How To Know If My Ex Is Confused
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ต.ค. 2024
- Coach Lee explains how you can know if your ex is confused after breaking up with you. An ex being confused can be a great sign if you are wanting to get back together with them because it means that they are doubting the breakup.
If your ex is confused, there are things that they will do that reveal that doubt and Coach Lee reveals some of the most important ways you can tell that your ex is confused. If your is ex confused about his or her feelings, it can be a good sign in terms of if you can reunite with them.
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I had zero hope. Just over 2 months later, exactly like Coach Lee says, he rethought everything and wants to work on the relationship. I am going to take everything very slow. Listen to everything coach Lee says. Watch every video! You will feel better and you will eventually succeed!!
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@@muxman2949 so far so good. Everything is going well.
So happy for you! May love live! Unfortunately 8 mos of NC, i finally reached out after divorce papers, just to be told im too late. My reach out came late. Blaming. Still mad at my "flipping out" when i discovered his affair
@@ChulaRuthie72 I’m sure you’re not too blame, perfectly acceptable reaction if someone was having an affair
Congrats. My situation is hopeless. But at least these videos are helping me cope
But seriously we all deserve someone who is not confused about loving us and being in a healthy relationship with us. It shouldn't be that difficult. We deserve stability
He could be an avoidant who knows . Avoidant attachment style person is not easy to handle. They really need their space. Sometimes you HAVE to go out of space for them if you want a successful relationship. 😂
@@benithacalloway8286 yup. Each person is different and some people don’t get it ig. Just bc someone has made a mistake doesn’t mean you shouldnt want them anymore and doesn’t mean they aren’t right for you, bc we are all human. Healthy and successful relationships require grace, forgiveness, effort, and understanding.
Reality is that relationships are alwas complicated, if you expect it to be simple, you will have a bad time. It's about learning, and growing, understanding ourselves and our partner. If you really love someone, you are willing to improve yourself and try to understand their side of the story as well. It takes lots of work? Yes. But realationships could not be really just about " yay we are together forever happy end". Wheter you accept this reality is up to you.
@@bertalankovacs7623Thank you!! Finally someone else gets it!!!
Do not believe that every breakup is a sign that it is bad.
Relationships, good or bad, all are complicated. You are taking on a life with someone, they have their own morals, goals, interests and hobbies. Communication and effort is key, but also you need to understand and accept that they could make mistakes just like you.
It's like they want to use you for training wheels so they can lose you slowly and more easily over time. Make it hurt. Let them find out what losing you really feels like.
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@Ken R Fox so true. My fiance broke up on April 1. I was done helping him move on and giving him an ego trip so I went into no contact July 5. Today is actually Day 30.😊
She broke up with me on Feb 22nd, and I started NC on March 10th. It's now May 20th. The thing is, I really don't even care anymore. I used to watch Coach Lee's videos religiously to get myself through that first month. That's the beautiful thing about NC, is that you learn to be complete within yourself, and you get to rebuild your value and get the abundance mindset that you need to move on. Trust in yourself that things can and will get better, and you will conquer your fears. I promise.
That's wierd my relationship ended on February 23 and I started no contact on march 22. Were experiencing the same things at the same time
I last saw my ex on 21 feb and went in NC on 21 march she contacted me 2 weeks later asking about selling some shares and then got me a birthday present 2 weeks later -she still hasn't come back but ive had a few messages and I initiated contact last week with no reply
@@terrymccann2792 no contact means no contact for atleast 21-45 days it works ALLWAYZ FOR ME..
TRY IT BABE..
Zero contact🙏🏼
@@cindybesitos8933 Thankyou xxI went NC and she messaged 3 times in the 6 weeks I didn't initiate - im 11 days in and she looks at my whatsapp status pics still???
One interesting aspect of no contact its that when you really moved on and stop caring about your ex and the energy you gave her , its not longer there, she will sense it and if she still cares, she will reach out even if she is with someone else. Thats why when you really moved on and focus on new things and girls, outnowhere here she comes. Thats why you have to let them go to get them back and the clue its stop wanting them back and be really done with her. The scarcity energy you are transmitting will go back to you, even if you are not reaching out and even if she blocks you and she doesnt know anything about your life. I know its sounds weird but theres some disturbance on the force when you stop investing emotional energy on someone. Thats why they came back when you moved on. So be careful on just going no contact, stop waiting for her to come back and assume she wont, so you start faster to move on and let her go completely, thats when she can feel and realize your are not longer missing her and caring about her. Expecting, wishing and wanting, signals scarcity to the universe, so start having, being and doing to signal Abundance.
@@Redouku thats the missing key for you. You have to let her go in your heart and mind, let go of the idea of her and stop wanting her back and stop waiting for her, just remove your energy, emotions and thoughts of her and move on completely
@@Redouku I'm not a quitter either, and completely understand where you're coming from. How about this, as non-quitters, we never quit on those things that we have control over, and we let go of those things outside of our control? Can you see your relationship from this perspective? We can't control what the women in our lives do, or be responsible for their decisions; we can't control them coming back to us. But we can control how we choose to live every day and where we choose to focus our attention every day.
@@Redouku Then maybe you're meant to be in that relationship, BUT you just need to be patient and wait for the right timing of her coming back. You're probably in the "waiting room" as many call it. While in that waiting room, focus on living your life, enjoying those things that you enjoy doing. Maybe also steer clear of other potential relationships because those will only delay in yours being restored. Many of these videos, in this series are spot on. This guy, Coach Lee, knows what he's taking about.
Thats my point when you go for NO CONTACT when time passed you will find your self moved on i talk about my own experience
@@Redouku I would like to share my two cents with you, see if it works. In my experience the best way to distance myself from those feelings was to actively remind myself of a few things, which are:
Your longing feelings for this person are a fantasy, fiction, because they are no longer in your life.
Your brain is your worst enemy because it chooses to remember only the good parts of the relationship and it is not a true reflection of what it was.
Whatever improvements you have made in your life was due to your own inner strength, and it is their loss they didn't believe in you.
You also shouldn't feel bitterness toward your ex, recognize that they are an autonomous person with their own lives, faults, dreams and goals and you don't want to be with someone who does not want to be with you.
These are a few examples, and you probably already understand all of these. My point is that you have to make a list that works for your situation and develop a habit of reminding yourself when you feel down. Hope it can help but remember that pain is still part of the healing process, 10 months out of a loving relationship is still early.
