Thank you for this👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Highlighting shame is a reminder of how so many grapple with the mental anguish of shame and take on maladaptive behaviors as a result. This often diminishes one from living their truth out loud and expressing their full potential. This hit home and hard. To say I am proud of you is an understatement. The world needs this medicine. Releasing shame deeply rooted in trauma which shows up in how we show up in the world due to stigma, judgment and both personal and societal insecurities is death to the spirit. This is a rally call for healing and I deeply accept and commit to releasing shame which hinders my greatness. Love you dearly and deeply Nselaa! You are a jewel to the world and your words are a gift to the soul🙌🏾🦋👏🏾👑
I am exceptionally proud of you my sister. What a magnificent delivery of your unique expression of truth and love. You have completely MADE my day and again I AM so proud of you and more importantly, I am so thankful, grateful and honored to call you MY SISTER. Wishing you continued peace, love, happiness and radiant health.❤️😊👏🏾
It's amazing how vulnerable you allow yourself to be. I get it while I'm not the biggest fan of prostitution or anything related to it, I can see your plight and how you overcame so much and this is a part of your story. It's really very impactful and challenging to people like me who abore the topic and now have to remove the rose color from our glasses to dig deeper and look at this from your perspective. This is her journey and look what fire it out for her. Also, the terrible child trafficking story the alienation... So much to unpack but the triumph is massive. That is a lot to go through as a woman and THEN have to raise your own children. You are truly amazing. More over you are truly going to help so many people with this story.
I'm so convicted. Yes, stop hiding and do what I really need and want to do. We need to talk. You are amazing. Your attorney skills really show through as well. That experience helped you to be such a phenomenal speaker. You know how to engage and capture the attention of an audience. I love it! You're amazing, sweetheart!❤❤❤😢🎉:
This has to be the BEST TED TALK I have ever heard. Neselaa speaks so well. I was moved and entertained. I would love to see her back. I have watched this over and over. It touched me and made me think about my own life. WOW....when is the next one?
This is the most honest and transparent TEDx Talk I have listened to. Thanks so much for sharing your truth so that we all can look into the Faustian Bargains we have succumbed to in times of desperation. God bless you. -Bruce George, Founder of the Genius is Common Movement, Co-Founder of Def Poetry Jam on HBO.
I was captivated during the entire Ted talk. The beginning grabbed my attention, the grip wasn’t loosened until completion. I’ve never been totally taken for words awaiting the next paragraph, sentence…word. The content was spoken in a manner as if I were there following every action.
To be honest…the moment you opened your mouth and spoke I felt tears begin to immediately trickle down my cheeks. I am so deeply moved and stirred by your words, your voice and your story. Powerful and empowering are only two aspects of what is being done here. I am utterly honored and stand amazed at your delivery, your words and your confidence. I am, also, truly and tremendously blessed by your releasing and sharing. Thank you, sister, for sharing…for standing…for speaking. My prayer is that many will find healing and come across this Ted Talk in their journey. I know I have. God bless you.
First, let's get into the stunning outfit choice! YES! Such an important topic to speak on. At about 5:38 into video is where I see Nselaa stand up. Your voice still resonates poetry and poeticism in it's tones. Memorable!
This is the… Most inspiring and interesting TedTalk I have ever heard. WOW! I could hear my gears changing directions in my head. Give thanks and Ase’ for such a powerful teacher and teaching!
The deep message in here will wake a pastor up. My pastor friend loves this, and it opened up his scope of how much you have to deal with and use your past to move forward 👏.
What a great speech I just heard, this should motivate us to continue fighting day by day and overcome the obstacles that come our way no matter what size it is, always trust in God that better things will come for each one of us, without a doubt women are warriors and listening to this person fills my heart with being able to trust myself and achieve my goals.
This was amazing to listen to. I felt right there in the moments you shared and am able to relate in my own way. Long term shame carries much weight and we don’t even realize it’s on us at times until we are faced with it and smack down by its gravity. I love you live in your truth and made the most of you experiences. There is a blessing in every lesson. And your blessing will not now be someone’s blessing. Thank you for sharing.
I was profoundly moved by the powerful message conveyed in this Ted Talk; it ranks among the best I've ever experienced. The speaker's story resonated deeply with me, leaving me eager to hear more. Their ability to captivate and inspire through storytelling is truly remarkable.
You have done incredible work on yourself and, with this talk, you have held space for other people to begin or feel sustained on their own healing journey. This was amazing, and you looked beautiful. Thank you for speaking on shame and healing. I recognize everything it must have taken to get to this point ♥♥♥♥♥
I am rewatching this because listening to your testimony is inspiring. Thank you for this. Over the weekend I continuously thought about your incredible journey and now understand you bettter. Insight into oneself is essential. I congratulate your courage.
