Think You’re in Love? You’re Probably Just Insecure

What is Love? How to find true Love? What does real Love look like? Many of us find ourselves asking ourselves these questions at one point or another. We wonder if the partner in our relationship actually love us or if we know what love is supposed to look like. In todays video i wanted to explain why your perception of love might actually be flawed or confused with something that is actually infatuation or "lowercase love".
Chapters
00:00 Intro
01:06 Mother! Synopsis
03:05 Real Love
04:28 You're Not in Love
05:00 What is Love?
05:33 Infatuation
07:26 Relationship Infatuation
08:01 Lowercase Love
10:11 Unconditional Love
10:23 True Love
11:30 Forgiveness
12:15 Relationship Insecurity
13:16 How to know if its Real Love
14:10 Selfless Love
14:23 The Miracle of Love
15:28 Understanding Love is important
16:09 Outro
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[@sentheinfo9377]

that intro literally gave me the jumbscare of my life like WDYMMMM u put a quote about ghosts and I'm envisioning that then I get jumbscared by Jennifer that is SCARYEEE😭😭😭

[@Sagethis]

😂😂😂

[@eduardoalonso6151]

In BL of Asían series world the values of true LOVE are more clever than west

[@eduardoalonso6151]

One of the foundational series was
" Theory of Love" ...
Try the trailer, if you want

[@papermr.magolorguy7957]

I think true love is more common than you think.

[@berserkagain7976]

What if the true love is one sided? Would it be cosidered infatuation still? Like your willing to give your all to this person but they would never do the same.

[@alexscott1257]

That was beautiful man, thank you ❤

[@yournightmare7197]

Dude I absolutely love your perception of love and I have so many questions to ask you

[@lkf8799]

I was going to ask who did the art in the background. Really nice. Love blue and gold together 💛💙

[@jonathanvolle]

Thank you, chief!

[@MetalRocksMe.]

Very thought provoking

[@edvinlind6041]

hi wow i love ur videos. do u have any book recommendations on this topic?

[@areyouacoporwhat]

I think there are a lot of different kinds of love, not only from or to a partner. And I'm wondering now, what happens to those who havent had the example of a love's mother? They can't build "real love" in the future?

[@Sagethis]

I do not think you *need* to have an example of love to then *know* how to express it. I think love is instinctive & comes naturally when you meet the right one no matter if you’ve ever personally seen it or not

[@shaaaairuuu]

I would just like to mention that I don't believe emperor Shah Jahan ever loved his wife Mumtaz Mahal. She was the wife of a general that Shah Jahan killed to marry her (that was a time when killing was the solution if you wanted someone's power, property, wife etc). Mumtaz died giving birth to their 14th child and he married her sister after she died. I'm convinced that he just did it because he can.
I always say this to myself any anyone else who is having difficulty in relationships: love is unconditional but relationships are very very conditional.

[@Sagethis]

This is a really good point. I was honestly conflicted to use that example bc of historical context but I guess the specific “gesture” of building the Taj in her memory is more of an act of true love vs the actual relationship like you said. Just goes to show again how rare “true love” is

[@shaaaairuuu]

@@Sagethis I find that Taj Mahalo is actually the perfect example of how a man could spend a lot of money for you just because he can afford it and it doesn't always mean anything emotionally.