Signs of confusion:
1.. Jealousy
2. They want you as a friend
3. Keep something of yours
4. Stay involved too much eg social media
5. Get hurt feelings if you do something to show you accept the break up
6. Play hot and cold
Thanks Coach Lee! ❤
My girlfriend broke up with me about 10 days ago and she had some stuff of mine that she said I can keep it there and I said to her drop it off but she never took her stuff from mine, and now there’s been no contact and I’m really struggling
1-Jealous
2- friendship
3-hold your things like cloths
4-Stay involved in Social media
5- feeling hurt (u don't act like you did while in relationship)
6- hot and cold ex
She is still wearing the engagement 💍
Haven't been here in months but I wanted to stop by and say hi to you all and that I hope things are getting better I'm your relationships whether it's your ex or someone new. Back in December and January I was watching basically every coach Lee video and it was like therapy for me. Me and my ex got back together since valentines day and she's honestly been head over heels for me, especially now In June. She's honestly more into me now than I am to her now and it's pretty mind blowing because I remember being so depressed when me and her had a break and split. Then I pulled myself together and gained back my confidence and composure.
How are you two doing now?
@@Kate-ub1dp wow, it's funny you ask because we just broke it off about a week ago or so. I initiated the breakup because I feel like we peaked and things weren't moving forward at all. Believe it or not she lives across the street from me LITERALLY a 10 second jog but we were barely seeing each other and it became pointless. Although we had an AMAZING 2021 together, doing things like a 2 week stay at vegas at the encore and visiting the grand canyon etc. 2022 she gave me one of the best birthdays but still everything fizzled out in 2022 and I got tired of it because we are both 30 now and should be further along with things in life. We've been together for 8 years so I will always love her dearly but it was time to let go. Looking back at our previous breakup which led me to this channel its pretty crazy how miserable and depressed I felt but now I'm stronger and I'm not bitter towards her at all whatsoever, I'm not sure she can say the same. She was very angry and that's understandable because she cares but I only wished her anger matched her effort daily. It's just not normal for 2 ppl in their 30s to be together and live in such close proximity yet only see each other maybe once a month. I'm not dealing with that.i think if and when she meets that person she truly wants, she will give that effort and fully express that love, at least I hope so. I truly wish her the best and I want her to win a happy life.
@@shkrsimpson44 Did you ever mention the whole not seeing each other despite being in such close proximity? See I'm noticing a trend of dumpers not making it 100% clear that there was a problem bc I'm guessing 90% of these break ups are avoidable what with the dumpee stepping up his game. My opinion anyways
@@dnrlookcritter6906 of course I made that clear
@@shkrsimpson44 So whoever continued to disengage? Do mind if I ask you guys what signs you are? There seems to be some truth in those. Maybe they weren't compatible signs. They can't predict the future 100% but they can keep you from beating your head against a wall trying to figure out why it isn't working. As far as I can tell.
I want you to know you’ve 100% gotten me through the last two weeks and you are an angel on earth for what you do. It makes me sad there are so many heartbroken like me but glad there are people like you out there that help. I hope my bf of 10 years will come back, for our family’s sake. But I also hope it’s not too late for my heart by the time he does. He texts me daily but I don’t initiate. Time will tell.
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I couldn't have said it better. This guy's an angel I love looking at him and listening to his voice. It's been 6 weeks of no contact. My heart is broken.
Thank you for the wonderful content, no contact worked she reached out after 17 days and now we are getting coffee next Saturday :) belive in thee process.
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My ex and I were actually talking about repairing our relationship, when he unexpectedly ghosted me. It's been hard, but I've been practicing no contact ever since. Therefore I (and probably a lot of other people) would be interested in a video on ghosting and how to cope with it:) Best wishes and stay strong everyone❤
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I would love a video on ghosting too. Had what I thought was a perfect relationship for 3 months and he suddenly disappeared… Not knowing what happened kill anyone…
i got ghosted once he was a narc got married and on that same day tried to get me to come to a hotel like baby cut your losses casper ain’t worth the way
She said “I always loved our friendship.” I said “not on the table”
@FurryLove215 she came back crying and wanting to work on things, ran into one of her exes and jumped into bed with him. I decided to focus on guitar and surfing, going to therapy and just being the best I can be. There’s a real one out there for me and I want to both be and find the best match I can
@FurryLove215 I think there are healthy ways to break up with someone who is not compatible with you. I agree with your points, and thank you for your kind words. I feel like a different person 🌞
It's been 8 months since my breakup. I still miss her every single day. However, this past few days; I decided that I was ready to move on with my life. I met someone that I like so much.
Coach Lee, I wanna say thank you so much for staying with me throughout this time. Really appreciate it. I'll definitely tip you someday.
Did you have any interactions with your ex within those 8 months that gave you hope?
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@@MTPtostife he specifically said he has moved on and met someone else. Let him be happy.
i bet she is because she ended it when she was mad and after our first bump in the relationship (LDR). been on nc for a month as well and focusing on myself by becoming a better man and volunteering.
she lost me, i didn’t lose her.
Same thing happened to me man. Be strong.
Exactly.
Thanks man I’ve been struggling with her signs and watching this cleared my worries I felt really into her she friend zoned me now I know she’s probably just confused this helped some of my pain ease a bit
Coach Lee - My experience of 2 months in NC played out exactly as you explain in every video, literally step for step in the exact order, we have seen each other a few times and have been intimate and i have always acted accordingly....BUT...here's the kick in the guts. he still mentions things about his future that does not involve me...we were together 8yrs. I feel like I'm back at the start, and I'm confused.
Well for that part you don’t assume you guys are fully back together. He is trying to test the waters to see if you’ll react don’t give them a reaction like that. You want to be more attractive not physical but mentally and intellectually so just telling him “yeah that’s cool” shows you aren’t really affected if he leaves or if you leave because he knows you’ll be okay but he won’t there’s a reason he came back think about it, you won already but it’s like your second guessing yourself if you did. But what makes them worry even more, remember that carrot on the stick trick, they are the bunnies you got to lead them where you know you got him for sure it’s alittle physiology but it’ll work because guys will feel the change in the tone or the way you talk to them and they’ll react and that’s what you want so the next time he says “me” he’s going to think about it like damn I can’t do that if I do there might be consequences with my action because he has to remember you don’t need him. That’s why he chased you not the other way around, I think he realized he can’t live without you or that he still highly loves you so don’t let him lose that respect for you. So the next time it’s going to be ours or us and that’s what you want but giving them that comfort won’t work they will start taking advantage, if he keeps doing it over and over they see there’s no consequences towards their action. But remember you’re A queen so don’t let that crown fall, you’re A PRIZE too! Not only him (but me telling you all of this does not mean you be a complete asshole about it be polite show the respect and maturity and he’ll see it too).
