When I log into TH-cam, I do things in this order: See new PlayingWIthFire video, click new video, smash like button, push play, become enlightened, post results. Thanks for the content. Continuing to implement your advise everyday.
I think you really need to understand some things 1. Any woman, fat or not, would be completely valid in getting offended because you're pressuring them to prove to you that they're not a "secret fatty" by sending you body pics of them. Especially if they're not comfortable with sending pics to men they just met online. I can guarantee you, I'm not fat by any means, but when a man I just started talking to almost immediately asks for pics of me showing off my body, that doesnt sit right with me. And that's something that happens to me with almost every man I talk to online. And maybe you think that means theres something wrong with me, or that I'm insecure. Whatever, but that's the truth of the matter and I really recommend you take that into consideration the next time you get upset because a woman is hesitant in immediately sending pics of herself showing off her body. 2. Do you not realize that there are women who like to actually get to know the person they're talking to before they decide to meet up? Like, maybe it's just me, but I'm not a fan of just meeting up with people I started talking to less than a day ago. I like to feel like the man I'm talking to is someone I might actually want to spend time with and I wouldnt be able to decide that by just jumping into meeting up with them. And belittling and insulting a woman because shes trying to be considerate of the health and safety of the vast majority of people (and the fact that a stay at home order is a government order) is super ignorant of you. If you care more about hooking up with people, regardless of the fact that you should be caring more about staying safe and healthy, and protecting the well being of the people around you, then I think that says more about you, than it says about the woman.
1) if almost every single man you talk to asks for pics to prove that you’re not fat, it’s because your profile lacks clear body pics. Put one in there and the problem will be solved 2) people are free to believe what they want. Just like I am free to mock them for being hypocrites
You make such valid points . I watched his video and had similar thoughts. With all that is going on , meeting people in person is risky and its an instant turn off to me when people are willing to risk their safety to meet a stranger off the internet. That screams a low value man to me. Its like they see us solely as a means to an end. Instead of taking advice from men about women, men need to take advice from women about women. Some of these men do not know how to speak to women with decency and it shows.
I agree with #2 but I understand his point about #1. I’ve been deceived with photos and it sucks. Just put a full body pic up and let them decide if they’re attracted to you it’s simple then they don’t have to ask
Ve Gainz which is fair but it’s assholes like him that treat overweight girls like trolls that make them hesitate. I am sorry women weren’t honest with you tho
almost 2024 just found your channel... My online game is weak AF but watching your content literally has gotten me up to speed for knowing how to pre qualify these girls so your know which one of the 4 types your dealing with so I can speak openly and know their intentions better from the start... my first time using tinder no joke.... always had a gf and now its literally how they all meet up these days... thnx Alex
The majority of annoying frustrated cowardly girls who do that way outnumbers the guys, in cowardly Paraguay now and it seems all they do in Paraguay and Argentina then they wonder why they are miserable and frustrated.
Thanks for very interesting video and your own list of red flags. Online dating is famous for its scamming. But also there are other signs when you should run from this girl. When seeing all the pretty ladies on online dating platforms and apps, I guess we can understand why men would ignore red flags. You should take into account if the following happens: - Fall in Love too Quickly - Saying “I’m trouble” - Asking for a Favor (aka Money) - No Photos or Video Call - Not Respecting Your Boundaries Anyway I believe that you can find a lady who is real, shares common interests, and is truly interested in getting to know you - the real you.
That Corona girl you’ve been texting literally shows that we’re just all the same my guy! We don’t care about other girls but when they’re close to your location... No matter how your good your text game is if the girl is close... it just makes you lose it.
On Facebook dating you can comment on their pictures before matching so when I think of something clever I sent it as a comment and they match with me sometimes I'm guessing when they liked what I said however they don't say anything back and it makes it weird for me to say another line. Any tips on anything I could say or should I just wait for them to reply?
This is bomb Alex! Love this one, because it's the most relevant these days. Can you make more in depth video about, how to have boundaries with these kind of time wasters and red flags, how to correctly deal with them and don't get emotionally touched, I mean sometimes I just want to tell them to pay for my time as a fixed rate :D, because those untitled slu..girls feel they are the main thing in life, but in most cases I just cut them off straight away, don't bother myself. Also your tinder tips and ecspecialy tinder bio tips made success for me a lot ! Thanks.
