How NOT to Message Girls You Meet from Cold Approach (Subscriber Text Game Breakdown)

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  • @PlayingWithFireChannel
    @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

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    • @districtsix6703
      @districtsix6703 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      O

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@districtsix6703 O

    • @fabianryan9192
      @fabianryan9192 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You probably dont give a shit but does anyone know a way to log back into an Instagram account??
      I somehow forgot my account password. I would appreciate any assistance you can give me

  • @yourManLan
    @yourManLan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    "Can't go to a dog park without a dog (laughing emoji)" -> Response : "Don't worry, i'll put you on a leash"

  • @anthonynjie1209
    @anthonynjie1209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    That "romantic-balcony" line is really a cheat code phrase fitting in every text game😂😂😂

    • @Nicotrainz1
      @Nicotrainz1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ong I thought the same until I realized I don't have a balcony 😭

    • @WolfofAsia012
      @WolfofAsia012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Nicotrainz1 you can use romantic sofa and netflix

    • @prodrebillionaire2178
      @prodrebillionaire2178 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@desmondturner5435 depends if youre tryna hook up with the girl or not. meet up, split a bottle and maybe order/make food, turn on a movie and cuddle once youre comfortable with eachother, and end up missing half the movie and getting "distracted"!

  • @Avfc818
    @Avfc818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Nobody:
    PWF: romantic balcony

    • @magnem1043
      @magnem1043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bro has become sentimental to it 💀

  • @ddddaniel6888
    @ddddaniel6888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I Used to think cold approaches were a numbers game. Likewise, a lot of the new 'dating' coaches recommend "phone is for setting dates only" Didn't realize that text game is a whole different arena, especially now in 2020, until I came across PWF and Alex. Just like pick up, it's an art that must be mastered to get rid of the pre-conceived idea that if 'if she shows low interest walk away because your Alpha etc'. B.S. Thankfully we have Alex and Indian PE. You're the man bro, thanks for your product and all your videos.

    • @Leo-yn5fx
      @Leo-yn5fx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      People have taken others advice like AMS word like gospel and end up falling under a very red pill mentality. I can say thanks to him i have more confidence than ever but not where i carry myself to the extreme like him.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks man. Yea a lot of dumb ideas out there unfortunately

    • @chadboy1515
      @chadboy1515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Red pill is complete virgin status. I’m not even joking. Look at the type of men who follow red pill. It’s all very low quality men who literally don’t even know how to talk to a girl at all. They adopt this mindset that women ain’t shit and if she doesn’t comply to me then she loses out. This is just false and virgin status. I realized this only recently. Men who actually get girls and want to increase their skills will watch channels that don’t adopt this “only go for girls with extremely high interest mindset” because you don’t learn from success you learn from failure. In short men who overdose on the red pill are afraid of failure and have an extremely fragile ego, which is why they adopt this arrogant and fake “high value male” kind set. High value men get women. Low value men don’t get women but try to fake it like they actually do

    • @alexandervashchuk7795
      @alexandervashchuk7795 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @Jfitnesss
    @Jfitnesss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    She prolly named him “dog park guy” 💀

    • @colinogorman8279
      @colinogorman8279 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

    • @joelounge713
      @joelounge713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      dog park stalker

    • @aydarfz
      @aydarfz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Overheard two female coworkers talking and one of them was like: „oh, how’s that dog walking guy?“ 😂

  • @rsandhu02
    @rsandhu02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    If you want to get better at text game just imagine he’s going to read your texts to the Internet

  • @jacobfavret1729
    @jacobfavret1729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Not everybody got a damn romantic balcony bro 😂😂

  • @dzllz
    @dzllz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Really helpful! WOuld love to see more cold approachg texting breakdowns

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thanks man. I’ll make more

    • @Hshjshshjsj72727
      @Hshjshshjsj72727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel did you post any other cold approach texting guides? I am mostly doing cold approaches until I fix my picture game

  • @AkiraUema
    @AkiraUema 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That's totally the kind of texting I would most likely do! That's why I love these breakdowns!

  • @ozzell
    @ozzell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I wish I had a romantic balcony.

    • @3GM65D
      @3GM65D 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      hahahah

  • @Legitimatekid
    @Legitimatekid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bro I just want you to know that after one night of using your techniques on Tinder I've already got 3 roots lined up. I've only ever been able to pull one root of Tinder previously and I've had it for 4 years 😂 you're a fucking legend.

  • @abhishektyagi4624
    @abhishektyagi4624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guy changed my dating life, love you man

  • @mikebravo8574
    @mikebravo8574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awesome points as always! Would be great to see more cold approach follow up texts

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks man. Yea I could do another vid on that. There’s also a bunch in the forums also

    • @mikebravo8574
      @mikebravo8574 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel Thanks. I will check the forum, too.