Omg!!! #6 is definitely what I’m experiencing with him now. Literally pops up & then goes silence. Thanks Coach Lee, i’ll continue No Contact ❤️
Same and it's hurtful. He sent me a package of treats, no note. I called to thank him he didn't pick up, but responded to my text, didn't try to carry it on. Last month he called me out of the blue and seemed interested.. after 2 months NC.
@@MissSarahGM lmao!! I think he heard of the no contact rule too 😂
@@Crm.xcviii he's the dumper. i guess still confused, maybe he called out of curiosity and sent the gift to alleviate his guilt. It was 2 months ago, now 7 months post breakup. I have lost hope. I stay NC of course.
Thank you Coach Lee
You saved my life
I was watching your videos
I was working on myself it took almost 2years
But i see progress every day
I’m better person then before when i was with my ex,
I gave her 2 chances but she was the same with no mercy
I just left her and started working on my productivity on daily basis,
Now I feel like why i was so in love with her , she even don’t deserve to be with me,
She contacted me again but I didn’t respond I just read that,for me it was like a message from stranger
I didn’t feel anything for her,
Really I’m happy now,it was the best part of my life I learned a-lot from my breakup,
This breakup Is like a Wakeup call for me from God,
Now I have zero feelings for her,,
Coach Lee
I can’t thank you enough ,
Oh my God it really work.. My ex is fully back with much love you should try writing to this for any help on whatsapp❤️❤️.
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My ex is buried in the past where she will never escape from....
Thanks for the help
Same. Just got my name removed from the lease today.
My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person
And I will direct you to someone who helped me get back my ex and he can also help you bring back your ex or a specific person
Coach lee! Just wanted to comment on my appreciation for your channel!! You helped me not only get my ex back but put so many things in perspective. Thanks a lot stay safe!!
I’m really struggling to cope right now. I have never felt pain like this in my weeks, 5 weeks and the tears heartache vomitting is relentless. All I want is him. I am going crazy.
@Lonely Land I know how you feel. I miss my fiance so much. He lives only 4 minutes away same town
@@tercsi1 how are you coping? I’m here if you ever want to talk. X
@@spiderofsorts7611 Hey. Thank you. 22nd day of second run of no contact. First one was April 22 to May 11. Went back to texting and leaving messages. My fiance broke up with me on April 1. Never advise counselling because if they go to individual counselling which my ex started when he was pissed at me...they are at weakened state and impressionable state and may break up with you, which mine did. How are you?
@@spiderofsorts7611 how are you? Hope you are doing well. Hang in there.
I understand … I feel the same way … P TOWN
Yeesss ! I am early in this video today. I am in a no contact with my ex and I hope for the best. I just want to become a better person and get ready for after 30 days
Hi Ayaiix, watch this video all the way through: th-cam.com/video/ySM6veT00FM/w-d-xo.html
My sign of my ex being confused is that he literally (less than an hour ago) just told me he doesn’t know what he wants.
I have been doing NC but really hard since we are in a unique situation. Trying to keep strong. We dated for 11 years.
This is true, my Ex just called earlier today again & did what coach Lee said in step 2, she asked to speak again later this week, also she said she was nervous about being friends, I was calm, confident & casual during the conversation
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Thank you Coach Lee, this video really helps me. At the breakup my ex told me she lost feelings, but wants to stay friends because she "doesn't want to lose me as a person". I told her I need some space, and went into no contact. After about a month she reched out and asked me if I want to go for coffee. We had a good time and she was so open and warm, and gave me some mixed signals. She would text me sometime throughout the week and just a week later we went out for drinks again with some other friends of us. But she just keeps disappearing for a day, and reappearing, and sometimes she's really open and warm, other times she's kinda cold and the conversations are quick and tense. So I guess she is just really confused. I have decided now to go back into no contact, until she knows what she wants
The same situation happened to me when she broke up things last week. I guess only time will tell
Same same thing on my end
This happened to me too, coffee, dinner a week later, sporadic texts over the last 3 weeks. I messed up and texted him first a few times and that really changed the vibe to more friend zone. Do I just go no contact secretly or do I need to tell him I feels like he only wants friendship and I am not interested in communication anymore? I’m scared my friendliness and response to his crumbs, is giving him the confidence that I’m in backup plan mode and now I think he’s trying to date others.
Exactly coach Lee haha hot and cold. I followed what he advice no contact- now my ex boyfriend he want to see me again 😄thank you coach Lee.. one year no contact at all.
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Is no contact effective getting love from a specified person
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11 months. I really felt over him for about 2-3 months, now the emotions are hitting me hard again. I miss him every day. He was so cruel to me :(
Ghosting or mutual breakup ?
I was over her for about a month now I’m back to these vids
Your videos are amazing thank you ! But I really wanted to say something , this is not just for exes who broke up with you . I have been seeing a guy on and off for a few months and he behaves exactly like that . When I mention commitment he freaks out but he s always around and when I detach he gets stressed .So finally now that I found your videos and following your advice the dynamic is switching as I understood what s happening and how to behave. He s confused about what he wants and because I take him back to easily he doesn’t feel the urge to commit but now that I m not making it easy he s very confused . Thank you so much ❤
crismosconi4 here's an idea..
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I broke the no contact (I know stupid) and of course, made it worse. She was angry as hell and said that I proofed that I did not change and looked like a stalker. She said that she wants no contact in the coming time and wants to focus on other things, study, etc. And final that I could wait if I was so much better and changed and that she will contact me in the future if she thought ''that it had any use''. So now all the power is in her hands and I am really angry at myself. What now? She has all the power.
Hot and cold talking to me not talking to me disappearing smh good video now I understand some things he’s doing
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I have been in NC for almost a week. I started badly before I told myself do not do anything and rethink your actions. Then I found these videos. Yesterday she contacted me to say she wanted to talk somewhere out for a walk. We were going to do it today possibly, but I found it a perfect opportunity to not jump on it immediately. She said another couple of weeks could be good for us both to cool off some more. So I agreed. NC until that time to arrange a meet. By then I've done some work on my individual struggles for 2 weeks and made starts in various areas on reinventing myself for the right person. I just hope that it goes the right way from there even if it's time and actions to be clear that things can be done better where it went wrong and we can enjoy ourselves together like we did. We had a very good relationship for 3 months. Only misunderstanding or saying silly stuff brought us to a halt. Fingers crossed 🤞 Thanks for the help coach!
