What to do when you feel worthless... | Buddhism In English

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  • @Childrenpark2
    @Childrenpark2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    Who all healing by buddist speech ❤💯

  • @simranatthwal4373
    @simranatthwal4373 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    I actually was feeling worthless the whole day and this video popped on my feed.
    I'm glad I heard his wise words.
    Much needed❤

    • @ModernBuddhism95
      @ModernBuddhism95 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The reminder that being human itself is something to be grateful for is truly uplifting. Sometimes we forget the basics, like having air to breathe and people around us

    • @Unknownlll123
      @Unknownlll123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I always feel this way, there are many people who don't realise just how kind they are because no one ever tells them, I think if people complimented each other more the world would be nicer unfortunately this doesn't happen, every one is capable of being kind if they just think about it, the smallest act of kindness to a person could make them happy for the rest of that day, it's the little things and the best things in life are free if we only look around us. Nammo Buddhya. 🙏.

  • @common9
    @common9 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    This monk is very smart and wise. Helping others during our sadness is indeed value creating. Daishonins Buddhism is still crucial when I feel down. Best wishes to all readers... 👍

  • @apnaanmol9344
    @apnaanmol9344 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I love budhism because it teaches us love compassion and believe in logical fect. 👏👏👏

    • @joker-i8t8l
      @joker-i8t8l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      compassion have no relation with logic

    • @apnaanmol9344
      @apnaanmol9344 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@joker-i8t8lyes, as i said there are three things in budhism compassion, love , and logic.

  • @Sollozo1053
    @Sollozo1053 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Give a value to yourself . It isn't that much important how others see yourself.. Most important thing is how you see yourself.. Accept you as your hero.❤🎉 Namo buddhaya

  • @karabisahariah3724
    @karabisahariah3724 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    My mom always says we are so fortunate that we were born as humans. So why are we worthless, we are grateful ❤

  • @svetlanamandic9785
    @svetlanamandic9785 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I'm thankful we have someone like you here ❤ God bless you!

  • @gao1812
    @gao1812 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I wanted to end it all but the Buddha and the Dharma saved my life 😢❤ ☸️ May I break the first 3 fetters and never fall into lower realms 🙏

  • @MikoMiko-ue5eb
    @MikoMiko-ue5eb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I'm form ethiopian I like this message ❤❤

  • @Scythwolf
    @Scythwolf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I needed this. Started as a teacher in a high school. I was feeling I did so much wrong although anyone seemed to like me, the pupils included. I couldn't shake this feeling though. Your words helped a lot. Thank you.

  • @MissMarieB7075
    @MissMarieB7075 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Thank you for your kindness and encouragement. I look for your videos every day, and your words always help me to find perspective in life. You are teaching me how to be a good person and find joy in this world.

  • @davecameron5355
    @davecameron5355 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you again for your kindness and wisdom. Today has been a difficult day for me - poor mental health and feelings of loneliness. Your reminders about being grateful and generous are very helpful at times like this.

  • @WiseElderly
    @WiseElderly 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Whoever is here, I wish you the courage to overcome every obstacle and the strength to achieve all you desire.

  • @maitreykhandizode6306
    @maitreykhandizode6306 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Your Smile On face is Just very clam And Awesome...🙏💖namo budhay

  • @palidebnath7996
    @palidebnath7996 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All anxieties disappears because of your speech,you add value to so many people's lives.... your words itself is a healing process,let the divine power flows through you all the time 🙏🙏🙏

  • @mariehaverty8209
    @mariehaverty8209 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This work in progress go's on on and on, for as long as I live. Feeling worthless is a human trait, subconsciously we all feel this @ sometimes. When I changed my thoughts/thinking was the beginning, then the things i looked @ changed. ❤

  • @HaharuRecords
    @HaharuRecords 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel happy and get relief when I see a compassionate monk like you, mostly when I feel distracted

