I hate it when people say the word successful. The balance at the end of your life shouldn't be what you did as a career, but how kind and helpful you were to the world.
100% the most important thing. the only people we will be remembered by are those closest to us and the ones we’re kind to. and the only people that you’ll remember really are the ones who are like that too. successful careers are great, but as long as you can support yourself and support a partner who cares how much you earn, or what job you do. there seems to be way too much emphasis on how careers define people
Yes but those things are relatively easy. Not everybody does them, but you’re supposed to be there for your family. To be “successful” you have be better than average. You have to do things that others can’t or won’t do. It’s not that family life isn’t hard, but often times the only thing that gets in the way of that is oneself.
He is very good looking. She’s average. He also has charisma and is a sweetheart. I don’t like th at she is critical. I would have been interested in giving this man a chance. His ex did him dirty. Married and doesn’t even try to work it out after all his devotion, crudely cutting it off. Seems too she was on the narcissistic scale with him kissing her ass. Loving man. I hope he finds a good woman
Puh-lease!! He even admitted himself that his teeth are dire! That’s great that he’s at least insightful about this! Good teeth in a partner are a must for most people, stop making this something that it’s not, she was complimentary too! IMO he should have waited until his teeth were done.
This was easily the most brutal first date ever. He brutally said he might like to give it another go, have a second date, and she brutally agreed. So they probably will. How brutal is that? I need a drink.
Oooorr, there was no fight.. That's not the right word but there was no challenge. I don't care for it when my husband is always a yes man. I do want him to have his own opinions once in a while.. So that maybe part of the problem or one thinks they're compliant but to others they are not. 🤷🏻♀️
Puh-lease!! He even admitted himself that his teeth are dire! That’s great that he’s at least insightful about this! Good teeth in a partner are a must for most people, not to mention are important for health ! Stop making this something that it’s not, she was very complimentary too! IMO he should have waited until his teeth were done.
She was a little to harsh for his teeth. She by no means is perfection herself. But really why tf did the editors really need to show everyone’s nice teeth after her snarky comment 😭 THAT WAS BRUTAL 😅
Let's face it, when looking for a lasting relationship, good hair, good teeth, and bedroom eyes are absolutely essential. Good morals, honesty, integrity...ahhh...who needs it!
To be fair, his wants were also shallow. “Nice legs, good boobs, good background, good BREEDING” (despite him not being from the same background). Deserve each other I guess?
@@AndSoWeLaughed - Absolutely! It goes both ways. Knowing what I know, I would be scared to death if I were a Woman trying to date in the cesspool of 'Men' out there!
My man had really bad teeth, but that didn’t bother me because he has the best heart. What did bother me was his teeth health, he grew up in a home where he wasn’t taught to brush his teeth, and that’s why his teeth got almost black. I just sat down and told him we need to talk because i am worried about your teeth health (very politely) and we live in Norway, the prices are sky high here. He agreed and we went to the dentist, and he got an estimated price: 7000 dollars to fix all his health problems (he had pain) and i told him i just want your teeth to be HEALTHY so you can feel better, i don’t care about anything else. Well, let me tell you that his health and way of living has improved SO MUCH. His teeth are not the whitest or straightest, but they are healthy now! If he wants to «make them prettier», that’s up to him and i’ll love him no matter what.
She worked 14 to 17 hour days all her life, now it's her "me time" Most workaholics are doing those hours because they like to work, not because they have to. Her whole life has been me time. Her perfect date would be a set of dentures in a wine glass
@Oskar winters You don't understand what a workaholic is Wanting to do a good job and taking pride in your work are not attributes of a workaholic. It's like any other addiction. If your husband is working those hours believe me, something else is going on in his psyche.19 hours a ay for 9 years? Sorry but you don't need to be a psychiatrist to know that that behaviour is pathological.
@@nigel4776 I believe a little introspection is in order, being a workaholic. You would have to determine why you developed this behavior. It is usually something in one's formative years that sets one up for this unhealthy way of living. Firstly you have to want to break this lifestyle. Then I would suggest hypnotherapy sessions to seek the answer for the need of working such a ghastly amount of hours in your life (what a waste). You notice i didn't suggest Psychiatrist, as I believe most need one themselves. One's answers are always within.
@@treelover4615 I believe that employing a little more focus and attention when you're reading is in order. Not sure what gives you the idea that I'm a workaholic. I'm not. But hopefully someone will find your advice useful. I would suggest meditation and maybe a visit to your G.P. to address your comprehension issue.
@@nigel4776 Nigel, I apologize. That was not meant as a judgment for you. It was meant as a metaphorical person that is driven to work at the expense of most anything else in their individual lives. Should have been more one's in place of you's. And possibly a poor analytical attempt.
@@treelover4615 Thanks for the apology, manners are small morals and seem to be out of vogue in thee digital age. Have a wonderful Christmas, don't work too hard, I certainly won't be! :)
Fair enough he has said he's getting his teeth done. But he seems nice to me. I hope he finds a woman that ticks all his boxes, and vice versa. I hope he ends up happy.