Wow, this video is absolutely fantastic! The content is engaging, the production quality is top-notch, and the presenter’s delivery is captivating. Thumbs up all the way!
Thank you for this👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Highlighting shame is a reminder of how so many grapple with the mental anguish of shame and take on maladaptive behaviors as a result. This often diminishes one from living their truth out loud and expressing their full potential. This hit home and hard. To say I am proud of you is an understatement. The world needs this medicine. Releasing shame deeply rooted in trauma which shows up in how we show up in the world due to stigma, judgment and both personal and societal insecurities is death to the spirit. This is a rally call for healing and I deeply accept and commit to releasing shame which hinders my greatness. Love you dearly and deeply Nselaa! You are a jewel to the world and your words are a gift to the soul🙌🏾🦋👏🏾👑
Oh my goodness! I love the rally call!!! Yes!!! May we all commit to releasing shame!!!❤❤❤
I am exceptionally proud of you my sister. What a magnificent delivery of your unique expression of truth and love. You have completely MADE my day and again I AM so proud of you and more importantly, I am so thankful, grateful and honored to call you MY SISTER. Wishing you continued peace, love, happiness and radiant health.❤️😊👏🏾
Thank you dear brother!!!! I receive it!!! I It makes me smile to know you are watching me from across the world ❤❤❤
It's amazing how vulnerable you allow yourself to be. I get it while I'm not the biggest fan of prostitution or anything related to it, I can see your plight and how you overcame so much and this is a part of your story. It's really very impactful and challenging to people like me who abore the topic and now have to remove the rose color from our glasses to dig deeper and look at this from your perspective.
This is her journey and look what fire it out for her. Also, the terrible child trafficking story the alienation... So much to unpack but the triumph is massive. That is a lot to go through as a woman and THEN have to raise your own children.
You are truly amazing. More over you are truly going to help so many people with this story.
I love that fact that we can embrace both sides of the conversation and still come together ❤❤❤
Thanks for showing us how to face our fears and jump in front of it all!
Thank you! This is definitely the task I’ve been assigned
I LOVE your TED Talk! It was very empowering and freeing no matter what the blueprint of your life looks like. I thank you.
I'm so convicted. Yes, stop hiding and do what I really need and want to do. We need to talk. You are amazing. Your attorney skills really show through as well. That experience helped you to be such a phenomenal speaker. You know how to engage and capture the attention of an audience. I love it! You're amazing, sweetheart!❤❤❤😢🎉:
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This has to be the BEST TED TALK I have ever heard. Neselaa speaks so well. I was moved and entertained. I would love to see her back. I have watched this over and over. It touched me and made me think about my own life. WOW....when is the next one?
Thank you for kindness! It definitely is taking me months of recouping from this amazing experience before taking on the next one.
This is the most honest and transparent TEDx Talk I have listened to. Thanks so much for sharing your truth so that we all can look into the Faustian Bargains we have succumbed to in times of desperation. God bless you. -Bruce George, Founder of the Genius is Common Movement, Co-Founder of Def Poetry Jam on HBO.
This is a big honor coming from the one and only Bruce George! Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I was captivated during the entire Ted talk. The beginning grabbed my attention, the grip wasn’t loosened until completion. I’ve never been totally taken for words awaiting the next paragraph, sentence…word. The content was spoken in a manner as if I were there following every action.
Thank you 🙏🏽 . It brings me joy that it was impactful for you
Thank you for this beautiful message!! Staying true to yourself is key to shadow work and healing through trauma!!! Such a POWERFUL talk!!! 🙏🏽 ✨✨
That shadow is something!!!!❤❤❤ thank you
YES SISTER. I always love listening to you speak. Took me to school AND to church. Bless up sistren. ❤🫶🏽🙏🏽✊🏽❤
❤❤❤ I love that!!! To school and to church!!!!
To be honest…the moment you opened your mouth and spoke I felt tears begin to immediately trickle down my cheeks. I am so deeply moved and stirred by your words, your voice and your story. Powerful and empowering are only two aspects of what is being done here. I am utterly honored and stand amazed at your delivery, your words and your confidence. I am, also, truly and tremendously blessed by your releasing and sharing. Thank you, sister, for sharing…for standing…for speaking. My prayer is that many will find healing and come across this Ted Talk in their journey. I know I have. God bless you.