  • @AnnaWatson-c4n
    @AnnaWatson-c4n 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    1) check the reality
    2) write gratitude Journal
    3) give more, help more

  • @raksantas1996
    @raksantas1996 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Right when it was needed ♥️ Namo Buddhaya 🙏🏼

  • @MissiJade
    @MissiJade 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you I have been following you since one of your first videos and you give me so much hope and comfort. My gratitude is endless. I believe when we are raised in a family of chaos and unsafe things happen and because young children don’t have the ego that adults have so the child immediately thinks everything is their fault and we feel like we are a zero. This becomes a subconscious mind and soul and we make everything a catastrophe. Then we feel shame which is a core belief in my mind and not just an emotion. Our minds can make anything seem real but if we reparent ourselves that everyone. Gratitude is a key element of happiness and helping others. I am an artist and I love swimming in the ocean, the calmness and gratitude I feel when I’m swimming is the reality of mindfulness and meditative flow in the ocean. Now my mission is to overcome the worthlessness that was created inside me at a very young age and share my work and ways to deal with having a very bad childhoods with using painting on the beach as a form of grounding. Everyone is worth something wonderful in all different ways and that is what makes us unique and special. Thank you for your generosity and teachings on this channel ❤Namo Buddhay 🙏🏼

    • @yourtruenaturej
      @yourtruenaturej 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sukhi hontu

    • @davecameron5355
      @davecameron5355 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MissiJade Thank you for this wonderful post. What happens during our early years stays with us. You are so right about reparenting. It's about accepting what has happened whilst resetting our responses to what happened and using what we have learnt from our past to help us develop so that we can both hope for and move towards a better future. Sent with love

  • @ToddVan-k1q
    @ToddVan-k1q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Today I went to the gym trying to get my body back from what i put it through.it felt great I'm grow day by day it starts with the first realizing I'm worth something letting go growing talking different putting effort to my goals I feel happy I'm thinking different I'm growing 💗 thank you

  • @pappnuvenkatpadma
    @pappnuvenkatpadma 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much monk! I was actually feeling worthless but now your words has enlightened my thoughts and now I feel grateful for what I have in my life. Your words always has great impact in my thoughts. And once again thank you so much monk! 🍀✨❤️

  • @user-CAB
    @user-CAB 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for this message and for including your personal experience with this draining mindset. Certainly we encounter many people who see no value in us, but as long as we recognize our own worth, we can be happy and capable of contributing.

  • @exis8
    @exis8 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    While we can find value in helping others, we must understand that true value is given by ourselves.

  • @MeditativeWisdom_21
    @MeditativeWisdom_21 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's amazing how Buddhism teaches us to find peace within ourselves rather than seeking it externally.

  • @Sarwan-o9i
    @Sarwan-o9i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    BUDISM AND HINDUSM..... BOTH ARE GOOD WAYS OF PEACE

  • @basavarajkaujalgi3947
    @basavarajkaujalgi3947 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    🙏🏻😊😇||नमो बुद्धाय|| 😇😊🙏🏻

  • @AppliedBuddhism-p7r
    @AppliedBuddhism-p7r 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Incredible storytelling! The 3:00 part really brought everything together so beautifully. Much appreciated!

  • @DeepikaTeacher
    @DeepikaTeacher 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amazing. I saw you this evening by a road in a village in Sri Lanka. I couldn't believe it. I regret not being able to talk to you.

  • @TheBuddhistPath-2024
    @TheBuddhistPath-2024 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I appreciated the practical advice you offered, especially the importance of "checking reality" and keeping a gratitude journal. It’s such a simple yet effective way to shift our mindset and recognize the small blessings around us. Your words were both insightful and uplifting!