I think the way you handle the situations with girls is great: you are very patient but at the same time you respect yourself.. it's the first time for me to see someone capabke of doing it.. Sometimes we do the mistake of being too "nice" or on the other side being too "of, fuck off then". But you showed me that there is a way in between
I agree with most of the things you say but you are leaving out the importance of building trust and comfort. You can have an incredible conversation with a girl on an app and it can be going really well and get very flirtatious and sexual, but for most girls if you don't pepper in some normal stuff and show her that you are also just a normal person that can stop stop the (necessary) trust building part of the process which like 8 times out of 10 can be the difference between keeping things in the realm of fantasy to actually setting up a date. Really important and underappreciated thing that can maximize your results.
Bru! Been there. What a waste of time. The narcissist were my worst because I was like I can put up w this but once I hit I’m ghost. Now I don’t even bother. Next. Thanks for videos homie. Love the channel. Peace!
I matched with this hot af latina who gave me her snapchat and would message me all the time but constantly had excuses about meeting. She looked real thin but was going to have lipo done before she would meet. Then she was too sore for weeks. Then covid, just one excuse after another. I thought big deal my investment is so low just a text here and there but months later and still no meetup. Then I log in one day and she has a picture in her feed of "her boo". Ugh. Felt like a fucking idiot. Unfriended and moved on.
Idk man that one chick had a point. You can be as "busy" as you want to be but we've all got our phones in our pockets, and it takes like 10 seconds to text someone back. It's really not that time consuming.
Ok but if your working and can’t be on your phone or if your in the middle of something like helping your mom with cooking and she still expects you to answer the second she messages you is very unreasonable
Funny..I’ve been dealing with the same thing from a guy I recently started talking too...think he’s just wasting my time by trying to text and not meet up in person 🙄 surprisingly it goes both ways
Does he only initiate contact late in the night and doesn't let you stay over? Does he cuddle? Does he share personal information? Does he meet you when you want? Or only when he can/wants? But, when you have doubts about if he sees you as a booty call, then you're probably a booty call for him. You just need to confront him. He'll respect you for that. OR, leave. Either way, a win win if you want something more from the guy
Yo bro, I’m 16 years old, high school in UK, trying to have that abundance lifestyle, but I’m struggling with getting girls because they think I’m a player / fuckboy or I try too hard and flirt with everyone, so even tho most of them find me quite attractive, they won’t go for me. I’m popular, athletic, trying to work on myself, trying to be an alpha, but I cannot get girls right now, I need advice bro. Other people reply advice too, I need it.
Nice, i hate timewasters they are fuckt up... 1. Do u always call your tinder/instagram girls before u meet them? 2. do u text girls every day if they cant meet that same week to avoid flakes or how do u do it to get her to know u... 3. What to do if a girl says " i don't know u yet let us speak little more"
1) No. I do that only once in a blue moon 2) no that would be a nightmare. I just text a bit here and there between dates and then amp it up the night before and confirm morning of
Good old "fat-fishing". 😁 I had a girl pull that on me once. Pics she used were like 5+ years old. When I saw her walking up pushing 300lbs I called an audible. Told her it was too nice of a day to drink coffee. So I took her across the street to the park where the hiking trails were. I took her on a 5 mile hike with plenty of hills. After we finished she crashed down on the bench swear dripping and complaining about her feet. I said "Do this everyday and you'll get down to the weight you were in the pics on your profile." Then I walked off with her speechless. What bothered me was that she knew my preferences and even said on the phone she hated being catfished too. So she flat out lied.
Honestly same lol. Must’ve been a rocket because I’d be outta there after the one night of flaking. But if she was hot enough maybe push it a little farther
lol fatty surprise happened to me twice. I was super disappointed. I love curves but it's not nice that the girl does not meet the expectations you have gotten over the days you have been texting and bonding. pls ladies be explicit, you don't want any awkward dates
12:30 WTF, i had this same exact conversation with a girl here in Morocco. and I called her out on her bullshit. Female behavior is very similar across the world.
This must be a us thing with giving up phone number, in Norway no-one wants to give up their number, Ive always scheduled over snap or tinder. Everyone I talked to find it strange to give away their number.