@MissX33 I didn't either as a kid, but as an adult, teeth come first. Bad teeth can give all kinds of serious health problems, as well as really turning people off in a big way. 'Care Credit' them if necessary!
It's the way he said: I'm having my teeth straightened and whitened next. I need to look good for a "young" lady don't I" 😂😂... when he knows that his date is in her mid 50s! The look on her face after he said that - priceless 😂😂
I'm not quite sure he meant it that way, but rather as a turn of phrase he is used to using and doesn't even think properly about. He might of kicked himself on reflection in the car on the way home. However, if he did mean it literally the only way he will manage that is if he is wealthy or he goes the mail order route. Young women have standards and requirements too and that doesn't usually include old age pensioners unless the young women is compromised in some way.
These 2 cracked me up! They didn't cut through the chase, very blunt and upfront to say the least. I liked how he threw right back at her about the sunglasses after she made the teeth comment. I think she appreciated that as well. Shows he was not a push-over.
I agree. I actually thought they were good together. Nice teeth are important. I want to be attracted to a smile and think how much I want to smooch that guy. Yellow, awful or no teeth would be a no go.
I don't see this going anywhere. She may be "semi-retired" but she's still into managing everything. He's more relaxed, laid back and far less driven than she is.
I dont know, IMHO, someone who says that about herself needs to clarify what exactly she feels men are intimidated by--- is it her autonomy, assertiveness, knowledge, money, education, success--- what? I usually intimidate men who think I am a dumb woman. I am very soft spoken and usually men think I have little intelligence. Once the conversation gets rolling and they realize my soft spokeness has nothing to do with my IQ or general knowledge of the world the look on their faces changes drastically and they normally walk away. I live in an urban area with many foreigners, and it is the foreigners (my own race since I am a foreigner also) who cannot deal with my being a woman and having autonomy and opinions. I love watching these old dating shows. They are a wonderful window into human behavior. I also enjoy the little gems of wisdom from the comment section. 😏⭐️
She should know by her age you never, ever start banging on about your exes on a 1st date! She seems completely uninterested in kowing anything about him, poor bloke!
she was not a bitch. she complemented him a lot and agreed to meet him again. so what if she said his teeth were horrible? they were. can you not see that, ya peasants? would you kiss him with those teeth?
She has an idealistic view of relationships and is looking for something that doesn't exist.. The 'perfect' relationship and the perfect guy. . As soon as he arrived I knew she wouldn't like him. If it hadn't been his teeth, it would have been something else. All relationships are different, like people. She has to accept that. 🤔😊
He seems attractive to me, a minute in ... he's his own man. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I've noticed that people who *are* really beautiful inside ad well as outside see the beauty in others.
Why should she accept your opinion? No one has to accept anything and definitely not accept any man who she just met for the first time in a restaurant. You must have very low standards for your partners... She never said she expects a super model. If she likes nice theeth, she has the right to. Some people like nice hair, others nice and trained bodies, others very intelligent partners, others very ordered and clean partners; everyone is allowed to have priorities in life and expectations from their partners, no matter how odd you find their their choices. She will have to live with that person, not you.
@@potocatepetl you're right! We all have things we look for in others, whether its charm, stability, or good looks, keeping a tidy home, or being very successful etc. I like very intelligent, well-informed people, and it'd put me off someone if they'd never heard of something that seemed to me to be "essential". It's a value I have: about being educated & interested in the world around you; Or if they didn't know the meaning of a word outside the basic five hundred that everyone knows. * But I have also found that when I meet someone who let's me know I'm lacking in some way, and in this case, even though they may appear to fancy me, and be chatting me up!, that tells me a lot about them! ❤ I do find that men who chat me up, and who let me know about some flaw they see in me --- overestimating my age, for example --- are not good conversation partners!
Everything on both their lists of desires was abput physical appearance! That stuff doesn't matter long-term as much as compatible personalities and similar enough values and character I'd say!
What an utterly Ghastly Woman .......like a Grenade rolling around with a lost pin. He had a very Lucky Escape!!! When she said she had been on lots of dates and that she had been married twice;He should have looked for the fire exit !!!
Everyone going on about what a horrible woman she was but let's be honest, she said what you were all thinking, his teeth were f k n horrible. Everything else she said about him was complimentary. He wanted good breeding, she wanted nice teeth so get over yourselves. In fact, after all is said and done they were a good match.
Do you know his journey? No. No you don't. There are a billion and one reasons why people don't have Hollywood teeth. Being real people with real lives is one. Real teeth aren't white.
I have just realised that I have been on a date locally with this woman!..All she talked about was how successful her career had been as a mortgage advisor..Bored to tears .I think she was called Caroline , lives in North Lincolnshire. She ended up going back to get ex. Daughter is a real handful and has a really poorly Mum... Real lucky escape now I look back on it
It is not brutal to be precise about what you want in a mate. I am clearly an outlier. I love wonky, crooked, broken, missing teeth. BUT they must be very very clean!
Part of getting to know someone is also knowing about their past. Learning about someone’s past relationships tells you a lot about who they are and if they’ve grown from those experiences. To say you’d run from that is pretty childish.