  • @RealityBuddhism
    @RealityBuddhism 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love Buddhism!!!! Namo Buddhya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @marianneeckertjensen4723
    @marianneeckertjensen4723 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So true that our mind tend to create the worst case scenario.. 🙏

  • @akhilsajeev6786
    @akhilsajeev6786 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Feel of worthless
    1) have gratefulness
    2) gratitude journal
    3) try to help more

  • @blindjedi4139
    @blindjedi4139 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m going through this same feeling time to time. Gonna implement this methodology for me

  • @AISHWARYA_17S
    @AISHWARYA_17S 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Their voice is so peaceful and gives positive vibes❤

  • @saletesilva3351
    @saletesilva3351 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you só much for taking the time and helping us. Brasil. South America

  • @M.Ojha9435
    @M.Ojha9435 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thank you❤❤❤
    Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤❤

  • @freden9234
    @freden9234 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This really helped me today. Thank you.

  • @digvijayvajirgaonker2343
    @digvijayvajirgaonker2343 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks to the monk of Buddha which shows us path of truth of life

  • @jasnapopovic883
    @jasnapopovic883 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We need peace in this world.Thank you ❤️🙏 for tiching us.

  • @dianeheffernan7664
    @dianeheffernan7664 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thankyou for your wisdom and compassion

  • @ParmjitKaur-mj8pu
    @ParmjitKaur-mj8pu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am so thankful and grateful for your videos. Thank you so much for taking the time to make these videos and helping us.

  • @jodumonivlogs2569
    @jodumonivlogs2569 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Love from Assam ❤ India

  • @akanshakushwaha7947
    @akanshakushwaha7947 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just feeling the same state of mind. I m studying doing by work but still i didn't find it worthy and thinking what i am doing nothing great not good and it feels so powerless and fearful 😢 but you always help me at the right time thankyou ❤❤❤❤

  • @Buddhisteachinggs
    @Buddhisteachinggs 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wishing you a life of health, prosperity, and the Buddha's wisdom to guide your every step toward success

  • @kennydebique6192
    @kennydebique6192 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have never had that feeling before, but thanks for uploading these videos.

  • @harmyjim2
    @harmyjim2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks.
    I have probably felt worthless for over fifty years or more. In reality, there have been ups and (more) downs.
    This video makes sense.
    I get up in the morning, and i can take a breath, walk, talk, and many other things throughout the day.
    I should reflect on getting up and the many other small things during the day for the big picture in my life.

  • @paulapereira2855
    @paulapereira2855 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sim, é verdade, só damos valor ao ar límpido se não o tivermos. Em Portugal houve uma grande quantidade de fogos, mesmo na minha cidade, onde não havia fogo, o ar estava cheio de fumo e era horrível respirar. Agora que passou, sinto-me muito grata pelo ar limpo.
    Gratidão pelo ensinamento❤

  • @andrewwater5836
    @andrewwater5836 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is a difficult problem which affects a lot of people. Namo Buddhaya 🙏

  • @BatmanSays
    @BatmanSays 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    if you are here ..... Supreme Buddha has been looking after you and you are blessed !

  • @rasikasurendragamage5860
    @rasikasurendragamage5860 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    0:45 hello namo budhaya

  • @Charvi112
    @Charvi112 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He exactly described my situation 😅
    But now feeling relaxed & worthy 😊

  • @anuradhabhanuse7363
    @anuradhabhanuse7363 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Whenever I see his video suddenly my brain says that you have to smile......❤
    Namo buddhay......🤍🌸⭐

  •  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for this. It was necessary today for me. 🤗☀️🙏

  • @shona4252
    @shona4252 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You always gives answer to my questions 😌🙏
    Thank you so much Dearest Bhanteji Namo Buddhay 😊❤️😌🙏

  • @whoinlok7664
    @whoinlok7664 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    😍Thank you ❤Namo Buddhaya🙏🙏🙏

  • @rahulkrishtech8965
    @rahulkrishtech8965 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you ❤❤
    Nomo Buddhaya

  • @LessonsAndLifes
    @LessonsAndLifes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The quality of your content is unmatched! I always look forward to your uploads

  • @luckivvu2024
    @luckivvu2024 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ur solutions to problems are very practical. I followed the steps you mentioned in a difficult situation. It actually works!