I don´t think so because it doesn´t validate anything about her and can also low key be calling her "stupid" (which we saw she did)...If you call someone blue eyed it low key means "stupid" synonymous with "blonde"...Most likely not in the states but elsewhere it can mean that...
Hey man, really appreciate your content--learned a lot for sure. I gotta say though that I'm a little bit disturbed that you didn't next that last girl sooner. It was clear pretty early on that even if you did get that meet up, the interaction would be a nightmare at some point. One thing that I feel has taken my game and overall attractiveness to women to the next level is how fast I next hot girls. Most guys give hot girls more leeway (which is why they often end up being emotionally stunted nightmares), but I give them less. It makes women respect me so much more. In the long run, you get more high quality women and have better interactions. Women can just sense it in your aura if you'll next them super fast if they're not cool. I would've stopped responding very early on to that girl, but DEFINITELY after she missed your date because she got too drunk. Btw, definitely agree with you about distinguishing between legitimate excuses versus weak, disrespectful excuses. Silence is powerful. No response is a response. Remember that. People really will start to feel it in your energy and respond accordingly.
If it has worked well for you, it has. I have been on both ends of the spectrum. I've met women who were a nightmare over text but amazing people in person. And the other way around as I've described in the video. In the end, I do have my own standards around what kinda women I keep in my life. The hotness alone will be enough for me to hookup with a girl. But, she needs to have certain value systems in place and be a high quality girl for her to be in my life for a longer period of time I believe in my game doing the work for me and NOT my aura. As I've said, "For each it's own"
@@PlayingWithFireChannel Yeah, I guess that's a fundamental difference: hotness is not enough for me--even for one night. If I don't like someone's personality, I don't want them standing next to me, let alone in my bed--even if they're drop dead gorgeous. But if you're down just off hotness, do your thing. I find the sex is a thousand times better when a girl is really cool/smart/chill/interesting as well as hot. Also, I think it depends on how much you use your network to meet women. I rely heavily on my network and so I have a reputation as being really discerning, which gets me more women. You rely more on online dating so the ramifications of hooking up with some girl who's hot but obnoxious are nonexistent for you. Anyway, your text and online game are levels above mine. I read and write a lot, have nuanced, thorough takes on things (NOT saying you don't) so I often struggle with brevity (fucking clearly). But, in person, I feel like if I'm feeling like myself at all, it's a wrap. Keep doing what you do. Trying to get my text and online results to be somewhere close to my in-person results. Appreciate you, homie.
@@PlayingWithFireChannel Good point. Some of the girls would not answer but would call/ facetime back later. Btw, your videos are amazing bro!. The same strategies work for business/ sales.
this was so relatable with the narcissistic hot girl type. this video was not biased at all and hits reality hard. amazing content man, thank you.
Thanks man, glad you enjoyed it
When I log into TH-cam, I do things in this order: See new PlayingWIthFire video, click new video, smash like button, push play, become enlightened, post results. Thanks for the content. Continuing to implement your advise everyday.
My man, thank you for the support
Dude, keep these videos coming. This channel singlehandedly resurrected my text game. It’s almost like... playing with fire
Nice, glad to hear man. Will do
@@PlayingWithFireChannel Absolutely, helps a lot, shukriya aapka 🙏
I think you really need to understand some things
1. Any woman, fat or not, would be completely valid in getting offended because you're pressuring them to prove to you that they're not a "secret fatty" by sending you body pics of them. Especially if they're not comfortable with sending pics to men they just met online. I can guarantee you, I'm not fat by any means, but when a man I just started talking to almost immediately asks for pics of me showing off my body, that doesnt sit right with me. And that's something that happens to me with almost every man I talk to online. And maybe you think that means theres something wrong with me, or that I'm insecure. Whatever, but that's the truth of the matter and I really recommend you take that into consideration the next time you get upset because a woman is hesitant in immediately sending pics of herself showing off her body.