All my ex does is view my stories. With no contact. It’s been three months since I found out he cheated on me and we broke up. And he has not contacted me at all just viewed my stories and not consistently and I don’t know. I’ve worked on myself I lost 51 pounds in three months. However I’m still dealing with severe depression. It hurts to know that somebody I was with for five years could just throw me away like that. I hate seeing the sun come up I try to sleep during the day because I just can’t take it all I do is obsess over what happened.
I am sorry that you are hurting. The BEST advice is that you should continue taking care of yourself on every level. Eat clean, do exercise that makes your body happy, focus on spirituality big time. I mean go inward. Really become conscious of you, the actual being inside of your body. Do things everyday that bring you joy and peace.
You are depressed because you are mistakenly believing that your self worth is based on him and because he is gone then it means there is something wrong with you. WRONG. Practice self discipline on your thoughts. Become aware of your thoughts. Talk back to them. Tell the wrong thoughts NO! and replace them with the right thoughts.
Do know that he cheated because of his own personal sick issues. It has nothing to do with you.
@@galadrielwoods2332 thank you soo much for that. I recently blocked him from my page it’s too hurtful hoping he’ll view or contact me. I’m letting go as much as possible so I can stop hurting. The betrayal and being left by him is what hurts the most. Your positive words help to encourage me that there are better days to come. Thank you again. Sending positive vibrations your way.
@@melb8737 I'm not giving you just lip service. People like him behave the way they do because they have issues that they allow to control them. They seek validation from everyone they possibly can. Once a person gets to know them and they are held accountable for wrong doings they will do the same to them as they did to all of the predecessors. They will pull away, have an affair, start again with someone new.....and the cycle repeats.
Yes, it is a betrayal because we assume the other person is committed to growing alongside us and so we count on them to always be there. There are so many self serving people in this world. However, there are so many loving people who behave as what they are which is love itself. This is the type of person that you are now available for.
@@galadrielwoods2332 thank you 🙏🏾 your words definitely help. I am on the road to recovery. I acknowledge I was discarded for the second time. He was aware of my pain. He sits back and watch while continuing his life. I am getting up with purpose daily to go to the gym to escape the pain. I can’t move yet. But I want too. My home is a reminder of what we shared and I hate it. As you can see I don’t sleep. I’m up just trying to distract my mind and praying for mental healing ,peace and spiritual healing. Thank you 🙏🏾
@@melb8737 You are most welcome. When a person does not appreciate you- remind yourself of that every time you think you want them. Why do you want someone that does not appreciate you? If they do not appreciate you then they do not care about you. You don't want someone like that. You just want them to appreciate you and that is where the pain lies. However, they do not appreciate you. That is not your fault. That is of their own choosing based on their own stinking issues.
You can throw out or donate things that remind you of him. Rearrange the furniture. Paint walls new colors. Do sage burning to clean his energy out of the house. Open all of the windows and tell the energy he left behind to GET OUT. Get his energy out and recreate the world around you inside of your home. It is YOUR home. NOT his or anyone else that thinks you are disposable. YOU create your world around you. No one else does.
Keep pursuing things that make you feel full of love and joy. Hang around people who make you smile, are always kind, be helpful to others where you can be, etc. Become pure LOVE.
HUG for you :-)
Well I only had one of these. The ex offered up during the breakup that I could call for rides to, moving things and help with my mother. I said "no contact.. at least for right now". And then I asked "is it okay if I call you later if I have a question?" And the ex nodded.
I didn't have the knowledge of these videos behind me when we had the breakup almost two weeks ago.
I saw the offers of doing things as a negative but now I can see they are confused and this is a positive.
This is so spot on about the clothes being at an ex place when you once lived with them.
Thanks LGP42, I wish great things for you man!
I have shoes & books and other stuff - the woman is a ruthless declutterer and they are still at hers since February 🤷🏻♂️
@@RealCoachLee this may seem like a crazy question does the scent of a ex keep the person thinking about them?
@@lgpugh35 Yes it does.
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This video has given me real hope. We've only been broken up for 3 weeks but she hasn't asked me to come get my clothes that are at her house and hasn't asked for the stuff she has at my place back. If after 2 months of no contact she hasn't reached out to me I will message her about collecting my stuff and returning hers to her. Let her think I'm starting to move on. Maybe that will give her the jolt she needs to decide if she really does want to lose me forever?
I’m experiencing the ‘hot snd cold’ thing as we speak. Thanks for confirming it in this video.
Same here I don’t know what to do, what did you do
Good video. I just got dumped for having the covid a month ago my ex was too scared to be around me. Lol What a coward way out. Your video have helped so much. I'm moving on he is too selfish four years together.
Wtf seems like he was looking for any excuse to end things . My ex begged for me back then. Broke up with me 5 days later because I expressed to him how much he hurt me when I was drunk I havnt hurt from him since and he changed his number . I’m crushed
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what? i laugh so hard on this
pls post more coach Lee about people who are fearing love but do care for you
Yes
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Hello Coach Lee. I'm back here again in your channel I got my girlfriend back last March and we've been going at it for 4 months, but on occasions we had minor fights which leads to breakup and got back after a day or two. Since our long breakup, what she did without me seems to creep in on me from time by time even though she is now making efforts and has improved a lot, I would be anxious and frustrated at times to things she has done.during our breakup. I want to improve. We broke up again, and this time I got little hopes again.
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Today makes 90 days that I've gone no contact with only one very shallow text message from the ex in that time. Tomorrow is a new day, time to start anew!
Erin, good for you! Hugs ❤️⚘️⚘️
Was watching something else n here you go again. Thank you for everything n more🙏🏾🙏🏾. Day15 and for every-time I’m down n I want to call him u gives me hope to stay strong
Dont call him..no contact really work..if you had good times together he will miss those times
@@melinelaurids6071 Definitely it really works n he keep calling about random stuff n how I was doing. He kept mute n couldn’t say a word n I was like I got to go I’m workout end of convo.
I’m going with exactly what I’m watching and listening from coach lee.
@@melinelaurids6071 3 good amazing yrs my dear n he woke up April 3rd ,2021 talking about he needs to find himself.
@@AminataD26 so relatable😂 God knows how they find themselves by making us suffer 🤣 though I am enjoying this journey a lot.
