabethstubbscp9184 ethereal isn’t a real thing. What you described is AT BEST, a form of visualization similar to the concept of chi in martial arts, in order to achieve a state. At worst… it’s a delusion. If you actually convinced yourself that because you “ethereal” you ACTUALLY don’t care that the true you is understood and appreciated, then unfortunately I’d venture you’re delusional.
And thus rob yourself of true intimacy.
There is so much wisdom here
You did an excellent job I learned a lot! 💝
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the content is sooo good I didn't give a shit about the audio lol
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As a feminine gay man this feels really extraordinary ❤
This is great, such good advice. ❤ thank you!!
loved it! great job :)
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I love your makeup!
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I commented doll before you said it near the end of the video lol 🙏💋
Ur purrrrrfect 😘
I find your mind to be like an extraordinary palace with many locked doors--what is on show in the parlour, however, is extraordinary, ornate, beautiful and precious. I've been binging your videos--you have such a unique and beautiful way of looking at things. I do have a question on your opinion about something--do you think a certain shyness can ever be played to one's advantage? Let's say we are talking about a woman with a very girlish, ingenue essence. There isn't indifference there, but to your mind is there any charm in it?
There is absolutely indifference associated with shyness, naïveté, and girlhood or youthfulness. I've always taken inspiration from children for their literal lack of awareness. Their indifference is pure because they have so sense of self yet. The qualities you mentioned can absolutely be played to your advantage. In a woman, it's what people used to call "coy".
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I love your videos soo much that I need to repeat 😌💖💖
I could really educate some pages into queens… Queens into EMPRESSES❤❤
I absolutely love you. Your allure. Your channel. I have found a new muse
I've never been a muse and I'm excited
It’s a gift to be a woman ❤️
I love this video, I have one question though, what is the difference between theatre or what you call theatrical performance with performatism* (*the one you spoke of in another vid and how it's unhelpful for a feminine woman)
That’s a great question actually. Performatism is done solely for the approval of others while Theatricality is a way to express yourself in a more stylistic and enhanced way. Performatism is adapting a false persona you don’t truly identify with while theatricality plays off of qualities you already have and admire in yourself. Hope that makes sense!
Book recommendations please?
Do you play or know about Dungeons and Dragons? You would have a fun time creating a character, and I think you would take to the theatre of it
I love the mannequin analogy
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Well done, mam!
I haven’t worn makeup in five years, you should look into Zen Buddhism it may provide further answers for you
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I‘m binge watching your videos 🧡😍 do you think you can make a video on aging? I‘m 37 and feel bombarded with messages that I won’t be beautiful or desirable anymore
As I am still young I don’t feel like I have anything to say on that subject because I don’t have personal experience with aging. Although I know it’s especially hard on women, and the onset of aging anxiety is early for us, I can only give you my perspective at face value. I would love to tell you fear of aging is bullshit. Or that women are generally more confident and feel more connected to their true self and their sexuality as they age. I can say those things but I can’t attest to the horror many women feel, something I’m sure I will come face to face with myself. All I can really offer is the generic advice of learn to embrace it and feel confident at your age.
I,a woman all the way in Nigeria is reading your comment,and hoping you'll see this.Its June 2024 and if your still here think of all the people that didn't make it.Women generally look better as they age.As long as you're living a healthy lifestyle and you feel good in your body.Thats the secret.❤❤
this bra is so pretty on u
what do you mean by try and be fluid with your words?
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Ever thought of going blonde? You're so pretty already though, lovely content too ❤
What if you can't stop using the f word people get the wrong impression when you say that word they think you're a freaking truck driver it's a hard word to stop❤😊 new subscriber here thank you beautiful 😎
Listening on AirPods.oh my gosh the sound from you video is as a wave undulating and a high pitch whistle,disorienting and un-comfortable to listen to,ty.
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Doll 💘
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@@HeavenSentHoney can guys be ethereal?
@@themajorcampaign2774 of course, for men it's mastering your feminine side.
You remind me of Amanda bynes, voice too.
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DID U READ 9 TYPES OF SEDUCERS?
I read the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene
that details the different archetypes yes
yasss i knew it, glad to see more people know abt himmmm
@@bluebear4961 all of his books are fantastic, in the middle of Mastery too, changed my life.
I want to be a sade adu
You should want to be yourself