@@micahvelli_236true but that’s something you talk about AFTER the first date. The first date is for the basic stuff about you. You just met them and you don’t know if things are going to work, so why tell intimate things when both of you could go back to being strangers?. Save the deep parts of your life for someone that deserves it, not someone you just met
@@DtripleT that’s a fair point but you can talk about your past without going too into detail. Example, youre on the first date and after some light convo a guy asks “when was your last serious relationship?” You say “it ended 8 months ago, we were together for a couple years but it didn’t work out” end of story. No one’s asking for your entire step by step, just trying to learn more about you.
@@micahvelli_236 but she didn’t do that did she? She went into detail and said her ex left her for someone 10 years younger. That’s unnecessary on the first date. Talking about your relationship history is completely different to talking about your ex. That’s what this comment was about. Some people are understandably turned off when their date talks about their ex and a perfect example of why is in this video. When she was talking to the producer she said her ex is the love of her life and her soulmate. If I was the guy and I watched this video I would’ve been fumming!! Imagine investing your time into someone that will always see their ex as the love of their life
I agree with you. But, I think this show encourages those types of conversations. I wouldn't want to tell my sob stories on a first date; I want them to see my fun/happy side.
Yes I didn't like either. I don't understand people saying he seemed sweet. Right at the start he was listing all the qualities he wanted in a woman....
He seemed like a good man. It hurts to give your all into still end up heartbroken, but the silver lining is you know you couldn't have done more so it's easier to move on knowing you gave it your all.
What attracts people in the first place,...... two women standing in a bar, one slim with a bright smile, other one fat with black teeth..... does the guy say ( I am going to chat the fat woman up with the bad teeth because she might have a great personality )🙄
Erm… when’s the brutal bit? Yes she was a little full of her self, but she gave him lots of complements and actually seemed like a nice person. Channel 4 I expect better of you!
This is just not willing to take what she doesn't deserve. Is a straight talker, I like her. And he can take it, coz he's well established and driven as well. If the foot were on the other foot, I think she'd take the advice.. Even though her ego would be a little bruised
I didnt like her much till i saw him,,, ugh all the people on here saying he's lovely!! hes eyeing up the waitress & ignorant af! jeez woman you can do better than this!
He did have poor teeth, but to be fair, she was no beauty, but then beauty is subjective. She didn’t like his glasses comment, but then a lot of folk give out it, but cannot take any incoming.
"He's got to have hair...."... this woman is something that never gets talked of in this day and age of PC obsession... a 'baldist'. Baldism just never gets mentioned.... but many people find it a turn off and when you lose you hair very young, you get teased unmercifully. I am such, losing my hair pretty much by 20. The teasing ruined my university days... I lost the 'youth and adventure' that young people have with other young people....first time on their own, away from home influences..and free. 44 years later, I am well over that unpleasant passage of life and happily married with beautiful daughter.... but I still find this woman's remark offensive. I would have walked out on her instantly.
I agree. It's such a shallow comment. Beauty is only skin deep. Having hair doesn't make you more attractive. In a way, thry were helping you out, who wants a vacuous life partner?
Sometimes in life you can’t control certain situations, you may think that someone’s your “soulmate” but really what she meant by that is he was the love of her life. We all have regrets and if we could go back in time we would all change something, 9/10 is over love to do it all over again but better.
He must of heard her or someone talking about having white teeth. Because as soon as he sat down this guy mentioned his eyes and fixing his teeth. I am surprised she did not put this fella down for having a hearing aid.
Lol. She's not Elaine. I have my phone fairly dim, but SHE seems to have rather shark like, brown teeth on my phone. I am wondering n g what sheathing she is offering. Not witty, not interesting so far, not beautiful. not young and child bearing, rich? That might work best for her. A 10 year long, contracted toy boy. Allowance for tooth care.
I hope these two made it-they really seemed like they’d make a great couple. Both of them went through tough times in their previous relationships and appeared to have grown and learned from those experiences. He seemed like such a lovely person, and I felt like they had complementary vibes. Honestly, there’s nothing wrong with her preferring that he got his teeth fixed-kissing is a pretty intimate thing, after all. Also, kudos to her for being proud of her success. Why shouldn’t she be? Achieving success isn’t easy, and it sounds like it took a lot of hard work and determination on her part. She absolutely deserves to celebrate that.
I actually love these two they’re so much more likely to work out cause they’re so honest no egos and insecurities just I need and want this and this is what I’m going to give. Love them together
Some people are really good at picking others apart but have no self-reflection
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Sometimes you also need to keep comments to yourself. Especially when first meeting someone.
I'm so tired of this imaginary competition between men and women. Confident people don't have to go on a tirade of verbal diarrhea.
It’s just teeth lol not a big deal
💯 percent agree
Whenever a girl says “guys find me intimidating” you just know she’s going to be a nightmare.
You said it Bruh! Start running......
She's not a girl...older woman with grey hair dyed blonde......yes normally it means she high maintenance and difficult...
she is a dinosaur
@@Michael020 spot on. The hair is ridiculous, and she looks old. Very demanding .
Successful, intelligent women are intimidating to men. Fact.
I hate it when people say the word successful. The balance at the end of your life shouldn't be what you did as a career, but how kind and helpful you were to the world.