  • @CommandoMaster
    @CommandoMaster 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The texting just came off as weird, incongruent, and too friendly/nice guy. Girl got bored and was like stop bothering me creeper.

  • @lamar6088
    @lamar6088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Straight gold keep em coming‼️

  • @kwrbt2979
    @kwrbt2979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She said yes when I invited her to my romantic balcony, but I don't actually have a balcony. Please advise.

    • @Hoppify1738
      @Hoppify1738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Romantic living room 😂

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      She won’t give a shit when she comes over

    • @Busher50
      @Busher50 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She'll be too horny to care by then

  • @M3urs
    @M3urs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    more text game breakdown, that was 🔥

  • @Its_RichieRich
    @Its_RichieRich 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is your most valuable content. Guys dont know how to text.

  • @Mike-xw4gm
    @Mike-xw4gm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I guess ill check back in in a few days when video appears...

  • @joserodriguez-zd4cv
    @joserodriguez-zd4cv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great content like always Alex 👌

  • @funkyboodah
    @funkyboodah 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    such a great breakdown

  • @ericmiller3673
    @ericmiller3673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey man, been really digging your channel lately, you put out a ton of great content. What type of date would you recommend for someone who has roommates (and therefore no easy access to a romantic spot for wine etc)?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'd still recommend inviting her over. Are your roommates going to be coming out and leaving constantly? Let them know not to do that for a couple hours

    • @ericmiller3673
      @ericmiller3673 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel Thanks man! I’m sure I can ask them to minimize their time in the common area.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ericmiller3673 Exactly

  • @dustinpayton7779
    @dustinpayton7779 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Do you have any closers that arent a bottle of wine and your romantic balcony?

  • @teresemariecloonan.c7739
    @teresemariecloonan.c7739 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Meet here in person. Eyes to eyes

  • @Chiraqtown1
    @Chiraqtown1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Damn he was too vague on what he wanted to do and his jokes weren’t as good but lesson learned 💪👏

  • @ericmolina2300
    @ericmolina2300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    More breakdowns 🔥

  • @AK-hi4hm
    @AK-hi4hm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    that ending was funny

  • @JakubZika
    @JakubZika 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    But what if you approach a girl during a daytime and it all looks good, you have a good feeling about it, but she doesn't respond to your Initial message? Should you let it go or double text her after a couple of days?

  • @dariobuongarzone6469
    @dariobuongarzone6469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But what if during quarantine pubs and cafes are closed so you can either invite her to a park (maybe with vine) or to your place, and she's not the kind of girl to first date at your place.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would figure out why she doesn’t want to come to my place. Is it a safety concern or she’s just super prude. If it’s the former I would suggest we go for a walk first

  • @King_FrancisII
    @King_FrancisII 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you go over dos and don'ts of tinder/bumble profile pics? I know you've done similar videos but it'd be great if you did a video going over how to make a top tier profile (pic-wise)

  • @weehowxtreme3260
    @weehowxtreme3260 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Alex my text game has improved thanks to your videos. Got the girl to go for facetime. However, that's another story already... Any tips on building attraction over facetime or perhaps dating in general when the quarantine is over. Appreciate your contents.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Glad to hear man. I don’t do face time personally. Just dates. I have a video on that already :)

  • @Leo-yn5fx
    @Leo-yn5fx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im so fucking close to pulling the trigger on this product. the membership fb group is superrrrrrrr active i heard

  • @aereasplayi1314
    @aereasplayi1314 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The art of closing a girl 😂

  • @3GM65D
    @3GM65D 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    4:28 HAHAHAHAHAHAHHA I'm fucking dead

  • @josephsullivan2699
    @josephsullivan2699 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    John Anthony has been calling you out

  • @itoarbaiza6818
    @itoarbaiza6818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How do i keep interest with a girl that's not trying to meet up because of the corona? Also keep up with the helpful content.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I would just try to convince her to meet up, if she doesn’t want to then hit her up after this is over

    • @karlitosway7474
      @karlitosway7474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel one year later and it’s still a pandemic lmao

  • @seanrichards977
    @seanrichards977 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Alex, I feel like the whole corona thing was more of a joke. although, it was clearly not framed correctly if it was a joke; seeing as you took it pretty seriously as well. Is there any way to frame something like that to make it obvious that it's a joke (hypothetically speaking)? I'm open to any suggestions :)

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Something I say is “are you worried I got corona hiding under my bed” if she says she’s not sure because of social distancing

  • @thomasm3236
    @thomasm3236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tbh in my opinion if the girl rejects you the first time to go out for a date, quit it.