My wife left me for the same reasons,she wanted to find herself after 7 years of been hapillly maried..missed her the first month and beg for her to come back but then i found coach Lee and it changed my life..no contact and then she began sending me pictures of us together..now she want to come back but as Mr Lee said i must show her that it aint that easy..
If it's about your ex female partener. The answer is YES. Defenetly she's confused. Because they choose to go where the grass is greener
One year ago Coach Lee helped me get my ex back. 9months later we broke up again. She started dating someone else, ended up getting a STD that is incurable. she currently broke up with her third rebound, and is currently pregnant with his kid!!! #6 year relationship waisted! I had several chances to get her back and chose to respect myself first🤷♂️
I recommend no contact lmfao. Good on ya mate
Thank you Dr. Lee. I know this video is old now, but I am currently going through all of this with my ex after he broke up me.
Coach Lee, does their cruelty and coldness catch up with them? Them making you jealous, saying hurtful things, blocking you - does it play on their mind, or do they just not care? I'M the confused one, because how could someone have loved you if they could treat you this way? I just don't understand? Please make a video about this?
Yes it catches up to them. Not in terms of them having self reflection after doing it though. It catches up to them when they try their same antics on other people.
The behavior you're describing is that of someone who is desperately insecure. They are seeking validation through various negative behaviors.
Someone who behaves that way is not operating as a person who is love. Loving people are love and behave as such.
In other words, the person you have described looks for what they can get out of other people. That is not love. That is validation seeking.
Fearful Avoidants do this stuff a LOT. Half the time they break up because they're terrified of healthy intimacy, so they just suddenly break up to get a sense of relief, and then they regret it.
This couldn't have come sooner. Laying in bed wondering if this is actually working and bam I get this video to help confirm
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My ex only reaches out to me to complain about stuff from making things up i need to log off her TH-cam account and when are you gonna pay me to stuff like i don’t like we have this bad contact, what does this mean? I keep very short answers and don’t reply to most and ignore her sometimes
Great advice as always, coach. On a side note your comment section needs a serious purge of all the witch doctors offering magic to broken hearted people to get the ex's back. They are everywhere.
Edit: Look below at these comments. Exactly what i mean lol.
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My ex is confused whether ghosting someone is ok or not. She's also confused about her motive in wanting to stay friends. My guess is pity and avoiding guilt. I give up on women. There a lot of things in life that's way more interesting than them. And those things are something that I can rely in.
Interesting. My ex, he started our parting of ways by blocking me for a few days. Then we tried again for a week where he used yet another excuse to ghost me. We've exchanged the stuff both of us stored at the other's place. Now after I didn't send him a Happy birthday message, he texted me about wanting to be friends. I again said that after near a decade of being together, friendship is too big of a crumb for me to swallow.
sigugu, NEVER give up!
I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.
Ex texted me and called after 4 months. I gnomes his breadcrumbs. NC helped me get stronger and respect myself. It has been a long tough journey, I deserve better. My ex wanted to stay “friends” but I told him I don’t stay friends with exs. He asked me “why”. I blocked him. I’m not obligated to give him answers. I don’t want his friendship. He can go back to where he was in those 4 months. Boy bye 👋
Not a very mature response to be honest. If he was a bad boyfriend or the break up was bad however you handled it perfectly.
@@warmcoffee69 do you think I care about him? No. He lost my respect when he left me without closure. I have the right to not want what hurt me in my life!!!! IDGAF if that’s immature,
As always, great advise Coach Lee!! Thank you so much 🍀👍🙏
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Thank you Coach Lee, you are helping more people then you know! Bless you!
How do you have TWO decades under your belt you look SO young!?
My ex and I had a 5 year on again off again relationship. He broke things off with me after I caught him in a lie. The way I went about catching him was wrong, but it exposed our issues in communication. I did a lot of begging and pleading until he just started ignoring me. I moved out our home and immediately started no contact. After 3 weeks he finally reached out with an extremely long text saying he's unsure he even wants to get in contact with me again. He mentioned all the things he missed about me as well but he seems adamant that this is what he should do. I responded and said that I respected his decision and I hope he finds what he's looking for. He said I was what he was looking for, but he's hurt. I reiterated the same thing and even apologized for my part in the relationship's failure. He hasn't responded and now I'm unsure if I even want things back. The way he treated me towards the end jut makes me upset. Watching Coach Lee's videos and reading the comments have been so helpful in dealing with the grief. Stay strong everyone and keep with no contact!
This video is so much needed - day 15 of NC and I try to stay strong. Even though I haven’t got any chance to see these signs but during that one “break of NC” last Wednesday because there was a gunshot incident happened in my apartment building, he did FaceTime me for an hour and kept emphasizing I can always go to him if I need to talk about anything.
Damn that crazy! I got sad the other day because I almost got in a car accident and I just thought I can’t believe she’s ok with being away from me I could die and we wouldn’t be talking it was really sad realization honestly.
@@Denimchicken. I totally understand how that feels.
Honestly I was a bit regret to break NC last week but at the same time not regretted. The gunshot happened in my building and I panicked - he was the only one comes to my mind to reach out because I had no other families or super close friend nearby. I figured at least he needs to know if I’m in real danger.
It really works out for me
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Greetings from the Netherlands 🇳🇱 ..after one week he wrote a message “sorry, you deserve better” Wtf does this mean? I replied that I forgive him. Now he is silent. I probably didn't have to answer ... I don't know ... now I sit here in complete silence and listen to the soothing voice of the coach Lee..😔💔
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Coach Lee Sir. I realize your and expert at relationships, but non of your material, is very helpful in the area of long distance relationships, I purchased your "emergency breakup kit, it did help at 1st, but not contact was implemented the same week of our breakup, My fiance broke up with me, over anger issues through out, our 3 plus year relationship, I was doing much work on myself for many months like 8 months of changing, I had one bad day, and now its over, thank you for helping not make all the mistakes others have made, it's been 7 weeks, and no contact is still going on with radio silence... what's next coach Lee? Thank you God Bless You.
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I did the work exactly the way you said
Wow she's blowing up my phone n texting me.
Straightup told her not wanting friendship .
Want relationship.
Asked if she had anything else she 2anted to before we hung up.
Played very cool and respected the end.
2 minutes later boom!!
Thank you Mr lee.