100% the most important thing. the only people we will be remembered by are those closest to us and the ones we’re kind to. and the only people that you’ll remember really are the ones who are like that too.
successful careers are great, but as long as you can support yourself and support a partner who cares how much you earn, or what job you do. there seems to be way too much emphasis on how careers define people
Look up Ralph Waldo Emersons "Success".it's short and worth noting. I read it at my sister's funeral.
Exactly and how much love you taught to your children if you have them
Yes but those things are relatively easy. Not everybody does them, but you’re supposed to be there for your family. To be “successful” you have be better than average. You have to do things that others can’t or won’t do. It’s not that family life isn’t hard, but often times the only thing that gets in the way of that is oneself.
Exactly 💯 So many people place too much importance in material wealth/status and it’s such a waste.
I have advice for any one dating this woman. RUN.
My advice. Stay at the bar and single. Does not want to work anymore but needs superman to keep her going
why?
why?
@@elizabethkuchta5097 He doesn't look like he can afford to keep a woman.
i agree with her i ca not stand with bad teeth!
She's no oil painting herself
He is very good looking. She’s average. He also has charisma and is a sweetheart. I don’t like th at she is critical. I would have been interested in giving this man a chance. His ex did him dirty. Married and doesn’t even try to work it out after all his devotion, crudely cutting it off. Seems too she was on the narcissistic scale with him kissing her ass. Loving man. I hope he finds a good woman
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Puh-lease!!
He even admitted himself that his teeth are dire! That’s great that he’s at least insightful about this! Good teeth in a partner are a must for most people, stop making this something that it’s not, she was complimentary too!
IMO he should have waited until his teeth were done.
No oil painting? Never heard of that phrase before but I am definitely saving that now
Unless it's a Freud.
This was easily the most brutal first date ever. He brutally said he might like to give it another go, have a second date, and she brutally agreed. So they probably will. How brutal is that? I need a drink.
What a brutal comment
@@sutre2100 Followed by such a Brutal Retort!
R.
Hahaha thanks for making me laugh!
I agree thumbs down for this video till the drunk editor wakes up
Bect she commented about his teeth... So bluntly... That was brutal
"I'm quite compliant", two marriages will beg to differ.
How do you know that was because of her ?
Oooorr, there was no fight.. That's not the right word but there was no challenge. I don't care for it when my husband is always a yes man. I do want him to have his own opinions once in a while..
So that maybe part of the problem or one thinks they're compliant but to others they are not. 🤷🏻♀️
@@caitlingoodall3138 Because she's a woman and was playing "Boss Babe" 17-18 hours a day, just as she said. Someone wasn't listening to the video.
His comeback when she told him to get his teeth done 😂 get rid of your glasses loool
If I were him, I would NOT have given her the chance. Utterly rude and shallow for him to criticize his teeth. He was the catch, not her.
Puh-lease!!
He even admitted himself that his teeth are dire! That’s great that he’s at least insightful about this! Good teeth in a partner are a must for most people, not to mention are important for health !
Stop making this something that it’s not, she was very complimentary too!
IMO he should have waited until his teeth were done.
They look like brother and sister tbh.
She was a little to harsh for his teeth. She by no means is perfection herself. But really why tf did the editors really need to show everyone’s nice teeth after her snarky comment 😭 THAT WAS BRUTAL 😅
Yeah she's a lump
His teeth were frightful. Surely he could have had them repaired before embarking on a blind date,
@@margkropf5541I mean dental work is so affordable. 👀
@@margkropf5541 No excuse for bad teeth!!!!
Let's face it, when looking for a lasting relationship, good hair, good teeth, and bedroom eyes are absolutely essential. Good morals, honesty, integrity...ahhh...who needs it!
To be fair, his wants were also shallow. “Nice legs, good boobs, good background, good BREEDING” (despite him not being from the same background). Deserve each other I guess?
@@AndSoWeLaughed - Absolutely! It goes both ways. Knowing what I know, I would be scared to death if I were a Woman trying to date in the cesspool of 'Men' out there!
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Yeah, the women are all angels. Project harder. @@jamesprior2496
yes it is like looking for a race horse isn't it. Good teeth, maine, clear eyes, strong build and can run fast lol
he wasnt your soulmate if he left you for a girl 10 years younger and didnt look back.
I bet it was the secretary.
Can you blame him she's a nightmare
No. He probably left her and the marriage. And then met someone that happened to be 10 years younger is more like it.
Yep!!!!
My man had really bad teeth, but that didn’t bother me because he has the best heart. What did bother me was his teeth health, he grew up in a home where he wasn’t taught to brush his teeth, and that’s why his teeth got almost black. I just sat down and told him we need to talk because i am worried about your teeth health (very politely) and we live in Norway, the prices are sky high here. He agreed and we went to the dentist, and he got an estimated price: 7000 dollars to fix all his health problems (he had pain) and i told him i just want your teeth to be HEALTHY so you can feel better, i don’t care about anything else. Well, let me tell you that his health and way of living has improved SO MUCH. His teeth are not the whitest or straightest, but they are healthy now! If he wants to «make them prettier», that’s up to him and i’ll love him no matter what.