Thank you dear sister! I receive your powerful message with gratitude 🙏🏽
This shows how strong you are and it’s an example of how strong us as people can be, a situation getting harder doesn’t mean it can’t be conquered.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 thank you dear brother
First, let's get into the stunning outfit choice! YES! Such an important topic to speak on. At about 5:38 into video is where I see Nselaa stand up. Your voice still resonates poetry and poeticism in it's tones. Memorable!
Not the poet coming out!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This is the…
Most inspiring and interesting TedTalk I have ever heard. WOW! I could hear my gears changing directions in my head. Give thanks and Ase’ for such a powerful teacher and teaching!
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 thank you
The deep message in here will wake a pastor up. My pastor friend loves this, and it opened up his scope of how much you have to deal with and use your past to move forward 👏.
Waking up the pastors!!!! ❤❤❤ I love that!
That was powerful. It was the way she said it. I love people who can narrate their own stories of overcoming. Well done.
So much gratitude 🙏🏽 Thank you ❤
I really love this. As someone who has struggled with shame and guilt, this speech really spoke to me personally.
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What a great speech I just heard, this should motivate us to continue fighting day by day and overcome the obstacles that come our way no matter what size it is, always trust in God that better things will come for each one of us, without a doubt women are warriors and listening to this person fills my heart with being able to trust myself and achieve my goals.
Thank you for this 🙏🏽
This was amazing to listen to. I felt right there in the moments you shared and am able to relate in my own way. Long term shame carries much weight and we don’t even realize it’s on us at times until we are faced with it and smack down by its gravity. I love you live in your truth and made the most of you experiences. There is a blessing in every lesson. And your blessing will not now be someone’s blessing. Thank you for sharing.
I receive this message. Thank you
I was profoundly moved by the powerful message conveyed in this Ted Talk; it ranks among the best I've ever experienced. The speaker's story resonated deeply with me, leaving me eager to hear more. Their ability to captivate and inspire through storytelling is truly remarkable.
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This is phenomenal!! I am still working through areas of shame. Thank You for sharing your journey and encouraging us to start our own.
Thank you! We are definitely all still working on our own areas of shame!
WOW! What and amazing testimony and this great story of overcoming real life obstacles. You are so eloquent and dynamic ❤❤❤❤
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Truly amazing! Very well spoken. The amount of motivation you just gave the world 🤝❤️❤️❤️
Thank you ❤ I Definitely want to motivate the world past their toxic shame ❤❤❤
Wonderful speech spoken with true honesty loved it ❤
I promise you, this was one of the hardest honest moments in my life. 🙏🏽
BRILLIANT eye opener Nselaa. You are an inspiration and I am gonna borrow from the courage of this talk, lovely! So powerful.
Grateful for your energy 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thanks for sharing this powerful story. You are such a great speaker. Hope this encourages others.
Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing you. This is impactful, powerful, and beautiful!
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You have done incredible work on yourself and, with this talk, you have held space for other people to begin or feel sustained on their own healing journey. This was amazing, and you looked beautiful. Thank you for speaking on shame and healing. I recognize everything it must have taken to get to this point ♥♥♥♥♥
You are absolutely right!!! It took years to get here. ❤❤❤
I am rewatching this because listening to your testimony is inspiring. Thank you for this. Over the weekend I continuously thought about your incredible journey and now understand you bettter. Insight into oneself is essential. I congratulate your courage.
Thank you for this 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
It was truly amazing! I loved every moment. Thank you for sharing!
You are very welcome 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
That was amazing !!!! Thank you for sharing your story and your journey ❤❤
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Great talk!!! I am moved, touched, and inspired.
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Awesome message!
Thank you ❤
So powerful! This really hit home for me. - A thousand 'thank yous'! ❤ 😊
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Absolutely amazing!!
Thank you 🙏🏽
Amen sister I wish to love and share my shadow with the world. I return all my power within my heart with my story and truth!
The world is waiting to receive your shadow ❤❤❤
Beautiful! A message that need to be shared to all people.
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I learned so much, and I love the passion. It’s so important to know what fulfills us. Thank you.
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Wow, this video is absolutely fantastic! The content is engaging, the production quality is top-notch, and the presenter’s delivery is captivating. Thumbs up all the way!
Thank you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Wow this reminds me of my self ❤very powerful speech I love it thank you so much NSelaa
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Amazing well done my friend, my sister love it
Thank you so much sis!!! Georgia NOW in the house!
Wow …… I am speechless
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Beautiful I love this 🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰🥰
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WOW! WOW! WOW!!!
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That’s my mom
Dope I like it
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Good jop
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Very well said I feel and encourage every woman out there to share there story and own there truth!
Yes!!! This is the age of sharing past our shames!!!