Can we get a video on when your spouse wants a separation or divorce, and they’re adamant about it, but you have some deep discussions about issues and you start to see some relief in them, but then they catch themselves and try to state again “but this is what I want my mind is made up”. Currently going through that with my wife. She’s staying at her parents with 6 people in the house and constantly hanging out with friends. When we see each other we still have that vibe with each other we’ve always had, but then out it no where she will try to convince me and herself it seems, that divorce is what she wants. I’ve made huge progress in the 2 months we’ve been apart, and she has given no effort to trying to work through any problems, only reflects on old issues. Constantly going on trips with friends etc instead. I don’t reach out to her, we talk once a week or so if she reaches out. She has slowly been taking things little by little rather than a bulk of things at once. Been together 7 years, married 3 and I know her better than anyone. Through this time she has become a completely different person than who I married, at times reverting to her 20 year old self when she did most things out of impulse. Thanks! Your videos keep me sane on difficult days.
Same story here. I don't recognise my wife anymore
I think you need marriage counseling. Yes some yt advise could help but if you want to have greater chances of getting back with her there should be an intervention.
We bumbed into each other yesterday. We both went to see across the spiderverse, same hour and all. I saw him but didn't recognized who he was because he now wears glasses. He came close and asked me "you weren't going to say hi?" Then kissed my cheek. I was taken by surprise by everything and just said I didn't recognized him with the glasses. I was awkward and looked sad and stressed, I know he noticed it. He knows me too well. He sensed it, waited for his coffee and didn't say goodbye.
I messed up didn't I? It's just been 3 weeks since the break up, I hope in the future we meet again and I can be more secure and self-aware around him
I just hope this means I "acted like and ex" to him and confused him because we agreed to talk noemally if we ever were to see each other in the future. Man I hate break ups
@Danette I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit which will help you immensely. It has EVERYTHING in it including strategies for every situation including yours.
myexbackcoach.com/ebk
Your ex is not really confused. He/She is just looking for other opportunities. They don't value you, unfortunately. Keep the NC and go for people who will treat you better. Most of them abandoned you in a blink of an eye. Keep you head high and move on with your life. Things will get better. They're not confused, they don't want you. In case that they'd come back it's just to want to try to destroy you because you've made it without them.
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What I liked was after my breakup after 10 years...I just was at his place for a quick stop before the beach (I did not do this on purpose, he went there for food, told me to come up)...Never apologized or mention the girl he left me for 10 months before...but I looked up and above the sink was the plastic rose he gave me during a dinner....we have been back and fourth many times in 6 years...and everytime I MENTION - Oh, you still have the "rose"....this time I just saw it and smiled inside.
Coach lee has been doing this 20 years but looks 35 tops you go coach lee lol
Vitamin C, iodine, and sleep (;
Mine started reaching out to me a month after the breakup. I stayed in no contact and let him initiate. He became more and more flirtatious. Then, he saw me at the gym 2x and I ran into in him and his parents. He contacted me following these encounters. Over the past week, he and I have run into each other 2x and talked quite a bit. He texted me about how cute I am and how happy it makes him to see me happy and doing so well with my career. Then, yesterday, I ran into another girl who began liking his Facebook posts around the same time that he became more aggressive with me, walking his dog. I think hw may be in a rebound.
laurenmountai. What makes you think he's in a rebound? I read your question twice! I think he cares about YOU. If you have feelings for him
Been there-I know how tough it can be. Just wanted to give you the heads up about Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." Seriously, it's a game-changer! This workshop is all about rescuing your relationship and then keeping your relationship strong after the breakup or separation. Oh, and get this: you'll also have a coaching call every month for 6 whole months! So you won’t be going at it alone or anything. To find out more, hit up Coach Lee's team. You can schedule an appointment to discuss all the details at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. If you do, it will blow your mind and give you the support you need.
I am on day 49 NC, I feel a bit better and starting to except and letting do. I am becoming optimistic about the future.
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Still the best! Sorry am always late about your new vid but i make sure, i 'll have the time to chk up on you. You are always my favorite Lee! 🤩🤩🤩
That means a lot Emma!
DAMN! PEOPLE ARE REALLY F’ED UP
you should write a book @coachlee
Coach Lee I need your answer on this please!! During our breakup my gf kept saying “this isn’t goodbye, I still love you, this is the hardest thing ive ever had to do, i love you and I’ll see you later” etc etc etc. What does this mean in a break up?
She wanted to give you hope so she wouldn’t feel that she hurt you “too bad.” It means nothing long term. You still have to re-attract her if you want to get her back. Go into no contact and stay there.
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I went no contact twice only for this person to reach out to me both times just to publicly make a fool out of me
The second time was my birthday. He asked to hang out with me and take me out with our “friends” just for him to publicly show that he was messing with our mutual friend. Oh, and at several places where everyone knew I was with him before. Had people ask me if I was still his girl or if the other girl was his…. I went no contact with all of them.
Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.
Don’t be the fool like me. Don’t go back if they make it their mission to emotionally break you
I just started no contact with my ex. We have a relationship counseling appointment in a week that was made before the breakup was official. We have a daughter and both think it would be beneficial to still go to counseling; however, I'm afraid us going to counseling once every week or two will ruin no contact and he won't want to try to make things better with me.
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It won't ruin anything. You can still have useful counseling and when you leave counseling do not initiate contact. Respond to your ex exactly the way he spoke to you. Do not send affectionate emojis.
Do not be his energy source. Pull away from him. It's one thing to have counseling so you two can be good co parents but another thing entirely when it comes to a romantic relationship.
My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person
She broke up with me two weeks ago, had a little contact with her for a few days but I realized it was hurting me so I started no contact a week and one day ago. She initiated contact a couple times just to say “I hope you’re doing okay” and because we live together even though she’s staying somewhere else, snd she had to come to the house sometimes to get some stuff. I had very little hope that she would come back and I know it hasn’t been enough time for it to have any effect on her. But yesterday I just reflected on the relationship, and how long I knew her before that. I know her very well and I realized that because of who she is, she won’t come back to me. I had to completely let go of that hope and that hurt. I went to a spot at the lake where at one point we sang love songs to each other until we cried, but this time I went alone. I threw my ring into the water and I’m moving forward. It still hurts, and in a different way now. But I know that giving myself hope when I know deep down that it won’t work is only going to hurt my growth.
can you update your story? is she with you?
Helps, I'm hope you're doing so much better. I'd love to know what was about her in her past that made you realise that? I think I'm having those feelings about my ex now too
So I did no contact and after a week and a half she contacted me apologizing about the way she handled the break up, she said she still don’t want to be in contact but she wishes me the best she said that if I ever need her to contact her and she seemed like she wanted the convo to keep going but I ended the convo.