2. Do you not realize that there are women who like to actually get to know the person they're talking to before they decide to meet up? Like, maybe it's just me, but I'm not a fan of just meeting up with people I started talking to less than a day ago. I like to feel like the man I'm talking to is someone I might actually want to spend time with and I wouldnt be able to decide that by just jumping into meeting up with them. And belittling and insulting a woman because shes trying to be considerate of the health and safety of the vast majority of people (and the fact that a stay at home order is a government order) is super ignorant of you. If you care more about hooking up with people, regardless of the fact that you should be caring more about staying safe and healthy, and protecting the well being of the people around you, then I think that says more about you, than it says about the woman.
1) if almost every single man you talk to asks for pics to prove that you’re not fat, it’s because your profile lacks clear body pics. Put one in there and the problem will be solved
2) people are free to believe what they want. Just like I am free to mock them for being hypocrites
You make such valid points . I watched his video and had similar thoughts. With all that is going on , meeting people in person is risky and its an instant turn off to me when people are willing to risk their safety to meet a stranger off the internet. That screams a low value man to me. Its like they see us solely as a means to an end. Instead of taking advice from men about women, men need to take advice from women about women. Some of these men do not know how to speak to women with decency and it shows.
I agree with #2 but I understand his point about #1. I’ve been deceived with photos and it sucks. Just put a full body pic up and let them decide if they’re attracted to you it’s simple then they don’t have to ask
Ve Gainz which is fair but it’s assholes like him that treat overweight girls like trolls that make them hesitate. I am sorry women weren’t honest with you tho
Here you dropped ur crown👑
If you push for a meet up n she text you something else or you can literally tell she’s avoiding, bye bye 👋
Yes. I’d probably persist a bit and see if there’s a reason she’s hesitant. Does she maybe have an unanswered concern
Jesus man, that girl must’ve been crazy hot for you to have that much patience for all that bullshit😆
lol I would have noped out at the first sign of trouble.. I can't believe he wasted so much time with her. What a nutcase.
damn, ive been one of those guys that are super happy and validate any type of selfies that they are sending me. that's gotta stop.
Never validate women
@@BakaryD facts let them to do the talking reminder you’re the prize NOT them
almost 2024 just found your channel... My online game is weak AF but watching your content literally has gotten me up to speed for knowing how to pre qualify these girls so your know which one of the 4 types your dealing with so I can speak openly and know their intentions better from the start... my first time using tinder no joke.... always had a gf and now its literally how they all meet up these days... thnx Alex
Awesome bro
There is a lot of competition on dating apps and a lot girls who are looking for love but get bored really easily.
FYI there are plenty of guys who only want sexting and never want to meet for several reasons. Probably they have a wife.
FYI there are plenty of women who only want sexting and never want to meet for several reasons. Probably they have a husband/boyfriend
Yes, I have no doubt that there are
The majority of annoying frustrated cowardly girls who do that way outnumbers the guys, in cowardly Paraguay now and it seems all they do in Paraguay and Argentina then they wonder why they are miserable and frustrated.
Respect to you for that last girl, I would’ve abandoned it earlier on in the interaction. Too much drama there.
Only problem I have with the clip is that it´s too short :D The last one though reminded me of some interactions I had , narcissistic af ..
Here’s a good tip for weeding the fatty out. Look at the collarbone. If it’s defined she’s not fat. If you can’t see it she’s overweight.
Fingers and hands are also good tells
Who cares if she's fat?
@@marksherrit5874 People who aren't attracted to fat chicks.
Wrong. Big natural boobs or genetics.
Always good content, keep it real!
Thanks man
Thanks for very interesting video and your own list of red flags. Online dating is famous for its scamming. But also there are other signs when you should run from this girl. When seeing all the pretty ladies on online dating platforms and apps, I guess we can understand why men would ignore red flags. You should take into account if the following happens:
- Fall in Love too Quickly
- Saying “I’m trouble”
- Asking for a Favor (aka Money)
- No Photos or Video Call
- Not Respecting Your Boundaries
Anyway I believe that you can find a lady who is real, shares common interests, and is truly interested in getting to know you - the real you.
So basically 99% of girls on the app😂
Why else would they be there lmao
But also why tf am i there then 😤
"you didn't text me enough, its weird you just want to meet up."
Oh like people for 10,000 years have been doing? grow up.
Dude you did waste your time with that chick. Flake on me once I’m on to the next that’s it.
That Corona girl you’ve been texting literally shows that we’re just all the same my guy! We don’t care about other girls but when they’re close to your location... No matter how your good your text game is if the girl is close... it just makes you lose it.