  • @SonamSonam-z5l
    @SonamSonam-z5l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes , I have been struggling every single day

  • @coldcutcombo4704
    @coldcutcombo4704 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This uploaded at just the right time. 🙏

  • @supunsandika5455
    @supunsandika5455 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May Lord Buddha Bless You, our Dear Bhanthe ! 🙏

  • @NandanKumar-je5nl
    @NandanKumar-je5nl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I got rejected five times in a job interview..I needed to listen

  • @shortgraphicshow2k02
    @shortgraphicshow2k02 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you very much... May everyone live peace and Happy

  • @soulwisdomhaven
    @soulwisdomhaven 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your hard work truly inspires me. Keep shining!❤

  • @jyoteegokool7486
    @jyoteegokool7486 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To become a monk is very great must have that capacity
    Lord is with you as you teaches so high lessons o life namau budhayamany thanks

  • @AgathaNwoko
    @AgathaNwoko 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much. You are giving healings. Your video is therapeutic.

  • @bekmanaogful
    @bekmanaogful 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤Goldday my Guru...Lisening to you and watching ypu make my life...giving more knowledge to life..your teachingis have influence me..good...😊

  • @snehatg8268
    @snehatg8268 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please teach the dhammapada verses from 1 to the last verse making episodes of it with stories explained. Much awaiting for that . Thank you so much for all your teachings . It has really helped me to be mindful and calm 🙏Namo buddhaya 🙏😊

  • @olgalight3569
    @olgalight3569 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're always brightening my day! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us! 😊

  • @crimped357
    @crimped357 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thank you for this lesson. I will apply it so many thinks in my mind. NAmo Buddhaya 🙏

  • @KenChan-d2k
    @KenChan-d2k 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just a thought somehow inspired by Buddhism: if keep rebirthing toward infinity, at some point the life will be worthy for sure if considering infinity. If there are no rebirth cycles, then even the most worthy life will be worthless anyway after death. So worthless or not is meaningless, impermanence is the truth

  • @jesitarahman1413
    @jesitarahman1413 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for reminding me this🥹🤌🤲

  • @siddharthsirsat6654
    @siddharthsirsat6654 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very Insightful ❤ Namo Buddhay 🙌

  • @peterneumann7145
    @peterneumann7145 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have helped me with so many things. I can not thank you enough.🙏🏻🙏🏻please carry on with your helpful words and advice,. Namaste

  • @SJ.yayalin
    @SJ.yayalin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was feeling this way from years.

  • @garyeddings2639
    @garyeddings2639 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I drive a little city bus route once a week - often it seems pointless to drive all day for only 5 or 6 riders - but, then I can think that I made a difference for those few folks who maybe just needed a ride to the pharmacy...so, all good

    • @RenskevdWaal
      @RenskevdWaal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I used to live somewhat remotly. YES! Having a bus ride means the world sometimes, for seeing friends, family, school, pharmacy like you said!
      Ever asked the people you drive what it means to them? Maybe having a little small talk could give you some more connection/ meaning to you what you do?
      This often happens in my country and a driver with a smile makes it just so lovely😊 (even though I don't talk so much)!
      I see driving a bus as "driving live", all walks off live take the bus, all hardships and joys are carried by those people. You as a driver can create a safe space to be, to relax for that ride, almost as a meditation. It can be transformative even for just a moment or a day, to see a friendly face with a single welcome in hard times or to share your good news.
      Those 5 or 6 people might not even notice it themselfs but a positieve interaction makes it more likely for them to do some good aswell 😉
      Hope that it inspires, drive safe and take care