It really works out for me
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Update
Friends is a NO GO!!!!!! 💯💯💯
Hey coach I was wonder can you make a video about ex’s being influenced friends to break up with you?
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she was confused from the beginning, man. in fact she was so confused, that it even confused me to the point we only had arguments and finally broke up. now I’m confused why I still loved her so much.
I made my boyfriend broke up with me. Now I deeply regret it. We had a
good relationship and spent so much time together. I miss that.
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Thanks coach. Whenever i feel depressed i watch your videos. It really helps me. It has been 20 days in NC. She just dumped me bcz of some misunderstanding. She is working with me. But i dont try to reach her. It really hurts. But you are working as healer
@@muazzamabdullahisani3246 thanks dear. I will
Coach Lee, thank you so much for these videos!
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My ex left two weeks ago. She left 90 percent of her things. The biggest thing for me is that she has one of my credit cards and a debit card. She hasn't been using them. (I've been monitoring that) and isn't the type that would do that. In fact a couple days ago she asked if she could use the debit card to get our sun some tylenol. She has mentioned bringing them back and even mentioned helping me pay the credit card off. She has yet to follow through with either of those. I feel like she is using those as a way to stay connected because she may not be totally sure about things. If that's the case and as long as she isn't using them. Without asking first. Iv decided to see how long she might decide to hang onto it.
Mine called me, reflected on our relationship and apologised for his behavior etc. Then he asked me out for that day said he really needed to see me I said no cause I had plans and we decided to plan something today. But throughout the days he pulled back more lol so I cancelled our meeting and now I'm not gonna talk anymore. Its kind of tiring lol feels like he is playing with my feelings.
If you have been initiating contact then stop doing it completely. If he reaches out to you then respond in the exact same manner he speaks to you. Do not send any affectionate emojis.
He is very poisonous. After that he kept calling me and I kept saying I don't wanna hang out with you anymore or have contact with you. In the end we said our goodbyes then I blocked him. I'm fed up of this stupid shit and he isn't worth my time.
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Beautiful blue color on you and Beautiful haircut! God Bless you ! Your advice is THE VERY BEST BECAUSE YOU ARE TELLING THE TRUTH!
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Yes she is confused. I noticed and she even recognized it. But 5 weeks ago she dissapeared, trying to forget me.
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Wow! What I did not think would happen happened today. My ex reached out. It's exactly 1 month and 1 day since I last heard from her. I am fine to be friends with my ex. I think a friendly connection will be a relief for both of us. I can't read her mind, but we probably both miss eachother. I am fine with a friendly connection. In my opinion ex'es makes the very best female friends. Because you already had sex, there is not this sexual tension, which I experience with other attractive females. So hey ex. Let's be friends! Of course some time needs to pass from the breakup. Instinctively I went into no contact when she broke up on April 25th. Now I can handle a friendly connection with her with no problems. Maybe...
Hi Rune,
Glad to hear that she reached out, If you truly feel that your ex would be a good friend that's good for you.
However I would be careful as your ex might have doubts that you two can be just frends, also if you're next romantic partner finds out that you're friends with your ex there might be some unwanted tention in the air.
You did say that you might not feel the same to he just friends. If I was in you're shose I would accept the friendship but act more like someone who is interested in more then a friend.
That's if you truly feel that you are more then friends
@@RayRay-lm8po Well she now told me that she don't want me as friend, she says we are too different. Well it's all Ok. Actually I don't want to be in a relationship with her really.
Hey, coach lee. Around the 30th of no contact, my ex called me to bring her stuff back. I left her stuff and as I was going home she made an excuse for me to come back and see me. As I did the favor and I was about to leave she started crying saying “I hate goodbyes”. As I comfort her she said, “I know we will never get back together”. I'm confused, What should I do? Should I have another period of no contact?
Do not initiate contact. Let her go to you. Make her miss you.
@@galadrielwoods2332 I think she was playing mind games or something to see if I still cared for her. I tried to contact her last week using a GRT. She ignored it. Later on that day I bought food for my family through Uber EATS. Unfortunately, It never arrived when the app said it did. 4 minutes later, my ex is blowing up my phone. I picked up and she said “WHY DID YOU BUY ME FOOOD!?!?!?”. I didn’t realize that her address was my default address on the app 🤦🏻♂️😂. She was angry but in a funny way if that makes sense. Anyways, she said in a playfully way “My boyfriend will Super Sayin Kick you!”. I just laughed it off, cracked a joke, made her laugh, and I ended the call as peacefully as I could. After that she texted me “ur fucking nuts 💀” and I didn’t reply.
P.S I’m positive that her boyfriend is her coworker that she monkey branched to. I always figured she had a boyfriend and I low key asked her if she did when I dropped off her stuff. However, she basically said he was just a friend. What a joke lml. As sad as it sounds I still want to win her back but I think I’m all out of options 🤷🏻♂️. It’s been 1 month and 2 weeks since we broke up. Do I still have a chance? What do you guys think???? 🤔
@@Roastpine She had the other person and you stringing along for her validation game.
Do you think you deserve to be treated like nothing special when you are indeed someone special?
She's in a rebound relationship and they virtually never last. People like her seek validation from as many people as possible.
I say you are a unique and beautiful being and you need to be consciously aware of that every moment of everyday and treat yourself as such.
Do not allow what insecurities you may have to lead you back into a relationship with someone who clearly does not value you.
@@galadrielwoods2332 Thanks for the help! After I accidentally bought her food, she blocked my number. I’m assuming her boyfriend suggested it after the phone call. I’m blocked everywhere but Facebook. I’m tired of trying every trick in the book and it just leads to more heartache. I’m going into indefinite no contact until she reaches out to me on her own.
@@Roastpine Perfect. :-) Take your energy back.
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How do u ask for your things back and when is a right time to ask when they will pay u back the money that they borrowed and how do u do that without it turning into something negative? Does anybody know?
