Introverts Think Their Suffering Is Unique - Jordan Peterson

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  • In this video Jordan Peterson Explains why introverts think that there is something uniquely wrong with them and how and why they should change their way of thinking about suffering.
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  • @richardmcgrath7959
    @richardmcgrath7959 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    The video title is inaccurate. He's talking about introverts who have certain issues, not introverts in general.

  • @nixda5370
    @nixda5370 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Being introvert is not being mentally ill. Totally wrong title of the video

  • @juangaby
    @juangaby ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I went thru trauma. Nothing has been more rewarding than being an introvert

  • @agentorange153
    @agentorange153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Misleading title -- it implies that introverts are always suffering from negative emotions, and this is just not true!

  • @nicolasacosta1673
    @nicolasacosta1673 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This title is wrong. If you're introverted and you like being alone there's nothing wrong with you. However if you feel lonely and long for human contact then yea you might have some issues you need to work out but that has nothing to do with being introverted. A true introvert doesn't suffer from loneliness, we love being alone.

  • @ignanitzart
    @ignanitzart 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Inaccurate title, man. Misleading

  • @GregoryBoyce-w3i
    @GregoryBoyce-w3i 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My life was with nature and horses. Diagnosis is a problem. I prefer to remain on solitude as a path

  • @DrewLove777
    @DrewLove777 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Doctor, I’m negative 99.9% of the time. I am a product of my life. There is no peace for me, never will be. My life is effectively over, I now just doing time. I look forward to my death.

    • @jeromephilip21
      @jeromephilip21 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @DrewLove777 Please don't be hard on yourself man, if you are watching this! You are much more precious than you can ever think. Please don't be in the stigma of self-criticism. Come out of it and experience the real life. The good life. Be kind to yourself, mate.

    • @revelation7262
      @revelation7262 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I will say a rosary for you. 📿 Peace be with you. I finally found peace, after many years, when I surrendered my life to Jesus. I pray you can also find peace.
      ❤☮️✝️♎️❤

    • @unknowndefaultguest
      @unknowndefaultguest 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@revelation7262 Fuckin' god-hawkers, using society's most vulnerable as a marketing angle. I despise you people.

    • @cadesertsky
      @cadesertsky 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Please call a biblle based church (♦️Refuge Calvary Chapel in HB, CA) and let them explain how God is love,
      Jesus is real and that Holy Spirit is who you need counsel and guide into the light of His (our creator) LOVE! Satan has you roght where he wants you - he only knows to kill-steal & destroy! Look aeound killing babies,
      open boarders, lawlessness, division, dedtroying America .... come into the Right
      Light✝️ In prayer for all the lost and hurting🙏🏽

  • @gavinaustin3722
    @gavinaustin3722 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That didn’t match the description

  • @natedoherty3462
    @natedoherty3462 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    What he's saying is. Its perfect to be upset about life.

  • @junevandermark952
    @junevandermark952 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wouldn't it take an introvert to be able to understand what it is to BE an introvert?
    I'm an extrovert, so there isn't any way I could fully understand the experience of an introvert ... no matter how much psychology I took "in class."

    • @dimitar6518
      @dimitar6518 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Noo no no no and NO.. You don't wanna know what it is.... trust believe and receive 🙏 You absolutely don't want to know what a curse that is.
      I am severely struggling with being ultra introvert to the point I am 25 living with my parents having no plans for the future having part time job, and absolutely feel awkward and hate communicating with others let alone being team player and I like staying home all the time if possible, grew up also in domestic violence that story is horrible... So yeah and the list goes on, my story is a hot mess I don't want to begin, I've been like this my whole life, to the point now I am fully grown failed adult. And looking for help, trying to help myself step by step, it is extremely hard journey.
      Stay extrovert be happy that's all I know❤❤❤.

    • @junevandermark952
      @junevandermark952 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dimitar6518 I will take your word for it that I wouldn't want to be an introvert ... but assessment works both ways.
      You should never think that the life of being an extrovert is without major challenges ... because being an extrovert didn't help me avoid having my share of problems ... many caused by my own selfish choices.
      Because of the fact that we are emotional, self-oriented animals ... we are bound to struggle with emotional and physical challenges for as long as we live.
      Being an Atheist, I believe that I'm fortunate, because I believe that this life is all I have, and when I die, that will be the end of my emotional and physical suffering.
      People in religions are "bound" to be concerned about that theological teaching of having to suffer for eternity if one is a disappointment to the "creator."
      I'm thankful at age 70 that I was able to leave all that religious confusion behind. I'm 84 now, and conclude that if I am as kind to others as each situation allows, I can't do better than my best.
      And now that hundreds of members of clergy are leaving religion behind ... there is hope for everyone.
      From the book ... Apostle to Apostate: The Story of the Clergy Project … authors … Catherine Dunphy, Richard Dawkins
      When you are reared to think of your faith and its leaders as infallible, dissent can be an unsettling thing. This is particularly true for clergy, who have devoted their lives to the subject of faith. I therefore especially hope that this story reaches those clergy who have yet to articulate their doubts.
      As they struggle through this process, I am thankful that they can look to the Clergy Project as an example of community and humanism as an example of good. As former clergy who have left churches of every denomination, synagogues, mosques, convents, monasteries, and theological institutions, we stand as examples of the reasonableness of doubt and its thoughtful conclusions. I cannot help but think that we offer a compelling voice for why science and secularism do a better job than religion and superstition of answering the so-called ultimate questions.