    • @Gretchenthedoll
      @Gretchenthedoll 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      YOU are very important, you make a difference that you may never see! Trust me! You help people get to where they need to go, without you they couldn't, you are amazing and a beautiful light. Namaste ❤😊

  • @thefocusstudy
    @thefocusstudy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you
    You clear my worthy mood 🙏

  • @evettewalters504
    @evettewalters504 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Following from the beautiful island of Jamaica 🇯🇲

  • @ts12353
    @ts12353 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Namo buddhayo 💙🙏💙

  • @orrphase77
    @orrphase77 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you my dear💗

  • @ajxtonny
    @ajxtonny 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +124

    All eyes on Bangladesh 🇧🇩 save chakma save Buddhism☸️

    • @ShivamSingh-gj1ws
      @ShivamSingh-gj1ws 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Abhi german cockroach kuch nahi bolega

    • @ShariaOmor-qd6ei
      @ShariaOmor-qd6ei 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      stop spreading rumour

    • @redwanalmahmud6425
      @redwanalmahmud6425 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Attention Please ⚠️⚠️.....
      Nothing happened with Buddhism. Everyone are safe in Bangladesh.This guy is a agent of fascist. Don't believe him

    • @Rajkumar-hw2ri
      @Rajkumar-hw2ri 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ShariaOmor-qd6eiislamic terror spoted

    • @Sarwan-o9i
      @Sarwan-o9i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Save hindusm

  • @inspiringstudio_99
    @inspiringstudio_99 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are an inspiration for me and my channel. Watching them everyday ❤

  • @CuteSandi
    @CuteSandi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are wonderful for explaining this so clearly

  • @raghavghai2786
    @raghavghai2786 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Namo bhudhaaye❤❤❤

  • @clarahernandez5307
    @clarahernandez5307 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Help other always put my mind at ease !!! Thank you 🤩

  • @natassanatasha
    @natassanatasha 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi I hope with Buddhism I wanna be okay again because I have many years problem with my mental health ❤

  • @BuddhaLight-s1x
    @BuddhaLight-s1x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I cherish Buddhism for its profound teachings on compassion and its emphasis on reason and mindfulness in every

  • @TheBuddhistPath-2024
    @TheBuddhistPath-2024 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a helpful and inspiring video! The advice on how to deal with anxiety is practical and easy to apply. Thank you for sharing these simple yet effective methods to maintain peace of mind. Looking forward to more content from your channel! 🙏😊

  • @user-pradnyajadhavgh5pp6uu1v
    @user-pradnyajadhavgh5pp6uu1v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Namo buddhay 🙏🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹 vandami bhanteji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹🙏🇮🇳🙏🌹🙏🇱🇰🙏🌹

  • @sangeeias3881
    @sangeeias3881 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you......🙏❤️🙏 I seen this video at right time...,it seems like this is the exact answer for my condition right now......Thank you ❤🙏🥹

  • @AmmuAmmu-xo5ye
    @AmmuAmmu-xo5ye 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Much Needed for Me Today❤

  • @evettewalters504
    @evettewalters504 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love listening to you ,all your words of wisdom❤❤❤ 🙏🙏🙏💯💯💯

  • @ritusachdeva1691
    @ritusachdeva1691 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your videos make us happy ❤

  • @SenEPrue
    @SenEPrue 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for the good smart advice i appreciate ur video May God bless u for ur wonderful speech 🙏

  • @SanZaya93
    @SanZaya93 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am hindu but i Love Buddism

  • @spookylongfox
    @spookylongfox 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Check the reality - I really like that, thank you.

  • @Harsh-gt9kh
    @Harsh-gt9kh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All hindus respect Gautam buddh.
    Namo buddhaya!

  • @Sabitrimondol-wq7mt
    @Sabitrimondol-wq7mt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this man ❤!! 🇧🇩🇧🇩

  • @vishmiprabhaya5427
    @vishmiprabhaya5427 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May the triple gem bless you dear thero...🙏🙏🙏