Spot on homie! One of the best videos I've seen covering these topics. You broke each category down perfectly.
How do respond to girl trying to move chat to Snap chat? Not in the mood to waste time
On Facebook dating you can comment on their pictures before matching so when I think of something clever I sent it as a comment and they match with me sometimes I'm guessing when they liked what I said however they don't say anything back and it makes it weird for me to say another line. Any tips on anything I could say or should I just wait for them to reply?
This is bomb Alex! Love this one, because it's the most relevant these days. Can you make more in depth video about, how to have boundaries with these kind of time wasters and red flags, how to correctly deal with them and don't get emotionally touched, I mean sometimes I just want to tell them to pay for my time as a fixed rate :D, because those untitled slu..girls feel they are the main thing in life, but in most cases I just cut them off straight away, don't bother myself.
Also your tinder tips and ecspecialy tinder bio tips made success for me a lot ! Thanks.
Yes I can do something like that. Glad you enjoyed the vid
bro, amazing content
I think the way you handle the situations with girls is great: you are very patient but at the same time you respect yourself.. it's the first time for me to see someone capabke of doing it..
Sometimes we do the mistake of being too "nice" or on the other side being too "of, fuck off then". But you showed me that there is a way in between
She probably is lying about being at her friends house and met other dude that day. He was probably just a backup guy in case
Holy shit dude - identifying a narcissist this quick is really smart. Spot on advices.
Dude had me laughing but he gave a lot of value
I agree with most of the things you say but you are leaving out the importance of building trust and comfort. You can have an incredible conversation with a girl on an app and it can be going really well and get very flirtatious and sexual, but for most girls if you don't pepper in some normal stuff and show her that you are also just a normal person that can stop stop the (necessary) trust building part of the process which like 8 times out of 10 can be the difference between keeping things in the realm of fantasy to actually setting up a date. Really important and underappreciated thing that can maximize your results.
You are great
Keep it up man 🙏
Thanks man
Your a cool dude man , I laughed at the call outs on these fake women that created issues .
Ofcourse
Bru! Been there. What a waste of time. The narcissist were my worst because I was like I can put up w this but once I hit I’m ghost. Now I don’t even bother. Next. Thanks for videos homie. Love the channel. Peace!
This guy has 10k wtf 😂😂 thought he would have minimum 500k
Soon I hope
@@PlayingWithFireChannel give it a year. you got this
@@bradybird9572 Thank you sir
75K.
I matched with this hot af latina who gave me her snapchat and would message me all the time but constantly had excuses about meeting. She looked real thin but was going to have lipo done before she would meet. Then she was too sore for weeks. Then covid, just one excuse after another. I thought big deal my investment is so low just a text here and there but months later and still no meetup. Then I log in one day and she has a picture in her feed of "her boo". Ugh. Felt like a fucking idiot. Unfriended and moved on.
Idk man that one chick had a point. You can be as "busy" as you want to be but we've all got our phones in our pockets, and it takes like 10 seconds to text someone back. It's really not that time consuming.
Ok but if your working and can’t be on your phone or if your in the middle of something like helping your mom with cooking and she still expects you to answer the second she messages you is very unreasonable
These texts are insane 😂
Corona really brainwashed all the normies, I blame their parents
Pretty easy to change their mind though, meeting up with a "no meet ups during quarantine" chick this week.
Haha these episodes are great
that last one was a total flake and drama queen. Not honest. time waster yes.
Agree
You are radiating sassy man energy 😂😂😂
Funny..I’ve been dealing with the same thing from a guy I recently started talking too...think he’s just wasting my time by trying to text and not meet up in person 🙄 surprisingly it goes both ways
Barely ever does. But too bad you drew the short straw
I missed where he said that men never do these things.
@@sarabesche Exactly. Never said that
Could you make a video for women to recognize someone who is only interested in booty call?
Does he only initiate contact late in the night and doesn't let you stay over? Does he cuddle? Does he share personal information? Does he meet you when you want? Or only when he can/wants?