    • @agentorange153
      @agentorange153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dimitar6518 I'm an introvert (a highly intelligent ASPIE introvert, at that) and I wouldn't have it any other way -- I, too, like staying at home all the time and hanging out all alone, and I hate any kind of group projects, but I do have plans for the future and I'm actively working on them, and I'm also in the STEM field, which I probably wouldn't have become successful in had I been more extroverted! So for me, introversion is a blessing, not a curse!

  • @kngjkj8236
    @kngjkj8236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks for the information 👋

  • @papi5377
    @papi5377 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Swoje problemy rozwiązywałam sama -
    Rozkładałam je na części pierwsze.
    Nie zawsze byllo słodko fajnie ciekawie.
    Wpadałam na pomysł przeszłości związane moim dorastaniem rozrastaniem lobuziatrstwem.
    Niejednokrotnie zastanawiałam dokąd mogę się jeszcze posunąć włażąc np.
    Na 3 piętro starej kamienicy chodząc po poręczy balkonu bez żadnych zabezpieczeń -
    Albo na kilkumetrowe drzewo ..m😊

    • @aakankinskywalker384
      @aakankinskywalker384 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      english "I solved my problems myself - I broke them down into parts. It wasn't always sweet and interesting. I came up with an idea about the past related to my growing up, growing up, and philandering. I often wondered how far I could go by climbing, for example, to the 3rd floor of an old tenement house by walking on the balcony railing without any protection - Or to a tree several meters high..."

  • @earlymorningtwilight9119
    @earlymorningtwilight9119 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you!

  • @christopherv9427
    @christopherv9427 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can't even tell it was a horse anymore.

  • @brendawilkinson2898
    @brendawilkinson2898 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Help me

  • @junevandermark952
    @junevandermark952 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    From the book … 50 Psychology Classics Second Edition: Your shortcut to the most important ideas on the mind, personality, and human nature … author … Tom Butler-Bowden Published May 30, 2017
    Since Jung’s time, psychologists have come up with various axes and quadrants to flesh out the basic extrovert/introvert distinction, but few realized how important it was, to so many until Susan Cain’s Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talkin started selling in large numbers (2 million copies to date). Seven years in the making, it was for Cain (a self-confessed introvert) more of a mission than a book. True to introvert form, it is superbly written and well-supported research.

    • @agentorange153
      @agentorange153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Actually, I think it was Galen who first made the distinction between extroverts and introverts (and also between neurotic people and those with low neuroticism level), but he used completely different terminology, and his explanation for what causes it was WAY off (something about having more blood or more bile in your body, AFAIR)!

    • @junevandermark952
      @junevandermark952 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@agentorange153 Those old-time psychoanalysts had some weird ideas about what makes us tick. And the modern psychoanalysts are still just guessing ... as did the old-timers.
      Example:
      Which psychologist’s words do you respect ... the judge-mental anti-transgender words of the psychologist Jordan Peterson … or the transgender friendly words of the psychologist Phil McGraw?
      And by the way … these disagreeing psychologists are Christians … who no-doubt both believe that Jesus agrees with them.
      Jordan’s nasty judge-mental words ... “Gender identity and gender expression are not valid ideas. They are not true. There is no evidence for it. I don’t know what the options are, if you don’t identify as a man or a woman. There is an idea that there’s a gender section. I think that is an ill-informed opinion. Gender identity and sexual orientation are the same thing. I don’t believe these people, these terms, stand for good things. I think these people use these terms as a pretense that they stand for good things; as a pretense for them to carry on their nefarious activities.”
      Phil McGraw's transgender friendly words. "Cleveland Clinic did a study on transgender brains, and when they did the study, they found that the brains of transgender people, their brain is actually more similar to the gender they identify with, than the gender they were assigned at birth. There is an actual brain difference. That is a neurological fact. There are fifty years of empirical evidence here. And there are distinct differences in the transgender brain versus the non-transgender brain.”

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No it’s mainly INFJ 😢

  • @citizen9790
    @citizen9790 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is there a link to the full lecture?

    • @rasinshuriken
      @rasinshuriken 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did u ever found it?

  • @benhulme2863
    @benhulme2863 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Party like it’s 1999 I say.

  • @timstill152
    @timstill152 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Something isn't going properly. Some people know that about themselves. Or do they? There's no way to get better. Why should you want to get better? Quazite permanent negative emotion? What about those of us who suffer that don't have whatever that is? QPNE? Maybe you simply assume that your job is to tell other people what they're here to do, so that they can get...better. Whatever that is. I think that's a really bad idea, to assume you have that knowlegde and understanding of other people to tell them. "Follow me, and I will help you" Oh thank you ...kind sir. I think you are the problem sir.

    • @IgnoreMeImWrong
      @IgnoreMeImWrong ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe you should look up the words you use and realize what observation means.

    • @AntoanetaStancu
      @AntoanetaStancu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@IgnoreMeImWrongyes, but he's got a point. No one is that good/evolved as to know someone's psyche that well.. only perhaps using IT. But then it's not the same thing. The thing is there's no absolute(=best) doctor, teacher or whatever.. The absolute One is only God.

    • @IgnoreMeImWrong
      @IgnoreMeImWrong ปีที่แล้ว +1

      With all due respect, @@AntoanetaStancu

    • @AntoanetaStancu
      @AntoanetaStancu ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IgnoreMeImWrong Same here.