My man didn't have any teeth.....
But I overlooked thar due to his heart
My husband is from the states and couldn’t afford dental care. He’s over here in the uk sorting them out for a more affordable price.
Pointless stories! 😮
who cares about your stories
@@lisayeary4256I CALL BS
My,my,me,me, that's all you heard!
She sounds like a nightmare!
Her first love was a "doormat"
you should be a shrink! in few minutes you totally got her and her first lover she casually mentioned pffff
She worked 14 to 17 hour days all her life, now it's her "me time" Most workaholics are doing those hours because they like to work, not because they have to. Her whole life has been me time. Her perfect date would be a set of dentures in a wine glass
@Oskar winters You don't understand what a workaholic is Wanting to do a good job and taking pride in your work are not attributes of a workaholic. It's like any other addiction. If your husband is working those hours believe me, something else is going on in his psyche.19 hours a ay for 9 years? Sorry but you don't need to be a psychiatrist to know that that behaviour is pathological.
@@nigel4776 I believe a little introspection is in order, being a workaholic. You would have to determine why you developed this behavior. It is usually something in one's formative
years that sets one up for this unhealthy way of living. Firstly you have to want to break this lifestyle. Then I would suggest hypnotherapy sessions to seek the answer for the need of working such a ghastly amount of hours in your life (what a waste). You notice i didn't suggest Psychiatrist, as I believe most need one themselves. One's answers are always within.
@@treelover4615 I believe that employing a little more focus and attention when you're reading is in order. Not sure what gives you the idea that I'm a workaholic. I'm not. But hopefully someone will find your advice useful. I would suggest meditation and maybe a visit to your G.P. to address your comprehension issue.
@@nigel4776 Nigel, I apologize. That was not meant as a judgment for you.
It was meant as a metaphorical person that is driven to work at the expense of most anything else in their individual lives.
Should have been more one's in place of you's.
And possibly a poor analytical attempt.
@@treelover4615 Thanks for the apology, manners are small morals and seem to be out of vogue in thee digital age. Have a wonderful Christmas, don't work too hard, I certainly won't be! :)
That woman needs to look at herself FIRST! 😂
An ugly personality can ruin your looks.
He deserves better
He doesn’t lol
Fair enough he has said he's getting his teeth done. But he seems nice to me. I hope he finds a woman that ticks all his boxes, and vice versa. I hope he ends up happy.
He’s not lol
She says men find her intimidating?! Nah, they find you obnoxious. 😁
And she's drunkby the end of the date, which is always soo'oo attractive, not!
I agree Bella
She's gross
She was well drunk before it.
This guy when he gets his teeth done will be above her a million percent!!
But-- why HASN'T he??
I don’t think it’s fair to judge the poor guy by his teeth situation?
@MissX33 I didn't either as a kid, but as an adult, teeth come first. Bad teeth can give all kinds of serious health problems, as well as really turning people off in a big way. 'Care Credit' them if necessary!
@@starsapphirelee5714 Maybe he's been too busy working, raising children to be a narcissist too?
It's the way he said: I'm having my teeth straightened and whitened next. I need to look good for a "young" lady don't I" 😂😂... when he knows that his date is in her mid 50s! The look on her face after he said that - priceless 😂😂
I'm not quite sure he meant it that way, but rather as a turn of phrase he is used to using and doesn't even think properly about. He might of kicked himself on reflection in the car on the way home. However, if he did mean it literally the only way he will manage that is if he is wealthy or he goes the mail order route. Young women have standards and requirements too and that doesn't usually include old age pensioners unless the young women is compromised in some way.
So brutal. The only thing brutal was her pounding down the wine 🙄
She's so horrible, mean and a lowkey bully!
And she wonders why she's alone.
These 2 cracked me up! They didn't cut through the chase, very blunt and upfront to say the least. I liked how he threw right back at her about the sunglasses after she made the teeth comment. I think she appreciated that as well. Shows he was not a push-over.
When you age, you know what you want and there is no need to sugarcoat it
She’d be an absolute nightmare to be with.
They were cool together! Nothing brutal, just real and honest which is refreshing!
I agree. I actually thought they were good together. Nice teeth are important. I want to be attracted to a smile and think how much I want to smooch that guy. Yellow, awful or no teeth would be a no go.
@@moewilson4605 yes! I wish we could know how it turned out!
💯 you have to be honest about what you find attractive before you get in too deep- healthy & clean teeth are a must for me.
I thought they were good together too.
I don't see this going anywhere. She may be "semi-retired" but she's still into managing everything. He's more relaxed, laid back and far less driven than she is.
She's compatible with someone who is driven to succeed like she is. We're compatible with our own kind. These two are just too different.
Yeah she gives politicians wife
I reckon the drunker she gets, the more attractive he'll become to her !
lol
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Brootal
A note to guys out there, when a woman says “some guys find me intimidating” it’s an instant red flag
Just run away
Nah, there are guys who like an assertive woman. Everyone has different tastes.
@@eagillum Oh, really?
@@purplehaze8557 oh for sure, they like the energy she brings. Not for everyone, but I've seen chill men happily married to assertive women.