But, when you have doubts about if he sees you as a booty call, then you're probably a booty call for him. You just need to confront him. He'll respect you for that. OR, leave. Either way, a win win if you want something more from the guy
Yo bro, I’m 16 years old, high school in UK, trying to have that abundance lifestyle, but I’m struggling with getting girls because they think I’m a player / fuckboy or I try too hard and flirt with everyone, so even tho most of them find me quite attractive, they won’t go for me. I’m popular, athletic, trying to work on myself, trying to be an alpha, but I cannot get girls right now, I need advice bro. Other people reply advice too, I need it.
Your to player being nice 80% of the time and alpha 20% of the time
How did this story turn out?
18:25 Didn't you give her the benefit of the doubt too much? After the first like 4-7 texts it was clear she was a crazy time waster 😂
I need to add body pic to mine but only one I have on my phone at the moment and not appropriate lol I just haven’t done it yet 😂
Nice, i hate timewasters they are fuckt up...
1. Do u always call your tinder/instagram girls before u meet them?
2. do u text girls every day if they cant meet that same week to avoid flakes or how do u do it to get her to know u...
3. What to do if a girl says " i don't know u yet let us speak little more"
1) No. I do that only once in a blue moon
2) no that would be a nightmare. I just text a bit here and there between dates and then amp it up the night before and confirm morning of
3) “what would you like to know”
PlayingWithFire thank u 4 the answer alex
How doesn't this have more views?
most girls just trying to get IG followers
Some, not most
Good old "fat-fishing". 😁 I had a girl pull that on me once. Pics she used were like 5+ years old. When I saw her walking up pushing 300lbs I called an audible. Told her it was too nice of a day to drink coffee.
So I took her across the street to the park where the hiking trails were. I took her on a 5 mile hike with plenty of hills. After we finished she crashed down on the bench swear dripping and complaining about her feet.
I said "Do this everyday and you'll get down to the weight you were in the pics on your profile." Then I walked off with her speechless. What bothered me was that she knew my preferences and even said on the phone she hated being catfished too. So she flat out lied.
This whole week has been a Time-Waster tornado! Tinder and Bumble. Mostly Tinder. Something in the water around here I guess.
I find most catfishes are mostly fake online C2C websites. Pay this to see this type thing.
The comment of "you are not some kind of secret fatty right" would be a red flag for me if i was said that
So after all your hook-ups have you met your princess?
A few
5:50 killed me dude
That girl who stood you up for getting drunk with her friends must have been a fuckin stunner, I'm surprised you kept arguing with her after all that.
Yes she was a stunner
Honestly same lol. Must’ve been a rocket because I’d be outta there after the one night of flaking. But if she was hot enough maybe push it a little farther
That last girl though lmao
You live like 200 meters from my house. You in miami right?
Yes
@@PlayingWithFireChannelahh you wanna get some wine on my spontaneous pattio?
Omg that narcissistic girl hit me deep... Been there 😕
Bro, When are you going to post your transformation video.
My fitness transformation video I assume you mean
@@PlayingWithFireChannel plus other positive changes you've made in your personality
First off id never date a girl into a guy like this. 2nd I find this d-bags videos hilarious
Your videos are funny. So much truth.
Thanks man
She was with a dude
This guy's funny as fuck
To this guy what is not leading to '' hooking up'' it s a waste of time. Goal wasting women s time.
I should be a billionaire with what I have done for this god damn planet.
And, nothing happens...
11:40 bro you’ve used that same line on girls lmao
lol fatty surprise happened to me twice. I was super disappointed. I love curves but it's not nice that the girl does not meet the expectations you have gotten over the days you have been texting and bonding. pls ladies be explicit, you don't want any awkward dates
12:30 WTF, i had this same exact conversation with a girl here in Morocco. and I called her out on her bullshit.
Female behavior is very similar across the world.
that girl at 13:33 reminds me of my ex, so fucking disgusting🤮🤮 i don't know why i didn't break up with her sooner
12:43 lmao ily bro
How would you respond if she tells you she got a nob?
What is a nob?
@@PlayingWithFireChannel means dick in England
"Let's have a sword fight"
Bro 😂😂
8:17 but what if I'm into that??
No judgey :P
This must be a us thing with giving up phone number, in Norway no-one wants to give up their number, Ive always scheduled over snap or tinder. Everyone I talked to find it strange to give away their number.
