Does standing up for yourself count? Like being talked disrespectfully or setting boundaries or should one just ignore and walk away from the situation
You should consider taking a magnesium supplement. It helps release GABA in the brain which helps us to keep calm. Magnesium Citrate or Magnesium Glycinate is the best. Also dont drink too much coffee
I engage I’m not sure if I have the power or self will to not engage. Or if I care too much That I believe it’s important to give back that same energy. But I do get off to the adrenaline that comes from sticky situations The mirror effect, like I just want others to feels the energy attitude and treatments they put on others 👀
Most bosses? Have no clue of what they are doing. Take what they task you with with grace and dignity. Take it under consideration and make your own decision as to how important it is. Cause they will tell you they all are. Good leadership is so prized cause it’s so rare.
This is exactly where I’ve been the past two years with my boss, it’s insane. I like this advice, something has to change one way or the other, maybe I do more assessment. Thanks Jocko.
This is such great advice. In my job I get lots of requests from different departments and from different levels of management. It's much better to wait a few days and see where it goes before I go full bore into a new project.
Just like in a fight, if you react too quickly, you get tired and don't know whether you're coming or going. You lose focus. I had to change direction and leave a job once because of this very reason. It was never fast enough or I was making mistakes because I was trying to keep up with unreasonable requests.
I came across Jocko at a bar in Waynesville, MO. It bugged me. I couldn't remember who he was. I looked him up. Found out some stuff about him. I was going through a hard time after my father's death and family drama. I believe, if it wasn't for his videos. I wouldn't have grown passed the pain. Thanks Jocko!
@akirathedon Righteous, did your record label have you move around, clear songs and say you have to redo the song .we gave the song up to an younger artist as a sample pack??
Ah yes. The assess but confirm analysis. Something may get you to jump around but don’t let the situation control you by you reacting to everything that arises in its discourse against your own actions to gain the results you are attempting to commit to. Until a better confirmation is realized, certain directions of a different action can be based on a false premise to commit to by your own paranoia tricking your train of thought. Do not let fear define you being in the moment of certain circumstances. False Evidence Appearing Real
lol, slow down your reaction. cool. I always wounder why there are so much problem and nobody doing anything. now I understand, they just wait until they have to. like my room is not clean, I just cannot make it clean enough all the time, there will always be problems, and you can just wait. that's really smart.
Perfect timing, verbally checked a security guard at my residence. My tone was a little aggressive (not cool, self reflection) Keep quiet next time. They work for me I don't work for security, guard has a disrespectful way if speaking to people and I reacted. Lesson learned/DO NOT ENGAGE next time #SelfReflection
By assessing the situation you mean analyzing what is going on before actually reacting right. Well what if you just have a coworker that likes to fuck with you for a reaction do I just stare at him like he is stupid and keep my opinion to myself.
This video is about dealing with incompetence/indecision. Dealing with assholes is a bit different. You could start taking it as a joke and make your reaction the dumbest you can. You could also just say non-binding / vague stuff like "interesting idea" or "let me think about it" and then not react further (e.g. being the most boring and non-commited you can be). There is lots more like this. Hope it helped a bit.
Speaking of some of them are dumb.. 😂 that's us in the future. 1 man is the maximum of 400 MGS, the other 250 going up by likely 100mgs soon and me getting put on to probably closer to 200mgs of a medication. . . But no less than 100 MGS.
Jocko - your comments are full of bots. They’re very obvious to anyone to pays attention. You want your audience to be critical thinkers, right? Hit me up. I know ppl with much more professional looking botnets.
Winston Churchill said “You’ll never reach your destination if you stop to throw stones at every dog that barks”
😂😂😂
Part of maturing is learning which battles hold dignity
Does standing up for yourself count? Like being talked disrespectfully or setting boundaries or should one just ignore and walk away from the situation
Reasonable people learn lessons. Narcissist people find someone to blame.
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Within reason. It won't always be your fault. Sometimes it is them
Came at a perfect time since I do this all the time
You should consider taking a magnesium supplement. It helps release GABA in the brain which helps us to keep calm. Magnesium Citrate or Magnesium Glycinate is the best. Also dont drink too much coffee
You need to grow up
Gay song
Big time.
We are in this together
Perfect timing for me, my new boss ask a lot of rapid results, just need to calm down and engage.
Being around that energy is very difficult for me. I have to slow my reaction to it. I always jump to it. I have to let things rest.❤
I engage
I’m not sure if I have the power or self will to not engage.
Or if I care too much
That I believe it’s important to give back that same energy.
But I do get off to the adrenaline that comes from sticky situations
The mirror effect, like I just want others to feels the energy attitude and treatments they put on others 👀
Cut out toxic people that constantly talk crap, talk down on you, etc. Building your self esteem is partly who you hang out with
Self esteem comes from repeated proof of competence. Not being pushed around is a prerequisite - necessary but not sufficient.