I dont know, IMHO, someone who says that about herself needs to clarify what exactly she feels men are intimidated by--- is it her autonomy, assertiveness, knowledge, money, education, success--- what?
I usually intimidate men who think I am a dumb woman. I am very soft spoken and usually men think I have little intelligence. Once the conversation gets rolling and they realize my soft spokeness has nothing to do with my IQ or general knowledge of the world the look on their faces changes drastically and they normally walk away.
I live in an urban area with many foreigners, and it is the foreigners (my own race since I am a foreigner also) who cannot deal with my being a woman and having autonomy and opinions.
I love watching these old dating shows. They are a wonderful window into human behavior. I also enjoy the little gems of wisdom from the comment section. 😏⭐️
She should know by her age you never, ever start banging on about your exes on a 1st date! She seems completely uninterested in kowing anything about him, poor bloke!
Yes its lazy talk.
This woman is mean. Even if she's not attracted to him, she doesn't have to be a b**** about it.
She’s pissed
Clearly spends little time reflecting on her own imperfections.
she was not a bitch. she complemented him a lot and agreed to meet him again. so what if she said his teeth were horrible? they were. can you not see that, ya peasants? would you kiss him with those teeth?
The more wine she drinks, the more appealing he gets. 😂
Yep she p*** 😂😂😂
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You know 😂😂😂
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I wouldn't of stayed that long.
"Some guys find me intimidating" aka "I'm a bitch"
Yes you look like one, I can't take that away from you.
She has an idealistic view of relationships and is looking for something
that doesn't exist.. The 'perfect' relationship and the perfect guy. .
As soon as he arrived I knew she wouldn't like him. If it hadn't been his teeth, it would have been something else.
All relationships are different, like people. She has to accept that. 🤔😊
She is looking for her first love who left her.
He seems attractive to me, a minute in ... he's his own man. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I've noticed that people who *are* really beautiful inside ad well as outside see the beauty in others.
Why should she accept your opinion? No one has to accept anything and definitely not accept any man who she just met for the first time in a restaurant. You must have very low standards for your partners... She never said she expects a super model. If she likes nice theeth, she has the right to. Some people like nice hair, others nice and trained bodies, others very intelligent partners, others very ordered and clean partners; everyone is allowed to have priorities in life and expectations from their partners, no matter how odd you find their their choices. She will have to live with that person, not you.
@@potocatepetl you're right! We all have things we look for in others, whether its charm, stability, or good looks, keeping a tidy home, or being very successful etc.
I like very intelligent, well-informed people, and it'd put me off someone if they'd never heard of something that seemed to me to be "essential". It's a value I have: about being educated & interested in the world around you;
Or if they didn't know the meaning of a word outside the basic five hundred that everyone knows.
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But I have also found that when I meet someone who let's me know I'm lacking in some way, and in this case, even though they may appear to fancy me, and be chatting me up!, that tells me a lot about them! ❤
I do find that men who chat me up, and who let me know about some flaw they see in me --- overestimating my age, for example --- are not good conversation partners!
Teeth can be fixed. Bad personality is near impossible to change.
Everything on both their lists of desires was abput physical appearance! That stuff doesn't matter long-term as much as compatible personalities and similar enough values and character I'd say!
True and beauty varnished with time anywaus
Aging well is important.
More red flags than a red flag factory. Her future is cats and wine.
I feel sorry for the cats.
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She's got the wine bit down.
Don’t threaten her with a good time.
Cats will not choose her
There is nothing intimidating with a successful person. It's all about personality.
Commenting his teeth is just fine. Now imagine him cracking a comment about her hiding car tyres under her dress.
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Well said! 😂
Or the fact she has the face of a man
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“I am quite compliant” 😂😂😂
Ahem…are you now?
No.
Whatever a woman says, the exact opposite is usually true.
No, this isn’t the most brutal date ever channel 4 if you were asking….
What an utterly Ghastly Woman .......like a Grenade rolling around with a lost pin.
He had a very Lucky Escape!!!
When she said she had been on lots of dates and that she had been married twice;He should have looked for the fire exit !!!
No pressure to get his teeth done then…. Remind him some more… jeez
He was lovely bless him hope he finds someone
Everyone going on about what a horrible woman she was but let's be honest, she said what you were all thinking, his teeth were f k n horrible. Everything else she said about him was complimentary. He wanted good breeding, she wanted nice teeth so get over yourselves. In fact, after all is said and done they were a good match.
Do you know his journey? No. No you don't. There are a billion and one reasons why people don't have Hollywood teeth. Being real people with real lives is one. Real teeth aren't white.