Mmm... I know this is good advice on what to look out for but it just sounded like you needed to vent lol.
Lol. I made this video cause people kept requesting it. But it was more interesting then I expected
5:53 She is extremely.... brainwashed.
@perfectiondoesntexit his comment is even more true now
How do I get on the mastermind group?
The mastermind is part of our online dating blueprint product, more info on our site. (Link in description)
Calling her blue eyes isnt validating?
I don´t think so because it doesn´t validate anything about her and can also low key be calling her "stupid" (which we saw she did)...If you call someone blue eyed it low key means "stupid" synonymous with "blonde"...Most likely not in the states but elsewhere it can mean that...
Nah, I’m not saying “I love your sexy blue eyes”. It’s just a flirty greeting
Imagine getting put in one of his videos 😅💀🤣
behavioral problems could go on and on. there's like a million little things. it's like 95% of the girls that i end up screening out
can i give 10million likes on this video?? its just so valid how many crazy chicks are out there
Or rather, send this video to a few of your friends ;)
Where can I go so I can hookup with legit girls
A whorehouse
Sounds so beta the persistence can easily be overdone
High school
Hey man, really appreciate your content--learned a lot for sure. I gotta say though that I'm a little bit disturbed that you didn't next that last girl sooner. It was clear pretty early on that even if you did get that meet up, the interaction would be a nightmare at some point. One thing that I feel has taken my game and overall attractiveness to women to the next level is how fast I next hot girls. Most guys give hot girls more leeway (which is why they often end up being emotionally stunted nightmares), but I give them less. It makes women respect me so much more. In the long run, you get more high quality women and have better interactions. Women can just sense it in your aura if you'll next them super fast if they're not cool. I would've stopped responding very early on to that girl, but DEFINITELY after she missed your date because she got too drunk. Btw, definitely agree with you about distinguishing between legitimate excuses versus weak, disrespectful excuses. Silence is powerful. No response is a response. Remember that. People really will start to feel it in your energy and respond accordingly.
If it has worked well for you, it has. I have been on both ends of the spectrum. I've met women who were a nightmare over text but amazing people in person. And the other way around as I've described in the video.
In the end, I do have my own standards around what kinda women I keep in my life. The hotness alone will be enough for me to hookup with a girl. But, she needs to have certain value systems in place and be a high quality girl for her to be in my life for a longer period of time
I believe in my game doing the work for me and NOT my aura. As I've said, "For each it's own"
@@PlayingWithFireChannel Yeah, I guess that's a fundamental difference: hotness is not enough for me--even for one night. If I don't like someone's personality, I don't want them standing next to me, let alone in my bed--even if they're drop dead gorgeous. But if you're down just off hotness, do your thing. I find the sex is a thousand times better when a girl is really cool/smart/chill/interesting as well as hot. Also, I think it depends on how much you use your network to meet women. I rely heavily on my network and so I have a reputation as being really discerning, which gets me more women. You rely more on online dating so the ramifications of hooking up with some girl who's hot but obnoxious are nonexistent for you. Anyway, your text and online game are levels above mine. I read and write a lot, have nuanced, thorough takes on things (NOT saying you don't) so I often struggle with brevity (fucking clearly). But, in person, I feel like if I'm feeling like myself at all, it's a wrap. Keep doing what you do. Trying to get my text and online results to be somewhere close to my in-person results. Appreciate you, homie.
Lol bro ur way to real on here u know chicks going to watch this shit
Great video bro!. So funny and specially the fat girls part. When I match w/ a girl I FaceTime them.
Not a bad idea. But some girls feel awkward to video chat
@@PlayingWithFireChannel True but It eliminates the fat ones and the ones that post pics from 1999
@@mohammedicheaib1 Why are you only assuming she's fat because she doesn't like to Facetime?
@@PlayingWithFireChannel Good point. Some of the girls would not answer but would call/ facetime back later. Btw, your videos are amazing bro!. The same strategies work for business/ sales.
I love bbws, as long as her face is really pretty.
In 5 years this channel will be titled: “depressed bachelor hating all women” 😏
Negative
PlayingWithFire positive. You’re in a feminine energy. This cannot end well.
@@MejgJanssenTV Thank you for your insights
PlayingWithFire you’re welcome, Beta
Secret FAtty lol