  • @hulkolas
    @hulkolas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    At 11:50 it looks like a sneeze is coming up and then 11:57 it looks like a burp is coming up. But they never come out. We want sneeze! We want burp! Let it out already

  • @Negentropy_girl
    @Negentropy_girl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this video is great

  • @jamesrick7351
    @jamesrick7351 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    lets just be honest. the guy was not really physically attractive to that girl thats why she kept him at bay

  • @mattias3668
    @mattias3668 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    12:37: What if he doesn't have a romantic balcony or a balcony at all?

  • @hetapolski
    @hetapolski 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    video on good instagram DM'S openers

  • @brokenvanityboston
    @brokenvanityboston 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Step 1: Buy a dog

  • @shush97
    @shush97 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the alternative to "romantic balcony"" for dudes who have a house with no balcony?

  • @TaurenTLT
    @TaurenTLT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That doggi is cute

  • @ddubz6356
    @ddubz6356 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Funding floridas the theme

  • @hablabamosa
    @hablabamosa ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn Alex, how did you lose your hair in 3 years ?

  • @appletechpro4u506
    @appletechpro4u506 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo u r a god of text game , I wanna know what’s the process of getting laid through Instagram I don’t think it’s the same as tinder , I have many cuties on insta but not have tinder

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ll make a video on this at some point in the near future :)

  • @shriyashsonar8082
    @shriyashsonar8082 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Same here, I want to talk to the same girl what can I do now?

  • @joshuavanderpool2531
    @joshuavanderpool2531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did u get a dog jus to pull more chiks lmao

  • @colinogorman8279
    @colinogorman8279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Disastrous she had no interest

  • @JamezJN007
    @JamezJN007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i wonder how he would text if he didnt have the dog and balcony?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I didn't have it for a year in LA. I still texted the same. No girl ever asked "Where's this balcony you invited me to". IF the girl comes over and asks about the balcony or the dog, that means your game is weak

  • @RagingBullKm
    @RagingBullKm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Video about your biggest fackups could be very informative

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What do you mean exactly

    • @bogomilblagoikov6407
      @bogomilblagoikov6407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel i think he wants review of texts that you fucked up and an example of how you could've respond

  • @anthonyjimenez4506
    @anthonyjimenez4506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This dude and his whine.

    • @lNappa
      @lNappa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wine is a whole different vibe to any other drink

  • @KingAztek
    @KingAztek ปีที่แล้ว

    Why would you censor the name of the dog like wtf lol

  • @shriyashsonar8082
    @shriyashsonar8082 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My story is: she used to text me first and probably more interested than I was and what I did wrong was texted her maybe more than I should've done the second day and when I excused for attending a call she texted that oh I don't want to sound rude but I don't care. After that message (Instagram) I didn't send a message and today I did saying: well I can't see how I don't care doesn't sound rude let it go. And a good meme. After that it's not seen and no reply what to do?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Make a post in the forums with the screenshots and I’ll take a look

  • @mediumchungus
    @mediumchungus ปีที่แล้ว

    Show us the balcony

  • @jarettesuikowsky6742
    @jarettesuikowsky6742 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ma boi thirsty af haha!

  • @Ferien7
    @Ferien7 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s obvious she wasn’t interested from the start

    • @taopaille-paille4992
      @taopaille-paille4992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      nope the first few texts she was still giving him chances. He really totally screwed up more and more

  • @kingsantino4179
    @kingsantino4179 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sounds like this guy has literally no girls or friends in his life

  • @ashleyn1979
    @ashleyn1979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤩🤩🤩

  • @supercyphid7
    @supercyphid7 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you make a video on DMing girls on Instagram?

  • @tekiero
    @tekiero 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is going to park good at lockdown? she don't wanna come to my place 😂

  • @morin1997
    @morin1997 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God basics

  • @joelounge713
    @joelounge713 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    good breakdown but on other side its kind of sad that guy has to basically enterntain and convince like a beggar between other 30 guys she is texting with that he is also valuable human for her to meet him, we live in fked culture people,

    • @fieldtech_meets_animols
      @fieldtech_meets_animols 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      the guy is very condescending in so many ways. wtf? your not gods gift to women. get off your high horse and start to treat them like actual emotional people, not a means to an end.

  • @retireconormctapperusuck4999
    @retireconormctapperusuck4999 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @Neil-pf3pk
    @Neil-pf3pk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nah park dates are fun and cheap

  • @suleymannsulo3217
    @suleymannsulo3217 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whats up my n....

  • @mediumslime
    @mediumslime ปีที่แล้ว

    down is implied

  • @coolbian513
    @coolbian513 ปีที่แล้ว

    theres not much you can do via text, if she is interested or not it really doesnt matter what you text unless you really start acting cringe.

    • @dongmingling4052
      @dongmingling4052 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nope,girls don't like to talk with boring dudes who can't give them roller coaster emotional experience