Thank you Mr. Jocko Willink. You have helped me a lot with my life ❤
Great concept and way of handling stressful situations thank you guys 🙏
Jocko should run for president next
Most bosses? Have no clue of what they are doing. Take what they task you with with grace and dignity. Take it under consideration and make your own decision as to how important it is. Cause they will tell you they all are. Good leadership is so prized cause it’s so rare.
Literally going through this right now with a leader. This is great
This is exactly where I’ve been the past two years with my boss, it’s insane. I like this advice, something has to change one way or the other, maybe I do more assessment. Thanks Jocko.
This is such great advice. In my job I get lots of requests from different departments and from different levels of management. It's much better to wait a few days and see where it goes before I go full bore into a new project.
Just like in a fight, if you react too quickly, you get tired and don't know whether you're coming or going. You lose focus. I had to change direction and leave a job once because of this very reason. It was never fast enough or I was making mistakes because I was trying to keep up with unreasonable requests.
Some of the best advice I have heard in a minute...
I came across Jocko at a bar in Waynesville, MO.
It bugged me. I couldn't remember who he was. I looked him up. Found out some stuff about him.
I was going through a hard time after my father's death and family drama. I believe, if it wasn't for his videos. I wouldn't have grown passed the pain.
Thanks Jocko!
I saw you at ufc 309
Great family the Farrars! ✊🏾💯🎯🔥💪🏽
My grand dad always said "just slow your roll"
@@jamesbenton4123 well said
Perfect timing on this advice🙏🏽
This is very helpful for me ! Thank you!
My life became infinitely more manageable when I realized this.
Jocko is full of wisdom.
You mean shit ?
Thank you.
@akirathedon Righteous, did your record label have you move around, clear songs and say you have to redo the song .we gave the song up to an younger artist as a sample pack??
Google/TH-cam is certainly pummelling certain channel content with ads etc.
This is in color! 😂
Good
Ah yes. The assess but confirm analysis.
Something may get you to jump around but don’t let the situation control you by you reacting to everything that arises in its discourse against your own actions to gain the results you are attempting to commit to.
Until a better confirmation is realized, certain directions of a different action can be based on a false premise to commit to by your own paranoia tricking your train of thought.
Do not let fear define you being in the moment of certain circumstances.
False
Evidence
Appearing
Real
Please bring US Air Force Capt Lacey Hester , who just recently received Silver star
Perfect. 😂 Let them burn their energy till opportunistic time.
Fk I take every so seriously for example if someone said something to me I lose sleep over that
lol, slow down your reaction. cool. I always wounder why there are so much problem and nobody doing anything. now I understand, they just wait until they have to. like my room is not clean, I just cannot make it clean enough all the time, there will always be problems, and you can just wait. that's really smart.
Perfect timing, verbally checked a security guard at my residence. My tone was a little aggressive (not cool, self reflection) Keep quiet next time. They work for me I don't work for security, guard has a disrespectful way if speaking to people and I reacted. Lesson learned/DO NOT ENGAGE next time #SelfReflection
Was this hindsight AFTER the black eye?😆
Never had a good Boss... What is that?😂
You're likely not a good employee
@professionalpookie u2
@@davidclouse5894 I'm not the one saying I've never had a good boss ...
Pilot Induced Oscillation
By assessing the situation you mean analyzing what is going on before actually reacting right. Well what if you just have a coworker that likes to fuck with you for a reaction do I just stare at him like he is stupid and keep my opinion to myself.
This video is about dealing with incompetence/indecision.
Dealing with assholes is a bit different. You could start taking it as a joke and make your reaction the dumbest you can. You could also just say non-binding / vague stuff like "interesting idea" or "let me think about it" and then not react further (e.g. being the most boring and non-commited you can be). There is lots more like this. Hope it helped a bit.
12 days left on my certification course, minor things come up. Had to set those aside for the project I’m 5.5 months invested in
Roger that.
Jesus is King
What does this have to do with the video.
Amen, brother. Eyes focused on His love for us at all times.
First 💪🏾
Speaking of some of them are dumb.. 😂 that's us in the future. 1 man is the maximum of 400 MGS, the other 250 going up by likely 100mgs soon and me getting put on to probably closer to 200mgs of a medication. . . But no less than 100 MGS.
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''Jiu Jitsu players''
What americans have done to Jiu Jitsu 😪
oh look... echo and Jocko are trying to steal things again.
Joke O
Your friend Josh the navy diver is lying for you and you know he is.
Free Palestine
How about you react to AH instead of ducking the truth?
This dude wants to be Huberman so bad 😂
Jocko - your comments are full of bots. They’re very obvious to anyone to pays attention. You want your audience to be critical thinkers, right? Hit me up. I know ppl with much more professional looking botnets.
He’s not gonna hit you up guy lol he doesn’t care about bots in comments …
@ I was making fun of him
@ but also lmfao. You have no nuance, I was saying that jocko buys the bots for engagement
@@DRXNESTRIKE yes, I understand that’s what you were saying… but I disagree, not really seeing many bot comments in this video
Mahalo Nui Loa from da heart commander. 🏝🦭