He was just as shallow, immature, vain, and deluded as she was
@@nicolataylor6011thank you. Everyone is talking about how “nice”and “sweet” he was when they were both exactly the same lol
Why would people put themselves through such public humiliation , neither of them of much of a catch
I have just realised that I have been on a date locally with this woman!..All she talked about was how successful her career had been as a mortgage advisor..Bored to tears .I think she was called Caroline , lives in North Lincolnshire. She ended up going back to get ex. Daughter is a real handful and has a really poorly Mum... Real lucky escape now I look back on it
Wow might aswell give out her whole address will u, gosh
@@Silvss Really ? Did I mention the town she lived in ? No .. The woman was self centred and is now her exes problem.. A real daters nightmare
Ya her ego right off the bat was telling
That's the first thing I thought too, shes all about me me me
@@shanebryan4983you did actually write what town/suburb she was in
Early on, he looked a little shit scared and who could blame him. Not the sweetest girl around. Good luck to him he'll need it
It is not brutal to be precise about what you want in a mate. I am clearly an outlier. I love wonky, crooked, broken, missing teeth. BUT they must be very very clean!
I like a different set off teeth I hate false looking ones
i like bald men.
@@tarawalsh-arpaia3928 So do I.
@@tarawalsh-arpaia3928hello Sutton how are you. Greetings from Ireland. Your comment is good 😊. Best wishes for a happy new year 🥳 👍😊🙏 Michael
I like men with a little bit of belly pudge.
Just a small point, don't think someone should drink quite so much on a first date. Getting sloshed is not a good idea. She needs to curb that.
Truth! Nor the 2nd, 3rd...
I agree
She is an adult and can please herself what she does, I would need a drink to sit with him all evening.
yep
If someone started a date with talking about their past relationships, I’m out of there in a second. A date is not the time to tell sad stories!!!
Part of getting to know someone is also knowing about their past. Learning about someone’s past relationships tells you a lot about who they are and if they’ve grown from those experiences. To say you’d run from that is pretty childish.
@@micahvelli_236true but that’s something you talk about AFTER the first date. The first date is for the basic stuff about you. You just met them and you don’t know if things are going to work, so why tell intimate things when both of you could go back to being strangers?. Save the deep parts of your life for someone that deserves it, not someone you just met
@@DtripleT that’s a fair point but you can talk about your past without going too into detail. Example, youre on the first date and after some light convo a guy asks “when was your last serious relationship?” You say “it ended 8 months ago, we were together for a couple years but it didn’t work out” end of story. No one’s asking for your entire step by step, just trying to learn more about you.
@@micahvelli_236 but she didn’t do that did she? She went into detail and said her ex left her for someone 10 years younger. That’s unnecessary on the first date. Talking about your relationship history is completely different to talking about your ex. That’s what this comment was about. Some people are understandably turned off when their date talks about their ex and a perfect example of why is in this video. When she was talking to the producer she said her ex is the love of her life and her soulmate. If I was the guy and I watched this video I would’ve been fumming!! Imagine investing your time into someone that will always see their ex as the love of their life
I agree with you. But, I think this show encourages those types of conversations. I wouldn't want to tell my sob stories on a first date; I want them to see my fun/happy side.
This wasn’t brutal at all. I think they might make it. And I’m serious-no sarcasm. Maybe I’ve just been on too many really bad dates.
You absolutely want to avoid a woman like this. Extremely high standards when she's literally a 2/10
Shallow is the first word that came to mind!
So you have never walked away from someone when not liking something about them then ?
@@irenemorley75 No I’ve never walked away because of how they looked! I’m not shallow 🤦♀️
@@Analiffey16 Do you really thing a guy woudn´t run seeing teeth like this on a woman?
I am surprised he came back from the bathroom ! Run Forest Run !
never dump your past on someone newly met.
"give yourself a chance" -- the most 2023 statement i've ever heard.
She’s acting like she’s a 10😮
Exactly 😂😂😂😂
Both were quite narcissistic, I felt
Yes I didn't like either. I don't understand people saying he seemed sweet. Right at the start he was listing all the qualities he wanted in a woman....
Alot of people are narcs these days
Dating over 40 is a disaster. You can just feel the bitterness, the tiredness.
He seemed like a good man. It hurts to give your all into still end up heartbroken, but the silver lining is you know you couldn't have done more so it's easier to move on knowing you gave it your all.
How people comment and focus on looks explains more about them than the other person. Run dude
What attracts people in the first place,...... two women standing in a bar, one slim with a bright smile, other one fat with black teeth..... does the guy say ( I am going to chat the fat woman up with the bad teeth because she might have a great personality )🙄
She's a hot mess😂 He, on the other hand, is a gem! I'll take him! ❤
I love “come to bed” eyes lmao
All part of the delusion
A really old expression....
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“I am very compliant”
Me: yeah,riiiiiiiggggghhhttt!!!
I think they are kinda adorable together 😍🥰
I think they are miserable
yep it went from no chance to what a great match in about three sentences, he will take no shit, which is what she needs from him
I think this guy is a catch, teeth or no. He's got an attractive look and personality.
What was BRUTAL about that.?
CLICK BAIT
In dutch your second name means side/corner or albeit spelt Kant! But your comments are spot on! He got a positive outcome!
Her ideal man whom she described in the beginning would most likely be interested in a younger woman.
He needs his teeth done. She needs her personality done and to lose a few stone. Fair's fair.
he is adorable!
Is he you're dad by any chance, he was just as shallow, he requested big boobs, the guy wants a slap.
Erm… when’s the brutal bit? Yes she was a little full of her self, but she gave him lots of complements and actually seemed like a nice person.