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I rejected her little friendship offer and went no contact and surprisingly, she called me last tonight and it was frustrating because she acted like I was supposed to do all of the talking. The conversation ended with her being frustrated because I made the connection to how just like she expected me to talk it was the same as how she expected me to hold our relationship together without communication from her. I mentioned how there was only a lack of intimacy because I started to feel I was the only one who would initiate the intimacy and she went along the lines and said well maybe I should find someone who doesn't care if he is always the one who has to initiate. That made me very upset how she said this so casually. And I said well even though I'm a man I like to be wanted too. Especially knowing that the way I made her feel intimately was unlike any of her previous flings, she has testified to this sincerely. I said that the feeling should be mutual because it feels good to be wanted and if you don't feel appreciated it's natural to feel discouraged to continue. Especially when someone wants to break up without discussion and when you are back together you don't even know about it because they made that decision on their own as well. She didn't like to hear any of this but mind you we had only got on this topic because she tried to call me the other night like I said and she didn't call back the next day so when she texted me tonight asking if she wanted to call I thought she had something to talk about and she was really just silent after asking me how work was and how I am that was basically it and then I called her out on her silence. She didn't text anything after hanging up saying she was starting to get too upset to talk so I'm sure she'll call again but it's hurtful to believe that she has not become less selfish or more accountable. It almost felt like she called to start stuff to justify not talking to me anymore. I don't know where she start talking about how she felt sick because she got the vaccine and I mentioned to her why would you want to talk about something like this when you know but I don't want you getting laced with no experimental drugs. It's not like she got the vaccine because she's concerned about her health she said she got the vaccine because she wants to feel free again. But we were able to talk about our views on this without quarrel because we were together for the whole pandemic anyway so we know each other and where we stand on the topic. The conversation didn't end until the last part and she was in a hurry to get off the phone 😂 I made some good points and she did what children do when they hear what they don't want to hear they just hang up. I wasn't yelling or anything. And it's funny because the last time I talked to her I admit my faults but what troubles me is that she still doesn't want to admit that she did anything wrong, yet calls me expecting me to do all the talking.wnen last time we talked I spend 3 hours talking about what I did wrong.
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I’ve been binging your videos & they’ve helped tremendously but I’m still a little confused with my situation if anyone can help. After 1 day of no contact he reached out because we’re not used to that & he’s been reaching out everyday since & I haven’t been ignoring him but I also haven’t been 100% engaged which I think is working well but his issue is he wants to talk to multiple females at a time not only me. I have no problem with not rushing, taking it slow, & doing all the no contact steps but I have to have some loyalty there & security knowing it’s just me and him. How can I help this ?
sorry it’s long but even if you could do a video on how to get your ex to only want you that would be amazing !!! 😭
Do not initiate contact ever. Do not say anything about wanting to be with him when you do respond to him. Also, do not respond right away. Make him wait a while before responding. Those other females that are behaving as readily available are boring to him in comparison to you who seems just out of reach and has her own things going on.
@@kyndallroache7192 Do not send hearts or other affection things.
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Hi Coach Lee,
Thank you once again for this. My Ex does all of these. He however, never mentioned the word "break! - up" but acted it out. Ghosting and acting hot and cold are the most prominent acts. I told him, without accusing him that our relationship was not in shape as before and he said things were just fine and he saw nothing wrong with it. I stopped pestering him and gave him his way. I suspected he wanted me to dump him or even beg him. Both of which I avoided, but went on NC instead. When he reaches out, he accuses me for not reaching out to him and has excuses why he didn't. I have stayed cool for 3 months now though he reaches out here and there and it is very casual. I also act casual. What's your advice on this??
Audie, if he's acting like he doesn't want to be bothered "romantically" and doesn't mention break up, i personally would ignore him. That's very cold to act like that. I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit which will help you. It's a POWERFUL Kit and has strategies for every situation.
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Thank you so much. Greatly appreciated. I will go through the book
You know, much of what you say, in many of your videos, is very consistent with the prodigal son story in the Bible, and very consistent with the spiritual warfare that the Bible talks about, that one experiences who had left a relationship, especially a marriage!
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My diagnosed BPD ex of 10 years ghosted me and monkey branched.
I never contacted her ever since, it's 10 month already.
Now she indirectly smears me in TikTok videos of how 'abusive', 'narcissist' etc I was.
I dunno wtf is happening, we almost didn't even have a verbal fights. I didn't offend her ever and she didn't say those things to me while in relationship.
Why is she doing this even that I am not reminding of myself - that's the question.
I keep breaking no contact, we been together 6 years & it feels impossible to just let him go. We been broken up for about 3-4 months but kept in contact for most of it. I finally went 3 weeks into no contact but ended up texting him 2 days ago & he then got frustrated with me because he said he’s still not ready. I think I pushed him away for good this time, I don’t even think no contact will work at this point because I kept texting him, idk if he’ll ever miss me.
No contact almost always works on men. He is a little immature for getting testy if you went a full 3 weeks though. 45 days is the sweet spot girl. Trust in coach lee. If the relationship was good and the break up wasn't too hostile you will hear from him within 2-3 months. Men are stubborn but we don't kid ourselves when it comes to love. The moment he has a single doubt about the break up he will reach out to you.
@@warmcoffee69 he was super understanding everytime I reached out but these past few times I kept texting him to meet up & talk about our relationship, he still met up with me but I could tell he was getting frustrated that I wouldn’t leave it alone. I’m just scared i reached out too many times to the point where I helped him get over me, but I definitely am never reaching out again
Its been 6 months of NC .. which is sad .. maybe she did forget about me
No one ever forgets anyone. She is keeping herself distracted. That's what they do.
So in relation to my ex who left in September and new relationship 2 weeks later:
1) constantly asked about my dating life
2) wanted to be friends. Tried for a bit before I initiated no contact and said I can’t be friends like that
3) has our memorabilia of us in her car, collected on break up day and was still there at least a month later
5) yep, when I threw some stuff away she made snide remarks about it and was acting weird with me prior to no contact
Haven’t spoken since no contact, 27 November, somewhat hopeful after this minus rebound
Sean, it sounds like she wants to be friends, but that's a bad idea! If she's keeping tabs on you and your daily routine, she's probably thinking she can get you back if her rebound doesn't work. A lot of people want to see if the GRASS IS GREENER, and if not, she's making SURE you're still available. Don't fall for it!!
I hate this feeling . Never thought I’d be here again after all these years . No Contact works but when they start texting because you are ignoring them , and then you have to answer as to not be rude , it all goes South. The mixed signals suck
Tricia, DON'T reply. You're better off. Just do what you've been doing. Best of luck...⚘️
Just the right timing. At first I noticed my ex was happy but now she looks even more depressed even after getting what she wants, a new fling, new friends etc. she matched with me on tinder and sent a flirty message(ik, broke no contact) but hopefully things work out.
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Coach We broke up on 2019 8th December. In that time period i broke no contact several time. Please let me know if it’s Possible to get her if i start no contact from now. Please let me know. I found your vidoes couple of days ago. Please coach reply me please.
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