Channel 4 I expect better of you!
I could never do these dates cause they'd run out as soon as they saw me 😂😂😂
Don’t be so hard on yourself! There is someone out there just for you xxx
Yeh, me too! They’d go to the toilet and climb out the window.
Me too.😢
No, please don’t say that… that’s your opinion.. so what’s wrong with you? 😮😮😮
@@53mandevilla Plan a date and you will find out🤔🤣🤣🤣
I’d love to meet this man he seems lovely. She is looking for something she’s not going to find .
Me too. He's physically my type too with the rugged looks and gray hair.
She wants a toy boy…he’s a real man.
Have u seen his teeth? He needs Invisalign urgently other wise it s so unpleasant esthetically to see it
@@Sky10811 teeth can be easily fixed her personality on the other hand cannot . He can do way better
@@maidahaltrecht6577but do u have a nice set of boobs, a backside and long legs? If not, you’re not his type
I think I've just about garnered that she doesn't like his teeth.
This is just not willing to take what she doesn't deserve. Is a straight talker, I like her. And he can take it, coz he's well established and driven as well. If the foot were on the other foot, I think she'd take the advice.. Even though her ego would be a little bruised
I can't with her superficial tendencies. No wonder she is alone!
When they don't even bother to shave run towards the door and don't look back
Not as brutal as the woman who told the bloke .. " if we were the last two people alive I still wouldn't be interested " ! .. 🤣🤣🤣
I didnt like her much till i saw him,,, ugh all the people on here saying he's lovely!! hes eyeing up the waitress & ignorant af! jeez woman you can do better than this!
He gets his teeth done and she can lose 3 stone 👍🏼
Good breeding 🤦🏿♂️
He did have poor teeth, but to be fair, she was no beauty, but then beauty is subjective. She didn’t like his glasses comment, but then a lot of folk give out it, but cannot take any incoming.
She can take her glasses off but he can't take his teeth out.🤣🤣🤣
"He's got to have hair...."... this woman is something that never gets talked of in this day and age of PC obsession... a 'baldist'. Baldism just never gets mentioned.... but many people find it a turn off and when you lose you hair very young, you get teased unmercifully. I am such, losing my hair pretty much by 20. The teasing ruined my university days... I lost the 'youth and adventure' that young people have with other young people....first time on their own, away from home influences..and free. 44 years later, I am well over that unpleasant passage of life and happily married with beautiful daughter.... but I still find this woman's remark offensive. I would have walked out on her instantly.
She wouldn’t have wanted u cos ur bald
I agree. It's such a shallow comment. Beauty is only skin deep. Having hair doesn't make you more attractive. In a way, thry were helping you out, who wants a vacuous life partner?
Shes not worth a dime, the poor men, she wants a sugar daddy but he’s looking for a sugar momma. Your old.
her first love was her soul mate clearly not or still be together 🤦♂️🤦♂️
Sometimes in life you can’t control certain situations, you may think that someone’s your “soulmate” but really what she meant by that is he was the love of her life. We all have regrets and if we could go back in time we would all change something, 9/10 is over love to do it all over again but better.
@@Chelsea1991FC Completely agree..Love of you life is the best description.
Stu Batman. Lol
Been married 59 years to the love of my life! I would rather be with my husband than anyone else! I hit the jackpot! He still excites me!
She is just not a Good Nice Person! Honestly I‘m disgusted and ashamed as a women that there Are women like this outside behaving that way
The wall is undefeated
She is problematic
Ya think so???!?????
Definitely overconfident
He must of heard her or someone talking about having white teeth. Because as soon as he sat down this guy mentioned his eyes and fixing his teeth. I am surprised she did not put this fella down for having a hearing aid.
Apparently if he gets those teeth done he’s sponge-worthy. 😀
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Lolol lol
Lol. She's not Elaine.
I have my phone fairly dim, but SHE seems to have rather shark like, brown teeth on my phone.
I am wondering n g what sheathing she is offering. Not witty, not interesting so far, not beautiful. not young and child bearing, rich? That might work best for her. A 10 year long, contracted toy boy. Allowance for tooth care.
It’ll cost upwards of 8 grand to sort your teeth out properly.
I hope these two made it-they really seemed like they’d make a great couple. Both of them went through tough times in their previous relationships and appeared to have grown and learned from those experiences. He seemed like such a lovely person, and I felt like they had complementary vibes.
Honestly, there’s nothing wrong with her preferring that he got his teeth fixed-kissing is a pretty intimate thing, after all. Also, kudos to her for being proud of her success. Why shouldn’t she be? Achieving success isn’t easy, and it sounds like it took a lot of hard work and determination on her part. She absolutely deserves to celebrate that.
He is a lovely man
I actually love these two they’re so much more likely to work out cause they’re so honest no egos and insecurities just I need and want this and this is what I’m going to give. Love them together
They are adorable. Her thorniness disappating as the date went on was wondrous.
You can only be that picky if you're perfect. You I'm afraid are most definitely not
She comes across as very modest bless
Why do these past-the-wall women think they are still 10s?
Does she know what a mirror is